Børn og nye medier - uddrag

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BØRN OG NYE MEDIER MALENE ERKMANN Gode råd og redskaber til forældre UDDRAG Bestil bogen på www.bvdk.dk

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'Børn og nye medier' - af Malene Erkmann. Må man sms’e ved middagsbordet? Er virtuelle venner rigtige venner? Hvor længe er det i orden at spille computerspil om dagen? Hvordan beskytter man sine børn mod at møde pædofile på nettet? Få svar på disse og mange andre spørgsmål i Børn og nye medier. Bogen giver gode ideer til, hvordan du tackler det digitale familieliv og taler med dine børn om deres liv i den digitale verden. Et af bogens hovedbudskaber er, at man som forældre ikke skal være så bange for de nye medier. Tværtimod har børnene brug for at tale med voksne om deres oplevelser på nettet.

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  • ,I N D H O L D INDLEDNING ................................................................................................. 7

    1. FRSKOLEALDEREN ........................................................................................ 9 Dit barns frste computer ..............................................................9 De frste programmer ....................................................................9 It-kompetencer vi skal styrke og understtte ................................12 Computerspil .................................................................................15

    2, SKOLEALDEREN ............................................................................................17 Dit barns egen computer ...............................................................17 Hvad nder dit barn p nettet? .................................................... 20 Hvem taler dit barn med p nettet? ............................................. 22 Mobiltelefonen ............................................................................. 26 It-kompetencer du kan vre med til at styrke og understtte ....31 Computerspil ................................................................................ 34 Indledning til samtale Hvilke typer spillere er I? ....................... 40

    3. TEENS ........................................................................................................ 43 Glem forbuddene og tal i stedet sammen .................................... 43 Skab dig selv og vis mig hvem du er ............................................. 45 Mdet med de andre p nettet .................................................... 47 Mobiltelefonen ..............................................................................51 Musik ............................................................................................ 53 Computerspil ................................................................................ 55

    4. FREMTIDEN OM 5 R ................................................................................... 58 Indledning til samtale Webetik, familiedysten .......................... 62

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