Interpersonal

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Ed BatistaClass 10: ENDINGS

Dynamics

Next stepsA few remarksA few more goodbyesFormal course evaluationFinal feedback in T-groups

Today’s agenda

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Final feedback

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Final feedbackSeries of 1:1 conversations, 6 minutes per roundFacilitators will note halfway & end pointsEssential to stop on time

Final feedbackDon’t just read your notesThe experience makes a differenceThis isn’t the time to drop a bombshell

Some closingremarks

FrozenUnfreezingRefreezing

Change

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The real world

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Why Our Brains Are Wired to ConnectMatthew Lieberman, UCLA

Social

Connecting (Social pain & pleasure)Mindreading (Understand others)Harmonizing (Group influence)

Social

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SCARF model

StatusCertaintyAutonomyRelatednessFairness

SCARF model

Status (Provide recognition)Certainty (Show up consistently)Autonomy (Maximize others’ agency)Relatedness (Sense bids & build connections)Fairness (Minimize defensiveness via the Net*)

SCARF model

Growth

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Pursuing experiences thatmake you uncomfortable

is the fastest way to grow.

Comfort with discomfort

Have the

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conversation…

& learn to let go

I don’t have to attendevery argument

I’m invited to.~W.C. Fields

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