X3 family session 3

X3 Rock Your Family

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X3 Rock Your FamilySession 3: Iʼm the Parent... ...dealing with toddlers

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What is the bullseye?

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• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”

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• Training

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• Training

• Discipling

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What does it look like?

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• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord”

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• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord”

• What would it look like to bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord?

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Discipline

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Discipline

• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting

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Discipline


• Youʼve got to set the boundary

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Discipline


• Youʼve got to set the boundary

• By setting the boundary you tell them who is in charge

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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family

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Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt

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• You make the rules

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• You make the rules

• You set the boundaries

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I Am The Parent

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• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it

I Am The Parent

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• When they challenge the boundary, you must enforce it

I Am The Parent

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• When they challenge the boundary, you must enforce it

• If children have no boundary, they have no security

I Am The Parent

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I Am The Parent

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• Enforced in a good, loving way

I Am The Parent

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• If you let them move the boundary, they will

I Am The Parent

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• Teaching children how to obey God

I Am The Parent

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• Teaching children how to obey God

• The fence has to be clearly defined

I Am The Parent

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I Am The Parent

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• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved

I Am The Parent

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• It is important that children experience the consequences of overstepping the boundary

I Am The Parent

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• It is important that children experience the consequences of overstepping the boundary

• Good consequences and bad consequences

I Am The Parent

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I Am The Parent

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I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger

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I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger • You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young

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I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger • You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young • If you are married, the decision must be made together

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I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger • You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young • If you are married, the decision must be made together• It has to be done in a loving way that your kids understand

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Homework

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Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries

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• How will you enforce the rules?

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• How will you enforce the rules?

• Iʼm the parent, youʼre not

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X3 family session 3

Self Improvement

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