Session II, Slide #1111 Family Planning Counseling Session II:
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X3 Rock Your Family Session 7: Five Things Every Child Longs For
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X3 Rock Your FamilySession 7: Five Things Every Child Longs For
Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family
Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) “I am the parent and you are not”
Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) “I am the parent and you are not”
• #2) Truth is caught more than taught
Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family• #1) “I am the parent and you are not”
• #2) Truth is caught more than taught
• #3) Give the blessing
Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing
Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing
Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch
Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch2. Spoken Words
Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch2. Spoken Words3. Attaching High Value
Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch2. Spoken Words3. Attaching High Value4. Predicting A Special Future
Give The Blessing• Gary Smalley, The Blessing• Five Aspects of The Blessing1. Meaningful Touch2. Spoken Words3. Attaching High Value4. Predicting A Special Future5. Commitment To A Special Future
Meaningful Touch
• Touching them
Meaningful Touch
• Touching them
• Hugging them
Meaningful Touch
• Touching them
• Hugging them
• Patting them
Meaningful Touch
• Children long for meaningful touch
Meaningful Touch
• Children long for meaningful touch
Meaningful Touch
• Appropriate touch
• Children long for meaningful touch
Meaningful Touch
• Appropriate touch
• Pure & innocent touch
• Children long for meaningful touch
Meaningful Touch
• Appropriate touch
• Pure & innocent touch
• Do it even if you donʼt feel like it
Spoken Word
Spoken Word
• Saying the words to your sons and daughters that they need to hear
Spoken Word
• Saying the words to your sons and daughters that they need to hear
• “I love you”
Spoken Word
• Saying the words to your sons and daughters that they need to hear
• “I love you”
• “I believe in you”
Spoken Word
• Saying the words to your sons and daughters that they need to hear
• “I love you”
• “I believe in you”
• “Youʼve got what it takes”
• “Youʼre the man”
Spoken Word
• “Youʼre the man”
Spoken Word
• “I cherish you”
• “Youʼre the man”
Spoken Word
• “I cherish you”
• Spoken work is powerful
• “Youʼre the man”
Spoken Word
• “I cherish you”
• Spoken work is powerful
• Not just convey what theyʼre good at but to convey how you feel about them
Attaching High Value
• Valuing them for who they are and not what they do
Attaching High Value
• Valuing them for who they are and not what they do
• Making sure they feel valued
Attaching High Value
Predicting A Special Future
• Looking at how theyʼre wired and predict how God might use them some day
Predicting A Special Future
Commitment To ASpecial Future
Commitment To ASpecial Future
• Help the special future become a reality
Commitment To ASpecial Future
• Help the special future become a reality
• Commandment #3) Give the Blessing
Homework
Homework
• Write the names of your children
Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?
Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?• What words describe them?
Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?• What words describe them? • How can you bless them?
Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?• What words describe them? • How can you bless them? • What will their future look like?
Homework
• Write the names of your children• How are they wired?• What words describe them? • How can you bless them? • What will their future look like?• Create a plan to help them
