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Yom HaShoa - Holocaust Memorial Day Wednesday, May 1, 6:30 p.m. Sharon Quirk-Silva & Gil Cisneros Lunch & Learn Saturday, May 4, 12:00 p.m. From Memory to Independence-"Zikaron L'atzma-ut” Wednesday, May 8, 5:30 p.m. “Lolapalooza”-Celebrating Miriam’s Retirement Saturday, June 1, 12:00 p.m. Rabbi Asa Memorial Lecture-Uri Regev, Guest Speaker Sunday, June 2, 7:00 p.m. Shavuot Celebration & Quiche/Cheesecake/Blintze Cookoff Saturday, June 8, time TBA See flyers in this issue of the Scroll for details Watch your “Tuesday Tidbits” email for additional information/updates May 2019 Nisan-Iyar 5779 Visit our website: www.tbtoc.org Important Upcoming Events TBT

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Yom HaShoa - Holocaust Memorial Day Wednesday, May 1, 6:30 p.m.

Sharon Quirk-Silva & Gil Cisneros Lunch & Learn Saturday, May 4, 12:00 p.m.

From Memory to Independence-"Zikaron L'atzma-ut” Wednesday, May 8, 5:30 p.m.

“Lolapalooza”-Celebrating Miriam’s Retirement Saturday, June 1, 12:00 p.m.

Rabbi Asa Memorial Lecture-Uri Regev, Guest Speaker Sunday, June 2, 7:00 p.m.

Shavuot Celebration & Quiche/Cheesecake/Blintze Cookoff Saturday, June 8, time TBA

See flyers in this issue of the Scroll for details Watch your “Tuesday Tidbits” email for additional information/updates

May 2019

Nisan-Iyar 5779

Visit our website: www.tbtoc.org

Important Upcoming Events

TBT

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Message from Rabbi Nico …

Think about it! The Torah was delivered on Mount Sinai at the time in the midst of our walking in the desert. This means that if you compare it with milk or with the “food for our souls” as our Sages z”l did, this delivery would be closer to the idea of “take out” rather than sitting in your place or even in a restaurant…

On Shavuot we celebrate the giving of Torah to us. We are so happy with this gift; therefore, it is natural that we ask ourselves - how do we need to keep it!?

Every day while reciting the Shema we say: … These words, which I am ordering you today, are to be on your heart; and you are to teach them carefully to your children. You are to talk about them when you sit at home, when you are traveling on the road”… (Deuteronomy 6:6-7)

Once I heard Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach (on a video) referring to this verse and remarking that there are two different Torahs; one of when you sit at home and another of when you are traveling on the road! I have no doubt that the one which was given to us on Sinai when we were walking on the road is a Torah for walkers. From that perspective it is not a surprise that the Jewish law is called Halacha, a word which derives from the Hebrew word Halicha, walking! So how do we keep the Torah, symbol of our millenary, memory, conversation, search … How!?

Many of our fellow Jews, if we stay with the metaphor of Torah as food, keep their Torah in a kind of a cultural “freezer,” taking it out when needed. But I believe the contrary. We need to try to receive Torah as a life legacy, warm and dynamic in accordance with the way it was given to us. In receiving Torah we confirm our commitment with the search of deepness and meaning in life. Thus we say: “She is a tree of life to those who hold her fast and blessed are those who look for her”. (Proverbs 3:18)

TBT PASSOVER 2019

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PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE by Lauren Simon, TBT President

I can’t believe it is already May!! Where has this year gone? I hope you had a good Pesach filled with family, friends and lotsa matzah! At the end of this month, I will have completed my first year as President of TBT. So with that in mind, I spent some time reflecting on my first year and what it meant to me. I went into this position with the intention of pushing an attitude of engagement. I started off asking you to come join me. Over this past year, I believe I have seen an increase in engagement. We had a group of teens go to Washington DC for a social justice weekend and we have an even larger group going to Israel in June! That is engagement! We have had great turn outs at all of our events and there are more and more new faces stepping up to help in our community. I believe this last year has been a great success. With that being said, I think there is still more work to do. Miriam is retiring at the end of the month and there is no way we could ever replace her. She is truly irreplaceable. But much of the work she does still needs to be done. I would love to see our congregants step up and help with some engagement. Miriam has always had a miraculous way of knowing what is going on with every member at any given moment. If you know someone who needs a little extra love, let us know. Or better yet, reach out to them. Let’s end this year with love in our hearts and excitement for what’s to come. And Miriam, as you finish up your last month with us, I know it isn’t really the end. So I will try hard not be sad. I am so excited for you and your next stage of life. You have been such a significant part of so many of our lives! You will be such an amazing Rabbi. I can’t wait to see all the things you will do. Love you so much!! ~Lauren

Jared Cohen & Shanna Foley

Children: Julian (December 13, 2015)

Sophie (October 1, 2018)

Jonathan & Amanda Silverman Child: Amelia (March 20, 2018)

Ruthie Honey Children: Christopher (May 6, 1993),

Naomi (May 11, 2007), Adrian (November 22, 2009),

James (November 1, 2015),

Marvin Reid

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YOM HASHOAH –

HOLOCAUST MEMORIAL

DAY OBSERVANCE

Join us on Wednesday, May 1 at 6:30 p.m. for

our annual Commemoration.

Rabbi Nico and our musical team

will lead us in moving readings and music

to mark the day.

This year’s observance will be in the form

of a seder (no food though).

This is a unique way of finding meaning in

light of this dark period of our history.

Bring your Men’s Club Yom Hashoa candle

To be lit during the observance.

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ECLC PASSOVER RECAP On Friday, April 19th the children of ECLC prepared charoset and matzo balls for their very own Passover lunch!

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From Memory to Independence - "Zikaron L'atzma-ut" Wednesday, May 8, 5:30 p.m. at TBT

We mark Israel's Memorial Day followed by a short "havdalah" (separation) ceremony. Then it's time to C*E*L*E*B*R*A*T*E !!! We will have plentiful Israeli food for dinner. This year's celebration will include a DANCE FESTIVAL, featuring dances by our youth as well as adults. ECLC preschoolers, Chavaya students, and teens are all learning dances for our festival. There is a special "flash mob" dance for our adults ... we want YOU to join us! For a demonstration of the dance and to learn the steps, check your TBT Tuesday Tidbits for the automatic link.

Please wear A WHITE SHIRT & BLUE JEANS/PANTS showing your pride in Israel's colors!

Yael Steinfeld, professional folk dance instructor, will be with us to lead dancing throughout the evening. Appreciated Contribution $18/family Become an Event Sponsor for $180 Become a Gold Sponsor for $710 in honor of 71 years of the State of Israel.RSVP no later than May 4 by contacting the TBT office.

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EVENT INFO

CONTACT

Sunday, May 5, 20192 - 4 p.m.

Temple Beth Tikvah1600 N Acacia Avenue

Fullerton

Join JFFS and PJ Our Way kid leader Kyra B. for a fun-filled LEGO-themed event!

Kids 8 ½ to 12 and their parents are invited to work together through LEGO challenges, design and construct a LEGO community, enjoy a building-themed “snacktivity,” and

meet new friends!

Please bring any gently used LEGO bricks that you no longer need to the event, we’ll use them for the activity. Afterwards, we’ll be donating the LEGO bricks to charity. Parents, please

plan to stay for the event.

(No younger siblings, please.)

This is a free event.

Register atJewishOC.org/LegoEvent

PJ Our WayBuilding Community With LEGO®

Jillian KatzJFFS PJ Library OC Manager

[email protected]

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Saturday, June 1, 2019, 12:00 p.m. … a family event …

Miriam is a kid at heart, so bring your kids & grandkids (or just come!)

Come for services at 10:00 a.m. and stay for an afternoon of friendship & love as Miriam starts her new life chapter

BBQ Menu provided by CATERING BY GREG

Hot Dogs * Hamburgers Chicken & all the sides

Italian Ice Truck Cotton Candy * Popcorn

Get Ready for the Fun Bounce House Face Painting Photo Booth Balloon Art

Music … and more!

Adults $15 … Kids $5 (under 13)

Sponsorships available by contacting the TBT office or Netty

([email protected] or [email protected])

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Last month was our annual Texas Hold ‘em tournament. As in the past it was a lot of fun. Good food with good friends and

of course good poker. Congratulations go to Mitch Shapiro who won 1st place. Ben Eilenberg won 2nd place and

Meighan Rogers took 3rd place. Since Men’s Club always strives to make events bigger and better, next year we will be

holding a class for beginners on how to play poker so we can get even more people involved.

I’d like to thank everyone who participated in our last Men’s Club Shabbat services. Not only was it a lot of fun but we

learned there are different ways to say and do different prayers. A big shout out goes to our ‘Man of the Year’ Stan Pesner

for his talk from the heart about some of the real problems Jews are facing around the world.

We had our annual Angel baseball game on April 30th. The tickets sold quickly by popular demand.

This month we’ll have TBT’s own Dr. David Chapman giving a talk with a slide show about men’s gastrointestinal health.

Bring your questions. Btw-if you think you’re too young for this, consider this as a peak into your future (pun intended).

As always dinner is included with paid up membership.

We are asking for a show of interest for 2 events.

1. A trip to NYC next year, most likely in May. We’re thinking of museums, tours of the city, a trip to Yankee stadium, freedom tower, Shabbat services etc.

2. Going to another baseball game. Since the April baseball game tickets sold so quickly we are thinking of going to another game.

TBT Men’s Club is looking for a few good men. We have possible openings in Membership and Programming. Please call

me at 562-965-8287 if you’re interested in the NYC trip or serving on the MC Board. I can also be reached at

[email protected]. And as always I’m interested in hearing ideas and/or constructive criticism of your Men’s Club.

Jay Weinschenker

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Learn from our Legislators!

Sharon Quirk-Silva Gil Cisneros

“HOW YOUR GOVERNMENT WORKS FOR YOU” Lunch & Learn

May 4, 2019, 12:00 P.M.

emple Beth Tikvah’s Social Justice Committee is honored to welcome

two special guests, California Assemblywoman Sharon Quirk-Silva

and US Congressional Representative Gil Cisneros to a Shabbat

Lunch and Learn.

Join us for Shabbat services at 10:00 a.m. Lunch and Learn will begin at noon.

$15 for lunch payable to TBT. Reservations by May 1 (714) 871-3535 or [email protected]

No charge for TBT Platinum members. Become an event sponsor for $180 by contacting the TBT

office.

Hear updates from Assemblywoman Quirk-Silva on critical State issues and from

Representative Cisneros on federal issues. Bring your questions.

T

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CHEF RABBI NICO!?!? By Beverly & Gary Steinberg

Did you know that Rabbi Nico cooks? We can now call him “Chef” Rabbi Nico! One of the silent auction gifts from Miriam's gala was a dinner cooked by the Rabbi and we won it! It was a delicious dinner that our friends are still talking about. But more than the food was the great conversation and laughs. Truly a memorable night. Rabbi Nico presented a very ambitious menu!

Orange Soup (sweet potato and goat yogurt) Green Pomegranate Salad, Cucumber Dill Salad, Israeli/Greek Salad, Twisted Figs, Grilled Fennel,

Shakshuka, Home-Made Hummus, Israeli Couscous, Princess of the Nile - Middle eastern Fusion Ceviche,

Mahi Mahi Fish Kebab, Surprising Tahini Mousse, Dessert.

ANNOUNCEMENT OF NEWLY

ESTABLISHED TBT FUND

Miriam Van Raalte Scholarship Fund

At TBT’s Gala on February 23, TBT Treasurer Henry

Cohen shared the following:

"Tonight, with this Gala, we honor Miriam's years of

nurturing and dedication. But we also want her to know

that we care about her future. We know that as a lifelong

teacher, she is also a dedicated learner. Miriam tells us

that she has always dreamed of the day when she would

have the time and the resources to go back to school to

become a Rabbi.

Tonight I would like to announce the creation of the

Miriam Van Raalte Scholarship Fund at TBT. Its purpose

is to provide financial assistance to Miriam as she

embarks on that new journey. Pledges totaling $5,000

have already been received and we ask that you

generously contribute to this Restricted Fund so that we

can reach a goal of $15,000 for the one-year tuition."

Donations can be made to this fund through TBT's

website, or directly to TBT as you would any other

donation. Thank you for helping to make Miriam's dream

come true!

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MOVIE MAVENS

This is the only Mel Brooks’ film that he did not direct. Here is a short summary of this great hilarious movie:

“Frederick Bronski (Mel Brooks) and his adulterous wife, Anna (Anne Bancroft), are a pair of hammy actors running a low-rent theater in Warsaw, Poland. When the Nazis invade, the Bronskis find their theater becoming a makeshift refuge for local Jews and a gateway to the Polish underground. Using their limited acting skills, the members of the theater troupe attempt to deceive the Nazis and lead an escape.” Movie Mavens will screen this movie on May 26th at 2:00 in Room 105 of the Asa Center. It is only $5. You may pay at the door or call the Temple ahead of time. The admission includes snacks. Hope you come join the fun!

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A THANKFUL RECOMMENDATION TO ORANGE

COUNTY’S VERY BEST REALTOR

THANK YOU! To Orange County’s BEST REALTOR, Tom Santoro at Crane Real Estate in Fullerton. Tom is consistently rated as one of the very best realtors. As a Rabbi’s son, I can honestly say that he is both an incredible realtor and a wonderful mensch. I highly recommend him to anybody buying or selling a home, anywhere in southern California.

Please note that I paid for this ad and do not receive any compensation for it or any referrals. Once you meet Tom you will understand why my family thought of doing this mitzvah as our way of saying thank you to Tom. If you wish, please feel free to call me and ask about Tom and Crane Realty or just to schmooze.

Better yet, if like us you want the very best professional to handle and advise you on what is probably your most valuable financial asset, then reach out to Tom and the award winning Crane Real Estate team at (714) 871-8100. His impressive website is at www.cranerealestate.com. I promise you will be glad you did.

Gabriel Bergman - Managing Partner - Orange Grove Ventures - Tel: (714) 544-5400

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Save the date …

5th

Annual Rabbi Haim Asa Memorial Lecture

With guest speaker

URI REGEV

Sunday, June 2, 2019 7:00 p.m.

Uri Regev is a lawyer and rabbi of the Reform movement of Judaism in Israel, and an active civil rights and religious pluralism advocate. Currently he serves as the President and CEO of “Hiddush – For Freedom of Religion and Equality,”

a trans-denominational nonprofit organization aimed at promoting religious freedom and equality in Israel, a partnership between Israeli Jews and World Jewry, founded in 2009.

Made possible by donations to the Rabbi Haim Asa Memorial Education Fund

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TEMPLE BETH TIKVAH SISTERHOOD

at Temple Beth Tikvah 1600 N. Acacia Avenue

Fullerton, CA 92831

Wednesday, June 5, 2019 Doors open at 8:45 AM- Registration

Continental breakfast and rules will be at 9:00

GAMES START AT 9:30 SHARP! Tournament Schedule: 9:30 am – 12:30 pm (3 rounds)

12:30 pm – 1:30 pm (Lunch & Door prizes) 1:30 pm – 4:30 pm (3 rounds)

PRIZES: First Prize $100 Second Prize: $75 Third Prize: $50 Fourth Prize: $25

Donation of $45 includes continental breakfast, lunch, and entry into door prize drawing. Send your check, payable to TEMPLE BETH TIKVAH (1600 N. Acacia Avenue, Fullerton, CA 92831). Name Address Phone Number ( ) City E-Mail Address: I will bring my Mah Jongg set (yes)____ (no)___________ I will be East (East keeps score) (yes)____ (no)_____________ Note: Please register by May 7. If you are unable to attend on the day of the tournament, please arrange for a substitute.

No reservations will be taken after Thursday, May 30, 2019.

MAH JONNG

TOURNAMENT

YOUNG FAMILIES …

PLAY DATE,

BEER TASTING,

& KIDS’ ACTIVITIES

4:00 p.m.

DAIRY DINNER WITH

QUICHE, BLINTZE,

& CHEESECAKE

COMPETITION

5:00 p.m.

FAMILY-FRIENDLY

MA’ARIV (EVENING)

FESTIVAL SERVICE

& TBT BOARD

INSTALLATIONS

6:30 P.M.

TANTALIZING

ADULT STUDY

4:00 p.m.

$10/adults; $5/children under 13

(no charge if participating in competition)

Become a sponsor of this event for $180

Contact the TBT office for details

It is traditional on Shavuot to bring “offerings” …

Please bring a piece of fruit as your “offering,” which will be donated to Pathways of Hope, our community’s effort to end

homelessness and hunger

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Sisterhood Tributes The future of the Jewish community rests with our support of our youth programs, including informal education

(camp) and formal (Chavaya & Ulpan). Sisterhood tributes support these programs:

Handwritten notes ($4.00 or 10 for $36.00); Specialty notes from $6.00, $10.00, and $18.00 each Every tribute is mailed using a Breast Cancer stamp. Contributions of $36.00 will receive a Robin Taback

Memorial Music Compact Disc. Contact Lou Ann Taback (714/871-2365 or [email protected])

Make checks payable to TBT Sisterhood and mail to 1900 Camino Loma, Apt. #C-104, Fullerton CA 92833

From: Baby Boomers Havurah To: Sherri and David Chapman – Mazel Tov on the birth of your new grandson From: Lynda and David Trachtman To: Elaine Asa – Congratulations on your children’s honor Eliana & Jeffrey Marcus congratu- lations on your Honor of a Tribute Award with Young Israel Henry Cohen – Speedy Recovery from knee replacement surgery Anita Ogros – Sympathy on loss of nephew Rabbi Aharon & Barbara Levine – Sympathy on loss of brother-in-law Bob Glick From: Barbara and Art Levine To: Jay Weinschenker – Loss of cousin Greg From: Bruce Melcer To: Marv Goodman – Happy Birthday Cindy Jacobson – Happy Birthday Carol Erwin – Happy Birthday Henry Cohen – Happy Birthday Barbara Levine – Happy Birthday Cindy and Fred Jacobson – Happy Anniversary

From: Marian and Alan Fluger To: Dale Goldfarb – Get Well Soon From: TBT Sisterhood To: Elaine Asa – Mazel Tov on your children’s Tribute Award honor Rabbi & Barbara Levine – Sympathy on loss of brother-in-law Bob Glick Sherri & David Chapman – Mazel Tov on the birth of your new grandson From: Judy & Bernie Kotkin To: Elaine Jacobs – in honor of her 95th birthday From: Bobbie and Bob Lansman To: Sherri & David Chapman – Mazel Tov on the birth of your new grandson Amy, Josh and Judah Feldman – Mazel Tov on the birth of your new son and brother Eliana and Jeff Marcus – congratu- lations on your Honor of a Tribute Award with Young Israel

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Celebrating S’machat (happy occasions)

with our TBT families

Children’s Birthdays

Alina Sendowsky May 13 Bryce Budeshtsky May 22

Adult Birthdays

Mickey Warner May 1 Peter Gwosdof May 2 Anna Livits May 2 Oscar Sendowsky May 2 Frank Matijevich May 2 Richard Henderson May 8 Sue Rosen May 8 Howard Sloane May 9 Victoria Levin May 12 Dora Cohen May 13 Ronnie Sue Henderson May 14

Susan Golden May 16 Fred Jacobson May 17 Danny Klatzker May 17 Jerry Levin May 17 Michael Flashner May 19 Jeff Kilpatrick May 20 Terri Hirsch May 21 Steve Miller May 21 Cliff Berkley May 22 Karen Block May 23 Chuck Rosen May 23

Becky Boren May 25 Alan Fluger May 25 Stan Pesner May 25 Lois Thall May 25 Stephanie Oslick May 26 Sam DeMesquita May 27 Robyn Scopis May 28 Lois Sussman May 28 Janice Goldberg May 29 Chris Prezgay May 31 Noga Socolovsky May 31

Anniversaries

Greg & Denise Spalter May 7 Michael & Lois Sussman May 7 Luke & Alice Zaientz May 11 Frank & BethAnn Matijevich May 20 Kevin & Teri Applebaum May 25 Jake & Kathy Sapiro May 25 Tony & Marjorie Roberts May 26 Greg & Sheri Weitzman May 27 Craig & Lisa Marder May 28

Are you celebrating a birthday or anniversary this month? If so, mark the occasion by making a

contribution to the Sisterhood for our first Friday of the month family service!

Your name will be listed in the program for that evening, and your contribution will also be listed in the

Scroll.

Thanks to all who help us out by making our Shabbat sweet with their contributions.

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YAHRZEIT & GENERAL DONATIONS

Remembered By In Memory Of Remembered By In Memory Of Sandra Billieu Morris Weinberg Mr & Mrs George Brody Jorge Brody Peter Dirnbach Mary Robinson Gary & Robin Fishberg Nathan Ackerman Marian Fluger Jack Beckenstein Debbie and Carol Gelfer Daniel Gelfer Mitch & Janice Goldberg Mary Soffen Alvin Goldberg Sue Sterba Jane Goodman Rosalie Fialkoff Joan Goodman Carl Hersh Dana Hicks Ernest Pollock

Stewart & Beth Lawrence Alfred Dubowe Jay Lieberman Craig Lieberman Martin Loew Nanette Loew Pearson Ronald & Eileen Miller Edward Miller Fran Rose Sadye Rose Jeff & Denise Schwartz William Washkevich Kathy Shefts Meryl Feldman Steve & Fran Sherman William Sherman Jeannette Sherman Emily Silver Miguel Fastovsky Harvey & Elaine Socol Joseph Weiser Mickey Warner Anna Srebnick

General Fund Nanc Hemp Marvin & Jane Goodman Henry Cohen – appreciation Mitch & Janice Goldberg Fred & Cindy Jacobson – anniversary Cindy Jacobson – birthday Eric & Jacqueline Trapp Judy Kotkin – birthday Benjamin Platt Appreciation to TBT Rabbi Nico Discretionary Fund Joel & Robyn Gwartz David Nishioka Jerry & Ellen Bekier Henry & Eileen Cohen Noga Socolovsky – new job Jerry & Elaine Jewel Erica Lambert engagement to Phil Gilchrist Marvin & Jane Goodman Rabbi Nico - appreciation Hadassah Farronan in honor of Rabbi Nico Music Fund Marty Baker Jordan ECLC (Preschool) Fund David & Alyse Kirschen Dick & Estelle Blake – birth of great grandchild

ECLC (Preschool) Restroom Beautification Fund Jay Weinschenker HVAC Fund Jay Weinschenker Miriam Van Raalte Scholarship Fund Marc & Marlene Spiegel TBT 2019 Teen Trip to Israel Scholarship Fund Fred & Cindy Jacobson Thank you to the following for sponsoring the May Lunch and Learn program with Sharon Quirk-Silva and Gil Cisneros: Mitch & Janice Goldberg, Paul & Chris Goldman, Jerry & Barbara Rosen, and Harvey & Elaine Socol

TBT PHILANTHROPIC COMMITMENT FORMS FOR 2019-2020 Our forms for renewing your philanthropic commitment for the coming year have been finalized.

Please watch you mail and respond promptly to ensure that our budget accurately reflects our projected income for the year ahead.

If you have changed any contact information (email, cell phone, etc.), please contact the TBT office so that we can update our records.

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CEMETERY LOT SALE

Mount Olive - Costa Mesa $4,500.00/Plot*

(plus $75 per plot transfer fee charged by cemetery)

Pacific View - Newport Beach $13,750.00/Plot*

ADVANTAGES OF PRE-PLANNING Takes decision making burdens off your loved ones Provides peace of mind

Saves on funeral arrangements Stops annual industry inflation of cemetery plots Allows you to communicate your wishes

TERMS OF SALE With 25% down, the balance can be paid over a 6-month period with no interest.

*If not a Temple Beth Tikvah member, cost is $6,000 at Mt. Olive and $15,520.00 and up at Pacific View.

For details please contact Benjamin Berkley at (714) 871-6440 (day) or (714) 944-9573 (evenings & weekends)

Remember and Commemorate Life Cycle Events Establish a permanent memorial to a loved one. Commemorate a happy family event for all time.

Acknowledge the feeling for another …their happiness…their sadness

while providing assistance to TBT!

Yahrzeit: Lighted Plaques, a permanent memorial to your loved ones, located in the lobby and lighted on Yahrzeit Lit Plaques $450 Yahrzeit: Unlit Plaques in Sanctuary $350 Simcha Leaves: $100 General Fund: $18 and up Sanctuary Funds: Torah Repair Fund: $18 and up Prayer Book Fund: $45 Inscribed Chumash: $75 Clergy Funds: $18 and up Rabbi Nico’s Discretionary Fund Cantorial Fund Education Funds ($18 and up):

Adult Education Fund ECLC Fund Rabbi Asa Education Fund School Scholarships/Programs

Shishi B’yachad (Tot Shabbat) Torah Study Fund

Youth Programs Additional Funds ($18 and up): Bathroom Beautification Fund Building Fund

Caring Community Family Engagement Legacy Fund Men’s Club Miriam Van Raalte Scholarship Fund

Music Fund Outreach/Publicity Fund Shabbat Meal Fund Shir Chadash Sisterhood (through tributes) Tzedakah Legacy Bricks $230 and up

Holocaust Memorial Plaques $1,800 and up

UPCOMING EVENTS AT A GLANCE For May events please see the calendar

in the Scroll.

Upcoming June Events

1 “Lolapalooza” – Miriam’s Family-Friendly Retirement Party 12:00p

2 Rabbi Asa Memorial Lecture – Uri Regev 7:00p 85 5 Sisterhood Mahjong Tournament 9:00a

7 Shabbat Family Service 6:30p 8 Shavuot Celebration 9 SHAVUOT 14 Wine & Cheese Reception 7:00p; Late-Start Service 7:30p 16 FATHER’S DAY 18 Teen Trip to Israel (June 18-29) 19 Creative Writing Group 10:00a 23 Movie Mavens 2:00p 26 Monthly TBT Board Meeting 7:30p 28 Shabbat Dinner after 6:30p Service

Ongoing at TBT… Mondays 10:00a: Yoga; 11:30p: Mahjongg Tuesdays 10:30a: ORT Pan Game; 6:00p: Mahjong Wednesdays 10:00a: EZRA Bridge; 2

nd/4

th Weds. 10:00a Creative Writing & Memoirs

Thursdays 11:30p: Mahjongg Thursdays 6:30p: Square Dancing Saturdays 9:00a: Bagels & Torah Study Sundays 8:30a: Table Tennis 1

st Sunday Picking Fruit

2nd

Sunday Mitzvah Meals at Temple Beth Sholom 3

rd Sunday Processing bottles/cans for recycling

4th Sunday 2:00p: Movie Mavens

4th Friday 8:00p: Shabbat Dinner

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MAY YAHRZEIT LIST

Friday, May 3 – Saturday, May 4 Abraham Esterson April 28 Sally Greenberg April 28 Ester Ledwin April 28 Gertrude Dubowe April 29 Kenneth Glasser April 29 Eunice Marder April 29 LaVerne Meyer April 29 Morris Vengrow April 29 Lawrence Wilson April 29 Mollie Barsky April 30 Enid Barth April 30 Hyman Lonky April 30 Rita Sebolsky April 30 Morton Traeger April 30 Irina Finkelstein May 1 David Freedman May 1 Joseph Golder May 1 Marion Eilasof May 2 Lenny Ellman May 2 Zev Haas May 2 Fritz Rosenberg May 2 Abraham Rossman May 2 Leo Black May 3 Sy Leeds May 3 Martha Pike May 3 Harry Krevitz May 4 Paula Ross May 4 Rose Socol May 4 Friday, May 10 – Saturday, May 11 Benjamin Ackerman May 5 Israel Firschein May 5 Chaia Goldestein May 5 Andres Gubman May 5 Emilio Miller May 5 Lissa Bass May 6 David Eskenazi May 6 Arnold Kaplan May 6 Celia Klein May 6 Daniel Zohman May 6 Francis Goodman May 7 Jean Klein May 8 Donald Richter May 8 Chesley Seldeen May 8 Larry Barsky May 9 Klara Burkat May 9 Mary Perkins May 9 Norman Saslow May 9 Alice Gruber May 10 Morris Kanter May 10 Joe Lichtenstein May 10 Ruth Pensack May 10 Lillian Steinberg May 10 Joseph Trombler May 10 Marty Bolhower May 11 Rose Bonn May 11 Claire Kraus May 11 Helen Marhefka May 11

Louis Mendlinger May 11 Benjamin Rose May 11 Sylvia Rossman May 11 Samuel Sosnovich May 11 Friday, May 17 – Saturday, May 18 Joan Apotheker-Levine May 12 Claire Cappel May 12 Wallace Keskitalo May 12 Eva Lesser May 12 Daniel Goldman May 13 Max Harmatz May 13 Bob Human May 13 Irving Klein May 13 Irving Leventhal May 13 Judith Levin May 13 Irving Schrimmer May 13 Julius Friedman May 14 Jack Labovitch May 14 Robert Manasse May 14 Bobby Phillips May 14 Scott Talento May 14 Irving Axelrad May 15 Helen Figer May 15 Roslyn Nanes May 15 Aaron Schenkman May 15 Michael Shuwarger May 15 Alexa Weiner May 15 Irving Altman May 16 Ruth Bolhower May 16 Henry Deutsch May 16 Irving Freilich May 16 Hal Hertz May 16 Hinda Rabinowitz May 16 Rose Schallman May 16 Bruce Talento May 16 Ed Weinstock May 16 Touraj Khorshidi May 17 Linda Siegel May 17 Lea Glazer May 18 Irene Kallick May 18 Bernice Lieberman May 18 Dan Reinstein May 18 Friday, May 24 – Saturday, May 25 Jacob DeMesquita May 20 Jack Feldman May 20 Robert Hartmann May 20 Bernard Klein May 20 Max Rosenberg May 20 Herb Schenk May 20 Leon Cook May 21 Gerald Garner May 21 Evelyn Glick May 21 Steven Hartmann May 21 Gladys Rousso May 21 Lena Silver May 21 Belle Cohen May 22 David Engel May 22

Albert Miller May 22 Gilda Silverman May 22 Leonard Wallach May 22 Evelyn Eskenazi May 23 Rebecca Goldberg May 23 Bernee Levine May 23 Debra MacDonald May 23 Enid Hirsch May 24 Louis Reisig May 24 Bernard Robinson May 24 Lillian Ackerman May 25 Louis Hersch May 25 Sigmund Silver May 25 Shirley Storch May 25 Rita Stromberg May 25 Friday, May 31 – Saturday, June 1 Ruth Elliot May 26 Joseph Weiner May 26 Boris Catz May 27 Jules Markowitz May 27 Celia Wedner May 27 Louis Bolhower May 28 Carol Filowitz May 28 Fred Kaufman May 28 Clair Leucart May 28 Irving Mann May 28 Gail Nachman May 28 Anna Seidman May 28 Matthew Terry May 28 Henry Himmelfarb May 29 Melvyn Jass May 29 Edward Lenchner May 29 Irwin Miller May 29 Robert Shane May 29 Ruth Liboff May 30 Lillian Sussman May 30 Elfrida Levy May 31 Lil Chinn June 1 Lilian Goodman Sperling June 1 Ben Margel June 1

“MAY THE MEMORY OF THE RIGHTEOUS BE A BLESSING.”

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Candle-Lighting Times for May 2019

Friday, May 3 – Light Candles 7:20 p.m. (Parashat Acharei Mot) Shabbat Ends 8:29 p.m.

Friday, May 10 – Light Candles 7:26 p.m. (Parashat Kedoshim) Shabbat Ends 8:39 p.m.

Friday, May 17 – Light Candles 7:31 p.m. (Parashat Emor) Shabbat Ends 8:40 p.m.

Friday, May 24 – Light Candles 7:36 p.m. (Parashat Behar) Shabbat Ends 8:45 p.m.

Friday, May 31 – Light Candles 7:40 p.m. (Parashat Bechukotai) Shabbat Ends 8:49 p.m.