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Dealing With
Conflict in the
Work Place
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Conflict
as defined by Dictionary.com
verb (used without object) 1.to come into collision or disagreement; be contradictor
y, at variance,
Noun 3.a fight, battle, or struggle, especially a prolonged strug
gle; strife.
Synonyms-collide, oppose. encounter, siege. See fight. contention, opposition.
Antonyms - accord.
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Five Styles of Conflict
Management
If you are focused on your personal goals you’ll
likely:
Compete
Collaborate
Compromise
If you are focused on other’s goals you’ll likely:
Compromise
Cave In
Chicken Out
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How do you feel about Conflict?A few questions to consider:
Is conflict a bad thing?
Do you like conflict?
Do you like resolving conflict?
Does every dispute have a resolution?
What kinds don’t?
What does it mean to win in a conflict? Do
you always have to win? When will you
allow yourself to lose?
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How do you feel about Conflict?Do you view concession as a sign of weakness?
Why?
Is it fair to appeal to facts/logic/guilt/emotions/consequences? When?
Do you usually resolve a dispute by talking or listening?
Are you sensitive to “face loss”, are you able to say “I was wrong”?
Do you hold stereotypes or prejudices? What ones, for example?
What culture do you belong to? What are three values of that culture?
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Seeing a Conflict Clearly
Look at the origins
Look at the sources
Look at the type of conflict
Look at beliefs about resolution
Look at the stance
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Methods of Resolving Work
ConflictYou might start with the university Faculty/Staff
Assistance Office or University Ombudsman
Defer to a supervisor (either yours, theirs, or both)
Address the issue(s) one on one directly with the person you see the conflict with.
Mediation
Peer Mediation
(Other CR Methods not typical in smaller work place conflicts: negotiation, arbitration, court, restorative justice).
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Whatever approach is taken,
remember to…
Give each person a chance to speak
UNINTERUPTED
Clarify the real issues and each parties real
interests.
Always be building toward an agreement by
deferring to the real issues heard and expressed
and hopefully understood.
LISTEN TO EACHOTHER without going on the
defense.
Remember the Power of an apology.
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My Conflict and How I Resolved ItWhat happened?
Initial approach
avoidance
Next Steps
Spoke to her supervisor
Spoke to her (but wasn’t explicit in my concerns
(chickened out somewhat)
Spoke to my supervisor
Final steps toward a resolution
Went to lunch with her and addressed my concerns head
on in a non-accusatory way
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How about you?