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    THE PROMISE

    INSIDE THIS ISSUE

    PASTORAL MESSAGE .....................................2

    REMINDERS ......................................................3

    FREE WILL & FREEDOMIN CHRIST .........6

    FIRST CENTURYCHRISTIAN ......................7

    THE NEWTESTAMENT ..............................10

    THEOLOGY& PRACTICEOF LOVE ..........16

    SERVICESFORTHE DORMITION ...............17

    HOME MISSIONS ..........................................18

    NEWS & NOTES ...........................................19

    EASTERSCENES.............................................22

    A TASTE ........................................................29

    JUNE, JULY& AUGUST CALENDAR.........30

    DATES TO REMEMBER

    SEPTEMBER 8THNATIVITYOFTHETHEOTOKOS

    DIVINE LITURGY9:30AM

    SEPTEMEBER 11THPARISHASSEMBLY

    SEPTEMBER 28 - OCTOBER 1STMETROPOLISOFDETROIT CLERGY-LAITY

    OCTOBER 9THLUNCHEONDISCUSSION

    OCTOBER 23RDGODPARENT SUNDAY

    WORDSOF WISDOM

    NOTONLYAREWEINTHISASSEMBLY(INTHE CHURCH),

    BUTALSOTHEPROPHETSANDTHEAPOSTLESANDALLTHESAINTS;

    ANDWHATISMOSTIMPORTANTOFALL- AMONGUSIS JESUS CHRIST HIMSELF,THE MASTEROFEVERYTHING.

    - ST. JOHN CHRYSOSTOM

    SEPTEMBER / OCTOBER 2011

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    W

    henever people are asked what it is

    that they hope for in life? the answers

    are varied. People will quickly speak

    of boundless happiness, endless riches,ceaseless fame, never-ending youth, unlimited power

    and infinite health. In one way or another, such

    answers an intense desire for a life without limits.

    These response not highlight peoples struggle those

    many things (both real and imagined) that seemingly

    bind humanitys scope of life, but they reveal a crisis

    of faith.

    In more ways than one, modern

    men and women have developed

    an uncanny ability to actuallylimit their life rather than expand

    its true potential. Sometimes, it

    is out of a misguided attempt at

    self-preservation. Sometimes, it is

    rooted to the refusal to recognize

    a power greater than ones own

    self. Sometimes, it is out of sheer

    arrogance. And sometimes, it

    is the result of the ravages of

    life in a cruel, unjust and fallenworld. But no matter the reason

    or rationale, there is simply no

    disputing the fact that human

    beings whether by intent or omission, are exceedingly

    adept at restricting the true potential of life.

    But perhaps in the greatest irony of all, more and more

    modern day men and women increasingly make God

    and His Church the scapegoat. Such recriminations,

    albeit commonplace, are not only ignorant (in every

    sense of the word), but speaks volumes to exactly howfar mankind has moved away from God and is

    unfamiliar with His Holy Church. After all, the joy

    of being an Orthodox Christian and a member of

    the Annunciation Church family is not about making

    life restrictive, but coming to the realization that Jesus

    lives, He is in our midst and He sets us free.

    In Christ we are freed from the slavery of sin. In

    Christ, we are freed from the finality of death. In

    Christ we are freed from the limitations of our

    personal knowledge, weaknesses and experiences. In

    Christ, we come alive in God. He is the key that opensa door to a life in Him that is free and transcendent.

    A life without limits begins when we appreciate God in

    our life and then come alive in Christ.

    Perhaps the best evidence of such claims can be found

    in the case of the Holy Apostles.Before they realized

    that He had risen from the dead, they were captive

    to the fear of what might happen next. Before they

    accepted the Resurrection of Christ,

    their lives were ordinary, limited

    and dare we say, forgettable. Anoted theologian once went so

    far as to argue that the most

    powerful historical proof of the

    Resurrection is the resurrected

    disciples. He documented how

    dull, defeated people at once

    became fearless, adventuresome

    leaders. Cowards became courageous;

    the timid became triumphant;

    and the inept did the impossible.In other words, the moment the

    risen Christ became the centerof

    their life, it became the hallmark

    of a new life, ALIFE WITHOUT LIMITS. And the fact of

    the matter is that this new and boundless life in Christ

    did NOT begin or end with the first Christians. This

    reality transcends time and space. This truth is ours

    to have and it is ours to share.

    Men and women need to stop looking to become god

    and start lookingTO God. Only in this way can peopleexperience the full potential and boundless nature of

    their life. Only by looking to God, can men and women

    discover that the Resurrection of Christ is a historical fact

    as well as a transformative contemporary reality. Only

    by looking to God, can mankind realize that with Him

    nothing is impossible. The sooner the focus of life moves

    (Continued on page 4)

    PASTORAL MESSAGE

    Life

    in the

    Balance

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    I will turn their mourning into

    joy,I will comfort them,

    and give them gladness for sorrow.

    JEREMIAH 31:13

    Make your legacyof love for your parish

    ETERNAL,rememberthe Annunciation in

    your Will.

    SAVE THE DATE

    PARISH

    ASSEMBLY

    Sunday,

    September 11th,

    2011

    WISDOM:

    God is a fire that warms and

    kindles the heart and inward

    parts.

    Hence, if we feel in our hearts

    the cold which comes from the

    devil - for the devil is cold -

    let us call on the Lord.

    He will come to warm our hearts

    with perfect love,

    not only for Him

    but also for our neighbor,

    and the cold of him who hates

    the good will

    flee before the heat

    of His countenance.

    St. Seraphim of Sarov

    WELCOME

    PETER GESS

    We are pleased to notethat our very own PeterGess has graciouslyaccepted the invitationto ll a vacancy on the

    Parish Council until theParish Council elections in December. Wethank Peter for his dedication and abidingcommitment to serve the Parish.

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    THE PASTORAL MESSAGE(Continued from page 2)

    away from fear and dependence ones own inner

    strength to the limitless life in the Jesus Christ and

    the strength that comes from being in His Body (theChurch), the sooner people will find peace. For the

    true potential of our life can never be contained when

    we make Christ the center of our life. Our life will

    never be incomplete when it is centered on the joy of

    knowing, loving, following and serving the Lord our

    God.

    To all those who wish more out of life, we say come

    to Church, come alive in Christ. To all those who feel

    burdened by fear and worry, we say come to Church,

    come alive in Christ. To all those who dream of

    things rather than eternity, we say come to Church,

    come alive in Christ. To all those insist on their own

    way and refuse to bend a knee to God, we say come

    to Church and come alive in Christ.

    And just to be safe, lets compare human capabilities

    versus Gods.Mankind has never found the cure for

    death, only more ways to advance it. GOD is without

    beginning or end; on top of which He graciously offers

    us eternal life in Him. Mankindhas never created atreasure that cannot be stolen, devalued, corrupted or

    lost. GODS gifts are free, never-ending and accessible

    to all. Mankindhas never been able to answer every

    question or catalog everything that there is to know.

    Meanwhile, science has not yet begun to unravel all

    of GODS handiwork in the human body, nature or

    in the cosmos (let alone understand the grandeur of

    heaven). With that in mind, is it really so far fetched

    to look to God for a limitless life? And when we

    start to look inward instead of UPWARDS for a happy

    life without limits, let us remind ourselves as faithfulChristians to the immortal words of the Lord in the

    Gospel according to John 14:19: Yet a little while, and

    the world will see me no more, but you will see me; because I

    live, you will live also.

    The secular world cannot comprehend the full

    potential of life because it has blinded itself with

    greed, lust for power, faithlessness and arrogance. But

    in the Church we meet

    the risen Christ and are

    reminded of the fact

    that because He lives,

    we live. The secular

    world can never showthe way to boundless

    life because it has fallen

    blindly in love with sin

    and death. Meanwhile

    at the Annunciation we

    meet God; and He not

    only give us the breath

    of life, but He, Himself,

    show us the Way.

    This does not mean wewill not face sorrow,

    setbacks or suffering in

    our life. Sadly as long

    as we are in the fallen

    world, we will confront

    evil, be tempted to go

    astray and wrestle with

    weaknesses. But we are

    not prisoners of the world, we can choose to be free

    in Christ. We can either decide to spend our days,

    wishing for more out of life and appreciate nothing.

    Or we can follow Christ every day, and begin to enjoy

    a boundless new life in Him.

    Once and for all, the truth of the risen Christ does

    NOT limit our point of view, let alone our life.

    Instead, it gives our life context and frees us from

    death. The instruction, dogma and authority of the

    Church does NOT limit human potential; it liberates

    us from the errors and pitfalls that can impair our

    relationship with the living God illumes the path tothe risen Christ. So as we bid farewell to the summer,

    let us renew our prayer life, let us renew our worship

    of the Lord at the Annunciation and let us renew our

    commitment to follow Him. In this way, we can most

    assuredly grasp the limitless life in Christ.

    Rev. Dr. Nicholas J. Verdaris

    Men

    andwomenneed to stoplooking to

    become godand

    startlookingTOGod.

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    HOWTO PLEASETHE LORD

    Of the many ways

    we can show the

    Lord just how

    important He is

    to us and our life,

    perhaps nothing is as

    meaningful as when

    we come to worship

    Him at His House at

    the appointed time.

    To do this as anexpression of love.

    It speaks volumes

    about the content of our heart, the fervor of our

    faith and the importance of Christ in our life. Just

    as when our own children do something we ask

    of them, not because they have to but because

    it will please us, so too will the Lord be moved by

    an ongoing commitment to attend the services at

    the Annunciation punctually with ready hearts,

    minds and souls. Let us all strive to attend the HolyServices of the Church from the very beginning

    and thereby glorify the Lord with our worship as a

    Christ-centered church family.

    SUNDAY SERVICES

    MATINS, 9:00 AMDIVINE LITURGY, 10:00 AM

    WISDOMOFTHE FATHERS:

    A rich man is NOTone who has much,but one who gives much.For what he gives away...

    remains his forever.

    - ST JOHNCHRYSOSTOM

    ORTHODOX LEADERSHIP

    IN A BRAVE NEW WORLDby Fr. Johannes L. Jacobse

    Almost thirty years ago Soviet dissident Alexander

    Solzhenitsyn delivered an address at Harvard University

    that still ranks as one of the most trenchant and inspired

    critiques of Western culture ever given. Although some

    of the political references are dated, two observations

    remain as true today as when they were first spoken. The

    first is that the philosophical materialism that shaped

    communism and led to the Gulags now operates in the

    Western world. The second is that mankind stands at an

    anthropological threshold.

    What is philosophical materialism? To use Solzhenitsyns

    definition, it is the belief that man has no touchstone

    other than himself: To such consciousness, man is the touchstone

    in judging and evaluating everything on earth . . . we have lost the

    concept of a Supreme Complete Entity which used to restrain our

    passions and our irresponsibility.

    Philosophical materialism has concrete cultural

    ramifications. To social utopians, it means that persons

    have no enduring valueso society can be forciblyarranged around notions of the common good. To

    hedonists, it means that the body is primarily a pleasure

    machine. To nihilists, it means that because the death

    of the body is also the end of existence, we should exalt

    death and violence.

    These themes shaped much of the course of the last

    century. Solzhenitsyn had firsthand experience of

    Marxist social utopianism, but he was not the first to

    sound the alarm. Almost a century earlier, Dostoevskyheard the rumblings that would make Russia susceptible

    to communist tyranny and warned, Without God,

    everything is permitted.

    PROPHETSOFTHE WEST

    The Democratic West had its own literary prophets,

    (Continued on page 9)

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    BAPTIZED INTO CHRIST

    The Annunciation family congratulates Keith& Allison Freeman on the baptism of theirdaughter, AUBREY ELIZABETH FREEMAN, whowas baptized at the Annunciation on JUNE 25TH.Mark & Jana Hunterare the proud godparents.

    May the Lord bless our newest servant of theLord, along with all of his family and friends!

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    The Annunciation family congratulatesCiprian Terlea & Amber Cardinale on

    the baptism oftheir son, GIOVANNICARDINALE TERLEA,who was baptized at

    the Annunciation onJULY 30TH. Marian & Liliana Dima are theproud godparents.May the Lord blessour newest servantof the Lord, alongwith all of hisfamily and friends!

    OUR CONDOLENCES

    The Annunciation family notes with deep

    sadness the passing of our sister in Christ, ALICEMARIE COBB, the mother of our very own Brad

    Cobb,who fell asleep in the Lord.

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    The Annunciation family notes with deep sadness

    the passing of our brother in Christ, JOSEPH

    BEAU DICKEY, the son of our very own Joe &

    Suzanne Dickey, who fell asleep in the Lord.

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    The Annunciation family notes with deep sadness

    the passing of our brother in Christ, JAMES

    GILLASPY, our beloved parishioner and husband of

    Cathyrn Gillaspy, who fell asleep in the Lord.

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    The Annunciation family notes with deep

    sadness the passing of our brother in Christ, NALI

    KASSEES our beloved parishioner who fell asleep

    in the Lord.

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    Let us keep all of these families in our prayers and

    beseech the Lord to offer them His comfort and strength

    May Their Memory Be Eternal.

    BABY NEWS

    We are pleased to announce the birth ofKristina Sophia Vasquez! She was born at

    5:54pm on Thursday, June 9, 2011. Shewas 19 1/2 inches long, weighed 7 pounds

    3 ounces. To her parents Dimitri & Fofeand grandparents Ray & Lea Ging, we say

    Congratulations

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    WHATIF...

    What if God couldn't take the time to bless

    us today because we couldn't take the timeto thank Him yesterday. . .

    What if God decided to stop leading ustomorrow because we didn't follow Him

    today. . .

    What if God didn't walk with us today

    because we failed to recognize it as His day. . .

    What if we never saw another flower bloom

    because we grumbled when God sent the

    rain. . .

    What if God stopped loving and caring forus because we failed to love and care for

    others. . .

    What if God took away the Bible tomorrow

    because we would not read it today. . .

    What if God took away His message becausewe failed to listen to the messenger. . .

    What if God didn't send His Only BegottenSon because He wanted us to be prepared to

    pay the price for sin. . .

    What if the door of the church was closed

    because we did not open the door to ourheart. . .

    WHATIF GODANSWEREDOURPRAYERS

    THEWAYWEANSWER HISCALL

    TOSERVICE?

    -Author Unknown-

    CONGRATULATIONS

    The Annunciation family joyously congratulatesNEHAD& ARLENEKASSEESwho were married on June5th. Their union in Christ was sponsored byRanya Kassees

    The Annunciation family joyously congratulatesNICHOLAS & KELLEY KOLETTIS who were married

    at the Annunciation on June 18th Their union inChrist was sponsored byJames Kolettis

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    May God grant you many yearsof faith, love & happiness!

    YOUTH MINISTRIES ARE LAUNCHING

    ...GET ON BOARD!

    The Annunciations youth ministries are restarting.

    JOY (Junior Orthodox Youth): our ministry to the

    youngest members of our Church family up to age 9

    JUNIOR GOYA: our program geared for those youth too

    old for JOY and too young for GOYA! GOYA (Greek

    Orthodox Youth of America): our ministry geared

    towards those young people in our Church family

    ages 13-18. These three vital ministries strive to instill

    Orthodox Christian principles and enhance our young

    peoples relationship with Christ through their religious

    and social life at the Annunciation. These ministries are

    guided by the principles of: Faith, Service, Fellowship

    & Fun. THE MORE OUR YOUTH PARTICIPATE, AND

    THE MORE PARENTSVOLUNTEER - THE BETTER THESE

    MINISTRIESFUNCTION.

    PLEASEregister for these programs and all

    together let us enjoy a dynamic youth ministry

    at the Annunciation!

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    OUR STEWARDSHIP

    Our Stewardship commitment to the Annunciation

    is tangible evidence of our love and devotionto God and our integral connection with His

    Church. And despite the very difficult times we

    currently confronting in this country, each and

    every one of us serve an essential role in supporting

    the Annunciation in Little Rock and helping to

    ensuring its survival. Therefore, we must regularly

    and prayerfully search our hearts to find the faithful

    measure by which we will personally support the

    work of the Lord at the Annunciation in grateful

    recognition of His Divine Presence in our life

    and as a loving expression of appreciation forthe blessings He has entrusted unto us. Christ

    our God will never abandon His Church, but if

    His flock does not vigilantly protect the parishes,

    some may very well be overrun by the secular

    world. All together, let us renew our support of the

    Annunciation and continue to manifest the light of

    Christ here in Little Rock.

    2011

    Our friends & neighbors are still talking about

    our 2011 Festival!! We are pleased to note that the

    Annunciation Church family has received once again

    this year received many accolades for our Festival(in spite of the rain). In fact, in two separate and

    independent surveys, one conducted by the LITTLE

    ROCK FAMILY MAGAZINE and the other by SAVVY KIDS

    MAGAZINE, our International Greek Food Festival was

    voted by the readers and men and women of Arkansas

    as the Second best Festival in the state of Arkansas!!!!

    In both cases, only the mammoth and city sponsored

    Riverfest took top honors.

    We must thank God for entrusting us with such a great

    responsibility as our Festival and then enabling us to createa function that so many of our friends and neighbors

    in the community appreciate. After all, throughout the

    state a host of festivals and events are conducted by a

    wide array of cities, towns and organizations - and the

    Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church in Little Rock

    has one of the most beloved! Considering our size, it

    is by every measure a breathtaking achievement! Such

    compliments by the general public must not only warm

    our hearts, but inspire us as we continue to move the

    Festival forward. Encouraged by such praise, our entire

    Church family must renew its commitment to this

    massive (and beloved) undertaking as well as remind

    us all of the great opportunity the Festival provides us

    to present our Orthodox Christian faith and wonderful

    parish to wider audience within our state.

    Thank God for 2011,may He bless us as we prepare for 2012!!!!

    2012 FESTIVAL NEWS

    In anticipation of next years Festival we are asking

    our Church family to help spread the word to any

    local non-denominational charity that would liketo be considered for inclusion in the 2012 Festival

    and encourage them to please submit a letter to

    the Church Office expressing their interest along

    with a description or explanation of their work by

    November 6th. Charity letters of application will be

    collected through out the coming month and must

    be received by November 6th. After which we will be

    able to decide who our Festival will sponsor 2012.

    REMINDER:

    ALL CHARITY APPLICATION LETTERSFOR

    THE 2012 FESTIVAL

    MUSTRECEIVEDBY NOVEMBER 6TH

    FOR CONSIDERATION!

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    ORTHODOX LEADERSHIP(Continued from page 5)

    who, while not steeped in Christianity as deeply as

    Solzhenitsyn or Dostoevsky, nevertheless understood theChristian moral tradition and thus were able to discern

    the cultural trends that Solzhenitsyn would express so

    clearly at Harvard years later.

    One such visionary was George Orwell, who foresaw

    the tyranny of the social utopianism that follows when

    traditional notions of truth and virtue are supplanted,

    and confronted it in 1984. Another was Aldous Huxley,

    who, in his classic BRAVE NEW WORLD, focused more on

    the elevation of pleasure and the senseless preoccupation

    with stimulation that would afflict culture once moral

    norms shifted. Neil Postman, in his brilliant AMUSING

    OURSELVES TO DEATH, pointed out the differences

    between the two authors:

    What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What

    Huxley feared was that there would be no reason to ban a book, for

    there would be no one who wanted to read one. Orwell feared those

    who would deprive us of information. Huxley feared those who

    would give us so much that we would be reduced to passivity and

    egoism. Orwell feared that the truth would be concealed from us.

    Huxley feared the truth would be drowned in a sea of irrelevance.Orwell feared we would become a captive culture. Huxley feared we

    would become a trivial culture, preoccupied with some equivalent of

    the feelies, the orgy porgy, and the centrifugal bumblepuppy.

    As Huxley remarked in Brave New World Revisited, the civil

    libertarians and rationalists who are ever on the alert to oppose

    tyranny failed to take into account mans almost infinite appetite

    for distractions. In 1984, Huxley added, people are controlled

    by inflicting pain. In Brave New World, they are controlled by

    inflicting pleasure. In short, Orwell feared that what we hate will

    ruin us. Huxley feared that what we love will ruin us.

    As trenchant as Orwells and Huxleys prophecies were,

    however, Solzhenitsyns emerges as more compelling

    because of his explicit religious appeal. In locating the

    cultural calamities in the loss of an awareness of God,

    he shows the stance Christiansparticularly those who

    understand that current cultural conflicts require more

    than a political solutionshould take today.

    THE ANTHROPOLOGICAL THRESHOLD

    Mankind, said Solzhenitsyn (and here he means

    Christendomthe culture that drew from the well of

    Judeo-Christian morality), stands on an anthropological

    threshold as significant as the shift from the medieval tothe modern period:If the world has not come to its end, it has

    approached a major turn in history, equal in importance to the turn

    from the Middle Ages to the Renaissance. It will exact from us a

    spiritual upsurge, we shall have to rise to a new height of vision, to

    a new level of life where our physical nature will not be cursed as

    in the Middle Ages, but, even more importantly, our spiritual being

    will not be trampled upon as in the Modern era.

    Anthropology comes from the Greek word anthropos

    which means man. In theological terms, anthropology

    means what we understand the human person to be. Itencompasses who he is, what he was created for, how he

    should comport himselfall the constituents of mans

    existence that raise him above the animal, that define

    his purpose, that make meaning out of his relationships

    Consider Solzhenitsyns exhortation in the questions

    facing us today, especially the looming issues concerning

    the advancements in medical technology. We have

    unlocked some secrets about human life that were

    unthinkable just a generation or two ago. Who would

    have thought we could map the human genome or grow

    organs from a single cell, as it appears may soon be the

    case? Who foresaw such advancements as locating and

    even correcting fetal abnormalities? Who guessed that

    we could extend life expectancy by decades in some cases?

    These advancements are front and center for several

    reasons. First, they require us to answer foundational

    questions about the nature and value of the human

    person. These questions have not been answered, at

    least in terms that have achieved any kind of culturaconsensus. Secondly, how they are answered will drive

    research and development in the future. Frankly, how

    we decide these questions will determine what kind of

    society we bequeath to our children and grandchildren

    These advancements are fraught with ethical difficulty

    Is it wrong to test for Downs Syndrome in an unborn child?

    (Continued on page 13)

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    2011Festival

    Shines!

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    SEPTEMBER/ OCTOBER2011

    Special thanks to our master photographer Lyle Glass for

    preserving these memories!!!

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    SAVETHE DATE!

    Parish General Assembly

    Sunday, September 11th

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    Parish General Assembly

    Sunday, December 4th

    Working together to the Glory of God,let us serve His Church at the Annunciation

    with hearts brimming with faith & love.

    ANNUNCIATIONGODPARENT SUNDAY -

    OCTOBER 23RD

    Our Church family is going to pause to remember

    our Baptismal/Chrismation vows as well as honor

    the Godparents who sponsored our entrance into

    the Holy Church on Sunday, October 23rd. On this

    special day we will have the blessed opportunity to

    renew our dedication to Christ as well as celebrate

    our sacred relationship with our Godparents.

    If possible,

    Godparents and Godchildren shouldattend the Divine Liturgy together,

    sit near each other

    and then receive Holy Communion

    together.

    Even if our Godparents are far way or have fallen

    asleep in the Lord, in the Risen Christ they will

    be with us! So let us all rededicate ourselves to the

    Lord and share in His Heavenly Banquet together.

    WORDSTOTHE WISE:

    It is not the critic who counts;

    not the man who points out

    how the strong man stumbles,

    or

    where the doer of deeds could

    have done them better.

    The credit belongs to the man

    who is actually in the arena,

    whose face is marred by dust and

    sweat and blood,

    who strives valiantly;

    who errs and comes short again

    and again;

    because there is not

    effort without error and

    shortcomings;

    but who does actually strive to

    do the deed;

    who knows the great

    enthusiasm,

    the great devotion,

    who spends himself in a worthy

    cause,

    who at the best knows in

    the end the triumph of high

    achievement and who at the

    worst,

    if he fails,

    at least he fails while daring

    greatly.

    So that his place shall never be

    with those cold and timid souls

    who know neither victory nor

    defeat.

    - President Theodore Roosevelt

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    ORTHODOX LEADERSHIP(Continued from page 9)

    Is it wrong to extract stem cells from embryos? How

    far do our obligations to keep people alive really go?These types of questions are highly contentious, as any

    student of the culture knows. One thing we know for

    certain is that as our knowledge increases, the ethical

    questions concerning the nature and value of human

    life will become more numerous and complexand the

    contention is likely to increase.

    The contention has been largely defined in political terms.

    Every reader is familiar with the hot-button conflicts

    teen sexuality, homosexual marriage, abortion, the Terri

    Schiavo dilemmathat have been fought in the publicarena. The political arena will always remain a venue

    for moral conflicts, but we sell ourselves short if we

    conclude that the political dimension is the arena where

    these questions will find their final resolution.

    For Solzhenitsyn, spiritual development and self-awareness

    work hand-in-handclearly a Christian value self-evident

    to any Orthodox Christian. But he also warns that

    because Western culture has been sidetracked into

    a philosophical materialism that has dimmed mans

    spiritual awareness, its future is threatened. The only

    way out of the present morass is spiritual renewal.

    Solzhenitsyn experienced the ravages of the spiritual

    darkening firsthand, particularly during his eight years

    in a Soviet prison. There he received the fundamental

    insight that would propel his ground breaking work:

    The line separating good and evil passes not through states, nor

    between political partiesbut right through every human heart.

    The timing of his Harvard speech couldnt have been

    better. His words fell on the ears of a nation that was

    already experiencing the wrenching dislocations of

    a cataclysmic shift in moral values and social order

    from the sexual revolution to riots in its citiesin ways

    unprecedented in its history. At the same time, the

    wondrousand fearfulunlocking of the deep mysteries

    of human nature was moving into full swing. America

    had entered a culture war.(Continued on page 14)

    WITNESSING LOYALTY,

    DEDICATIONAND DEPENDABILITYby Fr. George Morelli

    Beloved, it is a loyal thing you do when you render any service

    to the brethren, especially to strangers, who have testified to your

    love before the church. (3 John 1: 5-6)

    Dedication, loyalty and dependability are important

    values to impart to children. Our Lord, Himsel

    speaking through the angel, told the people of Laodicea

    So, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor

    hot, I will spew you out of my mouth. (Rev 3:16). The

    inhabitants of Laodicea lacked fervent commitment

    Our Lord counsels them to be zealous. (Rev 3: 19). Notonly are dedication, loyalty and dependability spiritual

    virtues but they are regarded as essential in social and

    occupational functioning in everyday life as well.

    For example, a well known youth program stated goa

    of, the Boy Scouts of America (BSA), is to put youth on

    a path toward a more conscientious, responsible, and

    productive society. i It should be noted that the first two

    Scouting laws are directly related to this goal as well as

    to the topic of this Parenting essay: dedication, loyaltyand dependability:

    > A Scout is Trustworthy. A Scout tells the truth

    He is honest, and he keeps his promises. People can

    depend on him.

    > A Scout is Loyal. A Scout is true to his family

    friends, Scout leaders, school, and nation.

    MODELING:

    CHILDREN LEARNBY WATCHING.

    Children are especially susceptible to being influenced

    by modeling (also known as observational learning

    although the effects of modeling occur at all ages

    Psychological research has found substantial support

    for the influence of modeling in childrens learning and

    resultant performance. The work of Gerald Patterson

    suggests that pro-social as well as deviant social behavior

    (Continued on page 20)

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    THE ANTHROPOLOGICAL DIMENSION

    OFTHE CULTURE WAR

    The culture war is fundamentally a conflict about

    anthropologyhow we value the human being, how

    we ought to define him, the purpose for his existence,

    what social arrangements society deems suitable for men

    and women, and so forth. And politics emerged as the

    prominent battlefield for the conflict.

    Complex conflicts tend to drift toward simplification,

    and the culture war was no exception. Culturalliberalism and cultural conservatism roughly followed

    political lines: Democrats were liberal and Republicans

    were conservative. It wasnt a perfect fit, but even a big

    suit on a small man still covers his body.

    No one has really been comfortable with the

    arrangement, except perhaps the activists. Adding to

    the discomfort is our characteristically American way

    of adjudicating moral conflict. American culture has

    no institution of moral judgment. We have no national

    Church, no council of legislative elders, and no finalcourt of arbitration that can definitively resolve the

    perplexing moral questions that face us. As a result, the

    debates and political maneuverings that follow are often

    raucous and chaotic affairs.

    There is wisdom in this system of apparent chaos,

    however. The Founding Fathers, in refusing to establish

    a central authority of moral judgment, ensured that

    these questions must be addressed by the culture itself,

    thereby affirming the precept, politics follows culture, in

    ways that inhibit any imposition of a final adjudicationfrom the state.

    This precept is also drawn from the Christian tradition.

    It is grounded in the notion that the power of the state

    draws not only from the consent of the people, but from

    a people grounded in the Christian moral tradition.

    Solzhenitsyn, again stressing the anthropological

    dimension, himself acknowledged this point in the

    Harvard address: Yet in the early democracies, as in the American

    democracy at the time of its birth, all individual human rights were

    granted on the ground that man is Gods creature. That is, freedom

    was given to the individual conditionally, in the assumption of his

    constant religious responsibility.

    The model built by the Founding Fathers is not a perfect

    formula, but it does resist the tyranny that Solzhenitsyn

    experienced in Soviet Russia. One way is by providing

    a fluidity through which reform movements can arise

    Take Democrats for Life, for example. Five short years

    ago an internal challenge to the hard-line pro-abortion

    position held by Democratic Party leadership was

    virtually unthinkable. But there it is.

    Politics will always play a role in the great moral debates

    Its the American way. In taking questions to the culturethen, we need to look past (but not overlook) the political

    factors and define more clearly the anthropologica

    dimension of the debate. Its a complex topic, so let

    restrict our discussion to one important theme: the use

    and misuse of the Christian moral vocabulary.

    MORAL DECONSTRUCTION

    Moral deconstruction can be defined as the systematictake-down and restructuring of the moral assumption

    that used to guide our decisions, especially those that

    touched on the foundational constituents defining our

    self-understanding and value. These would include

    decisions about life, death, sexuality, purpose, meaning

    sacrifice, and more.

    Coming back to our literary prophets, we can see that

    cultural deconstruction was what they feared. Orwell

    warned against the imposition of tyranny, Huxley

    against a mechanization of the body, and Solzhenitsynagainst a moral redefinition of man through which hi

    God-given direction towards freedom (ultimately found

    in Christ) would be obscured.

    Ideas have consequences. How we think determines

    how we act. This describes not only the individual but

    also the society he inhabits. A society cannot continue to

    (Continued on page 17)

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    THANK You!!!

    With your help, the Annunciation GOYA and youth

    ministries conducted another a very successful

    rummage sale. It was quite project, but thanks

    to everyones generosity, this endeavor not only

    strengthened our parishs youth ministries but

    all of the donated items that were not able to be

    sold were in turn donated to a local chapter of

    the Boys & Girls Club. Thanks again to all those

    advisors and adults who helped this project

    get off the ground again this year: STAR AKEL, TANSA

    BISHARA, WAYNE & CLAIR ALLEY, STEPHANIE ALLEY, HELEN HRONAS& JANET MIRON, and to all your young people who

    worked so hard for two weeks before and early

    on Saturday Morning to make sure that our

    Rummage sale was another grand success.

    BRAVO!!!

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    HAPPYBIRTHDAYto our parishioners celebrating

    during the upcoming months!

    September 1st . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Jeremy DigginsSusan Ward

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    function without shared notions of right and wronga

    dynamic we call the moral consensus. These ideas and

    values function as universals, as ways that a society

    organizes itself.

    Further, these ideas depend on language, because its

    through language that the ideas are passed from one

    generation to the next. They shape a story, a cultural

    narrative, which references ideas and actions to a larger

    body of meaning. Solzhenitsyn, in arguing that the moral

    touchstone has shifted from God to man in Western

    culture, thereby implies the narrative has shifted as well.

    Solzhenitsyn says as much by writing the Gulag series,

    which attempted (successfully as it turns out) to destroy

    the Marxist cultural narrative by telling the truth about

    it, employing the values and ideas of the traditional

    narrative Marxist ideas sought to supplant.

    In terms of how these concepts enter the culture,

    however, Orwell is probably the clearest. IN POLITICS

    AND THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE, Orwell warned of howthe meanings of words are subverted to stand for ideas

    and concepts that are not true to their meaning. The

    promises of the socialist utopia sweeping Europe (and

    the American intelligentsia) at the time were Orwells

    target, but the dynamic remains true today.

    In all corners of the culture, words drawn from the moral

    tradition are employed to justify actions and behaviors

    that the tradition otherwise discourages and often

    prohibits. We saw it in the great debates about abortion

    and euthanasia in the last few decades. The conflict wasnot only about competing moral values, but also about

    the language by which those values were communicated.

    Words like freedom, choice, human value, and others

    whose meanings were relatively clear when the cultural

    consensus was shaped by traditional Christian morality

    now served a different function as that consensus

    shattered.

    This co-opting of the Christian moral lexicon is one

    reason for the deep moral confusion in the culture. It

    creates a kind of moral schizophrenia in which people

    are unsure if right and wrong even exist. Repeat certain

    words over and over again, and people will tend to believe

    them. If these words have moral power, which is to sayif they derive their authority from the moral tradition

    people will tend to believe their new applications are the

    tradition.

    Thats what Huxley warned against. If man is a

    biological machine, and if that machine responds to

    pleasure, why not frame the pleasure-inducing activity

    in the terminology of a private good? Orwell warned of

    the same corruption. If man is machine, why not frame

    the attempts at social reorganization in terms of the

    common good? All it takes is wrestling common termsfrom their traditional moral contexts and employing

    them in ones that justify the dehumanization as progress

    Good becomes evil, and evil becomes good. Society has

    reconstructed itself in a new moral order.

    What makes Solzhenitsyns exhortation so compelling

    (and ultimately more valuable) is his conviction that the

    crisis is fundamentally one of anthropology. As such

    it might also be one of historical inevitability. Perhaps

    our progress has forced this dilemma upon us, just as

    the Nestorian controversy forced the elucidation of the

    two natures of Christ, and the Arian controversy the

    elucidation of Christs divinity. The question we as a

    society need to answer is: What is Man?

    THE RE-CHRISTIANIZATIONOF CULTURE

    As awe-inspiring as our technological advancements are

    and despite the promise they hold for the alleviation of

    human suffering, the application of new technologiestowards the betterment of the human condition in terms

    traditionally understood is not assured. The moral crisis

    facing American culture, particularly the deconstruction

    of cultural forms that managed to safeguard the common

    and private good (and sometimes correct its failures), can

    easily subvert the knowledge into something grotesque

    and ugly while claiming to serve the good.

    (Continued on page 18)

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    Solzhenitsyn warned as much when he said the crisis

    can only be resolved if man reawakens to the spiritualdimension of his existence: This ascension will be similar to

    climbing onto the next anthropologic stage. No one on earth has any

    other way left butupward.

    If Orthodox Christians should understand anything,

    it is this: Salvation is a concrete, existential encounter

    with the living God. Moreover, this Lord gives gifts,

    including wisdom, knowledge, insight, and courage

    all the elements needed to confront the maelstrom of

    confusion in which our culture finds itself, and all meant

    to be applied in the work of daily life, whether as mother,

    researcher, mechanic, priestwhatever our vocation

    may be.

    Salvation is not understanding the correct theological

    concepts; it is not nostalgia for civilizations past; it is not

    formal membership in a long-standing parish; it is not

    social activism; it is not morally appropriate behavior;

    it is not mastery of the moral vocabulary. Further, it is

    not enough to recall the certainty of the past. Nostalgic

    impulses, as comforting as they may be (including theOrthodox variants, such as the longings for Hellenistic

    Greece or Holy Russia), simply wont meet the challenge.

    Orthodox leadership today requires moral clarity and

    courage. When Solzhenitsyn delivered his address three

    decades ago, he spoke not as a philosopher, but as a

    voice crying in the wilderness. He cried out against the

    dehumanization of men he experienced in the East and

    saw advancing in the West. Only people with moral

    clarity and courage could successfully challenge it, he

    exhorted. What the world needs is not more philosophers,but moralists.

    The exhortation drew from a supreme confidence in

    the power of truth. Solzhenitsyn believed that truth is

    self-verifying. When the truth is spoken, its veracity is

    self-evident to the hearer. This is a profoundly Christian

    notion rooted in the teaching of the apostle Paul: When

    the Gospel is preached, Christ (who is Truth) is revealed.

    Any Orthodox response to the cultural challenge must

    first presume a recovery of the Gospel of Jesus Christ

    The wisdom of the Fathers, the artistry of the poets

    the healings of the miracle workers, the courage of the

    martyrs, the knowledge of the scholars, the patience of

    the teachers, the foresight of the bishops, the faithfulness

    of the priestsall the elements that shaped and forged

    the moral tradition that founded Western civilization

    and must renew it todaystart with the recovery of

    the Gospel. As Jesus said, I am the vine, you are the

    branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears

    much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing

    (John 15:5).

    Rev. Johannes L. Jacobse

    is the president of the

    AMERICAN ORTHODOX

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    is heavily influenced by observing the social exchanges in

    the family, as well as the childs temperament, parentaldiscipline style and personality, and the social context of

    the family.

    Bandura points out the four conditions that must be

    present for effective observational learning to take place:

    1) ATTENTION TO THE MODEL. The amount and

    quality of attention to characteristics of the model such

    as: salience (e.g., attractiveness, competence; prestige,

    similarity to the observer); the affective valence of the

    model, that is to say whether strong or weak emotions

    are aroused by it; its functional value and prevalence

    as well as the attention characteristics of the observer:

    e.g. their perceptual cognitive capability, cognitive set

    (thought patterns) and arousal level at the time.

    2) RETENTION PROCESSES. The encoding processes

    of the observer: their level of or capacity for verbal or

    imagery, cognitive organization, their rehearsal and

    memory skills.

    3) MOTORREPRODUCTIONPROCESSES.The observers

    ability to replicate the models behavior: through physical

    capability and component sub-skills and observation of

    feedback. A child in a wheelchair will not be able to

    reproduce the behavior of a high-jumper.

    4) MOTIVATIONAL PROCESSES. The external, internal,

    hedonistic, social, moral, or religious incentives, or

    compelling reasons, that motivate the observer to

    perform (or avoid) the models behavior. A little girl can

    imagine herself being applauded if she sings like herfavorite pop star.

    A child who observes a parent behaving in a dependable

    way will be learning dependability themselves. In a

    previous paper I noted the importance of behavioral

    pinpointing. Behavioral pinpointing has to be done both

    in informing the child what appropriate behaviors are

    expected and also in reinforcing appropriate behavior

    and helping the child

    to cognitively un-

    derstand the specific

    appropriate behaviors

    to be performed.

    While appearing easy

    the next step:

    pinpointing behavior

    is usually the most

    difficult for parents to

    learn. The definition

    is easy: what is the

    child doing or saying,

    when, and where.

    It is the opposite of

    general descriptions.For example, describing a toddlers eating as good

    is totally useless. Telling a child You were bad today

    is equally meaningless. Words like good, bad, hostile,

    considerate . . . , etc. are all abstract words, meaningless

    for behavioral management. If a teacher reports back

    to you that your son was hostile today. What does this

    mean? It could mean anything from the child using

    some rude word to a classmate, to picking up a basebal

    bat and hitting someone.

    Merely telling a child (or anyone, for that matter) to be

    more dedicated, loyal and or dependable is ineffective

    in communicating and facilitating behavior change. It is

    to fall into the abstraction trap. One aid would be for

    parents to start out pinpointing their own dependable

    behavior. If a parent takes a child to an after school

    activity, instead of merely saying for example, Ill take

    you to baseball practice this afternoon after school,

    they may highlight the consistency and dependability of

    their action when they fulfill it: Johnny, you know when

    Mommy says she will be there at 3:30 to pick you upshe means it, you know she is true to her word; when she

    says something it can be counted on. That is the way all

    of us should try to be.

    PINPOINT LOYALTY, DEDICATION, DEPENDABLE

    BEHAVIOR

    In aiding the child to learn loyalty, dedication and

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    responsibility the child should be informed in

    behaviorally pinpointed terms exactly what is expected

    from him or her. (This is also true for adult interaction

    as well. Poor spouses, managers etc. ask others to

    try harder or be more detailed or care more;

    not realizing these terms are abstractions, having

    many different possible interpretations, and are quite

    ineffective in communicating and facilitating behavior

    change). Certainly, children will have a difficult time

    knowing what a parent means if abstract instructions

    are given, for example, if the child is told to simply be

    more dedicated. A pinpointed instruction delineating

    the specific dedication behavior should be given.

    For example: Johnny, you said you wanted to take up

    martial arts, Mom and I are willing to buy your uniform

    and will commit ourselves to take you to all the practices

    and events. But your responsibility is to be dedicated andresponsible to attend all these practices and to do the

    homework assignments given. This example actually

    comes from a family I treated in counseling several years

    ago. It was so effective the child would often come into the

    family therapy session in his uniform and demonstrate

    his martial arts movements for me. I was happy to point

    out how pleased I was with his dedication and success.

    REINFORCINGTHE PINPOINTED BEHAVIOR

    Once again, in a previous paper I pointed out that when

    rewarding (or punishing) a child one should specify the

    pinpointed behavior and not use abstract, ambiguous

    statements. For example, it is so tempting to praise a

    child by saying Johnny, you were a good boy today;

    or, Sally, Dad and Mom think youre wonderful. An

    effective everyday life example I gave was: All behaviors

    - good and bad - will increase if followed by a reward.

    For example, if a child places their dirty dishes in a sink

    (a good behavior) and the parent responds with Mary,

    I am proud of you for putting dishes in the sink, thebehavior is reinforced and will increase.

    Notice in this example that the behavior of putting the

    dishes in the sink is specified. So too, if a child performs

    a dependable behavior the behavior performed should

    be specified in the social reinforcement given by the

    parent. For example: Johnny, you said you would take

    out the garbage cans immediately after you came home

    from school;you did, great dependable work; Mary

    you told your new friend Sally, you would stick up for

    her when someone teased her at school; I saw you do

    this; that is very loyal of you; Sammy, at the beginning

    of this school year you said if we got you a saxophone

    you would attend and perform all the assigned practices

    Mom and dad are proud of you for keeping your word

    and dedication.

    ACOUPLEOF PERSONAL EXAMPLES

    When I was growing up I lived in the last house on the

    edge of a very rural upstate New York village. When I

    entered high school, I was asked to take care of an elderly

    neighbors horse. This meant getting up in the morning

    way before school, biking to the farm, then giving thehorse fresh water, hay and oats. Many mornings were

    very cold and it was even more difficult on snowy days

    I had to repeat this in the afternoon after school as

    well. Once a week I had to clean the barn and groom

    the horse. I knew a commitment was a commitment. I

    gave my word. I did get a small salary, but even at that

    time the pay was not close to the value of the chore I

    committed to.

    My last two years in high school were dedicated to my

    village church. I was blessed to be chief altar boy as wel

    as sacristan. My daily and weekly duties entailed setting

    out the appropriate vestments for the priest to robe, as

    well as the required sacred vessels and altar fixings. I was

    expected to be available for all church services to fill in if

    one of the other altar boys was missing. (Recall, I lived in

    a very small, isolated village. The parish church was just

    down the block). I had a key to the Church building and

    was expected to make sure it was locked in the evening.

    When I think back, quite a responsibility for a teenager.

    After being graduated from high school, I went off to theseminary for a life of further dedication to Christ and His

    Church.

    DEVELOPMENTAL ASSETS

    Certain external and internal assets facilitate interiorizing

    loyalty, dependability and dedication. Among the major

    (Continued on page 22)

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    REGARDINGTHE CHURCH

    & TRADITION

    WHATARE `OURTRADITIONS?

    THEYAREEVERYTHING

    THATTHE GOD-MAN CHRIST,

    HE HIMSELF,

    ANDBYTHE HOLY SPIRIT, GAVETHE

    COMMANDMENTTOHOLDANDTOLIVE

    ACCORDINGTOTHEN;WHATEVER HEDELIVEREDIN HIS CHURCH,

    INWHICH HEDWELLSCONTINUOUSLYWITH

    HIS HOLY SPIRIT

    (CF. MT. 28:19-29).

    `OURTRADITIONS

    AREOURWHOLELIFEINGRACEIN GOD,

    CHRIST,

    ANDTHE HOLY SPIRIT,

    THELIFEOFUS CHRISTIANS,WHICHBEGANINTHE CHURCHOF CHRIST,

    THROUGHTHE APOSTLES,

    BYTHEDESCENTOFTHE HOLY SPIRIT.

    ALLOFTHISLIFEOFOURSISNOTFROMUS,

    BUTFROMTHE LORD JESUS,

    BYTHEGRACEOFTHE HOLY SPIRIT,

    OR, MOREPRECISELY,

    OURENTIRELIFEISFROMTHE FATHER,

    THROUGHTHE SON, ANDINTHE HOLY

    SPIRIT.

    - Saint Justin Popovich

    WITNESSING LOYALTY(Continued from page 21)

    external factors are: a strong family support andcommunication system whereby youngsters are willing

    and open to listen to parental advice; a caring

    neighborhood, school and church support system

    encouraging and valuing youth involvement; good

    parental, adult and peer models. Internal factors include

    encouraging achievement, a milieu of pro-social values

    [and for the Orthodox Christian family, that would mean

    values that are centered on Christ and His teachings],

    cognitive and social competency and healthy identity

    and self-esteem.

    JESUS TEACHING: THE PARABLEOFTHE SOWER

    The importance of steadfastness, the spiritual term

    that incorporates loyalty, dependability and dedication,

    symbolized by the seed that takes root and comes to

    fruition, was told to us by Jesus Himself, in the Parable

    of the Sower:A sower went out to sow. And as he sowed, some

    seeds fell along the path, and the birds came and devoured them.

    Other seeds fell on rocky ground, where they had not much soil, andimmediately they sprang up, since they had no depth of soil, but

    when the sun rose they were scorched; and since they had no root

    they withered away. Other seeds fell upon thorns, and the thorns

    grew up and choked them. Other seeds fell on good soil and brought

    forth grain, some a hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty. He who

    has ears, let him hear(Mt 13: 3-9).

    Steadfast loyalty and dedication to a task, especially

    spiritual tasks, are succinctly summarized by Jesus as

    recorded by St. Luke (9: 62): No one who puts his

    hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom

    of God. In this regard, it should be noted that many

    commitments that are made involve giving our word

    to others about something about some service we will

    perform. In a recent paper I point out that agape comes

    under the guise of service to others.

    (Continued on page 26)

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    SEPTEMBER/ OCTOBER2011

    2012 PARISH COUNCILELECTION NOTICE

    Elections for the Annunciation Parish Council will

    be held on SUNDAY, DECEMBER 4, 2011. Please note

    that candidates and nominating witnesses must be

    members in good standing with the Parish for atleast one year immediately preceding the date of

    the election and register as candidates in person.

    Those men and women who love the Lord, are

    active in the life of the Annunciation, and have a

    sincere desire to serve Christ and His Church at

    the Annunciation and would like to be a candidate

    for a seat on the Parish Council must register as

    a candidate in person along with a witness by

    SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 20TH, 2011.

    Then, in accordance with the Archdiocesan

    Uniform Parish Regulations, ALLCANDIDATESare

    required to meet with Father Nicholas on Sunday,

    NOVEMBER 20TH for a review of expectations and duties

    of a Parish Council Memberin order to be eligible to

    serve and be placed on the official ballot.

    2012 Halloween Carnival!Our GOYAns are looking forward to hosting

    another fabulous event that will be fun for ALLages! So make sure to find something fun to

    wear and keep

    Sunday,October

    30that 6:00pm...clear!

    See you there!

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    KITCHEN REMINDER!

    Please remember that if any items are usedfrom the Church Kitchen for Fellowship Hour,etc. they need to be cleaned aerwards.

    e washing of dishes, utensils, etc. is notincluded in our agreement with the CleaningService.

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    SANANTONIO

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    Thanksbeto God

    for such

    opportunities!

    WhatdoyoumeantheParishCouncilPresidenthastoleadtheyouthontherollercoaster?

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    walking tour?Y!

    anks KerriI have not beeneating enough...

    ese new Pomuniforms are

    How muchlonger tillthe boys

    graduateGOYA?

    Shhhh...

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    SEPTEMBER/ OCTOBER2011

    With visions ofRummage Salesdancing in his

    head...

    Somebody

    is xin to get a whuppin...

    Who is having fun?And who does belong

    in this picture???

    p p p

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    Looking for CaptainJack Sparrow

    Father,I have this idea for

    new Altar Boy

    vestments...

    Who ordered theFilet O Fish?

    My name is Bond,James Bond................

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    Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

    I love roller coasters

    MORE than NY...

    Seriously???

    Smile,

    I have a plan...

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    WITNESSING LOYALTY(Continued from page 22)

    Service to others is one way to begin a life of love. Serving

    those who are in real need of help is a way of lovingthem; it is an act of love. Did not Jesus tell us: But not

    so with you; rather let the greatest among you become as

    the youngest, and the leader as one who serves (Lk 22:

    26).

    Love as agape is that it is an attitude, a heartfelt intention

    and a set of actions that are aimed at the good and

    welfare of the other in emulation of the selfless, self-

    emptying (kenotic) love Christ Himself had for us. Love

    means having truly beneficent care for the welfare of

    others in thought word and deed. Steadfastness, that is

    to say dependability, is acquiring the spiritual virtue of

    carrying out this love to its completion.

    FORTITUDE, ONEOFTHE CARDINAL VIRTUES

    We remember well St. Pauls reflection on his own life:

    I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race,

    I have kept the faith. (2Tm 4:7). Our holy Spiritual

    Father St. Barsanuphius informs us how a life of prayeris so necessary to accomplish this end:

    Therefore just as gold is fired in a furnace and held by means of

    tongs, being beaten into shape by the hammer and thereby being

    tested and proving acceptable for a royal diadem, so also a person

    who is supported by the prayers of the saints, which is able to and

    indeed accomplish a great deal...

    Parents and their offspring must add their prayers to the

    prayers of the whole church so that all members of the

    domestic church can give witness of loyalty to Christ and

    of dependability and dedication in all their actions.

    Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always

    abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your

    labor is not in vain.

    (1Cor 15: 58)

    UPCOMING EVENTS

    > SEPT. 18TH -YOUTH LUNCH, MEETING & FUN

    > SEPT. 28TH - OCT. 1 - METROPOLISOF DETROIT

    CLERGY/LAITYMEETING

    > OCT. 9TH - LUNCHEON DISCUSSIONWITH FATHER

    > OCT. 15TH - YOUTH SAVETHE DATE

    > OCT. 22ND - RACEFORTHE CURE

    > OCT. 23RD - GODPARENT SUNDAY

    > OCT. 29TH - SET-UPFOR HALLOWEEN CARNIVAL

    > OCT. 30TH - HALLOWEEN CARNIVAL

    > NOV. 13TH - SUNDAYSCHOOL OPEN HOUSE

    > NOV. 20TH - THANKSGIVING LUNCHEON

    What Happens

    You Add

    Homemade

    Cookies

    +

    The

    Philander Smith

    Choir

    +

    Christmas Cheer

    +

    Our Church

    Family?

    The Annunciation

    Christmas Cookie Party

    on December 4th!More details will be announced soon

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    SEPTEMBER/ OCTOBER2011

    S M T W T F S

    5Labor Day

    Church Offices are Closed

    412th Sunday of Matthew

    Matins 9:00am

    Divine Liturgy 10:00am

    1211Sunday Before ElevationMatins 9:00am

    Divine Liturgy 10:00am

    Parish Assembly

    18Sunday After Elevation

    Matins 9:00am

    Divine Liturgy 10:00am

    Youth Lunch & Fun

    251st Sunday of Luke

    Matins 9:00am

    Divine Liturgy 10:00am

    Clergy Meeting in Detroit

    19

    Stewardship Meeting 6:00 pm

    26

    Clergy Meeting in Detroit

    7

    14Elevation of the Cross

    Liturgy 9:30 am

    Orthodox Study Class

    6:00 pm

    21

    28

    Clergy Meeting in Detroit

    6

    Scholarship Foundation Meeting

    6:00 pm

    13

    Parish Council Meeting 6:00 pm

    20

    27

    Clergy Meeting in Detroit

    1

    Church EcclesiasticalNew Year

    8

    Nativity of theTheotokos

    Liturgy 9:30 am

    15

    22

    29

    Metropolis Clergy-Laity

    Meeting in Detroit

    2

    9

    16

    23

    30

    Metropolis Clergy-Laity

    Meeting in Detroit

    1

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    Metropolis Clergy-Lai

    Meeting in Detroit

    ANNUNCIATION GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH1100 NAPA VALLEY DRIVE, LITTLE ROCK, AR 72211REV. DR. NICHOLAS J. VERDARIS, PASTOR

    SEPTEMBER 2011

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    1093rd Sunday of Luke

    Matins 9:00am

    Divine Liturgy 10:00am

    22nd Sunday of Luke

    Matins 9:00am

    Divine Liturgy 10:00am

    17164th Sunday of LukeMatins 9:00am

    Divine Liturgy 10:00am

    236th Sunday of Luke

    Matins 9:00am

    Divine Liturgy 10:00am

    Godparent Sunday

    305th Sunday of Luke

    Matins 9:00am

    Divine Liturgy 10:00am

    Halloween Carnival

    6:00pm

    24

    31

    5

    Orthodox Study Class

    6:00 pm

    12

    19

    Orthodox Study Class

    6:00 pm

    26

    Feast of St. Demetrios

    Liturgy 9:30 am

    2

    Orthodox Study Class

    6:00 pm

    4

    11

    Parish Council Meeting

    6:00 pm

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    Arkansas Race for the

    29Youth Set-Up

    for

    Halloween Carniva

    S M T W T F S

    ANNUNCIATION GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH1100 NAPA VALLEY DRIVE, LITTLE ROCK, AR 72211REV. DR. NICHOLAS J. VERDARIS, PASTOR

    OCTOBER 2011