"WISH! I WOULDN'T HAVE MADE THAT PERSON A FRIEND" (Ref: Al-Furqan, Ayah 28) By Atiya Arshad

7/30/2019 "WISH! I WOULDN'T HAVE MADE THAT PERSON A FRIEND" (Ref: Al-Furqan, Ayah 28) By Atiya Arshad

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[on skype] Session 3 (2013)

Lecture 52 2 (April 23, 2013)


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WHATS OUR GOAL OF LIFE

Have you determined your

goal of life?

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So many people .. So manygoals

Is there anything wrong in it?

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The thing thats wrong is..

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These should be the stepping-stones not the Goal

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THEN WHAT SHOULD WEDECIDE AS A GOAL OFLIFE?

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We dont need to decideon it..

.WHY ?8


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BECAUSE. IT HAS ALREADY BEENDECIDED AND DETERMINED BYOUR CREATOR

Which is ?9


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And I have not created the jinn and the

human except that they should worship Me.Al Quran 51:56 (Az-Zariyat).

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Worshipping Allah - To obey Allahs

commandments and to do a thing that conforms

with His religion just to please Allah.

Anything done without the intention to please

Allah subhanawatala is outside the loop of

Allahs worship.

Al-Quran 6:162 (Al-Anaam)

Does worshiping Allah includes only

Ibadaat like Salah, Zakah, Hajj etc.

(162. Say: "Verily, my Salah, my sacrifice, my living, and my dying are for

Allah, the Lord of all that exists.'')11


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If you are serious and sincere about

achieving your goal then you need to plan

out for that

Lets discuss one very important thing to keep in mind

while you do the planning and that is what this hadeeth

reflects upon:

A man is upon the religion of hisfriend..

(Ibn Adi) Mishkat Masabih 1-552-195 W

HADEETH

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HADEETH

Narrated Abu Hurayrah:

The Prophet ( ) said: A man follows the

religion of his friend; so each one shouldconsider whom he makes his friend.

Sunan Abi Dawud 4833 Hasan (Al-Albani)

(Abi Dawud 4815 thru another hadeeth index)

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HADEETH

Narrated Abu Musa:Allah's Messenger ( ) said, "The example of a

good companion (who sits with you) in comparison

with a bad one, is like that of the musk seller and

the blacksmith's bellows (or furnace); from the firstyou would either buy musk or enjoy its good smell

while the bellows would either burn your clothes or

your house, or you get a bad nasty smell thereof.

Sahih al-Bukhari 2101

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Why is it so very important to

be cautious about making

friends?

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To keep oneself safe from

being among those who willsay this phrase on the day

of judgment .

Which phrase?16


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Ah! woe to me! Would that I hadnever taken such a one as afriend!

Al-Quran 25:28 (Al-Furqan)

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What will be the cause ofregret?

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Al-Quran 25:27-30 (Al-Furqan)

(27. And (remember) the Day when the wrongdoer will bite at his hands, he

will say: "Oh! Would that I had taken a path with the Messenger.'') (28. "Ah!

Woe to me! Would that I had never taken so-and-so as a friend!'') (29. "He

indeed led me astray from the Reminder after it had come to me. And

Shaytan is to man ever a deserter.'') (30. And the Messenger will say: "Omy Lord! Verily, my people deserted this Qur'an.'')

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Conclusion?

What type of friendsone should make

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Al-Quran 25:27-30 (Al-Furqan)

Who helps you follow the

way of Rasool Allah(pbuh)

Who helps you in takingheed from Quran rather

than ignoring it

Who makes you take

guidance from Quran

rather than treating it as

an insignificant thing..

WE MUST LOOK FOR THE FOLLOWING QUALITIES IN A

FRIEND

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While considering the features of a

good or a bad company also keepan eye on self to know

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CAN YOU BE CONSIDERED A

GOOD COMPANY FOR OTHERS

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Must be performed for Allah's sake alone.

They must conform with the religion (method of theMessenger).

(Tafseer ibn Katheer)

The Messenger of Allah said, Whoever performs a

deed that does not conform with our matter (religion),

then it will be rejected.Muslim (Tafseer ibn katheer)

HADEETH

There are two conditions for deeds to be accepted:

"Oh! Would that I had taken a path with the Messenger.''

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The good deeds of the priests and rabbis will not be accepted, even if they are

sincerely for Allah alone, because these deeds do not conform with the method

of the Messenger, who was sent for all mankind. Allah said regarding such

cases,

(And We shall turn to whatever deeds they (disbelievers,

polytheists, sinners) did, and We shall make such deedsas scattered floating particles of dust.) (25:23)

(As for those who disbelieved, their deeds are like a mirage

in a desert. The thirsty one thinks it to be water, until hecomes up to it, he finds it to be nothing.) (24:39)

(Tafseer ibn Katheer)

Example:

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Give some example of the deeds done by Muslims

that are good but does not conform to the way of our

prophet Mohammad (pbuh).

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Doing good deed with Haram income.

Donatio

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Example:

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HADEES-E- QUDSI

On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be

pleased with him), who said that the Messenger ofAllah (PBUH) said: Allah (glorified and exalted be He)

said:

I am so self-sufficient that I am in no need of having

an associate. Thus he who does an action for

someone else's sake as well as Mine will have that

action renounced (rejected) by Me to him whom he

associated with Me.

It was related by Muslim (also by Ibn Majah).

Doing good deed to get admired

(Hidden/minor shirk).

Example:

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Doing good deed to make other feel

obliged by repeated mentioning .

Al-Quran 2:264 (Al-Baqarah)

(264. O you who believe! Do not render in vain your Sadaqah (charity) by

reminders of your generosity or by injury, like him who spends his wealth to be

seen of men, and he does not believe in Allah, nor in the Last Day. His likeness

is the likeness of a smooth rock on which is a little dust; on it falls heavy rain

which leaves it bare. They are not able to do anything with what they have

earned. And Allah does not guide the disbelieving people.)

Example:

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He led me astray from the Reminder after it had come tome

The company influences you in an unfelt way.

You wont feel how it changes you

Example:

You visit to a family for some days where the home

environment is such that everyone is punctual in Salah. You

also feel like praying it if you were not that regular.

While if you visit a family where there is no trend of praying

salah, you also miss the prayers which you were somehow

praying off and on. In such company time of Salah just

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You can easily appreciatethe influence of a company

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Example 1:

Beware of the friends taking you

towards SHIRK AND BIDDAAT.

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Examples:

Takes you

for

amal aat

Shirkiya

symbols

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Example 2:

Has it ever happened that you missed or almostmissed the Salah because of the company of your

certain friends or a friend. (in party, picnic, gup shup,

shopping etc.)

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Al-Quran 20:14 (Ta HA)

Establish worship for My remembrance

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(18. O you who believe! Have Taqwa of Allah and let every person look to

what he has sent forth for tomorrow, and fear Allah. Verily, Allah is All-Aware

of what you do.) (19. And be not like those who forgot Allah, and He causedthem to forget themselves. Those are the rebellious.) (20. Not equal are the

dwellers of the Fire and the dwellers of the Paradise. It is the dwellers of

Paradise that will be successful.)Al-Quran 59:18-20 (Al-Hashr)

Meaning, do not forget the remembrance of Allah, the Exalted, otherwise, He will

make you forget to perform the good deeds that benefit you in your return,

because the recompense is equated with the action. (Tafseer ibn katheer)

(19. And be not like those who forgot Allah, and He caused them to forget

themselves.

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Al-Quran 2:152 (Al-Baqarah)

Therefore remember Me (by praying,glorifying). I will remember you

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(70. And leave alone those who take their religion asplay and amusement, and are deceived by the life of

this world. But remind (them) with it (the Qur'an)

thereby lest a soul should be given up to destruction

for what it has earned.Al-Quran 6:70 (Al-Anaam)

Help your friend if you really care


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Example 3:

Do you want to get

bankrupt becauseof your friend?

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WHO THE

REAL

BANKRUPT 39


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THE REAL BANKRUPT (MUFLIS)

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) asked one group of his

companions, Do you know who the bankrupt person is?

They said, A bankrupt person amongst us is the one who has neither

money nor property.

The Prophet (pbuh) said, The bankrupt person of my nation is he whowould come on the Day of Resurrection with prayer and fast and

Zakah. And at the same time, he would come having abused (or

insulted or offended) this one, and slandered that one, and consumed

the wealth of the other unlawfully, and shed the blood of yet others

and having beaten others. Then any person whom he has wrongedwill be given from his good deeds on that Day. And if his good deeds

are exhausted until he clears the account concerning all of the people

he has oppressed, the sins of those people whom he has wronged will

be thrown unto his account and after that, he will be thrown into the

hellfire. (Muslim)

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See if you say stuff about others

during your gossips when you sit

with your friend which may put thatother person down or which could

be a slander.

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On the Day of judgment

the only currency

available will be ones

deeds.

REMEMBER

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Allah clearly forbids to be in Suspicion with, to

Spy on each other and to Backbite

Al-Quran 49:12 (Al-Hujurat)

(12. O you who believe! Avoid much suspicion; indeed some suspicion

is sin. And spy not, neither backbite one another. Would one of you like

to eat the flesh of his dead brother, you would hate it. And have Taqwa

of Allah. Verily, Allah is the One Who forgives and accepts repentance,

Most Merciful.)

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The problem is not that we dont

know how bad the Backbiting is

but the problem is that most ofus dont know WHAT BACKBITING IS.

Ign Ur slp45

HADEETH


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HADEETH:

Abu Huraira reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be

upon him) as saying: Do you know what is backbiting?They (the Companions) said: Allah and His Messenger

know best. Thereupon he [the Holy Prophet (pbuh)]

said: backbiting implies your talking about your brother

in a manner which he does not like. It was said to him:

What is your opinion about this that if I actually find

(that failing) in my brother which I made a mention of?

He said: If (that failing) is actually found (in him) what

you assert, you in fact backbited him, and if that is not

in him it is a slander (tauhmat).

(Sahih Muslim Book#032, Hadith #6265)

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Narrated Abu Huraira:

The Prophet (pbuh) said, "Beware of suspicion,

for suspicion is the worst of false tales; and do

not look for the others' faults and do not spy,

and do not be jealous of one another, and donot desert (cut your relation with) one another,

and do not hate one another; and O Allah's

worshipers! Be brothers (as Allah has orderedyou!")

Sunan Abu-Dawud Volume 8, Book 73, Number 90

HADEETH:

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Narrated AbuBarzah al-Aslami:The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:

O community of people, who believed bytheir tongue, and belief did not enter

their hearts, do not back-bite Muslims,and do not search for their faults, for ifanyone searches for their faults, Allah

will search for his fault, and if Allahsearches for the fault of anyone, He

disgraces him in his house.

Sunan Abu-Dawud Book 41, Number 4862

HADEETH:

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HADEETH:

Anas bin Malik related that the prophet

Muhammad (pbuh) said: On the night of my

ascent to Heaven [Al-Mairaj], I passed by some

people who were scratching their faces andchest with their nails which were made of

copper. I asked Jibreel, Who are they? and he

replied, These are the people who used to eat

the flesh of other men by attacking their honorand respect.

(Abu-Dawud)

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Allah orders not to laugh at each other and do

not find fault with your own people nor call each

other by (offensive) nicknames

Al-Quran 49:11 (Al-Hujurat)

O you who believe! No people shall laugh at (another) people, it may be that

the (latter) are better than the (former). Nor shall women laugh at other women,

it may be that the (latter) are better than the (former). Do not find fault with

yourself (your own people), nor defame by calling each other by (offensive)

nicknames: Evil is the name of wickedness after faith. And whosoever does not

repent, and then such are indeed wrongdoers.)

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So what do you do when you are in agathering in which some people are

backbiting, slandering, ridiculing,

making fun of others and talkingLaghw (vain talk)?

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Stop them if you canDefend your Muslim

brother or sisterDo not let it

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And the servants of Rahman are those. and when

they pass by what is vain they pass by it with dignity.

Do not join the bad company

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Example 4:

Ab Hurayrah relates that Allah's Messenger

(peace be upon him) said: Whoever believes

in Allah and the Last Day should speak a

good word or remain silent.[ Sahh al-Bukhrand Sahh Muslim ]

HADEETH:

VAIN TALK

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Al-Quran 33:70-71 (Al-Ahzab)

O you who believe! Fear Allah and speak a word that is right. He

will set right for you your deeds and forgive you your sins. And

whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger, he indeed achieves a

great success.

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Example 5:See if your friends company is the reason why

you are spending more (DOINGEXTRAVAGANCE) example: Shopping with her,

desire to have like her or better than her.

or

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Al-Quran 20:131 (TaHa)

(131. And strain not your eyes in longing for the things Wehave given for enjoyment to various groups of them, the

splendor of the life of this world, that We may test them

thereby. But the provision of your Lord is better and more

lasting.)

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Al-Quran 57:20 (Al-Hadeed)

Avoid competition

(20. Know that the life of this world is only play and amusement, pomp and mutual

boasting among you, and rivalry in respect of wealth and children. (It is) like a rain

(Ghayth), thereof the growth is pleasing to the tiller; afterwards it dries up and you see it

turning yellow; then it becomes straw. But in the Hereafter (there is) a severe torment,

and (there is) forgiveness from Allah and (His) pleasure. And the life of this world is only

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(21. Race with one another in hastening towards

forgiveness from your Lord, and Paradise the width

whereof is as the width of the heaven and the earth,

prepared for those who believe in Allah and His

Messengers. That is the grace of Allah which He bestowson whom He is pleased with. And Allah is the Owner of

great bounty.)


Do competitionAllah says:

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Tafseer Ahsan ul

Bayyan

Al-Quran 102:1-2 (Takathur)

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Al-Quran 102:1-2 (Takathur)

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People do not offer salah, learn Islam, give time to their

kids to make them good Muslims just because the time is

being utilized in the job they do to fill the pockets with

extra money. Its not ok unless one can manage the job

while taking care of all the responsibilities one could be

questioned for by Allah.Realize ,Time is Running out. Soon the life will end and

graves will be the resting place.

(May Allah forgive and guide us all. Ameen )

(If the Son of Adam had a valley of gold,

he would desire another like it...)Sahih Bukhari (Tafseer ibn Katheer)

HADEETH

Serious lack of realization in the

society

Example: For actress or a model. We say it applies

For a doctor or a salesperson .. We think it doesnt

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Al-Quran 6:141 (Al-Anam)

And do not act extravagantly

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VERY DELICATE MATTER TO

UNDERSTAND

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Islam is a religion of BalanceAbu Ahwas narrated on the authority of his father: Once I

went to visit the prophet (pbuh) while I was poorly dressed.

He asked me if I had my wealth and I replied that I did. Sohe asked me what kind it was, and I replied that Allah had

blessed me with every kind of wealth. At that he said,

When Allah bestows wealth upon you, the effect of His

grace and favor should be visible upon you.Ahmad and An-Nasai

AHADEETH

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It doesnt mean we can startspending free-handedly

Amr bin Shuayb narrated on the authorityof his father that the prophet (pbuh) said:

When you eat, drink or give charity, let

not EXTRAVAGANCE or Pride be mixedwith it.

Ibn Majah and An-Nasai

HADEETH

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Al-Quran 25:63 and 67 (Al-Furqan)

And the servants of Rahman are those And those who, when they

spend, are neither extravagant nor stingy, but are in a just balance between

them.)

Al-Quran 7:32 (Al-Araaf)

Say: Who has prohibited the embellishment of Allah which He has

brought forth for His servants and the good provisions? Say: These are

for the believers in the life of this world, purely (theirs) on the

resurrection day; Thus We explain the Ayaat in detail for people who

have knowledge.

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HADEETH

Encouragement and incentives

for being simple

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Avoid competition except in two

things:

Narrated Ibn Masud: I heard the Prophet (pbuh) saying,

"There is no envy except in two (means not justified except

in case of two persons): a person whom Allah has given

wealth and he spends it in the right way, and a person

whom Allah has given wisdom (i.e. religious knowledge)

and he gives his decisions accordingly and teaches it to theothers.

Sahih Bukhari Volume 2, Book 24, Number 490

HADEETH

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Example 6:See if the company you sit with is the reason whyyou feel discouraged to dress up the Islamic way.

When you have to start compromising yourselfand your morals for the people you are

surrounded by, its probably time to change thepeople around you

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Example 7:

Friend who tells future and

past reading your palm lines

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Al-Quran 7:188 (Al-Araf)

Allah commanded His Prophet:

who could be more beloved to Allah then prophet . When he

is unaware of the unseen except what Allah has given him the

knowledge of, how can anybody else claim to have the

knowledge of unseen including future and past and how do

people believe on it. May Allah protect us from such an act.

(188. Say : "I possess no power over benefit or harm to myself

except as Allah wills. If I had the knowledge of the Ghayb (Unseen), Ishould have secured for myself an abundance of wealth, and no evil

should have touched me. I am but a warner, and a bringer of glad

tidings unto people who believe.'')

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Say: I do not say to you, I have with me the treasures of Allah, nor

do I know the unseen (Ghayb), nor do I say to you that I am an

angel; I do not follow aught save that which is revealed to me. Say:

Are the blind and the seeing one alike? Do you not then reflect?

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Al-Quran 27:65 (Al-Naml)


Only Allah Knows the

Unseen

Al-Quran 72:26-27 (Al-Jinn)

(59. And with Him are the keys of the Ghayb (all that is hidden), none knows

them but He.

(65. Say: "None in the heavens and the earth knows the Unseen except

Allah, nor can they perceive when they shall be resurrected.'')

(26. "The All-Knower of the Unseen, and He reveals to none His Unseen.'') (27.

Except to a Messenger whom He has chosen, and then He makes a band of

watching guards to march before him and behind him.)

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HADEETH:

Hafzah bint Umar narrated that prophet (pbuh)

said:Whoever goes to a fortune teller to ask about thefuture will not have his prayer accepted for forty nights.

(Muslim)

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Sometimes friend directs you to some fortune


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HADEETH

Abu Bakr Al-Bazzar recorded from `Abdullah, which states,

Whoever came to a soothsayer or a sorcerer and believed in what hesaid, will have disbelieved in what Allah revealed to Muhammad.

This Hadith has an authentic chain of narration and there are other Hadiths which

support it. (Tafser Ibn Kaseer)

Sometimes friend directs you to some fortune

tellers saying he or she is the genuine one.

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Astrologer (on TV, facebook, phone and inMagazines)

Don t acquire the company of:

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A person is a Fraud even if he is giving the

knowledge of unseen using Quran as a tool

in a manner the Quran is not meant for.

These are the tricks and tactics they use.

Al-Quran 72:26-27 (Al-Jinn)

Example: Faal from Quran

Use of Letters from Quran to predict things

Be very cautious

(26. "The All-Knower of the Unseen, and He reveals to none His Unseen.'') (27.

Except to a Messenger whom He has chosen, and then He makes a band of

watching guards to march before him and behind him.)

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Sometimes theytell us of athing which

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Narrated 'Aisha:Some people asked Allah's Apostle about the fore-

tellers He said. ' They are nothing" They said, 'O

Allah's Apostle! Sometimes they tell us of a thing

which turns out to be true." Allah's Apostle said, "AJinn snatches that true word and pours it into the ear

of his friend (the fore-teller) (as one puts something

into a bottle) The foreteller then mixes with that word

one hundred lies.

Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 71, Number 657

HADEETH

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HADEES


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Narrated Abu Huraira:

Allah's Prophet said, "When Allah decrees some order in the heaven, the

angels flutter their wings indicating complete surrender to His saying

which sounds like chains being dragged on rock. And when the state offear disappears, they ask each other, "What has your Lord ordered? They

say that He has said that which is true and just, and He is the Most High,

the Most Great." (34.23). Then the stealthy listeners (devils) hear this

order, and these stealthy listeners are like this, one over the other."

(Sufyan, a sub-narrator demonstrated that by holding his hand upright andseparating the fingers.) A stealthy listener hears a word which he will

convey to that which is below him and the second will convey it to that

which is below him till the last of them will convey it to the wizard or

foreteller. Sometimes a flame (fire) may strike the devil before he can

convey it, and sometimes he may convey it before the flame (fire) strikeshim, whereupon the wizard adds to that word a hundred lies. The people

will then say, 'Didn't he (i.e. magician) tell such-and-such a thing on such-

and-such date?' So that magician is said to have told the truth because of

the Statement which has been heard from the heavens.

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People deserted this Qur'an

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If you want to safe yourself from being in the situation of regretting onmaking certain friends, on the Day of Judgment, recognize the friends

who may help you in taking heed from Quran rather that ignoring it.

One sign of such person is that s/he talks about Allah and His deen

(positively). On the contrary, a person who may take you away from

Quran is the one who tries to avoid the topic of Deen , changes thesubject or leave the sitting for a while till the topic changes, or sits

with interest less face while the Topic of Deen is being discussed.

Also important to see if you yourself fall in that category.

(73. And those who, when they are reminded of the Ayaat of their Lord,

fall not deaf and blind .)

Allah describes the feature of righteous persons:

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the subject of Deen or leave the sitting

for a while till the topic changes.

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.Quran also talks about leaving the

sitting and the changing of the topic

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Al-Quran 6:68-69 (Al-Anam)

[68. And when you see those who engage in false conversation about

Our verses (of the Qur'an) by mocking at them, stay away from themtill they turn to another topic. And if Shaytan causes you to forget, then

after the remembrance, sit not you in the company of those people

who are the wrongdoers.) (69. There is no responsibility for them upon

those who have Taqwa, but (their duty) is to remind them, that they

may (attain) Taqwa.] 86

CommonlyWhat Quran


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You can sit again when

they change the topicof their false

conversation about

Allahs Ayaat (of the

Qur'an .

observed Practice

People leave the

sitting where AllahsAyaat are reminded

and sit again when

the topic of Deen and

Quran is changed to

says:

Sit not in the companyof those who engage in

false conversation

about Allahs Ayaat (of

the Qur'an) by mocking

at them.

People try not to sit inthe company of those

who engage in good

conversation about

Allahs Ayaat (of the

Quran).

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do the exact opposite of What Allah wants . Muslims

must be very careful about the Hypocrisy of Actions (a

very wide spread disease among Muslims).

IndicatorVERY IMPORTANT TO RECOGNIZE

If you are yourself engaged in the

practice of avoiding the talks about

Deen you are neither a good companyfor others nor doing good to yourself.

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Compare and decide

for yourself whom youwant to be friend with

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A Momin or the onewith features like

H ocrites 89 MUNAFIQMOMIN


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Al-Quran 9:71 (At-Taubah) Al-Quran 9:67 (At-Taubah)

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(67. The hypocrites, men and women,

are one from another; they enjoin

evil, and forbid the good, and they

close their hands. They have

forgotten Allah, so He has forgotten

them. Verily, the hypocrites are the

rebellious.)

(71. The believers, men and women, are

supporters of one another; they enjoin

good, and forbid evil; they perform the

Salah, and give the Zakah, and obey

Allah and His Messenger. Allah will have

His mercy on them. Surely, Allah is All-

Mighty, All-Wise.)

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Al-Quran 9:71 (At-Taubah) Al-Quran 9:67 (At-Taubah)

MUNAFIQ

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VERY IMPORTANT..

.Should you not consider

all this for the full time

companion?

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The life partner93


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Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him)

reported: The Prophet (pbuh) said: A woman is

married for four things: for her wealth, for herlineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select

the pious, may you be blessed!.

(Interpretation , Riyad-as-salihin the book of miscellanyArabic/English bookreference : Book 1, Hadith 364 (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

Hadeeth

Example: Normal Musalman

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Dont choose the one who is beautiful

to the world; choose the one who

makes your world beautiful (both the

worlds)

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The way you like is the way

you choose

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Its neverrecommended tobreak the terms with

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But

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Sometimes you need to

distance yourself to see thingsclearly.

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p yTala for forgiveness of our, our

parents and our familys andfriends sins, open or secret,

intentional or unintentional, past,

present or future. And we seek HisMercy for His forgiveness and

release from Hellfire and grant of

J annat ul Firdous.

"WISH! I WOULDN'T HAVE MADE THAT PERSON A FRIEND" (Ref: Al-Furqan, Ayah 28) By Atiya Arshad

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