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Equally Yoked(Equallyoked)- Bible Counseling 101A Better Understanding of Equallyoked for Pastors, Laymen, and Rank-in-file Church

The Bible and science are in unison with each other. You can believe it. The holy scriptures and social science together work in harmony with each other. Gods Word and biology, psychology, sociology. All work together. The Bible provides us the injunctions by which to live. Science, gives us principles by which to better understand complex processes by which life is created, sustained, and progresses. by the Creator.

In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.

Genesis 1:27- Bible Counseling 101

God made man and woman. Both animated with life a just a little differently. Males and females were created in the image of God.

Be perfect, therefore, as your

heavenly Father is perfect. Matthew 5:48 - Bible Counseling 101

Gods creations are perfect. God creates both man and woman as perfect a perfect creation as one.

Be ye not unequally yoked together...

II Corinthians 6:14 - Bible Counseling 101

The Biblical injunction be ye not unequallyoked togetheris for man and womans own good. for what is right.. for the best outcome.

Social IdentityYour Social Identity is your sense of belongingness to a collective of identified important groups such as;

Citizenship: a Nation, Residence: Home, Property: Ownership, deeds, and co-ownership in Real estate, e.g., vacation homes, office buildings, land, and may include motor homes, RVs, cars, boats, planes, etc., Profession: your trade, vocation, skill, craft boards or union, Titles: in clubs, associations, organizations, etc., Education: Credentials, degrees, diplomas, certifications, documentation of schools successfully attended. Socio-economic Class: Amount of money in bank, in stocks and bonds investments, in bank notes and certificates. - Intro to Social Psychology

The World looks at yoking together two fiscal incomes. The World looks at yoking together two physical biologies.

Social IdentitiesCitizenship: U.S. CitizenResidence: New York, NYOwnership: Home is paid for Profession: CounselorEducation: Ph.D. DegreeTitles:Doctor Class: Middle Class Citizenship: U.K. / VisaResidence: New York, NYOwnership: RentingProfession: ManagementEducation: M.B.A.DiplomaTitles:Director Class: Middle Class Example 2- Intro to Social PsychologyExample 1

Both walk in integrity. Both are described by their religious peers as being righteous. A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Mignon McLaughlin When marrying, ask yourself this question: Do you believe that you will be able to converse well with this person into your old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory. Friedrich Nietzsche

Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.

Romans 12:10 - Bible Counseling 101

above your SELVES. the other one ABOVE your self

Your Civil IdentityYour Civil Identity is actually a unique mosaic of your present:

Ancestry, Ethnicity, Political Party, Race, Color, Religion, Disability, Sex, Sexual (Pleasure Preference) Orientation, Marital Status, Family Status, etc. - Bible Counseling 101

The World views you as a physical entity. The World sees you as a physical body. So does your mate. Its part of the facts of life. You are a biological creature. God made you a biopsychosociocultural human being and a lot more. You are human man or woman - the only spiritual being on earth.

Civil Identity - Ethnicity: - Politics: - Religion: - Race: - Color: - Age: - Sex: - Sex preference: - Marital status:- Ethnicity: - Politics: - Religion: - Race: - Color: - Age: - Sex: - Sex preference:- Marital status:- Intro to Social Psychologyde facto (in fact, in reality)personalitypersonality

Equallyoked is social PROgression. It all in how our perfect God sees it. It just may very well be that Unequally yoked is social degression, digression. God grants true equality in creating a couple. ..to couple-up together. An ideal wife is any woman who has an ideal husband. Booth Tarkington

Some Examples:Ethnicity: Euro-American Political Party: RepublicanRace: Anglo, Color: Light Religion: Christian Disability: None Known Age: 21 Sex: Male Preference: Heterosexual Marital Status: Single

Ethnicity: Euro-American Political Party: Republican Race: Anglo, Color: Light Religion: Christian Disability: None Known Age: 21 Sex: FemalePreference: Heterosexual Marital Status: Single

Example 1Example 2- Intro to Social Psychology

Whats the chances that this couple will stay together for life? Whats the odds that this couple will end up in divorce court? Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without. James Dobson

Keep Gods CommandmentsAnd you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength: this is the first commandment.

And the second is like, namely this, You shall love your neighbor as yourself. There is no other commandment greater than these.

Mark 12:30-31- Bible Counseling 101

Do you keep the commandments of God?

Do everything in love.

1 Corinthians 16:14 - Bible Counseling 101

Do everything in love. EVERYTHING. IN LOVE.

In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift....

1 Peter 3:7 - Bible Counseling 101

Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.

Proverbs 3:3- Bible Counseling 101

And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness. Colossians 3:14

- Bible Counseling 101

Personal IdentityYour Personality is just how your capability is manifested in the way you personally: observe, uphold, and promote what is right, such as-

Law abidingness,Morality/ abiding in social mores, and Heartfulness/emotional stability.Your Character is the actual way your seen by your peers as having the capacity of just how you personally and actively: fight against-

Crime/infractions of the law,Immorality/violating social mores, andInfatuation/lust.- Intro to Social Psychologyis the sum of your social identity, civil identity, and family identity

You never cheat on your income taxes. You never cheat on your spouse.

Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning the two shall become one ...

So then, they are no longer two but one... Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate. Matthew 19:4-6 - Bible Counseling 101

For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another I Corinthians 7:3-5

- Bible Counseling 101

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Be ye not unequally yoked II Corinthians 6:14Copyright: 1977 - used by permissionBible Reference: The Laymans Parallel Bible

Jesus died on the cross so no one who believes has to be unequally yoked.for every Catholic, every Christian, every Bible believerBy our Heavenly Father and only because of God, only because of God-we're like other couples. We do not get along perfectly; we do not go without arguments and, as I call them, fights, and heartache and pain and hurting each other. But a marriage is three of us. Barbara Mandrell Proverbs 6:20 The righteous walk in integrity happy are the children who follow them! Proverbs 6:20

The Bible and science are in unison with each other. You can believe it. The holy scriptures and social science together work in harmony with each other. Gods Word and biology, psychology, sociology. All work together. The Bible provides us the injunctions by which to live. Science, gives us principles by which to better understand complex processes by which life is created, sustained, and progresses. by the Creator.God made man and woman. Both animated with life a just a little differently. Males and females were created in the image of God.Gods creations are perfect. God creates both man and woman as perfect a perfect creation as one.The Biblical injunction be ye not unequallyoked togetheris for man and womans own good. for what is right.. for the best outcome.The World looks at yoking together two fiscal incomes. The World looks at yoking together two physical biologies.Both walk in integrity. Both are described by their religious peers as being righteous. A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Mignon McLaughlin When marrying, ask yourself this question: Do you believe that you will be able to converse well with this person into your old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory. Friedrich Nietzsche

above your SELVES. the other one ABOVE your selfThe World views you as a physical entity. The World sees you as a physical body. So does your mate. Its part of the facts of life. You are a biological creature. God made you a biopsychosociocultural human being and a lot more. You are human man or woman - the only spiritual being on earth.Equallyoked is social PROgression. It all in how our perfect God sees it. It just may very well be that Unequally yoked is social degression, digression. God grants true equality in creating a couple. ..to couple-up together. An ideal wife is any woman who has an ideal husband. Booth TarkingtonWhats the chances that this couple will stay together for life? Whats the odds that this couple will end up in divorce court? Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without. James DobsonDo you keep the commandments of God? Do everything in love. EVERYTHING. IN LOVE.You never cheat on your income taxes. You never cheat on your spouse.KEY WORDS:, Unequally Yoked, Equally Yoked, Equallyoked, romance, social mores, mate selection, Equallyokedtarian, Civil Identity, Equallyokedtarianism, true equality, Egalitarian, Psychosocial health care, normalacy, Abnormal Psychology, love, abberations, romance, deviancy, grace, perversions, mercy, Bible counseling 101, Psychopathology, dating, Sociopathology, freedom, violation of social mores, Psychiatric Sociology, premarital, Introduction to Social Psychology, Advanced Sociology Studies, Psychotherapy, Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology, Human EcologyJesus died on the cross so no one who believes has to be unequally yoked.for every Catholic, every Christian, every Bible believerBy our Heavenly Father and only because of God, only because of God-we're like other couples. We do not get along perfectly; we do not go without arguments and, as I call them, fights, and heartache and pain and hurting each other. But a marriage is three of us. Barbara Mandrell Proverbs 6:20 The righteous walk in integrity happy are the children who follow them! Proverbs 6:20