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Equallyoked” Equallyoked” “Coupling Up”… …In a “Hook Up” Culture

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““Equallyoked”Equallyoked”“Coupling Up”… …In a “Hook Up” Culture

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““Equally-yoked” is pronounced..Equally-yoked” is pronounced..• …“Eek quel ee-yoak‘d” and is when a couple -

who recognize, related to, believe in, bonds with, and marries one other purposefully related to the same (or nearly the same) ‘Civil Identity’* - thus are considered in a multi-cultural society, ‘equallyoked’.

• * ‘Civil Identity’ (a Social Psychology term) - describes a mosaic of features concerning an individual’s present: Ethnicity, political party membership, race and color, religious membership, disability/handicap, age group/generation, (proper) sexual orientation, familial status, and marital status.

- Introduction to Social Psychology (Also, ‘Equally Yoked’)

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Social MoresSocial Mores• …a basic rule within a specific cultural group• Obedience to this cultural group’s rule – results

in certain social acceptance• ..the foundation of all community laws within a

culture began with a specific social mores• In order for there to be a continuance of culture

such social mores should be formally observed• Social mores are r/t mental and social wellbeing• Socialization, childrearing, marriage, and mate

selection are founded up social mores.

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“Civil Identity”

* ‘Civil identity’ is a Social Psychology term -describing a collective of features concerning an individual’s present ethnicity, political party membership, race and color, religious membership, disability/handicap, age/generation, (proper) sexual orientation and marital status.2

- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology

See also “Self-Image” to differentiateSee also “Self-Image” to differentiate

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Biopsychosociocultural Model

Biologic

“Civil Identity”

Psychologic Social Culture

Sex

Disability

Color

Race

Disability Ethnicity

FamilialStatus

Belief/CreedSex

Race

Color FOOTNOTEFOOTNOTE:: To a lesser or greater degree - mental disability always coexists with any physical disability and so it is therefore with a mental disability a physical disability or a

biochemical imbalance coexists - affecting/or effecting an individual’s ‘civil identity.’

Social

Religion

Martial Status+sexual pleasure preferences

PoliticalParty

PoliticalParty

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““Equally-yoked”Equally-yoked”The term 'Equally-yoked‘: derived from the words;

• “Equally” - meaning “alike”, in a “balanced” manner, “the same” or to “the same” degree of, etc.,

• “Yoked” - means (Latin, 'to join‘), …fastened around the neck…to join together, …. burdened with.

• History: May have evolved from synonyms, with meanings, such as: Equitably, Fairly, Justly.

Sentence: “They were an ‘equally-yoked’ couple

from families of just ordinary means.”

- Word Meanings - Etymology (Equally yoked)

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““Personal Identity”Personal Identity”• Your ‘Your ‘PersonalityPersonality’ is ’ is

just how your capability just how your capability is manifested in the is manifested in the way you personally: way you personally: observeobserve, , uphold, and uphold, and promotepromote what is right, what is right, such as-such as-

• Law abidingness,Law abidingness,• Morality/Morality/ abiding in abiding in

social moressocial mores, and , and • Heartfulness/emotional Heartfulness/emotional

stability.stability.

• Your ‘Your ‘CharacterCharacter’ is the ’ is the actual way your seen by actual way your seen by your peers as having your peers as having the capacity of just how the capacity of just how you personally and you personally and actively: actively: fight againstfight against--

• Crime/infractions of the Crime/infractions of the law,law,

• Immorality/violating Immorality/violating social mores, andsocial mores, and

• Infatuation/lust.Infatuation/lust.

- Intro to Social Psychology

…is the sum of your social identity, civil identity, family identity and…

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Social MoresSocial Mores:: +| +|--“Equallyoked”

• Good self-esteem• Spiritual maturity

– a high level morality• Social resilience• Stable family values• Quality of relationship• Financial security

“Unequally yoked”

• False self-image• Drug abuse implicated• Immaturity/immorality • Lying/deception• Fun over facts• Destruction of family

lineage-Social Psychology/Self and Identity

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““Be ye not unequally yoked…”Be ye not unequally yoked…” II Corinthians 6:14II Corinthians 6:14

Bible Reference: The Layman’s Parallel Bible

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