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RELATIONSHIP UNIT OBJECTIVES Unit 2: Relationship 33 ENG103_Bai 2_v2.0013106215 At the end of this unit, students will be able to: Use vocabulary relating to the topic (relationships, linking or not linking someone, family, getting together… ) Pronounce strong and weak auxiliaries, sentence stress Make a conversation Develop listening, reading and speaking skills via practical exercises relating to this topic OVERVIEW PRONUNCIATION Strong and weak auxiliaries Sentence stress Making conversation WARMING UP Relationships between people Ways people keep in touch with other GRAMMAR Relative clauses Some special uses of relative pronouns in re strictive clauses VOCABULARY Vocabulary about relationship READING Sending E-Cards Easy ways to keep in touch LISTENING Making conversation Relationships International friendship club WRITING Write a message SPEAKING Making conversation Make a list of tips on How to 1 4 2 5 3 6 KEY 9 8 7 DURATION (12 PERIODS)

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At the end of this unit, students will be able to:

• Use vocabulary relating to the topic (relationships,

linking or not linking someone, family, getting

together… )

• Pronounce strong and weak auxiliaries, sentence

stress

• Make a conversation

• Develop listening, reading and speaking skills via

practical exercises relating to this topic

OVERVIEW

PRONUNCIATION

• Strong and weak auxiliaries

• Sentence stress

• Making conversation

WARMING UP

• Relationships between people

• Ways people keep in touch with

other

GRAMMAR

• Relative clauses

• Some special uses of

relative pronouns in re

strictive clauses

VOCABULARY

Vocabulary about

relationship

READING

• Sending E-Cards

• Easy ways to keep in touch

LISTENING

• Making conversation

• Relationships

• International friendship club

WRITING

Write a message

SPEAKING

• Making conversation

• Make a list of tips on

How to

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5

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KEY987

DURATION (12 PERIODS)

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family father- son teacher-student

friend boss- staff colleagues

A. What are the relationship between those people? Match the word in the boxwith suitable picture below.

B. Choose an action that you often do to keep in touch with other people?

1. 2. 3..

4. 5 6.

1. Sending e-card 2. Send text message

3. Telephone 4. Chat on the internet

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Relative clauses give us more information about the person, animal or thing we are talkingabout. They begin with a relative pronoun like who, whom that, which and whose or a relative adverb like where and when.

We use

• Who or that to talk about people

Example: Is he the man who sold you the tickets?

He’s the lifeguard that saved my life.

• Whose to say that something belongs to someone.

Example: That’s the photographer whose photos I admire.

• That or which to talk about animal or things.

Example: The dogs that work with the police are well trained.

The clock which hangs on my wall is an antique.

• Where to talk about places.

Example: This is the café where I first met him.

• When to talk about time

Example: I moved here when I was five years old.• In American English, whom is not used very often. "Whom" is more formal than "who"

and is very often omitted while speaking:

However, "whom" may not be omitted if preceded by a preposition because the relativepronoun functions as the object of the preposition:

Example: The visitor for whom you were waiting has arrived.

Notes:

Relative pronouns can be left out when they are the object of the relativeclause.

Example: The main circuit board (which/that) you have inside your system is called the motherboard.1. Defining relative clauses

We use defining relative clauses to give essential information about the animal,person or thing we are talking about. Without the information in a defining relativeclauses, the sentence would not make sense. We do not use commas in this typeof clause.Example: He’s the man who/ that lent me this umbrella.There is a hotel that/ which has some rooms under the sea.2. Non- defining relative clauses

We use non-defining relative clauses to give extra information about the person,

A. Relative clauses

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PRACTICE – BÀI TẬP THỰC HÀNH

Match half of the sentence in column A with half of the sentence in column Bto make a complete and meaningful sentence.

animal or thing we are talking about. This information is not essential to the meaningof the sentence. Non-defining relative clauses are separated from the main sentenceby commas.Non-defining relative clauses begin with who (for people), which (for things or ideas),whose (for possession), when (for time) and where (for location). We do not use thatin non-defining relative clauses.Example: Mr. Jones, who teaches at my son’s school, is a member of the drama group.Rembrandt, whose paintings are extremely valuable now, was Dutch.3. Some special uses of relative pronouns in restrictive clauses

that / who

When referring to people, both that and who can be used in informal language. "That"may be used to refer to the characteristics or abilities of an individual or a group ofpeople:Example: He is the kind of person that/who will never let you down.However, when speaking about a particular person in formal language, who is preferred:Example: The old lady who lives next door is a teacher.that / which

There are several cases when that is more appropriate than which:1) After the pronouns "all," "any(thing)," "every(thing)," "few," "little," "many,"

"much," "no(thing)," "none," "some(thing)": Example: The police usually ask for every detail that helps identify the missing person.2) After the noun modified by an adjective in the superlative degree: Example: This is the best resource that I have ever read!

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A B

1. Isn’t he the singer a. who plays the piano really well?

2. I met an actor b. whose father is a famous singer?

3. What’s the name of the writer c. whose classes are always full?

4. Aren’t they the musicians d. whose book was a best – seller last year?

5. She’s the professor e. who has appeared in hundreds of movies.

6. I have never seen a movie f. is one I can recommend.

7. The book that is on my desk g. must be trained very well.

8. The dogs which help the blind h. that contains maps.

9. I can’t tell you anything about the man i. who was a world – famous engineer.

10. Neil Amrstrong and Buzz Aldrich were the men

k. that ends as suddenly as that one.

11. This bridge was built by someone g. who walked on the moon in 1969.

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Complete the sentences with that/ which/ or whereExample: Antarctica is a place ...where.......the temperature is always below freezing.1. I’ve never been to a country................................it gets so cold.

2. That’s the factory......................they make computers.

3. They cooked a meal ....................................was delicious.

4. There are many subjects...........................i want to study.

5. Isn’t that the documentary.....................won an award last month.

6. We want to go back to the museum..........................we saw some very old books.

7. That was the kind of bicycle....................was common about a century ago.

8. We went to the park................................i had played as a child.

Choose the correct answer

Example: That’s the zoo which / where have a lot of penguins.1. Those are the dogs that / who help rescuers find lost climbers.

2. I saw them last month when / where I was in Chicago on business.

3. I know many people who / whose work in the tourist industry.

4. What’s the name of the park which / where you can see wild animal.

5. Van Gogh was a poor artist who / whose paintings are now sold for millions of dollars.

6. That’s the computer which / where I bought last week.

7. He’s a person whose / who work is always done with great care.

8. I’m not the kind of person which / who would be able to run a business.

Join the two sentences. More than one answer may be possible.

Example: That is the journalist. She won an award last year.

→ That is the journalist who won an award last year.

1. That’s the restaurant. They serve excellent seafood there.

→...................................................................................................

2. Is that the library ? There are over half a million books there.

→...................................................................................................

3. We’ve got a really old clock. It was made over a hundred years ago.

→................................................................................................................

4. I met some people. Their next – door neighbor is a famous writer.

→............................................................................................................

5. Iris is the woman. She can make amazing shapes and figures with sand.

→....................................................................................................................

6. Did you visit the museum? It has a huge dinosaur skeleton.

→....................................................................................................

7. It happened earlier that year. I didn’t have my own car then.

→.....................................................................................................

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Choose the correct answer. If no word is needed, choose -.

Example. That’s the dentist..............will always see you in an emergency. A. whose B. which C. who1. It’s a building.........is triangular in shape. A. - B. where C. that2. I can’t find the book............you want. A. where B. - C. whose 3. We stayed in a hotel.............you can have breakfast. A. - B. which. C. where4. There are two people.....advice I always take. A. whose B. who C. that5. Your idea was the one............I liked the best. A. - B. what C. who6. That’s the village..........some people speak an ancient language. A. who B. where C. that

Here is a scale showing closeness and distance in relationships in different contexts.

CLOSER MORE DISTANT

Friendship: best friend good friend friend acquaintanceWork: close colleague colleague/workmateLove/romance: lover steady boy/girlfriend ex-*Marriage: wife/husband/partner ex-*(*) ex- can be used with or without (informally) another word: She’s my ex, (girlfriend, etc.)

Use words with the suffix – mate to rewrite these sentences.

a. This is Jack. He and I share a flat.

b. My granddad still writes to his old friends he was at sea with.

c. We were in the same class together in 1978, weren’t we?

d. She’s not really a friend; she’s just someone I work with.

How many relationships can you find between the people in column A andcolumn B?

Example: John Silver and Lorna Fitt were once colleagues.

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A B

John Silver: owns a language school for business people in Bath. Worked at the SunSchool, Oxford, 1984-5.

Nora Costa: was in UK Olympic swimmingteam in 1982. Was in same class at school asAda Brigg.

Josh Yates: politician, was married to Eve Cobb1973 – 1980. Met Bill Nash a couple of times.

Bill Nash: works every day with John Silver.Shared a flat years ago with Eve Cobb.

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Positive or negative? Write P or N.

a. She was full of resentment. ........................

b. He was very complimentary. ........................

c. She did it behind my back. ........................

d. She can stick up for herself. ........................

e. He was hostile. ........................

f. Things have settled down. ........................

Complete the words in the text with a suitable word in the box below.

sticking tough resented complimentary

inevitably strain hostility

Martin had been a top designer, and his boss had always been very .............1 about his work.It was, therefore, a nasty shock when he was made redundant. Martin .............2 the fact thathe was chosen because he was the youngest, but he was even more shocked by his wife’s.................3. She blamed Martin for not ...................4 up for himself, and this fact, on top ofthe loss of his income, ...................5 put a big ....................6 on their relationship. Theywould need to make some .................7 decisions about the future.

core verb positive negative

like love adore dislike hate

worship idolize can’t stand loathe

respect look up to admire look down on despise

attract turn sb on repel turn sb off

be attracted to fancy

Complete these sentences with the correct form of the word in CAPITALS.

a. He was so .......................... COURAGE

b. He’s very .......................... man. HUMILITY

c. She showed great ........................... BRAVE

d. He’s an .......................... leader. INSPIRATION

e. She has such........................... DIGNIFIED

f. I .......................... him. IDOL

A BAda Brigg: was married to Bill Nash 1981-4. Swam for Britain in 1982 Olympics.

Fred Parks: politician. Knew Ada Briggyears ago, but not very well.

Ana Wood: has lived as a couple (unmar-ried) with Bill Nash for the last five years.

Lorna Fitt: taught at Sun School Oxford1980-7. Lives with Josh Yates.

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Rewrite the sentences starting with the words given. The meaning must staythe same.a. I admired my father. I looked ...........................b. I want to do the same work as him. I want to follow ...........................c. Why did she criticize him? Why did she have ..........................?d. He was dedicated to helping the poor. He dedicated ..........................

e. She inspired me. She was ..........................f. Paula worshipped him. He was ...........................

Complete the sentences with a suitable word in the box.

idealist rebel bully gossip snob

a. He looks down in other people. He’s a ........................

b. She’s always talking about others behind their back. She’s a ........................

c. She’s against anyone in a position of power or authority. She’s a ........................

d. He’s horrible to anyone he sees as smaller or weaker. He’s a ........................

e. She believes everything in the world can be perfect. She’s an ........................

get on well with sb = have a good relationship

do not see eye to eye = often argue/disagree

fall out with sb = have arguments

break up/split up = end the relationship

have an affair with sb = have a sexual relationship, usually secret

make it up = be friends again after a row

The person who typed this book has got some of the phrases and idioms opposite mixed up with one another. Correct them.

a. Jo and Phil don’t get on eye to eye with each other.

b. I fell up with my parents last night. It wasn’t my fault.

c. We had a quarrel but now we’ve made it well.

d. Do you think Jim and Nora are making an affair? I do,

e. I see very well with all my colleagues at work.

f. She should learn to respect her olders.

g. Jo’s attractive, but her mate just turns me up completely.

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Say whether these statements are true or false. Tick (v) the boxes.

Rewrite the sentences using an appropriate form of the word in brackets.

Example: Lily is not Tom’s girlfriend any more. (ex-) Lily is Tom’s ex-girlfriend.a. Jason and I study together and go to the same classes. (-mate)

b. I’m sorry, I dislike Nance intensely. (stand)

c. They live together but they are not married. (partner)

d. She’s had a lot of arguments with her colleagues again. (fall out)

e. I think Richard is in a relationship with his best friend’s wife. (affair)

Change the words underlined to give the sentences the opposite meaning.

Example: I like people who smoke in public places. I hate people who smoke.a. I respect my boss, even though most of my colleagues feel the opposite.b. Maria’s his current girlfriend. He has so many and changes them so often it’s difficult toknow who is who.c. He’s senior to her in terms of length of service, so the promotion is not surprising.d. I loathe people who devote their whole life to working and studying.e. She’s not a particularly special friend of mine.

Which of the people in A take part in the events in B? Discuss in pairs. (Theremay be several answers.)

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T/F

Example: A ‘colleague’ means someone I share a house or a flat with. F

1. ‘An acquaintance of mine’ means ‘someone I work with’.

2. ‘Workmate’ is less formal than ‘colleague’.

3. ‘Husband/wife-to-be’ is often seen in newspapers.

4. ‘Partner’ means someone you are in business with, not someone you live with.

5. ‘To worship’ and ‘to idolise’ can mean ‘to like or love somebody’ very much indeed’.

6. A steady boy/girlfriend is just a casual, occasional relationship.

7. If you fancy someone, you find them attractive.

8. ‘To look up to someone’ is the opposite of ‘to look down on someone’.

9. If you feel repelled by someone, you find them attractive.

10. If you despise someone, you don’t like or respect them at all.

D. Getting together

A B

Boyfriend and girlfriend An appointment

Business associates A blind date

Clients A business meeting

Colleagues A celebration meal

Delegates A conference

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Which of these verbs can you use with the events in B in exercise 1?

Have An appointment

Make An appointment

Go on

Attend

The words in column A are the first halves of common expression used in describing families and relationships. Match words from column A and B tomake the common expressions. Check meaning in a dictionary if necessary.

A B

1. wedding a) family

2. married b) status

3. best c) parent

4. maternity d) ring

5. extended e) couple

6. family f) leave

7. marital g) friend

8. single h) tree

Complete the word groups below.

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E. Family

A B

Ex-classmates A date

Friends A dinner party

Guests A family get-together

Neighbours A housewarming party

Political leaders A school reunion

Relatives A summit meeting

Speaker

Strangers

marital status

a) b)

c)

mar _ _ ed

en _ _ _ ed d _ _ _ _ed

w _ _ _ _eds _ _ _ e

nuclear family

m _ _ _

s _ _ _ (s) b _ _ _ _(s)

f _ _ _ _

relatives by marriage

b _ _ _ _ _

en _ _ _ ed d _ _ _ _ed

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In a full sentence auxiliary verbs are not normally stressed. Often a weakform or a contraction is used. Listen and practice.

When the auxiliary is used for emphasis or stand alone without a main verb,it is never weak. Often it is stressed. Listen and practice.

Listen and practice the dialogues, pronouncing the auxiliaries correctly.

1. Listen to the sentence below. Notice how the most important words are stressed, andwhere the speaker pauses (//).

An Australian woman travelling home from Melbourne // was driving down a narrowroad on dark evening // when she entered a tunnel.

2. Listen to the next sentence and underline the stressed words.

Although a little surprised at this // as she had not noticed a tunnel on that route before// she carried on.

3. Which words do you think will be stressed in this sentence? Listen and check.

But after half an hour of twisting and turning // she ran out of petrol.

4. Practice reading the three sentences together, paying attention to the stress.

Mark the sentences S if they are useful for starting a conversation and E if theyare useful for ending a conversation.a. Nice to meet you. Did you have a comfortable flight?

b. Leave me alone, will you?

c. Hi! What are you doing here?

d. OK, I’ll let you get on.

A. Strong and weak auxiliaries

B. Sentence stress

C. Making conversation

/də/

Do you want to hear it?

John, you’re not listening to me.

/ə/

Are you still going out with your sister tonight?

Of course I do.

I am listening, darling.

I think I am. She hasn’t phoned yet.

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e. Well, I’d better be off.

f. Execuse me, could you help me?

g. Anyway, it’s been nice seeing you again.

h. Sorry to disturb you.

i. Welcome to Canada … is this your first visit here?

j. Right, I’d better get back to work.

Listen and mark the sentences P if they sound polite, C for casual but friendly,and R for rude.

Intonation is important if you want to sound polite. When people are being polite, they generally start high and use a wide range of intonation. When theyare not being polite, they use a narrower range of intonation.

Listen again to exercise C1 and copy the intonation on the recording.

READING 1:

SENDING E-CARDS

Lots of people like to send greeting cards. Many peoplesend cards to family and friends on holidays and

birthdays. They also send thank-you cards, get-well cards,anniversary cards, and graduation cards. In fact, there arecards for almost every event. And when they travel, manypeople send postcards to their family and friends.E-cards are easy and fun

Today, sending cards is easier and more fun than ever. You don’t have to go to a store,buy a card, and send it in the mail. You don’t even have to buy a stamp. Now, you can

send an electronic card right from your computer at home. Electronic cards are fast, easyand inexpensive. Many of them even free. Some have sound, music, and pictures that move.You can type in your own message. You can even send electronic cards and post cards inmany different languages.A popular E-card company

One popular card company is called E-cards. It wasstarted in San Francisco in 1995. Since then,

millions of cards have been sent by E-cards. The ownersof E-cards care about the earth and nature. They givesome of the money they make to groups that help saveendangered animals. They also want their cards to beeducational. Many cards have pictures of endangeredanimals. When you click on the picture of the animal,you can read interesting information about it.The next time you want to say “happy birthday”,“happy new year”, “congratulation,” or “get well” to

someone, try sending an electronic card. Or the next time you are on a vacation, send someone an e-postcard. It’s a fast and fun way to say hello to friends and family whileyou’re away.

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............. 1. Post cards are not very popular.

............. 2. You need a stamp to send an electronic card.

............. 3. People send cards for many occasions.

............. 4. Electronic cards are easy to send and receive.

............. 5. The owners of e-cards believe in helping nature and animals.

educational inexpensive free message graduation

1. Many e-cards don’t cost any money. They are ......................2. You can type your own ...................... in most e-cards.3. It is common to send ...................... cards to people when they finish high school.4. The owners of e-cards want their customers to learn about animals. Their cards are......................5. Electronic cards are fast and ......................

1. If you get something for free, you ......................a. don’t pay for it b. pay a lot for it

2. Which is more educational?a. a history textbook b. a thank-you note

3. Which is an inexpensive gift?a. a new car b. a box of candy

4. Who would you send a graduation card to?a. someone who just got marriedb. someone who just finished high school

5. Which message would you write on a card for your sick friend?a. Get well soon! b. Have a good vacation!

READING 2:

EASY WAYS TO KEEP IN TOUCH

Dear adviser:

Imoved to the United States two years ago for my work. I lovemy job, but I really miss my friends back home in Mexico city.

I feel lonely without them. I see them when I go to Mexico, but Ican’t go very often. I feel like I am not part of their lives anymore.I don’t want to lose touch with them. What should I do?Sad friend

Dear Sad friend:

It is sad to lose touch with your friends. But you don’t have to. There are lots of ways tokeep in touch with them. You just need to make a commitment to do it.

A. Read these statements. If a statement is true, write T one the line. If it isfalse, write F.

B. Complete each sentence with the correct word

B. Choose the correct answer

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.................. 1. There are lots of ways to keep in touch with old friends.

.................. 2. E-mail messages are expensive to send.

.................. 3. Most libraries have computers you can use for free.

.................. 4. With instant messaging, you can only communicate with one person.

.................. 5. You can send text messages and pictures by cell phone.

.................. 6. It is a bad idea to send your friends photos.

.................. 7. You should never send letters in the mail.

.................. 8. Our connections to our friends are important.

1. It is sad to .................. your friends.

2. You should .................. to keep in touch with your friends.

A. Check the statements that the adviser would agree with

B. Complete each sentence with the correct word or phrase

The Internet makes it easy to communi-cate with your friends next door and

around the world. Most of your friendsprobably have email addresses. Make ahabit of e-mailing them at least once aweek. It’s fun and inexpensive. If you don’thave a computer at work or at home, go tothe library. Most libraries have computersyou can use for free. Or find an Internetcafé, where you can enjoy a cup of coffeewhile you write. It only takes a few min-utes to e-mail, and your friends will happyyou did. And you’ll be happy when theywrite back to you!

What about instant message? It’s an-other great way to communicate

with your friends online. With instant mes-saging, youcan ‘talk” tomany friendsat the sametime. Find atime whenall yourfriends canbe online

together. When that happens, you’ll feellike you are really part of the group again.

Remember that “a picture is worth athousand words”. Share photos with

your friends. If you have a digital camera,send picturesto yourfriends overthe Internet.If you don’thave a digitalcamera, youcan alwayssend a photoby regular mail. You can also send textmessage and pictures by cell phone. Butdon’t forget about calling, too. Sometimes,just hearing a friend’s voice will make youfeel better.Don’t wait for the next holiday or specialoccasion to get in touch with your friendsin Mexico. It doesn’t matter whether youe-mail, call, or send a picture or cardthrough the mail. Everyone likes to hearfrom friends. Our connections to one an-other are the most important things in ourlives- don’t lose touch with your friends!

Adviser

hear from make a commitment lonely make a habit of lose touch with

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3. Everyone likes to .................. their friends.

4. Do you feel sad and .................. when your friends are far away?

5. .................. calling your friends once a week.

1. make a habit of do often make a guess

2. promise commitment question

3. lonely happy excited

4. hear from lose touch with get news from

1. Discuss the following questions in small groups.

• When people meet for the first time, what kind of things do they usually talk about?

• Do you ever find it difficult to keep a conversation going in these circumstances? Why?

2. Sean and Fiona are meeting for the first time at the reception desk of a hotel. Listen andtick the topics they talk about from the list below.

• Where Fiona is from

• The purpose of Fiona’s visit

• Details of Fiona’s journey

• How long Fiona will stay at the hotel

• Fiona’s job

• Where Sean is from

• Sean’s job

• Sean’s plans for tomorrow

• The purpose of Sean’s visit

3. Do you notice any difference in the attitude of the two speakers?

4. Listen again and answer the following questions.

a. How does Sean begin the conversation?

b. How many questions does Sean ask Fiona?

c. What kind of answers does Fiona give?

d. How many questions does Fiona ask Sean?

e. What words/phrases tell you that Fiona wants to finish the conversation?

f. Do you think she was rude?

Heather and George are talking about what happened to their classmates from high school.Listen and use the symbols to indicate the relationships.

A↔ B A and B like each other A = B A and B are married

B. Cross out the word or phrase in each group that does not belong

A. Making conversation

B. Relationships

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A→ B A likes B, but B doesn’t like A

A ≠ B A and B are not together anymore

You will hear a student telephoning a university friendly club which helpspromote understanding between students of different nationalities and cultures. The conversation is in two parts.

Now listen and complete the advertisement below. Write no more than two words or

a number for each answer.

Now listen to the second part of the conversation and complete the notes bellows. Write no more than to words or a number for each answer.

C. International friendship club

Frank

Amber

Brian

Cher

Debbie

Elton

1

2

IFC | International Friendship Club

Do you want to meet students from all over the world and make newfriends?

Come and join our friendly club?Membership benefits:Weekly club meetings on (1) ………………………… eveningsRegular (2) ……………………. packed with useful informationFull social programSpecial certificates for (3)………………………… participationMembership Fee:Only (4) £ ……………………. per term (5) £ ……………. per year

Call Daisy or Simon now on 2466

International Friendship Club

TELEPHONE ENQUIRY

Date: 12th May

Name: Maria (6) ……………………………

Nationality: (7) …………………………………….

Address: 47 (8) ……………………………… St, South Ville

Age: (9) ……………………………………….

Studying: MA in (10) ……………………………….

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One way to maintain a conversation is to ask question to find out more. Whatquestions could you ask someone who said these things?

a. I only got here yesterday. c. My name’s Amazon.

b. I’m a teacher. d. We’re just on our way to the cinema.

Example:

Work in pairs. Choose a situation and a relationship from the list.

Situation Relationship

• At an airport • Old friends who haven’t met up for a while

• In a hotel lounge • Acquaintances who meet unexpectedly

• In an office • New work colleagues

• In a café or bar • Complete strangers

• At a tourist attraction • Good friends

Discuss your roles, then act out your conversation. Keep the conversationgoing for at least two minutes.

Preparation: reading and listening

• How to learn a foreign language • How to be sucessful in exams

• How to stay fit • How to dress well

• How to manage your personal finances • How to give up smoking

• How to travel on a low budget • How to find the perfect partner

• How to learn to play a musical instrument • How to maintain relationships

A. Relationships

B. Make a list of tips on How to …

1

2

3

I come from

Malmo.

Oh, really … I’ve

never been there.

What’s it like?

Oh, that’s interesting

… isn’t that Sweden?

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Read what some experts said. Can you guess which words or phrases go in the gaps?

Match the advice below to the topics above.

1. ‘Take every (a) ................... to use the language … speaking to foreigners in chat rooms,whatever and try to (b) ................... the temptation to translate everything word for word.Sometimes it just isn’t possible!’

Silvia, language teacher2. ‘(c) ................... never wear something just because everyone else is wearing it. (d)

..................., wear what you feel comfortable wearing and what looks good on you. Fash-ion is about expressing your own identity.’

Amanda, fashion journalist3. ‘Be (e) ................... not to overdo it. You (f) ................... easily injure yourself (g) ...................

not used to taking exercise.’

Brian, personal trainer4. ‘Of course you should make an (h) ................... be friendly, but at the same time (i)

................... you don’t appear too keen or over-friendly as this can put people off.’

Liza, relationships expert5. ‘(j) ................... by finding the right teacher. It must be someone you like and trust, and who

will give you good advice and encouragement … and above all, allow plenty (k) ...................for practice. Playing well requires time and dedication. There are no short cuts.’

Vladimir, piano teacher

Listen and check. Do you think the advice given is good or not?

Make a list of at least five dos and don’ts for the topic you have chosen. Ask your

teacher for any words or phrases you need.

Useful language

Hope you get well soon.

Have a great trip!

Good luck in your new house.

A. Write a message for each e-card. Use the messages below, or make up your own

Dos

Always remember…

Start by –ing

Take every opportunity to …

Don’ts

Resist the temptation to …

Avoid …

Both

Make sure you (don’t) …

It’s important (not) to …

You should (never) …

You might … if you don’t …

Be careful (not) to …

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Best wishes on your graduation day.

All my love on Valentine’s Day.

Wishing you a very happy birthday.

1. good /will / you / luck / have

→.......................................................................................................

2. in / your / is / happiness / future

→.......................................................................................................

3. will / take / very / you / a / soon / trip

→.......................................................................................................

4. enjoy / you / will / health / good

→.......................................................................................................

5. a / will / you / visit / place / new / soon

→.......................................................................................................

6. news / good / coming / to / is / you / year / this

→.......................................................................................................

7. meet / you / a / will / friend / new

→.......................................................................................................

1 2 3

4 5 6

B. Complete the fortune below by writing the words in the correct order

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WARMNG UP

A.

1. Family 2. colleagues 3. boss- staff

4. friend 5.teacher- student 6. father- son

GRAMMAR

A.

1. b 2. e 3. d 4. a 5. c 6. k

7. f 8. g 9. h 10. l 11. i

B.

1. where 2. where 3. which/ that 4. which/ that

5. which/ that 6. where 7. which/ that 8. where

C.

1. that 2. when 3. who 4. where

5. whose 6. which 7. whose 8. who

D.

1 That’s the restaurants which serve excellent seafood there.

2. Is that the library where there are over half a million books.

3. We’ve got a really old clock which/ that was made over a hundred years ago.

4. I met some people whose next – door neighbor is a famous writer.

5. Iris is the woman who can make amazing shapes and figures with sand.

6. Did you visit the museum that/ which has a huge dinosaur skeleton.

7. It happened earlier that year when I didn’t have my own car.

E.

1. C 2. B 3. C 4. A 5. A 6. B

VOCABULARY

A.

1.

a. This is Jack. He’s my flatmate.

b. My granddad still writes to his old shipmates.

c. We were classmates in 1978, weren’t we?

d. She’s not really a friend, she’s just a workmate.

2.

John Silver and Lorna Fitt were colleagues in 1984-5.

Josh Yates in Eve Cobb’s ex-husband.

Eve Cobb is Josh Yates’ ex-wife.

Eve Cobb is used to be Bill Nash’s flatmate.

Bill Nash and John Silver are colleagues.

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Ada Brigg and Nora Costa were Olympic team- mates.

Ana Wood is Bill Nash’s partner.

Nora Costa and Ada Brigg were classmates.

Bill Nash and Eve Cobb were flatmates.

Bill Nash is Eve Cobb’s ex flatmate.

Fred Parks and Ada Brigg were once acquaintances.

3.a. N b. P c. N d. P e. N f. P

4.1. complimentary 2. resented 3. hostility 4. sticking

5. inevitably 6. strain 7. tough

B.

1.a. courageous b. humble c. bravery

d. inspirational e. dignity f. idolize

2.a. I looked up to my father.

b. I want to follow in his footsteps.

c. Why did she have a go at him?

d. He dedicated himself to helping the poor.

e. She was my inspiration.

f. He was Paula’s idol/hero.

3.a. snob b. gossip c. rebel d. bully e. idealist

C.1.a. Jo and Phil don’t see eye to eye. Or …don’t get on with each other.

b. I fell out with my parents.

c. We had a quarrel but now we’ve made it up.

d. Do you think Jim and Nora are having an affair?

e. I get on very well with my colleagues at work.

f. She should learn to respect her elders.

g. Jo’s attractive, but her mate just turns me off completely.

2.1. F 2. T 3. T 4. F 5. T

6. F 7. T 8. T 9. F 10. T

3. a. Jason and I are classmates.

b. I’m sorry, I can’t stand Nancy.

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c. They are partners.d. She’s fallen out with her colleagues again.e. I think Richard is having an affair with his best friend’s wife.4.a. I despise/look down on my boss …b. Maria’s his ex-girlfriend …c. He’s junior to her …d. I like/ admire/respect people …e. She’s my best friend/ a very close friend of mine.

D.1. An appointment: business associates, clientsA blind date: strangers looking for a partnerA business meeting: business associates, clients, colleaguesA celebration meal: boyfriend and girlfriend, colleagues, friends, guests and relativesA conference: business associates, clients, colleagues, delegates, political leaders, speakersA date: boyfriend and girlfriend, strangers looking for a partnerA dinner party: friends and guestsA family get-together: relativesA housewarming party: friends, guests, neighboursA school reunion: ex-classmates, friendsA summit meeting: delegates, political leaders, speakers

2.Have An appointment, a blind date, a business meeting, a celebration meal, a conference, a date, adinner party, a family get-together, a housewarming party, a school reunion, a summit meetingMake An appointment, a celebration meal, a dateGo on A blind date, a dateAttend A business meeting, a conference, a summit meeting

E.1.1D 2E 3G 4F5A 6H 7B 8C

2.a. single, widowed, engaged, married, divorcedb. mother, father, sister, brotherc. brother-in-law, sister-in-law, father-in-law, mother-in-lawPRONUNCIATIONB.2.Although a little surprised at this // as she had not noticed a tunnel on that route before // she carried on.

3.

But after half an hour of twisting and turning // she ran out of petrol.

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C. 1.1.S 2.E 3.S 4.E 5.E6.S 7.E 8.S 9.S 10.E2.1.P 2.R 3.C 4.C 5.C6.P 7.C 8.P 9.P 10.C

READINGReading 1

A. 1. F 2. F 3. T 4. T 5. T

B. 1. free 2. message 3. graduation 4. educational 5. inexpensive

C. 1. a 2. a 3. b 4. b 5. a

Reading 2A.1, 3, 5, 6B. 1. lose touch with 2. make a commitment 3. hear from4. lonely 5. make a habit of

C.1. make a guess2. question3. lonely4. lose touch with

LISTENING A.2.All ‘Fiona’ times should be ticked3.Sean wants to talk; Fiona doesn’t. Sean is more forthright; Fiona is more tentative4.a. Hi, excuse me, I couldn’t help overhearing …b. Sixc. Short factual sentences, which do not give much information or encourage Sean to ask morequestions

d. None

e. Well, if you’ll excuse me, I have to er …/So, I must be getting on, really. / It’s been nice talk-ing to you.

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C.1.1. Thursday 2. newsletter 3. active 4. 5 5.12

2.6. LANZERAC 7. South African 8. March

9. 22 10. Art History

SPEAKING3.1. How to learn a foreign language

2. How to dress well

3. How to stay fit

4. How to find the perfect partner

5. How to learn to play a musical instrument

a. Opportunity b. Resist c. You should d. Always remember

e. Careful f. Might g. If you’re h. Effort

i. Make sure j. Start k. Of time

WRITINGA. 1. Wishing you a very happy birthday.

2. Best wishes on your graduation day.

3. Hope you get well soon.

4. Good luck in your new house.

5. Have a great trip!

6. All my love on Valentine’s Day.

B. 1. You will have good luck

2. Your happiness is in future

3. You will take a trip very soon

4. You will enjoy good health

5. You will visit a new place soon

6. Good news is coming to you this year

7. You will meet a new friend

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English words Pronunciation Part of Vietnamese equivalents

speech

A

Acquaintance /ə’kweɪn.tənt s/ n Người quen không phải bạn thân

Admire /əd’maɪər / v Ngưỡng mộ

Argue /’ɑːg.juː/ v Tranh cãi

Argument /’ɑːg.jʊ.mənt/ n Sự tranh cãi

B

Blind date n Cuộc gặp giữa hai người khác phái mà chưa biết mặt nhau

Brave /breɪv/ adj Dũng cảm, gan dạ, can đảm

Break up/split up v Chia tay

Bully /’bʊl.i/ n,v Kẻ hay bắt nạt, bắt nạt

Business associate n Đối tác làm ăn

C

Colleague /’kɒl.iːg/ n Bạn đồng nghiệp

Complimentary /,kɒm.plɪˈmen.tər.i/ adj Tán tụng, ca tụng

Conference /ˈkɒn.fər.ənt s/ n Cuộc hội thảo

Conversation /ˌkɒn.vəˈseɪ.ʃən/ n Cuộc hội thoại

Courage /’kʌr.ɪdʒ/ n Dũng khí

Criticize /’krɪt.ɪ.saɪz/ v Phê bình, chỉ trích

D

Current /’kʌr.ənt/ adj Hiện tại

Dedicate /’ded.ɪ.keɪt/ v Cống hiến

Delegate /’del.ɪ.gət/ n Đại biểu, đại diện

Despise /dɪˈspaɪz/ v Xem thường, khinh miệt

Dignify /’dɪg.nɪ.faɪ/ v Đem lại phẩm giá

Dignity /’dɪg.nɪ.ti/ n Lòng tự trọng

G

Gossip /’gɒs.ɪp/ n,v Chuyện tầm phào, ngồi lê đôi mách

H

Have an affair with sb v Ngoại tình

Hostile /’hɒs.taɪl/ adj Không thân thiện

Humble /’hʌm.bl ̩/ adj Khiêm tốn, nhún nhường

Humility /hjuː’mɪl.ɪ.ti/ n Sự khiêm tốn, nhún nhường

I

Idealist /aɪˈdɪə.lɪst/ n Người hay lý tưởng hóa

Idolize /’aɪ.dəl.aɪz/ v Thần tượng hóa, tôn sùng

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Inevitable /ɪˈnev.ɪ.tə.bl ̩/ adj Không thể tránh khỏi, chắc chắn xảy raInspiration /,ɪn.spɪˈreɪ.ʃən/ n Nguồn cảm hứng

L

Loathe /ləʊð/ v Ghét

Look down on v Coi thường

Look up to v Tôn trọng

M

Mate /meɪt/ n Bạn

Maternity leave n Thời gian nghỉ đẻ

P

Partner /’pɑːt.nər/ n Người cộng sự, đối tác, người cùng phe

Politician /,pɒl.ɪˈtɪʃ.ən/ n Chính trị gia

R

Repel /rɪˈpel/ v Gây ra cảm giác khó chịu

Resentment /rɪˈzent.mənt/ n Sự oán giận

Reunion /ˌriːˈjuː.ni.ən/ n Sự sum họp

Row /raʊ/ n Sự cãi nhau

S

Senior /’siː.ni.ər/ adj, n Nhiều tuổi hơn, lâu năm hơn, có thâm niên hơn

Settle down v Làm nguôi, làm dịu

Snob /snɒb/ n Người cảm thấy mình có sở thích, hiểu biết … hơn người khác

Stick up for sb v Bênh, bảo vệ ai

Strain /streɪn/ n Sự căng thẳng

Stranger /ˈstreɪn.dʒər/ n Người lạ

Summit meeting n Cuộc gặp thượng đỉnh

W

Widow /ˈwɪd.əʊ/ n Người đàn bà góa

Worship /’wɜː.ʃɪp/ v,n Tôn sùng, sùng bái

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