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Utah Code Camp Spring 2014

Bressain Dinkelman

yes, you belong here

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who am i?Bressain

Dinkelmanwww.dinkelburt.com@dinkelburt+BressainDinkelman

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DISCLAIMER

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DISCLAIMERI am not a psychologist

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DISCLAIMERUse at your own risk

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why are !

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here?YOU

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impostor syndrome?

What is

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how can i help myself and others?

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AwarenessSpread

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what is impostor

syndrome?

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"[it's] a psychological phenomenon in which people are unable to internalize their accomplishments […] those with the syndrome remain

convinced that they are frauds and do not deserve the success they have achieved"

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FAILUREFAILURE

SUCCESS

SUCCESSSUCCESS SUCCESS

FAILURESUCCESSSUCCESSSUCCESS

SUCCESS

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“i got lucky”

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“i'm not smart”

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“i'm not a good developer”

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“i'm a phony”

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“i don't belong here”

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what's <code> got

to do with it?

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50% social

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what makes usso susceptible?

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impostor syndrome is an

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problem

intellectual field

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we praise & celebrate

intelligent developers!

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“We are looking for a rockstar

front-end developer to

join our team.”

“Come work with a team of AlphaGeeks, Git Ninjas, and

Linux Jedis!”

“…looking for a JavaScript and jQuery guru…”

“Startup Superhero/

Ninja Internship”

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we surround ourselves with

smart people

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open source

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social media

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mindset

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how doesimpostoraffect developers?syndrome

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Afraid tospeak uporshare ideas

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nocontributedesire to

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afraidto apply to

new jobs

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burnoutDue To

Keepingup

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thanks bressain,

now i'm sad

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overcoming impostor

syndrome

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first step:education

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great resourcesJulie Pagano talk

Ruby Rogues podcast

Scott Hanselman post

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Acknowledge Someimportant

truths

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you !

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at evaluating you

SUCK

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impostor syndromemay never

fully go away

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pro crasti

nation

bad tech skills!=

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Create asupport system

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avoidnegative people

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reconnect with

spiritual sideyour

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step away from the

trees

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stop& acknowledgerealsuccess

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learndon't

from Failure

dwell on it

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everything !

experimentis an

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watch theself-deprecating

jokes

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yourare humanintellectual heroes

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measureyourself

againstyourself

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cliché phrase

incoming:

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fake itmake it

’til you

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do the thingsholding you back

That are

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track measurable progress

xx

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help others

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pretty sure i don't have

impostor syndrome

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How Do I

someone hasknow

impostor syndrome?

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regularly

Skills or Experiences

Disclaims orUnderstatestheir

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not willing

for

to take credit

roles in projects

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self-deprecating

humor

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what things can i

actually do to help?

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hacker school user's manual

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No feigning surprise

No “well actually”

No backseat driving

No subtle sexism or other isms

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recognizesuccess

and call out

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give

startpermission to

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don'tthey need

to avoid

be the

Negative Person

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be proactivewhen

offering help

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withGreat Power

great responsibility

comes

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we're all impostors

to some degree(and that’s OK)

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moveburning outForwardwithout

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pleasetalk about

this

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help yourself

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help others

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do i belong

here?

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YES!

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questions?

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• It’s Dangerous to Go Alone: Battling the Invisible Monsters in Tech - Julie Pagano

• http://juliepagano.com/blog/2013/11/02/it-s-dangerous-to-go-alone-battling-the-invisible-monsters-in-tech/

• I’m a Phony. Are You? - Scott Hanselman • http://www.hanselman.com/blog/ImAPhonyAreYou.aspx

• Impostor Syndrome with Tim Chevalier - Ruby Rogues Podcast

• http://rubyrogues.com/107-rr-impostor-syndrome-with-tim-chevalier/

• Impostor syndrome - Geek Feminism Wiki • http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Impostor_syndrome

• Hacker School User’s Manual - Social rules • https://www.hackerschool.com/manual#sec-environment

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