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The LOVE Approach:The LOVE Approach:The Negative Test ClientThe Negative Test ClientAn Introduction to Sexual IntegrityAn Introduction to Sexual Integrity
Carol Angeline R. Perez, LASGuidance CounselorUniversity of Santo Tomas
4 February 2012
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2010 Heartbeat International Annual
Conference, Orlando, Florida
In-Depth Training: Sexual Integrity
Program Implementation
Katy Flood, LAS
Heartbeat Sexual Integrity Program
(SIP) Specialist
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Contents
The Negative Test Client
Sexual Integrity
Application: The LOVE Approach
Source:The Sexual Integrity Implementation Manual.
2007. Heartbeat International, Inc.
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The Negative Test ClientThe Negative Test Client
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How do we attend to a clientHow do we attend to a client
who is NOT PREGNANT?who is NOT PREGNANT?
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What will our response be?
No response.
The client is not pregnant, therefore
she is okay.
The center only caters to pregnant
women in crisis. Since there is bound
to be no crisis, then there is no
need for an intervention.
NOT TRUE!
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What will our response be?
God has brought this particular
client to you for a reason.
You are being given an
opportunity to LOVE.
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Sexual IntegritySexual Integrity
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SEXUAL INTEGRITYSEXUAL INTEGRITY
Expressing your gift ofsexuality
throughout life in a true, excellent,
honest, andpure way.
Protection in childhood, direction in
adolescence, celebration in
adulthood.
Source: Heartbeat International, Inc. (2007).
The Sexual Integrity Implementation Manual
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Gods Blueprint for Sexual Integrity:Gods Blueprint for Sexual Integrity:Gods original plan for life, love, and relationshipsGods original plan for life, love, and relationships
Four Foundational Pillars of Sexual Integrity
1. An understanding of male and femaledifferences and how to have HealthyRelationships.
God created man in His image; in theDivine image He created him; male andfemale, He created them (Genesis 1:27)
2. An understanding ofMarriage.That is why a man leaves his father andmother and clings to his wife, and the two ofthem become one body (Genesis 2:24)
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Gods Blueprint for Sexual Integrity:Gods Blueprint for Sexual Integrity:Gods original plan for life, love, and relationshipsGods original plan for life, love, and relationships
Four Foundational Pillars of Sexual Integrity
3. The gift of life in our bodies is ourFertility.
God blessed them, saying: Be fruitful and
multiply; fill the earth and subdue it(Genesis 1:28a)
4. A focus on Healing and Restoration(Sexual Wholeness).
The man and his wife were both naked, yetthey felt no shame (Genesis 2:25)
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Application: Using theApplication: Using the
LOVE Approach on theLOVE Approach on theNegative Test ClientNegative Test Client
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Important questions to ask a client after a Negative Test:
How do you feel about your negative test?
Your future would have looked really different had
your test been positive, right? How often do you think about your future?
What are her hopes, dreams, goals, for herself, her children,
and her relationships?
Build a relationship with her, show her you care.
If you are able to meet the clients need, the more likely
that she will come back for another session.
The LOVE Approach: Listen & Learn
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How can she achieve her hopes, dreams,
and goals?
Are her present actions (sexual activity)
helping her to achieve these hopes,dreams, and goals, or could they be
hindering her?
What could she do differently?
A new path, approach, or lifestyle
The LOVE Approach: Open Options
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Share the true meaning of sexuality, and the
message of Sexual Integrity and Sexual
Wholeness.
Sexual integrity can be embraced byeveryone.
The LOVE Approach: Vision & Value
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Let the client know that she is welcome to visit
you again for further talks and sharings,
consultation, encouragement and support.
Conduct follow-up on the client.
The LOVE Approach: Extend & Enable
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Some of the benefits of introducing Sexual
Integrity to the Negative Test Client (NTC):
The NTC will choose healthier
relationships and will strengthen her
current or future marriage relationships.
Women will be empowered to respect their
bodies, thus making better choices.
The NTC will be empowered and educated
to make healthier choices with her body,
reducing sexual activity outside of
marriage.
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The Call & The Challenge...The Call & The Challenge...
We should all be extremelyWe should all be extremely
proud of the work that hasproud of the work that has
gone on in pregnancy resourcegone on in pregnancy resourcecenterscenters. It is time to expand the. It is time to expand the
work even more.work even more.
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Thank you!Thank you!
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