Title: The Landmines of Believer Daanc Giduc Mienh Nyei Ga’naaiv-mbeux

Text: Ephesians 4:26-32 E^fe^so 4:26-32

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26 Se gorngv “Meih mbuo qiex jiez, maiv dungx qiex jiez daaih baamz zuiz.” Yaac maiv dungx ziangh hnoi qiex jiez taux mba'hnoi ndortv. 27 Yaac maiv dungx bun mienv nyei hungh maaih qangx bieqc.

28 Zinh ndaangc zoux zaqc nimc

ga'naaiv wuov deix oix zuqc

guangc, maiv dungx aengx nimc.

Daaux nzuonx oix zuqc longc ganh

nyei buoz zoux maaih lamh longc

nyei gong yungz ganh nyei maengc

yaac nzie mienh jomc mienh.

29 Maiv dungx bun meih nyei nzuih gorngv cuotv maiv benx nyei waac. Oix zuqc gorngv haih tengx mienh nyei waac hnangv, dongh haih ceix mienh puix ninh mbuo qiemx zuqc weic bun muangx nyei mienh duqv longx. 30 Yaac maiv dungx bun Tin-Hungh nyei Singx Lingh nzauh. Tin-Hungh bun Singx Lingh meih mbuo, hnangv nqaapv jienv yienx nor, zuov Tin-Hungh oix zuoqc meih mbuo nzuonx nyei hnoi-nyieqc taux.

31 Oix zuqc guangc im nyei hnyouv, maiv dungx nouz mienh, maiv dungx qiex jiez, maiv dungx nauc-nauc nyei nzaeng jaax,

maiv dungx gorngv doqc mienh. Yaac oix zuqc guangc nzengc nyungc-nyungc nzorng mienh nyei sic. 32 Daaux nzuonx, laanh oix zuqc zoux longx bun laanh, laanh korh

lienh laanh, yaac oix zuqc guangc laanh zoux dorngc laanh nyei sic hnangv Tin-Hungh longc Giduc guangc meih mbuo nyei zuiz wuov nor.

Introduction: Daanc Giduc Mienh nyei ga’naaiv-mbeux se dongh haaix nyungc? Daanc Giduc Mienh nyei ga’naaiv-mbeux se dongh maiv guangc zuiz nyei jauv. Mbuo yietc zungv yaac zuqc mienh zoux mun jiex yiem mbuo nyei maengc nyei. Caux yaac mangc daaih maiv maaih ziangh hoc bun mbuo haih guangc duqv bun mienh dongh ninh mbuo zoux mun mbuo nyei jauv. Mv baac mbuo benx Giduc Mienh, heuc mbuo oix zuqc guangc bun ninh mbuo hnangv Tin-Hungh longc Giduc guangc mbuo nyei zuiz nor.

What is the Landmine of believer? The landmine of believer is unforgiveness. We have all been hurt by people in our lives. And at times, it may seem impossible to forgive them for the pain they caused. But as Christians, we are called to forgive them as God forgave us through Christ.

I. Guangc Zuiz Nyei Jauv. The Nature of Forgiveness

1. Zien guangc zuiz nyei jauv se mbuo laengz bun mbuo “maaih leiz duqv zipv nyei jauv” laengz nyiemc suei bun dongh zoux dorngc mbuo wuov daaih mienh, bun Tin-Hungh tengx mbuo liuc leiz. Gan Giduc nyei Mienh maiv horpc zuqc jaauv win bun zoux dorngc mbuo fai caux mbuo doix-dekc nyei mienh.

True forgiveness is about giving up all “rights” to retaliate against the person who has wronged you, and letting God handle it. Followers of Jesus Christ should not try to make people pay for the wrong that has been done against them.

2. Haaix zanc mbuo siou jienv guangc zuiz nyei jauv, naaic se

Zuiz aqv. Maiv guangc mienh nyei zuiz nyei jauv se benx

mbuo baac baac ginv ndiev mun, qiex jiez mienh nyei jauv,

se benx mbuo ginv maiv oix longc gorx-youz hmien. Naaiv

se benx mbuo simv, maiv nyiemc ziepc nzaangc jaax, dongh

ciev ziec weic mbuo nyei zuiz caux mbuo zoux dorngc nyei

sic nyei jauv.

When we withhold forgiveness, it’s a sin. Unforgiveness

is a willful choice to hold on to hurt, anger, and hostility. In

essence, we are denying the Cross, which was the ultimate

sacrifice for all sin and wrongdoing.

II. God’s Standard for Forgiveness

1. Yiem Ziouv nyei daux gaux waac, Yesu biux mengh bun mbuo hiuv guangc zuiz nyei jauv ndongc haaix longc jienv(Matv^taai 6:14-15) In the Lord’s Prayer, Jesus showed us theimportance of forgiving (Matthew 6:14-15).

2. Wuov zanc Yesu mbuox Bide ninh oix zuqc guangc 70 nzunc nyei siec nzunc, ninh maiv zeiz gorngv zaqc kungx guangc 490 nzunc hnangv, haiv dauh dorngc mbuo nor. Yesu gorngv, eix-leiz se mbuo maiv horpc zuqc taux fai funx jienv mangc gaax haaix dauh dorngc mbuo mbuoqc ziex nzunc (Matv^taai 18:21-22). When Jesus told Peter he should forgive

70 times seven, He didn’t literally mean

we should only forgive someone 490 times. Jesus was

saying we should not even keep counting or

remember it (Matthew 18:21-22).

3. Zangc Diex oix siemv dongh mienh haaix dauh maiv maaih hnyouv guangc mienh zoux dorngc ninh mbuo wuov deix mienh nyei zuiz (Matv^taai 18:22-35)

The Father will deal strictly with those who do not show forgiveness to those who wrong them (Matthew 18:22-35).

III. The Effects of Unforgiveness1. Caux doic nyei jauv – Se gorngv maaih haaix

nyungc zoux zuqc im mingh yaac mv maaih guangc zuiz bun doic nyei jauv nor, maanc-maanc ziouc maiv maaih mienh oix daaih fatv mbuo nyei ga’hlen aqv.

Relationships – The bitterness caused by

unforgiveness will result in others not

wanting to be around us.

2. Wangc-siangx nyei jauv – Hnyouv im caux qiex jiez mienh nyei jauv haih zoux bun mienh nyei nziaamv hlang, baac baac zoux caux kuonx hnyouv nyei sic yiem mbuo nyei maengc. Naaiv maiv zeiz kungx bun taux mbuo nyei m’nqorngv-famv nyei jauv maiv wangc hnangv, lienh mbuo nyei sin zangc yaac fih hnangv nyei.

Health – Bitterness and resentment will lead to increased blood pressure, tension and stress in our lives. It will not only impact our mental health, but our physical health as well.

3. Lingh wuonh nyei maengc caux nitv fatv

Tin-Hungh nyei jauv – Im nyei hnyouv

caux qiex jiez nyei jauv haih torngv zuqc

mbuo daux gaux nyei jauv, mbuo baaix

ceng, caux mbuo longc ziangh hoc doqc

Ging-Sou.

Spiritual life and relationship with God –

Bitterness and anger hinder our prayers,

our worship, and our time spent in the

Word.

VI. Overcoming Unforgiveness1. Lengz nyiemc gorngv maiv maaih guangc zuiz

nyei fiem-fingx. Acknowledge that you have an unforgiving spirit.

2. Jangx taux dongh meih maiv guangc zuiz bun wuov dauh mienh. Identify the person you haven’t forgiven.

3. Laengz nyiemc meih maiv guangc zuiz nyei

jauv bun Tin-Hungh yaac zorqv guangc mingh.

Surrender your unforgiveness to God and put it

aside.

4. Weic Tin-Hungh tengx nyei jauv, meih haih

guangc duqv nyungc-nyungc zoux dorngc meih

nyei sic. With God’s help, you can forgive any

wrong that may have been done to you.

Conclusion: Maiv guangc zuiz nyei jauv se haih benx Daanc mienh nyei ga’naaiv-mbeux yiem jienv mbuo nyei maengc, se gorngv mbuo maiv bun Tin-Hungh tengx mbuo liuc leiz zoux dorngc mbuo nyei sic. Mbuo oix zuqc gengh zien nyei guangc dongh mienh zoux dorngc mbuo nyei, zorqv an jienv bun Tin-Hungh, maiv haaix nyungc sic yaac zeiz. Unforgiveness can be a lethal landmine in our lives if we don’t allow God to take care of the wrongs that are done to us. We must be sure to forgive those who wrong us and leave the rest to God, no matter what the situation.