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TORCH TRADITIONS

6 Rushing 5 What Beta Sigma Phi Means to Me 4 Conventions, New Chapters, Friendly Ventures 24 Chatter 30 Gift Selections

FEATURE STORIES 8 Lighting Up The Sky Texas Xi Omicron Omicron, Kerrville members help save Christmas for their fellow residents.

10 Tis the Season A season filled with an abundance of love and giving.

17 Ally’s House The story of a precious little girl from Oklahoma, and how her courageous battle sparked a country superstar’s crusade to help others in her name.

21 The Art of Having Fun A Georgia chapter finds the artist within.

22 Chapter Spotlight Spotlight on... Arkansas Xi Alpha Nu, Eureka Springs.

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New FriendlyVenture Chapters

California Delta Xi Zeta, Valley Springs By: Mary Evans and Xi Psi AlphaFlorida Alpha Delta Omicron, Lake Wales By: Ann Kightley and Gamma Mu MasterIllinois Alpha Omega, Havana By: Melanie BleemLouisiana Lambda Kappa, Breaux Bridge By: Brenda HobbsManitoba Alpha Kappa, Swan River By: Lori AtkinsonNew Mexico Alpha Omega, Albuquerque By: Deborah Giannelli and Beta PsiPennsylvania Nu Kappa, Quakertown By: Karen Asplen and Beta Beta MasterTexas Beta Lambda Psi, Sunray By: Leona Satterfield and Beta Delta SigmaWashington Theta Omega, Spokane By: Deanna Bunch and Devin Conger-NovakWyoming Gamma Alpha, Laramie By: Holly Herring

Welcome TheseNew Chapters

Alberta Gamma Rho, AthabascaCalifornia Laureate Lambda Beta, Whittier

Florida Xi Xi Sigma, MelbourneIllinois Beta Theta Master, GolcondaIowa Laureate Gamma Tau, Waverly

Kansas Alpha Nu Master, TopekaNebraska Xi Delta Eta, OmahaOhio Beta Xi Master, Canton

Ontario Laureate Epsilon Sigma, TweedTexas Epsilon Pi, Houston

“I could write a book about my life in Beta Sigma Phi and what it has meant to me, my family and my friends. My introduction to Beta Sigma Phi was in 1953 in Yakima, Washington. This was through an Interna-tional city wide rush. What a thrilling expe-rience for me, a newcomer to the town and looking for friendship. I certainly found it in Beta Sigma Phi. I attended my first conven-tion held in Yakima the next year and hus-band, Corky, volunteered to make sure that International’s Bill Ross was well taken care of. Well, this he did admirably. As one sales-man to another, Bill was selling Beta Sigma Phi and Corky was selling SPAM!

The following year I attended the convention in Vancouver, British Columbia. That was a most impressive affair, with the Royal Canadian Mounted Police as our escorts wherever we wanted to go.

The privilege of transfer has been espe-cially beneficial to me, having lived in three states during my 55 years in Beta Sigma Phi. Where did the time go? When you are a Beta Sigma Phi, you are never alone!

Our age group is now 75-plus and we still meet twice a month in the member’s homes – luncheon meetings of course, and we still sing and dance every chance we get. We are a big hit at the nursing homes! That is how we stay so young. We are looking forward with great expectations to the next years, when we will be carrying the Torch forever forward, with some of us walking, some of us in wheel chairs, some of us on crutches and maybe some not at all. But wherever we are

and whatever we are doing, you will know that Laureate Alpha Zeta will be there. As we start another year in our journey of sister-hood, let us pause and join hands with those near to us, join hearts with those who are far away for in Beta Sigma Phi, we are ONE. I will forever cherish the memory of how Beta Sigma Phi has touched my life with warmth and beauty, never to be forgotten.”

What Beta Sigma Phi Means to Me by: Alice M. Vant Hof Arizona Laureate Alpha Zeta, Scottsdale


Rushing


The Alpha Gamma Eta chapter in Titus-ville, Florida is one active chapter. They are seriously sincere sisters who attack projects with the force of gale winds, a weather pattern not unknown to their state. Their main objective is simply stated - make their fundraising fun!

The chapter voted to use the award money from a prize-winning Christmas float to sponsor a Casino Walk - Poker Night event. The walk was designed with ‘play’ stations along the way, staffed by the sorority sisters. Each par-ticipant received a copy of the course, a bottle of water, and a visor for their efforts. At each station, participants received a poker chip, which was then traded at the end of the walk for playing cards that hope-fully would be the best poker hand. The walk brought in more than $700 to add to an accumu-late total.

A Texas hold-em tournament was then held and proved to be a big hit with a lot of prizes avail-able to the winners. The prizes included a week-

end at a popular casino, an air boat ride for two, two tickets to the local playhouse and free rounds of golf. “We were very successful in obtaining prize donations from both local and distant mer-chants,” says Alpha Gamma Eta member Pau-lette Nevin.

Other fun games to spice up the event included Bingo and black jack. In the end, after all expens-es were paid, a check for more than $4,000 was presented to research heart disease in women.

New York, Preceptor Beta Psi, Clifton ParkThis chapter is always busy ac-complishing something, whether it’s road clean up, donations to the local pet shelter, or the mul-tiple sclerosis (MS) walk. “Our MS team name was ‘Beta Bud-dies’, because it consisted of so-rority sisters, family and friends,” writes Preceptor Beta Psi mem-ber Loretta Parsons. “We were honored to be named one of the top 50 teams from all of upstate New York. We are a fun group to visit if you are ever in New York.”

Florida Alpha Gamma Eta, Titusville members


“It has been a rough couple of years with soror-ity in our area. We thought we had a great thing going when we had a large chapter, then all of a sudden membership started dropping.

Many years ago when I first came to the Mat-Su Valley, we had a career chapter. It was a small chapter and growth was hard to come by. It seemed every time we gained a new member some-one else would take a leave. Everyone became burned out and so the chapter folded. I realize now that we were labeled a career chapter but carried the work load and all the committees of a traditional chapter.

In 2008, my current chapter reached a point where the interest was low and because we always seemed to have the same worker bees again and again, burnout was inevitable.

So a group of six members decided it might be a good time to try forming another career chapter. We didn’t let negative thoughts and talk about the new chapter failing like the last one get to us, nor did we listen to those who were opposed to changes deter us from going forward to our goal.

We managed to acquire fifteen women for the new chapter, Xi Psi. Twelve of these women were Beta Sigma Phi members holding various membership status, plus three new pledges. It was decided this chapter would truly follow the career chapter for-mat and enjoy more fun, friendship, and fulfillment than work.

As we continue to deepen our friendship bonds, it is truly wonderful to hear laughter and enjoy a meeting or social in the good company of my sorority sisters. Laughter can pass the time and be great medicine in the process of getting to know each other all over again when days are short and cold.

When we started this goal we never dreamed we would have so many sisters wanting to return to Beta Sigma Phi. While we are excited with our accomplishments so far we are hoping that other chapters will look at this in a positive manner and realize that even though change is hard, sometimes it is necessary. After all we love all our sisters and what Beta Sigma Phi stands for Life, Learning, and Friendship.” Sincerely, Lucretia

Alaska Xi Psi, Wasilla member Lucretia Ponder wrote to International to share the following. We hope it will inspire you when you plan your next rushing event.

What made this new action successful? It was time for a change, one that most everyone recognized.

Once International was contacted, the members main focus was on members at large. Word began to spread, and sisters no one had heard from in a long time were requesting to be notified. The common refrain from these at large members was they sorely missed the companionship but not the overwhelming commit-ments.

The first meeting was a potluck dinner, then on to the business of establishing a new career chapter. Everyone that attended the sup-per made a commitment. This was definitely a sign that change was needed. The second meeting was scheduled and the total ten required to receive a charter to start a chapter was reached. By the third meeting there were up to fifteen committed members and still growing. Twelve of these women were members at large.

Saying Farewell to 2009





Texas Xi Alpha Gam-ma Zeta, Baytown rang in the holiday season and the new year with a Legacy brunch, present-ing several young ladies with a day they will never forget. The chapter, which boasts an amazing 26 members, had a great reason to celebrate. The chapter’s Legacy count is up to 36!

Every member was up for honoring these precious future Beta Sigma Phis, but one detail was left. A place that would accom-modate 30 girls and their sponsors and still maintain the ambience needed for such a day. Member Ronda Green graciously offered up her spacious, gorgeous home and everyone agreed this was indeed a perfect fit.

“All guests were bedazzled when we walked in the door,” says Xi Alpha Gamma Zeta member Lisa Salom. “The sparkling Christ-mas decorations, lush greenery, heavenly fra-grances and mouthwatering food spread had heads reeling.”

The afternoon set the standard for an exqui-site Beta Sigma Phi holiday party, beginning with a beautiful poem about sisterhood, fol-lowed by the Beta Sigma Phi grace. Next on the agenda came the Legacy Ritual, or-ganized by Xi Alpha Gamma Zeta member Dolly Lundy. Fourteen new Legacies were thrilled to be involved in this rite of passage.

“The Legacy Ritual was very touching, when the recipients, bathed in candlelight, were

each given a necklace and yellow rose. It was a very touching ceremony and there were many smiles and tears in the room,” says Lisa. “The girls each brought gifts for an ornament exchange. Each girl was assigned a number. As their turn came, they were allowed to either open the gift marked with the same number or “steal” an opened ornament from another member,” says Lisa. “It was a bit rowdy at times but everyone went home with a beautiful ornament to decorate their Christ-mas tree.”

Yes, there was magic in the air. The glori-ous luncheon, the honoring of Beta Sigma Phi traditions, a fun and animated ornament exchange. How could one possibly top this glorious afternoon? The answer is, of course, where there are Beta Sigma Phis there is always a way.

So just as the last bite of dessert was being tasted and the last ornament exchanged,

Beta Sigma Phi Legacy Christmas Brunch

Texas Xi Alpha Gamma Zeta, Baytown members






bells started ringing outside. A surprise visitor had arrived. None other than Santa, there to share his Christmas spirit and ask for support for his Toys for Central America program. Santa’s Helper was Robert Schwa-ger, known for his travels to Central America every year where he distributes toys to thou-sands of children in Honduras, Belize and Guatemala.

Every dollar donated buys one toy for a child. His request was granted, and $350 was quickly collected at the brunch so 350 children will have toys for Christ-mas, thanks to the Beta Sigma Phi Legacies. This was the sec-ond service project of the day, the first being the donation from each guest to a food pantry at the local Methodist church.

Pictures were then made with Santa and he got to hear every-

one’s Christmas wishes, and an amazing time was had by all who attended.

Lisa presented the Story of Christmas and a moving advent service. Most importantly, guests were reminded of the real reason for the season and were left with a sense of won-der as the story ended.

Beta Sigma Phi Legacy Christmas Brunch


Tis The SeasonThe holiday season is upon us once again and we are able to spend time with our loved ones amongst an abundance of food, gifts and well wishes. This season is so much about family, and our sisters look out for families in need or those individuals who have no one. Christmastime is for reaching out to others and every year chapters all over the world give a hand to those less fortunate. But in sorority, the spirit of giving does not diminish when the holiday season is over - our caring sisters continue their good works throughout the year.

In this season of goodwill to all, Victo-ria Laureate Delta, Dandenong, Aus-tralia thought it was the perfect time to go on an Interfaith Tour covering many faiths, one people. Interfaith Tours rep-resent those with a commitment to seek to live together in peace, with respect and tolerance for the integrity of each other’s beliefs. “We visited a Sikh Tem-ple, Islamic Mosque, Anglican Church and Buddhist Temple,” writes Laureate Delta member Sylvia Amey. “We were welcomed into the different places to worship and had their various beliefs explained to us in a very open manner.”

Members of Oklahoma Preceptor Gamma Epsilon, Checotah had a busy fall with a fashion show, a “Green Exchange,” and a Christmas party meeting. During the fash-ion show, members modeled fall and winter styles. “Later in the month, members each brought three items they no longer used to exchange with others,” Preceptor Gamma Epsilon member Laura Eddy tells the Torch. “The girls were pleased with the recycled items they chose and all the leftover items were donated to a local mission.” During their chapter Christmas celebration, mem-bers exchanged gifts with Secret Sisters, and everyone took home a Christmas treat or decorative item.


Tis The SeasonPennsylvania Preceptor Beta Phi, Union-town held their annual Christmas party at the home of member Mary Lou Harvey, where the joyous celebration included exchanging gifts. And a surprise guest ap-peared – Santa himself! “The sisters were really shocked when Santa called them each by name and knew them personally,” says Preceptor Beta Phi member Mary Lou Har-vey. Turns out Santa’s day job is as a plumb-er who most of the sisters know!

Illinois Xi Eta Chi, Morton members had a workshop night at sister Anna Wesner’s home to make Christmas stockings for the soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan. In addi-tion to making 122 stockings, 10 which were done in fleece with sports team insignia, the

chapter donated cash for personal care items and candy to fill the stockings. The workshop had separate activity centers for cutting, sewing and ironing, which the hus-bands lovingly joked resembled a sweatshop.

Christmas is a magical time to think about the spirit of the season, and for those who have so little. With that in mind, for 24 years the Akron, Ohio City Council has donated to the local children’s hospital holiday tree festi-val. Each year the beautifully decorated trees or wreaths have sold on the first day during the silent auction. More

than 1,400 people volunteer their time to the Tree Festival annually.

The Children’s Learning Center is located in Ventura, California and was founded by a local Beta Sigma Phi member. The

center is a safe place where children who have suffered from abuse can begin to heal and rebuild their lives. “Like a lot of organizations they need help for the extras. The Ventura, California Area City Council had a raffle to generate funds, and members also bought several gifts for each child,” says California Preceptor Omicron Xi, Ventura member L. Barbara Coleman. “ We know that this will never take away the pain that they have experi-enced, but we hope that they will somehow be able to start making some special memories that they can carry throughout their lives.”

Missouri Laureate Epsilon Rho, Farmington had their Christmas party in their pajamas, with all 14 flanneled and robed members meet-ing at the home of member Vicky Winick. “The only thing better than Christmas in July is Christmas in our pajamas,” writes Vicky. “It is some-times difficult to regulate the temperature to suit our hormones. See one member (far left) with her coat and one (far right) with a sleeveless tank and Santa in the middle reading us a story. We are all truly sisters and none have to stand alone in good times, bad times or sleepy times.”

Lap robes, scarves and afghans were given as Christmas gifts to patients at an area Veteran’s hospital by members of Arizona Laureate Beta Omicron, Prescott Val-ley. Displaying the gifts are Laureate Beta Omicron members (l-r) Helen Kipp and Marian Bresnen.


Five Montgomery, Alabama chapters gathered for instructions on floral decora-tions for the holiday season at a local shop. Alabama Omicron Master, Montgomery member Dorothy Stevens reports that after the neat lesson, the members all enjoyed a delicious lunch.

British Columbia Laureate Beta Mu, Kel-owna members are very proud that they, as a small chapter of 10, decided they would make a difference when they heard about the plight of their local food bank, by bringing food items to every meeting. At their Christmas meeting they brought gifts for the food bank Christmas Store, so moms and dads could pick out a gift for their child and vice-versa. “We only col-lected from the first meeting in September to a meeting in December and we were astounded that the value of the food and gifts totaled $1,570,” says Laureate Beta Mu member Leah Thordarson. “This is not the end of our service project, as we will continue to collect donations until our final meeting in June. Big things can come from small chapters, and we can make a difference.”

Georgia Laureate Alpha Kappa, Peachtree City celebrated the Christmas holidays with a covered dish lunch at the home of member, Jeanne Shough. The Christmas spirit filled the air in Jeanne’s beautiful home. Christmas ornaments and Secret Sister gifts were exchanged. A great time was had by all!

“An anniversary party to celebrate 40 years was held by the first chapter in Hill-top Lakes, Texas,” writes Laureate Eta Beta member Mae Bruce. “We gathered in the beautifully decorated home of member Thelma Hughes and combined our annual Christmas brunch with the chapter birthday celebration, hosted by the five chapter officers.”

Members of Texas Xi Xi Tau, Lubbock celebrated Christmas in style this year! Members purchased toys reflecting personalities of their Secret Sisters. Toys ranged from easy bake ovens to toy army soldiers! The toys were then gathered and delivered to the local Toys for Tots campaign. It was a wonderful and fun way to cel-ebrate the Christmas spirit!


Members from Delaware Laureate Gam-ma, Dover celebrated the holidays with a buffet dinner at their area racetrack. The chapter gave very generous donations to the local SPCA, Salvation Army and a local shelter for veterans.

On behalf of Beta Sigma Phi International, we wish you and yours a wonderful holiday season.

For 17 years, the Preceptor Gamma Lamb-da chapter of Stroud, Oklahoma has raised funds by selling Christmas items during the city’s Chamber of Commerce Christmas parade on Main Street, also known as His-toric Route 66. Profits from the sale provide funds for the chapter’s many service projects, including a high school scholarship, Girl’s State, local projects and International’s en-dowment recipients.

Nebraska Preceptor Beta Gamma, Nebraska City celebrated their Christ-mas Brunch and gift exchange at the delightful Victorian home of Preceptor Beta Gamma member Margo Blobaum. The theme for the party was “Wear your ugliest holiday sweater,” but there was nothing ugly about the variety of holiday decorations or the glorious foods!

Preceptor Kappa chapter from Gulfport, Mississippi received a certificate from the Shriner’s Hospital of Shreveport, Louisiana stating they have been entered into a special award book for their donations.


Thanks to Texas Xi Omicron Omicron, Kerrville, a shopping area left dark and somber is once again lighting up the holiday sky.

The city of Kerrville has been without Christ-mas decorations for many years, due to a fire that enveloped a vast warehouse that held the city’s seasonal ornamentation. According to members of Xi Omicron Omicron, the resi-dents felt a profound loss, making Christmas shopping a lot less festive.

But once again, it was Beta Sigma Phi to the rescue!

The chapter’s service committee elected to take action and the first step was to meet with city officials. The goal was to discuss purchas-ing street decorations for a service project. Red tape ensued, involving frustrating phone calls attempting to get a status report on the project. Other details such as available poles for electricity and brackets to support decora-tions and if the city’s electric company would donate electricity also had to be ironed out. Add to that, was there going to be manpower and a cherry picker to attach the decorations? At last the project was approved.

“We were able to announce that the City had not only matched our initial donation, but com-mitted $7,500 to the project. What an exciting moment!,” says Xi Omicron Omicron member Lissa Peters. Lissa and other Xi Omicron Omi-cron members, Mary Jane Pool, Angela Hons and Donna Jones attended a Kerrville City Council meeting to present a $2,500 check for the decorations.

Lighting Up the SkyLighting Up the Sky


Lighting Up the SkyLighting Up the Sky“On November 16, 2009, decorations were installed on 17 poles in downtown Kerrville, Texas. The lights were turned on the evening of November 21st in time for the annual Christmas parade,” says Lissa. “ The chapter has pledged another $2,500 for 2010 and Xi Omicron Omicron is proud to be able to step out and provide leadership for this community project!”

In addition the chapter has extended a challenge to other organizations and businesses to join in the “Light Up the Holidays” project.

The chapter is also involved in other holiday events. They stock the local food bank with donations for Thanksgiving dinners and purchase Christmas gifts for the patients at the state-run hospital. On Val-entine’s Day the chapter sent cards to all those on International’s shut-in list.

Service projects are funded by proceeds from a lo-cal studio’s yearly dance recital. The chapter rents the venue, purchases liability insurance, and sells tickets at rehearsals and the night of the recital, as well as cleaning the auditorium after the event. The recital is so successful the chapter is also able to donate a tree each year to the city, and recently they paid to refurbish an area of a job corps building. Members also participate in multiple good causes such as the Habitat for Humanity efforts and the Relay for Life.

The streets are once again ablaze with Christmas lights and the convivial spirit is alive and well in the hill country of Texas, thanks to these sisters, who came through for their city.

Photos courtesy of Hill Country Journal.

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Allison, or Ally, Faith Webb was an Oklahoma girl, born in September, 2000 to lov-ing parents Linda and Scott. She was the light of her family’s life, and everyone was amazed at her zest for learning, such as when she learned the letters of the alphabet by the age of two. Her smile was infectious, she was such a happy baby. But just before her second birthday, Linda noticed Ally had a knot on the side of her belly. Her mother took her to the doctor, who or-dered an ultrasound.

The news was grim – Ally had large tumors on both her kidneys. She soon went to a children’s hospital in Oklahoma City where it showed the tumors had also spread to her lungs. The type of cancer that Ally was diagnosed with was Wilm’s tumors, a form of kidney cancer. Her bilateral diagnosis was rare, usually only one kidney is affected.

After three surgeries, radiation and chemotherapy, the brave little trooper lost her battle, shortly be-fore her third birthday. While lying in her mother’s arms, Ally transitioned from this earth to a heav-enly place much more worthy of her goodness.

Although Ally lost her battle with cancer at age three, she left a legacy that is changing the life

Country superstar Toby Keith visits with Miss Becca Gentry and her dog, Roger.

Toby Keith for the opening of Ally’s House at Children’s Hospital.


of countless precious children struck by cancer and their par-ents.

In memory of Ally, her family founded Ally’s House with a mission and purpose of help-ing other families get through the difficult journey that can-cer presents. Ally’s House is a 501(c)3 organization that provides support to Oklahoma children with cancer. It assists their families with expenses such as medical bills, prescrip-tions, housing or rent pay-ments, utilities, transportation costs, food and clothing, and even funeral or other needs.

The term, Ally’s House, had a special significance even before it was made the title of her namesake organization. After long bouts in the hospital, Ally would return home, her very favorite place, and loudly exclaim, “ We’re at Ally’s house!” The name sym-bolizes a safe place – a place of welcome, where comfort and love help ease the burden.

Ally’s father, Scott, was a former bandmate and close friend of country music star Toby Keith. Her story received national attention when Toby spoke of Ally and her family’s journey in several media interviews. Toby recently hosted the sev-enth annual Toby Keith & Friends Celebrity Golf Classic, which has raised millions for the worthy cause.

“I knew we could make a difference with Ally’s House, but it really is even bigger than I’d hoped,” said Toby. “We’ve helped a ton of fami-lies...and we’re proud that we have never had to turn away an Oklahoma family that needs help.”

Participants in the tourney often go home boast-ing more than just a golf tally. This year two

Ally enjoying a swing.

Taylor loves her new quilt.


lucky people won the auction to have dinner with Toby. There was even a “Deadliest Catch” pack-age which brought in more than $27,000 and gave the lucky bidder a chance to ride with Captain Sig and the Northwestern crew from the hit Dis-covery Channel crab fishing series.

Aside from the organization’s aforementioned critical functions, Ally’s House is helping renovate the oncology unit at The Children’s Hospital at OU Medical Center. The project includes four new areas in the unit to improve the quality of life for patients and families facing cancer treatments and hospitalizations.

Toby and Kyle

Resources: Ally’s House websiteAll-Access Music Group websiteAlly’s House informational brochure

- The Playroom is a place for patients to escape the life of a hospital patient and interact with other kids in a positive environment.- The Family Resource Room is a space where parents can get information about cancer treatment, access to resources and information about possible support from Ally’s House. In addition, wireless access in the area allows laptops to be used and communication may continue between family members and loved ones outside of the hospital.- The Multi-Station Infusion Room has several stations with dividers for patient receiving either inpatient or outpatient treatment. Parents can sit with their child and watch movies or play games during the treatment process.- The Palliative Care Room provides a home like environment with the support of hospital care for families who are facing the end of life. Beds right next to the patient’s room allow the parents to be at the child’s bedside at a moment’s notice.

Ally’s HouseP.O. Box 722767, Norman, OK 73070405-733-ALLY (2559) 877-730-ALLY (2559)www.allyshouse.net


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Because We Love This PhotoA prominent display at this lovely park in Visa-lia, California is a wall of tiles available for pur-chase that residents can acquire to commemorate that which they hold dear. The Visalia, Cali-fornia Area Council purchased a tile for each of the chapters to help spread the good word about sorority.

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Georgia Kappa Chi, Woodstock, held a far-out social at an art studio that puts a bohemian spin on the traditional night out. They offer guid-ed painting classes that are designed to stimulate creativity for people of all skills and abilities. The chapter loved their session. “The studio offers a very informal and relaxed environment so you can take your time and enjoy yourself. There were plen-ty of breaks along the way for enjoying our sisters and beverages,” says Kappa Chi member Janice Maxwell.

Kappa Chi sister, Dawn Pedersen, served as host-ess for the evening. “We started the evening by munching on homemade treats, accompanied by a selection of good wine. Great food and beverages anchor so many of our social events and we have some outstanding cooks in our chapter,” Janice points out.

A suitable image was selected by Dawn from avail-able pictures that the entire group would attempt to paint. Her choice featured a row of wine glasses featuring warm Mediterranean colors. Each sister was given their individual canvas.

“We then all kicked back, relaxed and tapped into our inner Monet, Van Gogh or Picasso,” laughs Janice. The goal was to replicate the original work of art. The results were similar but each artist ap-plied their unique touch. The project was simple enough for the beginning artist yielding results suitable for framing.

But the greatest part of the night, of course, was the fun had by all. And the artistic bent that was discovered in each participant. The evening unfold-ed with the introduction of their own private art instructor, who according to the sisters, had more patience than one can imagine. After the palette of color was mixed, the fledgling artists applied their paints to cover the entire blank canvas, followed by individual elements such as the tabletop and the full wine glasses. “Our artworks were complet-ed by adding some whimsical text identifying the wines pictured,” exclaims Janice. “We had each created our own masterpiece!”

The night was an unforgettable one, and everyone learned a few tricks of the trade including shadows, reflection and other illusions. “We never thought we’d have so much success with our paintings,” says Janice. “We did a good job despite our wine intake and all the laughing and carrying on. Some of us are blessed with more innate artistic talent than others!” She continues, “But everyone had a blast as we explored new dimensions. After much dedicated effort on community service projects, we could all use more socials like this one. Who knows, there may be an artist among your chapter! You never know where it will lead you.”

Kappa Chi is a growing chapter that is always look-ing for new challenges to stretch their minds and capabilities. “We suggest that each chapter ex-plore their local resources to uncover exciting new ways to add personal growth to their social events. Ask around your local schools, houses of worship, and community centers. You just might find a lo-cal expert that can deliver an exciting program to enhance your upcoming social event.” Color us impressed!

The Art of Having Fun


F or sixty years there has been a Beta Sigma Phi presence

in the small, Victorian com-munity of Eureka Springs, tucked away in the hills and valleys of the Ozark Moun-tains of northwest Arkansas. With a population of 2,004 people, small town values and sorority are both alive and well.

In April, 1950, Arkansas Beta Beta, Eureka Springs was formed as the first chapter. Beta Beta became Ar-kansas Xi Alpha Nu, Eureka Springs in 1970 and sports 10 hard-working members. “Ten pairs of hands can do amazing things and make a real dif-ference,” says Xi Alpha Nu member Carol Klarr.

For 60 years, residents of this historic com-munity have looked forward to the Saturday after Thanksgiving. That is when Xi Alpha Nu members in downtown Eureka Springs deco-rate the park band shell with life-sized nativity figures. This event has come to symbolize the official beginning of the holiday season for not only Eureka Springs residents but for folks from surrounding communities. They make the drive to Eureka Springs every year to stroll the park and enjoy the beautiful nativity.

The list of service projects and contributions to their community is a long one and continues to grow with each year. Their participation in the annual Holiday Parade with a float en-try has garnered the chapter first prize three years running, earning $900 to give back to

local projects. Eureka Christian Health Out-reach (ECHO), a free medical clinic operated by volunteer doctors, nurses and residents has been the recipient of two of these win-nings. Last year’s prize money was divided between The Merlin Foundation, an organiza-tion providing services to battered mothers and children in northwest Arkansas and the Seligmann, Missouri Doggie Shelter.

Other service projects include: toys and sup-plies to the local ABC preschool program, a mission that serves meals, provides clothing and provides food staples to those in need, shopping vouchers for those such as a single mom serving in Iraq, gifts to the area vet-eran’s hospital for their patient gift shop that allows hospitalized vets a place to purchase, at little cost to them, gifts for their family mem-bers for the holidays, care boxes to the troops in Iraq with personal items, treats, and phone cards, and volunteering time at the ECHO clinic.

Chapter SpotlightSpotlight on...... Arkansas Xi Alpha Nu, Eureka Springs

Members of Arkansas Xi Alpha Nu, Eureka Springs


The industrious chapter also provides annual scholarships for local students and financial support for a local premier vo-cal group of 50-70 voices who had 16 of its members perform at Carnegie Hall in June, 2010!

Though this awe-inspiring chapter works diligently to give back to their community, they also manage to have a lot of fun. Socials, suppers and celebrations also fit into their busy schedule.

“Though we are proud of their community involvement, our greatest pleasure comes from the sisterhood we share in our love and care of each other and our loved ones,” says Carol. “From the oldest member to the newest one of just two years, Xi Alpha Nu is a vital force that makes a differ-ence and blooms where it is planted.”

Xi Alpha Nu’s entry in the the an-nual Eureka Springs, Arkansas Holi-day parade won first prize, which garnered them $300. This was the third year in a row the chapter won first prize for their float. The prize money is used for community service projects. The “Winter Wonderland” float was covered in lights, snow

flakes, stuffed snowmen and “real” snow gals with carrot noses to pass out candy and greet parade viewers along the rout through the quaint, historic 1880’s Victorian community.

Last year’s winnings from the float parade were donated to Dr. Merlin Leach, founder of the organization that provides services to abused children by working with other special-ized nonprofit organizations to establish a Domestic Vio-lence Shelter and Rape Crisis Response Team. Dr. Leach is shown receiving a donation check from Xi Alpha Nu mem-bers (l-r) Jo Hall, Carol Klarr and Irma Mathis.


Missouri Xi Lambda Zeta, Mount Vernon gathered to celebrate 40 years of fellowship and service. Their first chapter, Missouri Lambda Omega, Mount Vernon was established in 1970. The reunion was held at a lo-cal church, and members perused 40 years of scrapbooks and viewed a video presentation. Also on display was a friendship quilt given to Lambda Zeta member Sarah Biellier twenty years ago, each member lovingly decorated a square for the precious keepsake. Cake was served as friends took a look back - and then forward - to what adventures their next years in sorority will offer.

A gorgeous day was made even brighter when Donna de Zayas, a member of South Carolina Preceptor Chi, Myrtle Beach spent the day with members of Nova Scotia Laureate Beta, Dartmouth. Sev-eral Laureate Beta members have wintered in Myrtle Beach, and have attended Preceptor Chi’s meetings and socials. As the Preceptor Chi members always welcomed their Nova Scotian visitors into their homes and provided a comforting ‘home away from home’ feeling during the winter months, Laureate Beta was absolutely delighted to host an afternoon tea for Donna and show her some Nova Scotian hospitality. “The tea was held at my home and with good food, good conversation and much laughter, the afternoon was over before we knew it,” writes Laureate Beta member Jennifer Taylor.

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Queensland Epsilon, Brisbane held their annual charity day at the Royal Queensland Yacht Squadron. More than 150 guests were treated to a delicious three course luncheon, a fabulous fashion parade and a special guest speaker. “With an overwhelming response to our call for donations, we were able to hold more than 40 raffles with all proceeds from the day being donated to Youngcare, the Asbestos Related Disease Support Soci-ety and breast cancer research,” writes Epsilon member Cindy Sinclair.


Tennessee Laureate Omega, Memphis took their annual outing to Hardy, Arkansas for fun and relax-ation. The sisters met up with several friends and past members of the chapter for a weekend of reunit-ing and just plain fun. The group has already set up a date to meet next year and the former members are making plans to meet up once again. “It is always such a relaxing time in Hardy, just to get away from everything and to eat and laugh when we want to, cry a little if we need to and hug when someone needs it. We all come home feeling just a little stronger in our friendship and our sisterhood,” says Laureate Omega member Charlotte Rauchie.

Members of Kansas Laureate Rho, Hutchinson had a Hollywood-style red carpet party and put on the glitz! A Laureate Rho member hosted the party as a

bon voy-age, as she moved shortly thereafter to Texas. Each member received their own Oscar-style award, though they were for more than just a performance. We are talking serious stuff, such as the “I’d Rather Be Raisin’ Cain, then Raisin Bran,” award!

New Brunswick Zeta Master, Quispamsis has been honored as a Partner Assisting Local Schools (PALS) partner. PALS ensures that students receive the things they need to complete a successful school year. As an ongoing service project, the chapter serves Christmas dinner to the students of the first school that is a recipient of PALS. Members tell us that

PALS is a great example of how organizations such as Beta Sigma Phi can make a difference in the lives of our young people.

“What a great feeling we all had, not only sup-porting a sister chapter, but in helping those so far away in boosting their morale and as a thank you for what those brave people are do-ing.” Those are the words of Florida Lau-reate Lambda, Port St. Lucie member Barbara Kennedy talking about their latest service project. When Barbara was visiting Al-bany, New York, where she became a member 52 years ago, she visited the New York Nu Master, Albany chapter. After learning one of the member’s stepdaughter was serving in Iraq, Barbara took the news back to her chap-ter. The Laureate Lambda members quickly responded by first sending Christmas cards with personal messages to the troops, and then sent must-have items and some fun stuff to our brave troops overseas.

Members of California Laureate Iota Omega, Lake Isabella celebrated 40 years together in sorority. Members gathered at the home of member Judi Lundin, who had her home decked out for the special occasion. Members all dressed in red, as ru-bies are the symbol for 40th anniversaries. Everyone celebrated among festive balloons and fancy desserts.

Members of North Carolina Kappa Omi-cron, Fayetteville delivered much needed items to the Save the Babies organization. The chapter used the funds raised during a huge garage sale to make the purchases. Save the Babies is committed to providing the best for young mothers in need and their new arrivals. Diaper bags, bouncy seats, and mobiles were among the items the babies will enjoy.

“Neva’s optimistic willingness to take on extra respon-sibilities set a sisterly example for all. She is gracious and caring in her relations with others,” says Traci Col-lins of Wyoming Beta Master, Cheyenne.

Neva Schmechel was pledged by Epsilon Omicron of Northglenn, Colorado in November 1971. She re-ceived her Ritual of Jewels Degree in the same chapter in April of 1972. During her first four years of sister-hood she was active not only in her chapter but also citywide and served as her chapter’s City Council rep-resentative and also as City Council vice president, a significant accomplishment for a Ritual of Jewels sister.

She took a short leave of absence from Decem-ber 1974 to May of 1975 while she relocated to Cheyenne. She jumped right back in by affiliating with Wyoming Xi Psi, Cheyenne and enjoyed her new chapter. She received her Exemplar Degree in November 1975. Again as a younger sister, she became very active in citywide Beta Sigma Phi activities and served as chapter president and City Council social chairman. She was not only recog-nized as Chapter Girl of the Year but also as City Council Girl of the Year. Her leadership of citywide social events like membership, Sweetheart Ball and Founder’s Day resulted in many great memories for the sisters of Cheyenne.

Her early job highlights included teaching K-12 Art in Oshkosh, Nebraska and then working for

Morton News in Denver, Colorado. She married John Schmechel on March 8, 1975. They have two sons, Charles and Frederick. She followed her boys in Cub Scouts and then Boy Scouts of America where she served as an adult leader.

“She worked as a Boy Scout leader even after her sons were grown. Her willingness to be involved with young people and her community through assuming leadership positions in her church are just a few of the reasons Neva is seen as a contributing member not only in Beta Sigma Phi but also in her community.”

Neva Schmechel Wyoming Beta Master, Cheyenne Member since 1971

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Grace is always open to try something new. She is usually the first to open her home or country club for meetings or events, chairing or involving herself with the hard work it takes to put it together. She practices the six virtues of Beta Sigma Phi:

1. Courage: To set her mind to do something, and then follow through.2. Vision: Has the ability to see what needs to be done, and does it herself, or enlists our help.3. Humility: Doesn’t need to be in charge of a project, and is grateful when her ideas are used to help things run smoothly.4. Loyalty: A true friend through and through. If she says she’s going to do something for you, she does it!5. Fellowship: Enthusiastic about any project we as a group decide to do. She gives her input, suggestions, and lends a helping hand.6. Service: Always ready to give; time, money, or just a helping hand.

Grace held the offices of President, Vice President, Trea-surer, Corresponding Secretary, and Council Representative.

Grace also chaired committees such as Founder’s Day, the first in 1936! She was also the chairman of the Valentine’s Ball, Oktoberfest, the chapter’s Christmas Open House, and Mother-Daughter Luncheon.

Although Grace has never hosted a convention she has been a very big help with chairing convention events, from seating arrangements to reservations, and this year, at the age of 96, she traveled the state of California doing a skit to promote the 2010 convention! Grace has attended 36 conventions, including the very first in 1937 in Medicine Bow, Wyoming with 25 women in attendance.

Grace Friendly Ventured Delta Lambda Mu in 1994. She was not only their sponsor but an adviser to the chapter.

In 1989, as philanthropic chairman of her Council, Grace introduced Barry Gump, who is a representative from the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. He has captured the hearts of all of the sisters in California. The foundation has raised more than two million dollars due to the hard work of Cali-fornia chapters. At the 2009 California State Convention, Grace sponsored Mr. Gump as an Envoy.

Grace is also a member of the St. Joseph Hospital Guild. She has volunteered more than 15,000 hours, and still works one day a week at the hospital. She is the reservations chairman for the guild’s annual fashion show, which is host to 1,200 people. She has done this for the last eight years, without a computer, but with a very sharp mind.

Beta Sigma Phi has a hard-working, tireless and much-loved member in Grace Patz.

Grace PatzCalifornia Laureate Kappa Xi, GlendaleMember since 1935

International Award of DistinctionMeet one of the newest recipients of the International Award of Distinction (IAD), the highest honor that Beta Sigma Phi bestows on active members.

Grace has shown her enthusiasm for all things Beta Sigma Phi.



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Colorado Epsilon Delta Master, Colorado Springs is celebrating New Paths to Friend-ship by reaching out to our neighbors in Africa. A member’s granddaughter visited the vast conti-nent and traveled to Gana, where she met small girls who lived in an orphanage. She shared with

the sisters how little these precious children have and of their threadbare clothing. The chapter reached out and their most recent service proj-ect involves helping to remedy this plight. “Their needs are great, but one thing that we could do as a chapter was to sew t-shirt dresses for the girls at the orphanage. Our chapter has made more than 70 dresses, which will be shipped to the orphanage in the weeks to come,” says Epsilon Delta Master member Michelle Shumaker. “The picture is of one of our sewing sessions making the dresses.” A new path to friend-ship, extend-ing hands across the world.

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