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Styles @ Work Transforming differences

into connections

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How much time do

you spend

communicating and

relating with people

at work?

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Communication and relationships can

be puzzling!

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Take-aways

Understand differences that make

communication difficult

Validate the importance of relationships

and communication at work

Learn 6 style differences that matter

Know your own and others’ styles

Get tools for better communication

Fine print: Warning, this will take some work on your end!

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Understanding Differences

WE ALL HAVE:

Different strengths and ways of doing things

Good and not so good “Baggage”

Different world views and stories

Different styles of relating & communicating

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Relating well with other people is good for our

health and well being

Hello,

is anyone

there?

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We keep trying

because…..

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Teamwork works!

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Relating well is good for thinking and creativity

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EMOTIONS ARE CATCHING

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Our work requires us to:

COMMUNICATE

COORDINATE

COLLABORATE

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The New Science of Relationships Offers tangible information about differences

in how people relate with others

Helps us make informed choice abut how to

communicate effectively with different

people.

Understanding Styles:

A Good Place to Start

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Style differences that matter at work

Awareness

What we focus on or

are most aware of

as we interact

Expression

How we

habitually

express

ourselves

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3 Differences in Awareness

SELF Wisdom

Objective

Intentional

Reflective

KNOWLEDGE

OTHER Caring

Sensitive

Responsive

Listener

CONNECTION

SOCIAL Influence

Creative

Catalyst

Expressive

MOMENTUM

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3 Differences in Expression

DATA

see

Hear

Taste

touch

Thoughts (perceptions)

Feelings (emotions)

Actions (behaviors)

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Nine Styles

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If I were super woman…

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STP for Relationships

SENSITIVITY

TRANSPARENCY

PRESENCE

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SENSITIVITY

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TRANSPARENCY

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PRESENCE

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Workshop Summary

3 reasons why good relationships are essential

in the workplace

3 differences in what people are most aware

of as the relate and communicate with others

3 differences in how people express

themselves

How to determine the 9 relationship styles

STP for relationships: 3 ways to communicate

more effectively with people with different

styles

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Resources

Human Dynamics Blog

www.humandynamicsblog.com

Relationship Survey www.relationshipstylessurvey.com

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