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Red Pill Wisdom From PatriceO’NealBy Black Knight

It was Oscar Wilde who famously said “If y ou want to tell people the truth, make them laugh.

Otherwise they ’ll kill y ou.” Gone too soon from this world, Patrice O’Neal comes to mind whenever I

hear this quotation. Patrice’s blend of genius insight into gender relations, infectious laugh and

delivery , and ability to break down social issues made him one of the most well-respected

comedians in the business. Patrice spit the kind of universal truths that would get another man

excluded from society , but did it in such a way that he brought joy into many lives and created

valuable learning experiences for any one willing to listen.

Perhaps the most distilled examples of Patrice’s worldv iew occurred while he was hosting the Black

Phillip Show. This short-lived radio program was intended to be a parody of Dr. Phil-ty pe self help

shows, dispensing relationship, dating, and game advice for men. All 13 episodes of the show are

available for streaming on Y outube:

Here are some choice excerpts, all from just from the first hour of Episode 1 :

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“Women hav e two things in their head. They hav e the thing that makes them go ‘I LOVE y ou.

You’re a MAN. You’re bigger than me, stronger than me, I can’t ev en open this pickle jar

without y ou.’ And then it’s the other side of their brain that goes ‘You faggot ass bitch, why are

y ou lov ing this motherfucker so much?’ So what they want is the girl shit at the expense

of your manhood [...] Women don’t know how to tap into a man’s desire [to help them].”

[To the female co-host] ”Women are not born in honesty . You don’t need to be. You don’t need

to have charisma or figure it all out. Men have developed a lot of different verbal

skills that women haven’t because you haven’t had to. There’s no need for y ou to hav e [...]

conv ersational ability . And when y ou do hav e conv ersational ability , y ou FORCE it on guy s.

Because y ou know that most women don’t [hav e it].

“Here’s something that will work 99 percent of the time: If she say s ‘here’s what I think,’ all y ou

hav e to do to combat her is go: ‘Why ? She nev er has the thought that is the purpose for her

thought. There is nev er reasoning. Guy s alway s hav e a reason behind what they ’re say ing.”

“You hav e to not be afraid to take a loss to get y our point across. When she giv es y ou that

ultimatum, if y ou look like y ou’re sweating and y ou’re blinking and y ou’re nerv ous about her

leav ing, she will take adv antage of that.”

“Stop try ing to giv e her things to make her happy . You hav e to say , ‘Look sweetie, this is how it

is.’ You have to be ready for her to walk out of your life. You ev er see that mov ie Heat?

Don’t get inv olv ed in something y ou can’t walk out on in less than 30 seconds.”

“One thing women need from y ou is emotions. [...]. If y ou [calmly deflect them], her emotions

hav e to eat on themselv es. Let her emotions eat her soul up, then she’ll think of another option

because she’s not walking out of y our life unless y ou’re crushed. Women don’t leav e unless y ou

are completely crushed [...] She won’t take a step.”

“You can’t lov e a woman like a woman lov es y ou [...] You can’t go ‘boobie bear’, y ou can’t hold

her hand the way she’s holding y ours. It’s a distance thing. [...] You gotta make her chase y ou.

Stay gone for a couple day s.”

“There’s a righteous fuck and a dishonest fuck. [...] If y ou’re gonna go to this bachelor party and

get some righteous pussy , don’t ev en look back because it’s not about her. [...] They don’t want

what the can hav e, and right now she has y ou. Ev en in y our attempt to be ev il, y ou still hav e

kind of a worthless self-image. You can’t cheat and be thinking about how y ou’re hurting her. If

cheating on her helps your self esteem, you do it but you do it righteously to help

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YOU.”

“Most loser women, all they hav e to barter is their pussy . Men hav e so many other things to

barter when it comes to the sex game and the relationship game. It’s not their fault, because

they all do it, so there has to be nature inv olv ed.”

“We hav e other things that make us attractiv e to women. Initially , there’s only one thing that

makes them attractiv e to us, and that’s fucking them, and then it builds from there.”

“You gotta understand that when y ou meet these women essentially they are losers. She HAS to

get something out of her pussy , dude. She has to get dinner. She has to get a mov ie. How can she

function if she doesn’t get something out of what she has?”

“When y ou’re taking her out to dinner and to the mov ies, that’s her way of fucking y ou. If y ou

take her out 5 times, she’s fucked y ou 5 times, and y ou hav en’t fucked her y et [...] Don’t let

them fuck y ou, because dinner/mov ie time is them fucking y ou. Are y ou a whore? You can’t

let a woman whore out your time.”

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A caller asks if there’s a way to pre-screen for materialist girls before investing time/money in them:

Patrice is a comedian at his core, so this stuff is guaranteed to make y ou laugh. More importantly ,

though, it will make y ou more attuned to an unspoken battlefield of gender relations few others are

willing to address so candidly . This is a guy who gamed women, made every mistake in the book

during his y outh, and witnessed firsthand the interplay between fame, money , game, and

confidence. Whether y ou’re a veteran needing a refresher or a newbie looking to gain some power in

y our dealings with the opposite sex, the Black Phillip archives is an excellent place to continue y our

research.

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Black Knight co-authors Man Ex Machina , a new manosphere blog about game,

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J DOE • 11 months ago

Phenomenal post, Patrice O'neal was a truly red pill comedian. He never went for

the "Women are so much better/smarter" style ego stroking route that many

successful comedians go down (look at most extremely successful comedians, they

all do it. Even Louis CK), which may be why he was so underrated. He was

genuinely interested in helping mankind, which may have been a result of him

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genuinely interested in helping mankind, which may have been a result of him

being put in prison for 3 months over a false rape case when he was 16. Nonetheless,

recent red pill swallowers should all check out Patrice and the Black Phillip show, it

definitely will offer some perspective.

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Jimmy conway • 10 months ago J DOE

"I really do believe that women are smarter than men [cheering, applause]...

But I also believe that dogs are smarter than women." - David Cross

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anon1 • 10 months ago J DOE

watching episode 1 and damn he hit all the red buttons

i highly recommend if you have the time youtubing the opie and anthony

memorial special for patrice. a bunch of red pill comedians (bill burr, rogan

etc) and some idiots, shooting the shit about how badass this guy was. plus

lots of his best material

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jammyjaybird • 10 months ago anon1

Man, I saw Joe Rogan do stand-up comedy about eight years ago.

Only twenty people in the room. Dude tore it UP for about ninety

minutes. More energy than possible. All of it was red pill. The Asian

girls in front of me were swaying like wheat in the wind. "You have

soooo much testosterone!" one said.

Total alpha.

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Muktar Bin Laden • 10 months ago

This is the most accurate article about building a "keep bitches in check" mindset I

have seen so far. It beats Roissy's neurotic try-hard routines and too-cool-for-school

attitude any day of the week. Who knew the late and great Patrice O'Neal was

Manhood101 certified in bitch management? I sure didn't.

This article put a smile on my face because I already knew all of this stuff about

women's true nature. I have total respect for that fat ugly bastard he probably had

more dominant satisfying relationships with young attractive bitches than 99% of

Roissy's pickup artist wannabes. It just goes to show you don't have to look and

dress like a hipster fag to attract bitches, you don't have to be ripped. You just have

to understand women's true nature, bring out her attractive girlie side and keep her

bitch side in check.

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GentlemanSlut • 10 months ago Muktar Bin Laden

Why do you like Roissy so much man? Get off his dick.

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anon1 • 10 months ago GentlemanSlut

roissy doesnt even write there anymore, hasnt done for years

thats why it namechanged to heartiste.

if its possible look into the early shit, and as soon as the name

changed all the hackjob writers they could get started showing up to

fill the chateaus halls

ive been reading roissy way before roosh

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Frank McGar • 11 months ago

Patrice was one of the most under-appreciated brilliant comedians I've ever come

across. He would go on the Opie and Anthony show and just ramble on for hours

about all kinds of topics, and every single show this guy had some brilliant gem to

spit out, oftentimes several. I also highly recommend listening to the Black Philips

shows, where he would bring a hot girl in there so he could break her shit down,

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shows, where he would bring a hot girl in there so he could break her shit down,

piece by piece. She would say a bunch of stupid stuff and try to shame him, he

would cut off her mic and point out why she was doing what she was doing, he'd let

her talk again until she said something stupid again, cut of her mic and explain

some more shit...meanwhile the whole time laughing that Patrice laugh- this guy

was not only funny as hell naturally, he was surgical when it came to breaking

down the female psyche. No one called hot girls on their bullshit (without being

bitter about it) the way Patrice did it.

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Torpedo • 10 months ago

Good shit. What a loss for comedy and for men when Patrice died....Dante Nero is

carrying on the torch with the Beige Phillip Show on iTunes. He's distilling Patrice's

stream of consciousness wisdom down to their core concepts and making it all easy

to grasp and apply. Highly Recommended

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sway • 10 months ago Torpedo

Holy shit, I had no idea. I always loved him on the Black Phillip Show, even

though he wasn't as dominant or insightful as Patrice. Thanks for posting.

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Torpedo • 10 months ago sway

Hi Sway, I'm really happy to hear that you're excited about this too. I

just sort of stumbled onto it a few weeks ago and got hooked from the

first episode. Dante's character and ideas come through more strongly

since he's in the front seat now. A lot of the same guests from Black

Phillip come on, and a lot of new guests. Dante is better at structuring

his ideas in a clear and concise way than Patrice was, so although

Patrice's absence is painful, Dante is truly keeping things in the spirit

of Black Phillip, while allowing his own strengths and character to set

the tone more. Dante is also an inspiration for men like ourselves on

his own merit once you get to know more about him, not only as a

pussy slayer, but also as a man of multiple interests and talents who

has done many different things during his life and has refused to be

pigeonholed or defined by other people or by society. I really, really

recommend checking it out.

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Black Knight • 10 months ago Torpedo

I had no idea this existed either. Thank you for posting.

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Torpedo • 10 months ago Black Knight

My pleasure, Black Night. Please spread the word!

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anon1 • 10 months ago Torpedo

will have to check it out! great recommendation

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Torpedo • 10 months ago anon1

Great dude, spread the word. I really think they're doing something

genuine and important, for game, for comedy, and to honor the

memory of Patrice.

anon1 • 10 months ago Torpedo

on episode 3 now of black phillips. and Goddamn the man

(patrice) was a genius. there's no way to really comprehend

how well he could tear down a bitch and address her exact

weaknesses in a funny and effective manner.

episode 3 shows how he trained his wife so good, she

evangelises him now even after he died. that shows how good

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evangelises him now even after he died. that shows how good

a woman can be if you train her right or b) have a readymade

traditional woman (rare)

i am defintely going to get into beige phillips just to keep my

mind in the right state. But after black phillips

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Torpedo • 10 months ago anon1

Cool man, that's the way to go. Black Phillip is the Old

Testament and Beige Phillip is the New.

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LostEveryWeekend • 11 months ago

"And when you do have conversational ability, you FORCE it on guys. Because you

know that most women don’t [have it]." This is the quote that I agree with the

most, especially when it comes to girl "humor". Have you ever overheard or seen a

video of girls attempting to be funny? It is downright horrible. That's why everyone

nuts all over Tina Fey; you have 100000 funny guys and one funny woman. They

have no idea of what humor is, how to tell a joke/tell a funny story. Relates right

back to have shitty conversational ability.

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Turner • 11 months ago

this show looks great. Thanks for bringing this post up. It is a gift finding people

who have made it big and can say shit that isnt accepted main stream and hold their

guns.

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dannyfrom504 • 10 months ago

the absolute greatest thing Patrice taught me was what he told his woman about

how she fits into her life. he tell's them, "you're the fourth most important thing in

my life."

1. me

2. my family

3. my CAREER

4. you.

fucking. genius. i tell that to women to this day.

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jimmy conway • 10 months ago

My favorite Patrice bit was the one about how biologically disadvantaged women

are: weak, frail, bleeding out of their vaginas every month. It's funny because it's

true. I see women struggling to open doors. I can't imagine going through life like

that.

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sway • 10 months ago

Patrice O'Neal may go down as one of the greatest Red Pill Masters of all time. He is

actually how I discovered the manosphere, the Red Pill, game, everything I now

hold important (there were always posts about him on RVF). I owe a lot to him. He

died way too young. Inspiration to stay healthy, there was so much wisdom he had

left to impart.

Listen to episodes of him on Opie and Anthony, he has such a powerful presence,

you almost forget that he is gone.

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citizen norbit • 10 months ago

When you listen to Patrice O'Neal's much-missed wisdom it's incredible he doesn't

get more recognition in the manosphere, dude kicked reservoirs of truth on a regular

basis, stuff that legitimately changed the way I thought about the world and helped

me finally swallow the red pill, plus he was one of the funniest comics of his time

(IMO). Respect, RIP.

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(IMO). Respect, RIP.

By the way, his schooling of a feminist harridan on FOX News remains one of my

favorite moments ever caught on television. That was art. The first time I saw that

all the nonsense I was fed by my feminist professors was immediately blown out of

the water.

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Dannyfrom504 • 10 months ago

Been posting on Patrice since I started my site. I began my red pill journey with him

back in 1999.

RIP Big Pimp.

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joe smith • 5 months ago

We lost a national treasure with this guy. Nobody comes close to him on gender

issues, and nobody will. Rest easy, big man. And thank you for everything.

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Joaquin De Magdalena • 11 months ago

I've listen to all 13 shows, he's a bear hunter able to skilfully bring in his prey...

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Adam Hapack • 11 months ago

RIP Patrice, great post

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SouthEnd • 11 months ago

Great guy...Boston born and bred.

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Vicky • 10 months ago

“One thing women need from you is emotions. [...]. If you [calmly deflect them],

her emotions have to eat on themselves. Let her emotions eat her soul up, then she’ll

think of another option because she’s not walking out of your life unless you’re

crushed. Women don’t leave unless you are completely crushed [...] She won’t take a

step.”..

Cant be more true...just recently got dumped and now i understood why..i opened

myself too much emotionality...will follow the the wisdom henceforth..women do

have this ability to open the man's emotion and then play around and when the

final "D" Day comes..she will throw you out like u dint matter to her..one thing that

i have learned is that till the time women loves you..you will her centre of universe

but once things are over, she wont even care even if you cut you heart out..she will

simply ignore or step over it...

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Joe Bar • 10 months ago

If you can find it, there is an episode of the Opie and Anthony show where Patrice

destroys a girl from the lingerie football league. It is priceless.

Here it is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v...

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anon1 • 10 months ago Joe Bar

God this is awesome. any more teardowns like these by patrice on O&A?

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Viceroy • 10 months ago

I was always wondering when RoK would write about Patrice.

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Colton Hornstein • 10 months ago

"If you say hello and he answers, he wants to fuck you."

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SKTheKid • 25 days ago

At about the 1 hour mark you can almost HEAR Kathleen Roll's hamster redline

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Loved this guy

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Keanu • 10 months ago

Patrice is a genius. RIP.

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