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AUCKLAND / ISSUE 37 / Summer 2013

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9 Raising bilingual kidsBenefits of learning languages as a child5 Blended families and Christmas

Keeping the peace and building bridges 6 Stay-at-home dadsGrowing trend or media hype?

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Features5 Blended families and

Christmas How to make the most of the season’s

festivities

6 Stay-at-home dads A growing trend?8 Words of wisdom Question and answers with Diane Levy

9 Preserving native languages Tips to help your bilingual kids10 Game on Christmas gift guide for tech-crazy kids11 Preteens Just get over it – I like my friends!16 Fit families Sustainable physical activity17 Baby and toddler Reaching milestones18 Kiwi coastlines Get involved - how kids are helping

clean our shores19 Catching the reading bug Tips to help children enjoy reading20 Camping Family-friendly recommended destina-

tions21 Top Reads Recommended holiday reading

Comment12 Kids’ view We ask kids about their dad’s role

around the house

Special features4 Spirit of ChristmasResource information14 Calendar of events 15 Entertainment22 Marketplace

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From the editorT here’s a lot of trending about stay-at-

home dads these days. From reading media reports, you’d almost imagine that every second home has one.That’s not quite the case, although Statistics New Zealand doesn’t have information available about exactly how many dads are fulltime caregivers in their families. What we can gather though, from statistics overseas, is that there are more households in Western countries who have the father as a fulltime caregiver than there were 20 or 30 years ago. So we at Family Times thought we’d better investigate and find out about stay-at-home dads in New Zealand. Regardless of the reasons why men become full-time care-givers to their children, which you can read more about in our main feature on page 8, the overwhelming comment from stay-at-home dads that Family Times talked with was something that women have been saying for generations – being a stay-at-home parent is by far the hardest job you can take on. The biggest challenge, said the dads, was the isolation and lack of adult interaction – again, something that stay-at-home mums know all about. But for dads that’s often compounded by lack of support groups or parenting networks for dads. And they feel a bit weird about joining women’s groups. Experts that Family Times spoke with also said that there are a lot more expectations on all dads these days, not just those who are full-time care-givers of their children. More and more dads are becoming involved in day-to-day engagement with their children; simple things like making school lunches, transporting their kids to and from school, and being a more active participator in their

children’s hobbies and sports. At one school I know of, there is a “dad’s club” that hangs around for the 3pm bell to collect their children, indicating that either their jobs are super flexible or parents today are sharing both work and home responsibilities to a greater degree. Whatever the situation, with the holiday season just around the corner it’s a great time of year for parents to consider how they share the parenting load and ensure that they are both making the most of the precious growing up years with their kids. And while you are thinking about all the fun of the silly season ahead, check out all the fantastic events that are coming up in your area in this edition of Family Times, and be in to win our exciting competitions.Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year from all of the Family Times team.

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Christmas is in the air, and there are so many great events happening in Auckland to really get you in the spirit.Now – 24 DecemberKmart Wishing TreeGive the gift of generosity this Christmas. Place a present under a Kmart Wishing Tree. Gifts do not have to be purchased at Kmart. Details at www.wishingtree.kmart.co.nz.

30 November-24 December-Dreaming of a White Christmas? Dreams come true at Snowplanet. Visit Santa in his snow grotto, 10am - 2pm. Visit www.snow-planet.co.nz/christmas2013.

30 November – 24 DecemberWaiuku Christmas Display - The moment you enter Santa’s Wonderland, you’ll be en-thralled as you wind your way past a snow cave, through a mystical fibre optic entrance and into a snowing Christmas. Visit www.christmasdisplay.co.nz.

1,8,15 DecemberMake and Take – Get creative making Christmas craft, bunting, wreaths and deco-rations for your tree. Free drop-in sessions down on Auckland’s waterfront. Full times and details at www.wynyard-quarter.co.nz.

1-30 DecemberChristmas Lights House - This decorated house and lawn comes alive! Santa is onsite from 10 - 24 December (weather permitting), and donations go to support the Pukekohe Volunteer Fire Brigade. At 25 Prospect

Terrace, Auckland, from 8.30pm.

1-24 DecemberGive & You Shall Receive – Visitors to MOTAT can purchase a children’s gift for charity from the MOTAT shop in exchange for free admission. Visit motat.org.nz for conditions and details.

1-24 DecemberFranklin Road Lights – The street lights up when the residents decorate their homes with garlands of lights. The week before Christmas, Santa and his elves will be there giving out free lollies.

4 DecemberThe Great KidsCan Santa Run - the Santa Run concept is simple – a 2-3km fun run/walk in a Santa suit! Funds raised go to Kiwi kids affected by poverty. Enter or just watch. Visit www.lacticturkey.co.nz.

6 DecemberOnehunga Christmas Lights – Check out the entertainment and stalls with the evening ending with the lighting of a beautiful Christmas tree. Event is held in Jellicoe Park, 7pm-9pm.

7 DecemberMt Eden Tree Decorating Fiesta - Santa’s naughty helpers are calling for young assistants to decorate dozens of baby Christmas trees! Every tree completed gets a prize and can be carried home by the young helper! Visit www.mounteden.co.nz.

7 DecemberPanmure Christmas Parade – This year’s community Christmas parade and festival is shaping up to be the best ever with more than 40 floats and performers! Visit www.panmure.net.nz.

7 DecemberChristmas family day out and market – This event starts with a market full of creative Christmas presents, and is followed by the popular parade and carnival! Phoenix Plaza, Inverness Road, 11am-6pm.

7 DecemberBlockhouse Bay Santa Parade – Dust off your tinsel and enjoy the parade, then get to the Family Fun Day put on by Blockhouse Bay Primary School. Visit www.blockhousebay.org.nz.

7 DecemberChristmas@Sunkist - A new special event celebrating Christmas in Beachlands. There will be dog shows and pony rides, and a fabulous new Santa parade arriving at the local art and craft market. Visit www.logcabin.org.nz.

7 DecemberHelensville Christmas Parade – Join in all the fun and excitement as the parade winds its way through town. For full details visit www.helensville.co.nz.

7 December (rain date 8 De-cember)Glen Eden Christmas Carnival – Celebrate a good old kiwi Christmas! Enjoy the parade and then head to Santa’s grotto. Amusement rides, live stage show and so much more at Parrs Park, 11am-4pm.

8 DecemberPonsonby Carols by Candlelight – Enjoy carol singing, live entertainment, face painting

and Santa’s grotto. At Western Park, 5pm-8pm.

8 DecemberCarols by Spiderlight – This promises to be a great event with food, entertainment and a visit from Santa himself! Don’t forget the tree lighting at sunset. Avondale Town Centre, 6pm-8pm.

13 DecemberCarols in the Park – Take the kids along to sing some great Christmas favourites. Central

Park, Papakura, 5.30pm-9pm.

13 – 15 and 20 - 24 DecemberMOTAT Nights, Christmas Lights - Spar-kling lights, live entertainment, night time tram rides, mulled wine and Christmas treats for purchase! Entry, $2 per person, 8pm-11pm. Visit www.motat.org.nz.

14 DecemberCoca Cola Christmas in the Park – One of the biggest, happiest, most magical musical extravaganzas on the Kiwi Christmas calendar! Auckland Domain. Full details at www.christmasinthepark.co.nz.

14 DecemberWaiuku’s Magical Christmas Parade - Join a fun-filled day. Great festivities with street markets, live music and loads of family entertainment. This year’s theme is “All I Want for Christmas.” Visit www.waiukutown.co.nz.

14-24 DecemberSky Tower - Visit Santa Claus and the “best Christmas trees ever” up the Sky Tower 10am -3pm. Sky Tower admission rates apply. www.skycity.co.nz.

15 DecemberKaukapakapa Village Market - Live music from the Cougar Chorus performing a special selection of Christmas carols. Then head along and see Santa in his grotto. From 8.30am-1pm, Kaukapakapa Hall.

20-24 DecemberMake and Take – Down near the Playspace at Wynyard Quarter you can make your own Christmas cards for friends and family for free! For full information and directions visit www.wynyard-quarter.co.nz.

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Blended families are a challenge at the best of times, but Christmas and the summer holidays can accentuate small issues and blow them up into big ones.Making an agreementChild psychologist Rose Blackett recommends that ex-partners sit down and come to an agreement about Christmas arrangements, but says that it’s a best case scenario, and many parents simply can’t do that without the help of mediation or the court system. Sue Wilson* from Christchurch says that her husband’s ex-wife has had her husband’s two boys, aged 10 and 12, for Christmas night every year since the separation seven years ago, and it breaks her heart. “It’s based on precedent – the days that we have the boys every week - and it never changes. "She tends to get her own way because she is the mother. But we always tried to keep difficult parenting conversations away from the kids, no matter how young they were.”Wilson's husband and ex-wife had a reasonably amicable split, says Wilson, and made their own childcare agreement rather than go through mediation and the court system. They have the boys one night a week, every second weekend, and for extra time during the Christmas holidays. “What we’ve said to the boys is “you get two Christmas’s

– it’s pretty cool. You’ve two bikes, because you’ve bikes at both houses. You’ve got two beds, so you’ve got more than some kids. And yeah, it is a hassle having to move between your mum’s and your dad’s, but you get two Christmases, which is good.”

Gift givingIt’s common for ex partners to try to “out give” their ex, or to have different standards about what kind of gifts are appropriate. Wilson says that she is likely to spend more on the children than her husband’s ex wife, but buy more practical, boring gifts. Her husband’s ex tended to spend less but on more fun and frivolous things. Also, the kids often told both parents what they wanted and it ended up with double-ups. “We have challenges about buying gifts and we’ve got to the stage where I’ve said to my husband, “you must check what she is buying because we don’t want double ups”,” said Wilson. Blackett said it was also common for one partner to feel anxious about how much they could spend on their children, particularly if they were not in the same financial position as their ex partner. “If you can’t influence how much your partner is spending on the children, you just have to let that go, otherwise you just spend years and it’s very bitter and people carry around a lot of anger. Only look at things that you can have an influence on.”

Getting the kids involvedIt’s important for blended families not to focus not on gift-giving or big Christmas

dinners, but to relax and get used to each other’s company and their new situation; particularly for kids spending their first Christmas together in new blended family situation, says Blackett. “For children, if it’s a new relationship, or you have just moved in together, things like team building are quite fun; things like a treasure hunt so you get into teams and you have to work together to find the treasure. It doesn’t have to cost a lot of money. It beats the boredom and helps build bridges in the relationships. “A child that is not getting on with a new partner, who is like, “you took away my mum’s place or my dad’s place,” they have to work together to find the treasure. The focus becomes the treasure, and it takes the emotion out of it.”

Empower your childrenIt’s also vital for kids to be a part of the decision making about Christmas and summer holiday events says Blackett, especially if it is the first holiday season as a blended family. “They need to be involved with what happens on a day-to-day basis; like a breakfast table at

Christmas time – let them choose a favourite food. Having Tim Tams on the table for breakfast one day a year is not going to kill you. “If children have ownership of it, they enjoy it. Otherwise, kids can feel quite powerless in the situation. Letting them be a part of the planning is going to be huge.”Wilson agrees. She and her husband give the two boys plenty of notice about what is planned, and for when, so that they feel secure and in control and know what to expect over Christmas and the summer holidays. * Real name withheld to protect children's privacy

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Are more guys giving up the daily grind to stay at home and nurture their little ones? Vanessa O’Brien investigates.

Brian Sorell was a computer programmer in California, in a former life.

Nowadays, you are more likely to see him pushing a pram through the Auckland suburb of Devonport with his three-year-old son Charlie. It’s a choice that he and his wife Tanya made for practical reasons, Sorell said. “We did talk a lot about it and we decided that financially it was better off that she work. I was pretty burned out in the computer programming world and I didn’t really want to do that anymore, and I wanted to make this transition to New Zealand, so we felt it was the ideal time - while everything was up in the air.”Sorell took over the full-time care of Charlie when Charlie was four-months-old. He finished his philosophy degree and taught part time at university for a while, but he’s been strictly a full-time dad since immigrating to New Zealand 18 months ago - with a little parenting blogging and marketing writing on the side.

New routinesThe hardest thing was adjusting to a new routine – one that revolved solely around Charlie, said Sorell.“It was strange to not get up and go to work every day when you’ve been in a routine for a long time and suddenly it’s completely changed. That was a bit awkward and

disorientating, but I got used to that very quickly. As a parent you find routines. I love it now.”That’s something that stay-at-home dad Andrew Snell, former manager of Burger King in Hamilton, can relate to. “The most difficult thing I think would be adjusting to different routines, because I had been doing shift work. So some mornings I would be up at five o’clock to start at seven, and other times I would be working until two in the mornings on the weekends. Then everything changed.”Snell’s wife, Marie, was diagnosed with single level degenerative disc disease in the spine when she was pregnant with the couple’s second child, Amber, eight years ago. Since then, Snell has been the full-time care giver of their three children; Bethany, 10, Amber, 7, and Thane, 4. Snell says that he still misses work at times. “Working for Burger King is quite interesting and you get to meet a lot of people. That’s something that I’m looking forward to getting into it again in a few months once Thane’s off to school.”Sorell agreed that isolation was the toughest battle he faced. “It can be very, very isolating and super lonely. And I really felt that when we emigrated I didn’t know anybody and my whole network was gone. “It was hard; I’ll freely admit the first few months were very hard. Day to day, it was just tough because there wasn’t anyone to chat with. I think absolutely it gave me a tremendous appreciation for stay-at-home mums. It’s much harder to stay home than to work. It’s really hard.”

Stay-at-home dads – trend or hype?Being a stay-at-home dad is still non-traditional, said Sorell. He and his wife Tanya didn’t know any other stay-at-home dads when they decided to structure their child care that way, and because it was non-conventional it was hard to meet other stay-at-home parents.

“You go to the local playground and all of the mums are sitting around chit chatting, and you try to get involved but it’s always kind of awkward and it’s hard to even put your finger on why.”To his surprise though, once he became more integrated in the community – something he says he had to make a concerted effort at – he discovered that there were quite a few other stay-at-home dads in the Devonport area.

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Brian and Tanya Sorell with their son Charlie.


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Whatever your reasons for deciding to be a stay-at-home dad, there are some things you can do to ease into it and make your new a role a success from the beginning. 1 Discuss your duties to-gether with your partnerBefore you officially become “stay-at-home dad,” you and your partner should sit down to discuss exactly what that title entails. Obviously, you will be taking care of the kids. But does it include cooking dinner every night, doing the laundry and running all the errands? Create a list beforehand so they’ll be no arguments later on.2 Figure out what works for youWorking out a new routine will be a challenge. Establish a daily routine that works for you and the kids - and don’t worry if mum lets you know that isn’t the way she would do it. Include her in the process, but don’t be afraid to do things at home your way.3 Build a support systemIsolation is the number one complaint for many stay-at-home mums, and it’s no

different for stay-at-home dads. There’s only so much kids’ television a person can stand. So seek out other stay-at-home-dads through support networks, or cre-ate your own group. 4 Make time for yourselfIt’s easy to think your whole world needs to revolve around the kids, but that can lead to some serious burnout. Make time for “guy stuff” and make sure your priori-tise it. Work out at the gym, play golf, go fishing – do childcare swaps if you need to, and return the favour later.5 Don’t be SupermanStay-at-home-dads need help sometimes, just like stay-at-home-mums. Don’t be afraid to ask for it, otherwise the stress of doing it all on your own will get to you. Your sanity should be a top priority!6 Take advantage of your statusBeing a dad with a baby in a stroller is a ticket to VIP status. Accept offers to cut into lines, get faster to the cashier at a grocery store, and if you are flying alone with the baby, you will be treated like royalty. Take advantage of it.

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“We see each other at the parks all the time and we’ve all kind of struck up a good relationship I think.” Statistics New Zealand does not have readily available data on whether more fathers are taking the role as primary care giver of their children or not. However, data from the United States’ 2011 census suggests that the number of stay-at-home dads there has more than doubled over the last decade and a half from about 76,000 in 1994 to 189,000 in 2011. Yet among all U.S. married couples with children under 15, only 0.8 percent include a

stay-at-home dad— up from about 0.3% in 1994—compared to 23% that include a stay-at-home mum. Analysts conclude that for the most part, this is a result of single-parent families, and shared-care arrangements of children. Senior lecturer in sociology at University of Auckland Vivienne Elizabeth says that in heterosexual families, the definition of fathering is broadening to include emotional ties with children in addition to bread-winning, and stay-at-home fathering is becoming more socially acceptable. However, it is not a typical practice, and she says that in most cases it’s because fathers wish to reconsider their careers, retrain for a different careers, or have lost their jobs, and most view it as temporary.“The role of fathers is changing and they are expected and expecting to becoming more involved in their children’s everyday lives, and undertaking more of the care work. But the extent of that change shouldn’t be exaggerated. Very few men withdraw from the labour market either partially or in totality following the birth of a child, even though this remains a common practice amongst mothers.”Mothers, she said, continue to spend twice as much time looking after their children than fathers. Most of the time fathers are involved in caring work when mothers are also present, a pattern that suggests that fathers remain secondary carers in many heterosexual households.

Dads building closer relationships with their kidsSorell says he believes that dads should be more closely involved in the day-to-day care of their children – not necessarily fulltime, but certainly more engaged.

“The good point about being a stay-at-home dad is absolutely my relationship with my little boy. “The mum always has this super-tight relationship I think traditionally, and biologically, and I think it’s a lot of work for the dad to establish that same thing. But it’s given me the opportunity to do so and it’s

really, really awesome.”“Sometimes it is really rewarding,” added Snell. “The good thing is definitely being able to go on field trips with the kindergarten, or going to awards ceremonies for end-of-year, and school things that otherwise I wouldn’t be able to. But I am looking forward to working again.”

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Single mother, angry daughteri am a single mother and have been noticing for years that my daughter has inherited her father’s anger and temper issues. Any tips on handling a stroppy preteen?

First tipThink of her chronological age, which doesn’t vary, and her emotional age, which is variable depending on her stress level and tiredness. Although this is true of all our children, when they are preteen it becomes accentuated. So, even though you might have a 12-year-old body in front of you, her emotional age may be four or even younger. A simple task is suddenly insurmountable and she descends into a toddler rage. Make sure that you don’t descend with her.

Second tipWhen it comes to anger and temper, a “wobbly” of despair and a “wobbly” of control look identical if we were to video them. We can only tell which one they are if

we take notice of the context. The wobbly of control indicates “I am going to scream till you do it my way.” The wobbly of despair indicates “My life is over and I have no idea how I can cope.” (This may be over a mislaid hair-tie, but it is still a wobbly of despair).A wobbly of despair needs you to support her feelings and understand how awful it is for her. A wobbly of control needs you to disengage, get out of the way, avoid reasoning with her or arguing with her and to keep your distance until she is prepared to treat you well. I call it “The GST approach.” You do not need to offer goods and services to someone who is being abusive to you.

Pocket money problemsMy 10 year old son often talks about and complains that his friends get more pocket money than him and get to stay up later etc. How can i handle this?I suggest that you both do your research and then compare notes. He should ask his friends what amount of pocket money they get and then present you with a written list. In the meantime, you check in with parents of similar-age children and make your own list.

While you both are doing your research, don’t forget to ask what the child has to do to get the pocket money and what they are allowed/expected to do with it. Some parents tie pocket money to chores and some parents give children pocket money as of right because they are family members and expect chores also just because they are family members.As well as researching what happens in other families, consider your own situation. As far as bedtimes are concerned, the most important consideration is whether or not your son can wake up easily at an appropriate time to get ready for school without a rush. In other words, is he getting the right amount of sleep to enable him to function well during the day?The amount of pocket money he gets and what he may do with it also depends on your family finances, your family values, his readiness to cope with the responsibility of handling money and his willingness to learn.Submit your parenting questions and concerns to family therapist, counsellor, parenting coach, speaker and writer Diane Levy. This is a regular column, so get those questions flowing! Email us at [email protected].

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As the population of New Zealand grows, so too does the abundance of cultures. Immersing children in their native tongue is one way the diversity of these cultures can be preserved.Being bi-cultural in New ZealandChristchurch mother Melissa Heyrick was born and raised in New Zealand, and moved back home from Australia in July of last year. She is learning to speak Mandarin, as her son Jacob Yang (age seven) is half Chinese/half Kiwi, and bilingual in both English and Mandarin. His father Jeremy Yang was born in China and then raised in Australia from the age of five-years-old, and speaks English as his main language. Jacob was immersed in Mandarin naturally since birth – with Chinese classical music and children’s music playing in the background, and tape recordings of his grandmother reading children’s stories in Mandarin. “I always try to ensure he is learning Mandarin in a fun, engaging and creative way,” says Heyrick. Jacob goes to China every two years for a minimum of one month to give him the opportunity to be fully immersed in his culture, to learn more about his heritage and to speak Mandarin naturally. Heyrick says that preserving a language is more than just speaking and understanding the language. “You need to learn the culture and you need to feel comfortable in the culture.”

Wellington mother Kaye-Maree Dunn says that her whanau actively try to maintain a bi-lingual household as they feel it is important for her eight-year-old son Te Rangiahuta to get a good foundation in his learning of and identification with Te Reo Maori. Te Rangiahuta attended Kohanga Reo, then kindergarten, and now attends a mainstream school. Dunn says he still understands some reo but “we still need to work hard as a collective to korero Maori, not just in the home.” Her key tips are to make Te Reo fun and engaging by learning new words together, pointing out things in Te Reo, practicing a small karakia (prayer) at eating times, watching Maori TV, engaging in Kapa Haka and continuing to go to the marae, and for kids in the family to carry around a notebook and write down any Maori words they hear and use them in a sentence. She considers Te Reo “a living language,” that needs to be spoken and heard daily.

Language learning starts at homeDame Iritana Te Rangi Tawhiwhirangi, an advocate of Maori language education and the Kohanga Reo movement, says the Maori language is the life blood of Maori culture and therefore the native/fluent speakers are criti-cally important in the transmission of it (and tikanga) to the mokopuna (young people) and their whanau (family) in order to ensure its preservation. She says that Te Reo must begin in the home if it is to be valued and appreciated by moko-puna from the very early stages of their lives. “This early embedding of it will fortify them for their educational journey and their place in both their cultural space and ultimately

the wider world.”

Create opportunities to learn, and prepare your kids for the futureWhen Heyrick’s family moved to Christchurch, they missed the bigger Chinese community and the culture that went with it. That’s why Heyrick started up Mandarin Stars, a Mandarin language programme for children. She wanted to help Jacob preserve his native language and immerse him in a fun, high quality environment where he could naturally move between his two cultures and languages, and feel proud of his identity. Jacob’s parents also feel they are preparing him for a predicted “Asian Century.” Earlier

this year Prime Minister John Key urged more children to learn to speak Mandarin, reflecting the future importance of New Zealand’s business relationship with China.Heyrick says they consider it a blessing that Jacob can speak two languages, and feel it helps him grow as a person who has respect, understanding and an awareness of how different people live within different cultures in the world. “We openly discuss both his New Zealand and his Chinese culture. In doing so, I hope we can help instil in him a curiosity for his two cultures, and an acceptance of cultural and linguistic differences amongst his peers and the communities in New Zealand.” By Rachel Taniwha

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As always, gaming is an expensive and difficult market for the uninitiated, so here’s a preview of the big and new things that will be out this year for your potential gift dollars.

ConsolesThere are a few consoles to choose from this year, but you may not be able to choose the one you want in time for Christmas.

PS4The PS4 is undoubtedly the console that most people want to have (currently). It has the best hardware and is winning the PR war against rival consoles. Available about a week after the Xbox One, it is accompanied by mostly the same titles as the Microsoft console but has a few exclusives only available on this machine. However, it is also the one that will be the hardest to find as a number of suppliers have already sold out their allotment and the next shipment will be out in early 2014. Cost $650 (approximately).

Xbox OneThe Xbox One is the closest contender to the PS4, and arguably only a hair’s breadth behind the Sony product. This is available from November onwards, is accompanied by mostly the same titles as the PS4, and has a few exclusives only available on this machine. I have played on both machines, and find very little between them. Simply put, don’t believe the hype and make your own informed choice. Cost $750 (approximately).

Nintendo 2DSThis is a surprisingly good option for some players. The 3DS has been out for a while but not everyone got one due to the price and the limited range of titles. However, if you are a Pokemon fan for example, then this may be the option you are looking for. It’s a much

cheaper 2D version of the 3DS (minus the 3D elements) that will play all 3DS games, old and new, at a much better price. A good option for Nintendo fans on a budget. Cost $170 (approximately).

Existing consolesThe PS3, the Xbox 360 and the Wii U are all on the market already and the games will be around for these platforms for a long while yet. Expect to see huge discounts in the prices of the older generation boxes and their games in the run up to Christmas. There will be some bargains and bundles to choose from for the canny consumer.

GamesThis year there will be a bumper crop of not only good new games but also the bigger, better and beautiful games on the enhanced consoles.

Out Now Grand Theft Auto V: A stunning and immersive experience, but definitely for much older kids; late teens and up. Beyond Two Souls: The latest in interactive storytelling and game/movie hybrid, also for late teens and up.Disney infinity: For all ages and all platforms.

Coming before Christmas:Warfare games: Call of Duty Ghosts (all platforms), Battlefield 5 (all platforms).Driving games: Gran Tourismo 6 (PS3) and Forza 5 (Xbox One).Adventures: Assassins Creed IV: Black Flag (all platforms), Batman: Arkham Origins (Xbox 360, Ps3 and Wii U), Watchdogs (PS4 and Xbox One). And these are just the highlights; there will be so many to choose from, and if you don’t know what you are looking for it’s best not to guess. If you are buying for someone else

then the best strategy is to avoid surprise and simply ask him or her specifically what he or she wants to avoid buying the wrong thing.

If you are unsure if the content is appropriate for your child, check the rating on the bottom left of the game’s cover, which is the same as movie ratings.

It’s that time of year when you need to start thinking - if you have not already - about what technology or gaming gifts are on the market for this year’s Christmas season.

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Peer pressure has been the subject of many debates, research pieces and parents’ headaches since…forever.

The reality is that peer pressure only becomes an issue when preteens and

teens themselves willingly choose to hang out with specific “friends”. And by now, your preteen would have already found their own ways to make friends; whether it’s a compliment about what they’re wearing, common distain for a classmate (trust me, it doesn’t end at primary school) or a common interest, friendships during this age start very quickly. So here are a few ways that you as a parent can mitigate possible friendship disasters before they start:

Revise who they hang out with nowBe open to invite your preteen’s friends over to your place. What happens is, once a preteen is given that option, they will subconsciously reassess how comfortable they are with having these friends come home. If they are not comfortable with the idea, this should be a warning sign for you and may come as a warning sign for them. If they flat-out refuse, it’s worth having a chat about why, which can trigger them to re-think their friendships.

Online friendsAlways be careful with this – if they have a friend they met online that they are meeting, go along

with them, even if you’re just dropping them off to make sure they are safe. Always suggest that they meet in a public place.

TeachThe best thing you can do is talk with your preteen about what actually makes a good friendship. Take examples out of your own life, and explain what constitutes a good friendship for you. It will start to get them thinking about what exactly they may want in

a friendship and what they should be looking for in friends.

Be observantThe biggest tell-tale sign of bad friends is a change of attitude in your preteen. While not to be confused with the rocky teen years, preteens are vulnerable to having their friends’ attitudes shape their personality. This is a big warning sign, so be observant and talk with them about any sudden changes.

if you don’t like their friendsDon’t be too quick to judge, but offer some insights or observations about why you don’t think their friends are good for them. It may

be a misjudgement on your part so be aware of that. But if it’s not, they will remember what you said later down the track, and that will hopefully lay a foundation for them to listen to your judgment in future. Don’t stay silent, but don’t keep digging at it either.By Eva Maria Eva-Maria is a 23-year-old on a mission to help improve 10,000,000 adult-teenager relationships around the world. She is the author of the bestselling You Shut Up! and sequel Shush, You!. She travels throughout New Zealand, Australia and Russia coaching families, running workshops and speaking at conferences and events about the importance of intergenerational relationships and youth in the workforce, offering understanding from “the other side.” www.eva-maria.co.nz.

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Amberleigh Dyer, age 8Dad works really hard. He has his own business so he works six days a week sometimes, which is a lot! When he’s at home though, he does the lawns and sometimes the vacuuming. He has to put the rubbish out every week and he always fixes stuff around our house. He just built a new gate. I like it the way it is at our home. I think Dad does enough chores.

Alanah De La Rue, age 8 My dad does shift work and he does heaps around our

house. He does the washing, makes our lunches, vacuums and cleans. He helps me and brother with homework

and picks us up from school sometimes. I think Dad does enough chores around our house so it should stay the

same.

Natalie Keenan, age 8My dad is a boat builder and he goes off to work early. He sometimes even works Saturdays. Every week he has to put the rubbish out and he always does the dishes after dinner. It’s his job to do the lawns too. If he finishes work early, he sometimes comes to watch me and my sister at our activities. Mum works part-time so I think Dad does enough for our family.

Analise Collis, age 9My dad works for a newspaper and my parents also have their own paddleboard business. He works all week and sometimes in the weekend. If Mum’s sick he picks us up at school and he likes to cook too. He sometimes does

laundry or cleaning and tidies up. After work, he comes to watch my swimming lessons, which I like. I think it’s good

how it is at our house.

in this issue, Lee Keenan talks with Whangaparaoa Primary School students about the role of their fathers at home.

Win a delicious healthy treat the whole family will enjoyThe yonanas machine quickly turns frozen bananas and other frozen fruits into a variety of guilt-free treats that look and taste like soft-serve ice cream. You choose the flavour by adding your favourite ingredients – why not try strawberry, pineapple or mango? yonanas offers great value for money, especially because you can use fruit that you might otherwise throw away. Kids will love the bright colours and parents will love the healthy desserts that are dairy-free, fat-free and with no added sugar. Visit www.yonanas.co.nz for colour availability and stockists. RRP: $129.99. We have 4 to give away.

Win Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs 2 – in cinemas 5 December - prize packsInventor Flint Lockwood thought he saved the world when he destroyed his most infamous invention - a machine that turned water into food causing cheeseburger rain and spaghetti tornadoes. But Flint soon learns that his invention survived and is now creating food-animals – “foodimals!” 5 prize packs, each consisting of: A Scratch n Sniff sticker set, A T-shirt, A notebook, A double pass to the movie CLOUDY WITH A CHANCE OF MEATBALLS 2 IN CINEMAS DECEMBER

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Birthday party voucher for Dialled indoor Tramp ParkBe the coolest kid on the block and have your next party at Dialled Indoor Tramp Park! Family Times has a party voucher to give away that entitles you to one hour reserved tramp time for up to 10 kids, 2 ½ hours reserved table and goodie pack for birthday child. Flip, bounce, jump! Dialled Indoor Tramp Park is professionally built with floor tramps, wall tramps, a massive foam pit, raised platforms, walls and structures, plus a great on-location shop! Visit 36 Parkway Drive, Rosedale, www.dialled.co.nz.

Win a clean floor with Dettol! Dettol’s new floor cleaning system provides an easy and efficient way to tackle everyday floor cleaning and touch up jobs.The disposable disinfecting floor wipes cut through grease, dirt and grime, killing 99.9% of germs* to leave your floor with a sparkling shine and fresh fragrance.The Dettol floor cleaning system starter kit and the Dettol floor wipes are available for purchase in supermarkets nationwide. Always read the label. Use only as directed.*Such as E.coli and Staphylococcus. We have 20 Dettol floor cleaning systems valued at $24.99 to give away.

Great giveaways for summer…....it’s easy to win fantastic prizes with Family Times. just fill in the entry form and post it to us by the due date, or enter online at www.familytimes.co.nz. This month we have a fantastic line up of prizes with more great giveaways… Good luck! Check out last issue’s lucky winners online.

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Bag yourself a MadpaxLife is too short to wear a bland backpack so MadPax New Zealand has six Full Packs valued at $89.95 to give away. MadPax are 3D-inspired backpacks and power pack-cessories that are the perfect fusion of fashion and funk-tionality. These unique packs allow kids of all ages to express themselves and their inner creature. You will definitely stand out with a MadPax back pack. What is your style? Choose from the original Spiketus Rex, primal skinned Later Gator, Bubble or the most recent addition to the range, Blok. See the range at www.madpax.co.nz.

Win Frozen – in cinemas 26 December - prize packsWhen a prophecy traps a kingdom in eternal winter, Anna (voice of Kristen Bell), a fearless optimist, teams up with extreme mountain man Kristoff and his sidekick reindeer Sven on an epic journey to find Anna’s sister Elsa (voice of Idina Menzel), the Snow Queen, and put an end to her icy spell. 5 prize packs, each consisting of:A kids’ watchA girls’ T-shirtA boys’ T-shirtA double pass to the movieDISNEY’S FROZENIN CINEMAS DECEMBER 26WWW.DISNEYMOVIES.CO.NZCompetition closes 9 December, 2013.

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Win Phylys the Farm Truck by Christine Fernyhough and Susan ElijasA fun rhyming children’s story about a new farm truck and her adventures. The folk at Castle Hill high country farm are not too impressed when they first meet Phylys, the new shiny, flash city truck. How will this gleaming new arrival cope with the steep hills, wide rivers and rough tracks? But Phylys soon shows she’ll give anything a go. She’s not put off by a few skids, crunches, sheep poo, high fords, soggy bogs, getting stuck and heaps of hard work. And in the end, Phylys is a hero – the plucky truck saves the day! We have 5 of these to give away.

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9-12 - Tilly Sheers, Age 9 - “I was sitting on the edge of my seat, cheering and booing the tele, watching the Americas Cup and I thought, MAN! Those guys must get so thirsty! I also thought how desperate they want the trophy, so I combined the two together.”

What is your favourite activity to do with your family in summer? Send us your picture and a brief description about the activity and be in to win an amazing $50 prize pack from Crayola! Three entry age groups: preschool (age 1-4), 5-8, 9-12.Create your design on an A5 sheet or download the template and entry form from www.familytimes.co.nz. Post in to PO Box 36 004, Christchurch 8146. Entries close 5 February 2014.

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Win MONOPOLY: Auckland EditionThe new MONOPOLY: Auckland edition will be available from 1 November 2013, in time for Christmas gift giving! Twenty-two Auckland and greater Auckland property landmarks were selected to replace the famous London streets from the original board after the public was invited to offer up their suggestions via Facebook earlier in the year. Other Auckland-centric twists can be found in the tweaked Community Chest and Chance cards. We have 5 to give away.

Win: The Princess and the Foal by Stacy GreggWhen her mother is killed in a helicopter crash, three-year-old Haya becomes more and more withdrawn until her sixth birthday when her father, King Hussein of Jordan, gifts her an orphan foal. And so begins an epic story about love, bravery and the unbreakable bond between a girl and her horse. Princess Haya determines to defy convention and prove herself by riding in the toughest equestrian competition in Arabia – The Kings Cup. Stacy Gregg is the popular author of The Pony Club Secrets series. We have 10 of these to give away.

Win: A Perfect Chirpy Christmas

A beautiful, gentle Christmas story, with the message that family and friends are most important.A Perfect Chirpy Christmas is the adorable story of Flit, who desperately wants a white Christmas so flies all the way overseas until he finds a snowy city. Here he begins to realise that he misses his family terribly and begins to understand that what is even more exciting than building snowbirds is being at home with his friends and family. We have 10 to give away.

Win: Rosie to the RescueRosie to the Rescue is a feel-good, rhyming book that follows the journey of Rosie the cow as she finds a way to transport all the fresh milk to town after the bridge is destroyed. Rosie is the New Zealand dairy industry’s Cowbassador, whose job is to educate kids all about dairy farming and the story of milk. As a Cowbassador, Rosie gets to do heaps of really cool stuff, like going on television, meeting the Prime Minister, performing in stage shows all over the country, and making her own moovellous moovies. We have 10 to give away.

Win Transformers Prime Beast Hunters Beast Fire PredakingThis Beast Fire Predaking figure lets you create the biggest Beast Hunter battles! Its huge 21-inch wingspan makes it one of the largest beast figures in the Transformers universe. With light-up fire breath, you can imagine Predaking is sending a menacing signal to any enemies who would dare stand in his way - or reducing them to ash in seconds. The figure also comes with a giant sword - the Infernum Blade - and two firing missiles so you can create even more awesome battle action. RRP $119.99. We have 3 to give away.

Win a Nerf Rebelle Heartbreaker Bow

The ultimate adventure accessory, the Nerf Rebelle Heartbreaker Bow - RRP: $44.99 - features “true” bow action and powerful dart performance! Inspired by current pop culture trends, the heartbreaker bow offers girls the poise and precision to take on any mission. With fashion graphics and funky collectable darts, it’s perfect for the ultimate adventure. It’s time to step up and stand out! We have 4 to give away.

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To be in the draw to win, enter online at www.familytimes.co.nz or write your name and address on the back of an envelope or postcard and send to: Auckland Competition, PO Box 36 004, Christ-church to reach us by February 5th 2014, unless stated otherwise. Only one entry per household.

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A day at the races is a quintessential Kiwi summertime tradition and Interislander Summer Festival events provide the perfect day out for the whole family.From Boxing Day through to mid-February, 40 Interislander Summer Festival events will take place at some of New Zealand’s most picturesque racecourses and hottest holiday spots. All kids’ entertainment is free and includes the popular horse-themed More FM Kids Go Racing events and a range of under-12 activities such as pin-the-tail-on-the-horse

and the horseshoe toss. Kids also get to meet much-loved horse mascots, Hopples or Stirrup. From Ruakaka to Gore - and everywhere in between - Interislander Summer Festival brings a celebration of summer to town, providing the perfect opportunity to catch up with friends and family in a fun and relaxed environment. Family picnics, deck chairs, shorts and jandals – it’s a classic Kiwi summer’s day out!For more information about an event near you, visit www.theraces.co.nz.

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There are a huge variety of events on offer in Auckland, so soak up the summer sun and get out and about with your friends and family.Now – 16 FebruarySculpture in the Gardens - A 2km trail takes you on a delightful walk past 23 large-scale sculptures at the Auckland Botanic Gardens - kids’ activities, guided walks and live music. www.aucklandbotanicgardens.co.nz.

5 December (Barry Curtis basketball court, Flat Bush, 4-8pm) and 6 December (Otamariki basketball court, Otara, 4-8pm)Out and About 3 on 3 Street Ball Tournament series - Enter your team for free by emailing your team name, team members and age group (school year 5-13) to [email protected].

4 December and 26 FebruaryOut and About Family Fun Day - Bring the whole family along to the park for free fun and games, courtesy of Auckland Council. Sutton Park, Vine Street, Mangere, 4pm-6pm.

7 DecemberMangere Bridge School Festival - Experience foods from Tonga, New Zealand, Samoa, Mexico, India and the Cook Islands. Enjoy rides or the treasure hunt. Try your

luck at the silent auction or raffles. www.mbsfestival.co.nz.

11 DecemberSamuel Miller Reserve Free Activity Day - No booking required, just turn up on the evening and join in with all the fun provided by Auckland Council. Pukekohe, 4pm-6pm.

15 january Takanini Reserve Free Activity Day – Auckland Council is hosting another free events afternoon from 2pm-4pm.

18 januaryChinese New Year Festival and Market Day – This festival’s popularity has grown over the years and it has now become a highlight of the summer. Full details at www.aucklandchinese.org.nz.

19 january and 21 FebruaryGirls and women only skateboard and longboard sessions - Free lessons in parks with experienced skate coaches. Boards, hel-mets and safety pads will be provided. Turn up on the day to register. Visit www.onboard-skate.org.nz.

27 januaryAuckland Anniversary Day Regatta - Enjoy watching this great event. The whole of the Viaduct and Wynyard Quarter area will turn into party central with free entertainment for all the family. Other great vantage points www.regatta.org.nz.

31 january -1 FebruaryChinese and Korean New Year’s Festival - Free community event full of colour, culture and cuisine, providing a taste of Asia with a wide range of entertainment and activities. www.eventfinder.co.nz.

8 FebruaryAuckland Beach Festival Football Tournament - Mission Bay will once again play host to this great day for football lovers! Full details at www.beachfootballnz.co.nz.

12 February Mountfort Park Auckland Council Activity Day - Meet to the right of the swimming pools on Skyes Road for this free evening of great kids events, 4pm-6pm.

15 FebruaryOrewa Beach Boulevard Arts Fiesta and Market Day - Orewa celebrates summer with a festival and market day throughout the entire town centre. Amusement rides, roam-ing entertainment and great stalls, 10am-3pm.

We are a culture that thrives on being able to spend time at play in and around water, but we need help when it comes to staying safe: this year, 54 people have drowned in New Zealand. The team at Northern Arena Swim School is working hard to reduce this statistic. Learning to swim should be considered as important for children as reading and writing, and learning to swim isn’t just an activity; it’s an essential life skill, especially in New Zealand.

Northern Arena teaches children from three months through to adults. All lessons are designed to be fun, educational and to enhance enjoyment and confidence in the water. Northern Arena’s cutting-edge, indoor pools treated by UV-light (similar to the way drinking water is treated), allows for a low level of chlorine, which is ideal for babies and those with sensitive skin. It’s never too late to learn to swim and ensure your family is safer this summer.

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We’ve put together some great family activities for you to enjoy. Check them out!Waiwera Thermal ResortOnly 35 minutes north of Auckland, Waiwera Thermal Resort has covered and uncovered thermal mineral pools, a movie pool, slides, a poolside cafe or treat yourself at the Waiwera Day Spa. Visit www.waiwera.co.nz.

Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs 2 (movie)Flint Lockwood embarks on a dangerous mission to save the world from his own inven-tion, a machine that turns water into food, causing catastrophe! In cinemas 5 December. Visit www.cloudy2-movie.net.

Disney’s Frozen (movie)Optimistic Anna, mountain man Kristoff and his reindeer Sven embark on an epic journey to save the Snow Queen and their kingdom from eternal winter. In cinemas 26 December. www.frozenmovie.co.nz

Xtreme Entertainment WairauHave a blast at the all new Xtreme Entertain-ment store open in Wairau Auckland! Bowl-ing, dodgems, laser tag, KidZone, and Time-zone! Visit www.xtremeentertainment.co.nz.

Rainbows EndSuper family fun all day with more than 20 rides and attractions, an amazing illusionist act on centre stage and the all-weather Kidz Kingdom. One price and unlimited rides all day. www.rainbowsend.co.nz.

MOTAT - Rescue Travelling ExhibitionRescue is a fun-filled, action-packed exhibition from Australia at MOTAT, with 17 interactive exhibits. See motat.org.nz for more informa-tion. Open now.

SnowplanetCool off this summer with a family trip to Snowplanet! At Snowplanet you can ski, snow-board, tube, toboggan, and dine at its world class facility. Visit www.snowplanet.co.nz.

Parakai SpringsEnjoy the natural thermal water, heated from beneath the earth. Great value and fun for families with grassed areas for picnics, trained life guards, barbecues and marquees for hire. Visit www.parakaisprings.co.nz.

Bridgeway CinemaEnjoy a magical movie experience this sum-mer: get two adult/two kids, or one adult/three kids to a film for $44, and kids get a free choc-top ice cream. Information at www.bridgeway.co.nz.

Sky TowerNew Zealand’s tallest man made structure, Sky Tower is truly amazing. Ride the glass elevator to discover something breathtaking! Visit www.skytower.co.nz.

Auckland Bridge climb and bungyOpen seven days in all weather. A special fam-ily rate of $320 for the climb saves you $80! Kids must meet the 35kg weight restriction. Gift vouchers available for all special occa-sions. Visit www.bungy.co.nz.

Waikaraka Family SpeedwayStockcar racing most Saturday nights. Cara-van, boat and dunny demolition derby, mon-ster trucks and more. Great value family passes. Visit www.waikarakafamilyspeedway.co.nz for meet details.

Ti Tree Hills Horse TreksRide through kauri, bush and ponga ferns. Reach the hilltop and experience breathtaking views of the Hauraki Gulf, Hibiscus Coast and Coroman-del. Well-mannered horses and lead rein ponies for kiddies. Visit www.titreehills.co.nz.

Holiday specials Northern ArenaLearn to swim at Silverdale Northern Arena’s intensive learn-to-swim holiday programme. Open for bookings on 09-421-9700 or visit www.northernarena.co.nz for more details.

Bubble Dome technology workshopsLearn Minecraft, architecture, programming

and more with Bubble Dome these holidays. For times and locations visit www.bub-bledome.co.nz.

SnowplanetSummer holiday programmes offer a great environment for children aged 5 to 16-years to learn and progress in the world of snow sports. Visit www.snowplanet.co.nz-school-holiday-programmes/.

Come and play Wynyard Quarter Playspace comes alive with balls, rope, chalk and hoops to play with for free. A few days are not included so please check website for full details.www.wynyard-quarter.co.nz.

RockcampDon’t miss the best week of 2013! Give your kids a Christmas gift that will inspire them forever. Learn first-hand from New Zealand’s top music industry professionals. www.rockcamp.co.nz.

Horse Riding AucklandLooking for great holiday activities for the kids? We have it all; riding lessons, pony rides, programmes and pony parties. Have some country fun and fresh air! Visit www.ponyrides.co.nz or phone 022-017-4157.

8 Count Dance StudioWorkshops in dance and acrobatics available during holidays, subject to interest. Email [email protected].

Bruce Mason Centre - The Great Christmas CaperIt’s Christmas Eve and there is panic at the North Pole – Santa Claus is missing! Has Santa been kidnapped? Who will deliver the presents? Will Santa ever come back? Tickets www.brucemason.co.nz.

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16 FebruaryWeetbix Kids TRYathlon – Have fun and achieve a personal best! The TRYathlon con-sists of a swim, bike ride and then a run. This event is for 7 to 15-year-olds. Register at www.weetbix.co.nz.

23 FebruaryPanmure Basin Fun Day and Sk8 Compe-tition – This will be a great day out for every-one. www.panmure.net.nz.

2 MarchOnetangi Beach Races Waiheke island - Pack up your family, catch the ferry and watch as horses, tractors and amphibious craft take to the golden sands and crystal waters. www.onetangibeachraces.co.nz.

22 MarchWaitakere School Gala – Enjoy a range of different games, activities, food and much more! From 11am-3pm, Waitekere Primary School.

15 MarchArt in the Park - Great art activities such as face painting, flax weaving and painting for free organised by the Auckland City Council. From 10am-12pm, Fencible Walk, Howick.Compiled by Lee Keenan

Enjoy a whole day of fun in the water at Parakai Springs.

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Free entry and family on-course activities at the Summer Festival Races, venues around Auckland. Search www.theraces.co.nz/summerfestival for details.

2 January Tauranga Races3 January Ruakaka Races4 January Thames Races11 January Ellerslie Races26 January Tauranga Harness Races


Fit Families

In a special series of articles for Family Times, Jackie Cowan and Nick Draper -

primary school and physical activity specialists from the University of Canterbury - will highlight some activities, games and resources that can help families add more fun physical activity into their lives. First come the FUNdamentals –activities that can easily be added into your lifestyle to increase both yourselves and your children’s physical activity levels in a way that’s sustainable. Recent physical activity research tells us two important things that identify that change is not as difficult as you first might think. Firstly, little bursts of physical activity throughout the day are better than one big bout of exercise at the start or end of the day. Secondly, short, sharp physical activity bursts can be just as good for you as jogging on a treadmill for an hour. To this research evidence we can add two more anecdotal facts; firstly it is much easier to exercise when you don’t realise you are doing it. For example, going for a 40 minute run is often more daunting than going out to play a game of touch, yet both increase our physical activity levels. Then secondly, recently published data from surveys suggests that we spend as little as seven minutes a day of quality time with our children. Combining the two – fun physical activities and family time – genius! Here are a few ways to get you going:Joining in children’s games –Children have loads of energy and always seem to be on the go. When we watch them play, their

games are full of short bursts of activity – a burst to catch someone in a game of tag or a run down the wing to score a try or goal. This is really close to the type of short burst activity that the research suggests – short bursts that leave you slightly breathless as you chase your son or daughter in a game of tag, a short recovery and then go again, or chasing them as they dribble to score a goal. When playing a game, if you are fully engaged with your son or daughter, you forget about the exercise and just play. We can learn loads from children about that – exercising without thinking about it. Walking/scootering to and from school – Walking is an oldie but a goodie and similarly combines family time with exercise. Research tells us that fewer children walk to and from school for a number of reasons. It is, however, a great activity where you have time to talk to your children about their day with no television or computers as a distraction. It’s a time where you can model being physically active and can be active together. Alternatively, nowadays it is not uncommon to see parent’s scootering home on their children’s scooters after dropping them at school. Why not purchase a family collection of scooters and travel together? It’s a fast mode of transport and a little novel.If we do walk or scooter to drop off and pick up children from school, not only are we increasing quality time spent together, but we are also spreading our physical activity throughout the day, which is valuable for

general health and overall wellbeing. Cycling to and from work – If we chose to cycle to and from work, while this might not seem like a whole family activity, it can have a whole family pay-off by giving us more energy and helping us to be fitter for family cycling activities during the weekends. If you live too far from work to cycle the whole way, or don’t feel fit enough yet to cycle the whole way, you could put the bike in the back of the car, drive part of the way, park up and cycle to and from work from there. If you set a goal of increasing this a bit each

month, you could add greatly to your level of physical activity. Being active throughout the day is particularly important for those of us who work in a sedentary job sitting at a desk or in meetings most of the time. This form of activity also fulfils the physical activity guidelines for adults, outlined by Sport New Zealand (in consultation with the Ministry of Health Manatu Hauroa), of 30 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity a day.By jackie Cowan and Nick DraperPrimary school and physical activity specialists from the University of Canterbury.

The FuNdamentals of sustainable family physical activity

If you keep up with the news, you may recall a recent media storm over a Facebook post by Maria Kang.The tight and toned young mother-of-three posted a photo of herself in barely-there sports attire, along with her three small children, with the caption – “What’s your excuse?”Most mothers have taken offense at the cam-paign, calling it fat-shaming rather than moti-vational. But it does raise a valid point, even if it’s not the point that Kang intended: most mums prior to motherhood aren’t aware of exactly how much their exercise regimes will change with little people in their lives, and it is a challenge to maintain prior fitness levels. That challenge is all-the-greater if you want to start a fitness routine for the first time to burn off those extra post-baby calories.

We’ve got a few tips that may help:1 Train when the kids are asleep. Put on

a fitness DVD, use a home exercycle or treadmill.

2 Prepare your exercise clothes the night before. That way, you’ve got a motivating factor involved, even after those tiring, sleepless nights.

3 Does your local gym have a crèche? Make the most of it, or make a regular arrangement with friends and family to mind the kids.

4 If that’s not an option, check out the mini core workouts or five minute CrossFit

workouts on Pinterest and do them from home.

5 Invest in a good outdoors pram for jog-ging, and take the kids with you on your workout.

6 Power walk/run to the local park, maybe 15 minutes from home – kids in tow.

7 Play with your kids on the playground – up, over and down obstacles. Your heart rate will quickly climb.

8 Source a “mum-friendly” personal train-ing group. Doesn’t exist? Start your own!

9 Participate in family fun run events. There are plenty to get you going over the summer. Remember though to set realistic goals, and that you are really only racing yourself.

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Best Health Products, the maker of Nuztri branded formula milk and fortified milk powder, has announced a new initiative to support schools, kindergartens and early childhood centres. For every can of Nuztri formula milk or vitamin A+D/iron-enriched full cream or skim milk powder, Nuztri will donate $2 or $1 to buy iPads or laptops, respectively. Participating schools, centres or PTAs simply collect supermarket dockets and redeem iPads or laptops. For years, imported formula or formula

made from imported milk have dominated the New Zealand market, even though we are the number one dairy exporting country in the world. Nuztri formula and milk products are guaranteed made from New Zealand pasture-fed, GE-free, free-range cows’ milk.Nuztri products are available in more than 40 supermarkets around the country. All Pak’nSave and New World stores are able to order directly from their system. Parents are encouraged to ask local supermarkets if Nuztri is not available there yet.

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Milestone manic or go with the flow?From the moment a baby is born, parents consult books and are given advice about which milestones are important for their child.

They’re things like when their baby should first smile, clap their hands, roll over, sleep through the night, crawl

and start speaking, right through to toilet training, writing their name, counting and learning their ABCs. For many parents, these milestones are a joy – from the first smile, every little development is a treasure. But as Dr Victoria Metcalf, a biologist and lecturer in genetics at Lincoln University says, it can also become a competition. “I think that milestones in themselves feed back into this pressure that mothers feel to do certain things by a certain stage. It adds to stress levels that we feel in a busy world. If your child is not walking by two years, maybe worry then… it’s not a “mumpetition”.” Metcalf is not alone. Some parenting experts question whether milestones are really helpful, or whether parents put too much pressure on their kids to fit the “norm”, when in reality every child is different. Plunket clinical advisor Allison Jamieson says there needs to be a safe middle ground. “Milestones are really important. Evidence for them is given by paediatricians and

international as well as national organisations – The World Health Organisation and the Paediatrics Society - so that while they’re not set in concrete in as much as they don’t have to happen at the same time for every child, you do want them to happen, because if there’s a delay in them happening, maybe there’s something else that the child is not developing to their potential that we need to look at and assess.” Jamieson says that milestones exist to give parents an indication of what should be happening and when – not to create fear, but so that parents are aware if anything is potentially wrong. If a baby is not smiling and interacting with its parents at six weeks, can it see? Can it hear? If a parent is aware of a potential problem, early intervention can lessen the impact of that delay on development.“They can let them do their own thing as long as they actually achieve it,” said Jamieson. “There’s nothing wrong with that. If your little Johnny walked at 12 months and my child didn’t walk until 14 months, that’s not to say that mine is slow. It’s just what’s within normal for that child. But if that child is not walking at age two years, I would be very, very concerned.” There are, however, some milestones that both Jamieson and Metcalf agree need to be more flexible for parents – things such as sleep training and toilet training. Metcalf says that there is a lot of “real or

perceived” pressure on parents to have their children sleep through the night and toilet train from an early age – pressure from friends, their own parents, and even grandparents, who create expectations by talking about their own experiences of parenting. “It’s not fair to the mother or the child. What we have to remember is that every child is different and they work to their own rhythm. When you work into “what is my child ready for,” the better the relationship will be between you and your child. “Most children have their own system and do things in their own time. Read the parenting books but don’t use them as law. Breathe into it a bit more and being a human being,

not a human doing. And remember that one mother’s definition of sleeping through the night might not be the same as another’s.” Jamieson agreed that it was not helpful to have too much pressure around expecting babies to sleep through the night too soon. “We don’t expect babies to sleep through the night at a young age, because if they are it means that they’re not getting enough food,” she said. “There’s a bit of difference between developmental-related milestones and sleeping through the night and toilet training, which are more related to how we parent, what’s important to us and when our child is ready.”If you have any concerns about your child’s development, contact your primary health care giver.

For parents with concerns about their own, their partner’s or their children’s alcohol or other drug use, the Alcohol Drug Helpline is the ideal place to start. It is a free, confidential phone service available 10am - 10pm every day and the online counsellors are happy to listen to any concerns. The aim is to help callers to clarify their concerns and then to help them decide the best next steps to take: free information (dvd/booklets), contacting a local community service or continuing contact with the Helpline by phone or text. Many parents ring with concerns about their children’s exploration or use of alcohol or cannabis – particularly the newer synthetic cannabis products. The counsellors are happy to discuss ways to talk to young children, or to teens about any of these issues – from how to confront a son or daughter about suspected drug use to organising a teenage party. And of course young people themselves are

welcome to call. As well as being able to call any day, callers can arrange to receive regular support calls from the Helpline.Students can ring for information for their school project, or concerns about their friend who is getting into party pills. Helpline staff promise to listen, and to help in any way they can.Phone 0800-787-797 or text “adh” to 234.

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Help is @ hand


A volunteer trip to the Galapagos Islands national park in 2009 inspired Sam Judd to help clean up New Zealand’s coastlines.“We saw all these dead animals wrapped up in rubbish in the Galapagos, and we ran a big cleanup out there. It was really satisfying so we brought the concept back here.” The result was the establishment of the Sustainable Coastlines Charitable Trust in 2009. Four years later, the Sustainable Coastlines team has motivated more than 26,000 people across New Zealand to keep New Zealand beautiful by cleaning up the beach, resulting in the removal of a whopping 123 tonnes of rubbish – mostly plastics. Sustainable Coastlines has educated more than 75,000 kids in schools about New Zealand’s coastline, and what they can do to preserve it says co-founder Judd.“We’ve been measuring behavioural changes and surveys and working with psychologists and that’s been very successful. We’re starting to see some numbers that show that yeah, kids are responding really well to the programme.”The education programme was developed to run in conjunction with large-scale beach clean-up events, to ensure that beaches didn’t just keep filling up with rubbish again. Sustainable Coastlines ran extensive data analysis on the rubbish that they collected, and what they discovered surprised them; about

85% of the rubbish removed came from the stormwater system. In other words, people littering on the beach wasn’t a huge problem. People littering on their own streets was. “There is a real disconnect in our community between litter on our streets, the stormwater drains and their route to the waterways and ocean,” says Judd. “If people knew what really happens when they drop plastic and the havoc it causes when it inevitably washes into the ocean, they wouldn’t do it in the first place.”Plastics are perhaps the biggest problem, as they entangle and are consumed by wildlife – around the world, and locally - often causing death. One of Judd’s colleagues, Camden Howitt, ran a presentation at Colville School in the Coromandel where he showed them pictures of dead birds with guts full of plastic in the North Pacific, then when the kids went out cleaning up they found a Pied Oyster Catcher – native to New Zealand – dead with plastic in its stomach. Judd also says that there is a growing amount of evidence to show that plastic rubbish – which can contain poisonous chemicals and essentially act like a sponge for pollutants in the ocean – is being eaten by fish.

What can we do?Visit loveyourcoast.org and check out different community events in your area to support cleaning up New Zealand’s coastline. No events in your area? Why not plan your own community event?“Kids can do it themselves using the event-planning tool on loveyourcoast.org; we’ve had several groups of kids that have done it

themselves like that. You can then upload the data online,” says Judd. For a small donation (to cover administration and cleaning costs) Sustainable Coastlines can also provide reusable rubbish sacks and gloves. Alternatively, schools can plan mufti days

and sausage sizzles to help raise money to clean up New Zealand’s coastline, book a school or community visit with the Sustainable Coastlines team, or anyone can make a donation online by visiting www.sustainablecoastlines.org.

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Summer is the perfect time to head down to your local beach and start discovering the plethora of plant and

animal species that dwell there. Sound intriguing but a bit overwhelming? Well… how about mapping out just 1 metre at a time?The Marine Metre Squared (MM2) project is an easy way for anyone to survey the plants and animals living on their local seashore.The NZ Marine Studies Centre, University of Otago, is encouraging everyone to partici-pate in long term monitoring of their marine environment – the Marine Metre Squared. Anyone can take part – individuals, families, schools and community groups.The Marine Metre Squared website (www.mm2.net.nz) is where you can find every-thing you need to get involved in this new

and exciting nationwide, citizen science project, get the tools to start surveying your local seashore, and find out where plants and animals that live between the tides are found around New Zealand.When you join the Marine Meter Squared project (it’s free), you can share your stories about your local seashore, sug-gest an idea for a mini project, describe the beauties and the beasts that dwell in your m2, and get and give help identifying animal and plant species. As a registered member, you can get full access to the online MM2 da-tabase where you can add your own survey data to show others what’s living between the tides on your local shore, and compare your shore with rest of New Zealand to find out which species live where using simple mapping and analysis tools.

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Day 1Recycling collection times may be different so make a note of the new time.

Day 2You can recycle:• Paper, glass, metals (food tins, drink cans, jar lids, wine bottle screw tops)• Plastics 1 and 2 (and in some places 1-7)

Day 3 Look for the Love NZ recycling bins in your area

Day 4 Recycle more packaging more often.

Day 5 Reuse. Use a reusable shopping bag when you go out shopping.

Day 6 Recycling reduces greenhouse gas emissions.

Day 7 Be clean and conserve space. Rinse out bottles and cans.

Day 8Reuse or recycle your Christmas cards. Around 60 million Christmas cards will be sent to New Zealanders this year.

Day 9Be a recycling champion at events Many sports stadia, concert venues and festivals now have Love NZ recycling bins.

Day 10it’s not just packaging that can be recycled – there are collection points for TVs, print cartridges and old mobiles.

Day 11 Separate your glass by colour in a glass bottle bank.

Day 12Make it your New Year’s Resolution to reduce, reuse and recycle even more in 2014. if we all do our bit New Zealand WiLL remain clean and green.

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In the words of Dr Seuss: “The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.”

Books have the power to inform, educate and entertain, and reading should be an

enjoyable experience shared with family and friends. For kids, a fun, supportive environment for learning to read is essential, and can be accomplished by providing ample opportunities to read, practice and experience the written word in a relaxed setting. Teaching children early reading skills through sharing books, storytelling, singing songs and playing games helps to develop basic knowledge and preparation for formal school instruction. It is never too early to read to children. There is a huge range of books available for babies in varying sizes and materials (fabric, cardboard, plastics) with bright colourful pictures, and babies love to hear the voice of their mother and father. It’s easy to develop a habit of regularly reading stories to your child; any time is a good time for books. Remember too, reading yourself provides a positive role model for children to encourage them to read, so even if it is just the daily newspaper or a magazine, make an effort to read around your child. Going to the local library is like a wonderland

for children, with its rows and boxes of books. Make an effort to go to the library on a regular basis, as borrowing new books keeps the excitement of reading alive at home. Let toddlers select books themselves, and spend time at the local library reading books together. Many libraries run story time sessions that are free to attend; these involve group stories, songs, rhymes and plays suitable for a range of ages. This also provides a great chance to meet up with other parents who live in the local area.Many toddlers develop an interest in certain subject areas such as trains, dinosaurs, fairies, policemen or dogs. Encourage and motivate your child to read by selecting books related to their interests. When children reach school age, make sure positive experiences continue and homework reading does not become a chore. Choose a time when your child is not too tired, hungry or distracted by their favourite television programme. Give your child lots of positive behaviour-specific praise – this helps them to recognise what they are doing well, which in turn boosts their self-confidence and fosters enjoyment in reading. Encourage your child to talk about what they have read. Asking them questions about how the characters might be feeling or what they would they do in that situation helps the child to relate the story to themselves and gain a deeper understanding. At school, children are required to be able to comprehend what they read, so practising these skills will support their learning and achievement. Reading does not have to be just for homework; there are

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Camping is a Kiwi tradition and an affordable family holiday option.

There are many Department of Conservation campsites by the sea, a

high-country lake or native forest where you can pitch your tent for the cost of a cup of cafe coffee (and perhaps a fluffy). This is not “glamping.” The facilities are basic—toilets, water and perhaps a picnic table or cold shower. But the beautiful settings and access to activities such as bush walking, biking, swimming, boating and fishing more than make up for the limited services. You can’t book these campsites—it’s first come, first served—but they are not often full. Visit www.doc.govt.nz for more information.

Tapotupotu campsite, NorthlandHere’s another reason to make the pilgrimage to Cape Reinga/Te Rerenga Wairua. New Zealand’s northern-most campsite at Tapotupotu Bay, just 10 minutes drive from the cape, offers an unspoilt white-sand beach, bush backdrop and nearby estuary.This is a wilderness camping area that you can drive to. DOC Kaitaia ranger Laree Furniss rates Tapotupotu Bay as a place to “kick back and relax,” when visiting the far North. “It’s a great base to explore the surrounding Te Paki reserve with its beaches, wetlands,

dunes and, of course, Te Rerenga Wairua.”A short boardwalk and bridge over mangroves connects Tapotupotu to Te Paki Coastal Track—a four-day walk from Spirits Bay around the tip of New Zealand. There are day walks from the campsite south to Pandora Beach or north to Cape Reinga.Facilities: 45 tent sites, tap water, toilets and cold showers. Pets are not allowed. Fee: $6 per night adult, $3 per night child, under four free.

Puketi campsite, Northland If you prefer bush to beach this small campsite

on the edge of the Puketi Forest, 20 km north of Kerikeri, could be more your thing. Puketi and Omahuta forests together form one of the largest tracts of native forest in Northland. They include important remnants of mature kauri forest, of which so little is left. The area is home to many native plants and animals including kiwi, kokako, kaka and lesser short-tailed bats.It’s a great base for day and overnight walks, and you can mountain bike on the old logging roads in the forest. Pigs and goats can be hunted with a permit.Facilities: 20 tent sites, tap water, toilets,

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Winnie-the-Pooh and the Grand Christmas Surprise By Alice Corrie Illustrated by Andrew GreyEgmontHardback $25This book is based on the original, with the novel device of letters in envelopes built into the pages. Pooh has a Christmas idea and soon all his friends receive rather misspelt anonymous letters inviting them to the North Pole for luncheon. This will be a special Christmas book to add to the library. Age 3 to 8-years.

While You Are SleepingBy Melinda Szy-manikIllustrated by Greg StraightDuck Creek PressHardback $29.99Paperback $19.99The world is a busy place, even while you are asleep. Find out who is awake on the other side of the world, what nocturnal animals are up to, and the occupations of people who work in the dark like bakers and farmers. The illustrations create clev-er connections between the pages, and the poetic text is perfect for reading aloud at bedtime. Ages 2 to 8-years.

TedBy Leila RudgeWalker Books Hardback $30Ted is a cute little dog with a green jumper but no-one seems to notice him in the pet shop. Then one day he spies a sign: “Wanted. Furry friend for Dot. En-joys long walks and ball games.” Could he at last have found his niche? Just perfect with sweet pencil and ink illustrations. Ages 2 to 8-years.

Don’t Look Now 1By Paul JenningsAllen & UnwinPaperback $15.99 Ricky longs to be famous, and when he discovers that he can fly, he’s sure that it will be his path to fame. Unfortunately he can only fly when no-one (person or animal) is looking at him, and if anyone looks he drops to the ground. Two stories in one, with more to follow in the series. Ages 6 to 10-years.

Spooky HouseBy Sally Rippin Illustrated by Aki Fukuoka Hardie Grant EgmontPaperback $12 First in the Billie B Mystery series. Billie starts a Secret Mystery Club with three friends and decides that for their first mystery they should find out what’s going on in the derelict house on the corner. In Billie’s enthusiasm, she frightens her friends away, and then gets a good scare herself. Ages 6 to 10-years.

The Nelly GangBy Stephen AxelsenWalker Books Paperback $25This story is set in the goldfields of Australia in 1859. Young Nelly races out of school when she hears her Pa strike gold. But bushrangers pounce, steal their gold and abduct Pa. Nelly’s not one to give up though. This adventurous story is told in comic format with lots of funny details for the eagle-eyed. Ages 8 to 12-years.

The New Zealand Wildlife Activity BookBy Dave GunsonNew HollandPaperback $24.99There are lots of opportunities here for kids to get practically involved with wildlife and the environment. There are activities suitable for preschoolers and older children, such as making a flying dragonfly or a pudding for the birds, getting out and about with the species spotter or collecting seashells to make a crafty critter or necklace. Ages 6 to 10-years.

Tui: A Nest in the BushBy Meg LipscombeCraig Potton PublishingHardback $30This book is an intimate view of a tui’s nest through the lens of the author’s camera. See two eggs laid there, hatched and the day-by-day development of the chicks to fledgling stage. There’s a brief text for each of the 37 days as the chicks change until final pictures of them standing independently.

The Hobbit, An Unexpected Journey: Chronicles - Art & Design By Daniel FalconerHarperCollins Hardback $59.99This is the first of a delectable collection of luxuriously bound books about how Peter Jackson’s movies of The Hobbit were made. This volume, packed with photographs, drawings and interviews, focuses on the art and design of the first movie. Written by a Weta Workshop designer. Fold-out map of Middle Earth at front. Ages 9-years to adult.

Loki’s Wolves KL Armstrong & MA MaarLittle BrownPaperback $19.99Matt Thorsen (13) knows his Norse myths well, as does everyone in Blackwell; descendents of either Thor, or Loki. Ragnarök (the apocalypse) is coming and Matt must find and lead the other descendants against the monsters. He’ll need a good team if he’s to change the path of destiny. Full of dramatic action with a cliff-hanger ending, ready for the next book in the Blackwell Pages trilogy. Ages 8 to 12-years.

RooftoppersKatherine RundellFaber & FaberPaperback $17Sophie was found as a baby, floating in a cello case after a shipwreck. Fostered by Charles who found her, the authorities disapprove of the bohemian way he is bringing her up and threaten to put her in an orphanage. They flee to Paris where Sophie begins her mother search in the shadowy night world. Ages 8 to 12-years.

Demon DentistBy David WalliamsHarperCollinsPaperback $25Alfie (12) hasn’t been to the dentist for years, but now the scary Miss Root has some very unpleasant treatment planned for him. There are strange tooth-related happenings in town - teeth left under pillows hoping for a reward from the tooth fairy are being replaced with gruesome things, and Alfie and his not-girlfriend Gabz are determined to find out what’s happening. Ages 9 to 13-years.

Crissi Blair lives with her family in west Auckland and spends her time reading and writing, mostly about children’s books. Crissi organised the Storylines Festival of New Zealand Children’s Writers and Illustrators for three years and publishes the useful guide New Zealand Children’s Books in Print which is updated every year. Visit www.silvertone.co.nz for more information.

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