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Ditch YourBirth Control!go natural with your birth control to live a
healthy, sexy, baby-free life!
By Elle Griffin
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Happy Yogis // 4Ditch Your Birth Control // 4by Elle Griffin
I hear you, you’re sick and tired of hormonal
birth control methods, but just don’t know how
to get off of them. I mean, there doesn’t really
seem to be a good alternative, does there? Trust
me, I know, I’ve been there! I was on the birth
control pill for seven years and was a basket
case for a solid two of them looking for an out.
It wasn’t until the day of my IUD appointment
that I burst into tears and decided I needed to
find an alternative. Little did I know at the time
that it would be one of the best decisions of my
life. A couple of good friends and an amazing
book later, I switched myself over to the
Fertility Awareness Method (or FAM) and never
looked back. I know what you’re thinking—
Ditch Your Birth Control!
FYI: I realize you could be using any
number of hormonal birth control
methods such as the pill, implants,
IUD’s, patches, or vaginal rings, but I’m
going to refer to them collectively as
“the pill” just for the sake of this guide.
Thanks for understanding!
Let’s get going.
natural birth control? I was skeptical too. We
grow up thinking we are ticking time bombs that
could get pregnant with the bat of an eyelash, and
yet we are never taught the science of how our
own bodies work. Choosing to use FAM set off a
ripple effect in my life, and now, years later, I have
countless friends and clients who have ditched
their birth control pills in favor of taking charge of
their fertility. Not convinced? Totally fine. That’s
why I wrote this guide! If nothing else, I want you
to know a little more about your body, how to
go pill-free if you do decide to, and how to find
a more natural means of birth control that works
for you.
Happy Yogis // 6Ditch Your Birth Control // 6by Elle Griffin
You know they’re bad. I mean, have you ever seen
a birth control commercial? They just go on for
decades thanks to all the risks they have to list
out. I used to live in denial. I thought, “I’m young!
I don’t smoke! I’m healthy. It will be fine.” But we
aren’t fine. Birth control pills mean an increased
risk of blood clots, strokes, and heart attacks. In
fact1, out of 10,000 women tested, between 1
and 5 non-birth control pill users will get a blood
clot in a given year while between 40-65 birth
control pill users will get a blood clot. To make
matters worse, you could become disabled, lose a
leg, or die because of that! (I know, I got dramatic
real fast.) And yet, that didn’t stop me at all.
I threw away that pamphlet each month and
moved on with my life. I mean, what else is there
to do?
Over time, my collection of excuses began to
pile up until I just couldn’t ignore them anymore.
Study after study has shown the pill to be behind
digestive ailments, food intolerances, migraines,
illness—I could go on and on. Birth control pills
compromise your immune system until your
liver just can’t handle a whole lot more than
The Downsides of Hormonal Birth Control Methods
you’re already giving it3. Your body begins to
accumulate ailments one by one until a whole
mess of health problems tumble down on you
at once, and you come looking for someone like
me, a wellness coach.
While there are many reasons to ditch your pill,
I’m bagging the laundry list. Here are my top
reasons why you should ditch your birth control
pills. Pick whichever one rings true for you!
All this trouble for something that still
doesn’t hold up 100% of the time! Even
a tiny bit of weight gain will shift your
metabolic rate meaning you’ll need
higher levels of hormones to get the
same results. Recent studies have shown
that women on the pill weighing more
than 155 pounds are 60% more likely to
have an unplanned pregnancy.
Happy Yogis // 7Ditch Your Birth Control // 7by Elle Griffin
Why You Should Ditch Your Birth Control
1 you could attract the wrong man
Millennia of evolution have primed our bodies to
pick our most compatible sexual partner. Who
you choose as your main man is more than just
romance, it’s chemistry. The deepness of his voice,
the smell of his skin, and even the taste of his
lips contribute deeply to whether or not you’re
aroused by a particular man. The problem is, all
this chemical attraction goes awry the second you
get fake hormones involved. Research confirms
that women choose different mates while on the
pill than while off. Some studies even go so far as
to suggest that the pill could be responsible for our
high divorce rates. “Women pick a husband when
they’re on birth control, then quit to have a baby
and realize they’ve made a mistake!”7 Yikes!
2 it kills your sex drive
I find it a tad ironic that a pill designed to put the
kibosh on babies also kills the desire to want to
make them. I mean, if you’d rather watch TV than
lather warm chocolate on each other, you may as
well just practice abstinence. The results will be
the same. How bad you want it is directly
influenced by the pill for both you and your man.
That’s right, the fatty acids (called couplins)
women secrete to spike sexual interest don’t exist
at all while on the pill9. Get off the pill, get on the
bed. It’s that simple.
3 it’s hurting your fertility
I know you don’t want little babes running around
quite yet. That’s why you are the pill right? But
what about later? Studies done in the U.K. have
shown that women who had previously taken
oral contraceptives were twice as likely to have
problems conceiving than those who previously
used condoms11. Even worse, the longer women
were on the pill, the longer it took them to
conceive. There are boatloads of women who step
off the pill expecting to start their family only to
find that it’s just not possible. Post-pill infertility is
very real, and very rampant. It could take months,
years, or decades for your body to find its groove
again. Sure, you can heal holistically (that’s what
I’m here for after all!), but why put your body
through the turmoil if you can go without it?
4 it’s stressing you out
In a natural menstrual cycle, estrogen and
progesterone work together to naturally balance
each other out. Estrogen is what gives us our
drive, creativity, ambition, and most importantly,
ovulation! But soon after ovulation, progesterone
steps in to counter that drive with tranquility,
relaxation, and serenity. If unopposed by
progesterone, estrogen irritates your nervous
system and keeps that constant state of drive and
ambition in action without allowing your cycle
the ease and rest a natural progesterone increase
would provide. Chronic stress during the pill
means your body gets a hefty dose of increased
cortisol, the hormone that helps you pull a car
off a child. Great when in danger, not so much
in everyday life. The associated cortisol backlash
Happy Yogis // 8Ditch Your Birth Control // 8by Elle Griffin
of elevated blood sugar and suppressed immune
system means you’re a prime candidate for
menstrual disturbances and hormonal imbalance10.
5 it’s ruining your health
Are you struggling with weight gain, depression, or
anxiety? Have you ever chalked up bloating, acne,
or irregular menstrual cycles to something you
ate or a face cream you used? Ever experienced
IBS, migraines, or chronic fatigue? I hate to break
it to you, but it could be your pill. Birth control
pills rework your body’s ability to metabolize
nutrients, meaning you are being robbed of
precious vitamins and minerals that are so crucial
to your health2. Most women don’t even know
how bad they felt on the pill until they get off
it. Worse still, these symptoms are only likely to
worsen over time as you become chronically
more malnourished.
6 it covers up hormonal imbalances
According to a recent study, 58% of women using
hormonal birth control use it for reasons other
than pregnancy prevention. Women are put on
the pill as a means of reducing menstrual cramps,
migraines, PMS, endometriosis and even acne!
The problem? All of these symptoms are signs
of an underlying hormonal imbalance that the
pill doesn’t actually cure. Instead it sweeps the
symptoms under a rug, masking your hormonal
imbalances and preventing you from achieving
real and vibrant health16. Later on, if you want to
get pregnant or get off the pill, your symptoms
will be right there waiting for you—and often in
a worse state than they were before. The longer a
hormonal problem exists, the more complicated it
is to treat.
7 it puts you at greater risk for cancer, heart disease, and diabetes
Breast, ovarian, and cervical cancers; heart disease,
diabetes; and osteoporosis are all disorders closely
tied to the amount of estrogen your body can
and cannot break down and move out of the
body. Because birth control pills keep estrogen
levels in your body chronically high, you are at a
much higher risk for disease, dementia, and the
big three: cancer, heart disease, and diabetes3. This
might sound hypothetical right about now. You’re
a young and vibrant being, after all! But cancer is
a slow-growing force and takes years to brew in
your body. Without your immune system there to
constantly knock misguided cells back into place,
you could be in real trouble down the line.
If these reasons aren’t big enough
persuaders for you, simply order up a
handy Google search to find one that
hits home. Heck, just read through the
pamphlet that comes with your method
of choice and check out the lawsuits
(my friend, there are many).
Want out yet?
Happy Yogis // 10Ditch Your Birth Control // 10by Elle Griffin
Infertile Baby Making Zone Infertile1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28
sperm survival
chart 1.0 - period - cervical fluid
Meet the Fertility Awareness MethodOk, so you want to get healthy and start living
according to your natural flow and hormonal
rhythm—but you don’t want to get knocked up.
I’m totally with you on that. So without further
ado, I’d like to introduce you to the Fertility
Awareness Method (FAM). FAM is contraception au
naturale and it’s pretty simple really: Use a barrier
method when you are fertile, go barrier-free when
you’re not! I’ve introduced countless women to
this sexy, natural method of birth control and I
can’t wait for you to be a believer too!
If Not the Pill, Then What?
So let’s go over the basics so you get a feel for
how it works: A woman only ovulates one day per
month, but in order to avoid pregnancy, we need a
nice big safety net around that date to account for
the fact that male sperm can live up to five days
once sent into action and female eggs can last one
day. We also need to add an extra day of safety
net on the off chance that a double ovulation
might have occurred (hellooo twins). This leaves
a period of about 8-10 days per month when a
woman could potentially get pregnant (see Chart
1.0 below). Simply use your barrier method of
choice during that fertile window and the rest of
the month you can go natural. Pretty great right?
ovulationegg
survivaldouble
ovulation
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Primary SignsNow I want to be clear here since you may have looked at that chart above and thought “Ok so I’ll use a
condom days 10-18 and be golden!” That is sooo not how it works. You’re thinking of the rhythm method
and that guy has long since been debunked. Every woman’s cycle is different and can range in length
from 24-36 days (for a regular cycle). So it’s super vital for a woman to be able to know when she’s
fertile and when she’s not. Thankfully, we have two ways of being able to pinpoint exactly when you’re
ovulating, so you know when to be careful.
TemperatureYour body maintains a consistent body
temperature that is unique to you. By noting your
temperature first thing every morning with a
basal body thermometer, you will notice that your
temperature stays within a certain “low” range for a
number of days. Right at the moment of ovulation,
your temperature will shift upward and stay at an
elevated level until menstruation. If your cycle is
regular, you should notice that the amount of days
before ovulation is roughly the same each month.
If, for example, you usually ovulate on day 14, you
can expect that to be the norm most of the time.
But because stress, travel, or interrupted routine
can throw off even a regular cycle, it’s important to
note your cervical fluid as well.
chart 2.0
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28
eggwhite
creamy
sticky
period
chart 3.0
Cervical FluidNoting your temperature only lets you know that
ovulation has already passed so it’s important to
note your cervical fluid, which will warn you of
impending ovulation. Cervical fluid is the white to
clear fluid your body produces as a means of lubing
you on up for ovulation. In a typical cycle, a woman
will have a number of dry days following her period
(see chart 3.0 below). As her estrogen levels start
to rise she will start to experience her first bouts
of cervical fluid in the form of sticky or crumbly
fluid that dries pretty quickly. This is followed by a
couple days of a more creamy, lotioney, or gooey
consistency as her body continues to prep for
ovulation. At peak fertility, a woman’s cervical fluid
will become clearer in color and stretchier—the
consistency of an egg white. At this time an egg
escapes through the Fallopian tubes, ready
to make magic with whatever sperm happens to
make her acquaintance on the way out. Of course,
as a dedicated FAM follower, you’ll know to keep
sperm from hanging around during this time of
the month.
Happy Yogis // 12Ditch Your Birth Control // 12by Elle Griffin
Secondary SignsMost women experience a number of secondary
signs in addition to noting their basal body
temperature and cervical fluid. You might find
that your skin clears, your breasts perk, and your
sex drive kicks into gear around the time of
ovulation. And don’t think this will go unnoticed
by the men-folk. An ovulating woman has an air
of confidence that calls on the world to shower
her with attention. You might even notice your
man’s libido picking up before yours does! Your
body was made to do this.
Effectiveness Rates I’m sure you’re all worried about effectiveness
about this point, but don’t be. I’ve got you
covered. Several studies have shown that fertility
awareness based methods are 98% effective
when abstaining from sex during your fertile
phase4, 5. One study even showed it to be 99%
effective at preventing pregnancy when used
alongside continuous coaching and monthly
reviews1, 13. During your fertile phase, however,
effectiveness ratings totally depend on the
barrier method you choose to use. If, for example,
you choose to go with condoms while you’re
ovulating, you’ll have a 98% effectiveness rating
during that time.
If you decide this might be the
best option for you, sign up for
one of my workshops where we’ll
dig into the intimate details and
learn how to chart. You can find
my class schedule at
ellegriffin.com/ditch-your-
birth-control
For women who use FAM correctly and
consistently, it is very effective. But as with
all birth control methods, typical use could be
a different story. The most common reason
pregnancies occur while using FAM is due to
“conscious non-compliance” (or knowingly
having unprotected sex on one of your fertile
days)5, 1. The second most common cause is due
to mistakes made while charting which means
it is absolutely critical that you receive proper
training on how to use this method. You’ll have to
be disciplined and chart your cycle every day, and
unlike hormonal birth control methods there’s
no such thing as cheating. A slip up right in the
middle of your fertile phase means baby-making
central! So long as you’re responsible, you’ll get to
enjoy amazingly natural sex whenever you want
it. And you’ll be wanting it a whole lot more now
that you’re hormone free!
Happy Yogis // 14Ditch Your Birth Control // 14by Elle Griffin
To keep the love fest going throughout your cycle,
you’ll need to use a barrier method during your
most fertile phase. Know how to operate the
barrier method of your choice and you’ll be much
better off. Let’s take a look at which one might
work best for you.
CondomsYou think you hate them, but give them a chance.
They really aren’t so bad. And if you choose to
follow the Fertility Awareness Method, you’ll only
have to use them about 8-10 days per month.
(That means another 20 or so days of condom-
free sex!) If you can’t get your man on the FAM
plan, just stick to these guys and you’ll be safe. Get
creative about how you put them on and you’ll
both be more likely to love them.
Pros:
+ The most effective of the barrier methods.
+ Keeps the semen clean and tidy after sex.
+ Best option for all the single ladies.
+ Promotes shared responsibility for birth control
by both men and women.
+ The only barrier method that also prevents
against STD’s (another common cause of
feminine disorders!)
+ King Richards’ Condoms even donates a
condom to a third world country for every
one you buy. Happy, safe sex for all!
Choose Your Barrier Method
Cons:
- Sometimes you just want a little skin on skin.
- Some guys are really not into wearing them.
- Can be a bit of a mood disrupter.
- You need to carry them with you at all times in
case the mood strikes you just right.
method used efficacy with5, 12 perfect use
Fertility Awareness Method
98%
Condoms 98%
Withdrawal 96%
Diaphragms 94%
Today Sponge 91%
Happy Yogis // 15Ditch Your Birth Control // 15by Elle Griffin
Withdrawal There are no live sperm in pre-ejaculatory fluid. So long as your man can get on out of there before
ejaculation occurs, you are in the clear. As always, I still recommend charting. While this method is 96%
effective overall, that extra 4% inevitably happens during a woman’s peak fertility.
Pros:
+ Plenty of hot, uninterrupted fun. Well,
right until the end, that is.
Cons:
- Messy tummies!
- Don’t have the added benefit of using his sperm to spur
your orgasm.
- Your man must be disciplined! If you are having too
much fun, the temptation alone might keep him from
pulling away in time.
DiaphragmsSimilar to a condom but with the added benefit of being able to put it in place ahead of time, Diaphragms
sit up in your cervix (alongside some handy spermicide) to block whatever sperm comes its way.
Pros:
+ Can be inserted hours ahead of time if
you’re a wily planner.
+ Only need to replace it every two years
or so.
Cons:
- Funky to get used to if you haven’t explored your vagina
in a while.
- Spermicide can get messy and isn’t the most natural of
products (many women are allergic).
- You will need to schedule a doctor visit to get fitted for
your diaphragm.
- Some people just aren’t fans. Personal preference, I guess!
Today SpongeWhen you first hear the name it sounds pretty strange. But it’s actually pretty cool! And it has the added
benefit of being able to insert 24 hours ahead of time. That leaves a LOT of room for spontaneity. The
sponge is inserted alongside spermicide (for extra protection) and is placed like a little cap over your
cervix. You don’t even need a doctor’s appointment to get one. Just stop by your local pharmacy and pick
one up.
Pros:
+ Can be inserted 24-hours in advance so
you can have sex anytime, anywhere!
+ Available over the counter. No more
doctor visits!
Cons:
- Less effective than other barrier methods
(see chart on page 14).
- Spermicide can get messy and isn’t the most natural of
products (many women are allergic).
- Most effective for women who haven’t given birth.
- Takes practice to insert and remove.
Happy Yogis // 16Ditch Your Birth Control // 16by Elle Griffin
A Note About IUDsI realize that for some of you, fertility awareness or barrier methods might not be the best choice. If you
are uncomfortable with any of the options above, are unable to consistently chart your cycle, or are not
responsible or reliable with your birth control methods, your next best option is Paraguard, the copper
IUD. Paraguard doesn’t contain any hormones and could be a good fit for ladies in need of something a
little more permanent. It works as a physical blocker, not allowing any sperm to make its way into your
uterus. Of course, it has its own share of downsides.
Pros:
+ Highest effectiveness of all non-
hormonal birth control methods.
+ Can pretty much forget about it once
it’s in.
+ Can leave it in for up to ten years.
A Note about STDsIf you are single or your partner hasn’t
been tested for STD’s, condoms are
the only way to go! STD’s are much
more prevalent today than they used
to be and even healthy individuals
have them. That puts you at an
increased risk for all kinds of feminine
disturbances and chronic disease, so it’s
best to proceed with caution. When in
doubt, use a condom!
Cons:
- Requires painful insertion and removal by your doctor.
- Many women require surgical removal after it “gets stuck
up there!”
- Results in heavier periods due to your body continuously
trying to dispel the device and “cleanse it out.”
- Can hurt your future chances of getting pregnant (In
some individuals, scar tissue forms in your uterus at the
implantation site).
- In the 1% chance that a baby does result, it could
mean very serious health concerns to both you and the
little fetus.
- Has many associated risks and lawsuits. Doesn’t
everyone “know a friend who (fill in the blank)?”
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Getting StartedI know! It’s sooooo exciting to realize that you can
ditch your hormones AND stay baby free!! Even
better, you can start right this second. Here’s how
to transition:
1 learn fam
Take one of my Ditch your Birth Control
workshops for an intimate understanding of
FAM and how to chart. You can also get the book
“Taking Charge of your Fertility” by Toni Weschler
for more information. It’s pretty much the bible
when it comes to FAM and charting.
2 choose your barrier methodBuy your sponge, diaphragm, or box of condoms
and get straight to using them. Since your cycle
might be a little off at first, it’s best not to start
using FAM right away. You’ll need to give yourself
a solid 3-4 regular cycles before you start phasing
out the barriers. If you still aren’t experiencing
regular cycles after a few months, chat me up at
How to Ditch Your Birth Control
3 get a thermometer and chartYou will need a basal body thermometer, a fertility
chart, and knowledge about how to use FAM
before you can transition. You can order a glass
or digital one from fairhavenhealth.com. I have
free charts available on my website and in my
planner or you can download the FemCal app for
your iPhone.
4 ditch your birth control pillSince your body isn’t actually cycling, it doesn’t
matter what time of the month you quit. Just do
it! Once the hormones are out of your system,
you’ll receive your usual withdrawal period. Count
day one of your post-pill bleeding as day one of
your cycle.
5 start charting
Start charting your cycles right away. I’d be happy
to look over your chart for a few months to make
sure you’ve got the hang of it! Find out more at
happyyogis.com/ditch-your-birth-control/
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Common Post-Pill SymptomsNow we’re at the part you’ve been dreading—the
part where you have to bid adieu to the hormones
and brace for the chaos that is bound to ensue. It’s
true, sometimes getting off the pill can feel like
adolescence coming back for round two, but it’s
completely different for everyone. Some of you
might find your cycles have no problem picking
up where they left off. For others, the pill’s
hormonal shutdown will take considerably
more time to heal.
Here are a few of the most common post-pill
symptoms. This list is not exhaustive and differs
person to person.
- Cravings
- Oily skin/ acne
- Bloating/ water retention
- Greasy hair
- Excess facial or body hair
- Body odor
- Breast reduction
- Mood swings
- Nausea or upset tummy
- Heavy or light periods
- Spotting
- Short, long, or non-existent menstrual cycles
Post-pill symptoms differ from person to person. Don’t worry, most of
them are only temporary!
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Ease the TransitionNo need to fret just yet! There are a few things
you can do to shorten this little episode. In the
name of trying to keep this post-pill era short and
sweet, here are a few things you can do to ease
the transition:
1 eat avocados
Natural hormone balancers
and a good source of quality
fat!
2 take maca
Another hormone balancer,
maca can be eaten plain or
taken as a supplement and has
the added benefit of ramping up your sex drive.
3 take black cohosh or vitex berry supplements Both are hormone balancers and can keep you
more even-keeled during the transition.
4 reduce conventionally raised meat and dairy products
Conventionally raised meat
and dairy products are a major
source of hormones that will only
exacerbate the problem! Go grass-
fed, free-range, and organic.
5 reduce sugar, alcohol and caffeine
All disturb your blood sugar balance,
crucial to balancing your hormones!
6 reduce soy
Soy behaves like excess estrogen to your hormonal
system. Leave it alone for the time being.
7 get outside!
Nothing combats the doom and
gloom like a few rays of sun on
the skin.
8 go easy on your workouts
Keep the cardio to a minimum and emphasize
walking or stretching. (Think yin, not power yoga).
The key is to not put too much physical stress on
an already taxed out endocrine system.
Happy Yogis // 21Ditch Your Birth Control // 21by Elle Griffin
9 use salicylic acid
If your skin goes the acne route, it can help to
have a combat team on hand. I like Aveda’s Acne
Relief Pads.
10focus on stress relief Your body is used to chronically
elevated levels of estrogen (and
thus chronically high levels of
stress). When getting off the
pill, your natural tendency will
be to keep that over-stressed,
busy lifestyle going which will
only hinder your hormones
from getting back into gear. Build an hour or two
into each day strictly for R&R. Your body needs it
to heal!
11 treat yourself!
Allow yourself to splurge
on cute little bras you’ve
never been able to wear
before. You might need
a new swimsuit too.
Get yourself measured
while you’re at it. Your
bra size will probably
have changed.
12 get support!
Since you may be a little emotionally off kilter,
it’s best that whoever’s living with you be in
on the action. Tell your husband, roommate,
or family that you’ll be
undergoing a transition and
that you’ll need their support.
There’s nothing worse than a
husband caught in the middle
of a hormonal crossfire!
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This guide is the perfect first step in discovering which options are available to you, but it certainly isn’t
all-inclusive. If you are interested in using FAM, I strongly recommend seeking additional help or guidance
as you begin tracking your cycle. Every woman’s body is different and you don’t want an “oops” to
become a baby! Contact me or a FAM educator near you to make sure you are on the right track!
Learn the Fertility Awareness Method
Ditch your Birth Control Workshops My Ditch your Birth Control workshops offer an
in-depth guide to charting and a chance for you to
ask any questions you might have.
+ Take the Workshop: Learn how to effectively
chart your cycles so you can avoid babies
naturally using the Fertility Awareness Method.
Find out more on my website at
ellegriffin.com/ditch-your-birth-
control/
One-on-One Charting SupportWhen you are first setting out on your charting
journey it can be really helpful to have a FAM
educator provide personalized charting support
for you and your man. I’d love to review your
charts, answer any questions you might have,
and make sure you are on the right track for safe,
effective birth control.
+ Personalized Charting Support: I’d love
to review your charts and answer all
your questions!
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Enroll in my three-month program!If you’ve ditched your birth control only to
discover your cycle is a little less than stellar, you
might need a reboot. Many women come off the
pill only to find they now have short, long, or
even non-existent periods! It’s ok. All those fake
hormones stopped your real ones from working
and they’ll need some time to heal. If your cycles
don’t regulate after 3-4 months or if you are
experiencing any or all of the symptoms below,
my three-month program will get you back on
the road to hormonal harmony.
- Irregular or absent menstrual cycles
- Menstrual cycles that are shorter than 25 days
or longer than 36 days.
- Lack of sex drive
- Weight gain
- Depression or anxiety
- Irritability or mood swings
- PMS
- Acne
- Fatigue
Restart or Regulate your Cycle
Get Cycle SavvyIf your menstrual cycle is absent, irregular, or
less than stellar, join my three-month fertility
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+ Balance your Hormones: Hormone by hormone,
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body. Each week will include all the science and
strategies you need to jump start that whole
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+ Balance your Life: So many women come to me
because they’ve tried the diet and exercise thing
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About ElleNice to meet you! I am a wellness coach on a
mission to help women ditch their birth control
pills and heal hormonal imbalances holistically!!
That’s right, I went au naturale with my birth
control and now live a sexy, healthy, happy, and
baby-free life as a result. You can too!
I live in gorgeous Marin County, California with
my amazing husband who has somehow gotten
over the fact that I talk about our sex lives all
over the internet. We love to get up early, drink
espresso from tiny cups, watch the sunrise, and
tune into some Jack Johnson as we boot up
our laptops for some co-working action in our
jammies. It’s a good life.
Apart from my day job, I’m also a harp player,
youth minister, dress designer, French speaker,
trail runner, and want-to-be gardener.
I hope this guide has been helpful to you in your
search for more natural methods of birth control.
Thanks so much for reading and being part of my
growing little community! Lots of love in your
direction. Stay in touch!
About Elle
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