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Coaching for
Leadership Survival
Max Coates
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Turning Heads
The Candle Problem
Attach the candle to the
wall or corkboard so that
the wax does not drip on
the table.
You have: -
• Candle
• Box of matches
• Box of drawing pins
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In a study of skills that distinguish star
performers in every field from entry-level
jobs to executive positions, the single most
important factor was not I.Q., advanced
degrees, or technical experience; it was
E.Q.
I.Q. and academic skills are entry-level
requirements for jobs of all kinds...but have
little to do with how you’ll succeed once
you get there. Emotional intelligence
accounts for 90 percent of what’s required
for leadership.
Limits and Boundaries
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Working with
challenging
clients
Cortex - 40 neural impulses per second
Limbic System - 40 million neural impulses per second
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Slot machine
7 + 2
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Visual Acuity Test
Is rectangle A < = > rectangle B?
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Which is larger, South America or Europe?
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Is South America < = > Europe?
The answer is…South America
South America is 6.9 million Square Miles
Europe is 3.8 million square miles
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Peter’s Projection
South America
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Reticular Activating
System
Bias to the negative
Self - Esteem
Nathaniel Brandon
The Problem With Turkeys
George W.
Confirmation Bias
Stress
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Back to Badbury Rings
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Stress tops the lot
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It is all about focus
Explanatory style
All or nothing
Perfectionism
Catastrophisation
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Mentoring / Coaching for: -
Performance
Wellbeing
Creativity
Five things to do approaches
Listen
Encourage relaxation (the opposite of depression)
Explore reframing ( work with the prevailing story, Seligman)
Challenge language
Support life style change
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Three things not to do: -
Take charge (adapted parent, do not be too effusive)
Do not be judgmental
Do not move to solutions too early (SMART targets, GROW etc)
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Spotting a bad coach
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Mc Clelland - Diagnostic
Break 5 minutes
Personality Preference and Leadership
Impact
Affiliative
InfluenceAchievement
Personality Preference and Leadership
Impact
Erotic
NarcissisticObessive
The Candle Problem
Attach the candle to the
wall or corkboard so that
the wax does not drip on
the table.
You have: -
• Candle
• Box of matches
• Box of drawing pins
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Candle Problem
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Purpose
Autonomy Mastery
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Any questions?
Institute of EducationUniversity of London20 Bedford WayLondon WC1H 0AL
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“Turning Heads” was written and presented by Max Coates
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