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Attracting True Romance:
Girl! Stop Sweating That Dude!!!
Written by Diana Boss
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This Book is dedicated to the struggle.....
All my ladies FEEL ME.
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This is a humorous account of what we allgo through in the dating game. At first
glance, this book may appear to be a male
bashing book. That is furthest from the
truth. This is a woman empowering book. It
does no one any favors when we dont putourselves and our own personal
development first. For any valuable
relationship, focusing on personal growth
will only strengthen the bond, thus leading
you into an amazing life of healthy, vibrant
friendships, then ultimately TRUE
ROMANCE.
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Sooooo...........
You decided this time would be different.Youve acted like a lady.
And hes come on strong.
Hes even come correct. Hes told you how
beautiful you are, texted you minutes after
you had that hot and heavy make out
session and EVERYTHING. So whats the
harm in having him over to your spot
tonight? Youre not gonna hump him
anyways, and he can be on his way after
you watch this movie, right?
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SYKE!!!!!
How to StopSweating
Dude
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So, ya humped him. So much for playinghard to get.
Rule #1:
Do not call or text him first for 30 days.
Hes a man. He wants a challenge.
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Think of yourself as a rarejewel whose value goes up
the less available you are.
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Rule #2
GET A LIFE.Or better yet, just get back to your amazing,
fabulous dope ass life anyways. How soon
we forget that we are the shit and have far
too much going for us to be sweating no
dude.
Rule #3
Pour that desire for love into your lifes
passion.
If hes worth your time, this will only makeyou more attractive. This is your life. You
only get one shot. Do not miss your chance
to BLOW UP!!! The minutes within should
be invested into people, places, things and
ideas that will reap you a marvelousreturn,which is an incredibly fun and
rewarding life!!
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Rule #4
Keep him to yourself.
Dont talk about him yet to anyone.
ANYONE. Seriously, if you want to stop
breaking a sweat, stressing yourself out
about dude and where this relationship is
gonna go, dont turn it into a love story until
he proves himself to be worth your mention.
Its time to separate the Good Power U
( the va-jay-jay) from your true hearts
desire.
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Rule #5
DO NOT, AND I REPEAT, DO NOT GET
ON FACEBOOK AND BEGIN TO LOOK AT
HIS PAGE AND WALL.
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All the pretty girls hes talking to
will begin to look like they arehitting on him, and when his drop
dead gorgeous cousin tells him
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she loves him and he returns the
sentiment, its curtains
for your imagination.
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Rule #6
Since ya didnt listen to rule #5,
please please PLEASE dont post no witty
retort on the same thread of convo as him
and his cousin, or update your status to
Funny how you give yourself to
someoneand they shit all overyou right in front of your face.
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Rule #7
BE YOURSELF.
You know, clean your house to some kick
ass Drum and Bass or House music, do
your yoga, go to the museum, draw your
paintings, work on your business, etc. Dontconform to the supposed type of your guy.
DO YOU.
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Rule #8
NO SETTLING.
Make a list of values and traits that you
want in someone and stick to that shit. You
dont have to settle.
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Rule #9
Kick it wit yo people.
Your friends are Ultra Rad, and they need
you around and fully present. Give them
your all and enjoy your time with them while
you can. Some day you all will have a
family and you may not be able to make
memories quite like this.
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Rule #10
Day Dates Only
Girl, you know you always end up lettin
him whisk you away and hit it when you
spend the night hitting that whiskey til the
early morn. So for the first 30 days, go to
lunch, the park, fishing, golfing, whatever
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but dont go out to dinner and tha club. Not
yet.
Rule #11:If he is more than 15 minutes late to your
next encounter or just no call, no shows,
CASECLOSED.
NO EXCEPTIONS.
HIS LOSS.
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RULE #12Get in touch with who you really are.
Seriously. Who are you? What special gift
do you have to give to this world?
If you are even reading this, you must
be an amazing woman who is quite social
and active. So you meet tons of amazing
people in turn. Spend quality time with
yourself first to make sure that you are in
alignment with your spirit center. Lets face
it, if we listen to our vibe feelers, we know
exactly that moment when something
comes up that is questionable. Even if that
something is our reaction to an action. Timefor time out. Dont sleep on that feelin, and
DO THE RIGHT THING LIKE SPIKE LEE.
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RULE #14
Create a Dream List
That is, do everything that is your heartsdesire. It is actually along this path that you
will connect with the man of your dreams
effortlessly. The reality is, our existence is a
lifelong journey of discovery. Writing a list of
the things you want to accomplish is a great
step in creating an AMAZING life. A life
partner should complement this list, not
replace it.
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RULE #15
WORK OUT AND GET YA TEETH DID!
Thats right! Get to working on all thosethings that enhance your self image and
worth. Remember back in the day when
people used to say, I aint studying you?
Real Talk! Dont study others, study
yourself. So lose that weight, get those
braces and that new haircut! Then do what
is necessary to represent yourself at your
best, and anything you cant change, learn
to love!
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RULE #16ABSOLUTELY NOOOO PICTURES!!!
Or should I say, Ab-SLUT-lutely NO
pictures? Within the beginning of any
romance, girl, dont send that fool nopictures! Damn girl, can you save
SOMETHING for later? When he gets that
pic, itll be less Damn, shes so fine and
more like sayin Im a trick! Save the freak
in you for your man for real.
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RULE #17
WHY YOU TRIPPIN??
Is there really something special about this
guy and your relationship? Or is he just
satisfying your co-dependency issues? Iknow this pill can be hard to swallow , but
you better crush that shit up and get to the
bottom of this pattern that you may be
doomed to keep repeating if you dont
answer the question. Again, it is the time
you spend exploring yourself that will help
you to answer these questions over time.
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RULE # 18
Dont beat yourself up.
Look, this habit of interaction didnt happen
overnight. Just keep working these rules
and forgive yourself if you have the
occasional flip out or slip up. Just nip it inthe bud when the wrong urges or emotions
come up, and remember that everyday is a
new day to start all over.
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RULE #19
Be true to yourself about how you feel
about dude.
If after full examination you realize that you
really actually like this guy and your
relationship, then allow yourself to like him.
Just dont set any expectations. Allow him
to court you in his time while you do your
thing in yours.
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RULE #20
shoulda been Rule #1
LEARN TO LOVE MEN FOR WHO THEYREALLY ARE.
Not who we want them to be. Enjoy the
likeable traits and become true friends with
them. If you are like us, most men that you
know are fantastic friends, just not the
greatest partners. Or even more important
still, perhaps this is not the best use of your
relationship with one another. Love them for
who they are for you, and expect nothing
more.
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RULE #21NO TWITTER FEED HUNTING, ANDSTILL
NO SEARCHING ON THEIR FB PAGE!!!!!
Youre playing with fire, dunny. Unless you
just LOVE to be miserable and playingmental Fill in the Blank.
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RULE #22Make a Vision Board.
If you keep looking for the things homie is
NOT doing as your pastime, you better
believe that you will find more and more!Start setting your eyes directly on your
desires! Take a large piece of cardboard
paper, get some magazines that have
images of the lifestyle you would like to
enjoy, create words of inspiration out of the
words and letters of the magazines
headings, and go to town creating a
collage! Look at your masterpiece everyday
to remind yourself where you are headed
and what is coming to you. The guy that
best fits that lifestyle will come with the
territory, please believe, especially if you
have his qualities in their as well!
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Rule #23STOP OVERREACTING.
So he hasnt called you today. BIG DEAL!
Get busy. You have shit to do. Hell holla at
you later.
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Rule #24Dont change up your priorities.
If you have a goal set in mind and have
been diligent about it, then keep it moving.
Dont always be so available. This isnt aform of game playing, its just keepin it real.
You are driven and your man will only
respect that. If you have conflicting
schedules this early in the game, only the
more reason to be extra excited and create
special moments when you DO get
together.
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Rule #25Consult with God and your inner spirit
guide.
Another shoulda been #1 Rule, but I knew
we had to get you out of the danger zonewith the first few rules. Ask the Higher
Power if this is the right guy for you, and let
your conscience be your guide.
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Rule #26
Are you EXPECTING something great or
something awful out of this?
This new love interest or romance can be agreat growth experience for you, no matter
how it plays out. You may be growing to
stop taking all the bullshit, or putting
yourself out there to quickly. You may be
learning how to be treated like a queen,
something someone may never had done
for you before. Whatever the case may be,
enjoy your steps of growth! You are
becoming more of the woman that you
know you are!!
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RULE #27Love thyself.
All in all, you will never love someone or
allow them to love you unless you love
yourself. However you find your peace andquiet, take that time with yourself and use it.
Meditate, Pray, and all that. Listen, if you
dont take the time to love yourself, forgive
yourself, and figure out what you want to
get out of this life, then why in the world do
you expect that someone else will take the
time to do it for you? Dont neglect loving
and caring for yourself, it is crucial to
happiness! If you follow all of the rules in
this here book, you will find yourself having
dug yourself out of the rut youve created in
the past. Now, open up your universe to
true love!!!
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THE BEGINNING........