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Welcome to Brainy montessori
“What does it take to be a good parent?”
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“Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.” Lady Bird Johnson
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How to be a good parents?
IntroductionINTRODUCTION
How to be a good parents?
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“Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.” Lady Bird Johnson
• An educational approach developed by Maria Montessori
• Characterized by an emphasis on:• Independence• freedom within limits• respect for a child’s natural psychological,
physical, and social development.
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Welcome to Brainy montessori
1. Spending quality time with the childrenINTRODUCTION
How to be a good parents?
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“Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.” Lady Bird Johnson
• Find the creative ways to spent time with them, so our family can connect in meaningful, positive ways.
• focus on things that your child enjoys doing so he or she has an opportunity to relax and simply display their strengths.
• designate a regular family time as part of your routine
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2. Learn to observe the childINTRODUCTION
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“Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.” Lady Bird Johnson
• Carefully observe our children’s behavior and interests
• It can help parents to understand their children and help them to get many clues as to what it means to parents from a Montessori perspective
• Learning to be an observer of your child is a lifetime skill that takes time to develop
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2. Learn to observe the childINTRODUCTION
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“Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.” Lady Bird Johnson
• Become a student of your child’s developmental needs and focus on what is appropriate for his current age level and ability.
• Organize the child so they can be successful and keep them easily within reach
• Respect the child for who he is and try to understand thei capabilities.
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3. Always talk to the childrenINTRODUCTION
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“Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.” Lady Bird Johnson
• It is important to listen carefully to your child and sincerely engaged in thoughtful communication.
• Don’t wait for “important” conversations to have any conversations
• Stop shaming the children in front of others• Keep trying to have a good conversation with
the children
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4. Be a better sharersINTRODUCTION
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“Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.” Lady Bird Johnson
• Not by telling them to share but encourage them to be better sharers.
• Sharing is more of a theoretical concept. • The altruistic actions in caring for others and
putting yourselves in other people’s shoes are just not realistic to expect little minds to be firing on all those cylinders.
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5. Be a good examples to the childrenINTRODUCTION
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“Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.” Lady Bird Johnson
• Children, in general, do tend to grow up to be a lot like their parents.
• Parents have to be a positive role model. • Parents should be very careful of how they
behave themselves.• Always remember, if you are telling a lie, how
can you expect your child to stop lying?
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ConclusionINTRODUCTION
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“Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.” Lady Bird Johnson
• Kids respect adults who walk their talk. • Children are sensitive and able to distinguish between
adults who only talk a good game and those who play the game by the rules they preach.
• Credible adults inspire kid’s confidence and admiration.
• Hypocrisy disillusions children and sends them looking for others to follow.
• It turns out that folk’s wisdom is right after all; seeing is believing.
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