Post on 16-Aug-2015
Make people listen to you
Based on a Ted talk by Julian
Tresure
People Don’t Listen to me...
Once Obama said it too..
Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking
It’s true :)
Gossip
We know perfectly well
that the person gossiping, five minutes later
will be gossiping about us.
A real bad habit.
Judging
We know people who are always judging in conversation and it’s very hard to interact with them.
Negativity
They always make you feel as a loser.
ComplainingHard workers find the path and the left over just complain.
So, people always complaining are never embraced.
Excuses
Exaggeration
“Dogmatism”
The four Cornerstones^
^The foundation on which we can build
the world where people listen to us.
LOVE
Wishing people well...
The Toolbox
The tools of voice that we use in order to speak powerfully
Recap• People don’t listen to me• Seven deadly sins of speaking –
gossip, judging, negativity, complaining, excuses, exaggeration, dogmatism.
• The four cornerstones - HAIL• The tools of voice to make it
powerful.
References
• Ted talk by Julian Tresure.• Pictures from Google images.
Disclaimer
Created by Aakash Tripathi, IIT(BHU), during an internship by Prof. Sameer Mathur, IIM Lucknow.