Affective Leadership: How Leaders Connect

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How Leaders Make Connections

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“Affective Leadership is the ability to connect with and influence other people to change the future.” ~ Lyn Boyer

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Connections occur only when

an emotional bond is

established.

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How do Leaders Make Emotional Connections?

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Emotional Intelligence“…three abilities that distinguish the best leaders from average: self-awareness, which lets you know your strengths and limits…; self-management, which lets you lead yourself effectively; and empathy, which lets you read other people accurately. You put all those together in every act of leadership.”

~Daniel Goleman

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Genuine Caring

“Connecting is all about others …It’s not about you.”

~ John Maxwell

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Building Trust

“The glue that holds all relationships together - including the relationship between the leader and the led - is trust, and trust is based on integrity.”

~Brian Tracy

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Listening

"The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them.”

~Ralph Nichols

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Questioning

"Effective questioning brings insight, which fuels curiosity, which cultivates wisdom.“

~ Chip Bell

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Speaking

Ninety percent of leadership is the ability to communicate something people want.  

~ Dianne Feinstein

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Leadership Presence

“Presence, or lack of it, is often the factor that determines if others will eagerly follow, simply tolerate, or indignantly ignore one who wants to lead them .”

~Lyn Boyer

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Lightness

The ability to summon positive emotions during periods of intense stress lies at the heart of effective leadership.                               ~ Jim Loehr

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