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What is holding people back from the life that they truly want to live?

Id say that one very common and destructive

thing is that they think too much.

They overthink every little problem until it

becomes bigger and scarier and it actually is.

Overthink positive things until they dont look

so positive anymore.

Or overanalyze and deconstruct things and so

the happiness that comes from just enjoying

something in the moment disappears.

Now, thinking things through can be a great

thing of course. But being an overthinker can

result in becoming someone who stands still in

life. In becoming someone who self-sabotages

the good things that happen in life.

I know. I used to overthink things a lot and it held me back in ways that werent fun at all.

But in the past 8 years or so I have learned how to make this issue so small that it very rarely pops up

anymore. And if it does then I know what to do then to overcome it.

In this article I would like to share 9 habits that have helped me in a big, big way to become a simpler and

smarter thinker and to live a happier and less fearful life.

1. Put things into a wider perspect ive.

It is very easy to fall into the trap of overthinking minor things in life.

So when you are thinking and thinking about something ask yourself:

Will this matter in 5 years? Or even in 5 weeks?

I have found that widening the perspective by using this simple question can snap me quickly out of

overthinking and help me to let that situation go and focus my time and energy on something that

actually does matter to me.

2. Set short t ime-limits for decisions.

If you do not have a time-limit for when you must make a decision and take action then you can just keep

turning your thoughts around and around and view them from all angles in your mind for a very long

time.

So learn to become better at making decisions and to spring into action by setting deadlines in your daily

life. No matter if it is a small or bigger decision.

Heres what have worked for me.

For small decisions like if should go and do the dishes, respond to an email or work out I usually give

myself 30 seconds or less to make a decision.

For somewhat larger decisions that would have taken me days or weeks to think through in the past I

use a deadline for 30 minutes or for the end of the workday.

3. Become a person of act ion.

When you know how to get started with taking action consistently each day then youll procrastinate less

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by overthinking.

Setting deadlines is one thing that have helped me to become much more of person of action.

Taking small steps forward and only focusing on getting one small step done at a time is another habit

that have worked really well.

It works so well because you do not feel overwhelmed and so you do not want flee into procrastination.

And even though you may be afraid, taking just a step is such a small thing that you do not get paralyzed

in fear.

4. Realize that you cannot control everything.

Trying to think things through 50 times can be a way to try to control everything. To cover every

eventuality so you do not risk making a mistake, fail or looking like a fool.

But those things are a part of living a life where you truly stretch your comfort zone. Everyone who you

may admire and have lived a life that inspires you has failed. They have made mistakes.

But in most cases they have also seen these things as valuable feedback to learn from. Those things that

may look negative have taught them a lot and have been invaluable to help them to grow.

So stop trying to control everything. Trying to do so simply doesnt work because no one can see all

possible scenarios in advance.

This is of course easier said than done. So do it in small steps if you like.

5. Say stop in situat ion where you know you cannot think straight .

Sometimes when I am hungry or when I am lying in bed and are about to go to sleep negative thoughts

start buzzing around in my mind.

In the past they could do quite a bit of damage. Nowadays I have become good at catching them quickly

and to say to myself:

No, no, we are not going to think about this now.

I know that when I am hungry or sleepy then my mind sometimes tend to be vulnerable to not thinking

clearly and to negativity.

So I follow up my no, no phrase and I say to myself that I will think this situation or issue through when

I know that my mind will work much better.

For example, after I have eaten something or in the morning after I have gotten my hours of sleep.

It took a bit of practice to get this to work but I have gotten pretty good at postponing thinking in this

way. And I know from experience that when I revisit a situation with some level-headed thinking then in

80% of the cases the issue is very small to nonexistent.

And if there is a real issue then my mind is prepared to deal with it in much better and more constructive

way.

6. Do not get lost in vague fears.

Another trap that I have fallen into many times that have spurred on overthinking is that I have gotten

lost in vague fears about a situation in my life. And so my mind running wild has created disaster scenarios

about what could happen if I do something.

So I have learned to ask myself: honestly, what is the worst that could happen?

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And when I have figured out what the worst that could happen actually is then I can also spend a little

time to think about what I can do if that often pretty unlikely thing happens.

I have found that the worst that could realistically happen is usually something that is not as scary as what

my mind running wild with vague fear could produce.

Finding clarity in this way usually only takes a few minutes of time and bit of energy and it can save you a

lot of time and suffering.

7. Work out .

This might sound a bit odd.

But in my experience working out especially with lifting weights can help me to let go of inner tensions

and worries.

It most often makes me feel more decisive and when I was more of an overthinker then it was often my

go-to method of changing the headspace I was in to a more constructive one.

8. Spend more of your t ime in the present moment .

By being in the present moment in your everyday life rather than in the past or a possible future in your

mind you can replace more and more of the time you usually spend on overthinking things with just being

here right now instead.

Three ways that I often use to reconnect with the present moment are:

Slow down. Slow down how you do whatever you are doing right now. Move slower, talk slower or

ride your bicycle more slowly for example. By doing so you become more aware of how you use your

body and what is happening all around you right now.

Tell yourself: Now I am I often tell myself this: Now I am X. And X could be brushing my teeth.

Taking a walk in the woods. Or doing the dishes. This simple reminder helps my mind to stop

wandering and brings my focus back to what is happening in this moment.

Disrupt and reconnect . If you feel you are getting lost in overthinking then disrupt that thought by

in your mind shouting this to yourself : STOP! Then reconnect with the present moment by taking

just 1-2 minutes to focus fully on what is going on around you. Take it all in with all your senses. Feel it,

hear it, smell it, see it and sense it on your skin.

9. Spend more of your t ime with people who do not overthink things.

Your social environment plays a big part. And not just the people and groups close to you in real life. But

also what you read, listen to and watch. The blogs, books, forums, movies, podcasts and music in your life.

So think about if there are any sources in your life close by or further away that encourages and tends

create more overthinking in your mind. And think about what people or sources that has the opposite

effect on you.

Find ways to spend more of your time and attention with the people and sources that have a positive

effect on your thinking and less on the influences that tends to strengthen your overthinking habit.

Credits to: http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2013/11/20/how-to-stop-overthinking/

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Nick Otto Minnesota State University, Mankato

Oh man. I mind fuck myself all day long. I go through red lights,miss turns, forget what I am doing because im trapped in myhead over thinking. I am terrified of looking like a foo or makingmistakes. Im to the point where I dont even have a socil lifebecause I cant wait to be alone where I dont perceive the worldto be a bizzarre and doomed place. I have this thing were I justreally am fed up with the human race. I overthink every move Imake making it impossible to get even most mundane taskdone. I either make it to big or make it somthing that doesntmatter. I quiey see what our speices does everyday and I justwant to run. I am obsessed with news I see the hypocricy in oursociety. I even have some pretty cool answers I think since I amalways thinking of solutions to do absolutly nothing about. Ineeded to read this so bad. My life is on a downward spiral and Iam soley to blame. Being present, letting others in, findingsome disipline and go for it. What I think we as a peolplesdestiny is is my "whats the worst that could happen" so reallywhat have I got to lose. Myabe if I love me I wont hate everyoneelse. Whoa. Nice post thanks.

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Ashley Daugherty Cincinnati

I so understand! Oh my god yes! I didn't think anyoneelse thought this way also o.o

Reply Like April 11 at 4:01am23

Chad Oko

I used to read the newspaper every day, I stopped for3 months as an experiment.

All the news does is fill your head with negativethings you have no control over and foster a fearbased worldview. If I can't personally do somethingabout all the bad things in the world and I'm alreadyaware (from years of reading the news) that badthings are happening every second... why put myselfthrough it every morning with my coffee?

After 3 months without newspapers and watching thenews I'd never go back. Give it a try.

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Fran Weller Top Commenter

Nick! I can totally relate to how you feel! I feel thesame way as you! You are not alone!

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Tom Blitsch Technician at New Century Communications

I find it amazing when someone I don't know knows me so well.The things you wrote about describe me to a "T". Thank you forsharing this!

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Brian Finan Remington College

I don't mean to scrutinize or god forbid

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The article offers some sound reminders to help us notoverthink a problem. Unfortunately some of the readerscomments indicate they overthought the article and the meaningis lost to them...hope you take the time to reread it andconcentrate on the meaning rather than the grammar.

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