Seymour Middle School
Officer Hilgenberg– Police Liaison Officer
Ms. Landreman– Dean of Students
Mrs. Vogel – Counselor
What We Need to Remember….When we talk about bullying we need to
respect each other’s feelings and privacy.
It is NOT okay to criticize what other people say or do as we talk about bullying.
Let’s handle this discussion maturely.
TruancyWisconsin State Statute 118:
“Truant” means a pupil who is absent from school without an acceptable excuse for part or all of any day on which school is held.
You are considered truant when:You are tardy for class or are not in your assigned
locationYou do not come to school and do not have an
acceptable reason.If you are truant:
You could receive a citation from law enforcementYou could be referred to Juvenile Intake and be
assigned a social worker.
GET TO CLASS!!
VIDEOhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHbYfRNaGpM
The Effects of Bullying
Why do we talk about Bullying?
Bullying is a very serious social and legal problem. All schools must take steps to stop it from happening.
By learning about bullying, we are creating a healthier school environment for everyone.
Set you on right path….Studies show that bullies are more likely to be
incarcerated as adults, more likely to have drug/alcohol abuse, and more abusive relationships
Colleges/Employers – think about your future – once it’s out there it’s for LIFE
1. Bullying is just teasing.
FALSE!
While many bullies tease, others use violence, intimidation, and other tactics.
Definition of Bullying
A person is being bullied or victimized when
he or she is exposed repeatedly and over
time, to negative actions on the part of one
or more persons.
(Olweus, 1991)
2. Some people deserve to be bullied.
FALSE!
No one asks to be bullied!
Bullying is unwanted negative actions!
TYPES OF BULLYINGPhysical AggressionSocial AggressionVerbal AggressionIntimidationRacial and Cultural (Ethnic) HarassmentSexual HarassmentCyberbullying (Kix, Twitter, Pinger, text
me, Facebook, email, Instagram, Snapchat, Voxer)
Racial Harassment
Joking telling with racial or ethnic targetsExclusion due to ethnicityRacial or ethnic slursPublic humiliationPhysical or verbal attacks due to ethnicityExamples
Email Jokes “N” Word
Sexual Harassment
“Dirty” jokesHowling, cat calls, whistlesStare downsSpreading sexual rumorsPressure for sexual activityDe-panting (consequences-Disorderly Coduct)Cornering, blockingSexting: Displaying sexual graphics (sending
pictures)That’s “Gay”
3. Only boys are bullies.
FALSE
It may seem that most bullies are boys, but girls can be bullies too.
4. People who complain about bullies are babies.
FALSE
People who ask for help with bullies are standing up or their right not to be bullied and to have a safe school.
5. Bullying is a normal part of growing up.
FALSE
Getting teased, picked on, pushed around, threatened, harassed, insulted, hurt, and abused is not normal!
6. Bullies will go away if you ignore them
FALSE
Some bullies may go away BUT most will get angry and keep bullying until they get a reaction.
7. It’s tattling to tell an adult when you are being bullied.
FALSE
It’s smart to ask an adult for help when you are being bullied or when you see someone else being bullied.
Purpose – Keep people safe/Harmful to others
8. The best way to deal with a bully is by fighting or trying to get even.
False
If you fight a bully you may get hurt and will get into trouble for fighting.
Also aren’t you acting the same way as the bully if you try to get even???
Best Way to Deal With A Bully:("What Students Say About Bullying“ Davis and Nixon.)
Most effective: Seeking encouragement, advice, and protection from friends and adults:
- Telling an adult at school (38% said this made things better, 27% worse);
- Telling an adult at home (37% better, 16% worse);
- Telling a friend (36% better, 15% worse)What was least effective: Trying to handle it
yourself
9. People who are bullied might hurt for awhile, but they’ll get over it.
FALSE
Bullying can hurt for a long time.
Many adults can remember times when they have been bullied in middle school. ASK THEM!
EFFECTS of BULLYINGACADEMIC
School avoidanceTruancyLower gradesLower self-esteem
EFFECTS of BULLYINGHealth Problems
Loss of appetiteNervousnessDepressionHeadaches / StomachachesLoss of sleep
EFFECTS of BULLYINGAdjustment Problems
Emotional DistressAnxietyLonelinessSuicidal ideations and attempts
BYSTANDERS Most ignored and underused resource in
schools
85% of a school population – “silent majority”
Become desensitized over time – diminished empathy
Advocate for Yourself!!Take responsibility for your own actions;
behavior, academics, personal issues.School is your job, no one else is responsible
for your actions or should need to defend you for minor issues.
You have a voice... Use it!
Reporting Bullying1. Tell a Teacher – Who, What, When, Where,
and How2. If problem continues fill out a white slip (by
office window)3. Ms. Vogel or Ms. Landreman, depending on
issue, will meet with you after you have done step 1 and 2
Office ContactIf you need to speak to someone in the office:
Fill out a blue slipFill out a white slip
If someone is in immediate danger, tell us immediately!!
If you have a problem and do not let us know, we cannot help you.
CRIMESTOPPERS
Help keep our school safe and remain anonymous!
If you’re aware of:Drugs, alcohol, weapons, theft, vandalism or
harrassment… let someone know! You could be eligible for a cash reward!www.432stop.com(920) 432-STOP
Reporting Bullying
Be Kind and Compassionate to
everyone you meet, they may be fighting
a battle you know nothing about.
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