The Abbey
The Episcopal Church of St. Benedict March 2014
Bolingbrook, Illinois
Ash Wednesday, March 5 6-9 a.m., Ashes “To Go”: drive-thru @ the portico
12 noon, Ashes and Eucharist, spoken
7:30 p.m. Ashes and Eucharist, with choir
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From the Vicar
Every Lent at St. Benedict, we change Sunday worship in some dramatic ways. We
rearrange the furniture, “choir style,” so that we face each other like Benedictine
monks in a monastery. We empty the font of water and fill it with sand. We take
away the altar platform and stand together around the altar in a crowd for
communion. We start worship with a confession (we do a long one on the first
Sunday of Lent! – the Great Litany). This year, we’ll also use the traditional language
of Rite 1 from the 1928 prayer book, too – it can be beautiful, and sometimes
strange.
Some folks cringe every Lent at these changes. But Lent is meant to be a time of
discomfort. This isn’t to punish ourselves but to stretch our understanding of God to
new places. Lent pushes our spirituality out of the comfort zone!
This year, on our website and in the narthex, you will find a little “how to” guide for
giving up (or taking on) something for Lent. This isn’t required, but it can be a
powerful way to commemorate the season. Is there a way to make yourself a little
more uncomfortable this Lent, not just at church, but in your daily or weekly life?
Giving up meat on Fridays, or every day? Giving up shopping once day a week?
Giving up alcohol? Taking on some spiritual reading?
You can be creative. One year, a St. Benedict youth gave up mascara! Last year, my
discipline was to drive the “long way” out of our subdivision each time I went
somewhere, to slow myself down.
Lent is a time to try to stretch the strength of our spirits and bodies and learn to fill
our empty places with God, instead of other stuff.
Rend your hearts and not your clothing. Return to the Lord, your God, for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love, and relents from punishing. (Joel 2:13)
The Rev. Heidi Haverkamp
Priest and Vicar
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Children’s Education
Classes meet after worship, from about 10:15-11:15am on the second and fourth
Sundays of each month.
Holy Moly Bible: Kids are divided by age group for crafts (Ruth & Sarah). Then all
ages will gather together for the Bible story and video (Jacqueline, Ruth, Sarah).
Holy Moly I, ages 4-6 (Ruth Denofrio), along green hallway.
Holy Moly II, ages 7-10 (Sarah Allcock), second classroom, blue hallway.
Sunday Youth Group: ages 11-16 (Rev. Adam Frieberg), first classroom, blue
hallway.
Lent for Children
Sock and Underwear Drive
The Sunday School will collect underwear and socks for homeless boys and girls
living at Morningstar Mission, to be offered and blessed at the Maundy Thursday
service. Stay tuned for more info.
Create a “Jerusalem Mobile”
A gift to all families with young children. Cut out a picture with a scripture on the
back for each day of Lent, and use yarn or string to make a mobile that tells the story
of Jesus in Jerusalem.
Read the Bible Together
Suggested for kids age 4 and up: The Jesus Storybook Bible: Every Story Whispers
His Name, Sally Lloyd-Jones, $10-17
Suggested for kids age 9 and up: The Story, ZonderKidz, $8-10
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Lent for Adults Inquirers’ Class
Interested in learning more about your faith? in being confirmed or
baptized? in becoming an Episcopalian, or reaffirming your faith as
an Episcopalian? Come join a discussion-based class with Rev. Heidi
for people in all places on their spiritual journey. Meeting TBD
depending on participants.
Wednesday Bible Study – Romans
7:00 – 8:30 p.m. - The Rev. Adam Frieberg
Explore Paul’s magnificent letter to the Romans with Adam, who studied Greek in
seminary with a special emphasis on Paul.
Sunday Seminars -- meet after worship in the couch room The Gospel of John – Dick Bennett The Lenten Gospel stories are familiar to all of us! These specific Gospel stories
have been listened to by the Church for 1800 years. We will simply listen to the
Gospel and ask ourselves: "hear what the Spirit is saying to you"!
Daily Devotions
Videos: Love Life - Living the Gospel of Love - short, daily videos from the
Brothers of St. John the Evangelist. Website: ssje.org/ssje/lovelife
Booklet: Renew a Right Spirit Within Me will be available the first week of
March, or can be downloaded at www.livingcompass.org/free-resources.html
The Rite of Reconciliation (Confession)
Contact Rev. Heidi, or for more privacy, contact a priest from another parish: The
Rev. Matt Humm, St. John’s, Lockport, or The Rev. Ellen Ekevag, Grace, New
Lenox.
Holy Baptism You are welcome to consider baptism for you or your child at St.
Benedict! Especially appropriate Sundays include when the Bishop will
be visiting with us (April 6), Easter morning (April 20), and Pentecost
(June 8). Contact Rev. Heidi to talk about dates and scheduling pre-
baptismal instruction.
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Helping the Needy During Lent
Serve a Meal - Saturday, March 22
11:15am – 1:00pm
Serve lunch to residents and guests of
Morningstar Mission, Joliet. Sign up in the
narthex or with the office. Space is limited.
Men’s Toiletry Kits
Collect personal items for the men of Morningstar Mission.
Watch for more information. (Donna Williams)
The Episcopal Church of South Sudan
We will be taking donations for the churches of our
companion diocese, Renk, South Sudan as they minister to
the needs of refugees, orphans, the hungry, and the injured
as a result of the civil war. Give directly at
www.episcopalrelief.org.
Daylight Savings – “Spring Forward” Sunday, March 9
Daylight Savings returns on March 9. Sadly, this means we get one
less hour of sleep. But what an appropriate way to start the First
Sunday of Lent! Set your clocks forward one hour so you won’t be
late for church.
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M A R C H SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY
2 FAT SUNDAY Giving Sunday 3 4 9:00 am Holy Eucharist Transfiguration of the Lord The Rev. Liz Meade, Preaching Fat Sunday Pancake Breakfast
7:00 pm Codependents Anonymous
8:00 pm AA
9 First Sunday in Lent 10 11
9:00 am Holy Eucharist Children’s Formation: Holy Moly & Youth Group Sunday Seminar: Gospel of John (Dick Bennett)
Daylight Savings – Spring forward!
7:00 pm Healing Prayer Meeting
7:00 pm Codependents Anonymous
8:00 pm AA
16 Second Sunday in Lent 17 St. Patrick’s Day 18 9:00 am Holy Eucharist Sunday Seminar: Gospel of John (Dick Bennett)
6:30 pm Bishop’s Committee Meeting
7:00 pm Codependents Anonymous
8:00 pm AA
23 Third Sunday in Lent 24 25 9:00 am Holy Eucharist Dick Bennett, Preaching Children’s Formation: Holy Moly & Youth Group Sunday Seminar: Gospel of John (Dick Bennett)
7:00 pm Healing Prayer Meeting
7:00 pm Codependents Anonymous
8:00 pm AA
30 Fourth Sunday in Lent 31 9:00 am Holy Eucharist Michelle Braxton, pianist (Brian Cromer on vacation) Sunday Seminar: Gospel of John (Dick Bennett)
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2 0 1 4 WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY
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10:30 am AA
5 ASH WEDNESDAY 6 7 Vicar’s Day Off 8 6-9am Ashes to Go (parking lot) 12 pm Ashes & Communion
7:30 pm Ashes & Communion, with Choir
7:00 pm Choir Rehearsal 8:00 pm AA
7:30 pm AA
10:30 am AA
12 13 14 Vicar’s Day Off 14
7:00-8:30 pm Bible Study 9:00 am Contemplative Prayer Group
NO CHOIR REHEARSAL
8:00 pm AA
7:30 pm AA
10:30 am AA
19 20 21 Vicar’s Day Off 22 7:00-8:30 pm Bible Study 7:00 pm Choir
Rehearsal 8:00 pm AA
7:30 pm AA
The Abbey Deadline
6:30 pm Grace and Race Dinner and Movie
10:30 am AA
11:15-1:00 pm Serve a Meal Morningstar Mission
26 27 28 Vicar’s Day Off 29 7:00-8:30 pm Bible Study NO CHOIR
REHEARSAL 8:00 pm AA
7:30 pm AA
9:30 am Men’s Breakfast Family Square 10:30 am AA
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Contemplative Prayer Group Thursday, March 13, 9:00-10:30 am
Lectio Divina is listening for the still, small voice of God that personally speaks to
you while reading Scripture. The simple steps of this ancient prayer practice are read,
reflect, respond and rest – the four “R’s”. Read a Scripture passage slowly and listen
with your heart for a phrase or word that stands out for you. During a second reading
of the same passage, reflect on what touches you, maybe speaking that response
aloud or writing it in a journal. Third, respond with a prayer or expression of what
you have experienced and what it calls you to. Then, rest in silence after the reading.
Contact Laura Mitrisin ([email protected]), Dick Bennett, or Esther Simonson if
you have any questions.
Grace and Race Friday, March 21 – 6:30 p.m.
Join us for dinner and a movie on Friday, March 21, 2014 at 6:30 pm at St. Benedict.
The movie Traces of the Trade is about a prominent Rhode Island, the DeWolfs,
family who trace their involvement in the triangle of the slave trade. The Episcopal
Church has “enthusiastically” endorsed Traces of the Trade screening at the General
Convention and regional conventions. Come out and enjoy a wonderful dinner and a
thought provoking movie. Sponsored by Donnie and Donna Williams, and Grace
and Race.
Journey to the Holy Land December 26, 2014 – January 8, 2015 sponsored by the Peace and Justice Committee & Episcopal Peace Fellowship of the Diocese of Chicago
Take a trip to the Holy Land to better understand the complexities of the history and
of the conflict between the Palestinian people and Israel. We will visit the sites where
Jesus lived and died and from which Christianity developed its traditions. We will
also meet with religious leaders from all three faiths, as well as community organizers,
members of the United Nations and government organizations. The cost of the trip
will be $1400-1500/person, not including airfare and insurance. Deadline for
registration is May 1. Deposit of $500 is due June 1. Please contact Rev. Anthony
Vaccaro, M.D., at [email protected], for detailed information and
itinerary.
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Morningstar Mission
Come Serve a Meal!
Saturday, March 22, 11:15am - 1:00pm
Sign up in the narthex or call the church office. Don’t forget that you need to
complete a volunteer application form, available on the information table or from
Morningstar. For more info call (815) 722-5780 or check out their website,
www.morningstarmission.org
We had a successful planning meeting for our Sunday Seminar on February
2nd. We have planned several events throughout the year and hope that many of
you will join us in this worthy cause, especially the BBQ in August. If you have any
questions, or would like to volunteer, please contact Patty Wilson,
[email protected], Frank Spoto, [email protected], Donna Williams,
Planned Events:
4 Serve a Meal Dates - 2 Saturday lunches and 2 weekday dinners
Lenten Project:
o Sunday School-Underwear and Sock Drive
o Adult: Men’s Toiletries Drive
o Personal Lenten Journey: Knowing the cost of a meal is $2.05, using the
money you would have spent say on your morning latte (if that is what
you were giving up for Lent) to pay for x amount of meals. You can do
that on your own at through the DONATE feature on the Morningstar
Mission website.
Group Volunteer Day at Treasure Chest Spring 2014 (date and further info
to follow)
Host Saturday Lunch BBQ for the Men’s program-August (date to be
determined and planning to start in early summer)
Jump on the Bus-August (more details to follow)
Fill the Truck-Fall (more details to follow)
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Congratulations, Donna Ialongo! The Rev. Donna Ialongo, our former priest associate, has been called
as the interim rector of St. Barnabas Episcopal Church in Glen Ellyn.
This is wonderful news for Donna and for St. Barnabas, whose
rector, Matt Gunter, left after he was elected Bishop of the Diocese of
Fond du Lac. Donna will leave her job at Northwestern College to
serve St. Barnabas full-time. This also means Donna won't be
available to serve as our supply priest during Rev. Heidi's sabbatical in
the fall, but the sabbatical team is confident we will find another wonderful priest to
worship and preach with us. Blessings to Donna in her new ministry!
Blessings of 2013 (from the 2014 Annual Meeting)
1. Adam Frieberg’s Photos
2. Wednesday Night Bible Study
3. Expansion to 3 Sunday School Classes
4. Mortgage Pay-off!
5. Our Vicar, Heidi
6. An Open and Accepting Community
7. Our Intern, Liz
8. The Blue Christmas Service
9. Many People Involved
10. Christmas Pageant on a Sunday Morning
11. Diversity of Music
12. Instruments in Worship
13. A Warm Congregation
14. Everyone is Cheerful and Upbeat
15. High Quality of Awesome Auction Donations
16. People Stepping Up
17. Lay Preachers
18. Farmer’s Market – chair, Jill Crisman
19. A Strong Bishop’s Committee
20. Many Maintenance Volunteers
21. Support of Jacqueline in Ordination
Process
22. The Giving Tree: Supporting Needy Families
23. Coat Drive – chair, Nichole Selock
Welcome Visitors! We welcome all newcomers who worshipped with us in February. Some made
themselves known to us:
The Rev. Matt and Leslie Gunter (Bishop Elect of Fond du Lac, formerly
of St. Barnabas, Glen Ellyn)
Dan Frieberg, Des Moines, IA
Ingrid, Annie & Jensen Bridges,
Bolingbrook
Save the Date – Changed!
Sunday, April 6, 2014
Bishop Jeffery D. Lee
will be joining us for Worship!
Special Thanks!
to Patty Wilson, Frank Spoto, and Donna Williams, for leading the Morningstar
Mission planning meeting for 2014.
to Patty Wilson, for decorating the bulletin board for Epiphany with Morningstar
information.
to Donna Williams and Liz Meade, for leading Sunday Seminars in February.
to Frank Spoto, for hosting Dinner and a Movie on behalf of Grace and Race.
to Adam Frieberg and Dick Bennett, for preaching in February.
to Esther Simonson, for hosting the Bishop’s Committee retreat when a pipe burst
at the retreat center.
to the Bishop’s Committee, for giving a Friday night and Saturday for leadership
and planning for our church community in 2014.
to Frank Klupshas, for ordering a sign for the west entrance which the Village will
install this spring.
to Laura Mitrisin for donating a print of the Annunciation by artist Henry Tanner.
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Rev. Heidi Haverkamp, Vicar [email protected]
Rev. Liz Meade, Postluant Intern
Esther Simonson, Warden Don Williams, Warden
Sarah Allcock, Jill Crisman,
Ruth Denofrio, Sheeba Eapen,
Tish Sanborn, Mark Wright
Bishop’s Committee
Brian Cromer,
Music Director [email protected]
Becky Fleming,
Church Secretary [email protected]
The Church of St. Benedict
909 Lily Cache Lane
Bolingbrook, IL 60440
www.stbenedict.ws
(630) 759-5955
Sunday Worship 9:00 a.m.
Office Hours
Monday, Wednesday & Friday
9:00 a.m. – Noon
The Episcopal Church Welcomes You!