X3 Pure Couples Chapter 5
Transcript of X3 Pure Couples Chapter 5
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Chapter 5: X3Pure Couples Series
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Resolving Conflict
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• Every relationship has conflict
Resolving Conflict
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Four Approaches to Conflict
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1. Win - This person wants to win the argument.
Four Approaches to Conflict
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1. Win - This person wants to win the argument.
Four Approaches to Conflict
2. Yield (lose) - This person yields to their partner during conflict.
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1. Win - This person wants to win the argument.
Four Approaches to Conflict
2. Yield (lose) - This person yields to their partner during conflict.
3. Withdrawal - This person does not like conflict and will do anything to avoid it.
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1. Win - This person wants to win the argument.
Four Approaches to Conflict
2. Yield (lose) - This person yields to their partner during conflict.
3. Withdrawal - This person does not like conflict and will do anything to avoid it.
4. Resolve - This person makes an effort to resolve conflict.
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Resolving Conflict
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Resolving Conflict
• Conflict is good, especially when you can resolve it
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Resolving Conflict
• Conflict is good, especially when you can resolve it
• Conflict can bring two people closer
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Resolving Conflict
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Resolving Conflict
• Confront in love
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Resolving Conflict
• Deal with anger in conflict
• Confront in love
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Resolving Conflict
• Deal with anger in conflict
• Confront in love
• Get to forgiveness
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Loving Confrontation
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Loving Confrontation
• Ephesians 4:15 “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.”
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Loving Confrontation
• Ephesians 4:15 “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.”
• Speak the truth in love
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Loving Confrontation
• Ephesians 4:15 “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.”
• Speak the truth in love
• Truth telling in a gentle loving way
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Bricks in Relationships
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• It is critical for relationships not to have bricks in them
Bricks in Relationships
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Homework Assignment
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Homework Assignment
• Identify your approach to conflict
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Homework Assignment
• Identify your approach to conflict
• Identify a brick in your relationship