Women Demystified1
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Women Demystified
Communication skills presentationArpit Agarwal
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Background
• Recipe for disaster:– Small town guy– Focus only on academics– Studied at Trichy– That too NIT
• Searched for solutions– Made friends– Ladder theory
Learning
• Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus– “Why do we always have to work for them?”– “Why doesn’t she send me as many SMSs as I do?”– “I stand for gender equality. Why are they given an
undue advantage?”• All women are queens and princesses • They are committed and extremely sensitive• Life is much tougher being a woman– Prejudice, Restrictions, Glass ceilings, unwritten
rules…
Ladder Theory
• One ladder for most men – that of attraction– All women on the same scale– Higher the women, more interested he is
• Women have two ladders– One for attraction, One for friendship– Both equally important – Both are equally close emotionally – Friends constitute the sense of personal
‘space’
Attraction
Men’s ladder
Attraction
Friendship
Women’s ladders
Ladder rules
• Ladder jumping not allowed – A best friend may never become
boyfriend– She may not share everything with
her guy
• A person higher on the ladder gets preference– Availability at a particular time matters
• Simultaneous progress on both is a myth
Attraction
Friendship
Women’s ladders
Takeaways
• Be clear what you want from her– Most women set their expectation in first few
minutes
• “We are just friends” could be the truth– Women take time to trust a person– Don’t push and spoil a good friendship
• Observe your Ma, sister, colleagues and friends– Rough-toughness can take you nowhere– Being gentle mannered is a good idea
References and disclaimerwww.laddertheory.comwww.ladderwiki.comPersonal views only. Your experience may differ.
Not an attempt to humiliate anyone.Just showing a way to understand relationships
May not solve all problems of your life.
Number of women in life does not mean successIt could actually mean the opposite!
All queries welcome – [email protected]
Thank You!