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PlusA Reading Guide to

Death and Rebirthby Bodhisæra

1997 AN INWARD JOURNEY BOOK

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King Milinda: ‘He who is born, Nagasena,is he the same person oranother?’

Nagasena: ‘Neither the same nor another.’King Milinda: ‘Give me an illustration.’Nagasena: ‘In the case of a pot of milk

which turns first to curds, thento butter, then to ghee; itwould not be right to say thatthe ghee, butter and curdswere the same as the milk butthey have come from that soneither would it be right to saythat they are something else.’

Note: The Greek king Meanders (Milinda) questioned ArahantNagasena on many difficult or controversial topics of theBuddha’s teachings. The text we have nowadays is pro-bably legendary though it is likely to be based on a histor-ical encounter of the king with exponents of the Buddhistorder of monks. (See: The Questions of Milinda 2.2.i)

PREFACE

uddhists usually don’t have a problemaccepting the teaching of rebirth. Al-

though Western science has not been able tocome up with hard proofs, increasing evidencegained in so called soft sciences (psychology,philosophy, sociology, parapsychology, etc.) anddifficulties in explaining how life could origi-nate from matter, boosted the discussion aboutpossible lives before birth and after death. Asthe famous French writer Voltaire said:

It is not easier to explain the origin of lifefor one existence than for two.

If one accepts the idea of rebirth then comesthe question what is it that is reborn? There aretwo main schools of thought. One is based onthe idea that in each individual there is a stable

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and eternal soul (self, or inner spirit) whichtransmigrates from one life to another. Only thebody is subjected to the law of impermanencyand is ‘shed’ like the skin of a snake upon death.If the soul is reborn in human realm it is calledreincarnation1 .

The second school of thought is based onthe idea of non-self or soullessness. Here, notonly matter is considered as being impermanentbut also feelings, consciousness, experience,knowing, and so on—that means all aspects ofthe mind. It says that all components of a being,that is the body and the mind, arise, stay anddisappear continuously at a sub-perceptive level.But each set of mind and body having arisenwill condition by way of kammic potential theimmediately following set of mind and body.So also on death. One last set of mind and bodyarises in this existence, comes to an end, con-ditioning and giving way to a new set of mindand body.

Because this process of arising and passingaway is tremendously fast we can usually only

1 carne meaning flesh, the expression means tobecome flesh again or to return into a physical body.

see the results of it, in the case of death forexample the material compound left behind afterthe cessation of the last consciousness in thisexistence.

We illustrate the idea with the transmissionof energy between billiard balls. The ball hit bythe player collides with another ball, then standsstill, empty of the energy that made it rollingbefore. The newly started ball again may hitanother ball transmitting to a new entity theenergy which kept it going before. The new ballsalways inherit ‘something’ from the old balls,yet they are never the same.

One mind moment arises, rolls on and comesto an end, passing on a kammic force or imprintwhich conditions the next arising mind moment.One material compound arises, ceases and con-ditions the next.

When King Milinda asked arahant Nagasena:“Can it be that one does not transmigrate andyet is reborn?” Nagasena’s answer was: “Yes,it can. Think of some man who were to light alamp from another lamp. The lamp does notpass over to the other. In the same way onedoes not transmigrate and yet is reborn.” Re-

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search into materiality in the 20th century physicslends support to the insights into impermanencetaught by the Buddha: no matter is stable, allmatter changes. In the neuro-sciences the mostrecent insights indicate that all there is in themind is an ever changing range of perceptions,thoughts, feelings, etc., which are hard to grasp.

Earlier we said that usually one does notperceive these ultra quick changes of mind andbody. We are aware on a conceptual level thatthe body is growing old and moods are chang-ing. Where has the body gone which ‘we had’ten years back? And what happened to the mindof our childhood? This rapid incessant changeof mind and body can be experienced directly.Concentrating the mind and observing our bodysensations and mind processes we can verifythe theory of impermanence through penetrativeexperiential knowledge. This mental investi-gation is called insight meditation (in Pali lang-uage vipassana bhavana). The effect of theinsight gained from such meditation will event-ually lead to a change of one’s attitude towardlife as attested to by all the successful Buddhistmeditators starting with the Buddha himself.

While the Buddhist psychology of Abhi-dhamma gives us the most fundamental explan-ation of change the research of rebirth on aconceptual level does also bring us many valu-able insights. This research includes Near DeathExperiences, remembered accounts of past livesof children, past life regression through hypnotictrance, and other approaches. Most researchersassume a soul or spirit transmigrating from onelife to the next. This is to be expected as thepeople who have Near Death Experiences orremember past lives do not usually have thepenetrative tool of insight meditation to investi-gate the processes on the profoundest levels.Their findings are nevertheless important. Theycontribute much to our understanding of thekammic forces involved in rebirth, of otherrealms of rebirth and of feelings involved indying from one life and reappearing in another.

A vast field of study has opened, research iscarried out in many branches of science. Thecollected material is already extensive andexciting. We present to the reader one beautifulexample of this research, done in Myanmar bythe late Francis Story. For those who would

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like to do further reading on death and rebirthwe include in the appendix a guide to some ofthe best literature available.

BodhisæraPenang, 1997

THE STUDY OF REBIRTH

Professor Ian Stevenson1 of the Departmentof Neurology and Psychiatry of the Universityof Virginia has collected upwards of 600 casessuggestive of reincarnation from various partsof the world. Their geographical distribution,ranging from North Africa to Alaska, shows thatthey occur among peoples of diverse culturalbackgrounds and even in cultures where religiongives no sanction to the belief in rebirth. A com-parative study of these cases reveals that theyhave certain features in common which seem

1 For his work see reference in the Reading Guide.

independent of conditioning factors in thesubjects’ mental environment. A case of appa-rent reincarnation is usually regarded as a scan-dal when it comes to light in a community wherereligious orthodoxy is entrenched against thebelief. It is impossible to estimate, of course, howmany such cases are suppressed for this reason.

In the cases in Asia which I have studiedpersonally inhibiting social influences do notplay a large part. Sometimes there are familialcomplications which prevent prolonged studyand controlled tests of the case. The parents ofa child who claims to remember a previous lifeand who has identified certain living persons ashis former father and mother usually wish tobreak the child’s attachment to these claimedparents rather than encourage it by fosteringhis memories. In several cases known to me thepresent parents have shown a definite fear thatthe family of the past life would alienate theirchild’s affections or even attempt to take himfrom them. This, while it makes study of thecase more difficult, is at the same time strongevidence for its genuineness or at least of thesincerity of the persons concerned.

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A general survey seems to indicate that rebirthtends to take place in the same locality and socialgroup, often in the same family, as that of theprevious life. This is one of the common featuresto which I have alluded and is easily under-standable on the basis of attachment andemotional pull. It is in fact exactly what mightbe expected. The principle is well illustrated bythe case of a little girl, Win Win Nyunt, whichcame to my attention in Burma some years ago.

THE CASE OF WIN WIN NYUNT

Win Win Nyunt’s father, U Khin Nyunt, wasMilitary Administrator and Sub-Divisional Of-ficer of Pyinmana, Upper Burma, in 1948 whenCommunist insurgents were harassing thedistrict. When other rebel forces, the Karens,drove them out U Khin Nyunt and his wife DawMu Mu were taken prisoner and conveyed toThandaung in Toungoo District. U Khin Ny-unt’s mother, aged 67, was then in Rangoon

and all communication between them was cutoff. One night U Khin Nyunt dreamed that hismother was ill and yearning to see him. Laterhe dreamed that he was at her bedside and shewas trying to tell him something which he couldnot understand.

While they were still at Thandaung U KhinNyunt’s wife became pregnant and about thatsame time he had another dream in which hesaw his mother lying dead. She was fullydressed, as if for cremation, in accordance withBurmese custom. The dream was so realisticthat he was able to take precise note of theclothes she was wearing.

And then his wife also had a dream in whichshe saw his mother who said that she wascoming to live with them. In Daw Mu Mu’sdream the mother got into the bed and lay downbetween U Khin Nyunt and his wife. This dreamoccurred early in Daw Mu Mu’s pregnancy andin fact it was only after the dream that sherealized she was pregnant. They had beenmarried for six years but did not wish to haveany children on account of the difficult anddangerous position they were in.

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In due course the child was born; it was aboy and they named him Maung Maung Lay.About three months after his birth U Khin Nyunthad another dream of a very disturbing nature.He dreamed that his son was dead and that hisheart, liver and other organs were scatteredaround in a glass case.

Soon after this dream an opportunity camefor them to escape but U Khin Nyunt had totake a different route from that taken by his wifeand the baby. On reaching Rangoon he learnedthat his mother had died. For some time beforeher death she had been weeping and asking forhim. On receiving the news he told his relativesabout his dreams concerning his mother and itappeared that the date on which the last onehad occurred corresponded with the date of hismother’s death.

When he described the clothes he had seenher wearing in his dream he was told that theytallied exactly with those in which her body hadbeen laid out for cremation. They were newclothes which he never had seen her wear in life.

In Rangoon U Khin Nyunt was reunited withhis wife and child but soon afterward the baby’s

health began to give them anxiety. They ob-tained the best medical advice available but hiscondition did not respond to treatment. In thistroubled situation U Khin Nyunt’s mother-in-law advised them to take him to a well-knownBuddhist monk at Gyogon, to the late YagyawSayadaw who was known to be clairvoyant.This they did. As soon as the old Sayadaw2 sawthe boy he said, “Your son is only a visitor here.”

U Khin Nyunt was deeply perturbed by thesewords and even angry at the fatal prophecy theyimplied. Refusing to speak to the Sayadaw, heleft abruptly. In Burma Buddhist monks are heldin the highest veneration and his behaviortoward the Sayadaw shows the measure of UKhin Nyunt’s distress.

In April, 1953, the little boy, then years old,fell seriously ill with what was diagnosed asacute anemia. Just before this the father hadanother dream in which a frightful-looking per-sonage in black was trying to pull his son awayfrom him. With great difficulty he resisted buthe awoke deeply troubled. And he could notshake off the feeling of depression left by the

2 Venerable Teacher: the usual honorific of Burmese monks.

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nightmare. It had been more like a waking visionthan a dream experience.

The child was then taken to a WHO (WorldHealth Organization) specialist who, after athorough examination, sent a specimen of hisblood to America for a report. When it camethe diagnosis was leukaemia—cancer of theblood for which there was as yet no known cure.

There followed another vivid and realisticdream. U Khin Nyunt and his wife both dream-ed they saw his mother leaving their room andgoing downstairs. She was dressed as in thedeath dream and did not look at them nor speak.Still dreaming, U Khin Nyunt turned to his wifeand said, “Just look at my mother! She didn’teven speak to us!”

Two months after that Maung Maung Lay died.During his final illness the little boy had want-

ed desperately to stay alive. He repeatedly said,“Can’t you help me? Can’t you save me fromdeath?” About half an hour before the end helooked up at his parents and cried out, “I shallbe coming back!”

ANOTHER RETURN

After this loss the parents were inconsolable.They wondered very much about the dreamsand the dying child’s last words to them. Whatwas the connection between U Khin Nyunt’smother and the little son who had left them sotragically? What was the meaning of those lastwords uttered with all his remaining strength?Would he really come to them again? In anattempt to resolve their doubts a sister tookthem to consult a reputed seer in Henzada. Hesaid, “Your child will come back to you afterthree years. But as a daughter, not a son.”

Sure enough, three years later Daw Mu Mubecame pregnant again. She dreamed she sawher little son come back. At about the same timeone of their servants, who did not know themistress was expecting another child, alsodreamed that she saw the little boy enter thecompound of the house wearing the clothes he

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had worn on his deathbed. When the servantasked him where he was going he replied thathe was returning to the house. She told thisdream to the master and mistress but they didnot inform her of the pregnancy.

On March 22, 1957, a girl was born whomthey named Win Win Nyunt. On her left anklethe baby had a rectangular birthmark, paler incolor than the rest of her skin and lookingexactly like a mark left by adhesive tape. It wasprecisely in this spot that the WHO specialist,Dr. Perabo, had given a blood transfusion totheir son during the three days preceding his death.

In U Khin Nyunt’s employ there was a driverwho had been very fond of the little boy. Thisman had been deeply grieved at the child’s deathand whenever he passed the cemetery used tocall out, “Maung Maung Lay—come back!”When the little girl was shown to this driver thefirst thing he did was turn the baby over on herstomach. Then he pointed triumphantly to a darkpatch on her buttock. “That is the mark I made!”he said.

The parents, not knowing what he was talkingabout, were surprised. He then told them that

just before Maung Maung Lay’s burial he hadmade a mark with charcoal on the dead child’sbuttock. The mark borne by the new baby wasidentical with the one he had made on MaungMaung Lay, he said.

When the little girl Win Win Nyunt was ableto speak connectedly she claimed that she wasnot only the former Maung Maung Lay but alsoDaw U Shwe, the mother of U Khin Nyunt. Bymentioning the names of persons she could nothave known in this life and referring to incidentsin the lives of Daw U Shwe and Maung MaungLay she convinced both U Khin Nyunt and hiswife that they were indeed her former person-alities. She sometimes forgot herself and add-ressed her father as if he were her son. In Burmawhere as in most Asian countries distinct formsof address are used to denote seniority andstatus within the family, this in itself was unusualenough to excite comment. Even without theuse of the words ‘father’, ‘mother’ or ‘son’ it canbe known whether an elder or younger relativeis being addressed.

While this history was being related to me byU Khin Nyunt and his wife at their pleasant

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home in Campbell Road, Rangoon, Win WinNyunt was present. The conversation was inEnglish but whenever the name Daw U Shwewas mentioned the little girl exclaimed, “That’sme!” Like most of the children who claim toremember previous lives she seemed a pre-cocious child. Several times she said in Burm-ese, smiling happily, “Daw U Shwe—that’snobody else but me!”

In Burma it is a custom to mark children whohave died or are expected to die in the hopethat they will be reborn in the same family andbe identifiable by a birthmark on the same spot.

This practice is noted by H. Fielding Hall inhis book The Soul of the People. In most of thecases of children believed to have been identi-fied in this way the marks correspond to thosemade on the previous child by the parents, whichare consequently known to them. This gives riseto the possibility that the mark may bereproduced by a prenatal suggestion comingfrom the mind of the mother, which in someunexplained manner acts on the embryo duringits formative period. However, there is nothingin genetics to support the theory that a mother’s

ideas can affect her unborn child in this wayand in fact most geneticists would flatly denythat it could happen. Nevertheless, this hypothesishas been put forward to account for such cases.

But in the case I have recorded above it canbe ruled out so far as the mark on the infant’sbuttock is concerned because the only personwho knew the body of Maung Maung Lay hadbeen marked after death was the driver whodid it. Both parents were unaware of his actionwhich was prompted by his own affection forthe boy. This makes the case one of especialsignificance, apart from its other remarkablefeatures.

It can be objected that the parents’ desire forthe return of the same child together with theirbelief in its possibility created a mental atmo-sphere in which they projected their wish ontothe personality of the child who thereupon‘acted up’ to it. Possibly in such a situation thiscould happen; but it would not account for thechild’s knowledge of people and events con-nected with the previous personalities. And evenif the parents’ wishful thinking were sufficientto establish a fictitious connection between the

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boy Maung Maung Lay and the new baby thereis no reason to suppose they were predisposedto see in Maung Maung Lay the reincarnationof U Khin Nyunt’s mother. Neither does thetheory explain the series of dreams in thisparticular case. Had the dreams concerning DawU Shwe been experienced only by her son theycould be dismissed as coincidences; but he andhis wife both had similar dreams and at a timewhen they had no reason to think that Daw UShwe might be dying.

There remains one other possible theory: WinWin Nyunt acquired her information telepath-ically from her parents and adopted the know-ledge thus gained as her own memories. Thishowever would be to stretch the potentialitiesof telepathic communication far beyond thelimits of what has been demonstrated as poss-ible by any experiments so far conducted. Thereis not, insofar as I know, any instance of tele-pathically-acquired knowledge being absorbedinto the personality as a permanent part of itsstructure.

If all the children who have given proof ofpossessing knowledge of the lives of people no

longer living have acquired it in this way,telepathy must be a much more common extra-sensory faculty than controlled experimentshave indicated. Moreover it must be capable ofpassing on information more detailed and exactthan that received in any verified telepathic tests.It is a far cry from telepathically reproducingsimple line drawings and calling Zener cards torelating incidents from the lives of other personsand identifying those persons and the places theyhad known, as these children have done.Sensitives, it is true, have obtained such infor-mation by psychometry but here again the im-pressions they receive always remain distinctfrom the contents of their own minds and donot result in any confusion between their ownpersonality and those of others.

Suppose that Win Win Nyunt was psycho-metrically sensitive—she must have handledobjects belonging to many other persons in thehousehold besides those of her dead grand-mother and brother and there seems no validreason for her acquiring information connectedwith them alone.

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THE CONCEPT OF PERSONALITY

This interesting case brings into sharp focusthe problems attached to the concept of per-sonality. To what extent does a ‘transmigrating’entity remain the ‘same’ entity—in any generallyaccepted sense? The components of personalitycommonly regarded as fundamental to itsstructure (such as sexually-determined attitudes,characteristics formed by past experience,environment, acquired knowledge and evenpersonality patterns governed by the action ofthe endocrine glands) if they survive death atall must undergo complete transformation in theprocess of rebirth when an entirely new physicalbasis and environmental situation comes intobeing. There then remains only the possibilityof memory, of recalling the past, to maintain aconnection between the present personality andprevious personalities.

Actually the same difficulty exists if wechoose to confront it in our idea of a man of 70being the ‘same’ person that he was as a boy ofseven. If he suffers total loss of memory there

remains no connection between himself and thechild he once was. All that can be said is that heis the indirect result of that child in the sameworld-line of existence.

In Buddhism the difficulty is overcome byholding that personality is purely an idea. Theterm merely signifies a current of cause andeffect in which no enduring entity is to be found.At death all that we consider to be personalitypasses away, leaving only the potential of thepast karma (actions) to produce a new psycho-physical aggregation a new personality. Onepersonality is linked with a former personalityand with all those personalities that have gonebefore by the fact of belonging to the sameindividual stream of cause and effect in thepsychic order. This is said to be the sole formof identity existing between one life-mani-festation and another in the sequence. MahayanaBuddhism accounts for the recollection of pre-vious lives by postulating a Reservoir of Cons-ciousness3 peculiar to each life-stream whichmay be tapped under appropriate conditions.

3 Sanskrit: Alayovijnana

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It may be this hurdle of the destruction ofpersonality that rebirth entails that makes thedoctrine unacceptable to many people. Thereare those who would prefer to be annihilatedaltogether rather than become another personas it seems to them they would in being reborn.

We think of ourselves as personalities in termsof our past memories, our present consciousnessand character and all the mental furniture wehave acquired, including the knowledge of ourrelationships with others from our earliest years.With all this gone and being cast into an entirelynew environment, what remains of the individualI call me? The only answer is that each of us isthe product of an individual stream of becoming,a process in which nothing is constant exceptthe cause-effect continuum.

Yet there is no need to take a nihilistic viewof rebirth merely because it excludes a totalsurvival of the personality. Where characteristictraits are strongly developed they reappear inthe new life, often markedly enough to demon-strate a recognizable relationship between thetwo personalities. Special aptitudes that havebeen acquired in previous lives can be carried

forward if they have been cultivated withsufficient determination and singleness of pur-pose. The child prodigy in music or any othersphere probably is not the recipient of an un-earned gift. Change is the basic principle ofgrowth and it is idle to ask whether the 300-year-old oak is the same plant as the acorn fromwhich it sprang.

When a distinctive personality appears againand again in the same family, skipping one ormore generations, it well may be that a factorother than heredity is involved; it may demon-strate a psychic heredity which is the individ-ual’s own property. The biological laws them-selves would help to make it possible for thesame ancestor to be born repeatedly in the lineof his genetic descendants. In this connectionthe force of attachment to her relatives whichseems to have been operative in the case of DawU Shwe and the gravitational pull toward thefamily group displayed in many other rebirthcases provides an explanation of what may becalled the recurring family type, a phenomenonoften enough observed in the lineage of familiesnoted in history.

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By a logical extension of this principle aprolonged conditioning through a series ofrebirths within the same ethno-psychologicalgroup would tend to produce those racial andnational types which, although they have beengrossly caricatured in literature and propa-ganda, undoubtedly do exist. A systematic studyof the subject might throw light on the natureand origin of racial memories. The collectiveunconscious of Jung may be nothing after allbut the submerged memories of previous livesand the subliminal impulses associated with them.

Honore de Balzac characterized the processof becoming through a series of lives when hewrote in Seraphita:

The virtues we acquire, which develop slow-ly within us, are the invisible links which bindeach one of our existences to the others—existences which the spirit alone remembers,for matter has no memory for spiritual things.

Thought alone holds the tradition of the by-gone life. The endless legacy of the past tothe present is the secret source of human genius.

Perhaps he was right and it is this legacy ofthe virtues and skills we have striven for thatconstitutes our true personality, not the ephem-eral and adventitious contents of our minds atany particular moment. I believe that to under-stand this is to have a true notion of what itmeans to say, ‘I exist.’

CHANGE OF SEX

Before closing this brief discussion of the caseof Daw U Shwe something should be said abouther change of sex in the intermediate life. It ispossible that Daw U Shwe was born as a boybecause her anxiety to be reunited with her soncaused her to remanifest in a body that had beenconceived before her death and was of thewrong sex. Unfortunately I was not able toobtain the exact date of the beginning of DawMu Mu’s pregnancy but if my assumption iscorrect the child’s early death would be explic-able on the ground that Daw U Shwe’s kammawas not the kind to sustain a male personality.

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The situation could then be adjusted only bythe transfer of her karmic life-potential to a newbirth as a female.

This does not mean that a change of sex inrebirth always must lead to such a result. Onthe contrary, there are a number of cases of sex-change on record and their various degrees ofsexual identification and adjustment are thesubject of a special study. But in all or most ofthem there appears to have been predisposingfactors in the former life that made the tran-sition from one sex to another more or lessappropriate. In the case of Daw U Shwe herstrong maternal instinct makes the assumptionthat such factors were not present a valid one.Her brief life as a boy may have been nothingbut a mistake on her part, one that nature quicklyrectified.

This is my own interpretation of the case;others who read the facts may come to differentconclusions. Whatever the finally correct inter-pretation may be a case containing so manydiverse elements of paranormal experiencewould be difficult to explain away withoutrecourse to the doctrine of rebirth. Rather than

strain beyond reasonable bounds the possiblescope of telepathy, psychometry, clairvoyance,precognition and other ESP phenomena I findit easier to believe that Win Win Nyunt is pre-cisely what she claims to be—Daw U Shwe andMaung Maung Lay reborn.

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A READING GUIDE TODEATH AND REBIRTH

This small guide offers an overview on some topicsof death and rebirth. Books are briefly introducedand at times commented on. Many, but not all, ofthe listed book titles are available in Malaysia, eitherin stock or by order. Some books are hard to comeby and some are out of print and can only be foundin libraries.

1. General2. What Religions Teach3. Near Death Experiences4. Past Life Memories5. Contact with Beyond6. Dying and Care for the Dying

++1. GENERALRobert and Beatrice KastenbaumENCYCLOPEDIA OF DEATHMyth, History, Philosophy, Science the manyAspects of Death and DyingAVON BOOKS (1993)This comprehensive reference book provides a

concise and enlightening view of human mortality.From ancient beliefs to modern scientific studies toexploring feelings about different age groups andcultures, the Encyclopedia of Death includes con-tributions from experts on a wide variety of deathrelated subjects: Appropriate Death, Death Anxiety,

Life after Death, Near Death Experience, ReligiousBeliefs, Research and Theory, and much more.Although usually people don’t read Encyclopediasthis one might be quite an exception. Apart frombeing a reference book it is fascinating to browsethrough the many readable entries. It also containsmany valuable references.

Sherwin B NulandHOW WE DIEReflections of Life’s Final ChapterVINTAGE BOOKS (1995)Nuland tells the reader clearly, frankly, yet

compassionately how most of us are likely to die.The mechanisms of humans’ most common killerslike cancer, heart attack, stroke, AIDS, etc. areexplained. Nuland is only interested in casting a lookon the taboo of dying without venturing into thoughtsabout a life after death.

++ 2. WHAT RELIGIONS TEACHThe so called materialistic stance towards life whichsays a being originates in matter at the conceptionand returns back to matter after death is not a modernview but has been more widely accepted with thedevelopment of Western thought after the Age ofEnlightenment and the progress of its sciences. Onthe other hand almost all religions have a conceptof one kind or another about life after death. Yet notall subscribe to the idea of a life (or series of lives)before birth into the present existence.

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••••• THERAVADA BUDDHISMThe Theravadin view of death and the instantly

following rebirth is unique. It is based on the difficultdoctrine of non-self (anatta). The central teachingexplaining the causal relationship which leads to newexistences is the Dependent Origination (paticcasamuppada). Insight meditation (vipassana) is themethod with which to verify through direct intuitiveunderstanding the teachings put forward.

Meditators with strong concentration faculty canalso access the memory of past lives through power-ful recollection. Past lives are systematically remem-bered and analyzed in Pa Auk method of meditationin Myanmar.

Francis StoryREBIRTH AS DOCTRINEAND EXPERIENCEEssays and Case StudiesBUDDHIST PUBLICATION SOCIETY (1975)Francis Story was much interested in the Budd-

hist doctrine of rebirth for most of his life, writingmore than a dozen essays and spending much timein researching cases of the spontaneous recall ofpast lives. As a Westerner he was well qualified toengage strong skepticism prevalent in Europe andthe USA, where the cultures have been strongly influ-enced by reductionist scientific models.

V F GunaratnaREBIRTH EXPLAINEDBUDDHIST PUBLICATION SOCIETY (1980)A slender booklet of the Wheel Series explaining

in a concise way all the relevant points of the Thera-vada school concerning rebirth.

V F GunaratnaBUDDHIST REFLECTIONS ON DEATHBUDDHIST PUBLICATION SOCIETY (1975)Another Wheel booklet explaining how death is

seen by the Theravada Buddhist tradition.

Bhikkhu BodhiTHE GREAT DISCOURSE ONCAUSATIONThe Mahanidana Sutta and Its CommentariesBUDDHIST PUBLICATION SOCIETY (1975)This is a thorough exposition of the Buddha’s

teaching on Dependent Arising by one of the leadingTheravadin scholars. It is from this radical insightfrom which everything else in the Buddha’s teachingunfolds, including the understanding of the con-ditions that link one lifetime to the next.

Pa Auk SayadawLIGHT OF WISDOMMeditation in Pak Auk Forest MonasteryKuala Lumpur WAVE (1996)

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In the Pa Auk method of meditation the studentsfirst develop very strong concentration and thenanalyse processes of mind and body in past livesand potential future lives. An uniquely systematicand penetrative approach taught in a highly technicalstyle by a Myanmar meditation teacher.

••••• TIBETAN BUDDHISMFrancesca Fremantle and Chogyam TrungpaTHE TIBETAN BOOK OF THE DEADSHAMBHALA (1992)A translation and commentary on the Tibetan

teachings about death and what follows. While theTheravadin school of Buddhism has contributed theprofound analysis of death on the level of mindmoments, it is the Tibetan system which has explor-ed more deeply the stages which are gone throughduring the death process. While the Tibetans talkabout an intermediate stage between this and thenext life (called Bardo), the Theravadins wouldattribute this ‘intermediate stage’ to either the lastmoments of life of a dying person or else consider itas a rebirth in itself (for example as the new exist-ence of a spirit).

••••• OTHER RELIGIONSReferences can be found in the Encyclopedia of

Death (see page 22).

++ 3. NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCESA Near Death Experiencd (NDE; also called Resus-citation Experience or Deathbed Vision) is an ex-perience of a person at the brink of death. Often theperson feels disassociated from the body, lookingdown on it from above and then is pulled into atunnel or black space towards a realm of indescrib-able brilliance and universal love.

Near Death Experiences have been thoroughlyinvestigated worldwide since the publication ofRaymond Moody’s classic Life after Life in the mid-1970s. While the medical profession approached thisphenomena in the beginning with much skepticismif not hostility the existence of NDEs is now gener-ally accepted. Still, the interpretation of the meaningof NDEs ranges from rebirth type explanations toreductive physiological explanations.

Raymond A MoodyLIFE AFTER LIFEBANTAM (1976)This is the book which initiated the recent deep

and unabated interest in NDEs. The small bookletoutlines the typical stages a person having a NDEgoes through. The open-minded and questioningattitude of Moody helps the reader find his or herown conclusions about the presented information.

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Kenneth RingHEADING TOWARD OMEGAWILLIAM MORROW (1984)Another best-selling book about the phenomenon

of NDE. Dr. Ring explores the effects on behaviorand values of those who have had near-death experiences.

Kenneth RingCLOSER TO THE LIGHTLearning from the Near Death Experiences ofChildrenSHAMBALA (1992)Children are the most unbiased and innocent

observers of this universal phenomena.

++ 4. PAST LIFE MEMORIESSeveral different ways exist to access the memorieswhich are believed to come from past existences,though past life recall most commonly occurs spon-taneously in children, as in the example of Win WinNyunt Extensive studies have been carried out byIan Stevenson and his co-workers. These studiesmight be particularly appealing to readers who likefacts and scientific investigation rather than depend-ing on subjective reports from psychics or compil-ations of hypnotic recollections.

But the most encompassing and thrilling materialabout past lives has been gained from hypnotic re-gression. This century has seen the emergence of

Eleonora Piper and Edgar Cayce, probably the twomost serious and influential sensitives of moderntimes to access information about past existences.

A small group of psychiatrists and psychologistsdiscovered and explored past lives through hypnoticregressions of their clients. We highly recommendthe readers to delve into this absorbing approach tothe explorations of possible past lives. The Thera-vada Buddhist reader should not be confused by theconcept of a soul migrating from one existence toanother. Understanding the profound doctrine ofnon-self and the working of consciousness accord-ing the Buddha’s teachings one can approach thesereports with an open and unbiased attitude, benefit-ing greatly from the detailed descriptions of kammicforces, realms beyond the human, etc.

Brian L WeissMANY LIVES, MANY MASTERSThe True Story of a Prominent Psychiatristand his Past-Life Therapy with a Young PatientA FIRESIDE BOOK (1988)A skeptical orthodox psychiatrist stumbles over

past-life experiences in his therapy with a youngand psychologically troubled lady. The past-lifeexploration brings about a profound mental healingin the patient. This is a classic which has sold overa million copies.

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Brian L WeissTHROUGH TIME INTO HEALINGDiscovering the Power of Regression Therapyto Erase Trauma and Transform Mind, Body,and RelationshipsA FIRESIDE BOOK (1993)Dr. Weiss shares his deepened understanding of

the process of rebirth and the healing power ofpast-life therapy after years of experience in hyp-notic regression. He surprises us again with hisinsightful, honest and sensitive descriptions of hiswork into this non-orthodox field of study.

Brian L WeissONLY LOVE IS REALA Story of Soulmates ReunitedWARNER BOOKS (1996)Weiss explains how the insights gained through

his past-life explorations in hypnotherapy influen-ced his understanding of the meaning of life.

Joel Whitton andJoe FischerLIFE BETWEEN LIFEScientific Explorations into the VoidSeparating One Existence from the NextWARNER BOOKS (1988)Fischer presents the findings of past-life explora-

tions done by the Canadian psychologist JoelWhitton. The ‘void’ is a term for a state between

death and rebirth in the human plane, called bardoin the Tibetan tradition. Theravadins would mostlikely understand it as an ‘intermediate’ life in alower heavenly realm or in some cases in a realm ofunfortunate spirits. These two realms are invisibleto the normal human being but in the close proximityto the human realm.

Stanislav GrofREALMS OF THE HUMAN UNCONSCIOUSObservations from LSD Research (1993)This is one of Grof’s early works on his explora-

tions of the human mind (and human evolution)through LSD research. Grof now works with deepbreathing and music, attaining similar results to thoseof his LSD work. Grof is also close to meditationteachers such as Jack Kornfield, meditation teacherof Insight Meditation West.

Gina CerminaraMANY MANSIONSThe Edgar Cayce Story on ReincarnationAn exposition of the discoveries about past ex-

istences of the Christian Edgar Cayce.

Helen WambachLIFE BEFORE LIFEChoosing to be BornHelen Wambach is another great contributor to

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past-life exploration through hypnotic regression.She presents statistical results from her extensivework with large groups of people. Most fascinatingare her insights into the pain of the birth process re-collected by many people in her workshops.

Ian StevensonTWENTY CASES SUGGESTIVE OFREINCARNATIONUNIVERSITY PRESS OF VIRGINIA (1979)A selection of the most convincing cases of spon-

taneous recollection of past lives in children. Scien-tific approach.

Ian StevensonFURTHER CASES SUGGESTIVE OFREINCARNATIONLearning from the Near Death Experiences ofChildrenUNIVERSITY PRESS OF VIRGINIAOther compelling case studies by a careful in-

vestigator.

Alan GauldMEDIUMSHIP AND SURVIVALA Century of InvestigationHEINEMANN (1982)Gauld analyses the results of the investigation of

the phenomena of rebirth through mediums. In-cludes a portrayal of Eleonore Potter’s work.

++ 5. CONTACT WITH BEYONDInvestigators of the life after death frequently workwith mediums, sensitive people who apparently cancommunicate with the dead. There was much inter-est in the work of mediums at the end of the lastcentury, with numerous parapsychological societiesbeing founded to investigate the topic in more seriousways. People have also described encounters in dreamsand apparitions with relatives reborn as ‘spirits’.

Rosalind HeywoodBEYOND THE REACH OF SENSEThe Incredible Findings ofa Century of Research on DeathE P DUTTON (1961)Describes what is believed to be the communi-

cation of the late psychic researcher Frederic Myersthrough mediums. Myers describes in detail thehigher realms he has been living in for years andgives a theory of human evolution.

Ian CurrieYOU CANNOT DIEThe Incredible Findings ofa Century of Research on DeathELEMENT (1995)

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An introduction to the issues of survival afterdeath, covering a wide range of subjects such asaccounts of out-of-body experiences, NDEs, medium-ship, apparitions and hauntings.

++ 6. DYING AND CARE FOR THE DYINGAwareness of the importance of a peaceful death(on potential future rebirth) has also helped to im-prove the well-being and care of terminally illpersons. The Hospice movement which is foundedon a philosophy of respect for the needs and rightsof the dying person and his or her friends spreadwithin a few decades to many countries. The newapproach to a terminally ill person has also forgednew attitudes towards life. In America and elsewheresome active meditators have also tried to bring theirunderstanding into the work with the dying and theirrelatives and friends.

Sandol StoddardTHE HOSPICE MOVEMENTVINTAGE BOOKS (1992)This book covers the evolution of the modem

hospice movement from its medieval predecessors,and describes how hospice programs work.

Ian CurrieFINAL GIFTSUnderstanding the Special Awareness, Needs,and Communications of the Dying,Maggie Callanan and Patricia KelleyBANTAM BOOKS (1992)

In this moving and compassionate book twohospice nurses share their intimate experiences withpatients at the edge of life. Through these storiesthe reader comes to appreciate the near-miraculousways in which the dying communicate their needsand reveal their feelings.

Stephen LevineWHO DIESAn Investigation of Conscious Living andConscious DyingANCHOR BOOKS (1982)Levine many death-related topics in a thoughtful

and thought-provoking way based on over thirtyyears of meditation and years of hospital care.

Elisabeth Kübler-RossLIVING WITH DEATH AND DYINGMACMILLAN (1981)In this book Dr. Kübler-Ross discusses dying

children and their families.

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