What Men Want – What Men Want – Ensuring He Asks You To Ensuring He Asks You To

Marry HimMarry Him

Carmen GilfillanCarmen Gilfillan

Although you may have been with your Although you may have been with your partner a long time and you want him to partner a long time and you want him to marry you, marry you, avoid the subject becoming a avoid the subject becoming a dilemmadilemma between you… between you…

……You don’t want to pressure him into You don’t want to pressure him into marriage, you want to ensure he marriage, you want to ensure he asks you asks you to marry himto marry him – and that the proposal is – and that the proposal is genuinegenuine

Talk about the subject in an Talk about the subject in an upbeat, upbeat, casual way tocasual way to uncover any issues he has uncover any issues he has around marriage…around marriage…

If one of the issues is that the marriage If one of the issues is that the marriage may fail, look for may fail, look for examples of successful examples of successful marriagesmarriages among your contacts… among your contacts…

……Using this type of Using this type of external approachexternal approach will will help you establish whether he really wants help you establish whether he really wants to marry youto marry you

Once any Once any hidden fearshidden fears around marriage around marriage have been revealed they can be have been revealed they can be discussed discussed and resolvedand resolved

……Always be supportive, patient and Always be supportive, patient and prepared to understand things prepared to understand things from his from his point of viewpoint of view

Another approach is to raise the subject of Another approach is to raise the subject of marriage whilst discussing something marriage whilst discussing something else…else…

……You could, for example, say You could, for example, say 'once 'once we’re married we could do x, y and we’re married we could do x, y and z.....’z.....’ then change the subject straight then change the subject straight away…away…

……If the subject of marriage has been If the subject of marriage has been tackled tackled candidly beforecandidly before, it becomes easier , it becomes easier to use this kind of approachto use this kind of approach

Ensuring your Ensuring your love lifelove life is vibrant is an is vibrant is an important element in a relationship important element in a relationship

Again keep this part of your relationship Again keep this part of your relationship funfun and and upbeatupbeat……

……A great love life is just one of the things A great love life is just one of the things that’ll help to cement the bond you have that’ll help to cement the bond you have between you between you

In general, be yourself, take a In general, be yourself, take a more casual but supportive stance more casual but supportive stance on marriage and he may be asking on marriage and he may be asking

you to marry him sooner than you think!you to marry him sooner than you think!

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