What Grieving Children Want You To Know
description
Transcript of What Grieving Children Want You To Know
What Grieving Children Want You To KnowAndy McNiel, MA, LPC
NYLife and NAGC National Poll• 531 Children & Teens• Ages 9 – 18• 17 Programs• 18 Compete the Statement• More than One Option• 3 Open Ended
The most helpful things?
55% indicated… “Spending time with Family.”
59% indicated… “Spending time with Friends.”
The most helpful things?• Listening to music (49%)• Staying busy (46%)• Going to grief group (42%)• Talking to other grieving children (41%)
What is their grief like?Pervading emotion is… Sadness (75%)
Other top emotions are…Feeling angry, alone, overwhelmed and worried
What is their grief like?• 86% wish they had more time.• 73% think about the person everyday.• 47% believe their life will be harder.• 46% cannot believe it is true.• 45% trouble concentrating in school.• 41% harmful behavior/choices.
What you want others to know…
You never stop missing the people you love who have died. (71%)
What you want others to know…
The death of my family member was the worst thing that ever happened to me. (68%)
What you want others to know…
I would give up a year of my life to spend just one more day with the person who died. (62%)
What you want others to know…
Most people don’t understand what it is like to have a family member die when you are young. (60%)
What you want others to know…
You should be nice to the people you love because you don’t know how long you will have them in your life. (58%)
What you want others to know…
I really miss the person who died, but I’m not sad all the time. (55%)
What you want others to know…
If you haven’t had a family member die, you don’t know how I feel. (46%)