It appears Waxman may be stalking people who post on Saving Mila. A Maine mother just forwarded this to me. I do not know this

mother and had no contact with her (except to thank her on the Facebook wall when she posted) until she forwarded me this

conversation.

If this is happening to others, please forward these messages (if you are able/willing) to MamaofMila@gmail.com or send via Facebook

in-box.

We are collecting all and will personally deliver (with or without your name—as you prefer please let us know) to the Maine

Overseers of the Bar next week.

Saving Mila and Mila’s Mama Lori are so sorry to hear that supporters of Saving Mila appear to be harassed and possibly

stalked by Waxman.  Please contact your local Police Department if you feel threatened, scared, or harassed.

God bless. Stay in the light. Celebrate the love of the holiday season. Thank you for your support for Mila.

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"I have had no further contact with him, thank GOD! Best of luck to you, I hope this helps in some small way. I can't imagine a minute without my boys in my arms.

My heart aches for you!"

From: Sent: Saturday, December 24, 2011 1:16 PMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: Re: I posted on your page last night

Waxman to me December 23, 2011 @ 623am ….. Handrahan's site is not what it seems. She is not helping her child, she is exploiting her. Before you help her any further, please just read the attached report. This is the most recent report from the

Office of the Ombudsman in Maine and gives a very accurate account of what has been happening in this case. You clearly have a good heart. Handrahan seeks to manipulate people like you. ombudsman.reportII.pdf

Me to Waxman December 23, 2011 @ 1014a ……….. Listen, I don't know what is true. I DO know that I am a mother and I would fight for my children as she appears to fight for hers. And if you are an attorney for her ex husband and if there is a fight to be fought I would assume that your energies would be best spent not messaging everyone who posts on her page. Honestly, it takes credibility away from you, as a professional. 

Waxman to me December 23, 2011 @ 1109a………… I am glad that you are a caring mother. Please simply read the document I attached. I promise that you will feel very differently about this case. If you are a fair minded person you must understand that there are two sides to every issue. Is reading an 8 page doucment too much to ask of someone who wants to help a child? 

Me to Waxman December 23, 2011 @ 1118a………….I read it, it is no more real than anything else anyone has posted. You could easily draft something like that to say what you want it to say. This whole situation stinks from both sides 

Waxman to Me December 23, 2011 @ 1124a……………That kind of statement is completely unfair. THAT is an official document from an agency in Maine which is charged with reviewing DHHS investigations. Are you suggesting I forged that document? Are you serious? Handrahan has been diagnosed as suffering from a severe narcissistic personality disorder and that entire site is NOT about helping her child, but rather exploiting her in order to feed Handrahan's insatiable need for attention. This notioin that the entire state of Maine is conspiring against her and that I have bought all the judges and DHHS workers is too ludicrous for anyone with a brain to believe. 

Me to Waxman December 23, 2011 @ 1138a………..I didn't say that I believed ALL of anything. All I DID say is that you (or I, or anyone) could easily draft a document and slap DHHS's address on it and email it around FB. I just DO have a hard time believing you because you are so adamantly messaging me on FB. I am no one. I am no one of any authority, I am no one of any importance. I have nothing to do with this situation at all. You are supposedly an attorney for someone involved in this mess and you are messaging me. I assume because I posted on her wall, which you are obviously trolling. Every attorney I know would never do this. My sister is an attorney, and I have some friends who practice law. I get that you

say she is defaming you and you feel that she is spreading lies about you. I posted nothing about you on her wall. I said nothing about you. I DO know that things that she claims happen, do happen ALL THE time. Pedophiles are real. Men work together to coerce and keep children ALL THE TIME. Our government is corrupt and for profit. Do I think every court, DHHS branch and judge is working together? No. I don't know you, I don't know Mila's mother, I don't know Mila's father, I don't know little Mila. I DO know that she is only a few months older than my oldest son and that pulls a cord for me. I do know that if there is a little girl to be saved I would help any way I could. I do not believe that every person is good and honest. While you continue to message me it just further discredits you. Mila's mother hasn't contacted me further than her wall to thank me for my concern and just to spread the word, which is exactly what I would do in her position. You and another person messaged me almost as soon as I posted, making different claims. Honestly, my first thought was that you were a desperate man trying to 'contain' this. I don't know what is going on but it smells bad in every way.

Waxman to Me December 23, 2011 @ 106p………I messaged you because you asked WHERE the child lived and you mentioned where you live, and it only takes ONE lunatic to take Handrahan's message to heart and try and do something crazy, like take her child. That's why I messaged you. If you don't want me reaching out to you then don't make it sound like you are willing to help a woman you don't know take a child you have never met from a man you would not know if you bumped into him.

Me to Waxman December 23, 2011 @ 114p……………Rest assured that I would never take a child or help anyone else take a child. I have my own family to care for. I can see what she is talking about with you twisting shit up. You are a lunatic, grasping at straws

Waxman to Me December 23, 2011 @ 334p…………..Look, you care about kids, and I applaud that and respect you for that. I have four of my own. There have been several of Handrahan's "followers' who have said scary, threatening things on her sites, and Igor is justifiably concerned. Your comment sounded threatening too, but now I am relieved to learn that you have no intention of doing anything to harm Igor or Mila, and that is all I care about. Merry Christmas and happy New Year.

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