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Unit 3:
Developing Positive Relationships, Crisis Intervention & Handling Difficult Cases
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Unit 3 Assignments
Discussion
Written Assignment (You are required to cite your research. Please see APA announcement on the course homepage.)
Crisis Case Handling
Handling Crisis vs. Long-term Cases Case Handling at Walk-In Facilities Police & Crisis Intervention Transcrisis Handling in Long-term
Therapy Counseling Difficult Clients Confidentiality
Developing Positive Relationships
Starting from the Inside
Positive Relationships- A connection or bonding of one or more people that is anchored in trust, understanding, kindness, and respect.
Why the need for Positive Relationships: 1. To feel safe and comfortable with others. 2. To develop a sense of belonging. 3. To lay the framework that allows
individuals to become more confident, interdependent, and engaged in their world.
Introduction
Laying the Foundation
Safety- Many of us and those we serve are burdened with memories of distrust and fear. To feel safe we must experience unconditional love, acceptance, and the physical and emotional space that we’re comfortable with.
Security- The feeling that I’m safe, I won’t be hurt, and everything is going to be okay.
Love- The warmth of feeling cared for. Its trust and faith that you unconditionally honor, accept, and understand me.
Attachment- I belong. I’m accepted. Stay with me even when I’m being difficult.
The Ingredients: I Will Be….
Genuine: Be real. Don’t fake it…everyone catches on. Your credibility and your chances of developing a positive relationships starts with your being genuine and real in your actions.
Consistent: We need to be predictable and reliable in our interactions with others. We can’t be loving, caring, supportive one day and be distant and aloof the next.
Supportive: The old saying, “Be here now!” applies. Be in the moment when interacting with someone. Show caring by using your eyes, face, body, voice and touch.
We must use our:
1. Eyes- The eyes are often referred to as the window to the soul. To build relationships, we must embrace others with our eyes.
Your gaze into others eyes should be soft, slow, loving and warm.
Picture your eyes as hands and arms reaching out to people.
Many people see a look as fists. Look gently and softly at the person, moving your gaze into the persons eyes with out piercing them.
We must use our:
2. Face- Our facial expression tells more about how we feel about someone than our words. Our faces should be calm,
relaxed, and gentle. Smile Even if you don’t feel like it
sometimes….smile till your heart catches up!
We must use our:
3. Body- Remember body kinesics and proxemics. Where and how you stand in
relation to a person is critical in how they perceive your presence.
Avoid squaring up and/or standing over someone while talking with them.
When communicating with children come down to their eye level.
When standing and engaging someone, stand with an open stance with relaxed body posture and open hands facing towards the person.
We must use our:
4. Voice- Even if the people we are talking to don’t understand what we are saying, they’ll feel what we are saying by our tone, volume, warmth and rhythm. Use gentle, calming
words. If your talking causes
escalation, go the other direction with your voice.
People need to feel warmth, tenderness, and unconditional love from your voice.
We must use our:
5. Touch/ hugs- Use as a sign of friendship and caring.
Touch should be done softly, slowly, predictably, and you should be ready to back off at any moment if discomfort is being shown.
Knowledgeable touching is key. Know the individuals life-story, experiences, and comfort levels.
Touch should be used for the hands, forearms, shoulders, side and back of the head and upper back.
If touch/hugs are not appropriate to the situation then use your voice, body, face and eyes to communicate safety, security and love.
•Understanding•Awareness•Road Blocks
Putting it all together
Role of the Direct Service provider
Assist and support the individual to make informed choices, follow through on responsibilities and take risks
Promote the individual participating in the design of support services
Provide opportunities for self-advocacy by increasing awareness of self-advocacy techniques, encouraging the individual to speak on his/her own behalf
More on Roles
Promote community connections, friendships and other valued relationships
Assist the individual to meet his/her physical needs by teaching skills, providing supports and building on strengths and capabilities
Ensure the health and safety of the individual
Understanding: “Walk in my shoes”
Know your audience. Learn about the person you’re developing a relationship with.
Put yourself in their life experiences and begin to understand where they are coming from.
Focus and start with what's inside, then work your way out.
Accept everyone where they are. Build on that starting place.
Awareness: “Be in the moment”
Give your time and attention. Notice the tears, smiles, anxiousness, and
comfort and respond accordingly.
Road Blocks: “What's keeping you from Developing Positive Relationships?”
We bring our own “stuff’ into relationships. Sometimes our stuff gets in the way of Developing Positive Relationships.
Keep yourself healthy. Go on an ‘ego’ diet. Eat, drink, think, sleep, and do positive things. Get supports for those areas in life that need TLC.
Love or learn to love yourself. Be kind and gentle to yourself and you’ll be able to give the same in return.
1. Training2. Practice3. Patience4. Openness
Making it work
1. Training
When working with individuals with disabilities, learn all you can about them. Use the library, computer, seminars, co-workers, etc. as resources.
Learn beyond this power point presentation on how to develop and maintain positive relationships in your life.
Resource websites: www.dimagine.com www.gentleteaching.com
www.positiveway.com
2. Practice
If loving, caring, and supporting doesn’t come naturally to you…practice.
Volunteer at a senior center, or Special Olympics event. Join the Big Brothers Big Sisters organization.
If your heart is vested in developing positive relationships all these concepts will fall into place and it’ll become a part of who you are.
3. Patience
Take a deep breath. You may not succeed in developing a
positive relationship the first, second, hundredth time. If your heart is genuine it will happen!!
Give it time, don’t personalize setbacks, and always see the potential. The greatness that sits on the horizon needs to be visualized and realized by you!
4. Openness
It is very difficult to see through a cloudy window or a closed door.
To be successful in developing relationships, you have to open up yourself.
You must be willing to take the risk of love, trust, care and support.
You can’t give, what you don’t have!
A Commitment
If you are willing to unconditionally…
Love Support Care Understand
…what commitment can you make today?
What to do if a crisis occurs.
Purpose of Crisis intervention
To maintain: Care Welfare Safety Security
Physiological impact of a crisis
Increased Heart Rate .
Dilation of bronchioles for easier breathing.
Constriction of arterioles in skin, digestive system, and non-exercising muscles.
Inhibition of digestive functions.
Widening of pupils.
Crisis development/Behavior levels Anxiety: a
noticeable increase or change in behavior.
Examples: pacing, finger drumming, wringing of the hands, staring
Staff attitudes/approaches Supportive: an
empathic, non-judgmental approach attempting to alleviate anxiety
Crisis Development/Behavior levels Defensive:
Beginning of the loss of rationality. Person may become belligerent and challenge authority.
Staff attitudes/approaches Directive: An
approach in which a staff member takes control of a potentially escalating situation by setting limits.
Acting out person Total loss of
control which often results in acting out episode.
Nonviolent Physical Crisis Intervention Safe non-harmful control
and restraint techniques used to control an individual until they can regain their behavior. Techniques should be utilized as a last resort, when an individual presents a danger to self or others
Tension Reduction: Decrease in
physical and emotional energy which occurs after a person has acted out, characterized by the regaining of rationality.
Therapeutic rapport An attempt to re-
establish communication with an individual who is experiencing Tension Reduction.
Nonverbal behavior
Personal Space Factors that influence personal space
include: gender, size, cultural differences, familiarity, and situation occurring.
Body positioning: Body posture and motion which include facial expression
Paraverbal Communication
Definition: the vocal part of speech, excluding the actual words one uses. A. Tone B. Volume C. Cadence
Suggested approaches Try to avoid inflections of impatience,
condescension, inattention, etc. Keep the volume appropriate for the distance
and situation. Deliver your message using even rate and
rhythm
Tension ReductionQuestioning
Release
Refusal Intimidation
Tips for verbal intervention
Do Remain calm Isolate the
situation Enforce limits Listen Be aware of non-
verbals Be consistent
Don’t Over-react Get in a power
struggle Make false
promises Be threatening Use jargon
Empathetic listening
Be non-judgmental Give undivided attention Listen carefully to what is being said
(not just the facts) Allow silence for reflection Use restatement to clarify messages
Compartmentalization of feelings
Definition:Separation of ones feelings from the crisis situation. A professional attitude must be maintained so
that we can control the situation. Outlets are needed for negative energy
absorbed during the crisis An open discussion about the events may be
needed.
A very human experience
Individual’s behavior level Anxiety (-) Defensive (-) Act out person (-) Tension reduction
(-)
Staff attitude/approach
A. Supportive B. Directive C. Therapeutic
rapport
Individuals do not operate in a vacuum. Staff and individuals effect each other.
After the incident Make sure everyone is safe Identify concerns and brainstorm
ways to address those concerns. Look for patterns among crisis
situations. Provide support and praise to your
team members.
Finally:
Remember: “Everybody is safe and tomorrow is another day.”
Any questions?
Any final questions?
See you next week at the Unit 4 seminar on Thursday, 2/24/11 at 10 pm ET.