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    TWo-FACED

    By: Ang Jian Rong

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    Two-faced by Ang Jian Rong

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    contents

    What is Two-Faced?

    Family Chart

    Characters Prole

    Egoism

    Selsm

    They FoughtThe Red Hood

    Me? You?

    Every night

    Narcissism

    The grammer o a bipolar person

    What not to say to a bipolar person

    Still thinkingThe pathetic evolution o apathy

    How can school reduce apathy

    Two-aced: The next generation

    Symptons o a paranoiac

    Stress

    Survival Kit

    So is Two-Facedness scary?Annual Ritual

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    Everyone has two-ace, you know why?

    Weve got let ace and right ace that makes us two aces!

    Well, but what has it got to do with you?

    Everyone needs to know that it is part o human nature to

    be two-aced. It is dicult or us to dey nature, so why not

    learn more about two-ace and make un out o it?

    In this book, you will learn more about this human condition and

    in the mean time we can all learn to be more sel-conscious.

    Now lets dive into this complex mishmash human condition...

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    So what istwo-faced?

    Two-aced

    adjective: insincere and deceitul.

    Since the dawn o mankind evolution, we have come a

    long way. Intelligence has brought us into the world we

    live in today. We are lled with knowledge, but we dont

    eel or others as much as beore. Wouldnt it be nice i we

    can live without so many concerns? Sadly no, this vortex

    o eeling and intelligence within us has made us a two

    ace?

    Well rankly speaking, two-aced people are hypocritical

    scumbags who live o others, typically to behave in a

    certain manner in the public and dierently elsewhere.

    Two-aced is a human behavior problem in which many

    actors are concerned, such as how humans can be

    insincere, hypocritical, and deceiving. Lie is hard,

    acing two-aced people in lie is even harder.

    Fortunately this book is here to help, written with daily

    observations and past experiences o encountering

    two-aced people. Two-aced people is a lot o un

    when you know exactly what youre dealing with.

    Think o them as pests, as i they are annoying, lurking

    at every corner o your classrooms, oce cubicles and

    every where elseW. Learn what is causing us to

    be spiteul sometimes.

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    Albert Molly

    Childrenof

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    nthony&Megan

    Queenie Stacy Anthony

    Dionne Danny Douglas

    Married to

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    Ronnie Margaret

    Johnny MaryMegan

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    Characters Profile

    Two-acedness runs in every amily. In the previous page, you have seen the amily tree o

    Two-acedness. Here you will learn about the evolution o Two-acedness, and how a trait

    evolve into more sinister in the next generation.

    Albert (70)Like a lions pride has its own king, Albert is the king o

    the household. A super egomaniac, where everything

    revolves around him. He has led his lie cautiously,

    seeking every opportunity to take charge.

    Molly (65)

    Just like her husband, she is like the matriarch o theamily. She is a shmonger in the morning, and a queen or

    the rest o the day. She loves shes a lot, that it became

    her hobby to sell sh.

    Anthony (40)Combine his athers egoism, and his mothers selshness,

    this is what you get. A super narcissist who cant stop

    admiring himsel whole daylong. You can nd him talking to

    the mirror occasionally.

    Stacy (30)

    The youngest sister o Anthony. Extremely attractive, with a

    pair o expressive eyes. However, dont be ool by her demure

    sweet looks, she tend to take things or granted.

    Queenie (35)

    The second daughter o the Albert. While Stacy is hersister, she is more like a nemesis to her. She has a

    malicious character despite her jovial ace. She is earul

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    Ronnie (67)

    A completely depleted person. He is just living the rest ohis lie aimlessly, and has no interest in anything.

    Margaret (63)

    Has the highest level o education in the house. Oten skeptical.

    Her relationship with her husband has been bitter long ago.Doesnt talk much to Molly, because o her idealistic visionary

    in lie.

    Johnny (38)

    Paranoid and orever ckle, he is oten rustrated overlittle things. He is quite ashionable even though he is in

    his late 30s.

    Mary (39)

    A happy and cheerul girl. Mary is easily humored and

    quick to laugh. She live her lie to the ullest everyday, while

    radiating positive energy around her.

    Mary (39)

    Just leave her alone

    Megan (35)

    Wie o Anthony. A timid and pessimistic woman. She is

    oten tensed and rarely seen with a smile on her ace,except on her wedding. Lie has been good or this amily,

    but no one knows why she is such a doomster.

    Dionne (7)

    The youngest child o Anthony and Megan. Her teacher

    oten complains about her not paying attention in class.

    Unlike the adults, she is the blandest. As surreal as this

    gets, she will wave at you randomly. Creepy.

    Danny (9)

    A cheeky and mischievous little boy. He likes to disturbothers or the sake o satisying his un. He is notorious

    in class, and his classmates call him a jerk.

    Douglas (11)

    Like his sister, he is also very unexpressive. He tends tohide his eelings, with a blank acial expression.

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    Ethical Egoism

    Unlike Psychological Egoism, which

    is a selsh act, Ethnical Egoism is a

    selfess act. Maximising ones good

    without the consideration o others

    is the main ideology o what anethical egoist does. However, their

    actions are benecial to themselves

    in achieving their own goals. They

    disregard what is morally right, but

    their cause o actions certainly has

    a long term or immediate eects.

    Psychological Egoism

    Sel-concept. Psychological

    Egoism is what people normally

    come across. Their mindset is

    to ocus on onesel as only an

    individual, while not benetting

    the society or others. Thisbehaviour is seen as eeding

    onesel with pride

    and sel-importance.

    VS

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    Not all selsh people are brought up that way. Circumstances in their lie have aected them to be the

    way they are.Ever wonder how selshness is developed?

    Well, it is nature or human to use rational approach in crisis situation. A man is an individual with

    unquestionable capacity because o our resilient spirit. However, keeping this spirit is not easy.

    There is always up and downs in lie, and all those unair treatment in lie result in mankind being

    worthless. Like humpty dumpty, everything in lie ends up tumbling down.

    Disappointed in lie, we may still hope to try to have a balance between our negative and positive sel,

    until one day, BAMM! When we nally cannot take this anymore, we lose touch o our consciousnessand our sense o morality.

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    NEW RELIGION : SELFISM

    Its all about you

    Live for yourself

    You must love yourself before you canlove others

    One o the keystone o modern selsm is derived rom

    individuation. Very oten because people eel that they

    care too much to please others, this is where selshness

    creep in. That is not all; their mindset has cultivated

    deensiveness and sel-assertion and they start to idolize

    themselves. So much o a pseudo-individual..14

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    All you need is integrity. When integrity is practiced .

    All our belies and activities will be synchronised. We

    all have this ear in us that hold us back, making us earo the consequences o our actions. I we allow ear

    to creep into our subconscious. We will orever live in

    ear,and lack courage in everything that we do.

    Whats the solution then?

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    The red hood

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    ITs about you not about me,

    but

    its about me not about you

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    Narcissism Did you know that narcissism is a term thatoriginated with Narcissus in greek mythology

    who ell in love with himsel?

    I a amily upbringing is about suppressing honesty, the

    child will grow up to be dishonest. Once a person is

    dishonest with themselves, their inner sel is deceitul

    and their world is duplicitous. It is the same as living in adelusion. In this situation, he or she will become shady. It

    gets worst that even telling the truth to the people closest

    to them is hard.

    Narcissism in the present

    Mechanism of narcissism

    Narcissists are actually lonely people who cant trust

    others, so in turn they can only go back to their inner sel.

    Narcissists also cover up their eelings and worthlessness

    by loving themselves. Imagine them as a magnet,pulling

    people into their circle o interests, and there is noway to compromise.

    Being immersed in ones grandiosity and talent, there

    is nothing wrong with that. Where have all the humble

    teachings gone to? Our insatiable desire to have power

    and ame have manipulated the evil in us, destroying the

    competent and humble ones out there. Forming a social

    tribe is pretentious, considering the members who are intune with their eelings, and only their own eelings.

    Havent you grown tired of all this

    me, me, and me stuff yet?

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    The grammar of a bipolar person

    Hair curled out like a fower seeking the

    sunlight. All that carbon dioxide is converted

    into happiness aura.

    Everyday is like her happiest day o her lie.

    Theme song : Ra Ra Riot- Binary Mind

    Always carry a spastic smile wherever

    she go, you may think shes a psycho.

    Her radiance is so bright that she blinds the world.

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    Theme song : Stars - Winter Bones

    Shes so gloomy you can almost see

    dark clouds over her head.

    Sigh...

    She weeps and cringe everytime an ant died. I that

    was not enough, she snugs under her blanket all day

    long like an Emo Kid.

    Her world is so dark she cant even see her shadow.

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    What Not to say to a Bipolar person

    Everything you need to know about what you should not say to a bipolar person, especially when you think you knowhow to read their expressions. Watch out or these wrong words.

    Keyword:Happy Rating:VV

    Dont assume that a bipolar is

    happy or sad based on how they

    look. Youll never know that they

    are going through some emotional

    struggle deep within, and you dont

    want to stir it up.

    Keyword:Worse Rating:VVV

    By that, we meant that they are

    not alone, or not the only person

    going through any tough times.

    Just that word worse alone

    is harsh enough to make themmiserable or a long time.

    Keyword:How Rating:VVV

    A Bipolar person mood changes very

    oten, asking them such a sensitive

    question might get them thinking so

    hard that it so depressing to them.

    Dont ruin their day.

    You look happy today!

    How are you?

    Theres always someone

    worse off than you are.

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    Keyword:Life Rating:VVVVV

    O course no one said that. Everyone

    is acing dierent challenges in their

    lie, reminding them that lie is unair

    only make matter worst. It is painul

    to be awakened by reality, where they

    could still be happy in delusion.

    Keyword:Sorry Rating:VV

    Just merely eeling sad is not a sin.

    Dont bash them up by saying this. I

    a person being upset is an eyesore to

    you, just leave them alone. Sigh...

    Keyword:Cheers Rating:VVVV

    A common misconception o cheers

    mate! to bipolar people means

    cheer up, and all the eort in hiding

    the emotional hard times is gone to

    waste, because you just reminded

    them that they had something sad to

    get over with.

    Keyword:Kill Rating:VVVVV

    This phrase is somewhat true

    what doesnt kill us makes us

    spiritually stronger. But saying this

    to a bipolar is a big NO. As they arevery sensitive, this phrase actually

    has a subliminal message that is

    promoting suicide in some extent.

    Being wise is good only when words

    are said right at the right person.

    No one ever said that life was fair.

    Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

    Cheers Mate!

    What doesnt kill you

    makes you stronger.

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    The pathetic evolution of Apathy

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    The pathetic evolution of Apathy

    See how Ronnie grew up to be an apathetic

    old man. Apathy is a serious human condition

    where an individual all lost aith in humanity.Notice how careree can turn into apathy.

    You may see him smiling, but deep down

    inside, he is just an empty spirit.

    Stage 1Happy little boy. Appreciative o

    everything his parents does or

    him. So obedient and riendly,

    you wont even want to bully him.

    Stage 2So he is bigger now, probably at

    his adolescence stage. Pimples

    and reckles start to appear. He is

    less jovial as he used to be. Is he

    thinking about his lie right now?

    Look at him.

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    Stage 3He is a man now. Is this what he aspire to be?

    He looks orlorn and restless everyday, whathas gotten into him? He walks with a drag to

    work everyday, adpoting a slouching habit.

    By now he is married to margaret. Its a joyous

    period o his lie, wait... He doesnt care..

    Stage 4Retired ater slogging or so many years,

    and he still doesnt seem to be excited or his

    Eternal holidayFor a brie moment i thought

    he is rueul, but he is actually getting bored o

    lie. Aimlessly, he lives on his monotonous lie

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    How can school reduce apathy?

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    Not caring about anything or the wrongreasons is dierent rom being careree.

    An apathetic person eels helpless all the time,

    and is common among young people.

    Some o examples o our apathetic society are:

    Teen violence, bullying in the public

    With every statistics about suicide, apathy is

    partly to be blame. This book is not advocatinganti-bullying, but apathy is a big human condition

    existing in modern mankind.

    People are so passive and submissiveness

    nowadays, and this irks me. The society is lacking

    o social responsibility and concern. I theres

    anything to be blamed, blame the television. We

    are so attuned to watching drama with showing our

    eelings behind the screen that when it comes to

    real lie situation it is just a mediocre drama to them,

    people have seen worst on the TV.

    Imagine i riends are just acquaintances who we

    call riends, and every other relationship have no

    signicance meaning in modern context. Being

    apathetic also allow ourselves to be vulnerable tobe controlled by others, simply because we are too

    submissive and we will have the mindset o getting

    controlled than to take initiative lives on.

    How can school reduce apathy?

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    Apathy is common in young people. We were taught to becareree, and all sort o things to pursue our dreams. The

    problem is children are so tied down by the importance o

    grades, and how good you are in the uture depends on

    how well we do in school. They are not mentally strong

    enough to cope with what their parents want them to be.

    All aith is lost when they had enough. I have seen too many

    allen ones.

    I teachers can be egalitarian and democratic, this will

    motivates a child to work hard. Also encouraging the spirit

    o wonderment helps a child to nd what they like, main-

    taining a momentum in a passion or something. Very o-

    ten, we go to school just or education, we do not want to

    be a blockhead ull o IQ and low in EQ. Teachers can be

    more ethical so the children can learn to construct moral

    meaning, that way everyone can be appreciative and un-

    derstanding in whatever we do.

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    Two faced: The next generation

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    Two-faced: The next generationDevious. Mysterious. Monstrous

    Time to meet the kids! Dont be ool by their cheekiness;

    though they are young, its hard to tell what mischie they

    are up to. You might notice some the characteristics they

    inherited rom the previous generation.

    Danny jerk-face

    Like his grandather and dad, he sure has some

    attitude going on. At his age o 7, he is already

    starting to show signs o a badass. He beriends you

    at rst. Few weeks later, when he got bored o you,

    all the ill-treating starts. Being sympathetic or hisvictims doesnt help. There is no Cinderella; you just

    got to suck up to his majestic bad manners. Prince o

    the house, king o the class, is just some o the titles

    he earned. What a notorious little rascal!

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    Dionne straight-face

    Douglas poker-face

    Living in her own world you just... cant gure out

    what she is thinking. She is oten seen with a blank

    expression. Sometimes she just snuggles onto her

    legs, and daze. Occasionally she will wave at you.Creepy huh? Her teacher has complained about her

    weird behavior in school, and has recommended

    her to see a psychiatrist. They are worried that she

    might have autism. Not to be conused with autism,

    she is sometimes normal at home. What is with her

    eeriness is still a mystery.

    Obviously his avorite pastime is playing with

    poker cards. With what he learnt rom poker

    cards, he is able to manipulate people. He gets

    away rom punishment easily due to his ability

    to play mind games with the adults. Isnt he

    cunning? Two-acedness, he is even better

    than the pioneers.

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    Symptons of a PAranoiac

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    Symptons of a PAranoiac

    UNCERtain

    Temperamental

    Flicker-minded

    insecure

    anxious

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    survival kit

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    survival kit : The remedy of two-faced

    Being Rational

    Having a purpose Honesty and Courage

    Possess Self-worth

    Not every action requires a reason, but try to apply

    reason to every aspects o your lie. You will nd your

    lie more meaningul than ever. Discovering new

    knowledge makes you smarter, no doubt. Having newknowledge also make you more understanding and

    humane. Be aware and conscious o your surroundings,

    I am not asking you to beware o everyone, just take

    notice o the lie around you. You will have a wider

    perspective to handling problems in the uture.

    As I mentioned earlier that apathy is a serious problem,

    you will not want to live your lie like Ronnie. Having

    a goal in lie, keep it conscious and strive or it! Ok, Isound like a motivational speaker now. Yeah i a man

    is aware o the things he is working or, it promotes

    sel-growth, and every daily action will be his ruling

    standard in his lie.

    Imagine you are shrouded in a smokescreen o ear.

    Taking a step orward seems like the hardest thing

    to do. Fear is what that is causing deceptions andinsecurities. I we respond to problems with a ear-

    based perspective, our actions oten lack rationale and

    reason. Being honest is a test o courage, so my riend,

    take the leap o aith and be truth to you. Counter every

    problem with other alternatives such as what i?

    Love yoursel, not like a narcissists, I meant respect

    yoursel. With love you overcome hate. There will be

    neither thunderstorms nor tornadoes in your head.

    Youre ull o love, woohoo! With every problemsarising, choose to take fight instead to ght. I you

    insist in seeking justice, you will be drowned with

    hatred again. Isnt it easier to give in, than go through

    a meaningless argument that wears you down?

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    So is two-facedness scary?

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    So is two facedness scary?

    This two-acedness has been etched in your mind by now.

    It isnt so scary now is it? All the things you need to know

    about two-acedness is here in this book; i you ever need

    help, just reer to this book again!

    All in all, two-acedness is all about how we behave

    behind peoples back. You just have to be true to yoursel.

    Dwelling over problems, gossiping about others doesnt

    help either. Last word o advice : dont tell anyone any

    secret or anything you dont want others to know. Be true.

    Are you a little two-aced now?

    I youre gonna be two-aced at least make one o them pretty.

    -Marilyn Monroe

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    Two-facedness; lets embrace it.

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    The End

    What is two-faced?

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    Since the dawn o mankind evolution, we have come a

    long way. Intelligence has brought us into the world we

    live in today. We are lled with knowledge, but we dont

    eel or others as much as beore. Wouldnt it be nice i

    we can live without so many concerns? Sadly no, this

    vortex o eeling and intelligence within us has made us

    a two ace?

    Well rankly speaking, two-aced people are hypocriticalscumbags who live o others, typically to behave in a

    certain manner in the public and dierently elsewhere.

    Two-aced is a human behavior problem in which many

    actors are concerned, such as how humans can be

    insincere, hypocritical, and deceiving. Lie is hard,

    acing two-aced people in lie is even harder.

    Fortunately this book is here to help, written with daily

    observations and past experiences o encountering

    two-aced people. Two-aced people is a lot o un

    when you know exactly what youre dealing with.