Twenty years ago: “ If you see something in someone that you dislike, be sure that you posses that...
Transcript of Twenty years ago: “ If you see something in someone that you dislike, be sure that you posses that...
Twenty years ago:
“If you see something in someone that you dislike, be
sure that you posses that feature, and get closer to that person because you have for
sure something to work there.”
Three years ago:
• “If you see a virtue in someone, feel confident that you own that virtue, you cannot be aware of a virtue that is not strong in you.”
When you change, the relationship changes.
• The dynamic of a negative relationship cannot be sustained without your participation.
-Linda Kavelin Popov, A Pace of Grace
Work with a partner
• Look at each other into the face, making eye contact, in complete silence, for 30 seconds.
• Boundary: • Perceptiveness: be aware of your feelings, observe carefully your own gestures and
your partner´s as well, your body language.
Perceptiveness• Clarity of insight.• Being observant of what is
beneath the surface and looking for a deeper meaning.• Slow down into awareness.• We strive to see what is truly
going on.