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CASSANDRA PORTER, MICHAEL FLEISCHMAN & DELORES KENNEDY-WILLIAMS NATIONAL CASA CONFERENCE MAY 31, 2015 The Power of Language

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CA SSA NDRA PORTER, MICHA EL FLEISCHMA N & DELORES KENNEDY -WILLIAMS

NATIONAL CASA CONFERENCEMAY 31, 2015

The Power of Language

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Agenda

Ground Rules

Power Inclusive & Exclusive Power

Power of Language

Reframing Exercise

Next steps

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Ground Rules

Respect

“Ouch Rule”

Listen from zero

There are no quick fixes

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Power

What words describe a person or a group who is in power or who has power?

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Exclusive Power

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Inclusive Power

Infinite

Generative

Power can grow

Shared

Inclusive

Flexes with the need

Solutions from outside the box

Guided rather than forced

More of a sense of ownership

Mutual responsibility

Better sense of “fair play”

Builds confidence

Win-win approach

Negotiation rather than coercion

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Power of Language

What's in a name? that which we call aroseBy any other name would smell as sweet;So Romeo would, were he not Romeo call'd,Retain that dear perfection which he owesWithout that title. Romeo, doff thy name,And for that name which is no part of theeTake all myself.

Romeo and Juliet Act II Scene IIWilliam Shakespeare

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Power of Language

Is Romeo a lover or a pedophile?

Cult…..Denomination

Riot…Demonstration

Stomped Out… Left abruptly

Hysterical…Adamant

Threatened…Warned

Made a scene…Stood their ground

Investigation…Assessment

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Reframing

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Reframing Exercise

1. They spend money foolishly.

2. He is a deadbeat dad.

3. They are lazy.

4. She has a drug habit.

5. They don’t try hard.

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Reframing Exercise

6. They are harsh with their children.

7. They have too many kids.

8. He had a dirty drug test.

9. They are always looking to others to solve their problems.

10. They are never on time.

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