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The Most Direct Solution to Any
ProblemMarch 11th, 2008 by Steve Pavlina
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When trying to solve various problems in life, an approach I find very useful is
to first identify what Id consider the most direct solution, regardless of how I
feel about actually implementing it. Whats the clearest, most direct path to my
goal or the most efficient way to get around an obstacle?
Many problems will have multiple direct solutions, but often these solutions
will be unsavory at first glance because theyll require courage, self-discipline,
creativity, or persistence to implement. But if we can somehow get ourselves to
follow through, we know the solutions will actually work.
For example, suppose you want to lose weight. And suppose we can say that
one (of many) direct solutions is to eat the same as youre eating now, and
boost your exercise output by 500 calories a day. If you implement this rather
simplistic solution, youll lose weight. It may require discipline and
persistence, but most people would agree that it will work if you follow
through.
Another example: Suppose youre interested in starting a relationship with
someone, but you dont know how that person feels about you. One direct
solution would be to simply walk up, explain your thoughts and feelings, and
ask if s/he is interested in discussing the possibility of a closer relationship.
This will take less than a minute to say, and regardless of the outcome, at least
you know where you stand. Of course this solution may require a lot of
courage to overcome the possibility of rejection, but its very simple and
straightforward.
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See if you can identify the most direct solution to some of your problems.
Whats the simplest and quickest way to reach your goals, assuming you had
limitless courage and discipline?
Benefits of Directness
There are many seemingly challenging problems that have very simple, direct
solutions. The real challenge is how to become the kind of person who can
implement the most direct solutions instead of having to take a circuitous path
to compensate for laziness or timidity. This is why working on your personal
development, especially building your courage and self-discipline, is one of the
best problem-solving techniques there is. When you go to work on yourself,problems that once seemed untenable become much easier to solve. You get
better at implementing direct solutions instead of falling back on indirect ones.
One of the best areas where the idea of directness helped me was in making my
career transition from game development to personal development in 2004. I
asked myself what Id do if I was already retired. My answer was that Id
spend most of my time working on personal growth with other growth-oriented
people. Thats what I was already doing in my spare time when I wasnt
working. I realized I was running a games business to generate income, so I
could pay my bills and then work on personal development in my spare time.
That seemed like a needlessly indirect solution to me. Why couldnt I just
eliminate the middleman? I asked myself, Wouldnt it be smarter to work on
personal development full-time and find a way to pay all my bills from doing
that?
I identified a more direct solution, but it was a solution that would require
courage, discipline, and creativity to implement. I could see that if I actually
did it, it would work. (Im glossing over the specific details, but I think you get
the idea.) So then the problem became: How can I muster the inner resources I
need to make this happen? When I tried to tackle that problem, the results were
a bit unexpected. It turns out I didnt need to build those inner resources so
much. I just needed to be willing to apply them.
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Why We Resist the Direct Solution
Theres something reassuring about a direct solution that you know is going to
work, but theres also something disturbing about it. When you see a direct
solution staring you in the face, and you havent implemented it even though
you know it will work, you have to stop and ask yourself, Why am I holding
myself back from solving this problem when the solution is right there? If you
really give that question some thought, it may lead you down an interesting
rabbit hole.
My particular rabbit hole was that I had to consider whether I was willing to
work hard to achieve a result I wanted. Was I only willing to take the easypath? I saw that the only real barrier to achieving my goal was whether I was
willing to put in the time and effort to make it happen. Running my games
business had become very easy for me, and I didnt have to work that hard to
keep it profitable. I had to decide whether I was willing to push myself to a
new level of action. Once I could honestly say to myself, Yeah, Im willing to
do that, I was able to get moving and implement the direct solution. But as
long as I was thinking, There must be an easier way, or Im not sure I want
to do that much work, all solutions (direct or indirect) eluded me.
Consider one of the direct solutions you identified in your own life. Stop and
ask yourself, Am I willing to do that? Am I willing to be the kind of person
who could implement this solution?
What does it mean if you say you dont want to be the kind of person whod
implement the direct solution? Are you saying youd rather be uncreative,
undisciplined, and timid instead of creative, disciplined, and courageous?
When you bring these issues up and deal with them consciously, its hard to
admit that youve been choosing to be that kind of person the kind of person
who has to settle for slower, more indirect solutions and sometimes no solution
at all. But that is what youre choosing when you shun the direct solution, isnt
it?
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You have an important choice to make regarding what kind of person you want
to be. Do you want to be courageous, disciplined, creative, and persistent or
not? Do you think those are good qualities to develop in yourself? If not, then
youre basically left to embrace their opposites by default. Is that something
youre willing to do?
Directness and the Law of Attraction
What about using the Law of Attraction? Is that part of a direct solution? That
depends on the problem.
Consider this simple example. A common manifestation exercise is to try to
manifest a blue feather somewhere in your reality. You hold the intention to see
a blue feather sometime in the next 24 hours. Whats the most direct solution to
that intention? Is it to wait patiently and let the universe bring it to you
somehow? Why not simply do a Google image search? Youll find your blue
feather within seconds. Problem solved. Next.
Many times when people try to apply the Law of Attraction, they
simultaneously resist implementing the most direct solution to their problem.
To me thats a mixed intention. If you really desire something badly enough,
why on earth would you resist the most direct path to it? Doesnt that imply
you dont really want it? Or maybe you dont want to become the kind of
person whod be able to get it. If you already have a direct solution staring you
in the face, and you dont implement it, Id say youre using the Law of
Repulsion more than the Law of Attraction.
The point of the Law of Attraction is to hold the intention to discover a direct
solution to a problem. Once that solution is already known to you, the Law of
Attraction has done its job. Your job is to implement the solutions you attract.
When you find yourself having difficulty solving a problem, but you can
identify a direct solution with relative ease, perhaps the real problem isnt what
you think it is.
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