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The Bottom Line
Nothing Flies Without
Parental Permission
No Matter What!
Period.
Equity Institute of California
Rethinking
Repositioning
Calibration
Resolution
New Knowledge
1.What is the Goal you would like to achieve ?
10 Questions
a.What solutions have you attempted so far?b.What was it about these attempts
that didn’t work?
2.What is your feeling about the situation?
3.What is your attitude regarding the situation?4. What benefits do you receive from having this
situation?5.What is the reality of the
situation?
10. What one thing are you willing to change to makethis be what you would like it to be?
9. How would your life be different if this situation changed?
8. What do you need to do at this time?
7. What else would you like to see happen?
6.What would you like to see happen?
Data
Approximately 84% of custodial
parents are mothers
Approximately 84% of custodial parents are mothers
Of The 84%, 44% are currently divorced or separated
33% have never been married
79% are gainfully employed
29% work part-time or part-year
74% work full time, year round
16% of custodial parents are fathers
Of those fathers:
57% are divorced or separated
18% have never married
According to Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2005, released by the U.S. Census Bureau in August, 2007, there are approximately 13.6 million single parents in the United States today, and those parents are responsible for raising 21.2 million children (approximately 26% of children under 21 in the U.S. today).
13.6 million
21.2 million
Single Parents
Children
Parenting
Practices
Four Parenting Styles
1.Authoritarian
2. Authoritative
Strict RulesDo As I Say, Not As I DoWhy ? Because I Said SoHigh Demand, Low Response
Rules & GuidelinesHighly ResponsiveNurturing & Forgiving
Assertive, Forgiving, & Supportive
3. Permissive
4. Uninvolved
Very Few DemandsRarely Discipline
Lenient, Avoid ConfrontationMore of a Friend than Parent
Few Demands
Low Responsiveness
Little CommunicationDetached From The Child’s Life
Children Children Children Children
Authoritarian
obedientlow self-esteem
Authoritative
capable supportive
Permissiveauthority
issueslow academic performance
Uninvolvedlack self-control
low self-esteem
Impact of Styles on Children
culture attempts to provide the answerbefore the question is asked
The Family’s RoleEducational Research
has demonstrated that
parent involvement in a
child’s education is the
most important factor
for a child’s academic successLawrence Hall of Science
Berkeley
Interests!!!
When I don’t do well, it HURTS !
If you think one year ahead . . . plant a seed. If you think ten years ahead . . . plant a tree. If you think one hundred years ahead . . . Educate the People. ~ Chinese Proverb
Education woes: Parents get most blame, not teachersBy Alan - Posted on December 13th, 2010
Virtually every issue that we deal with, be it education… be it human services, gang problems or drugs, we find ENGAGED FAMILIES the ultimate solution. ~ unknown
TimeManagement
14,400 hours
168 hrs a week
30 hrs of school per week
138 hrs per week
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Life Time
104,832 hours Time from K-12
14,400 hours In School Time
90,432 hours Out Of School Time
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Themes
OrientationOrientation is more than a physical context and
placement. In its deeper meanings it is about mindset, ways of
thinking and knowing, origins of communication and sense of direction.
It is about how the human spirit manifests itself.It is also a way of learning and understanding
where you are,your place,
and your relative level of development
CHILDREN TEND TO IMITATE AND IDENTIFY WITH THE BEHAVIOR OF THE PARENT
Children
tend to identify and imitate
the behavior of the parent.
If you want to change your child’s behavior,
you’ve gotto (be willing)
to change yours first
Tellin’ Isn’t Teaching and Tellin’ Isn’t Teaching and Sittin’ Quiet Isn’t Learning!Sittin’ Quiet Isn’t Learning!
If you don’t have a purpose then someone may give you one,
but it may not be the one you want
PurposePurpose
Never leave home without itand
it’s the first thing you checkwhen you return.
THERE IS NO GUARANTEE ON TIME. IF YOU DON’T USE IT, YOU’RE GUARANTEED TO LOSE IT.
When we struggle alone,we die alone...needlessly
YOU MAY NOT GET A SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE A FIRST IMPRESSION, BUT YOU MAY GET A SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE THE BEST IMPRESSION
the child and the parentare often born at the same time.
IF YOU EVER WANT YOUR CHILD TO CHANGE,
YOU WILL HAVE TO CHANGE FIRST
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