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The 3 Principles of Choice~ Harry Massey ~
The Choice Point Movement opens your eyes to a whole new world.
Choice Point – Align Your Purpose
Many of us are at a life-changing point in our lives
wondering – ‘what is my purpose’, ‘what is happening
in my world’, ‘what can I do to make a difference’. It
seems there is an increasing unrest and turbulence in
the world. We are bombarded every day by shocking
images on the TV, terrible stories in the paper and for
many of us there is a growing sense of shift and
change occurring in the world. Personally too, we feel
that there must be something more.
Change begins with us; every choice we make is
creating the future for better or for worse– but where
do we begin to make an improvement in our lives and
start to see a happier healthier world? How do we
make the right choices?
Wouldn’t it be amazing if you had access to the kind
of information that until now has been the reserve of
the world’s most far-thinking scientists, business leaders
and change-makers?
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Wouldn’t it be useful for you to know how to apply this
powerful knowledge to your own life in an easy step-
by-step way?
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if you had a social network
that allowed you to connect with others – and
combine forces to help create the world at its highest
potential?
If you answered a resounding “YES!” to these three-
questions, then read on – because over the course of
this book, we’ll be undertaking a fascinating journey,
which guarantees to alter how you see life forever…
Very shortly, you’ll be one of the first to have the tools
you need to create positive change in both your own
life and in the lives of those around you, on a scale
that’s never been possible until now…
Choice Point is a hands-on movement that provides
us all with the information and tools to realize both our
individual and collective potential. It does that through
putting together the collective wisdom of some of the
leading change- makers on our planet in a film, books
and a socially-interactive learning platform but also
enables you to find people of similar interests and
ideas to enable collaboration on a global scale –
really empowering you to co-create the world that
you want to live in. A social network for a positive
social purpose.
This book gives you some tips on how to make better
choices and how you can use these amazing
resources to improve both your life and the lives of
others too.
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The term ‘Choice Point’ is borrowed from physics. It is
a place of branching or forking. It is a point of
possibility. Our lives are constantly throwing up choice
points - seemingly negative life events and crises are
actually windows of opportunity for change, enabling
us to drastically improve the quality of our lives by
making different choices. Crises can either be
devastating or transformational depending on what
you’re able to learn from them and the psychological
tools available to you. On another level, it can also be
seen that our planet is at choice point – decisions and
choices made by this generation and the next will
have a huge impact on whether or not this planet will
flourish or be devastated.
Learn how Mother Nature is in a constant cycle of
endings and beginnings, or in other words - choice
points, and how you can tune into this cycle to
maximize your growth potential.
What is a Choice Point?
Learn how to identify the choice points in your life, and
how to use this information to make the best choices
for you at exactly the right time in your life to have the
optimum effect by following these 3 simple principles:
Principle 1 - Understand Your World
Principle 2 -Align Your Purpose
Principle 3- Be The Change
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The Choice Point MovementThe main principles of the Choice Point
philosophy‘The unexamined life is not worth living’ – Socrates
The first Choice Point principle is to‘Understand Your World’...
Nature, society and your life all have patterns to them.
Through learning to ask questions, conducting
research, having empathy with people and reading
the signs – it’s possible to build up a picture of what
patterns are present in nature, in society and world
events.
“You must know who you are and you must embrace
who you are in order to then go beyond it.”
Alison Pothier – Choice Point movie
The second principle is to ‘Align Your Purpose’. Once
you have understood your world, you will be able to
align your purpose with the patterns that nature and
your social surroundings are able to support. It’s like
sailing with the wind behind you instead of frantically
paddling upstream - you will be guided to achieve
success that you never thought possible. Simply
through thoroughly understanding your world and
then aligning with the patterns already present in the
world, you will achieve great success using less energy
and a great deal less effort because of the knowledge
you’ve gained.
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“What scientists are beginning to understand is that
the universe is actually made up of very few patterns
that propagate and repeat themselves on many,
many different scales throughout the universe.”
Gregg Braden - Choice Point movie
Thirdly once you have gathered all the information
you need and discovered your true purpose, the last
principle is to ‘Be The Change’. Understanding Your
World and Aligning Your Purpose will get you a long
way in obtaining a happier more fulfilled life. It is a
failure to get to grips with these simple principles that
often leads to disappointment for people on a
personal development journey who have been taught
the ‘think it, believe it and it will happen’ philosophy
that has been popular in the self-help industry.
However to fully align your purpose, you have to be it
– that is you must really live it and feel it in all aspects
of your life. There can be a lot of blocks that can
prevent this happening – perhaps trust, conditioning,
fear or simply not taking action in the direction of your
purpose. As Gandhi simply said – ‘be the change you
want to see in the world’.
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“We change the world by changing ourselves.”
Robert E Quinn – Choice Point movie
Before we have a closer look at the three principles
and how they can actually be applied in your life, it’s
worth explaining how Choice Point came about.
To properly explain the term
‘Choice Point’ and to
explain how a choice point
can truly change your life,
I’m going to tell my own Choice Point story, which will
demonstrate to you that however disadvantaged you
think you are - you can do it too. This is the story of how
my own personal Choice Point led me to have the
most incredible life journey, resulting in the making of
the Choice Point movie and the social network
platform that allows me to share the wisdom I have
gained from many of life’s great visionaries.
In the first part of my adult life I screwed up, and I
screwed up big time.
For seven years my life seemed over as I spent a
significant portion of it staring up at the ceiling not
being able to move beyond a few hours a day. I had
as a result of many years of a self-destructive
hedonistic lifestyle with all the negative beliefs and
poor self-worth that lifestyle often entails.
How It All StartedHarry Massey - theFounder of Choice Point
Did I purposefully choose those years in bed? No.
Did I create it? Well – Yes in a way.
Was it part of my destiny?
Was it part of some greater cycle leading on to the
future events that followed?
Looking back now with the knowledge of how that
crisis defined my purpose in life and led me to create
a successful health business, destiny does seem to
have played a part too. Would I be where I am now
without that crisis? I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t.
I had a very significant turning point in my journey from
illness and misery to being able to build a global
company. I simply decided that the way to get myself
better was to try to understand what was really behind
health; how the body really worked and to make a
home wellness system that would enable people to be
able to work out what was wrong with them from
home, and more importantly, to give them a way of
getting themselves better again. I figured if I could do
that, I would get better along the way. I had no idea
how that could be done, how I would get the money
or who would help me, but because I had literally
nothing to lose (I had no life really to speak of) – I
thought I might as well try. That journey was an
extremely tough one, compounded by only having
very limited time per day for thinking and even then
that thinking was extremely foggy as any sufferer of
chronic fatigue syndrome will understand.
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Against all the odds – with no business experience - not
even any work experience, heavily compromised
health, unable to drive and with almost zero social skills
after having been holed up in my room for seven years
– incredible things happened, seemingly coincidently.
I met an amazing scientist - Peter Fraser - and together
we set about creating our first health system. NES
Health was formed, and as it started to succeed, my
own health started changing dramatically for the
better.
It wasn’t all plain sailing though. Although I was able
to rapidly grow a successful practitioner-based health
company, it has taken 10 years to develop the
technology and expertise to be able to help people
directly in their own homes as was my original dream.
During the first few months it was the familiar ‘Silicon
Valley garage story’ – except we were in a British
seaside town, in an upstairs flat, buying buttons from
shirt shops and gluing them on to bits of plastic to
make devices and labelling our remedy bottles with a
laser printer. After 6 months the weight of the storage
of bottles in my spare room started causing cracks in
the ceiling downstairs – and it was time to move the
business out - at this time into a larger but cheaper
property that was going to be condemned - what
does this mean?
The problem was who would invest in someone who
was still pretty ill, hadn’t had a job in 6 years and was
pursuing an extremely revolutionary idea that wasn’t
accepted in mainstream science? I had to build from
the ground up and do whatever it took to see it
happen.
In those early years, I also had another related vision,
which at the time I called the World Consciousness
Project, to help people transform themselves and the
globe via the internet. However, 10 years ago it was
too early for that type of idea and I absolutely didn’t
know nearly enough to pass on the knowledge
needed to make this project successful.
I hadn’t understood my world.
What was really incredible
looking back – is when I
started the Choice Point
project, I had totally forgot-
ten that I’d had the original
idea 10 years ago. So I had
had a vision of a health
system first and then 2 years
later started on the World
Consciousness Project. And
then, 10 years after that, I launched the home wellness
system I call the NES miHealth – and my latest venture
Choice Point is launching in 2012 – 2 years later. Where
did this pattern come from?
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What was really at the centre of this success? What
allowed ‘destiny’ to work for me? I believe it was
something incredibly simple – at that choice point in
my life, I decided to align with a purpose that was
bigger than my selfish desire to get myself well, by
instead putting myself as a passionate servant to make
a home wellness system to help others. Simply aligning
with a purpose that was harmonious to the greater
good, enabled patterns that are inherent in nature
and people’s behavior to support that journey and in
turn I got healthy too. In short I had Aligned My
Purpose.
Could I have set up my company earlier and avoided
those years of suffering? Unlikely - without the intense
suffering I wouldn’t have had the drive to learn and
do what I needed to do.
Could I have made that change later? Again unlikely,
as it was at that particular time that I had the
opportunity to radically change my life and move to
America, where I discovered the information I needed
to put my vision into action. If I hadn’t, I’m fairly certain
that my health would have carried on deteriorating
beyond the point of being able to do anything.
Sometime after moving to America, I had another
interesting chain of events that would turn out to be
part of bigger pattern much later.
I lost my visa waiver to the States and was forced to
move to the UK, I had the last little bit of my money
stolen, lost my boyfriend, and my father died.
Simultaneously Peter Fraser came over to England and
convinced me to ditch the World Consciousness
Project and concentrate on NES Health – and this all
in the space of 3 weeks! Destiny definitely placed me
firmly where I needed to be!
Ten years on – in a reversal of the pattern, my US Visa
has been granted, I’m engaged to be married,
Choice Point is being launched, and I have a
supportive team behind me. In both my professional
and personal life I am constantly endeavoring to Be
the Change and live my life in a state of flow with the
patterns inherent in my environment.
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It seems to me that life has patterns that unfold and
that some points in our life are more significant, where
the choices we make can have a much more
significant effect on our life than others. That’s my story
though – it’s only a story by itself – the question I
wanted to know was did it also apply to other people?
Is there a common theme that could be made into a
philosophy of how to master one’s life and make a
difference in the world? What could be gleaned from
the life stories of the most significant leaders, scientists
and thinkers of our day? Did they have choice points
and then go on to Align their Purpose in able to
succeed in life and play a positive role in the society
they lived in? In order to find this out I set about making
the movie Choice Point.
I also had a further motivation for researching the
choice points of contemporary visionaries. I’d spent
the last 10 years preparing to launch a home wellness
system while instead building a practitioner business. I
knew I didn’t know enough to make it scale – after all
we’d only built a relatively small practitioner business
– not the multi-billion dollar one that it would really
take to empower millions of people to take care of
their health from home. I thought the knowledge I’d
gain and people we’d meet from trying to work out
some of the deeper questions of how life really works
and how leaders really apply that to succeed, would
also help me in my quest to realise my dreams and
ambitions.
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I hope that you enjoy exploring our findings as they’ve
certainly worked for me and for many of the visionaries
that I’ve met along the way. As our knowledge base
grows, we will continue to evolve and refine the
Choice Point philosophy as we gain collective
experience from others, delving into it.
All the people I interviewed for Choice Point spent
time thoroughly researching and understanding their
world so that they were able to align with their purpose
and take the actions they needed to succeed – rather
than just following a mindset where anything is
possible. I now understand that not everything is
possible, but through recognizing and aligning with
patterns, that the incredible is possible when we get it
right.
The Choice Point philosophy is about those windows
of opportunity where you have the choice to do
something different so that you are supported, rather
than fighting against the patterns unfolding in society
and nature. It’s about how in those moments, if you
can recognize the patterns and align with your
purpose you will be able to move forward with your life
in amazing ways, and really make a difference in the
world.
So now we have some background on the reasons
why Choice Point came into being, let’s look at the
Choice Point Philosophy in a little more detail.
How Are Choice Points Created?
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Everything is changing, everything always has
changed, and everything always will change, in one
way or another. Nature flows and changes and we
are part of it, so our lives also change. When we get
comfortable with the idea of change, that what we’re
doing and experiencing is impermanent, then we
don’t waste so much mental and emotional effort
trying to keep things as they are. We can let things
change and flow with them as they do so. Think of
change as evolution. With every new piece of
knowledge, every new experience, we become more
than we were before. We evolve and gain wisdom in
the process.
Reality is filled with cycles, as we know. A cycle, by its
nature, must come to an end to allow a new one to
begin. From the very small (behavior of subatomic
particles) to the very large (planets and galaxies), life
operates in cycles. The heart beats, we breathe in and
out, the Moon orbits the Earth, the Earth orbits the Sun,
and the Sun orbits the Milky Way galaxy. This is nature,
and you are part of it. You cannot be separate from
nature. You could think of nature’s cycles like waves
on the surface water and life as being a boat on the
water continually being lifted and dropped by the
waves. In this way, you too are carried on the waves
of life.
“The only thing that’s permanent in life is change” ~ HH Dalai Lama
Just as nature’s cycles end and new ones begin, so
many aspects of your life follow cyclical patterns. With
this realization you can become more comfortable
with the idea of impermanence. Cycles present us
with opportunities, especially as a cycle ends and a
new one begins. As creators of our own destiny, we
can make choices in our lives to let go of old aspects
of ourselves that don’t serve who or what we want to
become in our lives – like a cycle we choose to leave
behind. We may find ourselves in situations that are
similar to ones we have been in before – maybe many
years before – maybe it’s a pattern we have noticed
throughout our lives – but with knowledge and aware-
ness we can choose how we react and behave in
that situation in order to move forwards in our lives in
the most productive way.
Many people are fearful of change because change
represents the end of something that we might have
become comfortable or felt safe with. We sometimes
even face resistance from others (friends, family,
colleagues) as we go through a process of change
(change for us can impact them too). Our ideas, and
even our sanity, can be questioned. And if we’re not
committed to our change we might resonate with
their doubts, not making the changes we want, and
find ourselves repeating the same patterns of the past.
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So as we prepare to change, it can be useful to
expect resistance, we can mentally equip ourselves
with empathy for the concerns of others and also
develop the determination to strive forwards.
Are you ready to let go of some aspects ofyour life to begin the next exciting phase ofyour journey?
A choice point is that window of opportunity where
you can make a choice between repeating the same
kind of thinking and behaviors of the past, or to think
and be something different, something bigger and
better than you’ve been before. A choice point is a
window of opportunity where you have the chance
to align yourself with harmonious patterns in the world,
those that serve your needs and the needs and desires
of humanity.
We can choose a new future, a new destiny so to
speak, a new path whose destiny-ation was not
available to us before.
How do you then align yourself withpatterns that are good for you so you canmake better choices for your future?
PRINCIPLE 1Understand Your World
‘’There’s patterns and seasons in nature, there’s patterns of thelunar cycles that affect people, different possibilities, that aremore lined-up. And as we understand these patterns, and
co-operate with these patterns, then it’s like you get to dancethrough life, rather than to be dragged through life.’’
Jack Canfield – Choice Point Movie
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Everything that we interact with can be thought of in
terms of information processing. We process informa-
tion that comes from our environment via our senses
and then use that information to make our decisions.
The ability to see the world for what it truly is, what the
spiritual traditions have described as ‘enlightenment’
– that is the ability to form a cohesive and accurate
picture of the world while having a deeper insight into
the meaning and purpose of all things.
Of course, that concept is relative to a situation - if you
took an Indian sage and placed him in a New York
business meeting - would he have a cohesive and
accurate picture of his environment? Unlikely.
Enlightenment, at most, is relative and temporary to
the situation, and often those that claim to be
‘enlightened’ are deluded at best.
In order to have a more cohesive and accurate
picture of reality from which to base our decisions, we
need to seek out knowledge, become interested in
our world and really think about the information
available to us – in other words we need to become
wise. True wisdom can only come from ‘Understanding
Our World’. Without seeking wisdom, it is very difficult
to improve and grow in your life.
It is often taught in self-help circles that if you can
identify and change limiting belief systems, you can
pretty much transform your life without doing much
else.
However, although working on your belief systems is
part of the process, it is not the whole picture.
Changing a limiting belief is one thing, but in order to
see true and lasting change in your life you also need
to gain knowledge of your environment and the other
factors in your life, which may be having an influence
on your situation.
You need to be able to understand the cyclical nature
of life events and be ready to use that knowledge to
match up to situations that are in harmony with your
environment. The Universe is structured and ordered
according to natural laws – and we can see these
structures and patterns reflected in nature and world
events. When we gain a deeper knowledge of the
underlying patterns in life we can start to make the
choices that the Universe supports and so we live more
harmoniously. Making decisions based on the patterns
present in nature and the Universe will cause your
belief systems to naturally shift as you put your new
knowledge to test in the real world. That's the basis of
learning - you apply new knowledge to a situation,
and if the unexpected happens, you re-evaluate your
worldview to work out a more accurate picture for the
future. The process of gaining new knowledge and
testing it out is a lifelong process of learning,
understanding, and adapting.
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Let us explore just a few of the ways theChoice Point membership helps us to
understand our world:
Become the ‘Enquirer’
‘’Things can look disordered, they can look random,
but there should be a hidden order to them. And if
we want to understand them our job is to find
that hidden order’’
Ian Stewart – Choice Point movie
Enquiry encourages us to look at the world and to look
at ourselves. When we look outward, we observe the
repetitive cycles of nature, we can notice that the
same pattern repeats itself on both larger and smaller
scales. But since we are part of nature it is no surprise
that we can see many of nature’s patterns also inside
our own bodies: the cyclical beat of the heart
compares with the cyclical rotation of the Earth, which
is responsible for the cycle of night and day; the spiral
nature of DNA is comparable with the spiral motion of
galaxies and even the spiral movements of water
currents; blood vessels resemble river deltas; and
neural networks in the brain resemble super clusters of
galaxies in the cosmos.
But as well as finding repeating patterns inside our
bodies, we also find that many of our life experiences
follow patterns. This is because we are subject to
nature’s cyclical influence. To take one example,
body chemistry is affected by the cycle of night and
day, which is a consequence of the Earth’s rotation.
This gives us periodic changes in the hormone
melatonin, for instance, which regulates our sleep.
And so as nature runs its patterns, we can expect
similar kinds of patterns in our lives. This is a factor, on
both a personal and a global scale, in why events
repeat themselves.
“The beauty of understanding patterns is that it gives
us a base to make our choices from”
Harry Massey Choice Point movie
So through being an enquirer we can learn to
appreciate how the outside world is linked to our inner
world. In even more fundamental ways, the entire
universe is interconnected. We are in constant
interaction with the world. Every choice we make
therefore has consequences. This is the law of cause
and effect.
Enquiry also shines a light on the contents of our minds.
It has been said that one of the wisest things a person
can ever do is to, ‘Know Thyself’. Through inquiry, we
can become more aware of how we feel about cer-
tain things, how we behave in certain situations, and
even why we think the way we do.
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We might also enquire into why we think, feel, believe,
and act the way we do. We can learn more about our
skills, our inner motivations, our loves and fears, and
even our deepest hopes and dreams. Honest inquiry
requires an openness with ourselves but we can be
motivated by knowing that it will helps us to make our
lives more fulfilling. It’s through Inquiry that we can
work out what part of our environment we should be
focusing on and trying to understand in order to take
advantage of patterns that could support us best.
When you are open to learning about the world
around you, you put yourself in the best position to use
the Choice Point tools of ‘Understanding Your World’,
such as conducting research, asking questions,
embracing endings, reading the signs and developing
intuition.
Asking questions can unlock the world for us. Asking
questions – through research and of others - helps us
to get the answers we need in our lives.
In our changing world, researching and asking
questions helps us to gain a wider perspective of the
world, helping us to spot trends that we might not
have been aware of. It can help us to identify the
direction of currents of change in the world, giving us
the opportunity to paddle with the currents rather than
against them, staying ahead of change instead of
reacting to it. We also learn that rather than trying to
create everything we want, that some currents of
change and growth in the world are more favored
than others – more supported by nature - so
researching and asking questions helps us to select
those that are the most supported.
There is skill to be learned in asking the right questions.
In time, we become an expert on knowing which
questions to ask and therefore the information we gain
becomes even more impactful.
Ask Questions
We might ask questions through researching in books,
media, or the Internet, and we can also ask questions
of other people. A natural side-effect of the latter is
that it can help us connect with each other, which is
healthy in and of itself. Scientific research, for instance,
shows that we are genetically wired to connect with
each other. It is natural for us. Some research now
even shows that it helps us to live longer.
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And with these connections we forge, we become
parts of social networks through which information
flows, thereby opening up a broader avenue to
receive further answers to our questions. It’s like we
become part of an electrically conducting circuit
where information passes along the wires.
There is no shame in asking questions of people. Some
people see this as a form of failure, that they can’t find
the answers by themselves. But asking questions is a
wise and intelligent act. With all the benefits of
researching and asking questions, it would be wise to
put aside any pride.
Not only is there a skill in asking the right questions, but
there is also a skill to be learned in listening to the
answers we receive. We need to be open and
receptive to answers, without bias. And, of course we
needn’t accept everything that we learn. We can also
learn to separate fact from opinion.
Intuition
‘The only real valuable thing is intuition.’
-Einstein
Intuition is natural to us. It draws upon many of the
cues around us that are out of our conscious aware-
ness or focus.
We draw upon information from our environment, from
people around us, from their behavior patterns, from
articles we’ve read or things we’ve seen on TV, and
even from things we’ve learned in the past.
Even though information might be out of your present
conscious awareness, your mind draws upon it when
you are looking for an answer or when you are
focused upon a goal. The result is a feeling – an
intuition. It can be a source of positive information
about life, guiding us to possible choices we can
make.
And just as anything improves with practice, so in time
intuition becomes a reliable source of guidance in life.
It can even help us see patterns where none seem to
exist.
Intuition can also help us achieve our goals by
keeping us on the right path. If we have a strong sense
of purpose and are pursuing a goal, then we will
frequently absorb information in relation to it through
reading, watching TV, and conversations with other
people. Much of this information is forgotten, or at
least not at the surface of our minds, but our intuition
draws upon it and we get a feeling regarding which
action to take or which path to pursue. So intuition can
help us along our path to make the decisions that are
best for us.
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Not all feelings are intuitions though. Some feelings are
based on fears or false beliefs. So we also need to be
discerning. We need to learn the difference between
intuition and wishful thinking, or even intuition and fear,
for instance.
It can take confidence to trust intuition but by
understanding that it is natural and is the brain making
sense of the information around us. When we focus on
the answers we seek, we can learn to be more
confident with our gut feeling.
PRINCIPLE 2Align Your Purpose
‘’There comes a point where our purpose and our alignment with our purpose becomes vividly clear
and it’s that point of taking that deep breathe and saying, thisjust feels absolutely right.’’
Jodi Orton
Choice Point Movie
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Let’s explore some of the ways the Choice Point membership helps us to
align to our true purpose:
Define Your Purpose
Once you’ve understood the patterns in your world,
and how you create your life through the patterns that
you align with, you’ll want to engage with your new
understanding. This is the time to define your purpose.
In ‘Understanding Your World’ you will be guided to
research your world based on your passions, interests
and skills. Once you’ve understood your world and
know where patterns are going, you can begin to
more clearly define your purpose so that when you
take action it will be aligned with the patterns that are
most likely to happen.
It would make sense, for instance, if you chose to
apply your passions in a direction that supported the
needs and desires of the world or parts of it – a
harmonious purpose – since these needs and desires
will form the patterns in the future. Define your purpose
is about clearly setting a direction for your life –
applying your skills towards a goal.
Wisdom
‘Wisdom is not a product of schooling but of the life-
long attempt to acquire it’
Einstein
You will gain wisdom as you continue to understand
your world and as you reflect on and learn from your
experiences of aligning your purpose.
This will enable you to make even better choices in the
future as you grow to have a greater perspective on
the world and how you can create your reality.
Wisdom is gained through experience so just following
one path and neglecting others doesn’t result in
Wisdom. It’s a continual process of researching, taking
action, and reflecting on what happened before
refining your new path of action. It’s a continual,
life-long, process. When we choose paths that
challenge us and really engage with passion, we gain
the experiences to discern in the future, as it creates
know “ledge” from which we may sit and make better
decisions for the future.
Wisdom is also in knowing how to communicate
effectively with people.
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Wisdom helps us to see that having enemies is futile
and that we should always seek the solutions that
serve everyone. Wisdom recognizes that you gain
most when everyone gains and that self-serving only
ever produces short term results. Wisdom broadens our
vision and understanding.
How can I live my life in order to see my inner dreams
come true and my outer world be more congruent
with my desires?
PRINCIPLE 3Be The Change
‘’I change the world I see by first changing it in me’’ Alison Pothier – Choice Point Movie
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Once you have a definition of your purpose, which is
in harmony with the greater patterns of the universe,
you are able to move on to Being The Change.
We may know where we want to get to (defined our
purpose) - yet we don't end up getting there, simply
because of our strong attachments to things and
people that keep us where we are in the present. A
key part to making your purpose or desire happen
(Aligning Your Purpose) is the ability to un-attach from
past memories or present circumstances that are
holding you back in life.
The Universe is in a state of flux, change is inevitable. If
we are too attached to our current situation, we lose
the ability to be flexible and align to our optimal future.
So that future is never delivered. Instead old patterns
get repeated as we become unable to adapt fast
enough to the start of a new, more productive cycle.
The concept of non-attachment is common to
Hinduism, Buddhism and Jainism. The art of non-at-
tachment is about recognizing that all things change
and nothing is truly ‘ours’. It encourages an awareness
of thoughts and belief systems regarding the people
and possessions in your life. However, becoming
unattached is not about being unattached in all
circumstances.
To have passion and commitment and faith is in itself
an attachment and necessary if we want to see our
goals manifested. When you desire to move towards
a better future, you must to let go and ‘unattach’ from
whatever is in your present circumstances that
prevents you from getting there. The Universe is ruthless
in that - it can't deliver the new future until you have
let go of the present and that can mean being the
change-maker yourself. It’s about taking charge of
your own destiny and sorting through which
relationships and circumstances work for you and
which ones you need to let go of.
Just as you have to clear your mind in order to allow
images of your best future to appear, you also have to
clean up your life to allow those possibilities to
manifest. It can be incredibly hard to let go of
something or someone in your life that you have
become attached to, however it is often very
necessary for you to move on with your life journey.
One of the biggest problems of letting go is the fear of
not knowing what will come next and whether
change will lead to an improvement. It is incredibly
brave to let go of something that is working a bit, to
allow in something that may work even better. Yet
when you do let the part go that you feel has been
holding you back, something new will take its place.
For example new people may come into your life who
demonstrate all the positive aspects of your previous
relationship –
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but without the limiting elements that were present
before. If you do the work and stay aligned to your
true purpose – you can trust that when you let go of a
limiting situation – another situation will present itself
that is a better match for your life at that particular
time.
Being The Change means that you try to match every
action and thought to the way you want to live your
life. The way we act on a daily basis is the most obvious
way to tell if you are truly Being the Change. However,
as actions stem from thought, it is important to be very
vigilant of your thought processes. We cannot always
control our emotions, and we must recognize that it is
not possible to always have positive thoughts about
where you want to go. However, we can try to base
our actions on our positive thoughts as much as
possible.
‘’Happiness is not
something ready-made.
It comes from your own
actions.’’
- HH Dalai Lama
There are many ways to live your truth – you can be
the change you want to see in your own life and in the
world at large. Choice Point membership guides you
through the many ways you can truly match up to
your purpose and become a shining light for others to
follow. We can look at a couple of these concepts
here:
Courage
“Every time I do the thing I’m afraid of then the thing
I’m afraid of isn’t that scary anymore because I
survived.”
Jack Canfield, Choice Point movie
Being the change will require some courage. It
requires courage to be something different from how
we’ve been before, or it might require courage to
make deep changes in our lives. For some, this might
even involve moving to a new place, taking a new job
or moving on from relationships that are not helping us
to grow.
Fear can be a barometer of change. It can tell us that
there is something exciting up ahead, where we are
going to be stretched out of our comfort zones and
have to apply courage. This, then, helps us to step into
whom, or what, we know we need to be to bring
about a change.
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Looking within will help you to identify and overcome
some of our fears. Courage invites us to step forward
and fully ‘Be The Change’. It helps us to maintain focus
on where we want to go in our lives, even amid the
storms that sometimes surround us. With courage, we
become unstoppable, unfazed by any obstacles that
appear in our path. It helps us to look for solutions
instead of fearing the obstacles.
It sees obstacles as opportunities, in fact. It invites us to
look at the things that we’re afraid of as opportunities
to change our life. Courage, in this sense, can be a
barometer of forthcoming change.
Courage can also be about conquering the inner
voice of self-doubt, that nagging critic that holds us
back in life. It helps us to not be restrained by
fear-based emotion that paralyses us and keeps us
from acting on opportunities in life.
Courage listens to the inner voice, even when it is
fearful, accepting what it has to say, but then takes
the leap of faith anyway.
“In order to truly transform, from the depths of drug
addiction and a life of crime,
I had to look deep within myself and face my own
darkness. And I had to love myself for what I was,
and this helped me to turn that darkness into light.”
Brett Moran – Choice Point movie
Brett Moran, Choice Point Visionary
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Philanthropy
“Success unshared is failure”
John Paul DeJoria, Choice Point movie
As you become more involved with the Choice Point
Movement and become more aware of yourself, your
patterns, and as you align your purpose with
harmonious patterns that serve the needs and wishes
of others, your personal wealth and influence will very
likely increase.
What is success if it merely serves your own needs and
desires? We live in an interconnected world.
Independence is an illusion. Interdependence is the
way of life. Each choice that we make affects much
more than we can imagine.
With wealth and influence comes the opportunity to
use our resources to make a difference in the lives of
other people. If a great many people make this
choice we could transform the world for the better
much faster. Sir Richard Branson tells us that the people
who can help solve many of the problems in the world
are not those in government, but those in business,
who turn their entrepreneurial skills towards finding
solutions to these problems.
When you reach a point in our life where you have
achieved many things, or when you feel fulfilled or
your finances improve, your outlook often changes. It
is deeply satisfying to then give something back to
society, and this brings a great sense of wellbeing.
Some believe that the need to give comes from a
selfish perspective, but kindness and compassion are
genetically wired in us. A mother cares for her young
because it is ‘in her’. You will always benefit from
showing kindness, but that needn’t be the reason for
showing it.
Kindness, philanthropy, looking out for the best for all
of us, is our natural state. Aligning with that pattern can
be one of the most empowering things we ever do.
Even when we don’t have large resources to use, all
of us can do philanthropic work. Volunteering a few
hours a week of your time, for instance, is a
philanthropic act and makes more of a difference
than you can imagine.
With each altruistic act we do, in our interconnected
world, we make a tremendous difference, not only as
a direct consequence our actions, but because of the
inevitable ripple effect created, which strengthens the
pattern of positive change in the world. Kindness is
contagious.
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Together, with kindness and compassion for
all, you really can – and will – change the
world.
“I think small gestures are critical. Philanthropy
means the love of people. It does not mean you
have a big foundation and are giving a bunch of
money.
So philanthropy can work every single day. When I
go to my local coffee store nearby I acknowledge
the person behind the counter, I ask them how their
day is or just recognize them as a human being”
Peter Buffett – Choice Point movie
Peter Buffett, Choice Point Visionary
Choice Points for Personal Transformationand Worldwide Change
Today, we’re facing a global choice point – and the
choices we make now have a far greater impact on
the world than ever before. We can choose a different
path to realise a different future.
Each of us holds a piece of the puzzle – and in order
to create the change we want to see in the world, we
need to contribute our unique puzzle piece to the
overall global picture. Through our individual
contributions, we can create the change together.
And collectively, we can create the world in which we
all want to live.
Whether you can see it now or not, you are a radiant,
powerful being... and you possess untold gifts, as well
as the courage it requires to give them.
The world needs you. Your community needs you.
Humanity needs you. You need You.
If you’re reading this message, it’s because you’re
ready to make a different kind of choice than perhaps
you’ve made in the past. You’re ready to align with a
different way of being: the way of the true visionaries,
leaders and transformational masters.
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Welcome to Limitless Possibilities
What would it mean for your life right this minute if you
could...
● Accurately predict ideal conditions for your
business, idea or financial goals to succeed...
even if you’ve missed the boat or
miscalculated in the past.
● Maintain confidence, calm and clarity for
important decisions... even when you’re in the
chaos of crisis or a whirlwind of emotions.
● Genuinely identify your core purpose and
understand how to begin living it
immediately... regardless whether you now
know what your purpose is or think you know!
● Experience a renewed vitality and zest for life
because you’re doing what you love on a
daily basis... even if right now you don’t know
what that love or passion is.
● Serendipitously create new income, resources
and opportunities at the snap of your fingers...
without sacrificing your heart’s yearnings and
passions.
● Dramatically alter the course of your life, like
jumping from one track to another and
boarding a supersonic bullet train to the life of
your desires?
● Spark change and inspire others so that the
ripples you create can affect greater and
greater amounts of people... whether you
consider yourself a leader right now or not.
● Join the ranks of visionary greats like Sir
Richard Branson, Jack Canfield, Archbishop
Desmond Tutu, Barbara Marx Hubbard, and so
many others... who have all chosen to impart
their wisdom now to YOU.
As a term borrowed from physics, a Choice Point is
defined as a place of branching or forking. It is a point
of possibility. We can also think of it as a fork in a road
that creates another road.
The idea behind Choice Point is that we can choose
which of those roads to travel down with informed
intention, rather than random luck.
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The key is to choose another road, one that can lead
you into a new and different life... and into a better
world – a world of peace, of fairness, of education, of
harmony. And to do so at the greatest Choice Point
moments-of-opportunity.
This requires a specific set of skills and knowledge that
myself and our entire family of Visionaries and the
Choice Point team will teach you in our 18-Step Align
Your Purpose Program.
These 18 steps move you through two key phases of
alignment and transformation that nearly everyone
misses – and yet all the visionaries figured out...
What if we joined together – you, me, each visionary
and global leader, along with thousands and
hundreds of thousand of others – to tap into one
particular world pattern that is just now about to
emerge?
YOU Can Join the “Align Your Purpose” Program
~ and Align With The Single Emerging World Pattern
That Richard Branson, The Dalai Lama, and
Billionaires, Leaders and Visionaries Everywhere
Have Already Identified and Joined!
That pattern is being birthed out of the new cycle and
World Age that we are entering as a planet. This
pattern allows for social transformation, awakening
and global healing at rapid paces and immense
degrees never before possible.
This cycle and its patterns favor collaboration,
community and the power of social networks. Where
in the past, one had to struggle alone toward personal
transformation, enlightenment or success, now we
can socially collaborate to both achieve our own
personal goals and also to achieve worldwide
change.
And so imagine what you could accomplish now
when you join the new generation of aspiring
visionaries, leaders and entrepreneurs and learn to
harness the same wisdom, knowledge and
opportunities that the generations before us did. And
imagine learning this wisdom direct from the giants of
industry, success, spirituality and world transformation...
And most importantly, imagine the life you could
create for yourself and others when you stand hand-
in-hand with these visionaries and the thousands and
tens of thousands of other evolving visionaries who are
also joining this pivotal movement...
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It can all begin today with a simplechoice that creates a BIG difference.
Here’s what you receive when you join us:
9-Webinar Training Course
We’ll immerse you in the previously-recorded LIVE
Webinar Course. In each session you’ll join us and a
few visionaries for focused teachings on each of the
18 Steps for Understanding Your World and then
Aligning Your Purpose.
These teachings give you the nuts and bolts
understandings, practices and wisdom needed to not
only make the most of your opportunities within our
transformative community... but also to flip the switch
on your own life’s manifestations as you learn how to
harness choice points and direct your path toward
your desired future.
18 Spiritual Nourishment Films
When you’re ready to give your gifts to the world, as
well as create powerful change in your own life, often
the primary missing link lies in the ways you need to
nourish, fill and heal yourself.
With these 18 powerful High Definition films – each
beautifully crafted and featuring the same visionaries
featured in our documentary film Choice Point: Align
Your Purpose – you receive inspiration, wisdom and
deep spiritual nourishment. Released weekly, each
film focuses on each of the 18 steps of the Align Your
Purpose Program.
18 Step-By-Step Companion Lessons
Because much of what we’re helping you activate
and step into at Choice Point is transformative, we
support you to shift from the inside rather than just
overloading your brain with intellectual concepts and
teachings.
However, that being said, we also know that it helps
the transformative process to give your brain
something to chew on. So for each of the 18 Steps that
you’ll be moving through in our Live Webinar Course
and Spiritual Nourishment Films...
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We’ve also created more concise step-by-step
companion lessons for easy review and
understanding. These will also be released weekly, as
companion lessons to our Spiritual Nourishment films.
All of this is a part of the Align Your Purpose Program
you’ll receive when you join us. Yet, we haven’t even
gotten to the TRULY magnificent stuff yet!
When you join us, you also gain 6months of FREE access to our one-of-a-kind evolutionary community...
The Choice Point Community & Socially Interactive Transformation Game!
The backbone of our community and what makes it
truly unique is that your social interaction and learning
journey become steps along our interactive
Transformation Game.
Because we see every person’s journey through life as
a unique and powerful representation of the
archetypal Hero’s Journey, this Transformative Game
(created around the 18 Step-By-Step Lessons) help you
evolve along your own Hero’s Path, and activate or
awaken archetypal parts of yourself and the unique
powers those parts of you hold.
Additionally, from the moment you join us, your every
social action – whether it’s sharing ideas with other
visionaries in our Idea Bank... collaborating or
providing comments on anothers’ ideas... completing
the 18 Steps through watching our Spiritual
Nourishment Films or completing their companion
lessons – earns you Love Points.
No longer must we keep our inner work private. If you
so choose, you can live your transformation out loud
in our community, with full support and the benefit of
many minds and hearts versus only one.
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Your personal Love Points are your currency in this new
world that we are birthing together, and at this crucial
Choice Point we face globally. Rather than use them
to purchase something or earn rewards, we’ve
created this points system to demonstrate the LOVE
we give and receive as collaborators toward our
personal and shared transformation.
The entire value of our Align Your Purpose Program
and 6 months’ access to our Choice Point
Transformative Community is well over $900.
And that’s not even considering the tens of thousands
of dollars one would actually need to invest to receive
the same level of training, insight and wisdom from just
one or two of the world-renowned leaders and
billionaires we feature in our program and community.
However we’re not interested in selling you
transformation. Rather, we want to support you in
accessing the very best transformative content
available – not just in information, but in actual
connection and the birth of new ideas, new conscious
businesses, and new innovations... the precise
businesses and innovations we know it will take to save
our planet and heal our people.
Before you decide, you may want to hear directly
from the founder of Choice Point himself, Harry
Massey, his co-author of Choice Point: Align Your
Purpose, David R. Hamilton, PH.D., and other world
leaders and visionaries like Barbara Marx Hubbard, Sir
Richard Branson, JP Dejoria and more. This free
webinar contains the wisdom to teach us how to
Create Personal & Global Transformation and it is
available to you to support you in this Choice Point
moment.
www.choicepointmovement.com/webinar
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The groundbreaking Align Your Purpose Program and
community is available to you right now. The one-time
fee includes:
● Unlimited lifetime access to the entire digital
library of the Align Your Purpose Program,
including our 9-Webinar Course, 18 Spiritual
Nourishment Films and 18 Step-By-Step
Companion Lessons, all teaching you how to
understand your world, discover your purpose,
and align it for maximum transformation and
limitless success.
● 6 month’s membership in our Choice Point
Community (normally $27/month) where you
can collaborate with other visionaries, provide
and receive support, and explore the power
of a new currency based on ideas and LOVE.
When you register, you’ll also receive some fun bonus
gifts, as tokens of our genuine gratitude for you and
these steps you’re making toward this new future
together.
What Will You Find At the Other EndOf Your Choice Point?
As always, you now sit within a moment of immense
power for change and purpose. You are now at a
Choice Point. And you are the sole decision-maker.
However your Choice Point coincides with a Choice
Point so many of us are facing, and also the global
Choice Point we face as a tribe.
Because all of our visionaries and leaders showing up
right now to participate in our community... we are all
here to change the world. We can only do that
together. And we’d like to do it together with you.
Understand your world. Align your purpose. Be the
change. See you on the inside of the Choice Point
Movement.
For full details on the Align Your Purpose Program, visit:
ChoicePointMovement.com/AlignYourPurpose
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Choice Point:
Align Your Purpose
by Harry Massey,
David R. Hamilton, PH.D.
At this moment in history, we're faced with one of the
biggest choice points we have ever encountered.
Individuals are making choices to change their
nations; nature is giving us a wake-up call; economies
are struggling; and for many of us, the future looks
uncertain. Yet people are also rallying to have a voice,
awakening from their apathy of previous decades.
Collectively and individually, we are being given the
opportunity to make evolutionary choices that
positively impact and dramatically shift our direction.
Based on the extraordinary film Choice Point, which
features insights from the world's leading change-mak-
ers including Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Sir Richard
Branson, Arielle Ford, Tony Benn, James Caan, Gregg
Braden, Dr. Larry Dossey, and His Holiness the Gyalwa
Karmapa, this inspiring book reveals exclusive material
not seen in the film, and explores its exciting
discoveries in greater depth. It shows you how to
understand your world like never before, how to align
your own true purpose with the patterns of the
universe, and finally, how to be the change that you
want to see in the world around you.
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Keep the conversation going! Want to help spread the
message of Choice Point around the world? Now you
can. We’ve made it easy to share with friends, family
and your community.
Hosting an event propels the Choice Point Movement
and because of the richness and depth of its content,
the movie benefits everyone involved:
• It’s FREE - There is no cost for hosting a
screening of Choice Point
• Free Marketing Resources - We’ll provide you
with templates to download for invitations and
posters that you can print or email to your
guests
• Revenue Opportunity - You can charge an
entrance fee, which can be used to cover the
costs of your event – such as room or
equipment hire
• Merchandise Offers - Your guests can purchase
merchandise and copies of the movie
post-event, of which you will receive a
commission
• Profit - Any profit is retained by you or given to
an organization of your choice.
If you are interested in hosting a screening of the
Choice Point movie, please go to:
ChoicePointMovement.com/HostaScreening
Together, we’re capable of creating positive change
– for ourselves and the whole of humanity - on a scale
that’s never been witnessed before at any time in our
history. Play your part by getting active at:
www.choicepointmovement.com
Thank you and see you soon ☺
Harry Massey
Discover Choice Point Understand Your World
Be The Change Align Your Purpose
PotentialWatch the Choice Point movie to see how others have discovered their Choice Point and how they have aligned their purpose with the world.
ShareShare your personal progression and gain support from others around the world. Add personal goals or ideas for change to our online social community.
ActionDiscover where your piece fits in
the jigsaw. Align your purpose, keep track of your transformation
via our unique online diary.
EducationFind out what type of
Choice Point jigsaw piece you are. Ask
questions, learn and discover via Choice
Point’s 36 Steps.
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To find out where your piece fits, join the movement atwww.choicepointmovement.com