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Take the “Sell” out of Selling: 4 Key Behaviors that Drive Business Development
Andrea P. Howe
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Take the “Sell” out of Selling: 4 Key Behaviors that Drive Business Development
Andrea P. Howe
Hello!
If you had to describe how you are in one word as we begin this webinar, avoiding “good,” “fine,” or “OK” in favor of being more descriptive, what one word would you choose?
Enter your reply in the text chat box now.
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It was a dark and stormy morning …
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What’s a memorable “sales failure” of yours?
A. You too tried a “technique” that didn’t go over well
B. You overcorrected by being too tentative
C. You overcorrected by being too aggressive
D. Other
E. You’ve never ever had a “sales failure”
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We’ve all got hurdles to overcome
• Our pasts
• Our roles
• Widely-held stereotypes
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The definition of “sell” isn’t pretty
Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sell
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The hurdles have consequences
• Distraction
• Stress
• Missed opportunities
• Lost deals
• Lost relationships
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There’s upside
• Selling = fun
• Relationships = rewarding
• Results = extraordinary
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Today we’ll answer this question:
How can you apply 4 simple behaviors that you already know to get re-tooled and re-charged on the subject of developing business?
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Olympic athletes know the value of mental prep
“Although mentally strong athletes do not always win medals due to a variety of conditions, athletes with a weak ‘mental game’ virtually never win at the biggest competitions.”
From the U.S. Olympic Committee’s Top Ten Guiding Principles for Mental Training, as reported in Foundations of Sport and Exercise Psychology With Web Study Guide-5th Edition by Robert Weinberg and Daniel Gould
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So we’ll look at “selling” from 3 perspectives
Thoughts
Feelings Actions
1
2 3
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“Mastery” is more than “really good”
unconsciousincompetence
consciousincompetence
unconsciouscompetence
consciouscompetence
competence
consciousness
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By the way, here’s what’s in your goodie bag
www.bossanovaconsulting.com/raintoday
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What do you think about sales?
To objective of selling is to _________________.
Words that come to mind immediately when I think of selling are __________________________.
When it comes to selling, I wish _____________.
If only sales didn’t have to be _______________.
Fundamentally, selling requires _____________.
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Thoughts drive feelings which drive actions
Thoughts Feelings Actions
“Selling means convincing”
CorneredFocus on your solution (only)
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Trust-based selling is about helping
“The objective of trust-based selling is to help the buyer do the right thing—for the buyer. Period.”
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When we’re helping we feel and do things differently
Thoughts Feelings Actions
“Selling means helping”
Relaxed1. Focus on all the options
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Who’s familiar with the 1940’s classic movie, Miracle on
34th Street?
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How we define our value drives what we do
Thoughts Feelings Actions
“Selling means convincing”
CorneredFocus on your solution (only)
“My clients care most about my expertise”
Pressured Talk—a lot
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Professional services are a lot like perfume, fine wine, and ice cream
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Doing says more than talkingThoughts Feelings Actions
“Selling means helping”
Relaxed1. Focus on all the options
“My clients’ experience of me matters”
Motivated 2. Sell by doing
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Awkward thoughts produce awkward action
Thoughts Feelings Actions
“Selling means convincing”
CorneredFocus on your solution (only)
“My clients care most about my expertise”
Pressured Talk—a lot
“I wish I didn’t have to [sell]”
UncomfortablePretend it’s not awkward
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Have you ever used the Mozilla Firefox web browser and
experienced a “crash”?
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Caveats are conversational jewels
Thoughts Feelings Actions
“Selling means helping”
Relaxed1. Focus on all the options
“My clients’ experience of me matters”
Motivated 2. Sell by doing
“If it seems awkward, I can say so”
Liberated 3. Use caveats
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Caveats are customizable
“At the risk of coming across as ‘salesy’ …”
“This seems a bit awkward …”
“I may be overstepping my bounds here …”
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How we think about trust alters our behavior, too
Thoughts Feelings Actions
“Selling means convincing”
CorneredFocus on your solution (only)
“My clients care most about my expertise”
Pressured Talk—a lot
“I wish I didn’t have to [sell]”
UncomfortablePretend it’s not awkward
“Trust takes time to build”
Resigned Wait too long
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High degrees of trust can be established very quickly
T trustworthinessC credibilityR reliabilityI intimacyS self-orientation
C + R + I
S
T =
Source: The Trusted Advisor by Maister, Green, and Galford, The Free Press, 2000
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Caveats are a “trust trifecta”
T trustworthinessC credibilityR reliabilityI intimacyS self-orientation
C + R + I
S
T =
Source: The Trusted Advisor by Maister, Green, and Galford, The Free Press, 2000
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Trust is positively correlated to risk
Thoughts Feelings Actions
“Selling means helping”
Relaxed1. Focus on all the options
“My clients’ experience of me matters”
Motivated 2. Sell by doing
“If it’s awkward, I can say so”
Liberated 3. Use caveats
“Risk-taking builds trust”
Empowered 4. Ask permission
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Asking permission sounds like helping
“Aria, we’re going to be working together closely for four months. We
are totally committed to achieving the results we’ve defined in our project plan. Along the way, we might see
opportunities to improve your business that fall outside the scope of our work. Would it be OK with you if
we bring those to your attention when we see them?”
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Now we’ve identified 4 behaviors that take the “sell” out of selling
1. Focus on all the options
2. Sell by doing
3. Use caveats
4. Ask permission
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Which one captures your interest and attention the most?
A. Focus on all the options
B. Sell by doing
C. Use caveats
D. Ask permission
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There is more than one way to drive right actions
Thoughts Feelings Actions
“Selling means helping”
Relaxed1. Focus on all the options
“My clients’ experience of me matters”
Motivated 2. Sell by doing
“If it’s awkward, I can say so”
Liberated 3. Use caveats
“Risk-taking builds trust”
Empowered 4. Ask permission
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What’s on your mind?
Insights?
Points of view?
Questions?
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It takes practice to become natural
“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit”
—Aristotle
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There’s extra incentive to practice
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andrea@ bossanovaconsulting.com
www.bossanovaconsulting.com/raintoday
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There is one action you can take
What is it?
1-202-906-0485
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