Trainers:

• Najam-ud-din Maitlo

• Abida Sanjrani

• Shakeela Lashari

• Miskeen Maitlo

Ice Breaking Session

Take Personal Responsibility

Training Objectives

• To Help Trainees

• To Take Control Of Their Life And Destinies

• Them To Recall Their Strengths And Weaknesses In Past Success And Failure

• To Achieve Quick Wins

• How To Think Positively

Road Map Of Training• Abida Sanjrani• Introduction• Road Blocks And Defense Mechanism

• Najam-ud-din Maitlo• Ownership of responsibility

• Miskeen Maitlo Conquences of TPR

• Shakeela Lashari How To Change Your Life By Taking Personal Responsibility.

Story

• “Taking personal accountability is a beautiful thing because it gives us complete control of our destinies.” 

― Heather Schuck,

Responsibility

• It is taking conscious control of your responses to the events and circumstances in your life.

• A duty or task that you are required or expected to do

• Personal Responsibility means responding wisely to life’s opportunities and challenges, rather than waiting passively for luck or other people to make CHOICES for us.

Activity

• Each trainee must write at least one success or one failure event of life

•Write reasons/ who was/is responsible for it?

• Solution/ Remedies

• “If you own this story you get to write the ending.”

― Brené Brown

Roadblocks To Accepting Personal

Responsibility

Roadblocks To Accepting Personal Responsibility

• Roadblocks that you must learn to recognize.

• There are several defense mechanism to help protect your self-image.

BLAMING OTHERS

COMPLAINING

MAKING EXCUSES

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OWNERSHIP

Ownership is selfish although it is opposite to selfish.

Why to take ownership??

Take Ownership of Responsibility

Waiting on someone else to take initiative.

Taking initiative Video

DECISIONS TO MAKE Retain your personal power.

Live and work "on" purpose.

What needs to be improved and proved in society.

Use ‘windows of opportunity’ to your advantage.

On what you have the resources to take on.

DEVELOP ACTION Plan•We always talk about Change!

•Don’t play if only game.

•No pain No gain in the world.

What History Says??? • "The ability to accept responsibility is the measure of the

man." - Roy L. Smith

• "If you take responsibility for yourself you will develop a hunger to accomplish your dreams." -Les Brown

• “... no one can ever save someone else, you know? We can only save ourselves. You know that, don't you?” (Carrie Jones, Need)

Low self-efficacy

Criticism

Feeling inferior

Allows you to make better decisions

Keeps little problems from turning into big ones

Allows you to learn from your mistakes

Strengthens relationships.

Coachable

More powerful

Different

Followed Video

Refreshing Activity ACTIVITY

HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE BY TAKING PERSONAL RESPONSBILITY

TAKING RESPONSBILITY FOR BEING EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE

GIVES THE POWER WHERE YOU WANT TO BE.

- AUTHOR UNKNOWN

What actually responsibility means?

• Why is accepting responsibility difficult?

• What happens when we do not accept personal responsibility?

How to get rid of the habit of blaming others?

- Eliminate negative emotions.

- Take conscious control of your thoughts.

`1THE DAY YOU STOP BLAMING OTHERS IS THE DAY YU

YOU WILL NEVER BECOME WHO YOU WANT TO BE IF YOU KEEP BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE FOR WHO YOU ARE NOW

THE LAW OF CAUSALITY

• Given by SOCRATES

• How this law relates to your happiness?

• Acceptance of responsibility separates adult from child.

• There is a positive relationship between responsibility, control, power, freedom and happiness.

ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS

BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR RESULTS

TAKE OWNERSHIP OFYOUR MISTAKES

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