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    No one will

    manufacture a

    lock without a key.

    Similarly God won't

    give problems without

    solutions.

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    Life laughs atyou when you areunhappy...

    Life smiles at you whenyou are happy...Life salutes you whenyou make others happy...

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    Every successful person has a

    painful story.

    Every painful story has asuccessful ending.

    Accept the pain and get

    ready for success.

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    Easy is to judge the mistakes of others.Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes.

    It is easier to protect your feet with slippersthan to cover the earth with carpet.

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    No one can go back andchange a bad beginning;

    But anyone can start now and

    create a successful ending.

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    If a problem can be

    solved, no need toworry about it.

    If a problem cannot besolved what is the use ofworrying?

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    If you miss an

    opportunity

    don't fill theeyes with tears.

    It will hideanother better

    opportunity in

    front of you

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    "Changing the Face" can change nothing.

    But "Facing the Change" can change everything.

    Don't complain about others;

    Change yourself if you want peace.

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    Mistakes are painful when they happen.

    But year's later collection ofmistakes is called experience,which leads to success.

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    Be bold when you loose

    and be calm when you win.

    Heated gold becomes

    ornament. Beaten copperbecomes wires. Depleted

    stone becomes statue. So the

    more pain you get in life you

    become more valuable.uresh.sJust loveproblem

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    Transaction Analysisby

    S.Suresh

    A.Vijaya bharghavi

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    1. A theory of personality as well as a

    systematic

    psychotherapy for personal growth and

    personal change.

    2. Among psychological approaches, it is

    outstanding in the depth of its theory

    and the wide variety of its applications.

    3. It is finding wide application in

    organizations and education.

    What is Transactional Analysis ?

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    Transactional Basis

    IdPleasure Principle

    Ego- Realistic Principle(irrational)

    Super-Ego- Ethical Principle(mind)By Fred Luthans

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    Transactional Analysis wasFounded by Eric Berne.

    During the late 1950s.

    Transactional

    Analysis

    Clinical, organizational and

    personal development. Encompassing communications.

    Management, personality.

    Relationships and behavior.

    Applications:

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    Transactional Analysis iseffectively a language withina language;

    A language of true meaning,feeling and motive.

    TransactionalAnalysis

    To understand more clearlywhat is going on.

    Secondly, we give ourselves

    choices of what ego statesto adopt.

    Which signals to send, andwhere to send them.

    It helps us in3 ways:

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    EGO STATES

    Parent Ego Stage-

    Behaviors,thoughts and

    feelings copiedfrom parent orparent figures.

    Adult Ego Stage-

    Behaviors,thoughts and

    feelings whichare direct

    responses to thehere and now.

    Child Ego Stage-

    Behaviors,

    thoughts andfeelings replayed

    from childhood.

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    Typical Behaviors

    PARENT

    Advising

    Criticizing

    Ordering

    Telling

    Fault Finding

    Moralizing

    Scolding

    Nurturing

    Caring

    Loving

    ADULT

    Fact Finding

    Questioning

    Analyzing

    Problem Solving

    Helping

    Cooperating

    PlanningCoordinating

    Scheduling

    Thinking

    CHILDLaughing

    Crying

    Sulking

    Being Frightened

    Playing

    Enjoying

    Dancing

    Curiosity

    Obeying

    Dependent

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    "I'm OK -You're OK

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    Ego States Basic Needs Im Not OK,Youre Not

    OK

    Im OK,

    Youre not

    OK

    Im OK

    Youre OK

    Im Not

    OK,

    Youre OK

    Life Positions

    ADULT Rationality CynicalTask

    Obsessive

    Problem

    Solving

    PARENT

    Over-

    whelming

    Regulating Love,

    Care

    Power

    Traditional

    Over

    Indulgent

    Prescriptive

    Rescuing

    Normative

    Supportive

    Indifferent

    Ingratiating

    CHILD

    Adaptive

    Reactive

    Creative

    Nurturing

    Approval,

    Safety

    Aggression

    Creativity

    Sulking

    Withdrawn

    Humorous

    Complaining

    Aggressive

    Bohemian

    Resilient

    Confronting

    Innovative

    Dependent

    Intropunitive

    Satirical

    Ego States Basic Needs Im Not OK,Youre Not

    OK

    Im OK,

    Youre not

    OK

    Im OK

    Youre OK

    Im Not

    OK,

    Youre OK

    Life Positions

    ADULT Rationality CynicalTask

    Obsessive

    Problem

    Solving

    PARENT

    Over-

    whelming

    Regulating Love,

    Care

    Power

    Traditional

    Over

    Indulgent

    Prescriptive

    Rescuing

    Normative

    Supportive

    Indifferent

    Ingratiating

    CHILD

    Adaptive

    Reactive

    Creative

    Nurturing

    Approval,

    Safety

    Aggression

    Creativity

    Sulking

    Withdrawn

    Humorous

    Complaining

    Aggressive

    Bohemian

    Resilient

    Confronting

    Innovative

    Dependent

    Intropunitive

    Satirical

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    .Aim of Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy

    Aim of Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy

    1. To help a person to choose to be in a particular innerstate, instead of just allowing the current ego-state to

    dominate feelings, attitudes and behavior.

    2. Changing the Life Script

    3. Replacing organizational or societal scripting withcooperative non-violent behavior is the aim of other

    applications of Transactional Analysis.

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    .

    Transactions:

    Complementary

    Crossed

    Ulterior

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    Complementary

    transactions

    A complementary transactionoccurs when a message, sentfrom a specific ego state, getsthe predictedresponse from aspecific ego state in the otherperson.

    For example, if a wife who isgrieving her lost friend iscomforted by a sympathetichusband, her momentarydependency is answered

    appropriately.

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    .. Crossed Transactions

    A crossed transaction occurs when an unexpected responseis made to the stimulus. An inappropriate ego state isactivated, and the lines of communication between people

    are crossed.

    At this point people tend to withdraw, turn away from eachother or switch the conversation in another direction.

    For example,Agent's Adult: "Do you know where my cufflinks are?" (note that this stimuli is directed at theRespondents Adult).Respondent's Child: "You always blame me for

    everything!"

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    Crossed transactions are a frequent source of pain between people

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    Ulterior Transactions

    Ulterior transactions are the most complex. They differ

    from complementary and crossed transactions in that theyalways involve two or more ego states.

    Only one ego state controls the body; but another ego

    state is operating in the background.If a car salesman says to his customer, "This is our finest

    sports car...but maybe too racy for you,"he is sending a

    message that can be heard by either the customers adult or

    child ego state.

    If the customers Adult hears, the response may be... "yes,

    youre right, considering the requirements of my job."If

    the customers Child hears, the response may be "Ill take

    it. Its just what I want."

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    Thus ulterior transactions help us to get the

    desired response from the respondent.

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    The original three Parent Adult Child components were sub-divided by

    Wagner, Joines and Mountain to form seven element model.

    Original 3 parentaladult childcomponents

    Traditional

    Transactional

    Analysis

    Modified into 7elements.

    Modern

    Transactional

    Analysis

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    Modern TA established 2 parental elements:

    Nurturing Controlling

    * Nurturing (positive)

    * Spoiling (negative)

    * Structuring (positive)

    * Critical (negative)

    Parent

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    Adult

    Represents an'accounting'

    function or mode

    Adult remains as asingle entity

    Which can draw onThe resources of

    both Parent and

    Child.

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    Child

    Child is now commonly represented ascircle with four quadrants:

    Adapted- Co-operative (positive) andCompliant/Resistant (negative).

    Free - Spontaneous (positive) and Immature(negative).

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    CONCLUSION

    Transactionalanalysis is a rational

    and easy-to-

    understand method

    of clarifying andmanaging human

    relationships and

    behaviors.

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    Thank you