Small fraction of igor malenko emails in 2011

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Igor Malenko's Emails in 2011

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, August 15, 2011 8:13 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Missing Mila

My position is still the same- Mila needs a healthy mother that will not subject her to any unnecessary medical examination of her private parts each time she goes back to see her mother (YOU), a mother that would not have her tested unnecessary for drugs(FOR DRUGS!), a mother that would stop manufacturing horrendous and disgusting false accusation, a mother that would think how all of these sick games will affect her future (because it will all be there on the internet, all of the garbage you and your friends cooked up!), a mother that would STOP telling her to recite FALSE things that never happened and that could only be product of your mind, of someone that is willing to do anything to have me permanently removed from her life, by being accused of being a pedophile, drugging her, rapping her and all of the sick sick things you are so heavily invested in manufacturing! When you can be that mother, I will certainly love for Mila to have you in her life as much as possible.

But until then I will have to ask you to see her supervised-if you missed her that much and cared about her you would consider doing that. All the money and time you spent on all this garbage so far could have covered many many visits with Mila. It is obviously more important to pay Pickering for harassing people and manufacturing anything you could use to discredit me and destroy me then to see Mila.

We checked yesterday to see if there was email from you for Mila as you indicated - there was none. Today none. No phone calls ever, no responses to her calls ever. She sent you cards-no thank you Mila for the cards. You indicated "care" packages - we have received none so far and the only packages you sent before were few toys at school back in early spring. Child support-none for months now. Not even a question whether she has or lacks anything, clothing etc. In case you care-she does not. She would love to have a normal mother, one that would stop doing to her what you have been doing all this time. Try that.

If you will send an e-mail to her I will read it to Mila and write the response with her together. She will be able to do this alone soon-she is very proficient with the PC. We will send pictures again either today or tomorrow-as soon as we download them.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: Missing MilaDate: Sun, 14 Aug 2011 17:43:20 -0400

Igor, Thank you for the pictures. I too miss Mila very much; as I have told you many, many times.

Mila needs her mother. I would appreciate it very much if I could spend the time with her as ordered by Judge Moskowitz. Please let me know if you will permit this to happen.

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From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, August 13, 2011 11:53 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]:

I’ll send more later on today..I am having trouble resizing them right now.

Mila is doing well, she has grown up a lot. She eats well, lots of new healthy things. She swim a lot and she is out in the park, the beach and the playground every day. She has/meets lots of kids and enjoys playing with them. She is ready for school again. Although she still likes staying home with the dogs and having a chance to walk and play with them in the park and the beach more then school, she needs being among friends at school again. She is very much into dancing, she can catch rhythm very well and has some really cool moves. She loves the Circus Smircus and she would love to attend their summer camp. She still loves all animals and now plays an imaginary game where she lives in Australia and takes care various animals. She them comes here in Maine to visit and get more animals to take with her back in Australia. She strums the guitar regularly and soon she will be ready for real lessons. We are working on the biking skills, and hopefully by the end of the summer she will be able to bike without supporting wheels. She has developed good taste for choosing her clothing and likes matching them. Reading and writing are going very well and she loves science and nature programs a lot. She always busy as you know and enjoys learning everything.

She misses you and I am really hoping you can move in a another direction asap. It is really a shame that you rather do everything to convince people that I am a pedophile and a drug abuser, that I drug Mila and sexually abuse her, then bring her for all kinds of abusive unnecessary examinations to prove these not existing crazy things, then stop the nonsense and just be a mother to her that she needs. I am truly sad about this.


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Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, August 13, 2011 11:09 AMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Subject: RE:

I read the email to her and she asked me to write back for her –

Hi mama,

I read the email with papa-thank you! I miss you and I love you and I sent cards to Sorrento. Here are few pictures from me- Hope to see you soon! Love you!

Mila

Also, it really is up to you to make this easier once for all for Mila-YOU need to STOP spending all your time finding more people and resources to back up false accusation and create havoc in our lives, especially in Mila’s. It is due to your horrendous behavior that we are where we are now. You rather subject Mila to all kinds of terrible unnecessary examinations and ramp up the half of the country to achieve exactly what you have tried from the beginning- remove me from her life. Instead of just being her mom and accepting she needs both parents. I feel sad about the situation, very sad for Mila, but you have gone way too far with your abusive behavior towards her and I am not going to allow you to subject her to more of the unnecessary examinations of her private parts and tell her that I have done inappropriate things to her, while trying very hard to deport me or put me in jail for nothing-for loving my child and being her dad. Do you realize what you are doing to her? You create a horrible situation from nonexistent problems, things you decide to invent and sell to people as truth, things that will devastate her when she grows up and learns more about them. What are you thinking??Really? And how is all of this you are trying so hard to achieve more important that being with your child??? You like more to play a victim in your self-designed game of lies then simply be a mom to her. You spend all the money and time on creating lies and selling them to everyone that is willing to buy them, instead of being Mila’s mother? How sad is that and what would it take for you to stop?

I will protect Mila from the things you have repeatedly put her trough- only you can stop this, since you created it and are invested heavily in making it real. I want Mila to have a mom that is there for her all the time, just as I want her to have a father that is there all the time. I have always wanted this and never done anything to prevent you from being her mother. But, you don’t want the same and you want me out of her life and you will do anything for it-ANYTHING! It is really up to you to find a way to stop this, to stop emotionally and physically abusing Mila, because what you do to her is simply that! I have been asking you to move to a better direction for a very very long time now. Instead you spend all your time to destroy me and everyone else that is not buying your stories and put Mila through hell. It blows my mind that you rather not see Mila and play a victim than stop what you are doing-your game is more important to you than Mila. This shows over and over again that you will never understand what a child needs more then everything in the world.

I have absolutely no hope that you will ever stop doing what you are doing and start simply being a mother that Mila needs. I would love to be wrong about this.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, August 12, 2011 5:47 PMTo: 'igor malenko'Subject:

Igor,

I would keep asking if I can see Mila, I miss her terribly and I can’t imagine how difficult it must be for Mila to be without her mother for nearly 5 months, almost a half a year, a very long time in a 4 year’s life; however, I understand it is your position that you will not let me see Mila unsupervised until a court hearing with Judge Moskowitz.

I will start emailing Mila every morning to say hello. I hope you will read these emails to her. I will also start, again, sending cards and care packages as I was doing every day until the protection order, which was dismissed, was in place.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, August 01, 2011 12:39 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE:

My position on the visitation is still the same as before. Everything else will be addressed at the hearing on the 15th of August.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: Date: Mon, 1 Aug 2011 11:14:18 -0400

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Igor, I take this to indicate you are still refusing to allow Mila to be with me, per the court order.

If you could please answer the questions I have been asking for several months: Are still employed at IDEXX? The full name of your current live-in girlfriend?Who provides child care for Mila?Why Mila was taken out of pre-school?Did you enroll Mila in any summer camps or activities? Thank you. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, July 26, 2011 8:33 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation? Lori, We need to have a discussion about the elephant in the room -- you disparaging me to Mila, making false claims about me, coaching Mila to say false things into a recording device, and you bringing Mila in for unnecessary medical examinations and drug tests. These are the reasons that I have decided to prevent you from having unsupervised contact with Mila. This is physical and emotional abuse. You may feel great about how yesterday went for you, but Judge Moskowitz has not yet seen the evidence of the elephant in the room, which he will see at the next hearing. I don't want Mila separated from her mother. I want Mila and you to have a healthy relationship. But that cannot happen if everytime you are with her, you and the people around you are saying bad things about me, tormenting our lives with false abuse claims and dragging Mila in for unnecessary medical examinations and drug tests. You have never once discussed this issue with me. It is not going away just because we no longer have a PFH Order against you. If you refuse to have this discussion, then I will continue to offer you only supervised visits with Mila.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation?Date: Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:15:00 -0400

Igor, May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation? If so, what time and where.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, July 26, 2011 8:33 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation?

Lori, We need to have a discussion about the elephant in the room -- you disparaging me to Mila, making false claims about me, coaching Mila to say false things into a recording device, and you bringing Mila in for unnecessary medical examinations and drug tests. These are the reasons that I have decided to prevent you from having unsupervised contact with Mila. This is physical and emotional abuse. You may feel great about how yesterday went for you, but Judge Moskowitz has not yet seen the evidence of the elephant in the room, which he will see at the next hearing. I don't want Mila separated from her mother. I want Mila and you to have a healthy relationship. But that cannot happen if everytime you are with her, you and the people around you are saying bad things about me, tormenting our lives with false abuse claims and dragging Mila in for unnecessary medical examinations and drug tests. You have never once discussed this issue with me. It is not going away just because we no longer have a PFH Order against you. If you refuse to have this discussion, then I will continue to offer you only supervised visits with Mila.

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From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation?Date: Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:15:00 -0400

Igor, May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation? If so, what time and where.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 17, 2011 2:12 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: summer vacation schedule I will pick Mila up today around 4 at your home or Scratch BakeryImportance: High

Lori, Michael has spoken with Mark Dalton from DHHS (Rebecca Austin's boss) and he has learned that DHHS is unsubstantiating your latest, false claims about me, and that DHHS supports me using my decision-making authority to deny you any unsupervised visitation. Mr. Dalton called you but you have refused to speak with him or call him back. At our suggestion, he will be reaching out to you to offer visitation with Mila over the weekend, supervised by DHHS. It is very sad that Mila has not seen you or heard your voice or had any communication with you in over a month. I don't understand why you aren't making an effort to let her know you love her and are thinking about her. In any case, no one here supports you and your efforts to drag Mila away from me. No one. If you want to see her, then please call Mark Dalton back and arrange it. I am sure she would love to see you. I am also sure she is very happy for not having to go trough more of your abusive practices.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW: summer vacation schedule I will pick Mila up today around 4 at your home or Scratch BakeryDate: Fri, 17 Jun 2011 06:35:08 -0400

Igor, As you know Mila’s summer vacation time with me starting last Friday on 10 June. You have been refusing to abide by the schedule.

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“Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting 10 June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to stay with me again until Sunday July 24th.” This was a month’s notice, as I am required to do by the latest court order. I have 21 make-up days now from the time you have been withholding her which puts us at 2 August which is when I will return Mila to you. Mila and I plan to spend her summer vacation in Sorrento. I will pick Mila up today, around 4:00pm, at your house or at Scratch Bakery, as you prefer. Please indicate if you plan to allow this visit to occur. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 2:45 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: summer vacation schedule You are absolutely correct about your assumption that I would need you to follow the one month notification period concerning any vacations with Mila according the court order you are citing. That is when a vacation would be a possibility, meaning after the court here in Maine decides whether or not you would be allowed to spend any time with Mila unsupervised in the future. That same court order is the one you violated several times in the past weeks and that same order obligates you to pay child support you are refusing to pay for almost two months now. You seem to have your priorities wrong and seem to have funds to do many things and none of them includes paying child support that pays for Mila’s school. That same court order gave me the PR status based on your refusal and inability to co-parent and it also pointed out that I have the ultimate decision authority when we cannot agree on the important and essential issues concerning Mila and her well being. You don't seem to understand the consequences of your recent decisions. You have made false claims of abuse to DHHS. You have coached our daughter to say false, bad things about her papa. You have brought our child into the Maine Coast Memorial Hospital and other medical providers, repeatedly, in order to obtain unnecessary examinations and drug tests. You have extracted and frozen Mila's urine for future drug tests and apparently kept her excrements around for the same purpose. You have publicly accused me of being a methamphetamine user and drug addict.

You have take Mila across state lines and refused to return her, in violation of the Court Orders and state and federal law. You kept her on an undisclosed location, without allowing us to have any contact throughout all the time you kept Mila with you and violated the court

order that gives you 3 weekends per month (one in two months in DC if you live there!). You kept her without any approval from my side or prior knowledge since April the 22nd and returned her yesterday (drop her off at her school without any notice to me) after I contacted the FBI. You have refused to accept service of process and you have played a foolish game, probably with the assistance of Pickering and your ex-husband Patrick. I am not ever relinquishing our daughter to you again without a Court Order telling me to do so. I am the PR parent and I have ultimate decision making authority. I believe that every day Mila is with you, she is suffering emotional abuse as well as physical abuse, in that she is being prodded and probed and tested for conditions that do not exist. If you want to see Mila again, you will have to come to the Maine courts and explain yourself to Judge Moskowitz.

If you decide to stop at Mila’s school without any prior notice to me and try to remove Mila from her school on the days other than you are allowed to have her, I can ASSURE YOU that the police will be with you in a matter of minutes. Everyone that is aiding you in these attempts to take Mila away from her home and from me unlawfully, will be held accountable – that includes your ex-husband Patrick and your private investigator Pickering.

I am looking forward in seeing you in court, here in Maine. Also, looking forward in hearing you and your ex-husband Patrick explain the scheme thoroughly. I am glad I kept the records of his involvement in our life and this case from the beginning. I am sure you both still believe what you have told me long time ago that “justice is something for poor people”.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 1:04 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: summer vacation schedule

Igor, Per the order, I need to notify you of my two, two week periods with Mila during the summer. I am doing so now. Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting 10 June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to stay with me again until Sunday July 24th. If you agree, I would prefer to do the first two week period from Friday 20 May until Sunday 5 June but I assume that you will make me provide the court ordered one month notification period and will not allow this.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 17, 2011 8:11 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]: RE: summer vacation schedule I will pick Mila up today around 4 at your home or Scratch BakeryImportance: High

You are not welcome here and if you show up, the following will occur: -- the police will arrive and you will be served, finally, with the Motion to Modify and the Motion for Contempt, and you will then be removed from my property with a summons for criminal trespass.

No unsupervised visits will occur with Mila until the court addresses this issue-I have been very clear about this. You need to accept service and show up in court.

Stop e-mailing me directly and send anything further to my attorney - Michael Waxman.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW: summer vacation schedule I will pick Mila up today around 4 at your home or Scratch BakeryDate: Fri, 17 Jun 2011 06:35:08 -0400

Igor, As you know Mila’s summer vacation time with me starting last Friday on 10 June. You have been refusing to abide by the schedule. “Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting 10 June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to stay with me again until Sunday July 24th.” This was a month’s notice, as I am required to do by the latest court order. I have 21 make-up days now from the time you have been withholding her which puts us at 2 August which is when I will return Mila to you. Mila and I plan to spend her summer vacation in Sorrento. I will pick Mila up today, around 4:00pm, at your house or at Scratch Bakery, as you prefer. Please indicate if you plan to allow this visit to occur.

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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 2:45 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: summer vacation schedule You are absolutely correct about your assumption that I would need you to follow the one month notification period concerning any vacations with Mila according the court order you are citing. That is when a vacation would be a possibility, meaning after the court here in Maine decides whether or not you would be allowed to spend any time with Mila unsupervised in the future. That same court order is the one you violated several times in the past weeks and that same order obligates you to pay child support you are refusing to pay for almost two months now. You seem to have your priorities wrong and seem to have funds to do many things and none of them includes paying child support that pays for Mila’s school. That same court order gave me the PR status based on your refusal and inability to co-parent and it also pointed out that I have the ultimate decision authority when we cannot agree on the important and essential issues concerning Mila and her well being. You don't seem to understand the consequences of your recent decisions. You have made false claims of abuse to DHHS. You have coached our daughter to say false, bad things about her papa. You have brought our child into the Maine Coast Memorial Hospital and other medical providers, repeatedly, in order to obtain unnecessary examinations and drug tests. You have extracted and frozen Mila's urine for future drug tests and apparently kept her excrements around for the same purpose. You have publicly accused me of being a methamphetamine user and drug addict. You have take Mila across state lines and refused to return her, in violation of the Court Orders and state and federal law. You kept her on an undisclosed location, without allowing us to have any contact throughout all the time you kept Mila with you and violated the court

order that gives you 3 weekends per month (one in two months in DC if you live there!). You kept her without any approval from my side or prior knowledge since April the 22nd and returned her yesterday (drop her off at her school without any notice to me) after I contacted the FBI. You have refused to accept service of process and you have played a foolish game, probably with the assistance of Pickering and your ex-husband Patrick. I am not ever relinquishing our daughter to you again without a Court Order telling me to do so. I am the PR parent and I have ultimate decision making authority. I believe that every day Mila is with you, she is suffering emotional abuse as well as physical abuse, in that she is being prodded and probed and tested for conditions that do not exist. If you want to see Mila again, you will have to come to the Maine courts and explain yourself to Judge Moskowitz.




Igor, Per the order, I need to notify you of my two, two week periods with Mila during the summer. I am doing so now. Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting 10 June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to stay with me again until Sunday July 24th. If you agree, I would prefer to do the first two week period from Friday 20 May until Sunday 5 June but I assume that you will make me provide the court ordered one month notification period and will not allow this.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, June 06, 2011 10:10 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Mila is not in school where is Mila?

Mila is fine and she is with me. Stop harrassing me and following me around-I will contact the police again about both of you and Pickering lingering around my house and following us.

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I will block your email on both my e-mail addresses as of now and I will block your phone calls as well. If you need anything concerning Mila you have to go through Michael Waxman. He is my attorney and you can let him know when would you like to call Mila (you never do it anyway) and I will make it available for you to talk to her.

I will send you a weekly update on Mila to your Sorrento address and if anything needs to be communicated in addition to this, Michael will send it to you in an e-mail or a letter. I will again ask you to accept service so we can get in court and move forward.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: Mila is not in school where is Mila?Date: Mon, 6 Jun 2011 09:47:25 -0400

Igor, Mila is not in school. Please let me know where Mila is. Thank you. Lori Handrahan, Ph.D.Sorrento Maine+1-207-812-0191


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, June 05, 2011 4:16 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Where is Mila?

She is with me- please stop sending the same message over and over. You can call her if you care to hear her voice- she is taking a nap now.

On Jun 5, 2011, at 3:01 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

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Please let me know where Mila is.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, June 05, 2011 1:15 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'Subject: RE: Where is Mila?

Igor,

Please let me know where Mila is.

Thank you.

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, June 05, 2011 9:45 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Where is Mila?

Your source is wrong and it sounds like you are following me- creepy and unwanted. I will report it to the police, just as I reported your harassment last Friday.

On Jun 5, 2011, at 4:02, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

Where is Mila?

Looks like you left home with her sometime on Friday night and haven’t returned.

Please let me know where Mila is and how she is doing.




From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, June 05, 2011 9:45 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Where is Mila?

Your source is wrong and it sounds like you are following me- creepy and unwanted. I will report it to the police, just as I reported your harassment last Friday.

On Jun 5, 2011, at 4:02, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

Where is Mila?

Looks like you left home with her sometime on Friday night and haven’t returned.

Please let me know where Mila is and how she is doing.


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From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:29 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW:

If you show up, you will deal with the police -

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: RE: Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 09:25:45 -0400

Igor, I’m not sure why you sound so angry. I am simply trying to be with Mila for my weekend visit. I am also trying to co-parent with you in the most positive way. If there are some medical records that concern you, please share these so we can discuss them.Thank you. I’ll come by the house later to pick Mila up. I miss her very much. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:17 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: I AM REFUSING AND I WILL REFUSE IN THE FUTURE UNTIL WE GET IN COURT! I WILL FILE A PFH IF YOU KEEP HARASSING ME OR SHOW UP AT MY HOUSE! STOP HARASSING ME! YOU WILL SEE THE PICTURES AND THE JUDGE WILL TOO!

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Subject: RE: Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 09:11:42 -0400

Igor, So you are refusing to allow Mila to be with me this weekend? Also, I have no idea what pictures you are talking about, that you mentioned in an earlier email. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:06 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: It is not ok and I will not respond any longer - I made it clear that I am not going to allow you to pick Mila up anywhere until we GET IN COURT!!! I will contact the police now and if you show up you will deal with them. You are absolutely not welcome on the property where we live and I am tired of being harassed by you!


Igor, If I don’t hear back from you, I’ll assume it is fine for me to pick Mila up at noon at your house, and I will see you then. Very much looking forward to seeing Mila. All best, From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 8:27 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: You will not pick Mila up anywhere until we get in court! If you come over or send me another e-mail that you are attempting to come over to my place, I will contact the police and file a PFH right away. Stop harassing me immediately. If you need to communicate about anything, do it trough Michael, my attorney.

Mila will not be at school, she will be with me.


Igor, So shall I pick Mila up at your house today or will she be at school? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 7:46 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address the issues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place. If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, I will file a PFH against both of you. I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over and over again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to do that to Mila ever again. That is why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. You have no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say this here and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer or have you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When you are ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her. Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: Date: Thu, 2 Jun 2011 17:09:44 -0400

Igor, Will I be able to pick Mila up at school tomorrow for her weekend with me? Or should I come to your house? We can also meet at the Bakery at Willard Square.

Please let me know. Thank you.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:17 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE:

I AM REFUSING AND I WILL REFUSE IN THE FUTURE UNTIL WE GET IN COURT!

I WILL FILE A PFH IF YOU KEEP HARASSING ME OR SHOW UP AT MY HOUSE!

STOP HARASSING ME!

YOU WILL SEE THE PICTURES AND THE JUDGE WILL TOO!


Igor, So you are refusing to allow Mila to be with me this weekend? Also, I have no idea what pictures you are talking about, that you mentioned in an earlier email. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:06 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: It is not ok and I will not respond any longer - I made it clear that I am not going to allow you to pick Mila up anywhere until we GET IN COURT!!! I will contact the police now and if you show up you will deal with them. You are absolutely not welcome on the property where we live and I am tired of being harassed by you!

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Subject: RE: Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 09:00:31 -0400

Igor, If I don’t hear back from you, I’ll assume it is fine for me to pick Mila up at noon at your house, and I will see you then. Very much looking forward to seeing Mila. All best, From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 8:27 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: You will not pick Mila up anywhere until we get in court! If you come over or send me another e-mail that you are attempting to come over to my place, I will contact the police and file a PFH right away. Stop harassing me immediately. If you need to communicate about anything, do it trough Michael, my attorney. Mila will not be at school, she will be with me.


Igor, So shall I pick Mila up at your house today or will she be at school? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 7:46 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address the issues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place. If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, I will file a PFH against both of you.

I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over and over again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to do that to Mila ever again. That is why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. You have no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say this here and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer or have you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When you are ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her. Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?


Igor, Will I be able to pick Mila up at school tomorrow for her weekend with me? Or should I come to your house? We can also meet at the Bakery at Willard Square. Please let me know. Thank you.



It is not ok and I will not respond any longer - I made it clear that I am not going to allow you to pick Mila up anywhere until we GET IN COURT!!!

I will contact the police now and if you show up you will deal with them. You are absolutely not welcome on the property where we live and I am tired of being harassed by you!


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Igor, If I don’t hear back from you, I’ll assume it is fine for me to pick Mila up at noon at your house, and I will see you then. Very much looking forward to seeing Mila. All best, From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 8:27 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: You will not pick Mila up anywhere until we get in court! If you come over or send me another e-mail that you are attempting to come over to my place, I will contact the police and file a PFH right away. Stop harassing me immediately. If you need to communicate about anything, do it trough Michael, my attorney. Mila will not be at school, she will be with me.


Igor, So shall I pick Mila up at your house today or will she be at school? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 7:46 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address the issues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place. If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, I will file a PFH against both of you. I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over and over again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to

do that to Mila ever again. That is why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. You have no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say this here and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer or have you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When you are ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her. Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?





You will not pick Mila up anywhere until we get in court!

If you come over or send me another e-mail that you are attempting to come over to my place, I will contact the police and file a PFH right away. Stop harassing me immediately. If you need to communicate about anything, do it trough Michael, my attorney.

Mila will not be at school, she will be with me.


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Igor, So shall I pick Mila up at your house today or will she be at school? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 7:46 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address the issues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place. If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, I will file a PFH against both of you. I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over and over again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to do that to Mila ever again. That is why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. You have no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say this here and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer or have you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When you are ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her. Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?




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My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address the issues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place.

If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, I will file a PFH against both of you.

I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over and over again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to do that to Mila ever again. That is why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. You have no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say this here and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer or have you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When you are ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her.

Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?




From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, May 27, 2011 9:35 AMTo: [email protected]

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Cc: [email protected]: RE:

She is with me, I am not working today - I will not be able to read e-mails any longer until later today-

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: RE: Date: Fri, 27 May 2011 09:32:35 -0400

Igor, I didn’t realize you were in a legal position to block Mila’s time with me while we have joint custody. I ask you again—when will I see Mila? Is she is school today or home with you? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, May 27, 2011 9:17 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: She is with me, she is well and happy - Did you file papers and will you accept service, so we can move on and try to resolve the issues? I am not allowing the visits to take place until the judges order - I have serious concerns about Mila's well being and you have been timely and properly informed about this- trough me and trough my attorney Michael Waxman. Feel free to contact him for anything further concerning Mila and the legal process around the current situation. If you try to linger around our house or try to follow me or let your private investigator do this, I will file PFH immediately. I have already informed the police about your previous attempts and I will be in touch with them asap if you are in my or Mila's vicinity and linger or follow us. I have also told my landlord to call the police in case you you or your investigator ignore me and linger on and around the property, whether we are home or not. We need to get in court asap if you want this to get resolved just as I do. Mila is ok, she had two shots on Wednesday, DtaP and IPV. On one spot, the DtaP there was a bit of redness and swelling yesterday, at the other no reaction. We called the doctor and she reassured us that it was a common minor reaction that should be gone within few days. I will keep you up to date on her well being and overall progress. I have scheduled a regular visit with our primary doctor to follow up on the rest of the schedule. I will inform you timely about everything. I also have pictures from Mila's ballet performance that you missed but said you were attending. I will send them to you. I will not be on the internet until later this afternoon or evening.


From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: Date: Fri, 27 May 2011 08:30:40 -0400

Igor, When will I see Mila? Where is she?


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, May 27, 2011 9:17 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE:

She is with me, she is well and happy -

Did you file papers and will you accept service, so we can move on and try to resolve the issues? I am not allowing the visits to take place until the judges order - I have serious concerns about Mila's well being and you have been timely and properly informed about this- trough me and trough my attorney Michael Waxman. Feel free to contact him for anything further concerning Mila and the legal process around the current situation.

If you try to linger around our house or try to follow me or let your private investigator do this, I will file PFH immediately. I have already informed the police about your previous attempts and I will be in touch with them asap if you are in my or Mila's vicinity and linger or follow us. I have also told my landlord to call the police in case you you or your investigator ignore me and linger on and around the property, whether we are home or not.

We need to get in court asap if you want this to get resolved just as I do.

Mila is ok, she had two shots on Wednesday, DtaP and IPV. On one spot, the DtaP there was a bit of redness and swelling yesterday, at the other no reaction. We called the doctor and she reassured us that it was a common minor reaction that should be gone within few days. I will keep you up to date on her well being and overall progress. I have scheduled a regular visit with our primary doctor to follow up on the rest of the schedule. I will inform you timely about everything. I also have pictures from Mila's ballet performance that you missed but said you were attending. I will send them to you. I will not be on the internet until later this afternoon or evening.

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From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: Date: Fri, 27 May 2011 08:30:40 -0400

Igor, When will I see Mila? Where is she?


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 10:10 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE:

My e-mails have been very clear - nothing ambiguous in there. If you do not read them, I will not reply any longer. It is clear where I stand on everything concerning Mila and you need to respond accordingly. I need to see the medical documents you are referring to asap-we have an appointment for tomorrow afternoon. Do not make it more inconvenient for Mila and her vaccine schedule-if you have a record that there was a DTaP administered properly and according the standards for it, show it. Don't play with this issue.

Read the e-mails and read my responses. Reply to the issues I am addressing and we can move further, otherwise I will get in court with or without you. It is better if you show your self and explain your actions.

I am not playing around Mila's well being any longer. You had a chance to behave like a normal parent and you chose otherwise-now let's get in court and solve it. It is only you that is slowing things down.

I will respond to e-mails concerning Mila's well being and concerning issues around court. I will not play along with your games.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: RE: Date: Tue, 24 May 2011 09:38:28 -0400

Igor, Are you refusing to allow Mila to be picked up this Friday for her weekend with me?

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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:25 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE: You have not been clear about what she has and has not and have refused to consider any of them unless it was suitable for you to take her abroad ! The medical records show no DtaP – send me the records today! No e-mails, but the actual records! From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:22 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'Subject: RE:

Igor, Are you refusing to allow Mila to be picked up on Friday to spend the weekend with me? BTW, she has had tenus, dtap, as you are aware. I sent you emails about these shots when we received them at Ellsworth hospital. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:12 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE: You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending! Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared or anything changed. Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see what the schedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we can talk about vacations and other things. You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for over two months now-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind. You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceed transparently to resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that I will put all of this aside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that! Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things you have been forcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends. She loves you but you need to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not

going to make all of that disappear or make it acceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough! We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receive her first vaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and no protection to any of the infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with you frequently taking her on an airplane and with her being at school. I am not taking any risks when it comes to her health and so far you were successful in pushing this very important issue away. Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too. Either get on board and be the parent she needs or play your games elsewhere. If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home to talk to her. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay child support instead of private investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretending everything is ok. You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will do anything for her to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t mean we will follow you or let you pull us with you. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor, I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week of August. What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday? I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for my weekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again?


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 2:13 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE: RE: RE:

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If you or any of your companions show up at the house I will file a PFA against you- stop harassing me. Mila stays here until we meet in court and it is decided that you are fit to coparent-

On May 20, 2011, at 1:36 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

That is fine. What time shall I pick Mila up at your house? Or shall we meet at Whole Foods?

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 9:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE: RE:

Mila is with me and she is where she lives- in her home here. "undisclosed" locations are the one you have been keeping her for the 3 weeks.

Accept service or file papers so we can see get in court sooner and resolve the latest problems you created. Stop playing games with Mila's wellbeing.

Read the court's decision again!

On May 20, 2011, at 8:38, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,



So you are keeping Mila in an undisclosed location on the day I am legally allowed to pick her up for my weekend visits?

I’m just wondering, did someone make you judge? Or it is you are so sure Moskowitz is in your pocket you can do as you please, the court order be damned?

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 4:02 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: Kathy Rogers; MjwaxySubject: Re: RE:

Mila will skip school today - I have the day off.


Dear Kathy,

What is your position? Will you prevent me from picking her up from school on Friday?

I refuse to put Mila, and the other children at the pre-school, in the position of witnessing any kind of stressful transfer, raised voices, or even the mildest of arguments.

I fear picking Mila up at school, what should be normal routine activity, but given the slander and lies you have been willing to say about me—a woman and mother you do not even know—I do fear that you would do Mr. Waxman’s and Igor’s bidding and create an altercation at the school in front of my daughter and other children.


I need to know your position before I pick Mila up in order to avoid anything negative occurring in front of Mila or the other children.

Thank you for letting me know your position.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, May 19, 2011 10:44 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]; Kathy Rogers; [email protected]: RE:

I will make sure that you can be served the court papers as soon as you show up there-regardless of the time or the day. I will alert the police and the DHHS as well.

If you want to proceed resolving what you have created, you need to accept service and stop hiding around avoiding to get served. Eventually we can proceed without you accepting it anyway.

Or you can file papers in court yourself. I have explained my position in my e-mail last week and Michael has done this as well. Michael will accept service of anything you and your ex-husband Patrick are planning to file.

Mila has again mentioned several times about your continuing to disparage me, telling her that I am a “bad father” and a “bad person” and scaring her by telling her that “you will put me in jail” and also she mentioned that your ex-husband Patrick was saying this as well. You also keep trying to force her to say that I have abused her sexually or otherwise or acted inappropriately in any way.



I look forward in seeing you both in court and hearing you explain your scams. If any of you decides to show up at Mila’s school today or tomorrow, you will get served. If you decide to take Mila away again without my permission, I will place an Amber alert and have you arrested.

You took Mila and kept her for three weeks, without being allowed this. There is no pre-school vacation you refer to and there is no “make-up” time. You had Mila more than you were allowed and if you want this to get resolved sooner rather than loosing time on playing games, you need to accept service and/or file your papers in court. I am not going to permit Mila to be exposed again to your continuous emotional abuse.

Also, you have not paid child support for two months now, while you spend the money on private investigators and other things that you give priority over Mila’s school. DHHS will be in touch with you about the child support as well.

I would wait on any vacation planning until we get in court first. I would save the money you have for vacation for the child support you are not paying, if I were you.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 18, 2011 4:17 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor,

Will you oppose my court ordered time with Mila this weekend? I plan to pick her up at school on Friday and return her on Sunday—per my normal visit time.

I would like confirmation on the summer vacation and 5 days of make-up time please.



From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 9:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE: RE:

Mila is with me and she is where she lives- in her home here. "undisclosed" locations are the one you have been keeping her for the 3 weeks.

Accept service or file papers so we can see get in court sooner and resolve the latest problems you created. Stop playing games with Mila's wellbeing.

Read the court's decision again!

On May 20, 2011, at 8:38, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

So you are keeping Mila in an undisclosed location on the day I am legally allowed to pick her up for my weekend visits?

I’m just wondering, did someone make you judge? Or it is you are so sure Moskowitz is in your pocket you can do as you please, the court order be damned?

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 4:02 AMTo: Lori Handrahan


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Dear Kathy,










Igor,




From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 4:02 AMTo: Lori Handrahan

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Dear Kathy,










Igor,




From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 7:30 PMTo: Lori Handrahan

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The ballet school is on the 517 Forest ave. In Portland (www.portlandballet.org).

Mila's class(pre-ballet) starts at 3.45pm, but she usually is there around 3.30pm in order to change her attire and have her hair tied neatly in the back. It goes until 4.30pm and it is the last session, peek week, where parents and family are invited(usually we wait in the hall) to see the demonstration. She missed several classes in the last weeks but she will have fun nevertheless.

I am not sure what your travel plans are for tomorrow, but if you want to go there with Mila I will see her there. We only need to arrange something for her attire to be with her on time. I can either drop it somewhere earlier or bring it along. Having it earlier is better.

Concerning Mila's school and your wish to be the more often, I think that it is very good for Mila to have both parents around as often as possible- so I welcome it. I also need to remind you that the school is not paid already several weeks and it is becoming awkward. You need to contribute the child support so the bill can be paid.

I am a bit confused about your certain ability to be here in Maine, after clearly stating that you were living in DC, which was again after you clearly stated in your Motion to Modify just two months ago, where you stated that you lived no longer in DC but was back in Maine. I do not really care that much what the real situation is except that it is good for Mila that both parents are going to be close and she can see us both often.


Igor,

Since tomorrow is Mila’s ballet final I would like to attend.

Please let me know the location and name of the place so Mila can have her mother there too.

I have told Mila I will be there.


http://www.portlandballet.org/


Also I plan to start coming to her school, like you do, daily, to spend time with her.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 3:19 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:

One more thing – if it appears that you are owed time after we are able to properly address the whole issue, I will have no problem with that. Right now, I believe you are wrong that you are owed any time. Moreover, you have failed to reason and you made your decisions yourself or with help from others, who I do not believe are giving you appropriate advice. But it your responsibility at the end. You can’t keep doing this.

From: Malenko, Igor Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 3:09 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: 'Mjwaxy'Subject: RE:

I do not- your calculations are wrong and I have no intent of discussing this over e-mail under these circumstances any longer. You seem to think that whatever you decide or enters your mind is the order of the day. There is no “make-up” time and there is no “pre-school vacation”, just because you decide to make it appear in the court order. You did what you did and you will have to take the responsibility for this. I am expecting this to be addressed in court, since there is no other way of dealing with you. You missed two weekends in April, no 24 days, and you missed them because you filled false abuse accusations again. It was Mila that was reluctant of having to hear more of that and I have obligations to protect her from those things. She has expressed herself clearly about that on several different occasions. You need to stop causing problems and blaming others for them. You can’t decide unilaterally that there is April vacation and that you are owed that time. It does not work that way.

You have disturbed Mila’s life and created huge problems as usual. I am use to it, but frankly I reached my limit about trying to make you understand that this is only going to affect you negatively and most importantly Mila’s life and future. You seem to be not able to realize that

your actions do have consequences and that this game you are playing with other people personal and professional lives is just no longer acceptable. Mila’s school needs to be paid (you had also fail to pay the JCA in the past), you are refusing to contribute anything to her school costs for almost two months now. Mila has missed several ballet lessons and would miss her final performance tomorrow. She looked forward to this, but somehow everything she has or does here, she is not able to enjoy without having to go through all this terrible things you are putting us trough over and over again. She loves you, but you are not able to understand what she truly needs from you. You got to realize this and spend your time on better things.

If you bring Mila back home in Maine tomorrow, it will be a good decision. I will let her school know this, although as I said they need to get paid and we have not received any money from you.

If you do not bring Mila back I will start a criminal case today and we will have to go through any possible legal venue to make you understand that Mila needs to be back home here in Maine. I hope you will make the right choice.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 2:39 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor,

I am stunned you would call the FBI over my spending my make-up time with Mila in DC.

Since you have created such a fuss I have tickets back to Maine and will return Mila tomorrow to her school.

You still owe me 4 days of make-up time. When will I be able to use this time? I would like to use it next week and pick her up next Tuesday from school. Do you agree?


From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 7:52 AMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: [email protected]: RE: RE:

I will report you for parental kidnaping and taking Mila outside of State lines without my permission or knowledge. I have no idea where my child is for weeks now and you refused to provide me the address continuously. I will report Pickering and others for helping you to achieve this and manipulate the legal system.

You have no rights to keep Mila for any of the time you did in the past weeks, especially not when you make that decision unilaterally. You are in no position to make any demands and you have chosen to continuously violate the court orders. You filed yet another false accusation with DHHS and you refuse to return Mila and pay child support.

The FBI will issue a warrant and arrest you. I was trying to avoid this until now, especially since yesterday was mother’s day, but no longer. If you end up losing your rights to Mila it will all be your responsibility. I urge you and your private investigator to stop breaking the law and return Mila asap.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 7:16 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; [email protected]: RE: RE:

Igor,

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I’m not sure why you are meeting a federal agent at 9:00 am. I haven’t kidnapped Mila—you have been informed, almost daily, of her activities and whereabouts.

But if you are meeting a federal agent please do tell them to call me on my cell 207-812-0191 I would certainly welcome a discussion with a federal agent and have some things to share about your background that I have recently learned.

This weekend is the second weekend—you are correct. I was mistaken. In that case I will return Mila this Friday, at the end of my make-up time, to her school sometime during the day.

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 6:13 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE:

You need to return Mila and avoid making this worse. We will discus the rest afterwards appropriately not under these conditions. If I do not receive a message confirming that Mila will be back today with exact time and place I will proceed with the FBI and make sure she is back home. It will not work in your benefit and it will be your responsibility completely. I am planing to meet with the fed.agent at 9 am. If I do not receive the response within one hour I will assume that that is how you choose to proceed.

On May 9, 2011, at 2:25 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

I will return Mila tomorrow if you and I can make an agreement on the week of makeup time you owe me. Will you give this to me next week?

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, May 08, 2011 4:38 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re:

Next weekend is the second weekend-


If you fail to bring Mila back tomorrow I will contact the FBI on top of filing papers in court again- you are making it worse for your self, but also for Mila, with each new decision you are taking. You need to bring Mila back here by tomorrow. You also have to pay child support. You are violating court orders over and over again.


Igor,

I just received the court document you and Mr. Waxman filed this week—the court sent me a copy of the denied attempt to take Mila away from me, her mother. How could do this to your only child? A little girl who loves and needs her mother. I still have 5 days of make-up time and given this document you tried to get approved I am very concerned you will not honor the make-up time and even more concerned that when I do return Mila you simply will keep her again like you did the last 24 days.

I am willing to return Mila this week if you promise the five days of make-up time to me next week. Otherwise, I will enjoy my make-up time with Mila while I can and return her this coming Sunday at 7:00 pm at Scratch Bakery in S. Portland. I had every intention of returning Mila today but when I saw this court document I have a real fear that you will again, ignore the court order, and keep her from me for another 24 days or longer this time. So feel I must take the time with her when I can.

I have never and will never ignore a court order so once I am finished my last 5 days of make-up time this week I will have to return Mila to you this Sunday—even if I am afraid I will never see her again.

Otherwise, Mila is having a great time. She is eating up a storm—has a huge appetite and eating all the time. Last night we saw Rio in 3D. Mila loved it. I will scan and send the tickets to you in case you are scrap-booking for Mila. Mila made me chocolate raspberries and strawberries for mother’s day and picked roses for me. We went to a flower garden fair yesterday and she played in the bounce toys


and had balloons made and had a great time. Today we have been at the playground most of the afternoon and she is making many wonderful friends here. A mother and little girl already invited us for a play-date tonight after dinner.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 6:13 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE:

You need to return Mila and avoid making this worse. We will discus the rest afterwards appropriately not under these conditions. If I do not receive a message confirming that Mila will be back today with exact time and place I will proceed with the FBI and make sure she is back home. It will not work in your benefit and it will be your responsibility completely. I am planing to meet with the fed.agent at 9 am. If I do not receive the response within one hour I will assume that that is how you choose to proceed.

On May 9, 2011, at 2:25 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

I will return Mila tomorrow if you and I can make an agreement on the week of makeup time you owe me. Will you give this to me next week?



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Next weekend is the second weekend-

If you fail to bring Mila back tomorrow I will contact the FBI on top of filing papers in court again- you are making it worse for your self, but also for Mila, with each new decision you are taking. You need to bring Mila back here by tomorrow. You also have to pay child support. You are violating court orders over and over again.


Igor,




Otherwise, Mila is having a great time. She is eating up a storm—has a huge appetite and eating all the time. Last night we saw Rio in 3D. Mila loved it. I will scan and send the tickets to you in case you are scrap-booking for Mila. Mila made


me chocolate raspberries and strawberries for mother’s day and picked roses for me. We went to a flower garden fair yesterday and she played in the bounce toys and had balloons made and had a great time. Today we have been at the playground most of the afternoon and she is making many wonderful friends here. A mother and little girl already invited us for a play-date tonight after dinner.



Next weekend is the second weekend- If you fail to bring Mila back tomorrow I will contact the FBI on top of filing papers in court again- you are making it worse for your self, but also for Mila, with each new decision you are taking. You need to bring Mila back here by tomorrow. You also have to pay child support. You are violating court orders over and over again.


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Otherwise, Mila is having a great time. She is eating up a storm—has a huge appetite and eating all the time. Last night we saw Rio in 3D. Mila loved it. I will scan and send the tickets to you in case you are scrap-booking for Mila. Mila made me chocolate raspberries and strawberries for mother’s day and picked roses for me. We went to a flower garden fair yesterday and she played in the bounce toys and had balloons made and had a great time. Today we have been at the playground most of the afternoon and she is making many wonderful friends here. A mother and little girl already invited us for a play-date tonight after dinner.


From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 04, 2011 9:53 PMTo: [email protected]: FW: please inform your lawyer I have blocked his emails

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From: Mjwaxy [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 04, 2011 8:29 PMTo: [email protected]: Re: please inform your lawyer I have blocked his emails

Igor: Please inform Dr. Handrahan that until she engages an attorney, I have no choice but to contact her directly. Michael

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From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 04, 2011 7:59 PMTo: [email protected]; [email protected]: please inform your lawyer I have blocked his emails

Igor, As of yesterday, I have blocked all emails from Mr. Waxman and will no longer be able to receive any. They go straight to junk mail and are deleted without my knowledge that they have ever arrived. Please inform your lawyer.


From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 6:48 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: [email protected]: RE: Mila at the zoo

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mailto:[email protected]?

No one lives here full time. My friend postponed her visit due to your recent behavior – no one likes to have to deal with your disgusting games. Unfortunately for me (and Mila) for the next 14-15 years we are stuck with it. Unless you get some help.

I would like to know how Mila is doing (she was sick the last time you mentioned her name and I never heard back about that) and what time you are bringing her to school tomorrow-I need to send Kathy an e-mail and prepare Mila’s food and clothes for the day. Instead of spending time on other not important things try responding to these issues.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 4:11 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; 'Malenko, Igor'Subject: RE: Mila at the zoo

Igor,

How about you telling me the full name of your girlfriend, you claim a childhood friend from Macedonia, who is now living full time with Mila at your home?


I have none of those addresses and those places mean nothing to me, neither your ambiguous description of “friends”. I simply asked a very normal question and you are omitting the answer by sending me this e-mail.The appropriate answer is an address and tel. number where I can reach my child, since you are not answering any of my calls. What am I supposed to do with Glover Park, Lutherville and Manhattan? Or perhaps you assume that anyone in those places would know who you are? Well, I’ll just call anyone in those places and ask to talk to Mila. I ‘ll say that she is with you-they all know who you are, I am sure. Great, thanks for the info.

Please bring Mila at school tomorrow and try to guess what time you will be there with her-and let me know what that guess is going to be! Or simply tell me when you are bringing Mila to school, so we can go on organizing our lives.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 3:10 PMTo: 'Malenko, Igor'; 'Igor Malenko'Subject: RE: Mila at the zoo

Forgot to answer your question—in DC we are in Glover Park, in Maryland we are in Lutherville, in NYC if we go we would be in Manhattan. All the addresses of my friends that I am sure you already have on file.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 1:45 PMTo: 'Malenko, Igor'; 'Igor Malenko'Subject: Mila at the zoo

Igor,

I tried to send you pictures from Mila at the zoo but they don’t seem to be going through. I’ll give these to you with the ER report when I see you tomorrow.



I have none of those addresses and those places mean nothing to me, neither your ambiguous description of “friends”. I simply asked a very normal question and you are omitting the answer by sending me this e-mail.The appropriate answer is an address and tel. number where I can reach my child, since you are not answering any of my calls. What am I supposed to do with Glover Park, Lutherville and Manhattan? Or perhaps you assume that anyone in those places would know who you are? Well, I’ll just call anyone in those places and ask to talk to Mila. I ‘ll say that she is with you-they all know who you are, I am sure. Great, thanks for the info.

Please bring Mila at school tomorrow and try to guess what time you will be there with her-and let me know what that guess is going to be! Or simply tell me when you are bringing Mila to school, so we can go on organizing our lives.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 3:10 PMTo: 'Malenko, Igor'; 'Igor Malenko'Subject: RE: Mila at the zoo

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Forgot to answer your question—in DC we are in Glover Park, in Maryland we are in Lutherville, in NYC if we go we would be in Manhattan. All the addresses of my friends that I am sure you already have on file.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 1:45 PMTo: 'Malenko, Igor'; 'Igor Malenko'Subject: Mila at the zoo

Igor,

I tried to send you pictures from Mila at the zoo but they don’t seem to be going through. I’ll give these to you with the ER report when I see you tomorrow.


From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 3:01 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: [email protected]: RE:

Please bring Mila to her school tomorrow and leave the medical records behind. I will pick Mila up at school.

I need to know when is Mila going to be there in order to inform Kathy and the teachers and also to bring appropriate amount of clothes and food for Mila in the morning.

Also, since you are 5 weeks behind on CHILD SUPPORT (entering the 6th), feel free to write Kathy at the school a check for 3 weeks(incl. the coming one, $645) and subtract that from the amount owed, which is still expected to be paid.

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Igor,

Please let me know what would be better for your schedule. I can drop her at school Monday afternoon or we can meet at 7:00 pm on Monday at Scratch Bakery.

Once you let me know what you prefer I will book my ticket. We are visiting friends in Maryland and maybe take the train to New York city and fly from there.

Call anytime time. Sorry we haven’t been taking many calls because first Mila was sick and then I got the stomach bug and have been vomiting all night.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, April 29, 2011 10:47 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:

I called yesterday and again no response. I left a message and I will like to talk to Mila asap. I would like to know how she feels and I would like to know when exactly you are returning her in Maine (as in day and time of flight arival).

You have not given any address in DC where my child is supposedly staying since you took her there, nor have you informed me when you actually flew with Mila over there. I am still waiting for this information as well.

Also, all the records generated from the ER visit or any other visit to any medical provider that you have taken Mila to for any kind of testing since you picked her up last Friday should be forwarded to me asap. The bill from this ER visit will obviously be yours. Anything in excess of 250$ annually is yours.

When can I expect to talk to Mila and when can we expect you to pay child support for the past 5 weeks?


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From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, April 24, 2011 10:00 AMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: [email protected]; [email protected]: RE: Returning Mila next Monday at preschool

I do not agree to any of that – I would like Mila to be back today.

I am going to take legal steps to prevent you from doing this.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, April 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: 'Malenko, Igor'; 'Igor Malenko'Subject: Returning Mila next Monday at preschool

Igor,

Since I haven’t seen Mila for 24 days, due to your refusal to maintain the visit schedule, I am taking some of my make-up time with Mila now.

My calculations you owe me three weekends, Friday-Sunday or 9 days.

When I returned her next Monday that will count for 8 of the 9 make-up days.


From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 7:16 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Fwd: Friday

Also, you are 5 weeks behind on the child support- how do you think Mila's school is being payed? You need to do your part.

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From: Igor Malenko <[email protected]>Date: April 22, 2011 5:54:45 AM CDTTo: Lori Handrahan <[email protected]>Cc: Mjwaxy <[email protected]>Subject: Re: Friday

The "undisclosed" location sounds as creepy as everything else you produced so far.

Mila's reply to being picked up this week is no different from last week or the week before that -"mama needs to make a promise that she will not talk bad" and " did she make the promise papa?". . Unless you do, I will not say to her that you did. I want Mila to have her mother in her life,but you got to stop forcing her to say things that are not true and frighten her with "getting rid of me" .

I am planing to bring Mila at school today and even if you pick her up without making the promise she needs to hear, I expect her to stay in Maine and return on Sunday.

The DHHS is aware of the situation and so is the police. You have to stop using Mila for your selfish goals - she truly is unhappy about this and it is absolutely unacceptable. You got to understand this or you will alienate her and hurt her again and again. She needs both her parents in her life but only in a healthy way.

I need to hear back from you about returning Mila this Sunday before attempting to pick her up today. If you choose to behave as so far I will choose to protect my child from your behavior.

On Apr 21, 2011, at 6:33 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

I plan to pick up Mila at her pre-school tomorrow, Friday, 21 April.

I have been told you are keeping her out of school on Fridays and keeping her in an undisclosed location so I cannot pick her up. I hope you will not do this tomorrow.






From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 6:55 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Friday




The DHHS is aware of the situation and so is the police. You have to stop using Mila for your selfish goals - she truly is unhappy about this and it is absolutely unacceptable. You got to understand this or you will alienate her and hurt her again and again. She needs both her parents in her life but only in a healthy way.



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From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, April 11, 2011 9:26 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again

I absolutely do not agree for any make-up time at this point. I have sent a clear e-mail and have no plans on engaging further in discussion. You will be served papers either today or tomorrow. I gave them both addresses- S.P. and Sorrento. I am also eagerly waiting for the DHHS to finish this investigation. If you attempt to take Mila unauthorized there will be police involvement and certainly any possible legal step to prevent you from doing to Mila all the disgusting abusive things. I am done waiting for you to stop abusing her and using her for your ludicrous goals.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her againDate: Mon, 11 Apr 2011 09:20:42 -0400

Igor, Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again. Do you agree for my make-up time to start this Tuesday. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 1:31 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; 'Malenko, Igor'Subject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again

You hit Mila in the head with a pan and there is a child protection investigation and you are telling me you are “not going to permit me” to see Mila except on supervised visits? When is my make-up time for the past 2 missed weekends scheduled? I would like that to take place this week. Shall I pick

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her up Tuesday at 7:00 am and return her on Sunday at 7:00pm? This would make up the lost weekend. Please let me know. Please also let me know where Mila is and who is living with Mila now. Thank you. From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 8:26 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again Mila is well and she is with me - she is actually glad that she does not need to hear all the false and disgusting things you ask her and force her to say each time she is with you. She is fed up and refuses to stay with you unless you promise to stop and abandon this emotional abuse immediately - I told you I will not accept you doing this to our child and I have an obligation to protect her from this ongoing horror, especially now that she is asking me her self. I am very sad that you can't realize what you are causing her and I am very upset that you do not want to abandon your quest to destroy me and use Mila for this terribly selfish goal.As soon as you are able and willing to put Mila's interests ahead of your own selfish desires, I will happily agree to permit you to enjoy visitation. Until you stop trying to brainwash Mila and destroy me, I will not permit you to see Mila unsupervised. You are harming her tremendously and I am glad she decided her self that it is enough of that. She loves you and would like to have her mom in her life but she says that you have to stop forcing her to say things that are not true and bad about me like me doing anything bad to her, talking bad about her grandparents and about her touching my private parts. Enough is enough. Mila seems anxious and fearful to be away from me even when I leave the room, which is directly caused by these claims by you and your friends that you will "get rid of me" and that " you will put me in jail". She is also more emotional in the last few weeks and she ask me to talk to you and ask you to promised to stop saying to her that she " touches my private parts" , "that I am hitting her..." , and the other " bad things about papa constantly" . This is child abuse and I am not allowing this to take place any longer- not even one more time. The glass is full and this is absolutely unacceptable and wrong. How can you say you love Mila and go on using her and abusing her for your pathetic and selfish goal to harm me? This only shows that you are really unfit to be a parent.Do you rather lose your child than make honest attempt to go forward and have Mila enjoy normal life and childhood? You have to stop emotionally abusing her immediately!

On Apr 9, 2011, at 10:08 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

I’d like to know where Mila is and when I will see her again.


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From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 8:26 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again

Mila is well and she is with me - she is actually glad that she does not need to hear all the false and disgusting things you ask her and force her to say each time she is with you. She is fed up and refuses to stay with you unless you promise to stop and abandon this emotional abuse immediately - I told you I will not accept you doing this to our child and I have an obligation to protect her from this ongoing horror, especially now that she is asking me her self. I am very sad that you can't realize what you are causing her and I am very upset that you do not want to abandon your quest to destroy me and use Mila for this terribly selfish goal.As soon as you are able and willing to put Mila's interests ahead of your own selfish desires, I will happily agree to permit you to enjoy visitation. Until you stop trying to brainwash Mila and destroy me, I will not permit you to see Mila unsupervised. You are harming her tremendously and I am glad she decided her self that it is enough of that. She loves you and would like to have her mom in her life but she says that you have to stop forcing her to say things that are not true and bad about me like me doing anything bad to her, talking bad about her grandparents and about her touching my private parts. Enough is enough.

Mila seems anxious and fearful to be away from me even when I leave the room, which is directly caused by these claims by you and your friends that you will "get rid of me" and that " you will put me in jail". She is also more emotional in the last few weeks and she ask me to talk to you and ask you to promised to stop saying to her that she " touches my private parts" , "that I am hitting her..." , and the other " bad things about papa constantly" . This is child abuse and I am not allowing this to take place any longer- not even one more time. The glass is full and this is absolutely unacceptable and wrong. How can you say you love Mila and go on using her and abusing her for your pathetic and selfish goal to harm me? This only shows that you are really unfit to be a parent.Do you rather lose your child than make honest attempt to go forward and have Mila enjoy normal life and childhood? You have to stop emotionally abusing her immediately!





From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, April 08, 2011 6:11 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]:

Unfortunately your latest false accusations and the fact that you continue emotionally abusing Mila every time she is with you are enough reasons for me to step up and take legal measures to protect Mila from this occurring all over again. She does not want to hear it anymore and asked me not to bring her to you until you stop forcing her to say things she doesn’t like to say and hear things you and your friends have been constantly harassing her with. I have an obligation as Mila’s parent to protect her from this and I am. We will not meet you this weekend .


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, April 03, 2011 10:06 PMTo: [email protected]: MjwaxySubject: Fwd: Mila tonight

Next weekend is yours - starting Friday and returning Mila on Sunday


From: [email protected]: April 3, 2011 10:02:46 PM EDTTo: Lori Handrahan <[email protected]>Subject: Re: Mila tonight

Following us here in the street, after couple of messages on the phone and then living a note on my front door is inappropriate and honestly a bit creepy - don't do this again please. Interrupting and trespassing, following are not normal things. Your obsession with my friend is also a bit unhealthy. You do not need to have her biography and harass her or anyone around me and Mila.



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When you realize that it is you that need to be transparent about issues directly connected to Mila, then you might demand information like that the way you are doing.On Apr 3, 201hat 3:10 PM, "Lori Handrahan"<[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

Then I have Mila this coming weekend? Which is the weekend, per the schedule, she is with you? I’d like to pick Mila at 4:00 on Thursday from school and return her Sunday at 3:00 pm.

Please let me know the full name of your childhood friend who will now be living with Mila and when she is scheduled to move in with Mila.

Thank you.

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, April 02, 2011 8:56 AMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: Re: Mila tonight

We already rearranged everything like ballet tickets etc. Mila is looking forward to this and we already switched weekends, made new plans and closed the discussion yesterday- no more last min. changes again, thank you-


Igor,

I will be in S. Portland tonight and would like to have Mila with me.



I can pick her up at 4:00 at the bakery and return her at 2:00 on Sunday at the bakery.


From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 17, 2011 7:14 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]:

At Mila’s school there is a multicultural “party” starting at 4pm and all the parents are invited. Since you are picking her up you could be the attending parent, if that works for you.

Also, Mila asked me to ask you if you would like to bring her to ballet sometimes. It is on Tuesdays 3.45-4.30 at Portland Ballet on Congress Ave 571 in Portland.

Please remember on Sunday to bring the shoes that she will wear tomorrow-they are her daily school shoes.


From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, March 06, 2011 9:39 AMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: [email protected]: RE:

Ok

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Igor,

It would be easier for me to pick Mila up at 4:00 at Whole Foods today.

Are you ok with that?


Ok – I will bring her medicine and the schedule so far is 9am-3pm-9pm-3am for the antibiotics. Her dose is 2.5ml on the syringe (1/2 tsp) and the bottle is turned upside down when filling the syringe. She doesn’t like the taste and needs water afterwards. Also, she is still allowed to have either Tylenol (she only likes raspberry flavor liquid one 2-11 years) or children’s Ibuprofen (same taste if possible). According the doctor it is better to switch of those two if she needs it for the fever every 4-6 hours. I will probably try to give her the antibiotic dose this afternoon f she is awake around 3pm. If not, you will have to do it. It goes on for 10 days, so please make sure we have it back on Saturday.She is doing well now, I gave her the last Ibuprofen around 4.30 am and as of now she has not developed fever. I use the ear thermometer(from Hannaford) which is very good, accurate and quick. She will need lots of probiotics, too.

Where do we meet? I am willing to drive to Brunswick or Augusta. I might be able to go as far as Bangor if necessary.

I will let the school know that she will stay home with you. Unfortunately, I will still have to pay for the whole week. They have two week cancelation/change of schedule policy and we will have to pay.

Please make sure Mila takes the medicine without skipping.

I also have to ask you to not allow Bob(or Liza and Terry) to say things to Mila that are inappropriate and wrong. Mila really does not like it-she says she is reluctant to come over because of them talking “bad” about “her papa”. That is not good!I know it doesn’t bother you when they and you too, say bad things about me, but to a child that is not ok-I do not do it and no one here disparages you, so just make sure it does not happen over there. It really bothers Mila and it will complicate everything if you continue to allow or participate in that.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, March 06, 2011 7:47 AMTo: 'Igor Malenko'Subject: RE:

Igor,

Mila is always in Sorrento. Saturday return is fine.

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:41 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW:

Also, I would like to know where Mila would be in case you will take her tomorrow for the week-here in Maine, DC or elsewhere?

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:23 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: '[email protected] ([email protected])'Subject: RE:

I would like to see her back earlier than Sunday this coming weekend – you will have already 5 days until then instead of this weekend, which is not unfair. How about returning her on Saturday? That way we can also have one day to take it easy in the morning and swim on Sunday.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 7:52 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; 'Malenko, Igor'Subject: RE:

Igor,

I’d be happy to take Mila for the week and this coming weekend.

I can pick her up around 4:00 tomorrow, Sunday, and would return her around 4:00 pm Sunday March 13.

Please confirm.

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 5:34 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: [email protected]: RE:

We saw the doctor this afternoon-Mila has a strep throat infection. She has penicillin and has to take this for 10 days (4x day). She is ok and she should be getting better in the next day or two. She could go to school on Monday according the doctor, she is not contagious 24 h after administering the first dose of penicillin. You can have next weekend. Or if you are in Maine this week you could also have Mila until next Friday. Otherwise, I will stay home with her a couple of days. Just to give her a break from school-lots of sick kids around. And then she can stay with you next weekend. You will need to keep the penicillin schedule until the end. You could call her anytime-2074001666

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 3:16 PMTo: 'igor malenko'; 'Malenko, Igor'Subject: RE:

Igor,

Will this weekend be make up time for this past weekend? Please let me know so I can make plans.

Hope Mila is doing fine. Would love to talk with her.

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 12:13 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW:

Are you in Maine and do you plan to communicate about Mila?

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW:Date: Sat, 5 Mar 2011 08:37:45 -0500

Mila has still fever-I want to see the doctor today-she is stuffed and clearly has the fly, but I still want to have the doctor check her. Her fever goes down from the Tylenol, but comes back after few hours to around 101.8.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW:Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 13:42:47 -0500

Mila has high fever and will stay here- I called her doctor already. Even with Tylenol the fever is still high. No driving today-if she is better tomorrow I will bring her over

> CC: [email protected]> From: [email protected]> Subject: Re: RE: > Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: [email protected]> > I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me. > > Sent from my iPhone>




> On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:> > > Igor,> > > > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> > > > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> > > > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> > > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.> > > > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories. > > > > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> > > > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> > > > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't> > seem to be anywhere near. > >


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> > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > Ok. I'll be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> > > > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped. > > > > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> > > > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> > > > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > I'll be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> >





> > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: [email protected]> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject: > > > > > > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> > > >



Ok – I will bring her medicine and the schedule so far is 9am-3pm-9pm-3am for the antibiotics. Her dose is 2.5ml on the syringe (1/2 tsp) and the bottle is turned upside down when filling the syringe. She doesn’t like the taste and needs water afterwards. Also, she is still allowed to have either Tylenol (she only likes raspberry flavor liquid one 2-11 years) or children’s Ibuprofen (same taste if possible). According the doctor it is better to switch of those two if she needs it for the fever every 4-6 hours. I will probably try to give her the antibiotic dose this afternoon f she is awake around 3pm. If not, you will have to do it. It goes on for 10 days, so please make sure we have it back on Saturday.She is doing well now, I gave her the last Ibuprofen around 4.30 am and as of now she has not developed fever. I use the ear thermometer(from Hannaford) which is very good, accurate and quick. She will need lots of probiotics, too.

Where do we meet? I am willing to drive to Brunswick or Augusta. I might be able to go as far as Bangor if necessary.

I will let the school know that she will stay home with you. Unfortunately, I will still have to pay for the whole week. They have two week cancelation/change of schedule policy and we will have to pay.

Please make sure Mila takes the medicine without skipping.

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I also have to ask you to not allow Bob(or Liza and Terry) to say things to Mila that are inappropriate and wrong. Mila really does not like it-she says she is reluctant to come over because of them talking “bad” about “her papa”. That is not good!I know it doesn’t bother you when they and you too, say bad things about me, but to a child that is not ok-I do not do it and no one here disparages you, so just make sure it does not happen over there. It really bothers Mila and it will complicate everything if you continue to allow or participate in that.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, March 06, 2011 7:47 AMTo: 'Igor Malenko'Subject: RE:

Igor,

Mila is always in Sorrento. Saturday return is fine.



From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:23 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: '[email protected] ([email protected])'Subject: RE:



Igor,



Please confirm.




Igor,









> CC: [email protected]> From: [email protected]> Subject: Re: RE: > Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: [email protected]> > I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me. > > Sent from my iPhone> > On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:> > > Igor,> > > > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> > > > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> > > > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> > > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.> > > > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories. > >







> > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> > > > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> > > > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't> > seem to be anywhere near. > > > > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > Ok. I'll be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> > > > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped. > > > > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> >




> > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> > > > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > I'll be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: [email protected]> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject: > > > > > > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> > > >




From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:23 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'

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Igor,



Please confirm.




Igor,









> CC: [email protected]> From: [email protected]> Subject: Re: RE: > Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: [email protected]> > I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me. > > Sent from my iPhone> > On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:> > > Igor,> > > > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> > > > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.





> > > > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> > > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.> > > > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories. > > > > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> > > > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> > > > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't> > seem to be anywhere near. > > > > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> >




> > Ok. I'll be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> > > > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped. > > > > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> > > > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> > > > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > I'll be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: [email protected]> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject: > > > > > > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?






> > Sent from my iPhone=> > > >





Igor,



Please confirm.


We saw the doctor this afternoon-Mila has a strep throat infection. She has penicillin and has to take this for 10 days (4x day). She is ok and she should be getting better in the next day or two. She could go to school on Monday according the doctor, she is not contagious 24 h after administering the first dose of penicillin. You can have next weekend. Or if you are in Maine this week you could also have Mila until next Friday. Otherwise, I will stay home with her a couple of days. Just to give her a break from school-lots of sick

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kids around. And then she can stay with you next weekend. You will need to keep the penicillin schedule until the end. You could call her anytime-2074001666


Igor,









> CC: [email protected]> From: [email protected]> Subject: Re: RE: > Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: [email protected]>




> I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me. > > Sent from my iPhone> > On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:> > > Igor,> > > > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> > > > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> > > > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> > > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.> > > > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories. > > > > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> > > > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> > > > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not




> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't> > seem to be anywhere near. > > > > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > Ok. I'll be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> > > > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped. > > > > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> > > > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> > > > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,





> > > > I'll be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: [email protected]> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject: > > > > > > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> > > >





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> CC: [email protected]> From: [email protected]> Subject: Re: RE: > Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: [email protected]> > I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me. > > Sent from my iPhone> > On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:> > > Igor,> > > > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> > > > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a





> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> > > > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> > > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.> > > > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories. > > > > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> > > > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> > > > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't> > seem to be anywhere near. > > > > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'




> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > Ok. I'll be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> > > > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped. > > > > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> > > > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> > > > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > I'll be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: [email protected]> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject: > > > >






> > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> > > >








> CC: [email protected]> From: [email protected]> Subject: Re: RE: > Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: [email protected]> > I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me. > > Sent from my iPhone

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> > On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:> > > Igor,> > > > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> > > > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> > > > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> > > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.> > > > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories. > > > > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> > > > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> > > > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't> > seem to be anywhere near.

> > > > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > Ok. I'll be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> > > > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped. > > > > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> > > > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> > > > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > I'll be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.

> > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: [email protected]> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject: > > > > > > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> > > >


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 8:38 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW:




> CC: [email protected]> From: [email protected]> Subject: Re: RE: > Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: [email protected]> > I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me. > > Sent from my iPhone> > On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:>

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> > Igor,> > > > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> > > > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> > > > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> > > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.> > > > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories. > > > > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> > > > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> > > > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't> > seem to be anywhere near. > > > > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend.

> > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > Ok. I'll be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> > > > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped. > > > > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> > > > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> > > > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > I'll be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]]

> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: [email protected]> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject: > > > > > > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> > > >


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 1:43 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW:


> CC: [email protected]> From: [email protected]> Subject: Re: RE: > Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: [email protected]> > I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me. > > Sent from my iPhone> > On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:> > > Igor,> > > > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> > > > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> > > > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> >

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> > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.> > > > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories. > > > > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> > > > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> > > > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't> > seem to be anywhere near. > > > > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > Ok. I'll be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> > > > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their

> > fever has stopped. > > > > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: [email protected]> > Subject: RE: > > > > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> > > > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> > > > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me. > > > > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE: > > > > Igor,> > > > I'll be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> > > > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] > > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: [email protected]> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject: > > > > > > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> > > >


-----Original Message-----From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AMTo: [email protected]: MjwaxySubject:

Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time can you meet?Sent from my iPhone=-----No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11

-----Original Message-----From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 03, 2011 7:29 PMTo: [email protected]: MjwaxySubject:

Mila has fever-101.8She is happy and active despite. I gave her Tylenol. Lots of kids at school are sick. She ate well today and took her nap too. She says that her throat does not hurt any longer. Also, no constipation this week. Sent from my iPhone=-----No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 3:18 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE: Re: RE:

But you still need to tell me when-and where you are taking her to. And when you are returning her on Sunday as well. It is simple essential information that I insist you share-just as I do. And just as you are asking all the time. Read the judgment again-

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Sent from my iPhone

On Feb 28, 2011, at 2:17 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

I will pick her up on Friday, per the court order.

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 2:15 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Fwd: Re: RE:

I need an answer to my question about pick up time from school on Th.

I still await a normal response about where Mila is going to be in the weekend. If you avoid to answer do not expect any responses back any longer. I will not accept it any longer and instead of perhaps more you will end up spending less time with Mila. Do you really want that?

Sent from my iPhone


From: [email protected]: February 28, 2011 12:26:50 PM ESTTo: Lori Handrahan <[email protected]>Cc: Mjwaxy <[email protected]>Subject: Re: RE:

Me

Sent from my iPhone

On Feb 28, 2011, at 10:49 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:






Igor,

Who is staying home with Mila?

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 10:33 AMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: [email protected]: RE:

What time would you pick Mila up this Thursday (let’s take it one step at the time and see how it goes before we lock into permanent agreements different than the judgment)?

I do not agree for anyone else to pick Mila up at school- if you can’t do it, I will pick her up and meet you.

Mila is home today because of her throat infection-she had a rough night and is doing better this morning. I am planning to bring he at school tomorrow.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 3:33 PMTo: 'igor malenko'Subject: RE:

I agree. It would be much better for us both if we can agree on a regular time. I’d like to pick Mila up on Thursday afternoons directly from school and return her at 2:30 on Sundays.

Would that work for you?


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 8:12 AMTo: [email protected]: RE:

That's ok - but I would appreciate if you would let me know this earlier from now on. I like to be able to plan my day as well and not wait in front on the pc for your message. What if I could not be there at 2.30?

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: Date: Sun, 27 Feb 2011 07:21:01 -0500

Igor,

We’ll meet you at 2:30 in front of Whole Foods today.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 2:15 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Fwd: Re: RE:

I need an answer to my question about pick up time from school on Th.I still await a normal response about where Mila is going to be in the weekend. If you avoid to answer do not expect any responses back any longer. I will not accept it any longer and instead of perhaps more you will end up spending less time with Mila. Do you really want that?

Sent from my iPhone

http://www.avg.com/






From: [email protected]: February 28, 2011 12:26:50 PM ESTTo: Lori Handrahan <[email protected]>Cc: Mjwaxy <[email protected]>Subject: Re: RE:

Me

Sent from my iPhone

On Feb 28, 2011, at 10:49 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

Who is staying home with Mila?

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 10:33 AMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: [email protected]: RE:

What time would you pick Mila up this Thursday (let’s take it one step at the time and see how it goes before we lock into permanent agreements different than the judgment)?

I do not agree for anyone else to pick Mila up at school- if you can’t do it, I will pick her up and meet you.

Mila is home today because of her throat infection-she had a rough night and is doing better this morning. I am planning to bring he at school tomorrow.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 3:33 PM






To: 'igor malenko'Subject: RE:

I agree. It would be much better for us both if we can agree on a regular time. I’d like to pick Mila up on Thursday afternoons directly from school and return her at 2:30 on Sundays.

Would that work for you?

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 8:12 AMTo: [email protected]: RE:

That's ok - but I would appreciate if you would let me know this earlier from now on. I like to be able to plan my day as well and not wait in front on the pc for your message. What if I could not be there at 2.30?


Igor,

We’ll meet you at 2:30 in front of Whole Foods today.






From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 6:26 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE:

It sounds like the food she gets here. I am sorry to hear about her constipation. She drinks lots of pro biotic yogurt here as well.

Also, her throat is very red and she says it hurts when she swallows. If it gets worse she will stay home tomorrow.


Igor, Mila was extremely constipated last week and this weekend. This weekend she had blood in her stool from the serious constipation. She normally gets a child probiotic, fish oils and vitamins every morning. At night when we read books in bed she drinks 8-12 ounces of half and half in her bottle. During the day she gets lots of water and fruit/veggies juices with no sugar—often in frozen pops which she loves. Every week she eats apricots along with lots of other fruits and veggies.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 24, 2011 9:11 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE:

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Ok, I tried and I will not do this any longer. I will solve the situation without your help. I talked to Kathy and she and the teachers are going to make sure to pay more attention.

Mila told me on Monday and it happened last week. If you think that you are smart and this is another conspiracy, you just showed how pathetic you are again. You have no idea what it means to co-parent and you are absolutely unable to understand that concept. I am glad the judge understood this.

I actually like the school very much. Mila likes it there a lot and loves going there and playing with her friends. She actually is asking to go to school and see them. Also, I like Kathy and the teachers very much. Mostly because Kathy knows exactly what has been going on in the past years and has always shown to me that I can feel very comfortable regardless of your desperate attempts and false allegations. In short, it is not a school you can manipulate as you have attempted and done with previous places. So your theory is flawed as is your ability to co-parent. I tried and I will not do this any more. the judge clearly stated that if there is no agreement, I make the decision.

Pick up - it is too late and you will have to do it on Friday. If Bob drives or Terry do not expect me to bring Mila next week. I will file a complaint immediately. Mila mentioned that even Lisa was saying this things about "getting rid of me" and she has been very unhappy about this. I am done with asking you to do anything about this and I will take a legal action to stop this.

If you do not let me know where you are taking Mila and when you are returning her, you will not pick her up this Friday. If you expose her again to Bob's, Terry's and Lisa's as well as your abusive behavior, you will have supervised visitations. This is my last attempt to reason on this issue.

We have never received any check from you. I will make sure you are served asap. You need to take responsibility if you are planning to be a parent.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Date: Thu, 24 Feb 2011 08:52:18 -0500

Igor, I arrive at 10:30 and can pick Mila up in front of Scratch bakery about 10:45/11:00. Re: School. First I was told by you and by the teachers that Mila was not in school this week. Now you are telling me this happened on this Monday? What is the truth? Second, what you are telling me doesn’t seem plausible. Children do these things at school and teachers and parents usually work it out. I find it difficult to believe this is the real reason you are planning to remove Mila from this Montessori.

In any case, Mila retains two places at top Montessori in the country, with teachers who have masters in early childhood education and the school facilities are amazing. She would have Chinese and Spanish as part of the program and would be able to gain an amazing education setting her up for the best possible future. The caliber of schools and teaches in Maine cannot equal these. If you really cared about Mila getting the best education possible you would want her in one of these two incredible places here in DC. Why not let her stay with me during the week and be a part of all that these schools here, where she already won a place, and she can be with you on the weekends? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 5:38 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: I checked the weather for this weekend and it looks like Friday is going to be messy with snow. If you can pick Mila up on Thursday as you wanted, it will be better.Please try to drive not too late and avoid using Bob or Terry as a driver. They totally blew it and I am putting my foot down on this. I still want Mila to be back on Sunday, since Monday is snowing again. I remember asking you to do similar things when I was seeing Mila in the weekends and you always refused. I do not want to act like that and will try to accommodate similar requests more often in the future. I want Mila to have her mom and her dad as much as possible in her life. But you will have to put an end to the things that you and your "friends" have been saying to her. She does not deserve that and I will absolutely do everything to stop that from happening to Mila. If you love her, you will do this. Lastly, I talked to Kathy at Mila's school about a concern I had which I want to share with you - there are two boys Darren and Jack that attend school as well, and both have behavioral issues. They have on few occasions been rough with other kids at school and specifically Darren had thrown scissors at Mila and Jack had pushed her in a plant. Mila was ok and she told me this on Monday, after Donna, one of the teachers told me this. She was not scared or complained, but when I asked her she confirmed. She does like her friends there and like being there. I contacted Kathy today and yesterday and asked her to do something about it and prevent it from happening again. According Donna, the boys, especially Darren, need one on one supervision. Kathy said that they were both evaluated and that Darren has one on one, one day in the week as directed and felt that Donna's concerns were inappropriate. I have been going there for lunch breaks and I have witnessed both boys being very difficult and I had my concerns. I do not want Mila to have to deal with any similar situations and I am sure you feel the same way as well.

Hopefully everything would be fine, but I will start looking around for a better place, just in case. I want you to join me in dealing with this properly as parents should. I do not believe that anything else is going to be better for Mila. When it comes to Mila's well being we need to work together.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: RE: Date: Wed, 23 Feb 2011 08:57:56 -0500

Igor, I need to book my tickets today so please do let me know about a Monday, the 28th, drop off at school as soon as possible. Thank you. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 8:52 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; 'Malenko, Igor'Subject:

Igor, I would like to pick Mila up this Thursday night, if you allow. This makes the drive easier for her as she sleeps in the car and gives us a full day together on Friday. I would also like to drop her off at school on Monday morning, the 28th. Do you agree?


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 5:38 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE:

I checked the weather for this weekend and it looks like Friday is going to be messy with snow. If you can pick Mila up on Thursday as you wanted, it will be better.Please try to drive

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not too late and avoid using Bob or Terry as a driver. They totally blew it and I am putting my foot down on this. I still want Mila to be back on Sunday, since Monday is snowing again.

I remember asking you to do similar things when I was seeing Mila in the weekends and you always refused. I do not want to act like that and will try to accommodate similar requests more often in the future. I want Mila to have her mom and her dad as much as possible in her life. But you will have to put an end to the things that you and your "friends" have been saying to her. She does not deserve that and I will absolutely do everything to stop that from happening to Mila. If you love her, you will do this.

Lastly, I talked to Kathy at Mila's school about a concern I had which I want to share with you - there are two boys Darren and Jack that attend school as well, and both have behavioral issues. They have on few occasions been rough with other kids at school and specifically Darren had thrown scissors at Mila and Jack had pushed her in a plant. Mila was ok and she told me this on Monday, after Donna, one of the teachers told me this. She was not scared or complained, but when I asked her she confirmed. She does like her friends there and like being there.

I contacted Kathy today and yesterday and asked her to do something about it and prevent it from happening again. According Donna, the boys, especially Darren, need one on one supervision. Kathy said that they were both evaluated and that Darren has one on one, one day in the week as directed and felt that Donna's concerns were inappropriate. I have been going there for lunch breaks and I have witnessed both boys being very difficult and I had my concerns. I do not want Mila to have to deal with any similar situations and I am sure you feel the same way as well.

Hopefully everything would be fine, but I will start looking around for a better place, just in case. I want you to join me in dealing with this properly as parents should. I do not believe that anything else is going to be better for Mila. When it comes to Mila's well being we need to work together.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: RE: Date: Wed, 23 Feb 2011 08:57:56 -0500

Igor, I need to book my tickets today so please do let me know about a Monday, the 28th, drop off at school as soon as possible. Thank you. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 8:52 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; 'Malenko, Igor'Subject:

Igor,

I would like to pick Mila up this Thursday night, if you allow. This makes the drive easier for her as she sleeps in the car and gives us a full day together on Friday. I would also like to drop her off at school on Monday morning, the 28th. Do you agree?


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, February 22, 2011 3:12 PMTo: [email protected]: RE: Mila not in school

I have few days off-she is with me. She will be back at school on Thursday. You can call her at home as well.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: Mila not in schoolDate: Tue, 22 Feb 2011 15:02:09 -0500

Igor, Kathy and I have agreed that I will call at 3:00 every day to chat with Mila when she wakes from her nap. I just called and was told Mila is not at school today. Please let me know where Mila is and why she is not at school. Thank you.


From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, February 19, 2011 6:26 PMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: Re: RE:

Monday return would be also good-if you are able. I am sure she would love an extra day.

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On Feb 19, 2011, at 3:35 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

I will be at Whole Foods in Portland at 8:00 pm Sunday with Mila to return her. I was able to get a later flight than the normal 4:00 pm flight which gave Mila and I more of a weekend together.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 11:33 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]; Fawcett, BethSubject:

Mila’s school called me and told me that you went there and picked Mila up. This was not discussed with me and I do not approve your actions. I do want Mila to be with her mom, but you are simply disregarding the judgment and all my efforts to co-parent and communicate. You refused to reply to any of my e-mails and did not return any of Mila’s calls. I told you that I am not agreeing to you behaving like this and simply showing up at school and taking her away with no prior communication. I have no idea where Mila is, when you will return her or where you are bringing her. This is not acceptable and I will not agree to any of this any longer. You choose to behave like this and you choose to be destructive. This is your choice.

I need to know asap where Mila is and what you are intending to do about her return here. Where are you bringing her and when are you returning her back? If I do not hear anything I will take legal steps asap.

I will hold you responsible for anything you do to Mila, any harassment, any emotional abuse any attempt to make her confuse and manufacture false accusations again and any of your and your friend’s statements that are made to her and are inappropriate.


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From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, February 11, 2011 9:03 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW:

She had a rough night tonight, fever too. I gave her Tylenol few times and it looks like she is better now. We will start with water and toast today. Call her.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE:Date: Thu, 10 Feb 2011 19:06:38 -0500

It is the second weekend, thus she stays with me. In addition in this condition she will not travel anywhere. I will keep you posted on her situation. You can try calling her tomorrow.


Igor, I have an early flight and will arrive in Portland at 10:30 am. I’ll pick Mila up at Whole Foods and will call you when I land. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 10, 2011 6:35 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: We called last night and Mila left a message. We will not call tonight-Mila is sick and sleeps. She has a stomach virus and I had to pick her up from school early. She vomited a lot and we went to see the doctors at the ER at Mercy. Supposedly it is going around and it should not be longer than a day or two. She is resting and she will be home with me tomorrow.


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To: [email protected]: RE:

It is the second weekend, thus she stays with me. In addition in this condition she will not travel anywhere. I will keep you posted on her situation. You can try calling her tomorrow.


Igor, I have an early flight and will arrive in Portland at 10:30 am. I’ll pick Mila up at Whole Foods and will call you when I land. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 10, 2011 6:35 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: We called last night and Mila left a message. We will not call tonight-Mila is sick and sleeps. She has a stomach virus and I had to pick her up from school early. She vomited a lot and we went to see the doctors at the ER at Mercy. Supposedly it is going around and it should not be longer than a day or two. She is resting and she will be home with me tomorrow.



From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 10, 2011 6:35 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]:

We called last night and Mila left a message. We will not call tonight-Mila is sick and sleeps. She has a stomach virus and I had to pick her up from school early. She vomited a lot and we went to see the doctors at the ER at Mercy. Supposedly it is going around and it should not be longer than a day or two. She is resting and she will be home with me tomorrow.


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From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:40 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods

I am not taking a chance to lose my child and let you take her out of the country. You are very capable of this and you have told this to Mila just before the hearing.

Instead of loosing time playing power games, get on the phone, arrange this, and comply with the decision. You can ask the same people that helped you sneak Mila to DC all of the time. I will make sure that the passport is current and there is only one before we move further. I am very serious about not loosing my child.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:16:58 -0500

Street address is One Monument Way, 2nd Floor; Portland, Maine 04101.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:15:59 -0500

There is overnight from Elsworth and you can do this if you want. I am serious about being a deal breaker.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:12:37 -0500

There is no overnight from Sorrento. It will not get to you until Monday. So I will provide it on Sunday. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:11 PMTo: [email protected]

Cc: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods Please tell your friend Bob(or any of them in Sorrento) to mail it overnight to Michael's office- it will be there before 5pm.


Igor, Mila’s passport is in Sorrento and I will not be able to access it prior to tomorrow. I will give it you on Sunday when I return Mila. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 1:54 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods Ok - please bring Mila's passport this Friday and hand it over to me before I transfer Mila over to you. It will be a deal breaker if you refuse this. Also, until the DHHS starts taking the child support from your pay check, you can do this either every week or every two weeks your self. You should start this Friday. I also would like to know timely which weekend will you be taking Mila to DC. I will provide you with all the information concerning school, doctors, health insurance, Mila's weekly schedule and activities asap. Feel free to communicate with her school as much as you want and need. I am ok with you picking Mila up earlier on Fridays from her school if you can be here earlier. In that case please let me know this timely (before Friday) so I can communicate this to the school. I will only authorize you to pick her up at school. In that case I would appreciate if you make sure that her bag with clothes and personal things comes back with her on Sundays.


5:00 at Whole Foods is fine. I’m not able to book an earlier flight at this late date. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 12:55 PM

To: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods Ok-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, but let me know before Friday.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:39:57 -0500

Igor, I will pick Mila up at Whole Foods at 5:00 pm Friday 4 Feb. On Sunday, 6 Feb, I will return her at 4:00 pm at Whole Foods.



From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:17 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods

Street address is One Monument Way, 2nd Floor; Portland, Maine 04101.

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Subject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:12:37 -0500

There is no overnight from Sorrento. It will not get to you until Monday. So I will provide it on Sunday. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:11 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods Please tell your friend Bob(or any of them in Sorrento) to mail it overnight to Michael's office- it will be there before 5pm.




5:00 at Whole Foods is fine. I’m not able to book an earlier flight at this late date. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 12:55 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods Ok-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, but let me know before Friday.





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There is no overnight from Sorrento. It will not get to you until Monday. So I will provide it on Sunday. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:11 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods Please tell your friend Bob(or any of them in Sorrento) to mail it overnight to Michael's office- it will be there before 5pm.


Igor, Mila’s passport is in Sorrento and I will not be able to access it prior to tomorrow. I will give it you on Sunday when I return Mila. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 1:54 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods Ok - please bring Mila's passport this Friday and hand it over to me before I transfer Mila over to you. It will be a deal breaker if you refuse this. Also, until the DHHS starts taking the child support from your pay check, you can do this either every week or every two weeks your self. You should start this Friday. I also would like to know timely which weekend will you be taking Mila to DC. I will provide you with all the information concerning school, doctors, health insurance, Mila's weekly schedule and activities asap. Feel free to communicate with her school as much as you want and need. I am ok with you picking Mila up earlier on Fridays from her school if you can be here earlier. In that case please let me know this timely (before Friday) so I can communicate this to the school. I will only authorize you to pick her up at school. In that case I would appreciate if

you make sure that her bag with clothes and personal things comes back with her on Sundays.








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Please tell your friend Bob(or any of them in Sorrento) to mail it overnight to Michael's office- it will be there before 5pm.




5:00 at Whole Foods is fine. I’m not able to book an earlier flight at this late date. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 12:55 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods

Ok-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, but let me know before Friday.






Ok - please bring Mila's passport this Friday and hand it over to me before I transfer Mila over to you. It will be a deal breaker if you refuse this.

Also, until the DHHS starts taking the child support from your pay check, you can do this either every week or every two weeks your self. You should start this Friday.

I also would like to know timely which weekend will you be taking Mila to DC.

I will provide you with all the information concerning school, doctors, health insurance, Mila's weekly schedule and activities asap. Feel free to communicate with her school as much as you want and need.

I am ok with you picking Mila up earlier on Fridays from her school if you can be here earlier. In that case please let me know this timely (before Friday) so I can communicate this to the school. I will only authorize you to pick her up at school. In that case I would appreciate if you make sure that her bag with clothes and personal things comes back with her on Sundays.

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Ok-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, but let me know before Friday.

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From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, February 01, 2011 5:56 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: Mila

Mila is with me - we are moving in our new place. Instead of calling her school you can call here. You have not done this even once. We called several times and we could not leave a message since your mailbox is full. Again, call so Mila can speak to you.

On the visitation issue - Michael was clear about the weekends, but you need to start communicating clearly. I asked you to do this instead of harassing me with your perceptions of the case. I wish not to discuss that with you until you move in a better direction. Mila needs a healthy mother in her life and not someone who manipulates her and emotionally abuses her each time. I am very serious about this and will take every legal action possible to prevent yo from doing this to her. Also, just recall what you did to us two years ago with Ken Altshuler when I asked for 3 more hours and you enforced the schedule that made it impossible for Mila and I to see each other more than 3 hours. Now you are in a similar situation, but I will not do what you did. You should be ashame for that and for all the harm you have been causing Mila. I don't feel sorry for my self, but I do know how Mila felt each time you pulled another disgusting thing to prevent her from having a father.

On the child support - I am very tempted to say to you " if you want to wait for that to be sort out by the court than wait for the schedule to be sort out as well" - but I will not. I want Mila to have her mom in her life. But you should be ashame taking that money, especially now that you have a good paying job. I hope it will make you feel great that you are receiving it while you are not supposed to. We will make it without it. It sure is embarrassing but enjoy while you can playing those games.

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Our new address : 541 Preble Street, SP Maine 04106. Phone still the same. Try to call at least once.

Also, stop bothering me about your job and how you have to do stuff to keep it. I am not impressed and I don't care at all. You tried to destroy me, Michael and many other people. I truly could not care less about your job. You choose what you do. Take the responsibility for it. I choose to care for Mila even if I have to clean the toilets again at Idexx or elsewhere. And I want her to have a mom and a dad. If you have anything to discuss about that - put it in writing.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: MilaDate: Tue, 1 Feb 2011 13:00:19 -0500

Igor, As you know, my current job now requires me to be in Washington during the work week. My presence there is simply critical if I am to continue to earn an income, which, as we both know, is important for Mila's welfare. Since there's also a court order, that you requested, now in place (pending the judge's decision) preventing Mila from leaving Maine, the visitation arrangement provided for in existing orders obviously won't work for now. Mila must be with you during the work week, while I can only be in Maine on weekends. Your attorney has suggested that you are open to a temporary modification, agreed to between us, while we're in this situation. Since you are now with Mila throughout the week, can we arrange that I will have my visitation time with her over weekends? This will still amount to less than the time provided for in the existing order. If you agree to this idea, we can confirm exact times and pickup arrangements. Please let me know. Regarding, child support since these issues are still being addressed by the court, I suggest we work this out once we know the current custody/visitation arrangement. Any child support issues can be balanced out then, if needed.



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From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, January 28, 2011 8:57 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: I'd like to know where Mila is

You need to start realizing that this is not the way to achieve anything positive for Mila. I am not interested in your conspiracy theories. Save them for the people around you.

It is up to you whether you are going to communicate clearly about Mila. I will do my part regardless of that. But keep in mind that it will only affect your schedule if you decide not to inform me what your plans are. I am not planning to jump at the last minute decisions you might make and cancel school, work and other appointments to meet your needs, while you could communicate things timely and clearly. In addition to the money you keep receiving while Mila is no longer in school in Elsworth, I do take care of all the cost here. It would be responsible to stop taking that money so we can use it for the actual costs of school and the rest here where Mila is.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: I'd like to know where Mila isDate: Thu, 27 Jan 2011 18:13:01 -0500

Igor, You know full well when you arranged to have the judge issue a ban preventing Mila from leaving Maine that you were ensuring Mila would be taken from me as you know I have to keep this new job, which is in Mila’s best interest. Let’s not pretend you are being nice and normal when you have just taken her from her mother and prevented her from relocating to DC with her mother, costing her the place she earned in one of the top private schools in the country. I don’t know when I’ll see Mila next—as I assume the judge will give you what he must have already promised you and Waxman, your demand for sole custody and to place me on supervised visits. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, January 27, 2011 6:02 PM

To: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: I'd like to know where Mila is Mila is with me. I have few days off. It would be nice if you let me know what your plans are, so I can tell her when she will see you or when you will call her. The school told me that you called. Mila is ok, but again, it would be nice if you communicate better and timely.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: I'd like to know where Mila isDate: Thu, 27 Jan 2011 10:05:55 -0500

Igor, School tells me you called and said Mila won’t be in today or tomorrow. I’d like to know where Mila is. Thank you.



From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, January 27, 2011 6:02 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: I'd like to know where Mila is

Mila is with me. I have few days off. It would be nice if you let me know what your plans are, so I can tell her when she will see you or when you will call her. The school told me that you called. Mila is ok, but again, it would be nice if you communicate better and timely.

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Igor, School tells me you called and said Mila won’t be in today or tomorrow. I’d like to know where Mila is. Thank you.



From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 12:37 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?

When are you going to be able to pick Mila up this week?

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 11:05:53 -0500

Also, since you took Mila out of school in Elsworth you are suppose to receive less child support in first place. That money is for Mila's school and we need that here.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 11:00:22 -0500

Only to you- it does matter who it is for sure.

If you are not able to meet tomorrow because you are traveling, you need to let me know this. Mila will stay here.

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If you plan to let Mila stay behind with others like in the past, I will not allow this. She will stay here.

I gave you a chance to communicate honestly, now I am copying Michael.

If you travel, Mila will go to school here. You need to pay the half of the money for that. Also, no one that is not authorize would be able to pick Mila from school.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:52:18 -0500

It shouldn’t matter who. Are you willing to turn Mila over or not? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:49 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday? Who?


Ok. A friend will be picking Mila up at 8:00 am in our normal spot in Brunswick. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:34 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday? Sure


In Brunswick? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:29 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?

8am?


What time? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:20 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday? Could you pick her up early Monday morning?

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:02:08 -0500

Igor, Since I brought Mila to you on Sat at 3:00, due to the snowstorm on Friday, you indicated you would like to keep her until Monday at 3:00 for the make-up time. Will you drop her off in the normal spot in Brunswick at 3:00 then on Monday? Or should I pick her up from her Montessori school in S. Portland at 3:00?



From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 11:06 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: FW: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?

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Also, since you took Mila out of school in Elsworth you are suppose to receive less child support in first place. That money is for Mila's school and we need that here.

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 11:00:22 -0500









Ok. A friend will be picking Mila up at 8:00 am in our normal spot in Brunswick. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:34 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?

Sure


In Brunswick? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:29 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday? 8am?







From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 11:00 AMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?









Ok. A friend will be picking Mila up at 8:00 am in our normal spot in Brunswick.

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From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:34 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday? Sure


In Brunswick? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:29 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday? 8am?




Igor, Since I brought Mila to you on Sat at 3:00, due to the snowstorm on Friday, you indicated you would like to keep her until Monday at 3:00 for the make-up time.

Will you drop her off in the normal spot in Brunswick at 3:00 then on Monday? Or should I pick her up from her Montessori school in S. Portland at 3:00?



From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:49 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?

Who?


Ok. A friend will be picking Mila up at 8:00 am in our normal spot in Brunswick. From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:34 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday? Sure


In Brunswick? From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:29 AMTo: [email protected]: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?

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8am?







From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, January 21, 2011 5:39 PMTo: [email protected]

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Cc: [email protected]: FW:

I received a text from you about meeting tomorrow in Portland in the Children's museum (with an additional story that I never bring Mila there). You are asking me what time - I would like to see Mila as early as possible, since I have not been able to pick her up today. What is the earliest you can bring her?Also, I am waiting for your response about Monday morning-

From: [email protected]: [email protected]: [email protected]: RE:Date: Fri, 21 Jan 2011 13:17:59 -0500

What time tomorrow morning? Also, can you pick her up on Monday morning?

From: [email protected]: [email protected]; [email protected]: Date: Fri, 21 Jan 2011 11:57:47 -0500

Igor, There is a huge winter storm in effect, as you know. I cannot drive Mila today and will need to drive her tomorrow when the storm is over. http://www.weather.com/weather/today/Sorrento+ME+USME0382



From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, January 16, 2011 12:29 PMTo: [email protected]: [email protected]:

Mila woke up stuffed, sneezing and was getting wormer this morning. I gave her one dose of Tylenol and she is doing well, happy, up and running, but still stuffed and occasionally sneezing. The sore lip she had when she came is gone.She is eating and drinking well.

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-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, August 19, 2011 3:09 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Emailing: 207.jpg, 209.jpg, 214.jpg, 215.jpg, 218.jpg, 219.jpg, 222.jpg, 223.jpg, 226.jpg, 227.jpg, IMG_0249.jpg, IMG_4919.jpg, IMG_5143.jpg, IMG_5149.jpg, IMG_5150.jpg, IMG_5172.jpg, IMG_5201.jpg, IMG_5231.jpg, IMG_5263.jpg, IMG_5265.jpg, IMG_5267.jpg, I

Mila got the presents you sent and the cards as well-she was very happy and played with them. She wanted to call and say thank you or you can call her as well. She is making an artwork for you and she will send it when it is done along with a card. We are checking the email every morning to see if you wrote anything to her- nothing so far, but if you do write as you said earlier in your e-mails that you would do, I will read it to her and she will write back herself. Also, you can set up video call and talk to her on either Skype or similar programs. We have the webcam ready for that.

She is doing great, gained lots of weight and strength, still takes afternoon naps almost every day and has lots of exercise every day. She loves the solar system and she learns about the planets. And she dances a lot-she is quite good actually. She would like to have acting lessons and dancing lessons starting next month. We also looked into the gymnastics lessons. In addition, she swims a bit of freestyle and does the dolphin kicks very well. She can snorkel too.

She is too young for the public kindergarten and we will have to look into other options. I will have to do this without your help as you have completely stopped paying any child support. At least not to us- your other child-Steve Pickering-gets Mila's child support part, as well as all the other crazy adventures you rather undertake than get yourself on a proper track.

It would be great when you stop all the crazy stuff you have been doing and try to concentrate on being a part of her life as she deserves. As I said before, and from everything I am learning every day about all your activities to do just the opposite, and cause as much as possible damage

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as you can to our lives, I doubt you will ever really want to give Mila what she needs.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, June 02, 2011 8:18 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:

I will take care of Mila and all her needs regardless of whether you will or not fulfill your obligations.

You are obligated to pay child support and if you want to modify that, you need to serve Michael with the court papers-he will accept service. You need to file this Motion otherwise you need to pay the amount specified in the order.

You seem to have enough money for private investigators, for all kinds of unnecessary medical testing and examinations of Mila and for airfares and vacations. I do not buy your story for a moment – you live with your ex, he is supporting you, you have two houses here in Maine and you chose to live in DC. You can fool other people with your story-you were claiming you did not work last year well, and then on the tax returns you had plenty of earned income. You can rent your houses as in the past and find any kind of job to earn money and take responsibility for Mila. You choose not to and you rather spend your time convincing people that I drug her and abuse her.

In the mean time life goes further, Mila is growing up and is capable to fully understand what your role is in her life. Good luck selling your stories and good luck with your adventures. I am glad that the DHHS knows where you are, since they will be handling the child support situation from now on. As I said earlier, we can proceed without serving you at your ex-husband address. You can play seek and hide with others.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, June 01, 2011 4:56 PMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

Igor,

I can assure you DHHS knows exactly where I am. If they need to reach me, I assume they will.

The $1,400 per month child support, as you know, was based on a $105,000 salary that hasn’t since February and the court has not yet altered that child support. I am living by the grace of friends. I had to make a choice to pay child support or

my mortgage. I choose child support, at $500 per month for April and May. For June and forward, until I am employed again, I will probably not be able to send more than $100 or so but I will keep sending what I can, for Mila’s sake.

Re: the medical bills. You wanted Mila to be on your insurance. I assume she is covered and you will submit these bills to your insurance.

The only medical exam Mila received in DC was the ER visit for vomiting.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, June 01, 2011 8:18 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]:

I received the $1000 check you sent and will cash it, even though this is only covering 3 weeks of the 10 you are behind on the child support. At least I can pay some of the school bills for Mila.

I also received the two bills from the ER and GWU Hospital in DC where you have taken Mila while you kept her there at your ex-husband’s place for 3 weeks. The first $250 is mine this year, the rest is yours. This check of $1000 will cover the medical bills and that means that you still have to pay the 10 weeks you are behind and obviously the coming months in addition. Just because you wrote that the checks is covering April and May child support doesn’t mean that this is the reality. It will cover the medical bills and perhaps a week of the 10 that you are behind.

You have made sure that the address on those bills is not recognizable, in order to prevent me from knowing that you actually live at your ex-husband’s place and prevent being served with legal papers as well as making it more difficult for the DHHS to track you and ask you to pay child support. Very consistent with all your previous actions.

Mila tried to call you on Monday and left a message for your birthday and the request to call her back. You never did, just as you have never done this before. The number is still the same.

Mila is ok, her vaccine irritation on one leg is almost gone. We are spending lots of time on the beach, she is learning surfing. She can swim around without floating devices already for few months and she is enjoying the waves. It doesn’t mean that she can be left alone in the water or anything like that. She is water safe and knows how to manage herself in a pool with me next to her. She is confident and has lots of fun, but in water she needs constant supervision.

Mila is healthy and happy. She mentioned that she was again examined in her private parts while in DC – I will make sure to get the documents and include to the rest of the documents about similar things you have forced her to undergo here in Maine many many times. She truly hates that she has to go through any of those obsessive and abusive schemes of yours. Needless to say that I am disgusted and will make sure that this never happens again to her.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, June 01, 2011 8:18 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]:

I received the $1000 check you sent and will cash it, even though this is only covering 3 weeks of the 10 you are behind on the child support. At least I can pay some of the school bills for Mila.

I also received the two bills from the ER and GWU Hospital in DC where you have taken Mila while you kept her there at your ex-husband’s place for 3 weeks. The first $250 is mine this year, the rest is yours. This check of $1000 will cover the medical bills and that means that you still have to pay the 10 weeks you are behind and obviously the coming months in addition. Just because you wrote that the checks is covering April and May child support doesn’t mean that this is the reality. It will cover the medical bills and perhaps a week of the 10 that you are behind.

You have made sure that the address on those bills is not recognizable, in order to prevent me from knowing that you actually live at your ex-husband’s place and prevent being served with legal papers as well as making it more difficult for the DHHS to track you and ask you to pay child support. Very consistent with all your previous actions.

Mila tried to call you on Monday and left a message for your birthday and the request to call her back. You never did, just as you have never done this before. The number is still the same.

Mila is ok, her vaccine irritation on one leg is almost gone. We are spending lots of time on the beach, she is learning surfing. She can swim around without floating devices already for few months and she is enjoying the waves. It doesn’t mean that she can be left alone in the water or anything like that. She is water safe and knows how to manage herself in a pool with me next to her. She is confident and has lots of fun, but in water she needs constant supervision.

Mila is healthy and happy. She mentioned that she was again examined in her private parts while in DC – I will make sure to get the documents and include to the rest of the documents about similar things you have forced her to undergo here in Maine many many times. She truly hates that she has to go through any of those obsessive and abusive schemes of yours. Needless to say that I am disgusted and will make sure that this never happens again to her.

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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 25, 2011 11:14 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

When the judge orders it – Are you going to file the papers? I am urging you to do it and/or to accept service so we get this resolved asap.

Under this conditions ( the constant emotional abuse from your side and the repeated false accusations, among the other problems created by you recently again) and after the last time having to go through the FBI to get Mila back home after 3 weeks with you in a in an disclosed location(which happen to be your ex-husband home), I am exercising my right as the PR parent to protect my child from more harassment and emotional abuse. I am willing to do it after a judge orders it based on what we both have to share with him, but I am not taking any risks when it comes to Mila’s well being any longer.

File your papers or accept service (and stop blocking the legal process) so we can get this done asap. It is you that is obstructing the process, not me.

Mila is doing well, she will have her vaccine today. I have her medical records and will share this with her doctor before proceeding. I am not sure if it the DtaP or the IPV that was scheduled. I will let you know what the schedule would be and everything else that is relevant. She eats well, she is happy and healthy. You can call her any time, but it is you that chooses not to.

I have mentioned that she has shared many times that you ( and your ex husband Patrick and friends in Sorrento) are continuously harassing her with all the negative things about me and she really wants you to stop. I made a mistake last time I allowed you to have her and hoped you will be able to stop yourself from all of that emotional abuse and harassment she has to constantly go through, but you obviously have a different goal. You took her outside of Maine and kept her for 3 weeks until the FBI was contacted in addition to all of that and to filing again false abuse claims.I am aware about you and dr. Ricci’s communication and will follow up with him on that as well. I will hold all of the ER visits and unnecessary tests and examinations you put Mila trough obsessively in the last several years. This is not how my child is going to grow up, I am assuring you about this.

You need professional help if you want to be a good parent to Mila. I am no longer accepting any of your destructive and negative behavior towards Mila.

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File the papers or accept service. If you block my attorney and obstruct the legal process, do not write to me at all. Get an attorney and let them correspond with Michael. He is my attorney.

I will keep you up to date about Mila.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 25, 2011 10:49 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor,

When will I see Mila?


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 3:25 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE: Court Orders

I can’t verify that this is Mila’s record-it could belong to anyone.

If you continue blocking my attorney and obstruct the legal process and also continue refusing to accept service, you will make it impossible for us to move forward and resolve anything-however, we will move forward without your cooperation. I urge you to rethink what you are doing.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 3:21 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'Subject: RE: Court Orders

Igor,

As I have said, if you continue to forward Mr. Waxman’s emails to me I will be forced to block your emails too. This is the last time I will state this. If Mr. Waxman feels he needs to reach me he can send a letter to my PO Box 100 Sorrento Maine 04667.

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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:59 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: FW: Court Orders

From: Mjwaxy [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 1:42 PMTo: [email protected]: Malenko, Igor; [email protected]: Court Orders

Dr. Handrahan: I am in receipt of your email below. You seem to have difficulty understanding Igor's position, so I thought I would step in and add my two cents. Igor is the Primary Residential parent AND has ultimate decision-making authority with regard to issues involving Mila's well-being if the two of you cannot reach agreement. He is exercising that authority to deny you any unsupervised visitation at all. He is taking this step because you have doggedly demonstrated that you have no capacity to understand or implement decisions which are in Mila's best interest. Your repeated false claims of abuse, your repeated attempts to poison Mila to believe that Igor is abusing her, and your continuously bringing Mila in to the hospital and to medical providers for examinations and drug testing (including taking and freezing urine samples for later testing), illustrate clearly that in the guise of loving and protecting your child, you are actually abusing her emotionally and otherwise. Mila is not safe in your care at this point. Accordingly, Igor will refuse you ANY unsupervised time with Mila. If you would like to have supervised time with Mila, then Igor will be happy to arrange it, at your expense, at Connections for Kids. If you desire unsupervised time with your child, then either accept service of process of our Motions, or file one

of your own, and I shall be happy to accept service of process. You can then explain yourself to Judge Moskowitz. You only seem to cite and respect the Court's Orders when you are demanding something. You recently took your daughter to Washington and kept her there, in direct violation of the Court Orders. Please obtain an attorney. Michael J. Waxman, Esq.One Monument Way, 2nd FloorP.O. Box 375Portland, Maine 04112-0375(207) 772-9558 phone(207) 772-9567 faxwww.waxmanlaw.us

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 12:04 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'Subject: RE:

Igor, There is currently a court-ordered schedule in place. Mila is to be with her mother every weekend but one. She has upcoming summer vacation with me. Are you telling me you have made a decision to ignore this court ordered schedule? From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:12 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE: You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending! Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared or anything changed. Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see what the schedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we can talk about vacations and other things. You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for over two months now-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind. You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceed transparently to resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that I will put all of this aside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that! Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things you have been forcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends. She loves you but you




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need to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not going to make all of that disappear or make it acceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough! We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receive her first vaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and no protection to any of the infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with you frequently taking her on an airplane and with her being at school. I am not taking any risks when it comes to her health and so far you were successful in pushing this very important issue away. Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too. Either get on board and be the parent she needs or play your games elsewhere. If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home to talk to her. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay child support instead of private investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretending everything is ok. You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will do anything for her to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t mean we will follow you or let you pull us with you. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor, I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week of August. What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday? I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for my weekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again? =


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 3:09 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: FW: Mila's yellow book

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Which part of the message bellow you do not understand? – it is on your side that the file is not attached properly – I am not sure what the “other people” you are referring to have been opening, but they sure did not open this file you are “sending” to me.

And if you are sending it at all, it would be the first time ever I have seen this file about Mila.

From: Malenko, Igor Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:50 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: '[email protected]'Subject: FW: Mila's yellow book

From: Malenko, Igor Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:47 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: '[email protected]'Subject: RE: Mila's yellow book

It is not opening- I am familiar with the rest. The file is not recognizable or is corrupted. Please re-send.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:46 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'Subject: RE: Mila's yellow book

Igor,


It is a pdf. Easy to open.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:36 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE: Mila's yellow book

I can’t open this file -

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:25 PMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: Mila's yellow book

Igor,

I’ve given this to you before but here it is again.




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Just send the file that is not corrupt – I do not care about other people. You are sending it to me. I have sent you the proof that I can’t open. I have no time to deal with your games. Either send it or ask someone else to send it if you can’t attach the file appropriately.

I have never seen Mila’s yellow book! You have never shared that with me-and if anything like that happen to Mila it will be your responsibility-completely. As it is not being vaccinated at all.


Igor,

Other people can open. It is just a simple PDF file.

Why don’t you ask computer support at IDEXX if you are having a problem? Maybe your system is blocked?

Mila has had 3 vaccines of tentus. Very important for you to open the file so you can be sure we keep track. The last thing Mila needs is an overdose.



It is not opening- I am familiar with the rest. The file is not recognizable or is corrupted. Please re-send.


Igor,


It is a pdf. Easy to open.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:36 PM

To: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE: Mila's yellow book

I can’t open this file -

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:25 PMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: Mila's yellow book

Igor,

I’ve given this to you before but here it is again.



From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:59 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: FW: Court Orders

From: Mjwaxy [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 1:42 PMTo: [email protected]: Malenko, Igor; [email protected]: Court Orders

Dr. Handrahan: I am in receipt of your email below. You seem to have difficulty understanding Igor's position, so I thought I would step in and add my two cents. Igor is the Primary Residential parent AND has ultimate decision-making authority with regard to issues involving Mila's well-being if the two of you cannot reach agreement. He is exercising that authority to deny you any unsupervised visitation at all. He is taking this step because you have doggedly demonstrated that you have no capacity to understand or implement decisions which are in Mila's best interest. Your repeated false claims of abuse, your repeated attempts to poison Mila to believe that Igor

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is abusing her, and your continuously bringing Mila in to the hospital and to medical providers for examinations and drug testing (including taking and freezing urine samples for later testing), illustrate clearly that in the guise of loving and protecting your child, you are actually abusing her emotionally and otherwise. Mila is not safe in your care at this point. Accordingly, Igor will refuse you ANY unsupervised time with Mila. If you would like to have supervised time with Mila, then Igor will be happy to arrange it, at your expense, at Connections for Kids. If you desire unsupervised time with your child, then either accept service of process of our Motions, or file one of your own, and I shall be happy to accept service of process. You can then explain yourself to Judge Moskowitz. You only seem to cite and respect the Court's Orders when you are demanding something. You recently took your daughter to Washington and kept her there, in direct violation of the Court Orders. Please obtain an attorney. Michael J. Waxman, Esq.One Monument Way, 2nd FloorP.O. Box 375Portland, Maine 04112-0375(207) 772-9558 phone(207) 772-9567 faxwww.waxmanlaw.us

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 12:04 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'Subject: RE:

Igor, There is currently a court-ordered schedule in place. Mila is to be with her mother every weekend but one. She has upcoming summer vacation with me. Are you telling me you have made a decision to ignore this court ordered schedule? From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:12 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE: You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending! Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared or anything changed. Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see what the schedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we can talk about vacations and other things. You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for over two months now-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind.





You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceed transparently to resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that I will put all of this aside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that! Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things you have been forcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends. She loves you but you need to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not going to make all of that disappear or make it acceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough! We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receive her first vaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and no protection to any of the infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with you frequently taking her on an airplane and with her being at school. I am not taking any risks when it comes to her health and so far you were successful in pushing this very important issue away. Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too. Either get on board and be the parent she needs or play your games elsewhere. If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home to talk to her. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay child support instead of private investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretending everything is ok. You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will do anything for her to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t mean we will follow you or let you pull us with you. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor, I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week of August. What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday? I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for my weekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again? =


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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 10:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: FW: FW:

From: Kathy Rogers [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 10:08 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: Re: FW:

Hi Igor: This is not correct. We are open all summer, no weeks closed. This must be on our web page that I have not been able to update. Thanks, Kathy

On Tue, May 24, 2011 at 8:39 AM, Malenko, Igor <[email protected]> wrote:

Hi Kathy,

I hope all is well with you and everyone at school – is it correct what Lori is stating bellow that the school will be closed this summer?

Thank you,

Igor

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor,

I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week of August. What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday?



I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for my weekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again?

-- //// Kathy Rogers// North Atlantic Montessori School//


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:25 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

You have not been clear about what she has and has not and have refused to consider any of them unless it was suitable for you to take her abroad !

The medical records show no DtaP – send me the records today! No e-mails, but the actual records!

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:22 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'Subject: RE:

Igor,

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Are you refusing to allow Mila to be picked up on Friday to spend the weekend with me?

BTW, she has had tenus, dtap, as you are aware. I sent you emails about these shots when we received them at Ellsworth hospital.


You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending!

Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared or anything changed.

Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see what the schedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we can talk about vacations and other things.

You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for over two months now-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind.

You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceed transparently to resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that I will put all of this aside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that!

Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things you have been forcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends. She loves you but you need to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not going to make all of that disappear or make it acceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough!

We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receive her first vaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and no protection to any of the infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with you frequently taking her on an airplane and with her being at school. I am not taking any risks when it comes to her health and so far you were successful in pushing this very important issue away. Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too. Either get on board and be the parent she needs or play your games elsewhere.

If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home to talk to her. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay child support instead of private investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretending everything is ok.

You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will do anything for her to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t mean we will follow you or let you pull us with you.


Igor,





You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending!

Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared or anything changed.

Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see what the schedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we can talk about vacations and other things.

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You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for over two months now-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind.

You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceed transparently to resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that I will put all of this aside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that!

Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things you have been forcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends. She loves you but you need to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not going to make all of that disappear or make it acceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough!

We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receive her first vaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and no protection to any of the infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with you frequently taking her on an airplane and with her being at school. I am not taking any risks when it comes to her health and so far you were successful in pushing this very important issue away. Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too. Either get on board and be the parent she needs or play your games elsewhere.

If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home to talk to her. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay child support instead of private investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretending everything is ok.

You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will do anything for her to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t mean we will follow you or let you pull us with you.


Igor,






If you want to proceed resolving what you have created, you need to accept service and stop hiding around avoiding to get served. Eventually we can proceed without you accepting it anyway. Or you can file papers in court yourself. I have explained my position in my e-mail last week and Michael has done this as well. Michael will accept service of anything you and your ex-husband Patrick are planning to file.

Mila has again mentioned several times about your continuing to disparage me, telling her that I am a “bad father” and a “bad person” and scaring her by telling her that “you will put me in jail” and also she mentioned that your ex-husband Patrick was saying this as well. You also keep trying to force her to say that I have abused her sexually or otherwise or acted inappropriately in any way. I look forward in seeing you both in court and hearing you explain your scams. If any of you decides to show up at Mila’s school today or tomorrow, you will get served. If you decide to take Mila away again without my permission, I will place an Amber alert and have you arrested.




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Igor,




From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 2:45 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: summer vacation schedule

You are absolutely correct about your assumption that I would need you to follow the one month notification period concerning any vacations with Mila according the court order you are citing. That is when a vacation would be a possibility, meaning after the court here in Maine decides whether or not you would be allowed to spend any time with Mila unsupervised in the future.

That same court order is the one you violated several times in the past weeks and that same order obligates you to pay child support you are refusing to pay for almost two months now.

You seem to have your priorities wrong and seem to have funds to do many things and none of them includes paying child support that pays for Mila’s school.

That same court order gave me the PR status based on your refusal and inability to co-parent and it also pointed out that I have the ultimate decision authority when we cannot agree on the important and essential issues concerning Mila and her well being.

You don't seem to understand the consequences of your recent decisions. You have made false claims of abuse to DHHS. You have coached our daughter to say false, bad things about her papa. You have brought our child into the Maine Coast Memorial Hospital and other medical

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providers, repeatedly, in order to obtain unnecessary examinations and drug tests. You have extracted and frozen Mila's urine for future drug tests and apparently kept her excrements around for the same purpose.

You have publicly accused me of being a methamphetamine user and drug addict.

You have take Mila across state lines and refused to return her, in violation of the Court Orders and state and federal law. You kept her on an undisclosed location, without allowing us to have any contact throughout all the time you kept Mila with you and violated the court order that gives you 3 weekends per month (one in two months in DC if you live there!). You kept her without any approval from my side or prior knowledge since April the 22nd and returned her yesterday (drop her off at her school without any notice to me) after I contacted the FBI.

You have refused to accept service of process and you have played a foolish game, probably with the assistance of Pickering and your ex-husband Patrick. I am not ever relinquishing our daughter to you again without a Court Order telling me to do so. I am the PR parent and I have ultimate decision making authority. I believe that every day Mila is with you, she is suffering emotional abuse as well as physical abuse, in that she is being prodded and probed and tested for conditions that do not exist. If you want to see Mila again, you will have to come to the Maine courts and explain yourself to Judge Moskowitz.




Igor,

Per the order, I need to notify you of my two, two week periods with Mila during the summer. I am doing so now.

Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting 10 June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to stay with me again until Sunday July 24th.

If you agree, I would prefer to do the first two week period from Friday 20 May until Sunday 5 June but I assume that you will make me provide the court ordered one month notification period and will not allow this.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 3:19 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:

One more thing – if it appears that you are owed time after we are able to properly address the whole issue, I will have no problem with that. Right now, I believe you are wrong that you are owed any time. Moreover, you have failed to reason and you made your decisions yourself or with help from others, who I do not believe are giving you appropriate advice. But it your responsibility at the end. You can’t keep doing this.

From: Malenko, Igor Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 3:09 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: 'Mjwaxy'Subject: RE:

I do not- your calculations are wrong and I have no intent of discussing this over e-mail under these circumstances any longer. You seem to think that whatever you decide or enters your mind is the order of the day. There is no “make-up” time and there is no “pre-school vacation”, just because you decide to make it appear in the court order. You did what you did and you will have to take the responsibility for this. I am expecting this to be addressed in court, since there is no other way of dealing with you. You missed two weekends in April, no 24 days, and you missed them because you filled false abuse accusations again. It was Mila that was reluctant of having to hear more of that and I have obligations to protect her from those things. She has expressed herself clearly about that on several different occasions. You need to stop causing problems and blaming others for them. You can’t decide unilaterally that there is April vacation and that you are owed that time. It does not work that way.

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You have disturbed Mila’s life and created huge problems as usual. I am use to it, but frankly I reached my limit about trying to make you understand that this is only going to affect you negatively and most importantly Mila’s life and future. You seem to be not able to realize that your actions do have consequences and that this game you are playing with other people personal and professional lives is just no longer acceptable. Mila’s school needs to be paid (you had also fail to pay the JCA in the past), you are refusing to contribute anything to her school costs for almost two months now. Mila has missed several ballet lessons and would miss her final performance tomorrow. She looked forward to this, but somehow everything she has or does here, she is not able to enjoy without having to go through all this terrible things you are putting us trough over and over again. She loves you, but you are not able to understand what she truly needs from you. You got to realize this and spend your time on better things.

If you bring Mila back home in Maine tomorrow, it will be a good decision. I will let her school know this, although as I said they need to get paid and we have not received any money from you. If you do not bring Mila back I will start a criminal case today and we will have to go through any possible legal venue to make you understand that Mila needs to be back home here in Maine. I hope you will make the right choice.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 2:39 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor,

I am stunned you would call the FBI over my spending my make-up time with Mila in DC.

Since you have created such a fuss I have tickets back to Maine and will return Mila tomorrow to her school.

You still owe me 4 days of make-up time. When will I be able to use this time? I would like to use it next week and pick her up next Tuesday from school. Do you agree?


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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, April 28, 2011 11:56 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

I am glad she is better-I will try calling her later today.

Please keep me posted on how she is doing.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, April 28, 2011 11:34 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

Mila got either a stomach bug or ate bad watermelon. She is fine now but sleeping. We were up all night and went to ER at 5:00 am to get the anti-vomiting medication which stopped her dry heaves. She is still a bit warm—but seems to be fine.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, April 28, 2011 11:25 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:

I waited to talk to Mila yesterday, but there was no call. I will try again in a while.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, April 27, 2011 3:25 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'Igor Malenko'Subject: RE:

Mila is fine and napping. She is thrilled to be in DC and enjoy all that DC has to offer like the zoo and many playgrounds. We will try to call you later.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, April 27, 2011 12:34 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:

I called to talk to Mila after 11am this morning and no response. I left message and will try this afternoon again.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 8:53 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: Mjwaxy; [email protected]: FW: Friday

It sounds to me like you are not planning to return Mila on Sunday – I am hoping that is not the case, just as I am hoping that you will not continue emotionally abusing her.

I am willing to give you a chance to show that you are willing to understand what Mila needs and what she absolutely does not need in her life. It is up to you which way you are going to take this.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 7:45 AMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE: Friday

Igor,

Please tell me the DHHS person and police officer you are working with so I can assure them myself that I have only Mila’s best intentions and always have.

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 6:55 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Friday




The DHHS is aware of the situation and so is the police. You have to stop using Mila for your selfish goals - she truly is unhappy about this and it is absolutely unacceptable. You got to

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understand this or you will alienate her and hurt her again and again. She needs both her parents in her life but only in a healthy way.



Igor,




From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, April 14, 2011 2:48 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]; [email protected]: RE: picking up Mila on Friday for her weekend visit

Lori,

The problem is that Mila is refusing to go to you until and unless you stop harassing her with everything you have been asking her to say about me and everything you have been telling her about me that is not true and it is disgustingly inappropriate. She is very frustrated about this and it is child abuse. I would like her to see her mom and I have always been very accommodating but I cannot accept this any longer-especially when our child is asking me to step up.

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I am not willing to play experiments with Mila’s feelings and I will do what she is asking me and that is to stay here. I have been warning you and asking you to stop for months now-you refuse to even consider this. Avoiding to respond all that time and now again falsely accusing me of hitting Mila is a sign that you have no intentions to stop using Mila for your sick, selfish goals. I will not permit you to use Mila for this and I will protect her from yours and your friends’ abuse anyway I can do this legally.

Are you willing to promise not to say anything bad about me to Mila and ask her to say things that never happened to please you? Are you willing to stop forcing her to say things that are false and wrong? It is hurting her and disturbing her to a point she refuses to stay with you if you do this – this is what you have accomplished so far. If you are able to promise this in writing, I will ask her this afternoon and let you know what she says. This is not a game to me-you crossed the line about what is acceptable long long time ago. But, for Mila’s sake I have tried-now she is fed up herself and I will do everything I need to, to protect her.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, April 14, 2011 8:14 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'Subject: picking up Mila on Friday for her weekend visit

Igor,

I can plan to pick Mila up sometime during the morning, before noon, from school. I’ll return her Sunday at the bakery at 7:00 pm.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, April 11, 2011 9:27 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again

I absolutely do not agree for any make-up time at this point. I have sent a clear e-mail and have no plans on engaging further in discussion. You will be served papers either today or tomorrow. I gave them both addresses- S.P. and Sorrento. I am also eagerly waiting for the DHHS to finish this investigation. If you attempt to take Mila unauthorized there will be police

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involvement and certainly any possible legal step to prevent you from doing to Mila all the disgusting abusive things. I am done waiting for you to stop abusing her and using her for your ludicrous goals.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, April 11, 2011 9:21 AMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again

Igor,

Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again. Do you agree for my make-up time to start this Tuesday.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 1:31 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; 'Malenko, Igor'Subject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again

You hit Mila in the head with a pan and there is a child protection investigation and you are telling me you are “not going to permit me” to see Mila except on supervised visits?

When is my make-up time for the past 2 missed weekends scheduled? I would like that to take place this week. Shall I pick her up Tuesday at 7:00 am and return her on Sunday at 7:00pm? This would make up the lost weekend.

Please let me know. Please also let me know where Mila is and who is living with Mila now.

Thank you.

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 8:26 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again

Mila is well and she is with me - she is actually glad that she does not need to hear all the false and disgusting things you ask her and force her to say each time she is with you. She is fed up and refuses to stay with you unless you promise to stop and abandon this emotional abuse immediately - I told you I will not accept you doing this to our child and I have an obligation to protect her from this ongoing horror, especially now that she is asking me her self. I am very sad that you can't realize what you are causing her and I am very upset that you do not want to abandon your quest to destroy me and use Mila for this terribly selfish goal.

As soon as you are able and willing to put Mila's interests ahead of your own selfish desires, I will happily agree to permit you to enjoy visitation. Until you stop trying to brainwash Mila and destroy me, I will not permit you to see Mila unsupervised. You are harming her tremendously and I am glad she decided her self that it is enough of that. She loves you and would like to have her mom in her life but she says that you have to stop forcing her to say things that are not true and bad about me like me doing anything bad to her, talking bad about her grandparents and about her touching my private parts. Enough is enough.

Mila seems anxious and fearful to be away from me even when I leave the room, which is directly caused by these claims by you and your friends that you will "get rid of me" and that " you will put me in jail". She is also more emotional in the last few weeks and she ask me to talk to you and ask you to promised to stop saying to her that she " touches my private parts" , "that I am hitting her..." , and the other " bad things about papa constantly" . This is child abuse and I am not allowing this to take place any longer- not even one more time. The glass is full and this is absolutely unacceptable and wrong. How can you say you love Mila and go on using her and abusing her for your pathetic and selfish goal to harm me? This only shows that you are really unfit to be a parent.Do you rather lose your child than make honest attempt to go forward and have Mila enjoy normal life and childhood? You have to stop emotionally abusing her immediately!




From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, April 04, 2011 9:44 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE: Are you refusing to provide the full name of the person who will now be living full-time with Mila?

Please find something else to keep you busy - if my friend comes to visit and ends up staying with us, I will let you know anything that is necessary for you to know. This unlike your attempts to provide any transparency about Mila's whereabouts every single weekend.

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For now there is nothing more you need to know. I would spend my time on other things if I were you - we still have not received the child support check for last week. If you keep engaging in hiring private investigators and making things more acrimonious over and over again, I will probably have to refuse more things in the future. I am not going to allow you to harass my friends. Stay away from our house and stop following us and interrupt on our time. No notes on the doors either. If you ignore this I will go to the police.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, April 04, 2011 8:18 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: Are you refusing to provide the full name of the person who will now be living full-time with Mila?

Igor,

Are you refusing to provide the full name of the person who will now be living full-time with Mila?

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, April 03, 2011 10:03 PMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: Re: Mila tonight

Following us here in the street, after couple of messages on the phone and then living a note on my front door is inappropriate and honestly a bit creepy - don't do this again please. Interrupting and trespassing, following are not normal things. Your obsession with my friend is also a bit unhealthy. You do not need to have her biography and harass her or anyone around me and Mila. When you realize that it is you that need to be transparent about issues directly connected to Mila, then you might demand information like that the way you are doing.On Apr 3, 201hat 3:10 PM, "Lori Handrahan"<[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

Then I have Mila this coming weekend? Which is the weekend, per the schedule, she is with you? I’d like to pick Mila at 4:00 on Thursday from school and return her Sunday at 3:00 pm.


Please let me know the full name of your childhood friend who will now be living with Mila and when she is scheduled to move in with Mila.

Thank you.

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Saturday, April 02, 2011 8:56 AMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: Re: Mila tonight

We already rearranged everything like ballet tickets etc. Mila is looking forward to this and we already switched weekends, made new plans and closed the discussion yesterday- no more last min. changes again, thank you-


Igor,

I will be in S. Portland tonight and would like to have Mila with me.

I can pick her up at 4:00 at the bakery and return her at 2:00 on Sunday at the bakery.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 10:20 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:

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The answer is - no. I offered you my weekend instead. I assume you are now accepting the official weather report and not the one you provided earlier (that suits your reality)- If you are incapable of understanding why it is very important to communicate timely and clearly about everything concerning Mila, especially the "pick an drop off times" you will keep doing this over and over again. But, I will not. It is up to you. It is Mila that benefits from knowing when her mother is going to pick her up. She likes to know this and I like to be able to provide her correct answer. She will expect to be picked up at a certain time. The school too-otherwise they will call me and I will count on picking her up because you might not show up (and as usual not communicate this). I don't care that it is easier for you not to communicate clearly and be consistent with the agreements. I care about Mila. If she stays beyond lunch or nap time, we need to know this and plan. The school prefers to know this too. Anyone but you. But, this is not about you. Occasionally, people can change schedules and are late, etc. But if you can't commit to make steady arrangements, accept the consequenties. We will not leave the way you do. Mila needs stability and consistency. I prefer it too. If you were living in Maine as you stated falsely in your letter to the court, you would not need to create a problem every Friday. I never changed my pick up times, I was there every time when I was supposed to pick my child up. Couple of times even waited for nothing. You can have my weekend - this one is going to very messy and we will avoid dragging Mila trough unsafe situations. Please communicate timely and clearly from now on, so we can avoid unnecessary conflicts.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 10:04 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

Right—as I said—how about I pick her up today?


It is very important to know when exactly you are picking Mila and also dropping her off. I have explained several times why (go back and re-read the e-mails) - and I insist you make sure you communicate this properly and timely- If you don't I will not wait for your last minute arrangements. We have a life to organize and if you feel that paying games is what we like to do, you are wrong. If you have a difficult travel schedule then I suggest you put that in the letter to the court in addition to thee misstatements (lies) about you living here in Maine.

For tomorrow - the weather is going to be bad, very bad as of now. As of now, Mila will not travel anywhere and stay here with me. I already arranged this at work and the next time you will make a priority to respond to my e-mail about Mila and her well being or I will have to make a decisions without you. Just like for this weekend. I offered you my weekend instead.


Igor,

I will be picking Mila up at 9:00 am tomorrow at school.

You have forced me to drive through hundreds of snow-storms, demanded I drive in a full-blown gale and now you are suddenly concerned?

The snow tomorrow won’t start until late afternoon. It will be light. I have been forced, by you refusing to change the schedule, to drive in far, far worse.

In general, I would like to end all this conflict around Friday pick-ups. You are at work all day and Mila is in school all day. I am juggling a difficult travel schedule. It should not a bit of difference to anyone when I pick Mila from school on Friday.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 8:59 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:

It looks like tomorrow will be very messy after all- I do not want you to drive Mila anywhere in the middle of the storm. I will take a day off and stay home this weekend with Mila. You can have the next weekend instead. It is better and safer. I have waited for your response, but I have to make decisions and arrange things at work. I can't do this at the last moment all the time.

From: Malenko, Igor Sent: Tuesday, March 29, 2011 9:46 AMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: '[email protected]'Subject:

This Friday could be very messy on the road in Maine-there is a big snow storm predicted, heavy wet snow mostly. If you plan to pick Mila up, do this early in the morning in order to avoid driving in bad conditions. I will not be ok with you driving in the middle of the storm and in that case we can switch weekends and Mila can be safe. In general, you should strive to pick Mila up early on Fridays rather than late and then ask for additional day on Sundays. You can organize your flights from DC to do this early and enjoy the time with Mila. Otherwise, she is driving late to Sorrento and you are loosing your whole day. It would be easier if you locate closer (just as you are stating in your Motion to modify that you already have, which is not true obviously) and make it easier for Mila (and your self) to enjoy your time. If you have a job in DC you need to be transparent about this. If you don't, I am not sure why you are staying there, far away from Mila, paying for plane tickets, renting cars, etc. every week, while you state that you do not have a job and asking the court to lower child support. If you want things to move forward and make it easier on Mila you need to seriously start making improvements. False statements would not get you there. Also, you have not responded about the week of child support you are behind. You send checks that cover 8 weeks. This period(Feb.1st-March 31st) has 9 weeks. I am asking you to send the checks weekly instead of one time whenever you wish. Lastly-Mila mentioned again the same about your friend Bob making the same comments about "putting me in jail" and "getting rid of me". I urge you to stop doing this immediately as I have done before. I will consider refusing you visitations if this keeps going on and take your friend to court. He can explain it there himself.



It is very important to know when exactly you are picking Mila and also dropping her off. I have explained several times why (go back and re-read the e-mails) - and I insist you make sure you communicate this properly and timely- If you don't I will not wait for your last minute arrangements. We have a life to organize and if you feel that paying games is what we like to do, you are wrong. If you have a difficult travel schedule then I suggest you put that in the letter to the court in addition to thee misstatements (lies) about you living here in Maine. For tomorrow - the weather is going to be bad, very bad as of now. As of now, Mila will not travel anywhere and stay here with me. I already arranged this at work and the next time you will make a priority to respond to my e-mail about Mila and her well being or I will have to make a decisions without you. Just like for this weekend. I offered you my weekend instead.

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Igor,

I will be picking Mila up at 9:00 am tomorrow at school.

You have forced me to drive through hundreds of snow-storms, demanded I drive in a full-blown gale and now you are suddenly concerned?

The snow tomorrow won’t start until late afternoon. It will be light. I have been forced, by you refusing to change the schedule, to drive in far, far worse.

In general, I would like to end all this conflict around Friday pick-ups. You are at work all day and Mila is in school all day. I am juggling a difficult travel schedule. It should not a bit of difference to anyone when I pick Mila from school on Friday.




This Friday could be very messy on the road in Maine-there is a big snow storm predicted, heavy wet snow mostly. If you plan to pick Mila up, do this early in the morning in order to avoid driving in bad conditions. I will not be ok with you driving in the middle of the storm and in that case we can switch weekends and Mila can be safe. In general, you should strive to pick Mila up early on Fridays rather than late and then ask for additional day on Sundays. You can organize your flights from DC to do this early and enjoy the time with Mila.

Otherwise, she is driving late to Sorrento and you are loosing your whole day. It would be easier if you locate closer (just as you are stating in your Motion to modify that you already have, which is not true obviously) and make it easier for Mila (and your self) to enjoy your time. If you have a job in DC you need to be transparent about this. If you don't, I am not sure why you are staying there, far away from Mila, paying for plane tickets, renting cars, etc. every week, while you state that you do not have a job and asking the court to lower child support. If you want things to move forward and make it easier on Mila you need to seriously start making improvements. False statements would not get you there. Also, you have not responded about the week of child support you are behind. You send checks that cover 8 weeks. This period(Feb.1st-March 31st) has 9 weeks. I am asking you to send the checks weekly instead of one time whenever you wish. Lastly-Mila mentioned again the same about your friend Bob making the same comments about "putting me in jail" and "getting rid of me". I urge you to stop doing this immediately as I have done before. I will consider refusing you visitations if this keeps going on and take your friend to court. He can explain it there himself.





This Friday could be very messy on the road in Maine-there is a big snow storm predicted, heavy wet snow mostly. If you plan to pick Mila up, do this early in the morning in order to avoid driving in bad conditions. I will not be ok with you driving in the middle of the storm and in that case we can switch weekends and Mila can be safe. In general, you should strive to pick Mila up early on Fridays rather than late and then ask for additional day on Sundays. You can organize your flights from DC to do this early and enjoy the time with Mila. Otherwise, she is driving late to Sorrento and you are loosing your whole day. It would be easier if you locate closer (just as you are stating in your Motion to modify that you already have, which is not true obviously) and make it easier for Mila (and your self) to enjoy your time. If you have a job in DC you need to be transparent about this. If you don't, I am not sure why you are staying there, far away from Mila, paying for plane tickets, renting cars, etc. every week, while you state that you do not have a job and

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asking the court to lower child support. If you want things to move forward and make it easier on Mila you need to seriously start making improvements. False statements would not get you there. Also, you have not responded about the week of child support you are behind. You send checks that cover 8 weeks. This period(Feb.1st-March 31st) has 9 weeks. I am asking you to send the checks weekly instead of one time whenever you wish. Lastly-Mila mentioned again the same about your friend Bob making the same comments about "putting me in jail" and "getting rid of me". I urge you to stop doing this immediately as I have done before. I will consider refusing you visitations if this keeps going on and take your friend to court. He can explain it there himself.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, March 30, 2011 2:14 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:

It was Mila's special day at school today. She brought Byka so that everyone can meet him on the playground. She also brought fruit for everyone and her favorite toy to share at circle time with a story she liked to tell everyone. She was very happy and the kids were very excited to meet her dog. We went swimming on Monday and she had her ballet lessons yesterday. She is doing great in both and has lots of fun. I still need answer about Friday - last minute replies are not the best way to communicate and arrange things properly. Also, since you have money for the private investigator you are hiring, make sure you pay the child support on time. That should be your priority. You are still avoiding to reply about that issue.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 25, 2011 2:09 PMTo: Lori Handrahan

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School called to tell me that you have not yet picked up Mila. Again, you are saying here bellow that it will be between 9-11. I hope everything is ok. But, the importance of accurate or approximately accurate times is necessary for Mila's well being. An example is that if she is not staying there for nap (or lunch) we will maybe not bring her sleeping stuff (blankets, pillow, animals, etc.). Also, she will expect you early and probably look forward to being picked up early. Also, if I know that you are picking her up after lunch or nap, I will make sure that I drive over and encourage her to eat her veggies and even read her her books and make sure she has a good nap. And most important, she will know what is happening and not feel abandoned.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 6:11 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'Igor Malenko'Subject: Friday pick up

Igor,

Looks like I will now be getting Mila sometime before noon.

I’m not exactly sure what time—anywhere from 9-11 I think.

I’m juggling some professional obligations and that is why the timing keeps changing.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 25, 2011 9:21 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE: Friday pick up

She is not - we will be here. But this is not an answer to my question - you need to stop playing this games and provide the essential information voluntarily. I am not willing to spend more time on the same every week-

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From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 25, 2011 7:17 AMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE: Friday pick up

Is Mila traveling with you and your childhood friend Lilly?

From: Igor Malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 25, 2011 5:26 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: Re: Friday pick up

Is Mila traveling outside of Maine while with you this weekend?

On Mar 24, 2011, at 5:10 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <[email protected]> wrote:

Igor,

Looks like I will now be getting Mila sometime before noon.

I’m not exactly sure what time—anywhere from 9-11 I think.

I’m juggling some professional obligations and that is why the timing keeps changing.


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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:12 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: FW: Friday pick up

I will again repeat the same question as every week - is Mila going to be in Maine or do you have plans to travel with her outside of Maine? If you do, please inform me where Mila is going to be and with whom-

From: Malenko, Igor Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:09 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: '[email protected]'Subject: FW: Friday pick up

From: Malenko, Igor Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:09 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Subject: RE: Friday pick up

I will inform the school about the pick up times-

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:00 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'Igor Malenko'Subject: Friday pick up

Igor,

I will pick Mila up at school tomorrow, Friday, sometime between noon and 4:00.

I will return her to you at Whole Foods in Portland Sunday at 2:00 pm.


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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:08 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]:

I would like to ask you to stop harassing Mila's school and to stop threatening them with legal actions by you or your attorney. I was informed by Kathy today about your phone calls and requests as well as your threats. You can not request Kathy to refuse your mother, Mila's grandmother to pick Mila up at school, when I have approved this. I have informed you that I insist that Mila has quality time with her grandmother and the rest of her family and that on a occasion Mila will be picked up by your mother, her grandmother, and brought to either our home or ballet lessons. I also pointed out in my e-mail that I am aware that you object this and that I nevertheless will allow Mila to see her grandmother and her family, and make sure that she has normal relationship with them. If you have any objections about this, you should direct and share those with me, not with the school. In the last judgment it was specified that if there is a dispute between us on a matter that concerns Mila and we can not agree on how to proceed, I would make the decision. I also pointed out this in my e-mail and since Kathy has this document and this is already discussed it with her, is aware of this situation. I also pointed out then and will repeat it now, that I do not allow anyone besides you to pick Mila up at school and I also discussed this with Kathy. The judgment is clear about this and if you have an issue with this let's meet in court and discuss this further in front of a judge. My motives with not being ok with anyone but you have been clear from the beginning - you have never been transparent about Mila's whereabouts and have consistently used third party to hide and transport Mila even out of the State (frequently) without any prior sharing or approval from my side, since I filed for divorce (actually even before that). The people you have used are not friendly towards me and have occasionally caused incidents that were beyond acceptable. They are not promoting my relationship with Mila, have never done this and have also tried to help you by falsely testifying in court. The others, that have not stood in front of the judge, like your friends Bob, Lisa and Terry from Sorrento, have even gone further and still are, by constantly saying to Mila that they "will get rid of me". This is still going on according Mila and she is very upset about this. These are not the people I will allow to be around my child or in any case to pick or transport Mila anywhere. Also, I am strongly objecting to you leaving Mila alone with any of them. If you ignore my request, I will go to court and ask for sole custody and also consider other immediate legal measures. Do not confuse these people with your mother, Mila's grandmother and stop harassing the school immediately. This is Mila's school, a place where she has friends and good relationships with the teachers and likes spending time there. She doesn't need you to destroy this. If you ignore my request I will take legal action immediately.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 10:39 AM

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To: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]:

Mila's is doing well, she had her ballet lessons on Tuesday and she loved it. We went swimming on Monday and Tuesday evening and she is making lots of progress. She dives with goggles on and we practice swimming above and under water without floating device for short times when she likes it, but still keep it on when she wants it. She also practiced snorkeling and using fins-she is very good with both.She saw her grandmother yesterday and had a nice day-went to the library and the beach. Starting the second or third week in April she will take a two week break from school-I have some time off and we have a friend of mine coming to visit and stay with us. She is my childhood friend and Mila already knows her and feels very comfortable with her. I am not sure if we can omit paying for those two weeks at school but I will certainly ask and let you know. If we do not need to pay the school for those two weeks, the child support for those two weeks will be adjusted.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, March 22, 2011 11:17 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: March child support

Just want to let you know that starting February 1st and ending march 31st there are 9 weeks. The child support checks you are writing should reflect that. It is better if you send this weekly and we will avoid this kind of confusion in the future. Right now I have to e-mail,ask and even notify you that you need to do comply with the d.judgment and you avoid responding until I suddenly get an e-mail like the one bellow. I rather arrange this properly.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, March 21, 2011 1:52 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'Igor Malenko'Subject: March child support

Igor,

The March child support entire check will be mailed to you today-I sent you and SMS this morning. When I have the delivery confirmation I will scan and send.

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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 18, 2011 12:29 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: FW:

I just came back from Mila's school and guess what- she was not there! I re-read the e-mail bellow and I am sure it says that you will be picking her up at 4.30pm. I checked my e-mails and my text messages, as well as my phone calls and nothing there from you mentioning that you will be at Mila's school at 9am today. I would like to know if you are changing the pick up times and I would like to know this timely. Unlike you, I and lots of other people like stability and order. I have to arrange things at work to get out longer and see Mila for lunch. I have to prepare 3 meals for her and extra clothes as well as everything she needs for nap time in order to have everything be properly arranged for her and if you know (which you obviously did!) that you will be picking her up half hour after I drop her off at school, then I would like to know this! You had plenty of time to inform me. If you think that this is acceptable-next time you might drive over there for nothing your self. I am doing my best to be fair and transparent with you-you need to do the same.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, March 15, 2011 11:36 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

No

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, March 15, 2011 11:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

Ok- is she traveling outside of Maine?

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Igor,

I’ll be picking Mila up at 4:30 this coming Friday from school and returning her Sunday evening at 6:00 pm


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, March 16, 2011 11:09 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]:

Mila's first day at the ballet school went well. She loves being with all the girls and she is very excited about dancing with them. You can call her at home after school and she will tell you more about it. You could also Skype with her. I will make an account on her name. Also, are you planning to send any child support for this month? If not, at least let me know this.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, March 15, 2011 11:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

Ok- is she traveling outside of Maine?

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Igor,

I’ll be picking Mila up at 4:30 this coming Friday from school and returning her Sunday evening at 6:00 pm


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, March 14, 2011 11:28 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]:

Mila is doing well, there was almost no trace of blood in the mucus yesterday and today. She is at school today. She is starting pre-ballet tomorrow afternoon 3.45-4.30 at Portland Ballet School. She was there on the waiting list since November/December. They called last week and she can start. We got all the things she needs. It is for 8 weeks initially. You could also bring her sometimes too if you are in Maine. You will have to communicate timely when you can do this, so I can make arrangements at school and at work. We will go to see this http://www.mainestateballet.org/msb_performances/sleepingbeauty-2011.asp on the 9th of April. maybe you can also take her earlier. She will love it. Also, tomorrow she will stay with Cooper and your mom for the afternoon and skip school. She loves to play with Cooper and we have stayed there once before on Tuesday(Cooper is there on Tuesday all the time). They really are having a great time together. I know you are objecting that she stays with your mom, but it is good for Mila to see her grandmother and also her cousins occasionally. As I said, they really like playing together a lot. You mom will bring her to Portland in the afternoon and I will meet them at the ballet school.

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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 2:45 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

According the judgment, the last bill from the ER would probably be my responsibility ( the first 250$ is mine ). After that we have to split accordingly. Also, the bill from the last ER trip here (when Mila was vomiting because of the virus) was sent to our address with your name on it (Mila was under your coverage then). I opened it accidentally not noticing your name. It did not get covered a lot by your insurance and you will need to see why. I will give this one to you. It falls under the old arrangements and we will have to worked that out properly. I will look into what the old arrangements were about similar things.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 12:55 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor,

Mila has been blowing blood mixed with her mucus off and on all week. I took a watch and see approach. Thursday am she blew a small blood clot so I took her to the ER. They said it was probably related to her cold/strep throat. Please keep an eye on this and let me know if she continues to have blood. You might take her to the doctor next week.

I also took her to the hair salon and she had a cut and condition. Her hair was so tangled and knotted it took special condition and lots of getting brushing to clean it up. If you can use some spray condition every morning and encourage her to brush the back of her own hair, even just once, with a gentle bristle brush that will help eliminate the dreadlocks she was starting to get.

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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 12:59 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

Ok-thanks for letting me know. We will see the doctor next week. We are also working on the hair brushing and using conditioner all the time, which helps a lot. Also, tangles free spray sometimes. Not her favorite thing though-brushing hair. I will keep encouraging her.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 12:55 PMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor,

Mila has been blowing blood mixed with her mucus off and on all week. I took a watch and see approach. Thursday am she blew a small blood clot so I took her to the ER. They said it was probably related to her cold/strep throat. Please keep an eye on this and let me know if she continues to have blood. You might take her to the doctor next week.

I also took her to the hair salon and she had a cut and condition. Her hair was so tangled and knotted it took special condition and lots of getting brushing to clean it up. If you can use some spray condition every morning and encourage her to brush the back of her own hair, even just once, with a gentle bristle brush that will help eliminate the dreadlocks she was starting to get.


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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 11:07 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

Yes - thank you.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 10:58 AMTo: 'Igor Malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

Igor,

Are you willing to meet in Brunswick tomorrow at 4? Same place as before—the parking lot between the coffee shop and police station on Main street.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, March 08, 2011 3:29 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:

Glad to hear that she is ok- we’ll keep brushing and eat healthy foods as always-

She gets Trader Joe’s apple jus with very low quantity of sugar and brushes at least twice a day. She loves green beans and carrots and on and of other veggies. She doesn’t really eat any sweet things, except pancakes and waffles with honey and maple syrup. She also likes the children’s pro-biotic yogurt from Trader Joe’s. She gets their vitamins and omegas in gummy bear form every day. Also, turkey bacon and grilled chicken and turkey sausages are her favorite things.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, March 08, 2011 3:20 PM

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Igor,

Mila went to the dentist today for her regular cleaning and check up. She is going great.

One of her front teeth is a tiny bit loose and may be the first baby tooth to come out.

She needs to continue brushing morning and night for about 2 minutes and limit sugars and keep up fresh fruits, veggies, protein etc.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, March 07, 2011 1:15 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

Glad to hear-thanks-

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, March 07, 2011 1:13 PMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

Igor,

No fever at all. Medication is on schedule. She is very happy.

From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, March 07, 2011 12:56 PMTo: Lori Handrahan

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I would like to know how Mila is doing today – is she still having the fever and is she taking the medications as prescribed?


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, March 07, 2011 12:56 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]:

I would like to know how Mila is doing today – is she still having the fever and is she taking the medications as prescribed?


-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 11:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

I am-

I was offering you next weekend in case we decide it is not good for her to travel this afternoon after or while having fever.

I am just trying to communicate with you clearly and do what is best for Mila. There is no other reason for it-no sickness manufacturing like you did in the past.

If she is miserable and still feverish it is better for her not to travel back and forth. If you feel that way too, you can use next weekend instead.

Otherwise, we will meet today. I will see her for lunch and if she is doing better hopefully no fever, I will let her stay at school. If you are here before 5pm please pick her up at school.

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If she is spiking fever again, I will take her with me at home. Then we will meet elsewhere when you are here.

-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 11:00 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

Igor,

Mila will be in Sorrento. Are you planning to allow this visit or not?


She is fine, since I spent the whole night taking care of her. She is finesince I gave her Tylenol this morning and I am hoping she will not spike thefever again as she did since yesterday afternoon after I picked her up atschool. I told you that lots of kids there are sick and passing the germs toeach other unfortunately. I do not walk around passing germs-but you doafter plane travel.

I know about the State law - I could have stayed home-but you said you arepicking her up and I assumed that it would be early like the last time andsince the fever was away because of the Tylenol, I brought her there hopingyou will pick her up right away.

But you do not communicate at all and you decide to let me now things at thelast moment and this is unacceptable. You NEED to communicate clearly andtimely.

Before you get on a plane and travel for nothing YOU NEED to let me knowwhere is Mila going to be if she is with you. If you fail to abide by thejudgment and co-parent, I will not bring Mila today or any other time in thefuture. There is only one way forward and that is to co-parent andcommunicate. Anything else is not acceptable any longer.

If Mila spikes fever in the mean time again I will go and pick her up fromschool and stay at home with her as I always do. In that case it is betterfor her not to travel to wherever you were planning to take her- withoutproperly informing me about her whereabouts you will not take her anyway.

I stay up at night, I stay up during the day, I take off when needed andwill always be there for my child. If you keep making things up and aretrying to blame me for Mila having the flu and also accuse me ofmanufacturing her illness if she is sick, you will not move an inch forward.

Let me know where you are planning to take her this weekend and anyfollowing weekend starting now. Then we can discuss it properly and see whatis the best for her.

It is really up to you which way this goes.

-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 10:34 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; 'igor malenko'Subject: RE:

Igor,

Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide bythe court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?

I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had afever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her toschool. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers saidthere is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simplytrying to come with a reason to block the visit.

Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my"off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila willnot have spent time with her mother.

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Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strangeeverything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have nocontact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.

If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able toknow whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discussfurther with you the details of my decision making since you are obviouslyonly busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are goingto use for your delusional conspiracy theories.

Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I willpick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive toSorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her torest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you areavoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays hereuntil you provide that information.

If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that Iam not interested in discussing with you please call others that like tolisten to you and your nonsense.

Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Milamight get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems anddid not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when sheneeds this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am notinterested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It isall nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn'tseem to be anywhere near.

If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stayshere. You can have next weekend.


Igor,

Ok. I'll be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get thereto find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.

It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. Thereis a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after theirfever has stopped.

I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less thantwo months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.


This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everythingelse you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where shewill be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by stillavoiding communicating clearly and timely.

I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.

I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. orSorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stayhome with me.

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From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

Igor,

I'll be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me knowwhere.


Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. Shedrinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better ifyou pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What timecan you meet?Sent from my iPhone=

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She is fine, since I spent the whole night taking care of her. She is fine since I gave her Tylenol this morning and I am hoping she will not spike the fever again as she did since yesterday afternoon after I picked her up at school. I told you that lots of kids there are sick and passing the germs to each other unfortunately. I do not walk around passing germs-but you do after plane travel.

I know about the State law - I could have stayed home-but you said you are picking her up and I assumed that it would be early like the last time and since the fever was away because of the Tylenol, I brought her there hoping you will pick her up right away.

But you do not communicate at all and you decide to let me now things at the last moment and this is unacceptable. You NEED to communicate clearly and timely.

Before you get on a plane and travel for nothing YOU NEED to let me know where is Mila going to be if she is with you. If you fail to abide by the judgment and co-parent, I will not bring Mila today or any other time in the future. There is only one way forward and that is to co-parent and communicate. Anything else is not acceptable any longer.

If Mila spikes fever in the mean time again I will go and pick her up from school and stay at home with her as I always do. In that case it is better for her not to travel to wherever you were planning to take her- without properly informing me about her whereabouts you will not take her anyway.

I stay up at night, I stay up during the day, I take off when needed and will always be there for my child. If you keep making things up and are trying to blame me for Mila having the flu and also accuse me of manufacturing her illness if she is sick, you will not move an inch forward.

Let me know where you are planning to take her this weekend and any following weekend starting now. Then we can discuss it properly and see what is the best for her.

It is really up to you which way this goes.


Igor,

Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide bythe court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?

I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had afever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her toschool. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers saidthere is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simplytrying to come with a reason to block the visit.

Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my"off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will

not have spent time with her mother.


I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strangeeverything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have nocontact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.

If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able toknow whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discussfurther with you the details of my decision making since you are obviouslyonly busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are goingto use for your delusional conspiracy theories.

Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I willpick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive toSorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her torest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you areavoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays hereuntil you provide that information.

If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that Iam not interested in discussing with you please call others that like tolisten to you and your nonsense.

Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Milamight get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems anddid not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when sheneeds this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am notinterested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It isall nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn'tseem to be anywhere near.

If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stayshere. You can have next weekend.


Igor,







I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or

Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stayhome with me.

-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

Igor,





-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:56 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: FW:

Also, do not take any longer Mila's extra clothes from her plastic box at school. The teachers wanted those there just in case.

Not sure why you feel the need to take them and not mention this-probably to conduct some kind of a "test" in a "national lab" together with your companions. Very healthy behavior-

-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: '[email protected]'Subject: RE:

I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.

If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.

Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here until you provide that information.

If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to listen to you and your nonsense.

Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't seem to be anywhere near.

If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays here. You can have next weekend.


Igor,









Igor,


-----Original Message-----

From: igor malenko [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AMTo: [email protected]: MjwaxySubject:




I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no contact with you at all. But you are Mila's mother and I am doing my best.

If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.

Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here until you provide that information.

If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to listen to you and your nonsense.

Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat

problems and did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesn't seem to be anywhere near.

If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays here. You can have next weekend.


Igor,






I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.

She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.



Igor,






This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila -

like where she will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still avoiding communicating clearly and timely.

I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels. She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.

I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay home with me.


Igor,





From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, March 01, 2011 3:26 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: insurance card

Here is Mila's new health insurance card -

She is doing better today and is back at school. What time are you planning to pick her up this Friday? What time are planning to bring her back on Sunday? Are you staying in Maine or going to DC with her?


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 9:16 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]: RE:

I do not want Mila to be driven by you at night all the way to Sorrento. You have very bad night vision and this is not safe. You can pick her up at school on Friday ( and give them another copy of the Spurwink report!). This way they will have one more thing to read in addition to the court papers they already have. Also, I woul like Mila to be back home on Sunday. I need to know when on Sunday and I need to know this timely, not at the last minute. I also need to know where Mila will be ( Sorrento, DC, etc.) and with whom. You either are going to accept the reality and cooperate or I will keep going to court. I am willing to consider longer weekends (Th-M) as you are suggesting, but not before you start cooperating, communicating, stop the nonsense with Bob and Terry immediatelly, stop the false garbage about sexual abuse asap and start paying child support.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 8:58 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

Igor,

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I need to book my tickets today so please do let me know about a Monday, the 28th, drop off at school as soon as possible. Thank you.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 8:52 AMTo: 'igor malenko'; 'Malenko, Igor'Subject:

Igor,

I would like to pick Mila up this Thursday night, if you allow. This makes the drive easier for her as she sleeps in the car and gives us a full day together on Friday. I would also like to drop her off at school on Monday morning, the 28th.

Do you agree?


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 9:08 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]; Fawcett, BethSubject:

Lori- Mila again mentioned that Bob Gelman and this time Terry Noyes as well, were saying again to her that they will "get rid of me". I will report them both and I am for the LAST time asking you to stop this immediatelly. Mila is very upset by this. If Mila is around those people and it happens again I will not allow the visits to go trough until you are able to prevent that from happening. I do not allow any of them to take care of Mila or transport her anywhere. Also, you should stop harrasing her about me doing anything wrong to her. She is upset and bothered by this and I will not accept it any longer - I am very serious and I will act legaly to prevent this from going on! It is an emotional abuse and I will not allow you to have Mila unsupervised if you continue this.

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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 5:18 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]:

Here are the medical records from the last visit to ER when Mila was vomiting last Thursday.

Also, school information concerning monthly schedule, daily activities and other important things. This way you are up to date with Mila’s school activities and can plan to call her in between.

I would appreciate if you return Mila’s clothes that you took the last time as well as what she wore today. We can’t keep buying things and those are her everyday school clothes that she needs here. This has been an ongoing issue and you need to stop this. You wanted to separate everything and you need to respect that those are Mila’s personal items and she needs them here.


From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 5:12 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: [email protected]; Fawcett, BethSubject: RE:

Yes, I contacted the DHHS because I was very concern and these are the reasons:

you had refused to communicate with me or take Mila's phone calls you show up well before 4:00 today to pick Mila up w/no notification and refuse to communicate

about your intentions with her this weekend, possible travel and returning information you leave strange, concerning messages for the day care providers and Mila your friend Bob says harmful things to her in front of you and you are ok with that you leave the Spurwink Report, which has been discredited with the day care????

And you find it necessary to remind them that they are a mandated reporter? Obviously you are plotting again and that is VERY bad for Mila.

But, keep in mind that this might cause you to lose your parental rights eventually. You are on the wrong path and Mila is not benefiting from your actions.

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From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 3:16 PMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:

Igor,

I sent you and SMS and told you I had picked Mila up for my court ordered weekend visit time and will return her, as court ordered, on Sunday.

I have no idea why you are copying DHHS but I find that interesting. What is DHHS going to work with you to have me placed on supervised visits next? Is that the story?







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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, February 15, 2011 3:47 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:

One last thing- The messages you are left at school for Mila are inappropriate and confusing for a child. She does not need to deal with your visions of what is going on. It is enough for her that she has to go constantly trough all kinds of changes you are causing by repeatedly focusing on the wrong things and trying to find new ways to ruin her life and her relationship with me and her her family. Mila knows that you have a busy job and that you doing your best to be there as much as you can and that you love her dearly . She does not feel she is separated from you due to your versions. It is not appropriate to confused her the way you do and make her feel sad. Even the teachers were not happy with this. They will not play a message like that to Mila. Just tell her that you love her and you miss her and anything like that. It is more than enough. But burdening her with your stories of how "you are separated because of...but not for long..." and "that she should be telling the truth" are sad and confusing. If you are back here in Maine let me know this and I can tell her that you might be around more often. Or even better - try to do this and be around more often. You have a possibility to be close to Mila and if you choose not to do it, do not burden Mila with confusing stories. I am not telling her that you left her or anything like that. There is no need for making things worse. Try to answer her calls when she calls, try to call her, move closer to her and start co-parenting. Anything else is wasting of time and will not bring you closer to Mila. I want her to have both parents and I want her to have a mom in her life. But not if you are unhealthy and behave in a destructive way for Mila. Stop wasting time on conspiracy theories, stop plotting with Margo and Bob, Campbell and Devoe and start being a mother Mila will be proud of. Get a job close to her so she can have both parents in her life. It is the only thing she wants. She says "maybe mama can move back in the white house and I can walk over with Bijka when I want to see her". She is not excited about DC life style, or about having only a mother. She needs a mother and a father.

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She needs you to start behaving differently. Think about this.

From: Malenko, Igor Sent: Tuesday, February 15, 2011 2:53 PMTo: 'Lori Handrahan'Cc: 'Mjwaxy'Subject:

Mila called you again last night for Valentine's day and left a message. Again you are not picking up or returning her phone call. I need you to respond within a day about whether or not you are able to see Mila this weekend. If you don't, I will not ask again. Mila has called and called, I have requested basic information about your whereabouts and ability to see her and up to date no answer. Very irresponsible and absolutely not good for Mila. Also, nothing on the ordered child support you need to pay. This is not acceptable. I would like to know if you are planning to see Mila and how we are going to arrange this for this Friday. I would like to let you know that you are the only person that I authorize to pick Mila up and to drive Mila anywhere. No one else, especially not Bob. I want to be clear about Mila not being allowed to be driven by him or left in his care ever. If you ignore this I will refuse to hand Mila over. If you decide to ignore my request and try to pick Mila up from school without communicating this to me, I will take you to court asap. I will not allow the visit to go trough if you do not follow court orders and communicate timely and appropriately with me about transitions and visits. If you plan to take Mila to DC- I need to know this before the end of the day tomorrow. I will not accommodate last minute replies because you decide to ignore me and behave irresponsibly. If you are residing in Maine again you need to inform me ( I am aware you are here since yesterday). If you are residing in DC or elsewhere I need to know where Mila would be and the address and phone number. I am not flexible on this at all. I do not authorize Bob or anyone else to care for Mila and I will take legal action if you disregard my request. If you plan to co-parent you need to start doing this immediately. Pay your part of the child support and communicate about Mila timely and clearly. Anything other that this is unacceptable. If I have to figure out everything my self and be responsible for everything while you are hiding, I might as well have sole custody.



From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, February 15, 2011 2:53 PMTo: Lori Handrahan

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Cc: MjwaxySubject:

Mila called you again last night for Valentine's day and left a message. Again you are not picking up or returning her phone call. I need you to respond within a day about whether or not you are able to see Mila this weekend. If you don't, I will not ask again. Mila has called and called, I have requested basic information about your whereabouts and ability to see her and up to date no answer. Very irresponsible and absolutely not good for Mila. Also, nothing on the ordered child support you need to pay. This is not acceptable. I would like to know if you are planning to see Mila and how we are going to arrange this for this Friday. I would like to let you know that you are the only person that I authorize to pick Mila up and to drive Mila anywhere. No one else, especially not Bob. I want to be clear about Mila not being allowed to be driven by him or left in his care ever. If you ignore this I will refuse to hand Mila over. If you decide to ignore my request and try to pick Mila up from school without communicating this to me, I will take you to court asap. I will not allow the visit to go trough if you do not follow court orders and communicate timely and appropriately with me about transitions and visits. If you plan to take Mila to DC- I need to know this before the end of the day tomorrow. I will not accommodate last minute replies because you decide to ignore me and behave irresponsibly. If you are residing in Maine again you need to inform me ( I am aware you are here since yesterday). If you are residing in DC or elsewhere I need to know where Mila would be and the address and phone number. I am not flexible on this at all. I do not authorize Bob or anyone else to care for Mila and I will take legal action if you disregard my request. If you plan to co-parent you need to start doing this immediately. Pay your part of the child support and communicate about Mila timely and clearly. Anything other that this is unacceptable. If I have to figure out everything my self and be responsible for everything while you are hiding, I might as well have sole custody.



From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, February 14, 2011 9:19 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:

We called you twice in the last few days - no answer. Mila left messages. She is doing better and is in school today.

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Sorry to hear about your job. I need to know what you are planning to do about contributing to Mila's school bills. It is now the second month that I pay for everything alone. First you collected the support while Mila was living here and going here to school, now you are supposed to pay but you don't. And you don't communicate at all. This is not good, especially not for Mila. We are waiting to hear back from you.



From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, February 09, 2011 9:48 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: info

Dentist:Horutz Kathryn L DDSPlace page173 Ocean AvenuePortland, ME 04103-5728(207) 772-1205

Doctor:Dr. Cydney Mahoney, MDBowdoin Medical Group51 Ocean StreetSouth Portland, ME, 04106Phone Number: (207) 799-8596

These are the healthcare professionals we will use here. I need to know who to contact directly to forward Mila’s file to them (old doctors and dentist).

We need your address ( Mila likes to send you art work she is making for you at home and school) and a phone number we can reach you and call frequently. I need you to provide this info and not to refer me to old e-mails. I can’t look for them and I want to have everything arranged properly so that Mila can call you and send you mail.

You can call us on my phone : 207-4094538. Our address is 541 Preble Street in SP (04106).

I will be adding Mila to my insurance this week. I already started the process and will send you her card info as soon as I get it. You can then cancel the one you have right now. It is Aetna. If you like to compare the plans, send me the info about the one she has now and I will also send you the one I have.

Mila is at school this whole week. She is there from 8.30 till 17.00. You can call her. I go there for lunch frequently (around 11.45) and try to read to her before her nap, which is after lunch. She is doing very

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well, but it would be nice to have a chance to talk to you more often. Let’s arrange that asap. You can also Skype with her if you want. You will need to let me know this and I will set it up for her with pleasure.

We are trying to start the dancing lessons at Maine State Ballet (she was on a waiting list last year) and looking into gymnastic classes. Some of these activities are on Saturday as well, so you could also go together. I will give you more info when I have this. Further, we swim after school several days in the week and this is also possible in the weekends here at the Y (she has a membership and you could use this, schedule on their website –the I-pool) .

She eats well, at home and at school too. We work on subtractions and additions under 10 and she likes the Disney stories before bed time (101 Dalmatians, Petar Pan, Lady and the Tramp, etc.)

Teacher’s names: Dona, Carla, Nillu and Kathy (the owner).



From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, February 08, 2011 11:28 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:

I am sure you received the e-mail from Michael about your friend Bob. I will make sure he doesn’t harass Mila any longer with the things he has been saying such as “he will get rid of me”. That is unacceptable and it will have to stop immediately. It sounds like you were there too and you confirmed this. Shame on you. You should get the message from the court and start being a good parent to Mila. This is not what a good parent would do. I want to make it clear that I will not accept this from anyone. You need to get your act together asap. As for Bob, I will take him to court and let him explain what he is up to.

From now on, I will not accept him around Mila at all. This means if you show up with him in the car, Mila stays here. He will not drive our child anywhere or will Mila drive in the same car with him; he will not play any kind of a roll in her life, period. I am very serious about this. I will take you and him and any one else that harms Mila straight to court. Never will I allow Mila to have to hear that kind of stuff any more. You ought to prevent that, not encourage it. What kind of a parent would do this to a small child, or any kind of child?

Obviously, I have no control over what you will do in Sorrento. But, if you think that even though I made it clear that Bob should not be around Mila any longer, especially since he has been saying this things, that you can ignore this and do what you please and by that expose Mila to unhealthy situations, I will act legally to prevent this. I am very upset and I will make sure that that guy explains in court what he is up to.

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You need to move in another direction. This will not help at all.



From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, January 13, 2011 7:51 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: Thursday pick up at Children's Museum

It is ok – you don’t need to give us a whole hour back for the 20 minutes. I will be there at 4.00 to pick Mila up.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Wednesday, January 12, 2011 5:55 PMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: Thursday pick up at Children's Museum

Igor,

We will be in Portland tomorrow at the Children’s Museum.

If you would like to pick Mila up there at 3:30 to make up for the time that I have been 20 minutes late on the last drop-off. That is fine with me. Just let me know.



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From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, January 04, 2011 3:17 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: Relocation Hearing

I have asked several specific questions about your move, your new job and the specific dates of your intended relocation. You have never responded.

Why did you not inform me that you have already taken Mila out of her school, if you are still here? The school confirmed this yesterday. On top of everything, you keep collecting child support based on school contribution. It is not the first time.

You have already moved your car and lots of Mila’s things to DC last week and obviously unilaterally decided how everything should proceed concerning Mila’s future.

We will have to wait and see if that is what the court will decide. I obviously oppose your intention to take Mila to DC and therefore I asked Michael to file the Motion for an immediate hearing on this issue. This was the answer to your sudden (but well expected) notice to relocate to DC with Mila. I have no objection to you moving anywhere-it is Mila that I oppose you will take along with you on your adventures. You have put us trough many of them since the day we’ve met. I strongly believe that it is not in Mila’s best interest to be again relocated, especially since it will have a huge impact on her life.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, January 04, 2011 2:15 PMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject: FW: Relocation Hearing

Igor,

So this is how you show cooperative, friendly co-parenting? By having your lawyer falsely accuse me of kidnapping Mila? My God. When will you stop. As I told you in my official relocation notice to you of 30 days—that is I am relocating 30 days from that notice to you or 18 January. I have work obligations, as always, that I need to travel for, but I am adhering the visitation schedule and still residing in Maine until the 18 of Jan.

That you would try to take Mila away from her mother because I want to, need to be employed is beyond parent alienation and all the other things you falsely accuse me of. Why would take a child from her mother? You do realize, don’t you that if you are successful in taking Mila from her mother you will have destroyed your own child? You

realize by trying to force me to choose between employment and primary residence of Mila—you are committing Mila to a life of poverty.

You never replied to my questions about co-parenting during this transition. I guess because you never planned to do so—you planned to try to block my move, my new employment? I will have to proceed without your input, then, placing Mila in a Montessori school in DC and signing her up for activities. She would like to take Ballet and we will be living just near the famous Washington Ballet School.

It would nice if instead of filing motion after motion in court—trying to get me accused of kidnapping Mila, etc. you accepted Mila’s move with me to Washington DC and the fact you will have the exact same time with her you have now, at my full expense. Opposing it, is totally unjustified and only serves to destroy your own daughter and her mother.

From: Mjwaxy [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, January 03, 2011 12:28 PMTo: [email protected]; [email protected]: [email protected]: Relocation Hearing

Attorneys Hoffman and Meier: I spoke with Judge Moskowitz's clerk this morning and learned that the Court has scheduled a hearing regarding Ms. Handrahan's intended relocation on Friday, January 14,2011. As you are aware, this is 26 days after Ms. Handrahan gave informal 30 day notice of relocation to Igor, through an email. So, the hearing will be on the 26th day after notice was received. Mr. Malenko is fearful that Ms. Handrahan has already relocated, in fact, with the child to Washington, D.C. I hope that this is not so, and that your client will deliver Mila to Mr. Malenko for his scheduled visitation this Friday, and that she will attend the hearing next Friday. If I discover that your client has in fact relocated with Mila, I shall familiarize myself with the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act, 19-A M.R.S.A. sec 1731 et seq. ("UCCJEA") and the Parental Kidnapping Protection Act, 28 U.S.C.A. sec 1738A et seq. ("PKPA") and I shall do whatever is necessary, legal and appropriate to have your client stopped, if need be by using law enforcement authorities to arrest her. Obviously, if that is necessary, it would likely impair her ability to enjoy parental rights and responsiblilities in the future, not to mention persuade a Maine judge to require that visitation with the child, if any, be supervised. Honestly, it would be shame if Mila were not able to enjoy frequent visitation with both her mother and father. I do not relish the likely outcome which your client's actions may bring about.

I suggest that you make efforts to get in touch with Ms. Handrahan and share with her my concerns and my intentions, should she decide to ignore the Maine Courts. Michael J. Waxman, Esq.One Monument Way, 2nd FloorP.O. Box 375Portland, Maine 04112-0375(207) 772-9558 phone(207) 772-9567 faxwww.waxmanlaw.us P.S. I am copying attorney Meier on this email because if I am correct about Ms. Handrahan having already relocated to Washington, D.C. with the child, she will need counsel down there, and I am making an assumption that attorney Meier is the most likely candidate. Even if I am incorrect, perhaps attorney Meier could nonethless have a discussion with Ms. Handrahan about the propriety of leaving Maine in order to forum-shop or evade the Maine Courts.



From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 2:58 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:

I would like to know when you are intending to move to DC exactly.

I also would like to see all the relevant information concerning your new employment asap.

From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 9:53 PMTo: 'igor malenko'; Malenko, IgorSubject:

December 19, 2010

Igor,

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As you know I have been unemployed since 2009, when I chose to retain primary residence for Mila rather than relocate to Washington, DC as required by my employer. I am happy to say I have been offered, and accepted, new employment. I am sure you will agree it is in Mila’s best interests for her to have employed, financially secure parents, so I hope you will be glad for Mila. The position is back in Washington, DC, which should come as no surprise because in my specialized field there are very few positions outside of DC or NYC.

This email serves as my official 30-day notice of relocation with Mila to Washington, DC as required by the judgment.

I know you support Mila’s Montessori education and I have explored options for her continued educational development. I am delighted to let you know she has been accepted in a Montessori school in DC that offers French and Spanish. I would like to discuss the specifics with you at your earliest convenience. She is able to enroll immediately upon our arrival in DC I will, as I have done, continue to send you all reports and newsletters that I receive from her school.

I hope that you understand that this move is absolutely necessary for me to make a living. I have tried since 2009 to do my best working from Maine, but it is just not realistic given my profession. Nevertheless, I am committed to maintaining significant contact between you and Mila.

Given this move, I believe our current visitation schedule is unworkable. I propose that we work out a schedule that provides you with the same amount of time you currently enjoy with Mila, but allows me to be employed. I am willing to fly with Mila, at my expense, back to Maine every other weekend Thursday-Sunday during the school year. I can start this visitation schedule on Thursday, February 3, 2011 and alternate so the visits would continue on the weekend of February 17 and so on. I would need to work around the flight schedules but it looks like I would come in Thursdays at 4:30 pm and would need to depart Sundays at 5:17 pm. I also propose that during the summer Mila reside with you from Sunday-Thursday. I would fly back to Maine and pick Mila up on Thursday afternoons (we would spend a long weekend in Sorrento) and return her Sunday. I am also willing for Mila to have school vacations with you. If you can suggest an alternate schedule that will provide similar contact with the same or less travel, I will be happy to work with you.

Being in DC allows Mila a world of opportunity. We will be living near a famous music school and I hope you agree that I will expose Mila to all this school has to

offer and enroll her in music lessons of her choice. If you agree, I will also continue her gymnastic classes and every other weekend I assume we will enroll her in dance and soccer as she has long wanted to do. As always, I will continue to pay 100% for her schooling and extracurricular activities.

I hope you will be able to negotiate this in good faith without filing more court motions. Working this out together, without an ongoing court battle, is in Mila’s best interest and is the best example of good co-parenting.



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