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Marni Gives You Step-by-Step Instructions On: Discovering Your Values Discovering Your Authentic, Real Self That Will Drive Women Wild! Written By: Marni The Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com DISCLAIMER: No responsibility can be accepted by Marni, The Wing Girl Method or her publishers for the accuracy of information contained in this book, or any action taken or not taken based on Contact: Marni, The Wing Girl Method, http://www.winggirlmethod.com

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Shoot for the Stars Coaching ~For anyone wanting to live an extraordinary and accomplished life

Marni Gives You Step-by-Step Instructions On:

Discovering Your Values

Discovering Your Authentic, Real Self That Will Drive Women Wild!

Written By: MarniThe Wing Girl Method

http://www.winggirlmethod.com

DISCLAIMER: No responsibility can be accepted by Marni, The Wing Girl Method or her publishers for the accuracy of information contained in this book, or any action taken or not taken based on such information. You are responsible for your own behavior, and none of this book is to be considered legal or personal advice.

You may NOT copy, steal, or distribute all or any part of this book without permission.

Hey You!!

Before I dive into telling you, How Get To Know You, I want to properly introduce myself. My name is Marni and from here on out, I am going to be your personal Wing Girl.

I’m not just any Wing Girl. In fact, I was voted #1 Wing Girl in the world and World’s Best Female Coach at the PUA Summit.

My job is to tell you everything about women so that you can meet, attract, date, seduce and be with the women you want.

I have successfully done this for almost a decade. I have helped thousands of men all over the world get everything they want with women and now it’s your turn (

“I AM NOT A PICK UP ARTIST”

I want to be very clear with you. I am not a Pick Up Artist. I do not teach routines, lines or any type of manipulation. In fact, I believe that many of the top Pick Up Artists materials actually harm more men than they help. Why? Because a lot of their techniques stress the goal of feeling superior to women, in order to gain success with women. This creates an unequal dynamic causing insecurity to be the driving force behind attraction. NO GOOD and certainly not healthy for anyone involved.

My belief is that if you have the power to feel Superior to anyone eventually you will resort back to feeling inferior. Both labels are just two different sides of a coin.

The materials I provide will show you how to empower yourself by getting a clear understanding of how women work, what they want and why they do the things they do. As well as help you gain a strong masculine character, whose presence women will be attracted to from miles away.

How Is A WOMAN Going To Help Me Gain A Strong Masculine Character?

I am pretty sure you are asking yourself “How is SHE going to help me gain a strong masculine character”. Trust me I have heard it before which is why I want to explain so we can eliminate this belief and move forward.

BELIEF: Women Give Bad Advice To Men About What Women Want

TRUTH: Most women give bad advice to men about what women want.

To be fair, many women do not actually comprehend what women want or why they do the things they do. Most women will be able to tell you exactly what they WISH they wanted, but very few are able to say what they genuinely want.

In fact, about 5 months ago I put out an ad asking for women with opinions on what women want from men. I got over 600 responses from women around the world. Beautiful, intelligent women who I later discovered has absolutely no idea what it was they wanted, what they were attracted to or what they responded to. I was shocked. But one thing I did learn is that women were very interested in being heard even. Save that note for later.

For some women, it’s difficult to admit the behaviors they respond too. This is either because they are embarrassed or because they really don’t have a clue but desperately want to figure it out. Most women hold themselves on a social pedestal and are very fearful of seemingly knocking themselves down.

Now, there are some women out there who are different. Take me for example. I am a woman who deeply understands what goes on inside my mind and I am able to articulate WHAT, HOW and WHY I do the things I do and think the way I think. I am also a woman who is not embarrassed about how you will perceive me for revealing the truths behind my actions.

I am just like all the other women in this world and exactly like the women you want to be with. I have been attracted to men, loved men, hated men, been hurt by men, got revenge on men, felt insecure, had sex with men, rejected men, been wishy-washy, led a man on, flirted with men for fun and pleasure, teased men, broken up with men for no reason, avoided men, flaked on men, given out my number with intention of answering the phone, had one night stands, been in long term relationships with men and placed men in the friend zone when they deserved a romantic chance. I have experienced every scenario you have experienced but on the other end.

It's not so much that I’m going to help you be a step ahead of her in the game - it's so that you're actually really in the game and playing it 'with' her. With my help you are going to be the guy who has a woman who is into him, not because of what you do or what you have, but just because you are you.

If you have any questions, concerns or comments feel free to email me directly at [email protected]

Now onto the good stuff!! How to REALLY get to know yourself so that you can be authentic and real.

One key thing to mention is that being authentic and real happens once you open up and start seeing others around you different instead of wrong. The more that you get to know yourself, the more understanding and accepting you can be of others differences.

There are some questions below that are going to help you discover how you think, feel and what your core values are. They aren’t tough questions, or meant to trick you. They are actually very easy questions about a great topic that you are very familiar with, YOU (

The questions were also developed to help you discover where you are and where you want to go in your life and with women.

Please take your time and really think about these answers. Again, they are for you. Not for anyone else. So really put some thought into them.

Instructions:

1. Answer questions in their correct order. If you feel you need more time to think about a question, you are free to pause and think about what you want to write.

2. Be real with yourself. No one is judging you and no one will ever see these answers.

3. You can answer directly on this word doc OR you can print out and answer the questions. Up to you!

4. Have fun! Most important.

Next steps and what to do next are provided at the bottom of the questions.

QUESTIONS

1. Look forward 20 years – you are attending a function where someone is giving a speech about YOU! What would you want them to say?

2. If time and resources were not a concern, describe the things you long to do.

3. How would you define a true leader? What are the qualities this leader embodies?

4. If you knew that you could not fail at what you really wanted to do, what would that be?

5. Think about two or three people you know who really inspire you. Who are they and what about them is inspiring?

6. What’s missing in your personal and professional life? What would make your personal and work life more fulfilling?

7. What are the biggest changes in your personal life and with women you want to make over:

a.) The next 3 Years?

b.) The next 3 Months?

7. What activities have meaning and purpose for you?

8. What are your biggest personal roadblocks to your personal and professional success?

9. What is your commitment to eliminating these constraints?

10. Of the things you start, what is the percentage of things you finish?

11. What are you most satisfied with in your work and personal life right now? What are you least satisfied with in your work and personal life right now?

12. What are your 3 greatest accomplishments or achievements up to today?

13. What is the hardest thing in your life that you’ve had to:

a.) Overcome?

b.) Accept?

14. What two steps could you immediately take that would make the biggest difference in your current situation (in any area of your life)?

15. What do you believe in? Yourself, spiritually, God? Explain how and why:

16. What kinds of things in your current and previous workplace environments drive you crazy? Your dating life? What else in life drives you crazy? (Really allow yourself to go to town and “bitch” here ().

17. What, in your personal and/or dating life, would you change, if you could wave a magic wand?

YOU ARE DONE!

What To Do Next?

So now that you have filled out all these questions, what are you supposed to do with the answers?

The first thing you should do is read them. Read them, add to them and tweak them. See what you have written and get to know your strengths, weaknesses, likes, dislikes, wants and needs. I would suggest reading this every evening for a week.

NOTE: I guarantee each time you read it you will have something to add to it and you will read it differently. In fact you will feel different as well. You will have more confidence, more strength and a deeper understanding of yourself.

After that first week, I want to you to go through your responses and start to look for your personal core values. They will be sprinkled throughout the document and once you learn how to see them you will pick them out instantly.

For example:

Answer to question #16:

It drives me crazy when people waste their time having small talk with others in the office. It would be better if people did their work and then socialized after, I would like that.

Values: If you look at this answer you will see a core value is “I value a work hard, play hard mentality. Having a clear line between work and play.”

Go back to each question, look at your response and see the deeper core value within your response.

You will find out very interesting things about what you value and don’t value.

Use this deeper understanding of yourself to also recognize that others around you have different values than you. It will help you not get so angry with others but have a deeper understanding for their actions.

What Are Personal Values?

Personal Values provide an internal reference for what is good, beneficial, important, useful, beautiful, desirable, constructive, etc. Values generate behavior and help solve common human problems for survival by comparative rankings of value; the results of which provide answers to questions of why people do what they do and in what order they choose to do them.

The Importance of Clearly Defining Your Core Values

Defining our values gives us purpose. When you don’t know or you haven’t clearly defined your values, you end up drifting along in life. Instead of basing your decisions on an internal compass, you make choices based on circumstances and social pressures. You end up trying to fulfill other people’s expectations instead of your own. And before you know it, life has passed you by and you haven’t even started to live. Trying to be someone else and living without core values is down right exhausting and leaves you feeling empty and shiftless. Conversely, living a life in line with your core values brings purpose, direction, happiness, and wholeness.

Defining our values prevents you from making bad choices. Perhaps you have a vague idea about what you value. But if you haven’t clearly defined your values, you can end up making choices that conflict with them. And when your actions conflict with your values, the result is unhappiness and frustration.

Defining our values gives us confidence. I’ve noticed that when I take the time to really think and meditate upon what I value and then write those things down, I’m more likely to have the courage and confidence to make choices based on those values. There’s something about actually writing down your values that makes you more committed to living them.

Defining our values makes life simpler. When you’re sure of your core values, decision-making becomes much much simpler. When faced with a choice, you simply ask yourself: “Does this action align with my values?” If it does, you do it. If it doesn’t, you don’t. Instead of fretting over what’s the best thing do to, and standing shilly-shally in times of crisis, you simply let your internal compass guide you. (http://artofmanliness.com)

Overall having an understanding of your core personal values will help you attract women, date women, seduce women, get a great woman and have a strong relationship. Why? Because it helps you really understand yourself so that you can:

1. Be more open to others (especially women)

2. Act less guarded and defensive

3. Not emotionally react when you feel your ego gets bruised

4. Be more empathetic to others who have different values then you

5. Not be so angry or frustrated with others

6. Be your authentic real self

7. Have a strong character that women are instantly attracted too!

Women want a man with a strong sense of his core personal values and a man who can truly put his most authentic self forward.

There are 1000′s of more little things that men don’t know about women. But I guarantee if you knew them, it would put you in the top 1% of men that have their choice of women they want. I can tell every little thing you need to know about women. Including the things that women would never want you to know. Read More…

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