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SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 1 Welcome everyone to this very special day. Weddings are wonderful occasions, almost all of ushave connections to weddings - for some of us weddings stir up emotions and memories from thepast, and for others they bring to mind hopes for the future. Today we come together to joinRobbie and Jo on their special day. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” Marriage is also an agreement to love and support each other to the best of our ability andrequires that both people in the relationship work to help each other learn, grow and prosper. These values are summed up nicely in a poem by Wilferd A Petersen’ called ‘From the art ofmarriage’, which says in part:A good marriage must be created.It is never being too old to hold hands.It is remembering to say ‘I love you’ at least once each day.It is standing together and facing the world.It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each person can grow.It is not only marrying the right person -It is being the right partner. So knowing all of this, I ask Robbie:Will you take Jo to be your wife? To love her, honor and keep her, in good times and in bad; insickness and in health; for richer, for poorer; forsaking all others; ‘til death do you part?

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 1 Robbie: I will And Jo, will you take Robbie to be your husband,To love him, honor and keep him, in good times and in bad; in sickness and in health;for richer, for poorer; forsaking all others; ‘til death do you part? Jo: I will Then Robbie, please repeat after me:“I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom), take thee (groom/bride), to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband).” And Jo, please repeat after me:“I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband).” Charlie, do you have the rings? The wedding ring is a powerful symbol- that love is precious. May these rings be areminder that love is continuous and of the vows you are making to each other today. Robbie, please take this ring and place it on the tip of Jo’s finger, then repeat after me: With this ring, I take you to be my wife. May this ring always be a sign of our marriage, andof my never-ending love for you. Jo, please take this ring and place it on the tip of Robbie’s finger, then repeat after me: With this ring, I take you to be my husband. May this always be a sign of our marriage, andof my never-ending love for you.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 1 I now declare you to be husband and wife, Robbie you may kiss your bride. We are now going to have the signing of the marriage certificates. During this time we askthat you stay seated, and we will be back shortly. <signing> Ladies and Gentlemen I present to you Mr and Mrs Downes.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 2 Who offers their blessing for this woman to be married to this man? (response by all parents: Wedo) On behalf of Jo and Robbie, I welcome you here, to join in on the joy and celebration of theirmarriage. Today Jo and Robbie will be making a pledge to each other to be true, faithful, loving and devotedto one another. At this time, Robbie and Jo would also like to say a big thank you to Robbie’s family, who havetravelled all the way from England to be here on this special occasion. They would also like tohonour those who could not be with us today. We offer a special remembrance for Jo’s mother,Elizabeth. Although she is not here with us physically, we feel blessed she is with us in spirit on thisday. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” Marriage is a precious gift a lifelong dedication to love and a daily challenge to love one anothermore fully and more freely. Let your love be stronger than your anger. Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bendthan to break. Look for the best in your loved one and remember that true friendship is the basis for any lastingrelationship. I ask you both to declare your intentions for each other: Will you help each other stayfocused on the important things in life? To laugh, play and enjoy the simple pleasures together?(We will)

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 2 And will you faithfully stand by each other’s side comforting each other always? (We will) (Mandatory Vows) Robbie, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband).” (Mandatory Vows) Jo, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband).” Charlie, may I have the rings please? The wedding ring is an outward sign of an inward commitment. May these rings be to you aconstant and loving reminder of the ties that bind you together as husband and wife. Robbie, please take Jo’s ring and place it on the tip of her finger, and repeat after me. Robbie: With this ring I give you my love, my heart, and my life. And Jo, please take this ring and place it on the tip of Robbie’s finger, and repeat after me. Jo: With this ring I give you my love, my heart, and my life. May these rings be a sign of your ongoing commitment to one another, showing that your love isnever-ending.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 2 Robbie and Jo, love has set you on a path towards each other and towards this moment. In theembrace of mutual respect, may you each complete the unfinished pattern of your true self. May you strive all the rest of your lives to meet this commitment to each other with the same loveand devotion you now posses. I now pronounce you husband and wife. Robbie, you may kiss your bride! Ladies and Gentlemen, we are just going to take a moment to sign the register. You are invited totake photos if you wish, but please be aware of the official photographers, and allow them anuninterrupted view of proceedings. <signing> Ladies and gentlemen, it gives me great pleasure to introduce for the first time, Mr & Mrs Robbie andJo Downes.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 3 Good afternoon ladies and gentleman and a warm welcome to the wedding of Robbie and Jo. Weare here today to celebrate. Celebrate the love, commitment, friendship, of two people who are in itfor forever. When I asked Robbie and Jo why they chose to get married, they told me that they were ready tomake it official. Because when two people come together in marriage that is exactly what they aredoing. They are declaring their love, shouting it out to everyone, that their love is real and that theyare in it forever. Love is what we all share. It's the great unifier — our one universal truth. That no matter who we are,where we've come from, what we believe, we know this one thing: love is what we're doing right.That's why you both are standing here. That's why you all are here. We have all loved in our lifetimes,and in this moment, we're reminded that the ability to love is the very bestpart of our humanity. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” All of us here today have our own love stories. Some are short, others long. Some are yet unwritten,while others are just getting to the good part. There are chapters in all of our stories that are sad ordisappointing — and others that are exciting and full of adventure.Robbie & Jo’s love story embodies all of those things. Brought together by Jo’s mum Liz, Robbie andJo’s relationship started off professional and grew into a friendship, dedicated to their beautifulchildren both did not think love was on the cards, but that friendship, of support, compassion andkindness developed into the love and true dedication we see here today. Although Liz can’t be withus today to witness your union we know she is watching over you both with her warm smile andwishing you well in your future together.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 3 You're about to make promises to each other that you intend to keep. You're going to vow to takecare of each other, to stand up for one another, and find happiness in the other. Will you, Robert, keep Joanne’s heart safe - to laugh with her, go on adventures with her, and supporther through life's tough moments? Robbie “I will” Will you Joanne keep Robert’s heart safe - to laugh with him, go on adventures with him, and supporthim through life's tough moments? Joanne “I will” When declaring your love for each other in your decision to spend the rest of your lives together youhave accepted the responsibilities of parenthood towards each other's children. You haveestablished a home where each child finds love, security and acceptance. Caleb, Poppy and Billy - Robbie and Jo promise to love and support youto be there for you,to listen to you and respect you,to cherish and guide you,to help you learn right from wrong,to show you how to respect others and the world around you,to be there when you need us,and to give you love and make you part of our new family, I’d like to invite Charlie to read an excerpt from the poem “Love is giving’ by an anonymous author. Love is giving, not taking, mending, not breaking, trusting, believing,never deceiving, patiently bearing and faithfully sharing each joy, every sorrow, today and tomorrow.Love is kind, understanding, but never demanding.Love is constant, prevailing, its strength never failing.A promise once spoken for all time unbroken, Love’s time is forever.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 3 Thank you Charlie, and may I also have the rings please? (Mandatory Vows) Robbie, as you place the ring on Jo’s finger, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)"With this ring I marry you, wear it as a symbol of my everlasting love." (Mandatory Vows) Jo as you place the ring on Robbie’s’s finger, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)"With this ring I marry you, wear it as a symbol of my everlasting love." Robbie and Jo, may these rings always remind you of the vows you have taken. Ladies and Gentlemen, Robbie and Jo have declared that they will live together in marriage, theyhave symbolised it by joining hands, taking vows and by exchanging rings. I therefore, declare Robbie and Jo to be Husband and Wife. You may kiss the bride! We will now take a moment to sign the Marriage Register and Marriage Certificates. <signing> Ladies and Gentlemen it gives me great pleasure to present Mr and Mrs Downes. Congratulations!

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 4 Good afternoon Ladies & Gentleman and a warm welcome to the wedding ceremony of Robbie andJo - a ceremony they have put together themselves. They welcome you, not only to witness theircommitment to each other, but also to wish them well, and every happiness in their new lifetogether. Robbie and Jo would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to Uncle Joe for allowing them to hold theirwedding here and I think we would all agree that the property looks magnificent and Joe it’s a truecredit to yourself and your wife Betty. Now, I’ve never met a father who was willing to give up his daughter, so instead I ask, do you giveyour blessing for this marriage? Jo’s Dad –“ I do”Thank you. A marriage is not just about being in love, it is about a commitment that you make to each other fora life time. Growing and learning together; taking the good times with the bad. A marriage should not be takenlightly; it is a promise to each other that you will stay and see it through. A commitment to marriageis a choice and it should be nurtured daily to help it grow and stay strong. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” When a couple decide to marry, often it is because they see the unique qualities, and quirks, in eachother; that others just do not see. It is the way they make each other feel, that is unique to them, andthat no other person can give them. A marriage is the public declaration of a love shared by twopeople, and Robbie and Jo will today declare their unique and eternal love for each other.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 4 I’d now like to ask Robbie’s mother, Jenny, to read a passage from the Bible.Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down,

one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.

Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?

Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves.

A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

Thank you Jenny. And now Robbie and Jo, I have a very important question to ask you both. Robbie, do you take Jo to be your lawfully wedded wife?Will you honour her, love, and respect and protect her. Will you accept her for who she is and who she will be? Do you aspire to nurture her and help her grow as an individual? Will you be honest with her and stand beside her no matter what may come your way?Will you provide a loving stable home for your children, raise them, care for them and help them behappy and loving people? Robbie responds: "I do” Jo, do you take Robbie be your lawfully wedded husband?Will you honour him, love, and respect and protect him. Will you accept him for who he is and who he will be? Do you aspire to nurture him and help him grow as an individual? Will you be honest with him and stand beside him no matter what may come your way?Will you provide a loving stable home for your children, raise them, care for them and help them to behappy and loving people? Jo responds: "I do”

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 4(Mandatory Vows) Robbie, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband).” (Mandatory Vows) Jo, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband).” Now I ask Charlie to please come forward with the rings. Wedding rings are an unbroken circle of love, signifying to all the union of this couple in marriage. Robbie, please place this ring on the tip of Jo’s finger, and repeat after me: This ring is my sacred gift, with my promise that I will always love you, cherish you and honour youall the days of my life. With this ring, I thee wed. Jo, please place this ring on the tip of Robbie’s finger, and repeat after me: This ring is my sacred gift, with my promise that I will always love you, cherish you and honour youall the days of my life. With this ring, I thee wed. Throughout this ceremony, Jo and Robbie have vowed, in our presence, to be loyal and lovingtowards each other. They have formalised the existence of the bond between them with words spoken and with thegiving and receiving of rings.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 4 Therefore, it is my pleasure to now pronounce them husband and wife. You may now kiss your bride! Jo and Robbie will now sign the register and marriage certificate. If you would like to takephotographs, please step forward. Please be mindful of the official photographer. Thank you <signing> Ladies and Gentlemen, it is now my pleasure to present for the first time, Mr and Mrs Robbie and JoDownes!

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 5 Good afternoon ladies and gentleman and a warm welcome to the wedding of Robbie and Jo. Weare here today to celebrate. Celebrate the love, commitment, and friendship, of two people who arein it for forever. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” You don’t have to be married to be committed, we can live our entire lives dedicated to one person,devoted to loving them unconditionally, holding steadfast no matter what. So why are Robbie and Jo here? Why have they chosen to dress up – looking spectacular might I add, in front of their closest familyand friends, and perhaps some curious onlookers in the gardens to get married? It doesn’t change how they feel for one another- their deep love and commitment is obvious – yethere we are. We're all here to support you, to be proud of you, and to remind you that love isn't happily ever after. Love is the experience of writing your story. It's not one moment — not even this moment.It's everymoment. There are big moments like saying "I love you" for the first time, and gettingengaged — but mostly a million little ones that come in between the big moments. Falling asleepnext to one another, making dinner together, a bright smile at the end of a long shift at the hospital, awarm hug and a surprise pick-up at the airport, spending holidays with your families … These everyday moments fuse together into one big experience.And that brings them here. A time to pause, look back, and smile at all the moments that broughtthem here. And a time to look ahead at all the moments that are still to come.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 5 I’d like to ask Scarlett to read a poem called ‘I will be here’ by Steven Curtis Chapman IF IN THE MORNING WHEN YOU WAKE,IF THE SUN DOES NOT APPEAR,I WILL BE HERE.IF IN THE DARK WE LOSE SIGHT OF LOVE,HOLD MY HAND AND HAVE NO FEAR,I WILL BE HERE.I WILL BE HERE,WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE BEING QUIET,WHEN YOU NEED TO SPEAK YOUR MIND I WILL LISTEN.THROUGH THE WINNING, LOSING, AND TRYING WE’LL BE TOGETHER,AND I WILL BE HERE.IF IN THE MORNING WHEN YOU WAKE,IF THE FUTURE IS UNCLEAR,I WILL BE HERE.AS SURE AS SEASONS WERE MADE FOR CHANGE,OUR LIFETIMES WERE MADE FOR YEARS,I WILL BE HERE.I WILL BE HERE,AND YOU CAN CRY ON MY SHOULDER,WHEN THE MIRROR TELLS US WE’RE OLDER.I WILL HOLD YOU, TO WATCH YOU GROW IN BEAUTY,AND TELL YOU ALL THE THINGS YOU ARE TO ME.WE’LL BE TOGETHER AND I WILL BE HERE.I WILL BE TRUE TO THE PROMISES I’VE MADE,TO YOU AND TO THE ONE WHO GAVE YOU TO ME.I WILL BE HERE. There's a simple premise to the promises that you are about to make: you're vowing to be there.You're teaming up and saying to the other, "Every experience I am going to have, I want you to be apart of."

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 5 Will you, Robert, love, trust and honour Jo, grow old with her, and find new reasons to love her everyday? Robbie “I will” And Jo, will you love, trust and honour Robbie, grow old with him, and find new reasons to love himevery day? Jo “I will” Jo and Robbie, you fell in love by chance, but you're here today because you're making a choice. So Iask that you make your vows to one another. (Mandatory Vows) Robbie, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband).” (Mandatory Vows) Jo, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband).” Robbie and Jo, your journey together will have unexpected twists and turns but if you keep yourvows sacred you will always find your way back to love. Who has the wedding rings today?

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 5 Robbie, please take this ring and place it on the tip of Jo’s finger, and repeat after me: "With this ring I marry you, and offer a symbol of my everlasting love." Jo, please take this ring and place it on the tip of Jo’s finger, and repeat after me: "With this ring I marry you, and offer a symbol of my everlasting love." The ring is a symbol of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, nogiver and no receiver for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings always remindyou of the vows you have taken. Ladies and Gentlemen, Robbie and Jo have declared before me and before all of you, that they willlive together in marriage, they have symbolised it by joining hands, taking vows and by exchangingrings. I therefore, declare Robbie and Jo to be Husband and Wife. Robbie – you may kiss the bride! To conclude the ceremony I invite Robbie and Jo and their witnesses, to sign the Marriage Registerand Marriage Certificate (couple and witnesses sign certificates) <signing> Ladies and Gentlemen it gives me great pleasure to present Mr and Mrs Downes Congratulations!

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 6 Welcome everyone. It is with much excitement that I let you know the arrival of our bride isimminent. I take this moment to remind you all to turn off your phones or other devices. Robbie and Jo have hired a professional photographer and they are happy to share their photos withyou. As this is a celebration, Jo and Robbie would like you to enjoy this day by laughing, cheering,clapping whenever you feel the urge. On behalf of Jo & Robbie, I would like to welcome you to this beautiful setting and to this veryspecial occasion for us all.

Human relationships are what matter the most to Jo & Robbie in their lives. One of the mostunderstated but deepest relationships is that between a father and his daughter. And one of the rareoccasions where this relationship is acknowledged is at a wedding ceremony. George represents allof us, he particularly represents his family, but today in a special gesture he symbolises his ownpersonal love for his daughter, Jo. So mindful of this I now ask him…. George, would you please stand. George do you bring your daughter Jo to be married to Robbie? George: I do…and so does her mother, Elizabeth. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.”

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 6 We are here to offer our support for this marriage, unite their families and to wish them everyhappiness for their life together. They have decided to seal their love with this marriage and have invited us to share in theirhappiness. Real love between a man and a woman is unconditional and perhaps the highestexperiences that is possible to humankind. Such love reduces selfishness, deepens personalities, promotes growth, but above all, gives life newpurposes and meaning especially being a blended family. Marriage understands and forgives the mistakes love is unable to avoid. It encourages newexperiences and new ways of expressing love through the seasons of life. For Jo & Robbie, marriage is a promise from the heart and mind based on mutual love, trust, respectand the understanding that from now on, each partner will consider each other’s desires and needsas equal to their own. They are both thankful to have found such happiness in each other and they will continue to nurturetheir relationship as it moves through life’s various stages. They will make promises today, whichwill carry them through a lifetime of new adventures and challenges. And now I’d like to invite Scarlett to read a poem called ‘An Uncommon Love’ by Terah Cox. May you have the loveonly two can know,may you go where onlytwo as one may go.May the sun rise and setin your bonded hearts,and the moon never find youtoo long apart.May you cherish each other’sdreams as your own,

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 6 and turn stumbling blocksinto stepping stones.May you brave life’s mountainsand miles together,may there be no stormyour love cannot weather.May you be lovers and alliesand friends,may your soul’s conversation never end.May you capture on earthwhat’s in heaven above,may your hearts know the raptureof an uncommon love. The next part of the ceremony is The Asking and that is largely what today is about. It is more than acelebration of the love which lives in Robbie and Jo’s hearts today. Today is also about Jo and Robbie being joined together by their hopes, dreams and promises ofwhat will be and proclaiming their intentions for that which tomorrow shall hold. Jo and Robbie, Do you promise to love, respect, assist and look after each other for the rest of youlives? Robbie and Jo respond - ‘We do’ Before Jo and Robbie take their vows, they want everyone to know that is not only the marriage of Joand Robbie but also the joining together of a family. Caleb, Poppy and Billy, your Mum and Dadpromise to be there when you need them and to offer advice if you ask for it - or if you don’t! Should you ever need to talk, they will be there to listen. If you ever need a shoulder to lean on, theywill be there to support you, and they will always be honest with you.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 6 And now Jo and Robbie it is time for you to make your vows....please face each other and holdhands (Mandatory Vows) Robbie, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)All that I am I give to youand all that I have, I share with you.Whatever the future holds I will love and stand by you throughout our lives together.This I promise to you". (Mandatory Vows) Jo, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)All that I am I give to youand all that I have, I share with you.Whatever the future holds I will love and stand by you throughout our lives together.This I promise to you. THE RING CEREMONY Jo & Robbie, the never-ending circle of these rings symbolises eternity. Let them always remind you of the promises that you have made today, and of your love for oneanother.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 6 Robbie, please take Jo’s hand and repeat after me. Jo, wear this ring for today,tomorrow and all the years to comeand the world will know that I am yours and you are mine. Jo, please take Robbie’s hand and repeat after me. Robbie wear this ring for today,tomorrow and all the years to comeand the world will know that I am yours and you are mine. Jo & Robbie, true marriage begins well before the wedding day, and the efforts of marriage continuewell beyond the ceremony’s end. A brief moment in time and the stroke of the pen are all that is required to create the legal bond ofmarriage, but it takes a lifetime of love, commitment and compromise to make marriage durable andeverlasting. As you experience each and every moment in life may you always trust in one another and may youalways cherish one another as you do today, with complete commitment It is now with much pleasure that I declare you to be husband and wife. Robbie, you may kiss your beautiful bride. I would now like to welcome Charlie and Scarlett to join Robbie and Jo to sign the marriagecertificates. Please chat amongst yourselves and we will be with you shortly to continue with the ceremony. <signing>

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 6 Family and friends, I could have your attention again for a few more moments. Jo & Robbie, you share today the joy of a deep commitment and sacred trust. You have given eachother the most precious gift of love. Treasure it, nurture it and encourage it with all the honesty you used in creating it. You are sharingsomething rare and beautiful. On behalf on your family and friends, I would like to wish you both a life filled with love, laughter,happiness, friendship and adventures. Family and friends, it is my privilege to present to you all for the very first time Mr & Mrs Downes!

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 7 On behalf of Robbie and Jo, I welcome you here today to join in the joy and celebration of theirmarriage. Your presence here is very much appreciated; and the long distances that some of youhave travelled to be here reinforces the love and support you offer to this young couple. They want you know the important role that each of you have played in their lives and how it is verymuch appreciated. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” At this time, Robbie and Jo would also like to honour those who could not be with us today. Althoughthey are not here with us physically, we feel blessed they are with us in spirit on this special day. Today Robbie and Jo will pledge to each other their devotion to be true, faithful and loving and I amprivileged to be guiding them through this process on this wonderful occasion. Marriage is one of the most important lifetime obligations that two people can commit to. There are so many factors that go into the making a successful marriage; a strong bond of friendship, respect for each other and possessing a love that accepts each others strengths andweaknesses allowing it to grow with each passing day.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 7 At this point, I would like to ask Scarlett to come up to read a passage from the Bible. A reading from 1 Corinthians Chapter 13:, verses 1-13 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or aclanging cymbal.If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith thatcan move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gainnothing.Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is notself-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, alwayshopes, always perseveres. Thank you Scarlett. Robbie and Jo, by coming here today you have taken the initial step in what will be a wonderful andlasting life together. Today you ask for each other’s hand in marriage. The asking as part of the wedding traditionsymbolises the grounds on which the two of you wish to build your relationship. Robbie will you take Jo to be your wedded wife, to love her, honour and keep her, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, promising to stay true to her, as long as you both shall live? Robbie: I will

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 7 Jo will you take Robbie to be your wedded husband, to love him, honour and keep him, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, promising to stay true to him, as long as you both shall live? Jo: I will (Mandatory Vows) Robbie, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)To have and to hold, from this day forth,to love, honour, and cherish,To comfort and respect, both in the good times and the bad times, as long as we both shall live. (Mandatory Vows) And Jo, could you repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)To have and to hold, from this day forth,to love, honour, and cherish,To comfort and respect, both in the good times and the bad times,as long as we both shall live.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 7 Friends, family and gathered guests, Robbie and Jo have generously and publicly shared the askingof each other’s hands and their vow of love with us today. And now to seal the vows with the exchanging of rings. Charlie, may we have the rings please? The perfect circle of the ring symbolises eternity. In the years to come, may these rings remind youof the overwhelming joy of this special occasion when you were united in marriage. May your lovebe like the circle of this ring, with no beginning and no end. Robbie, place the ring on the tip of Jo’s finger then repeat after me: Jo, the most precious metal of this ring symbolizes, that your love is the most precious element in my life. I place it on your finger as a visible sign, of the vows that have made us husband and wife. Jo, place the ring on the tip of Robbie’s finger then repeat after me: Robbie, the most precious metal of this ring symbolizes,that your love is the most precious element in my life. I place it on your finger as a visible sign, of the vows that have made us husband and wife. Your rings say that even in your uniqueness you have chosen to be bound together. Let these ringsalso be a sign that love has substance as well as soul, a present as well as a past, and that, despiteits occasional sorrows, love is a circle of happiness, wonder and delight. Robbie and Jo, in the presence of your family and friends who have joined you to share this momentof joy in your lives, you have declared your deep love and affection for each other. You have stated that you wish to live together, always open to a deeper, richer friendship andpartnership. You have formed your own union, based on respect and honour.

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 7 Therefore, it is my joyful responsibility to officially acknowledge your union as husband and wife. Robbie, you may now kiss your bride!! Ladies and gentlemen, we will now take a moment to sign the register and formalise proceedings. Robbie and Jo encourage you to take as many photos as you like, just keep in mind that we do havean official photographer, who needs to have an uninterrupted view of the couple. <signing> Ladies and gentlemen it gives me great pleasure to introduce you to the happy couple Mr and Mrs Robbie and Jo Downes!

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 8 Welcome everyone. I’ve just had word that our bride has arrived. I take this moment to remind youall to either switch your phones off or to silent. A professional photographer and videographer have been engaged for the day so there will be plentyof footage of the ceremony, as such you are all invited to please put your phones and cameras awayand enjoy being fully present for the ceremony with Jo and Robbie . I invite you all now to be standing for the arrival of our beautiful bride. Please be seated. On behalf of Jo & Robbie, I would like to welcome you to this beautiful setting and to this veryspecial day. We are here today to share with Jo and Robbie a most joyous occasion. They are delighted that many of you travelled from great distances to be with them, in particular,Jennifer, Robbie’s mum who has made the long journey from England. Who offers their blessing for this woman to be married to this man? George: I do. Thank you George. At this time, we remember Jo’s mum, Elizabeth. Although she is not with us physically, we know thatshe is with us in spirit. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant.“I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter.Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.”

SAMPLE CEREMONIES - 8 We are here, not to witness the beginning of what will be, but rather what already is. We do notcreate this marriage because we cannot. We can and do, however, celebrate with Jo and Robbie, their children and their families, thewondrous and joyful occurrence that has already taken place in their lives. Within the circle of love, marriage encompasses all of life’s most important relationships. A wife anda husband are each other’s best friend, confidant, lover, teacher, listener and critic. They are alsomentors to each other’s children. Robbie and Jo are choosing each other. But they are not alone in this commitment. Robbie you are not only choosing Jo you are committing your life to her son Billy. And Jo, you are not only declaring your love for Robbie, but also to love and support Caleb andPoppy. And I know that whilst there is a gap in the ages of the children they share together, they are allhappy to see their parents finally make it official. Today, Jo & Robbie stand here together to publically commit their lives as one - a life as husbandand wife. They intend to encourage each other to act according to what is best for their world, theirchildren and themselves. Jo & Robbie, today you affirm your love for one another, the one you have laughed with, the one youhave learned from and shared with, the one you have chosen to support, encourage and give yourselfto. Today you affirm your lifelong commitment to one another. Shortly I am going to ask you to make promises and vows that shall guide you together in yourcommon future. But first I ask: Do you both come here today of your own free will? Robbie and Jo respond - ‘We do’

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And so it is time for you to make your vows....please face each other and hold hands (Mandatory Vows) Robbie, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)Jo, when your legs don't work like they used to,And when I can't sweep you off your feet,My heart will still be falling as hard for you as the day we met.I promise to encourage and inspire you, to laugh with youAnd to always be there for you in the tough times.I also promise to try to be as excited as you are about the next holiday you have booked even thoughwe haven’t yet been on the last two holidays you have booked.I promise to be a loving, caring, and strong Step Dad for Billy.Helping him to grow up to be a great man.This is all because I love you and you are my type of wonderful! (Mandatory Vows) And Jo, could you repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)Robbie, I continue to fall in love with you every single day.I promise to encourage and inspire you, to laugh with you,And to always be there for you in the tough times.I also promise to try and understand why on earth you need twenty baseball caps even though youonly have one head.I promise to be a loving, caring, and strong Step Mum for Caleb and PoppyHelping them to grow up to be great adults.This is all because I love you and you are my type of wonderful!


These vows will unite you in a relationship that is founded on love, trust, honesty and mutual respect. And they are more than mere words; these vows are the expression of an emotion that twoindividuals cherish between themselves; an emotion that will unite you in a way that only you canfully understand. And now I ask Charlie – may I have the rings please? Jo & Robbie, these rings are a sign of your commitment to one another. Throughout your lifetime as you look at them, they will remind you of this moment, of the vows thatyou have just made, and of your love for one another. Robbie, please take Jo’s hand and repeat after me. Jo, let this ring be a symbol of our love.May it represent our today, our tomorrows,our future & our past.As I have given you my hands to hold,so I give you my life to keep Jo, please take Robbie’s hand and repeat after me. Robbie let this ring be a symbol of our love.May it represent our today, our tomorrows,our future & our past.As I have given you my hands to hold,so I give you my life to keep.


Today you have declared your commitment to each other and your children before family andfriends. Your yesterdays were the path to this moment, and your journey to a future of togethernessbecomes a little clearer with each new day. As you experience each and every moment in life may you always trust in one another and may youalways cherish one another as you do today, with complete commitment It gives me great pleasure to pronounce you as husband and wife. Robbie, you may kiss your bride. I would now like to invite Charlie and Scarlett to the signing table. Please chat amongst yourselves and we will be with you shortly to continue with the ceremony. <signing>

Could I have your attention again for a few more moments please. Today, we’ve all been lucky enough to witness the marriage of these two awesome people, and wecan be thankful for the privilege of what we’ve just shared and witnessed together. Family and friends, it is my privilege and honour to present to you all for the very first time Mr & Mrs Downes!


Friends, family and guests, on behalf of Jo and Robbie it gives me great pleasure to welcome you allhere to celebrate the love Jo and Robbie have for each other, and so generously share with all of ustoday. Today we recognise and witness their decision to journey through their lives together as one inmarriage. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” Marriage is one of the most important obligations that two people can commit to. It’s said that to make a marriage successful you need a strong bond of friendship, a massive dose ofrespect, and a willingness to accept each other’s weaknesses in the same measure in which werejoice in each other's strengths and triumphs. So with us all as privileged witnesses allow me to lead you both and ask; as a couple will youpromise to trust, respect and cherish each other? We will Will you allow yourselves to grow together by unselfishly encouraging, appreciating and nurturingeach other? Robbie and Jo: We will


And do you promise to support and be true to one another for as long as you both shall live? Robbie and Jo: We will In answering ‘we will’ to these questions, Jo and Robbie have consented to supporting each other,and to grow together in marriage, where two will become one. With the acceptance of the asking come the vows. (Mandatory Vows) Robbie, please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)You have filled my world with meaning.You have made me so happy and fulfilled as a person.Thank you for taking me as I am;loving me, and welcoming me into your heart. (Mandatory Vows) And Jo, could you repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)I promise to encourage and inspire you,to laugh with you, and comfort you in times of sorrow.Today I choose you to be my partner,and commit myself to youfor the rest of my life.


I would now like to ask Robbie’s mother, Jenny, to read a passage from the Bible. Colossians Chapter 3: verses 12-15 As God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility,meekness, and patience. Bear with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another,forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. Above all, clotheyourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christrule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in the one body. The wedding ring is an outward sign of an inward commitment and brings us to another wonderfultradition of the ceremony. Charlie, may we have the rings please? May these rings forever remind Robbie and Jo of their covenant with one another here today. May their compassion and kindness for one another be like these rings, complete, whole and havingno end. Robbie place the ring on the tip of Jo’s finger then repeat after me. Jo, I give you this ring as a symbolof my love and commitment to you.Wear it with joy,for your love has made me complete. Jo place the ring on the tip of Robbie’s finger then repeat after me. Robbie, I give you this ring as a symbolof my love and commitment to you.Wear it with joy,for your love has made me complete


As a couple may you continue to give and be prepared to forgive, and with each passing day andevery passing year may you experience and grow in the joy and love that you share with all of ustoday. It gives me great pleasure to pronounce you ‘Man and Wife’. You may kiss the bride! We will now take a short break to sign the official documents. Jo and Robbie are happy for you to come up and take your photos however, be aware that theofficial photographer needs to prepare themselves first. <signing>

Ladies and gentlemen, it gives me great pleasure to introduce to you: Mr and Mrs Robbie and Jo Downes!


We are gathered here in the presence of family and friends to celebrate one of life's greatestmoments, and to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our bestwishes to Robbie and Jo as they unite in marriage. Before we start the proceedings I would like to convey the couple’s wishes and instructions to youtoday, and they are that we are here to celebrate – and party hard! Robbie and Jo wish for you all tohave a fun and memorable time with them today. It would be impossible to celebrate this day without you all. It is their admiration for you, their mostprecious family and friends that they have invited you here today to not only witness their marriagebut also to share with them their first treasured moments as husband and wife. On their behalf, I warmly welcome you. Who gives this woman to be married to this man today? Jo’s Dad: I do

Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” Today is the official ending to this couple’s free trial. Today finally brings them together to be joinedin marriage, and to formally bring their two families together as one. This is not the beginning of life together; but a continuation of the love story they are writing.


They have not rushed into this relationship; they took their time because they wanted to be sure thiswas the perfection, the love and commitment they were looking for from a partner for life. This istheir ‘forever’ love. And you don’t have to spend much time in their company to see not only are they best friends butthey do indeed share a deep love for each other, it radiates from them both and the smile on theirfaces speaks volumes. While this ceremony will bind them together legally, the reality is there are no words I can say orpapers they can sign that can ‘make’ them married. A true loving marriage happens deep within your heart, and that takes place a long time before weget to be invited to their wedding ceremony, where they proudly and publicly celebrate that love andlifetime commitment to one another. Robbie do you take Jo for your lawful wedded wife? Will you love , honour , comfort and cherish her from this day forward, forsaking all others, keepingonly unto her for as long as you both shall live? Robbie; I do Then Robbie, please repeat after me:“I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband) Jo do you take Robbie for your lawful wedded husband? Will you love , honour , comfort and cherishhim from this day forward, forsaking all others, keeping only unto him for as long as you both shalllive? Jo: I do


Then Jo, please repeat after me:“I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband) Robbie and Jo will now exchange vows their personal vows to each other. Robbie:

I promise to create a life for our new family.I promise to always leave the toilet seat downI promise that I will always love you I pledge to always admire your huge, strong, kind and determined heartI pledge to never take score… even if I'm totally winningI pledge that I will always love you I vow to comfort you both in good times, and times of distress.I vow to listen - for as long as it takes for you to feel heardI vow that I will always love you Jo:I promise to take love all of our children equally.I promise to let you take three hours to make a cup of teaI promise that I will always love you I pledge to laugh with you and grow old with you in mind and spiritI pledge to give you control of the remote controlI pledge that I will always love you I vow to always to be open and honest with youI vow to never question your need to watch the Avengers – yet againI vow that I will always love you


I am now going to invite Charlie to present the rings. The rings you are about to give each other are the first gifts you give to one another as husband andwife, treasure them and this moment forever. Robbie as you place the ring on Jo’s finger please repeat after me: Jo I give this ring as a heartfelt symbol,of my unconditional love, trust and fidelity. Jo as you place the ring on Robbie’s finger repeat after me: Robbie I give this ring as a heartfelt symbol,of my unconditional love, trust and fidelity. The rings you now wear will remain on your hands for your lifetime; they tell the world you are loved.As the years go by your rings will wear and your hands will age, however your love will grow deeperand stronger with each passing year, wear them so proudly. Be happy as you grow old together in love; enjoy the little moments as well as the big events. Ladies and Gentlemen we have all been witnesses to Robbie & Jo promise to love one another inmarriage, they have exchanged vows declaring their love and lifelong commitment to each other. They have given each other the gift of a ring symbolising their love trust and faithfulness, with that inmind I am happy to declare them to be husband and wife. I now invite Robbie and Jo to seal the promise’s they have made to one another today with a kiss. Ladies and Gentlemen please enjoy the music and each other’s company while we sign the marriageregister.


<signing>

Ladies and Gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to introduce to you all the newly married Mr & Mrs Robbie Downes

Congratulations may happiness follow you always!


Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen, family and friends. I would like to extend to you all a verywarm welcome as we come together to celebrate the marriage of Robert and Joanne. I would especially like to welcome those who have travelled a long way to be here, including Robbie’sMum who has flown in all the way from England for this special day. I would like to thank you for taking the time to be here today and for offering your love and supportto Robert and Joanne. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” Ladies and Gentlemen, Robert and Joanne have asked that you all be part of their special day bybecoming involved in their ceremony. They have requested that you collectively, give them away toeach other in marriage. With this in mind, I now ask all of you to please say “We do” if you bring Robert and Joanne to bemarried to each other. Guests: We Do

Today is a celebration. A celebration of love, of commitment, of friendship, of family, and of two people who are in it for forever.


Despite all of our differences, love is what we all share. It's the great unifier. No matter who we are, where we've come from, or what we believe, we know this one thing: love iswhat we're doing right. We will now have a poem read by Scarlett, it is titled “Oh the places you’ll go” by Dr Seuss: Congratulations! Today is your day.You’re off to Great Places!You’re off and away!You have brains in your head.You have feet in your shoes.You can steer yourselfAny direction you choose.You’re on your own And you know what you know.And YOU are the guys who’ll decide where to go.You’ll be on your way up!You’ll be seeing great sights!You’ll join the high fliersWho soar to high heights.You won’t lag behind, because you’ll have the speed.You’ll pass the whole gang and you’ll soon take the lead.Wherever you fly, you’ll be best of the best.Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.Except when you don’tBecause, sometimes, you won’tI’m sorry to sayBut, sadly, it’s trueThat Bang-upsAnd Hang-upsCan happen to youYou can get all hung upIn a prickle-ly perch.


And your gang will fly onYou’ll be left in a Lurch.You’ll get mixed up, of course,As you knowYou’ll get mixed up with many strange things as you go.So be sure when you stepStep with care and great tactAnd remember, that Life’sA Great Balancing Act.Just never forget to be dexterous and deft.And never mix up your right foot with your left.And will you succeed?Yes! You will, indeed!99.8 and ¾ per cent guaranteed)So…….Be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or BrayOr Mordecai Warner Van Allen O’ SheaYou’re off to Great Places!Today is your day!Your mountain is waiting,So….Get on your way! Robert and Joanne, you have built a strong foundation for your relationship based on honesty andrespect. You have found joy in one another’s company, and you have become better, more fulfilledpeople because of your connection. Your relationship already has all of the necessary components for success, but you must maintainthat from here forward by remembering what is important in your relationship and why you aremaking this commitment to one another today.


So I ask you. Will you Robert take Joanne to be your wife, to share your life with her, and do youpledge that you will love, honour and care for her for the rest of your life? Robbie: I do. Will you Joanne take Robert to be your husband, to share your life with him, and do you pledge thatyou will love, honour and care for him for the rest of your life? Jo: I do.

Robbie will you please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husbandTo laugh and dream with, and to care for you so that we may grow together, and as individuals.This is my promise for our life together. Jo will you please repeat after me: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husbandTo laugh and dream with, and to care for you so that we may grow together, and as individualsThis is my promise for our life together Robert, please take Joanne’s hand and repeat after me: I give you this ring is a symbol of my love, may it symbolise our love for eternity


Joanne, please take Robert’s hand and repeat after me: I give you this ring is a symbol of my love, may it symbolise our love for eternity Robert and Joanne, you have made your promises to share your lives together in accordance withyour vows, it is with great pleasure, that I now pronounce you husband and wife. You may kiss the bride. I would now like to ask Robert and Joanne and their witnesses, Charlie and Scarlett to join me as wesign the register. <Signing >

Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in congratulating and welcoming, for the first time, ashusband and wife Robert and Joanne Downes.


Good afternoon everyone and thank you for being here today. A special welcome to Robbie’s familywho have travelled here from London. At this time, we would also like to honour the memory of Jo’s mum, Elizabeth who is here today inour hearts. Ladies and gentlemen friends and family, My name is John Middleton and I'm a authorised CivilCelebrant. “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others,voluntarily entered into for life.” Marriage is based on love, tolerance, understanding and truth. It is the sharing of life and all itsfortunes, it is forgiving the mistakes that love is unable to avoid, it is encouraging new experiencesand new ways of expressing love whilst understanding the needs of each other. It is a partnership between two wonderful individuals that are even better when they are together andthat is certainly the case for the wonderful couple before us today. Jo and Robbie met during what was a very trying time for Jo and her family – but Robbie proved tobe an enormous support and Jo remembers her mother joking with her after their first appointmentabout the ‘cute doctor’…little did she know she would be marrying him 5 years later! Jo & Robbie have asked Scarlett to share the following Bob Marley reading with us all today, called‘He’s not perfect’. HE’S NOT PERFECT. YOU AREN’T EITHER, AND THE TWO OF YOU WILL NEVER BE PERFECT.


BUT IF HE CAN MAKE YOU LAUGH AT LEAST ONCE, CAUSES YOU TO THINK TWICE, AND IF HEADMITS TO BEING HUMAN AND MAKING MISTAKES, HOLD ONTO HIM AND GIVE HIM THE MOSTYOU CAN. HE ISN’T GOING TO QUOTE POETRY, HE’S NOT THINKING ABOUT YOU EVERY MOMENT, BUT HEWILL GIVE YOU A PART OF HIM THAT HE KNOWS YOU COULD BREAK. DON’T HURT HIM, DON’T CHANGE HIM, AND DON’T EXPECT FOR MORE THAN HE CAN GIVE. DON’T ANALYZE. SMILE WHEN HE MAKES YOU HAPPY, YELL WHEN HE MAKES YOU MAD, ANDMISS HIM WHEN HE’S NOT THERE. LOVE HARD WHEN THERE IS LOVE TO BE HAD. BECAUSE PERFECT GUYS DON’T EXIST, BUTTHERE’S ALWAYS ONE GUY THAT IS PERFECT FOR YOU Thanks Scarlett. A successful marriage is made up of two people, each putting the other beforethemselves and giving to that person 100% first, last, and always. However, as Jo and Robbie’s journey unfolds there will be opportunities and challenges. In those times they will need the support of all of you who have come to celebrate this joyous union. So in the joining of these two families, I ask all of you to take a vow in their presence and in thepresence of each other. Do you pledge to honour and support their marriage and will you always be there for them andembrace them with the love of family and the joy of sharing your lives with them? Guests: “We will.”

Robbie, do you take Jo to be your lawfully wedded wife? I do


Jo, do you take Robbie to be your lawfully wedded husband? I do

Robbie, could you please say your vows to Jo: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husbandJo, you are the best thing that ever happened to me. You light up the room and my life and I vow toalways love, protect and stick by you no matter what life throws our way. And Jo, please say your vows to Robbie: “I call upon the persons here present,to witness that I, (bride/groom),take thee (groom/bride),to be my lawful wedded (wife/husband)Robbie you make me the happiest girl in the world and I promise to love, care for and encourage youevery day of our lives Jo & Robbie will now exchange their rings…Charlie please present the rings. Robbie, please repeat after me as you place the ring on Jo’s finger: I offer you this ring as a sign of my love and affection. This ring is my sacred gift with my promisethat I will always love you, cherish you and honour you and with this ring, I thee wed. Jo, please repeat after me as you place the ring on Robbie’s finger: I offer you this ring as a sign of my love and affection. This ring is my sacred gift with my promisethat I will always love you, cherish you and honour you and with this ring, I thee wed.


It is my greatest pleasure to now pronounce you husband and wife. You may now kiss the bride. Our bride and groom and witnesses will now sign the certificate. Please feel free to use this time totake photographs. <signing>

I would now like to present to you for the very first time, Mr and Mrs Downes!


Welcome everyone to this very special day. A very special thank you is being given the two gentlemen who have just walked Amy down the aisle.Bill and Rob, you are both the rocks that Amy has depended upon throughout her life and the lovethat both of you have given Amy over the years has made her the beautiful woman that she is today. There are just a precious few moments in our lives where we feel the need to be surrounded by thepeople that we know and love. Today is one of those moments. All of you gathered here today towitness this union, have shaped the two individuals standing before us in some way. Zac and Amy would like to acknowledge the distance that some of you have travelled in order to behere particularly Zac’s Mum and Dad who have flown from England to be here. It means the world tothem that you have taken time from your busy lives to bless their union. Weddings are wonderful occasions. For some of us, weddings stir up emotions and memories fromthe past; and for others they bring to mind dreams and hopes for the future. Today we come together to join Zac and Amyon their special day. The love that Zac and Amy havefor one another is powerful, and palpable. My name is John Middleton. I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law.Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am toremind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about toenter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of two people to the exclusion of allothers, voluntarily entered into for life. Zac and Amy, Marriage is to be a beautiful and sacred expression of your love for one another. Asyou pledge your vows to each other, and as you commit your lives to each other, I ask that you do soin all seriousness, and yet with a deep sense of joy; with the deep conviction that you are committingyourselves to a dynamic growing relationship of trust, mutual support, and caring love that requiresboth people in the relationship to help each other learn, grow and prosper.

The deep love that brings Zac and Amy together today is beautifully articulated in a reading called“Beauty That Is Never Old” which Sarah, Jo’s sister, will read for us today. Sarah:“BEAUTY THAT IS NEVER OLD” BY JAMES WELDON JOHNSONWhen buffeted and beaten by life’s storms,When by the bitter cares of life oppressed,I want no surer haven than your arms,I want no sweeter heaven than your breast.When over my life’s way there falls the blightOf sunless days, and nights of starless skies;Enough for me, the calm and steadfast lightThat softly shines within your loving eyes.The world, for me, and all the world can holdIs circled by your arms; for me there lies,Within the lights and shadows of your eyes,The only beauty that is never old. Thank you Sarah. And now Zac and Amy – it’s your turn! Zac: Will you take Amy to be your wife? To love her, honour and keep her, in good times and in bad;in sickness and in health; for richer, for poorer; forsaking all others; ‘till death do you part? Zac: I will And Amy, will you take Zac to be your husband? To love him, honour and keep him, in good timesand in bad; in sickness and in health; for richer, for poorer; forsaking all others; ‘till death do you part? Amy: I will Then Zac, please repeat after me: I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, Zachary Andrew Cook, take thee, AmyConstance Turlington, to be my lawful wedded wife.

And Amy, please repeat after me: I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, Amy Constance Turlington, take thee, ZacharyAndrew Cook, to be my lawful wedded husband. As a part of today’s ceremony Zac and Amy are exchanging rings. Charlie, Zac’s handsome youngson has been given the important job of taking care of the rings and presenting them at this point.Charlie, do you have the rings? The wedding ring is a powerful symbol- that love is precious. Let these rings serve not as locksbinding you together, but as keys, unlocking the secrets of your hearts for each other to know, andthus bringing you closer together forever. Zac, please take this ring and place it on the tip of Amy’s finger, then repeat after me: With this ring, I take you to be my wife. May this ring always be a sign of our marriage, and of mynever-ending love for you. Amy, please take this ring and place it on the tip of Zac’s finger, then repeat after me: With this ring, I take you to be my husband. May this always be a sign of our marriage, and of mynever-ending love for you. I now declare you to be husband and wife, Zac you may kiss your bride. We are now going to have the signing of the marriage certificates. During this time we ask that youstay seated, and we will be back shortly. <signing> Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you Mr. and Mrs. Cook

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