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THE MIRACLE INSIDE YOUTHE MIRACLE INSIDE YOU
1 FATHERFATHER2 SONSON3 HOLY GHOST HOLY GHOST
HOLY SPIRITHOLY SPIRIT4 BODYBODY5 SOULSOUL6 SPIRITSPIRIT
JEHOVAH, LORD GODJEHOVAH, LORD GOD
TSIDKENU TSIDKENU - Our Righteousness- Our Righteousness
MIKADDESH MIKADDESH - Who Sanctified- Who Sanctified
RAPHA RAPHA - Our Healer- Our Healer
NISSI NISSI - Our Victory Banner- Our Victory Banner
SHALOM SHALOM - The Ever Present Lord- The Ever Present Lord
JIREH JIREH - Who Sees and Provides- Who Sees and Provides
ELOHIM ELOHIM - Almighty Creator- Almighty Creator
ADONAI ADONAI - Lord, Our Master- Lord, Our Master
SABAOTH SABAOTH - Lord of Hosts (War Lord)- Lord of Hosts (War Lord)
ELYON ELYON - Most High- Most High
EL SHADDAI EL SHADDAI - Who Nourishes, Supplies, - Who Nourishes, Supplies, SatisfiesSatisfies
ROHI ROHI - Lord, Our Shepherd- Lord, Our Shepherd
The SOUL of ManThe SOUL of Man
Our WillOur Will How/What We ThinkHow/What We Think What/What We FeelWhat/What We Feel How/What We How/What We
BelieveBelieve Our Physical SensesOur Physical Senses Our EmotionsOur Emotions
A NEW DAY - A NEW DAY - TODAYTODAY
Today is the beginning of a Today is the beginning of a new day.new day.
God has given me this day God has given me this day to use as I will.to use as I will.
I can waste it - or use it for I can waste it - or use it for good, but whatever I do good, but whatever I do today is important, because today is important, because I am exchanging a day of my I am exchanging a day of my life for it.life for it.
I want today to be for gain, I want today to be for gain, and not loss; good and not and not loss; good and not evil; success, and not failure evil; success, and not failure in order that I shall not in order that I shall not regret the price I have paid regret the price I have paid for it.for it.
PRAISE AND WORSHIP PRAISE AND WORSHIP GUIDELINESGUIDELINES
ConfessConfess Read The WordRead The Word IntercedeIntercede PetitionPetition Pray The WordPray The Word Singing PraisesSinging Praises Meditate on the Meditate on the
WordWord ListenListen
Understanding Spiritual Understanding Spiritual LawsLaws
Law of Life in ChristLaw of Life in Christ Law of FaithLaw of Faith Law of AttractionLaw of Attraction Law of CirculationLaw of Circulation
Spiritual Laws (continued)Spiritual Laws (continued)
The Law of The Law of MindMind
Law of Cause Law of Cause and Effectand Effect
The Law of The Law of ProsperityProsperity
Law of Sin and Law of Sin and DeathDeath
The Power of WinningThe Power of Winning
Winning: A Divine Winning: A Divine DecreeDecree
The Anointing The Anointing Factor in WinningFactor in Winning
The Right To Be The Right To Be Different is WinningDifferent is Winning
The Power of The Power of AwarenessAwareness
The Power of Self The Power of Self EsteemEsteem
Power of Winning Power of Winning (continued)(continued)
Power of WisdomPower of Wisdom Power of ProjectionPower of Projection Power of Self Power of Self
ControlControl Power of MotivationPower of Motivation Power of ExpectancyPower of Expectancy Power of VisionPower of Vision Power of DirectionPower of Direction Power of DisciplinePower of Discipline Power of DimensionPower of Dimension
POWER OF WINNINGPOWER OF WINNINGI AM’sI AM’s
I AM AWARE, ALIVE, AND A I AM AWARE, ALIVE, AND A LEARNING HUMAN BEING LEARNING HUMAN BEING WITH AN INCREASING WITH AN INCREASING AWARENESS OF MYSELF, MY AWARENESS OF MYSELF, MY JOB AND MY WORLD.JOB AND MY WORLD.
I AM A WORTHY HUMAN I AM A WORTHY HUMAN BEING, ENJOYING A DEEP-BEING, ENJOYING A DEEP-DOWN FEELING OF VALUE DOWN FEELING OF VALUE AND SELF-WORTHAND SELF-WORTH
I AM IN CONTROL OF MY I AM IN CONTROL OF MY ACTIONS AND REACTIONS TO ACTIONS AND REACTIONS TO LIFES SITUATIONS.LIFES SITUATIONS.
I AM MOTIVATED TOWARD I AM MOTIVATED TOWARD THAT WHICH I MOST DESIRETHAT WHICH I MOST DESIRE
I AM /EXPECT THE VERY BESTI AM /EXPECT THE VERY BEST I AM FEELING THE JOY OF I AM FEELING THE JOY OF
ACCOMPLISHMENT AS I ACCOMPLISHMENT AS I ACHIEVE MY GOAL(S)ACHIEVE MY GOAL(S)
I AM DISCIPLINED TO I AM DISCIPLINED TO PRACTICE MY ADVANCED PRACTICE MY ADVANCED LEARNING SIMULATION EACH LEARNING SIMULATION EACH AND EVERY DAY.AND EVERY DAY.
I AM A TOTAL PERSON, I AM A TOTAL PERSON, LEADING A WELL BALANCED LEADING A WELL BALANCED LIFELIFE
I AM A WARM, FRIENDLY I AM A WARM, FRIENDLY WINNER WHO ENJOYS BEING WINNER WHO ENJOYS BEING WITH AND COMMUNICATING WITH AND COMMUNICATING WITH OTHER WINNERS.WITH OTHER WINNERS.
SELF-AWARENESS
• Winners are aware of their world and all it has to offer.
• Positive self-awareness is knowing who you are, what you believe in, the role in life and work you are presently filling
• You have been selling yourself short all your life.
• You have the opportunity to experience more environmental, physical, and mental abundance than you are presently experiencing.
• Positive self-awareness is opening your eyes to the possibilities and alternatives available.
• Change your attitude and your environments will change automatically
SELF-AWARENESS
• Winners are aware of their world and all it has to offer.
• Positive self-awareness is knowing who you are, what you believe in, the role in life and work you are presently filling
• You have been selling yourself short all your life.
• You have the opportunity to experience more environmental, physical, and mental abundance than you are presently experiencing.
• Positive self-awareness is opening your eyes to the possibilities and alternatives available.
• Change your attitude and your environments will change automatically
SELF-ESTEEM
• Self-esteem is the deep-down, inside-the-skin feeling of your own self-worth.
• You realize that liking yourself and accepting yourself are not necessarily egotistical.
• You know that you are unique, one of a kind. There has never been nor ever will be anyone exactly like you.
• Positive self-esteem means accepting yourself, totally and unconditionally, fully realizing you have strengths and weaknesses, good points and bad, positive and negative qualities.
• To establish true self-esteem, you need to concentrate on your positive attributes, your good qualities, your successes.
• Each and every person is important. Nobody is more important than anyone else.
SELF-ESTEEM
• When someone criticizes you, you understand that he or she is criticizing your behavior, not you. In other words you don’t have to take it personally.
• When someone compliments you, simply say, "Thank you."
• You know when to say, "I'm sorry,” “I made a mistake," and "I forgive,”
• Humility is recognizing and emphasizing the value in others. It is not degrading yourself or minimizing your own worth.
• You are an incredible creation. Look at your assets:
– A mind that thinks at the rate of 800 words per minute
– Eyes with 100 million receptors
– Ears with 24,000 fibers
– 500 muscles
– 200 bones
– 7 miles of nerve fiber
– 60,000 miles of blood vessels
– a heart that pumps more than 1,600 gallons of blood each day
– 500,000 touch detectors
• You understand that the self-management skill of positive self-esteem is an important key to your professional success.
SELF-CONTROL
• We are emotional human beings. Our emotions seem to take control sometimes. Acknowledging this and understanding how to control your emotions will make life easier.
• At the root of a distressful situation is often a dominant need.
• When our needs aren't met, we often become uncomfortable, upset, angry, or confused
• Understanding our needs can be the beginning of positive self-control.
• According personal responsibility for our attitudes and actions will give us positive self-control.
• Our goal is to erect a Statue of Responsibility.
SELF-CONTROL
• We are emotional human beings. Our emotions seem to take control sometimes. Acknowledging this and understanding how to control your emotions will make life easier.
• At the root of a distressful situation is often a dominant need.
• When our needs aren't met, we often become uncomfortable, upset, angry, or confused
• Understanding our needs can be the beginning of positive self-control.
• According personal responsibility for our attitudes and actions will give us positive self-control.
• Our goal is to erect a Statue of Responsibility.
SELF-CONTROL
• The person who admits a mistake and says "I'm sorry" is accepting personal responsibility.
• Qualifying phrases such as "If only…” creates weakness.
• Everything you do is habit. Your habits are formed over many years and take time to break. Determine which losing habits you want to eliminate and strive to develop winning habits.
• One of the best ways to break a bad habit is to replace it with a good one. Rather than trying to force out the old bad habit, concentrate your energy on developing the new habit, which eventually will replace the old.
• Life is a "do-it-to-myself program,” and take the credit and the blame for my position.
• Positive self-control is a self-management skill, which, when developed, puts you in control of your career and environment.
SELF-MOTIVATION
• A motive is that which is within an individual which incites him or her to action.
• Fear is the powerful negative motivator that restricts, tightens, panics, forces, and defeats.
• Desire is the strong positive motivator that attracts, reaches, opens, directs, and encourages.
• Our lives are controlled largely by the way we talk to ourselves, that is, by our self-talk.
• Winners see the rewards of success in advance; they do not fear the penalties of failure.
• Losers express built-in excuses by saying "I can't" and "I have to" instead of "I can" and "I want to."
SELF-MOTIVATION
• There is no such thing as a stress-free life. A life without stress would really be no life at all.
• Winners know how to respond positively to stress. They use it to their advantage rather than being controlled by it.
• It is not possible to move away from the reverse of an idea; your actions will be controlled by your currently dominant thought.
• What do you fear? Determine your fears and start to do the things you fear to do. Action will minimize and ultimately eliminate your fears.
• Positive self-motivation is dissatisfaction with the status quo or a desire for change.
• Positive self-motivation is a self management skill which will move you in a positive direction.
SELF-EXPECTATION
• The single most outwardly identifiable trait of a winning human being is positive self-expectation, which is pure and simple optimism.
• You may or may not get what you deserve in life, but you almost always get what you expect from life.
• Winners expect a good job, financial stability, a nice home, good, friends, ,success, and good health.
• Losers expect such occurrences as the loss of job, bankruptcy, a dull evening, bad service, failure, and ill health.
• The study of psychosomatic medicine the relationship between the mind and the body and how each affects the other-indicates that the body manifests what the mind harbors.
SELF-EXPECTATION
• All people have germs, but not all people become ill, instead, the cause of disease is closely linked to people’s reactions to life's situations.
• Winners in all walks of life are consistent in their ability to do a good job, and they set out to prove themselves correct.
• One of the best ways to develop positive self-expectancy is to use positive self- talk all day every day..
• Nobody likes to be around negative pessimistic, skeptical losers. They repel others
• People are attracted to optimistic, enthusiastic, cheerful winners.
• Give yourself an extra dose of unqualified, burning optimism. It is the elixir of life
• Positive self-expectancy is a self-management skill which can positively affect every situation.
SELF-IMAGE
• Understanding your self-image is the key to understanding your behavior. When you change your self-image, your personality and behavior changes accordingly.
• What you "see" is what you get. Who you "feel" is who you are.
• Individuals behave according to their perceptions of reality, not according to actual reality. It is not what you "are" that holds you back; It's "what you think you are not."
• Each of us has developed a self-image concerning every talent, every characteristic, every performance.'
• Your self-image dwells in the subconscious level of thinking.
• The conscious level of thinking acts as a "judge," it collects information from. the environment, stores in the memory bank, and makes rational decisions.
SELF-IMAGE
• The subconscious level of thinking acts as a "robot;" it is responsible for autonomic body control, such as respiration and circulation.
• The subconscious "robot" controls the conscious "judge" level of thinking. action frequently takes place without consultation with the "judge," but no action ever takes place without reference to the "robot."
• Scientists agree that the human nervous system cannot tell the difference between an actual experience and vividly imagined.
• You can program your own self image by imagining yourself as the person you want to become.
• Creating a positive self-image is a critical self-management skill which can make the difference between being productive and non-productive.
SELF-DIRECTION
• Winners have a game plan for life.
• Positive self-direction means knowing where you are going.
• The human system is goal-seeking by design.
• This system constantly monitors self-talk and environmental feedback about the goal and adjusts self-image setting in its subconscious robot achievement mechanism.
• Every decision necessary to reach a particular goal is made by your self-motivated system.
• Winners are people with a definite purpose in life.
• What kinds of goals are you committed to?
• We all have the potential and opportunity for success in life. it takes just as much energy and effort to fail as does to succeed and live the good life.
SELF-DIRECTION
• What do you stand for? If you don’t stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
• Most people spend. more time planning a party, studying the newspaper, or making a Christmas list than they spend planning their lives.
• The secret to positive self-direction is in establishing; a clearly defined goal, writing it down, and then concentrating on it morning and night, with words, pictures and emotions, as if you had already achieved it.
• The self-management skill of positive self-direction will focus your energy on specific goals and objections.
SELF-DISCIPLINE
• Self-discipline requires practice.
• Self-discipline begins where lip service ends.
• You may be motivated by desire; you may feel in control; you may expect to go to the moon; you may imagine yourself on the moon. But you will never even get near the launching pad without persistent self-discipline
• Self-discipline alone can make or break a habit. Self-discipline can effect a permanent change in your self-image and in you.
• Self-discipline is doing within when you are without.
• Positive self-discipline demands that you commit to memory those thoughts and emotions that will override current information stored in the memory bank
SELF-DISCIPLINE
• You must practice simulation training, that is, you must imagine and visualize what you want to be.
• Advanced Learning is one method for simulation training.
• We learned how to walk, talk, dive, type, ski; and to perform many other skills by practicing them. Isn't it worth it to practice simulation training by means of Advanced Learning in order to master self-discipline?
• Everything is habit forming if it is repeated.
• The self-management skill of positive self-discipline is simply practicing and simulating successful coming events.
SELF-DIMENSION
• Acquiring a positive self-dimension requires looking beyond yourself for meaning in life.
• A winner puts it all together, He or she is a total person, which is a. rare human being indeed.
• Self-dimension takes the Psychology of Winning beyond the self and into the universe.
• Winning means extending a strong hand to one who is reaching or groping or, just hanging on. Winners know there will be no lasting peace on earth until there's a piece of bread in every mouth.
• Self-dimension starts with the inner circle - the family.
• Winners live well-rounded lives. They spend time developing their most important relationships,
SELF-DIMENSION
• Positive self-dimension means having a “double win" attitude, "If I help you win, then I win.”
• Winners go beyond the horoscopes and stars and fortune tellers prophesies, beyond the do-it-yourself advice, beyond the plastic surgeons knife. Instead, they. live each precious, golden moment as if it were their last, building for the future and learning from the past.
• Positive self-dimension is being in harmony with the divine order that shapes the entire universe.
• Because winners understand the mortality of their own bodies, they are able to age gracefully.
• Developing positive self-dimension is a self-management skill which affects all areas of your life.
SELF-PROJECTION
• Winners in life are walking examples of positive self-projection. They project an aura; they have an unmistakable presence; they have a charisma that is disarming, radiant and magnetic.
• Positive self-projection depends upon creating a positive first impression, knowing you'll never have a second chance.
• Studies have shown a definite correlation between looking good and success in life. A recent Harvard study pointed out that people who are made to feel unattractive by themselves and their peers tend to suffer from feelings of loneliness, rejection, and isolation.
• Winners can project success without flaunting it.
SELF-PROJECTION
• Positive self-projection means introducing yourself first when you meet people, saying “Hello, my name is…”
• Look straight into the eyes of the person who is talking.
• Positive self-projection is learning how to listen to others.
• Winners exhibit an "I'll make them glad they talked to me" attitude.
• Positive self-projection is being service-oriented, not self oriented.
• Project your very best self every day in the way you walk, talk, listen, and react.
• Positive self-projection is a self-management skill others can benefit from when around you.
The Winning MixThe Winning Mix
FaithFaith
AttitudeAttitude
GoalsGoals
VisionVision
OptimismOptimism
PlanningPlanning
The Winning Mix The Winning Mix (continued)(continued)
KnowledgeKnowledgeDeterminatioDeterminatio
nnPerseverancePerseveranceEnthusiasmEnthusiasmEnduranceEnduranceAwarenessAwareness
The Power of FaithThe Power of Faith
Faith In GodFaith In God
Faith In Jesus ChristFaith In Jesus Christ
Faith In The Holy SpiritFaith In The Holy Spirit
Faith In SelfFaith In Self
Faith In The Power of FaithFaith In The Power of Faith
Faith In The Word of GodFaith In The Word of God
Faith In The Promises of GodFaith In The Promises of God
Applied Faith in LivingApplied Faith in Living
God’s Kingdom
God’s Citizenship
God’s Methods and Means
Believe Him Develop Your-self in Love
Love Your Neighbor
Love Your Customers
Love Your Associates
Love Your Workers and Co-Workers
A POSITIVE ATTITUDEA POSITIVE ATTITUDE
RespecterRespecter LeaderLeader GuideGuide CaringCaring AppreciativeAppreciative EmpathizerEmpathizer ExpressiveExpressive AssertiveAssertive
A A NEGATIVENEGATIVE ATTITUDE ATTITUDE
CalculatorCalculator DictatorDictator ProtectiveProtective Nice GuyNice Guy Clinging VineClinging Vine WeaklingWeakling JudgmentalJudgmental BullyBully
COMPONENTS of COMPONENTS of ATTITUDEATTITUDE
Affirmed Truth is PositiveAffirmed Truth is PositiveWinners Have a Positive AttitudeWinners Have a Positive AttitudeIf You Think You Can’t -- You’re RightIf You Think You Can’t -- You’re RightI Can Do All Things thru Jesus ChristI Can Do All Things thru Jesus ChristYou Can Do All Things thru Jesus ChristYou Can Do All Things thru Jesus ChristWe Can Do All Things thru Jesus Christ.We Can Do All Things thru Jesus Christ.
Goals and ObjectivesGoals and Objectives� God’s Way, Not OursGod’s Way, Not Ours� The Right Way (is not The Right Way (is not
Wrong) is the Big WinWrong) is the Big Win� The Right ValuesThe Right Values� GivingGiving� EdifyingEdifying� BuildingBuilding� PromotingPromoting
Goal Setting GuidelinesGoal Setting Guidelines
Balanced Big PictureBalanced Big Picture Set Clear GoalsSet Clear Goals Order in AchievementOrder in Achievement Alignment of ActionAlignment of Action Goal CooperationGoal Cooperation Constructive ImageConstructive Image Clear VisionClear Vision Constant ImprintingConstant Imprinting
Goal Setting GuidelinesGoal Setting Guidelines(Continued)(Continued)
Plan AchievementsPlan Achievements Achievable End ResultAchievable End Result Built In AccountabilityBuilt In Accountability Set Time LimitsSet Time Limits ConfidentialityConfidentiality Flexible and ModifiableFlexible and Modifiable Written AffirmationsWritten Affirmations
THE BIG PICTURETHE BIG PICTURE SPIRITUALSPIRITUAL SOCIALSOCIAL FAMILYFAMILY HERITAGEHERITAGE LIVINGLIVING PROSPERITYPROSPERITY HEALTHHEALTH CAREERSCAREERS CITIZENSHIPCITIZENSHIP
VISIONVISION The “Big” PictureThe “Big” Picture Historical LessonsHistorical Lessons Strategic LessonsStrategic Lessons Put the Puzzle Put the Puzzle
TogetherTogether Practice the Practice the
Answer(s)Answer(s) Teach The Teach The
AnswersAnswers
Why Is Vision Important?Why Is Vision Important?What Does Vision Mean?What Does Vision Mean?
To Make A Dream Come TrueTo Make A Dream Come True
and Make A Vision Realand Make A Vision Real
The Dreamer Must First AwakenThe Dreamer Must First Awaken
and Then Go To Workand Then Go To Work
OPTIMISMOPTIMISM
Believe in God’s Believe in God’s Ultimate ControlUltimate Control
Think Positively Think Positively about the about the OutcomeOutcome
Affirm TruthAffirm Truth Affirm JusticeAffirm Justice Affirm Affirm
RighteousnessRighteousness Affirm GoodnessAffirm Goodness
PLANNINGPLANNING
Have A StrategyHave A Strategy Set Priorities Know Set Priorities Know
Daily What’s Daily What’s ImportantImportant
Plan Together with Plan Together with Other’s Who Impact Other’s Who Impact ItIt
Set Priorities Set Priorities AccordinglyAccordingly
Multi-Focus Multi-Focus ProsperityProsperity
Multiple Focused ProsperityMultiple Focused Prosperity
SpiritualSpiritual MentalMental PhysicalPhysical IntellectualIntellectual EmotionalEmotional FinancialFinancial EconomicalEconomical SocialSocial FamilyFamily
KNOWLEDGEKNOWLEDGE
WISDOM: The WISDOM: The Ability to Use Ability to Use KnowledgeKnowledge
God’s Wisdom, not God’s Wisdom, not Man’s TheoriesMan’s Theories
Study Situations Study Situations and Eventsand Events
Study the Past Study the Past HistoryHistory
Knowledge (continued)Knowledge (continued)
Apply Lessons Apply Lessons Learned by Learned by Others/SelfOthers/Self
Avoid Repeating Avoid Repeating MistakesMistakes
Learn to Accept Learn to Accept and Learn from and Learn from MistakesMistakes
DETERMINATIONDETERMINATION
Accept Responsibility Accept Responsibility - Do What You Must- Do What You Must
Have Courage to Have Courage to Stand AloneStand Alone
Gain High Ground Gain High Ground and Hold Itand Hold It
When You’re Right - When You’re Right - StandfastStandfast
The Battle is Already The Battle is Already WonWon
PERSEVERANCEPERSEVERANCE
Repeat Correct Steps Repeat Correct Steps until it Producesuntil it Produces
Avoid “Profit” MotiveAvoid “Profit” Motive Don’t Make Gain Your Don’t Make Gain Your
GoalGoal Overcome ChallengesOvercome Challenges We Are All AchieversWe Are All Achievers Endure: Never Give UpEndure: Never Give Up
ENTHUSIASMENTHUSIASM
Full of Abundant Full of Abundant LifeLife
Full of Agape LoveFull of Agape Love Full of ZoeFull of Zoe Appreciating Life in Appreciating Life in
All FormsAll Forms Do Work You LikeDo Work You Like Enjoy The Enjoy The
Challenge of Challenge of AchievementAchievement
AWARENESSAWARENESS
SpiritualSpiritual EmotionalEmotional PhysicalPhysical SocialSocial PoliticalPolitical EnvironmentalEnvironmental DevelopmentalDevelopmental
THE THE CHANGECHANGE PROCESS PROCESS
ANGERANGER DENIALDENIAL BARGAININGBARGAINING DEPRESSIONDEPRESSION ACCEPTANCEACCEPTANCE KNOWLEDGEKNOWLEDGE BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR ATTITUDEATTITUDE
THE WHOLE PERSONTHE WHOLE PERSON
INDIVIDUAL MARRIAGE FAMILY
PHYSICALHEALTH
MENTALHEALTH
SOCIETY
VOCATION EDUCATION RECREATION/LEISURE
COMMUNITYSERVICE
RETIREMENT SPIRITUAL
THE HIGH PERFORMANCE THE HIGH PERFORMANCE SYSTEMSYSTEM
TEAMWORKTEAMWORK
PURPOSEPURPOSE
PROCESSESPROCESSES
PEOPLEPEOPLE
COMMUNICATIONS COMMUNICATIONS FEEDBACKFEEDBACK
GOALSGOALS
LEADERSHIPLEADERSHIP
CREATIVITYCREATIVITY
INNOVATIONSINNOVATIONS
FLEXIBILITYFLEXIBILITY
THE HIGH PERFORMING THE HIGH PERFORMING PERSONPERSON
SELF IMAGESELF IMAGE RISK TAKINGRISK TAKING HOLISTIC FITNESSHOLISTIC FITNESS VISUALIZATIONVISUALIZATION WORK STYLEWORK STYLE NETWORKINGNETWORKING BELIEF SYSTEMBELIEF SYSTEM MANAGING TIMEMANAGING TIME
KEY TO SUCCESSKEY TO SUCCESS
SUCCESS SUCCESS BREEDS BREEDS EXCITEMENTEXCITEMENT
EXCITEMENT EXCITEMENT CREATES CREATES OPPORTUNITYOPPORTUNITY
OPPORTUNITY OPPORTUNITY ATTRACTS ATTRACTS PEOPLEPEOPLE
How The Self-Image Is How The Self-Image Is FormedFormed
Positive Words, Positive Words, Pictures and Pictures and FeelingsFeelings oror
Negative Words, Negative Words, Pictures and Pictures and FeelingsFeelings
Imagination X Imagination X Vividness = Vividness = Subconscious Subconscious RealityReality
SELF-IMAGESELF-IMAGECYCLECYCLE
SELF TALK BUILDS SELF TALK BUILDS SELF IMAGESELF IMAGE
SELF IMAGE SELF IMAGE CONTROLS REAL CONTROLS REAL PERFORMANCEPERFORMANCE
REAL PERFORMANCE REAL PERFORMANCE REINFORCES SELF REINFORCES SELF TALKTALK
AFFIRMATIONS & AFFIRMATIONS & VISUALIZATIONS VISUALIZATIONS ENHANCES CYCLEENHANCES CYCLE
SELF TALK
SELFIMAGE
REALPERFORMANCE
THE COMFORT ZONETHE COMFORT ZONE
Indicates our operating Indicates our operating close to our “reality” close to our “reality” picture.picture.
The further from the The further from the self image the more self image the more discomfort, the more discomfort, the more discomfort the more discomfort the more return to the self return to the self imageimage
Increasing the zone: Increasing the zone: add more imagination add more imagination and vividness to and vividness to modify subconscious modify subconscious realityreality
SelfImage
ComfortZone
SubconsciousReality
The Thought ProcessThe Thought Process(Separate Functions of the (Separate Functions of the
Mind)Mind)ConsciousConsciousSubconsciouSubconsciou
ssUnconsciousUnconsciousCreative Creative
SubconsciousSubconscious
The Conscious MindThe Conscious Mind
PerceptionPerceptionAssociationAssociationEvaluationEvaluationDecisionDecision
The UNCONSCIOUS MindThe UNCONSCIOUS Mind
Stored Facts / Stored Facts / DataData
TruthTruthRealityRealityValuesValuesMoralsMoralsAttitudeAttitude
The The SUBCONSCIOUSSUBCONSCIOUS Mind Mind
Automatic Automatic FunctionsFunctions
Learned Learned Autonomic Autonomic FunctionsFunctions
Data StorageData Storage GIGOGIGO
Garbage InGarbage InGarbage OutGarbage Out
KnowledgeKnowledge
TheTheCreative Subconscious MindCreative Subconscious Mind
Problem Problem SolvingSolving
Psychological Psychological DriveDrive
Creative Creative EnergyEnergy
Actualized Self Actualized Self ImageImage
PRINCIPLE RISK TAKINGPRINCIPLE RISK TAKING
PEOPLEPEOPLE MARKETSMARKETS TECHNOLOGYTECHNOLOGY FINANCESFINANCES ECONOMICSECONOMICS LAWLAW POLITICSPOLITICS ENVIRONMENTENVIRONMENT
The POWER DiamondThe POWER Diamond
LAWLAWRESOURCESRESOURCESPOWERPOWERCULTURECULTURE
SYSTEMSSYSTEMS
LAW
CULTURE RESOURCES
POWER
POWER SOURCESPOWER SOURCES
POSITIONPOSITION RANKRANK STATUSSTATUS INFORMATIONINFORMATION COERCIVECOERCIVE AUTHORITATIVEAUTHORITATIVE REWARD - WORK REWARD - WORK
CONTROLCONTROL RACERACE SEXSEX
LAWLAW RULESRULES REGULATIONSREGULATIONS CODESCODES POLICIESPOLICIES PROCEDURESPROCEDURES JUSTICEJUSTICE COMMANDMENTSCOMMANDMENTS STATUTESSTATUTES PRECEPTSPRECEPTS
The Ten CommandmentsThe Ten Commandments
No Other GodsNo Other Gods No Graven ImagesNo Graven Images Honor His NameHonor His Name Remember the Remember the
SabbathSabbath Honor Father and Honor Father and
MotherMother
Ten Commandments (cont’d)Ten Commandments (cont’d)
Thou Shalt Not KillThou Shalt Not Kill No AdulteryNo Adultery No StealingNo Stealing No False Witness No False Witness
Against Thy Against Thy NeighborNeighbor
No Coveting What No Coveting What Belongs To AnotherBelongs To Another
Holistic (Whole Person) Holistic (Whole Person) FitnessFitness
SpirituallySpiritually MentallyMentally PhysicallyPhysically IntellectuallyIntellectually EmotionallyEmotionally EconomicallyEconomically FinanciallyFinancially SociallySocially
CULTURECULTURE
AestheticsAesthetics PhilosophiesPhilosophies EducationEducation Health ControlHealth Control Alcohol and DrugsAlcohol and Drugs DiscriminationDiscrimination RacismRacism SexismSexism
Cultural DevelopmentCultural Development
Celebrating CultureCelebrating Culture Celebrating HeritageCelebrating Heritage Learn / Honor Learn / Honor
HistoryHistory Affirmative ActionAffirmative Action Cultural AwarenessCultural Awareness Cultural RealizationCultural Realization Divine Creative Divine Creative
InheritanceInheritance
Cultural Development Cultural Development (cont’d)(cont’d)
UnityUnity Self-DeterminationSelf-Determination Collective WorkCollective Work Collective Collective
ResponsibilityResponsibility Economic Economic
DevelopmentDevelopment PurposePurpose CreativityCreativity FaithFaith
Applied Community Applied Community DevelopmentDevelopment via Kwanzaa via Kwanzaa
PrinciplesPrinciples UMOJAUMOJA (Unity/Cohesion)(Unity/Cohesion)
KUJICHAGULIAKUJICHAGULIA (Self (Self Determination)Determination)
UJIMAUJIMA (Work/Responsibility)(Work/Responsibility)
UJAMAAUJAMAA (Economics)(Economics)
NIA NIA (Purpose, Goals, (Purpose, Goals, Objectives)Objectives)
KUUMBAKUUMBA (Creativity)(Creativity)
IMANI IMANI (Faith)(Faith)
Principles of African Way of Principles of African Way of LifeLife
Restoring AncestryRestoring Ancestry ReassessmentReassessment ReclaimingReclaiming RecommitmentRecommitment RemembranceRemembrance RetrievalRetrieval ResumptionResumption ResurrectionResurrection RejuvenationRejuvenation
Cultural DevelopmentCultural DevelopmentRelated TopicsRelated Topics
Black EconomicsBlack Economics Black NationalismBlack Nationalism Black LiberationBlack Liberation Pan AfricanismPan Africanism Restoration Restoration
(Slavery)(Slavery) Recovery Recovery
(Slavery)(Slavery) Cultural PluralismCultural Pluralism Rites of PassageRites of Passage
Scale of Forces in Managing Human Scale of Forces in Managing Human DifferencesDifferences
HUMANFACTORS
STRUCTURALFACTORS
Scale of Forces in Managing Human Scale of Forces in Managing Human Differences - Differences - Human FactorsHuman Factors
ValuesValues BeliefsBeliefs AttitudesAttitudes ExperiencesExperiences BackgroundBackground StressesStresses ConflictsConflicts FrustrationsFrustrations
Scale of Forces in Managing Human Scale of Forces in Managing Human Differences - Differences - Structural FactorsStructural Factors
DisciplineDiscipline PowerPower TasksTasks ObjectivesObjectives RulesRules RegulationsRegulations AuthorityAuthority
Youth DevelopmentYouth DevelopmentRite of PassageRite of Passage
Providing Hope for Providing Hope for the Futurethe Future
Showing Care and Showing Care and Concern for TodayConcern for Today
Creating Creating OpportunityOpportunity
Demonstrating Demonstrating LeadershipLeadership
Exemplifying Exemplifying CapabilityCapability
Youth DevelopmentYouth DevelopmentRite of Passage (cont’d)Rite of Passage (cont’d)
Teaching Viable Teaching Viable and Legit and Legit AlternativesAlternatives
Developing Developing CompetenciesCompetencies
Assertive vs.... Assertive vs.... Reactive Problem Reactive Problem Solving SkillsSolving Skills
Racism - What is It?Racism - What is It?
The attitude, belief The attitude, belief and associated and associated feelings that white feelings that white people are people are inherently superior inherently superior to nonwhite and to nonwhite and darker skinned darker skinned people, or that people, or that darker skinned darker skinned people are people are inherently inferior to inherently inferior to white peoplewhite people
CYCLE OF RACISMCYCLE OF RACISM
COMMUNICATIONSCOMMUNICATIONS SUPERIORITY / SUPERIORITY /
INFERIORITYINFERIORITY GEOGRAPHIC GEOGRAPHIC
EXCLUSIONEXCLUSION DISCRIMINATIONDISCRIMINATION INEQUALITYINEQUALITY REINFORCED BELIEFSREINFORCED BELIEFS
RACISM
COMMUNICATIONSCOMMUNICATIONS
LANGUAGE BARRIERLANGUAGE BARRIER MISUNDERSTANDINMISUNDERSTANDIN
GG MISCONCEPTIONSMISCONCEPTIONS IGNORANCEIGNORANCE HYPOCRISYHYPOCRISY PREJUDICEPREJUDICE CULTURAL CULTURAL
ARROGANCEARROGANCE IDEOLOGICAL IDEOLOGICAL
VALUESVALUES
RACISM
RELATIONSHIPSRELATIONSHIPSUNDER RACISMUNDER RACISM
ASSUMED ASSUMED SUPERIORITYSUPERIORITY
ASSUMED ASSUMED INFERIORITYINFERIORITY
SEGREGATIONSEGREGATION POLARIZATIONPOLARIZATION SUBORDINATIONSUBORDINATION EXPLOITATIONEXPLOITATION
RACISM
EFFECTS AND AFFECTSEFFECTS AND AFFECTSUNDER RACISMUNDER RACISM
DISCRIMINATIONDISCRIMINATION INEQUALITYINEQUALITY POVERTYPOVERTY ADVERSE BELIEFSADVERSE BELIEFS ADVERSE VALUESADVERSE VALUES REINFORCE THE REINFORCE THE
NEGATIVENEGATIVE
Dominant CultureDominant Culture(White & Male)(White & Male)
Individual RacismIndividual Racism Moral Self InterestsMoral Self Interests Material Self-Material Self-
InterestsInterests PrejudicePrejudice DiscriminationDiscrimination EthnocentrismEthnocentrism Self-fulfilling Self-fulfilling
ProphecyProphecy Socialization ProcessSocialization Process
INSTITUTIONAL RACISMINSTITUTIONAL RACISM
Institutional Institutional Racism involves Racism involves having the power having the power to carry out to carry out systemic systemic discriminatory discriminatory practices through practices through major institutions major institutions (businesses / (businesses / organizations) in organizations) in the societythe society
Dominant InstitutionsDominant Institutions(White & Male)(White & Male)
Institutional RacismInstitutional Racism Develop Self Develop Self
InterestsInterests Economics/LaborEconomics/Labor Political SystemPolitical System Legal/Justice SystemLegal/Justice System Health Health
Care/MedicineCare/Medicine Education SystemEducation System Housing SystemHousing System
Key Barriers to Realization of Key Barriers to Realization of the African American Dreamthe African American Dream Low Achievement Low Achievement
OrientationOrientation Unconstructive Unconstructive
ClimateClimate Unconstructive Unconstructive
EnvironmentEnvironment Stunted Individual Stunted Individual
GrowthGrowth Lack of Creative Lack of Creative
CapacityCapacity Undeveloped Undeveloped
Societal RoleSocietal Role
Key Barriers to Realization of the Key Barriers to Realization of the African American Dream (cont’d)African American Dream (cont’d)
Soft CritiquingSoft Critiquing Negative Intergroup Negative Intergroup
RelationsRelations Ineffective Educational Ineffective Educational
MethodsMethods Inappropriate LeadershipInappropriate Leadership Inadequate Team Inadequate Team
OrganizationOrganization Inadequate Group Inadequate Group
OrganizationOrganization Unqualified MembershipUnqualified Membership Insufficient Parental Insufficient Parental
InvolvementInvolvement
Impacting ForcesImpacting Forces
FamilyFamily FriendsFriends Church / ReligionChurch / Religion Schools Schools
/Education/Education BooksBooks Media / TelevisionMedia / Television MusicMusic PrejudicesPrejudices
Success Indicators ofSuccess Indicators ofPeak PerformancePeak Performance
Commitments to Commitments to the Goals and the Goals and ObjectivesObjectives
Realistic, Realistic, Measurable and Measurable and Achievable GoalsAchievable Goals
Self Management Self Management thru Self Disciplinethru Self Discipline
Clear Thinking Self Clear Thinking Self ControlControl
Success Indicators ofSuccess Indicators ofPeak Performance (cont’d)Peak Performance (cont’d)
TeambuildingTeambuilding TeamworkTeamwork Role PlayingRole Playing Delegating Delegating
ResponsibilityResponsibility Participation in Participation in
AchievementsAchievements FlexibilityFlexibility
Success Indicators ofSuccess Indicators ofPeak Performance (cont’d)Peak Performance (cont’d)
Adapting to Adapting to Environmental Environmental ChangesChanges
Managing Managing Economic ChangesEconomic Changes
Adaptability and Adaptability and Integration of Integration of TechnologyTechnology
Peak PerformancePeak Performance
Commitment to Commitment to GoalsGoals
Measurable GoalsMeasurable Goals Achievable GoalsAchievable Goals Self Control / MasterySelf Control / Mastery TeambuildingTeambuilding Role Playing Role Playing
OutcomeOutcome AdaptabilityAdaptability FlexibilityFlexibility
Performance ManagementPerformance ManagementA Values Based Model for AchievementA Values Based Model for Achievement
ValuesValues NormsNorms Individual ObjectivesIndividual Objectives MissionMission Organizational GoalsOrganizational Goals Performance StandardPerformance Standard Build ClarityBuild Clarity Clarify Doubts/ListenClarify Doubts/Listen
African AmericanAfrican AmericanGoal Setting GuidelinesGoal Setting Guidelines
The “BIG” Picture The “BIG” Picture BalanceBalance
Ordered and Ordered and Aligned ActivitiesAligned Activities
Goal CooperationGoal Cooperation Constructive Constructive
Images and ModelsImages and Models Clear Vision of Clear Vision of
Goals and Goals and ObjectivesObjectives
African AmericanAfrican AmericanGoal Setting Guidelines Goal Setting Guidelines
(cont’d)(cont’d) Accomplish Accomplish
Predetermined End Predetermined End Results Results
AccountabilityAccountability Time Limits SetTime Limits Set ConfidentialityConfidentiality Ongoing ModificationOngoing Modification Written AffirmationsWritten Affirmations Imprinting VisionsImprinting Visions
NetworkingNetworkingThe High Performing Individual or SystemThe High Performing Individual or System
Meet with Meet with Businesses, Businesses, Organizations & Organizations & ChurchesChurches
Establish Media Establish Media Communications Communications OutletsOutlets
Use All Media OutletsUse All Media Outlets Capitalize on Word of Capitalize on Word of
MouthMouth
Belief SystemBelief SystemThe High Performing Individual or SystemThe High Performing Individual or System
““Whatever A Whatever A Man Can Man Can Conceive and Conceive and Believe, he can Believe, he can Achieve.”Achieve.”
Divine RevelationDivine Revelation ImaginationImagination Inner VisionInner Vision ConceptualizationsConceptualizations
Managing Time Managing Time The High Performing Individual or SystemThe High Performing Individual or System
Personal TimePersonal Time MarriageMarriage FamilyFamily Physical HealthPhysical Health Mental HealthMental Health Social ExchangesSocial Exchanges Vocation / JobVocation / Job
Managing Time (cont’d)Managing Time (cont’d)The High Performing Individual or SystemThe High Performing Individual or System
Educational GoalsEducational Goals Recreation / Recreation /
LeisureLeisure Community ServiceCommunity Service Retirement Retirement
PlanningPlanning Spiritual Spiritual
RelationshipsRelationships
The Family of GodThe Family of God
Divine Order / Divine Order / DecreeDecree
Mirror of SelfMirror of Self Training GroundTraining Ground Fruit of Life / LivingFruit of Life / Living Expression of Love Expression of Love
Outside SelfOutside Self Teachers, Coaches, Teachers, Coaches,
Trainers and GuidesTrainers and Guides
Physical HealthPhysical HealthThe High Performing Individual or SystemThe High Performing Individual or System
Nutrition CareNutrition Care Cardiovascular Cardiovascular
HealthHealth ConditioningConditioning Weight ControlWeight Control Disease PreventionDisease Prevention
Mental HealthMental HealthThe High Performing Individual or SystemThe High Performing Individual or System
Crises ManagementCrises Management DelusionDelusion Stress / FrustrationStress / Frustration Problem Solving Problem Solving
SkillSkill Alcohol AbuseAlcohol Abuse Drug AbuseDrug Abuse Spouse AbuseSpouse Abuse Child AbuseChild Abuse
Social SkillsSocial SkillsThe High Performing Individual or SystemThe High Performing Individual or System
Venues of Venues of Approach to Approach to Change in Change in SocietySociety
The Johari The Johari WindowWindow
Analysis of Analysis of Social Social TransactionTransaction
Venues of Group Approach to Venues of Group Approach to Social ChangeSocial Change
Demand for Social Demand for Social Change / JusticeChange / Justice
Extreme / Radical Extreme / Radical Group ActionsGroup Actions
Activist Group Activist Group ActionAction
Complacent Group Complacent Group InactionInaction
In Between GroupsIn Between Groups
DEMAND
ARENAARENAThings I KnowThings I Know
Things They KnowThings They Know
oror
I’m OkI’m Ok
You’re OkYou’re Ok
BLIND SPOTBLIND SPOTThings I Don’t KnowThings I Don’t Know
Things They KnowThings They Know
oror
I’m Not OkI’m Not Ok
You’re OkYou’re Ok
FACADEFACADEThings I KnowThings I Know
Things They Don’t Things They Don’t KnowKnow
oror
I’m OkI’m Ok
You’re Not OkYou’re Not Ok
UNKNOWNUNKNOWNThings I Don’t KnowThings I Don’t Know
Things They Don’t Things They Don’t KnowKnow
oror
I’m Not OkI’m Not Ok
You’re Not OkYou’re Not Ok
ARENAARENALiked for the Right Liked for the Right
ReasonsReasons
Things I KnowThings I Know
Things They KnowThings They Know
oror
I’m OkI’m Ok
You’re OkYou’re Ok
BLIND SPOTBLIND SPOTDisliked for the Right Disliked for the Right
ReasonsReasons
Things I Don’t KnowThings I Don’t Know
Things They KnowThings They Know
oror
I’m Not OkI’m Not Ok
You’re OkYou’re Ok
FACADEFACADELiked for the Wrong Liked for the Wrong
ReasonsReasons
Things I KnowThings I Know
Things They Don’t KnowThings They Don’t Know
oror
I’m OkI’m Ok
You’re Not OkYou’re Not Ok
UNKNOWNUNKNOWNDisliked for the Wrong Disliked for the Wrong
ReasonsReasons
Things I Don’t KnowThings I Don’t Know
Things They Don’t KnowThings They Don’t Know
oror
I’m Not OkI’m Not Ok
You’re Not OkYou’re Not Ok
Job, Vocation and CareerJob, Vocation and CareerThe High Performing Individual or SystemThe High Performing Individual or System
Apply Performance Apply Performance Management ModelsManagement Models
Use Values Model to Use Values Model to Set Organization and Set Organization and Individual ObjectivesIndividual Objectives
Build Clarity at Every Build Clarity at Every Level of PerformanceLevel of Performance
Seek Clarifications Seek Clarifications With Uncertain GoalsWith Uncertain Goals VALUES NORMS
MISSION
ORGOBJ
INDIVOBJ
PERFSTAND
STRATEGIC PLANNINGSTRATEGIC PLANNINGThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
QUALITYQUALITYPRODUCTIONPRODUCTIONVALUING VALUING
DIVERSITYDIVERSITYINNOVATIONINNOVATIONSTRATEGYSTRATEGY
MONEY FLOW PROCESSMONEY FLOW PROCESS(Inflows)(Inflows)
$JobsJobs$GiftsGifts$LoansLoans$UnemploymeUnemployme
nt Compnt Comp$WelfareWelfare$InterestInterest$DividendsDividends$Capital GainsCapital Gains
$ Social SecuritySocial Security$ Retirement Retirement
PensionsPensions$ AnnuitiesAnnuities$ Wills & TrustsWills & Trusts$ Insurance Insurance
BenefitsBenefits$ RoyaltiesRoyalties$ RentalsRentals
MONEY FLOW PROCESSMONEY FLOW PROCESS(Outflow)(Outflow)
$ ApplianceAppliance$ FurnishingsFurnishings$ Medical CostsMedical Costs$ ContributionsContributions$ Social SecuritySocial Security$ Interest Interest
PaymentsPayments$ Other PurchasesOther Purchases
$Housing CostsHousing Costs$FoodFood$ClothingClothing$Personal CarePersonal Care$TransportatioTransportatio
nn$TaxesTaxes$Insurance Insurance
PremiumPremium
Productivity Thru Planned Productivity Thru Planned RenegotiationsRenegotiations
Sharing Sharing Information and Information and ExpectationsExpectations
Commitment and Commitment and Role DefinitionRole Definition
Stability and Stability and ProductivityProductivity
Watch for Pinch Watch for Pinch pointspoints
Dealing with Disruption of Dealing with Disruption of ExpectationsExpectations
Disruption / Pinch pointDisruption / Pinch point UncertaintyUncertainty AnxietyAnxiety
TerminationTerminationRenegotiationsRenegotiationsRestorationRestoration
Renegotiate to clarify Renegotiate to clarify information and information and expectationsexpectations
Restoration to recommit Restoration to recommit to information and to information and expectationsexpectations
Restoring Stability and Restoring Stability and ProductivityProductivity
Identify changes in Identify changes in commitment, roles, commitment, roles, information or information or expectations as expectations as pinch pinch pointspoints
Activate RenegotiationsActivate Renegotiations Share / Clarify Share / Clarify
Information & Information & ExpectationsExpectations
Work Life DimensionsWork Life DimensionsThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
LeadershipLeadershipInnovationInnovationFeedbackFeedbackGoalsGoalsPurposePurpose
Work Life Dimensions Work Life Dimensions (cont’d)(cont’d)
The High Performing SystemThe High Performing SystemPeoplePeopleCreativityCreativityCommunicatiCommunicati
ononFlexibilityFlexibilityTeamworkTeamwork
LeadershipLeadershipThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
Know Yourself, Know Yourself, Seek Self Seek Self ImprovementImprovement
Be ProficientBe Proficient Seek ResponsibilitySeek Responsibility Take ResponsibilityTake Responsibility Make Sound, Make Sound,
Timely DecisionsTimely Decisions Set the ExampleSet the Example
Leadership (cont’d)Leadership (cont’d)The High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Know Each PersonKnow Each Person Know Your PeopleKnow Your People Protect Their InterestsProtect Their Interests Keep Them InformedKeep Them Informed Develop Their Sense of Develop Their Sense of
ResponsibilityResponsibility Insure Tasks are Insure Tasks are
understood, understood, supervised and supervised and completedcompleted
Train as A TeamTrain as A Team Work IAW CapabilityWork IAW Capability
Leadership TraitsLeadership TraitsThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
BearingBearing UnselfishnessUnselfishness TactTact LoyaltyLoyalty KnowledgeKnowledge JusticeJustice JudgementJudgement IntegrityIntegrity
Leadership Traits (cont’d)Leadership Traits (cont’d)The High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
InitiativeInitiative EnthusiasmEnthusiasm EnduranceEndurance DependabilityDependability DecisivenessDecisiveness Moral CourageMoral Courage Physical CouragePhysical Courage
Leadership CharacteristicsLeadership CharacteristicsThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
ReverentReverentTrustworthyTrustworthyLoyalLoyalHelpfulHelpfulFriendlyFriendlyCourteousCourteous
Leadership Characteristics Leadership Characteristics (cont’d)(cont’d)
The High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
KindKindObedientObedientCheerfulCheerfulThirstyThirstyBraveBraveCleanClean
Leadership: What It ProducesLeadership: What It ProducesThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Personal Personal CommitmentCommitment
Fair playFair play UnderstandingUnderstanding Firm, Fair DisciplineFirm, Fair Discipline Effective BehaviorEffective Behavior Effective Effective
CommunicationsCommunications Interracial HarmonyInterracial Harmony DiversityDiversity
Situational LeadershipSituational LeadershipThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Situation Dictates Situation Dictates AllAll
High/Low Task High/Low Task Oriented BehaviorOriented Behavior
High/Low High/Low Relationship Relationship Oriented BehaviorOriented Behavior
ValuesValues Leadership StyleLeadership Style Maturity LevelsMaturity Levels
SITUATIONAL LEADERSHIPSITUATIONAL LEADERSHIPThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
TELLINGTELLINGS1-M1,2S1-M1,2 HT/LRHT/LR
SELLINGSELLINGS2-M1,2S2-M1,2 HT/HRHT/HR
PARTICIPATINGPARTICIPATINGS3-M3,4S3-M3,4 HR/LTHR/LT
DELEGATINGDELEGATINGS4-M3,4S4-M3,4 LR/LTLR/LT
Reactions to Effective Reactions to Effective LeadershipLeadership
The High Performing SystemThe High Performing System Behavior ChangeBehavior Change Attitude ChangeAttitude Change TrustTrust UnderstandingUnderstanding Interactive Interactive
TeamworkTeamwork CooperationCooperation CommunicationsCommunications Harmonious Harmonious
OperationsOperations
INNOVATIVEINNOVATIVEThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Problem SolvingProblem Solving ThinkingThinking DevelopmentDevelopment
FEEDBACK SYSTEMFEEDBACK SYSTEMThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Surpassing Pinch Surpassing Pinch PointsPoints
Overcoming Overcoming Barriers to Barriers to AchievementAchievement
Maintaining Team Maintaining Team IntegrityIntegrity
Key to Key to Developmental Developmental SuccessSuccess
GOAL SETTINGGOAL SETTINGThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Achievable End Achievable End ResultsResults
Built In AccountabilityBuilt In Accountability Time Limits SetTime Limits Set ConfidentialityConfidentiality Flexible ProceduresFlexible Procedures Ongoing ModificationOngoing Modification Written AffirmationsWritten Affirmations Imprinting VisionsImprinting Visions
GOAL SETTING (Cont’d)GOAL SETTING (Cont’d)The High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Get The “BIG” Get The “BIG” Picture BalancePicture Balance
Have Ordered and Have Ordered and Aligned ActivitiesAligned Activities
Goal CooperationGoal Cooperation Constructive Constructive
Images and ModelsImages and Models Clear Vision of Clear Vision of
Goals and Goals and ObjectivesObjectives
PURPOSEPURPOSEThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Customer Customer OrientationOrientation
Human Resource / Human Resource / Labor ExcellenceLabor Excellence
High Quality High Quality ProductProduct
Efficient ProcessesEfficient Processes Excellent Excellent
LeadershipLeadership
PURPOSE (cont’d)PURPOSE (cont’d)The High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Leadership and Leadership and Management Management FoundationFoundation
Corporate CultureCorporate Culture Planned OperationsPlanned Operations Effective Effective
CommunicationsCommunications Multi-Level Multi-Level
AccountabilityAccountability
PURPOSE (cont’d)PURPOSE (cont’d)The High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Quality Products Quality Products and Serviceand Service
Efficient Efficient Information SystemInformation System
Quality SuppliersQuality Suppliers Effective Processes Effective Processes
and Proceduresand Procedures Participatory Participatory
ManagementManagement
PURPOSE (cont’d)PURPOSE (cont’d)The High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Top Quality Top Quality TrainingTraining
Highly Motivated Highly Motivated WorkforceWorkforce
Internal and Internal and External Customer External Customer OrientationOrientation
Total QualityTotal Quality
CREATIVITYCREATIVITYThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Making a Dream or Making a Dream or Vision RealVision Real
Learning from and Learning from and correcting correcting mistakes of history mistakes of history or the pastor the past
Requires flexibility Requires flexibility to adjust to to adjust to demands of demands of changechange
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATIONSEFFECTIVE COMMUNICATIONSThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
SenderSender ReceiverReceiver FeedbackFeedback Encoding SkillEncoding Skill Decoding SkillDecoding Skill KnowledgeKnowledge AptitudeAptitude
COMMUNICATION BARRIERSCOMMUNICATION BARRIERSThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
AttitudesAttitudes ValuesValues PerceptionsPerceptions BeliefsBeliefs NormsNorms Points Of ViewPoints Of View NonverbsNonverbs LanguageLanguage
THE THE EFFECTIVEEFFECTIVE COMMUNICATOR COMMUNICATORThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Large ArenaLarge Arena I’m OkI’m Ok
You’re OkYou’re Ok Liked For The Right Liked For The Right
ReasonsReasons AssertiveAssertive Situational LeaderSituational Leader Astute SubordinateAstute Subordinate
FLEXIBILITYFLEXIBILITYThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Adapting to Adapting to ChangeChange PersonalPersonal InterpersonalInterpersonal IntimateIntimate SocialSocial PoliticalPolitical EconomicEconomic EnvironmentalEnvironmental
TEAMBUILDINGTEAMBUILDINGThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Shared Shared Information / Information / ExpectationsExpectations
Planned Planned RenegotiationsRenegotiations
Situation Situation TeamworkTeamwork
Comply, Buy, Comply, Buy, Share, Own WorkShare, Own Work
PEOPLE ORIENTED WORKPLACEPEOPLE ORIENTED WORKPLACEThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
ErgonomicsErgonomics Facilitates Facilitates
CreativityCreativity Maintains Maintains
ProductivityProductivity Encourages Encourages
DevelopmentDevelopment
EDUCATION SYSTEMEDUCATION SYSTEMThe High Performing SystemThe High Performing System
Education is our Education is our passport to the passport to the future for future for tomorrow belongs tomorrow belongs to the people who to the people who prepare for it.prepare for it.
- -
Malcolm XMalcolm X
RETIREMENT PLANNINGRETIREMENT PLANNINGThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
The Myth of the The Myth of the American DreamAmerican Dream
Changing Our Changing Our WorldWorld
There is no There is no retirement as long retirement as long as there’s work to as there’s work to be done. A mission be done. A mission to be completed!to be completed!
The High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
““Every race and Every race and every nation every nation should be should be judged by the judged by the best it has best it has been able to been able to produce, not produce, not the worst.”the worst.”
COMMUNITY SERVICECOMMUNITY SERVICEThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
FamiliesFamilies NeighborhoodsNeighborhoods SchoolsSchools OrganizationsOrganizations PeoplePeople GroupsGroups BusinessesBusinesses ChurchesChurches
RECREATION/LEISURE TIMERECREATION/LEISURE TIMEThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
RejuvenationRejuvenation
RestorationRestoration
RestRest
PleasurePleasure
ExerciseExercise
ChallengeChallenge
ExpandExpand
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTSPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
Understanding Understanding the Covenant the Covenant and Gospel of and Gospel of Jesus, The ChristJesus, The Christ
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTSPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
LoveLove Brotherly KindnessBrotherly Kindness GodlinessGodliness PerseverancePerseverance Self-controlSelf-control KnowledgeKnowledge VirtueVirtue Diligent FaithDiligent Faith Divine NatureDivine Nature
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTSPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
SanctificationSanctification JustificationJustification RedemptionRedemption DeliveranceDeliverance LiberationLiberation Peace with GodPeace with God Freedom from Freedom from
Bondage & Bondage & CaptivityCaptivity
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTSPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
Sight to the BlindSight to the Blind ReconciledReconciled Healed of Broken Healed of Broken
HeartednessHeartedness Fulfillment of God’s Fulfillment of God’s
LawLaw Good News to the Good News to the
Poor in SpiritPoor in Spirit
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTSPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
The Acceptable The Acceptable Year of the LordYear of the Lord
We’re Made the We’re Made the Righteousness of Righteousness of GodGod
Divine RelationshipDivine Relationship SalvationSalvation FaithFaith TruthTruth
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTSPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
GraceGrace Power of Attorney in Power of Attorney in
the Name of Jesusthe Name of Jesus Eternal LifeEternal Life Kingdom LivingKingdom Living Sealed by the Holy Sealed by the Holy
SpiritSpirit Heir of the Heir of the
Everlasting Everlasting CovenantCovenant
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTSPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
A New CreationA New Creation New BirthNew Birth Born AgainBorn Again God’s Express LoveGod’s Express Love Love of SelfLove of Self Love for NeighborsLove for Neighbors The Living WordThe Living Word Reciprocal LoveReciprocal Love
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTSPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENTThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
CommunionCommunion Heirs of the Heirs of the
Abrahamic Abrahamic CovenantCovenant
Knowledge of GodKnowledge of God Fruit of the Holy Fruit of the Holy
SpiritSpirit Gifts of the Holy Gifts of the Holy
SpiritSpirit HolinessHoliness
Improved Personal ValuesImproved Personal ValuesThe High Performing PersonThe High Performing Person
FamilyFamily FriendsFriends Church / ReligionChurch / Religion EducationEducation SkillsSkills BeliefsBeliefs Activities / HobbiesActivities / Hobbies CultureCulture ExperiencesExperiences
Nelson MandelaNelson Mandela Our deepest fear is not that we are Our deepest fear is not that we are
inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, “who am I to be us. We ask ourselves, “who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be? You are a Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t child of God. Your playing small doesn’t service the world. There’s nothing service the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people enlightened about shrinking so that people won’t feel insecure around you.won’t feel insecure around you.
We were born to make manifest the Glory We were born to make manifest the Glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us. It’s in everyone, and as we let some of us. It’s in everyone, and as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give our light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.presence automatically liberates others.