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k'gP{sLs/0f kfl/jfl/s k'gld{ngaf/] afnaflnsf / cleefjssf s'/f l;lj; / o;sf ;fem]bf/ ;+:yfx?n] sf7df8f}F pkTosfdf 3/]n' >ldssf] ?kdf sfd ug{ a;]sf afnaflnsfx?nfO{ cfŠg} kl/jf/;Fu} a;fpgsf nflu c;f]h @)^* -;g\ @)!!_ df k'gP{sLs/0f ug{ ;'¿ u¥of} + . xfdLnfO{ ;Dks{ ug]{ afnaflnsf / cleefjsx?n] o:tf] k'gld{ngsf nflu ;xof]u dfUg'ePkl5 xfdLn] ;xof]u u¥of}+ . o;sf nflu xfdLn] afnaflnsfnfO{ km]l/ :s"n hfg ;xof]u u¥of}F eg] kl/jf/nfO{ cfo cfh{gsf nflu ljleGg l;kd"ns tflnd tyf ;xsf/L dfkm{t lap k"Flh klg ;xof]u u¥of}F . cfufdL lbgdf ;d'bfosf dxTjk"0f{ JolQmn] o:tf afnaflnsf / ltgsf kl/jf/nfO{ ;+/If0f ug{ ;xof]u ug]{ s'/f klg xfdLn] ;'lglZrt ug{ rfXof} F . 1

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k'gP{sLs/0fkfl/jfl/s k'gld{ngaf/] afnaflnsf / cleefjssf s'/f

l;lj; / o;sf ;fem]bf/ ;+:yfx?n] sf7df8f}F pkTosfdf 3/]n' >ldssf] ?kdf sfd ug{ a;]sf afnaflnsfx?nfO{ cfŠg} kl/jf/;Fu} a;fpgsf nflu c;f]h @)^* -;g\ @)!!_ df k'gP{sLs/0f ug{ ;'¿

u¥of}+ . xfdLnfO{ ;Dks{ ug]{ afnaflnsf / cleefjsx?n] o:tf] k'gld{ngsf nflu ;xof]u dfUg'ePkl5 xfdLn] ;xof]u u¥of}+ . o;sf nflu xfdLn] afnaflnsfnfO{ km]l/ :s"n hfg ;xof]u u¥of}F eg] kl/jf/nfO{ cfo cfh{gsf nflu ljleGg l;kd"ns

tflnd tyf ;xsf/L dfkm{t lap k"Flh klg ;xof]u u¥of}F . cfufdL lbgdf ;d'bfosf dxTjk"0f{ JolQmn] o:tf afnaflnsf / ltgsf kl/jf/nfO{ ;+/If0f ug{ ;xof]u ug]{ s'/f klg xfdLn]] ;'lglZrt

ug{ rfXof}F .

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xfd|f] sfd slQsf] k|efjsf/L ePsf] 5 egL hfGgsf nflu xfdLn] c;f]h @)&@ -;g\ @)!%, cS6f]a/_ df w]/} afnaflnsf / ltgsf kl/jf/;Fu s'/f u¥of}F .

xfdLn] lgDg ljifodf hfgsf/L dfUof}F M• pxfFx?sf nflu ul/Psf s]–s] lqmofsnfkx? ;aeGbf

pkof]uL eP <• pxfFx?sf hLjgdf s] kl/jt{g cfof] <• pxfFx?nfO{ cem} w]/} ;xof]u ug{ xfdL cfŠgf sfo{qmdnfO{

s;/L ;'wf/ ug{ ;S5f}F <

sfo{qmddf sf]–sf] ;xefuL 5f}F <

l;lj; M o; sfo{qmdsf] d'Vo ;+of]hg l;lj;n] u/]sf] xf] . tn lbOPsf ljleGg ;+:yfx¿;Fu ;xsfo{ u/]s}n] xfd|f sfo{qmd ;kmn ePsf x'g\ .

kmf]Pk M sfe|]knf~rf]s lhNnfdf xfd|f sfo{qmd ug]{ ;+:yf . dlxnf cfTdlge{/tf s]Gb| M l;Gw'kfNrf]s lhNnfdf xfd|f sfo{qmd ug]{ ;+:yf . >[hglzn o'jf ;dfhM /fd]5fk lhNnfdf xfd|f sfo{qmd ug]{ ;+:yf .

afnaflnsf / cleefjsn] s] eGg'eof] <

xfdLn] afnaflnsf / cleefjsnfO{ lgDg s'/f ;f]w]sf lyof}F M• tkfO{Fx?nfO{ s'g–s'g lqmofsnfkn] ;aeGbf w]/} ;xof]u

k'¥ofP < lsg < s;/L <• xfd|f] sfo{qmddf ;xefuL eO;s]kl5 tkfO{Fdf cfPsf]

;aeGbf dxTjk"0f{ kl/jt{g s] xf] < o; kl/jt{g k5fl8sf] sf/0f s] xf] <

• ut j}zfvsf] e"sDkkl5 ePsf lqmofsnfkdWo] tkfO{FnfO{ s'g–s'g lqmofsnfk ;aeGbf pkof]uL nfu] <

3/]n' >lds eP/ sfd ubf{ d}n] w]/} s'/f dx;'; ug{ ;s]F . d k9fOaf/] uDeL/ ePF / klxn]eGbf /fd|f];Fu k9\g ;Sg] ePsL 5' .

klxnf] k6s sf7df8f}F cfpFbf dnfO{ nfu]sf] lyPg ls s;}sf] 3/df sfd u/]/ a:g' olt la£g g/fd|f] x'G5 . :s"n hfg kfOPnf, l6eL x]g{ kfOPnf eGg] nfu]sf] lyof] . klxnf] dlxgf t /fd|} lyof], t/ la:tf/} d]/f] /f]huf/bftfsf] Jojxf/ ablng yfNof] . dnfO{ w]/} sfd nufpg yfn] . k|foM ufnL ul//xGy] . dnfO{ PSnf] dx;'; x'GYof] .

-dfof, pd]/ M !@ jif{_

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k'gld{ng afnaflnsfnfO{ cfŠg} kl/jf/;Fu} a;fpgsf nflu 3/ kmsf{pg ;xof]u

z}lIfs ;xof]usfkL, snd, ljBfno kf]iffs cflb ;fdu|Lnufot k9fOdf ;'wf/sf nflu cltl/Qm sIff ;xof]u

hLljsf]kfh{gdf ;xof]u M

æd ufpFd} a:y]F . 5f]/f] ;x/df a:Yof] . pm s] ub}{ 5 dnfO{ yfxf g} lyPg . t/ cfh xfdL ;Fu} 5f}F . h] vfG5f}F, ;Fu} vfG5f}F . b'Mv;'v afF8]/ a:5f}F .Æ -k'gld{ng ePsf] kl/jf/sf cleefjs_

æl;lj;n] ug]{ ;xof]udWo] ;aeGbf /fd|f] eg]sf] :s"n afx]ssf] cltl/Qm sIff / z}lIfs ;fd|uL xf] . o;n] d]/f] :s"nsf] k9fOdf ;xof]u u/]sf] 5 / dnfO{ w]/} kmfObf ePsf] 5 .Æ -lxgf, pd]/ M !# jif{_

æxfdLn] clxn] w]/} s'/f hflg;Sof}F . ca t c?af6 ;fk6L ug'{ klg kb}{g . klxnf t n'uf lsGg klg k};} x'Fb}gYof], clxn] t 5 . ca lrGtf ug'{kg]{ s]xL 5}g, klxnf c?sf nflu sfd ul/GYof], clxn] cfŠg} Joj;fo ;'¿ ul/Psf] 5 .Æ -hLljsf]kfh{gdf ;xof]u kfPsf cleefjs_

afnaflnsf / kl/jf/n] xfd|f] o; sfo{qmdn] pxfFx¿nfO{ w]/} ;xof]u u/]sf] atfpg'eof] . lgDg lqmofsnfkx¿ ;aeGbf ;xof]uL /x]sf] atfpg'eof] M

cfŠgf afnaflnsfnfO{ cleefjsn] sfddf k7fpg gk/f];\ eGgfsf nflu cleefjsnfO{ Joj;fo ;'? ug{ ;xof]u

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To;f] eP, o; sfo{qmdaf6 afnaflnsfsf nflu ;aeGbf dxTjk"0f{ kl/jt{g s] eP5g\ t <

•kl/jf/;Fu a:g kfPF kl/jf/sf] Ps c+z ePsf] dx;'; u/]F, cfkm"nfO{ dfof ug]{ dflg;;Fu a:g kfPF, cfŠgf] hLjgdf :yfloTj cfPsf] dx;'; u/]F .

æcfdfafn] ;w}F ;a} s'/f a'em\g'x'Gg . t/ k/fO{;Fu a:g'eGbf t d pxfFx?;Fu} a:5' lg .Æ -:jl0f{df, pd]/ M !# jif{_

•cfTdljZjf; a9\of] / cfŠgf] eljioaf/] yk ;sf/fTds ePF;fyL agfPF, cfŠgf clwsf/af/] hfg] / tL clwsf/sf nflu cfjfh p7fpg ;Sg] ePF .

æd d]/f cfdfafh:t} >lds aGg rfxfGg . d k9]/ s]xL ug{ rfxfG5' tf ls s'g} ufx|f] sfd u/]/ c?sf 3/df a:g' gk/f];\ .Æ -cl:dtf, pd]/ M !@ jif{_

•:s"n hfg kfPFcfŠgf] 3/ glhs}sf] :s"ndf hfg ;Ifd ePF .

æof] sfo{qmdn] dnfO{ cfdfaf;Fu 3/d} a;]/ k9\g] cj;/ lbof] .Æ -;[li6, pd]/ M !$ jif{_

•;fyLx? e]6]FcfŠg} pd]/sf afnaflnsfx¿;Fu v]Ng, /dfOnf] ug{ kfPF .

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To;f] eP, o; sfo{qmdaf6 cfdfafa' tyf cGo cleefjssf nflu ;aeGbf dxTjk"0f{ kl/jt{g s] eP5g\ t <æd]/f ^ hgf 5f]/f5f]/L 5g\ . klxnf afFRg ufx|f] lyof] . 5f]/f5f]/LnfO{ sfddf k7fpg t dg lyPg, t/ a9\bf] dxFuLdf c¿ pkfo s] g} lyof] / < hLljsf]kfh{gsf] tflnd kfPkl5 b'O{6f a+u'/ lsGg] ljrf/ u/]F . kz' kfngaf/]sf] tflndaf6 a+u'/af/] klg w]/} s'/f a'em]F . tflnddf hfg]sf ;a} s'/f ;lDemP/ a+u'/sf] /fd|f] :ofxf/df k|of]u u/]F . a+u'/ 7"nf eP / d}n] lsg]eGbf t]Aa/ d"Nodf ltgnfO{ a]r]F . C0f klg lt/]F, clg yk a+u'/ lsg]F . clxn] t d]/f] Joj;fosf] sdfOn] kl/jf/sf] ;a} vr{ wfG5 .Æ -l;Gw'kfNrf]ssf Ps cleefjs_

•sfd ubf{ afnaflnsfnfO{ ufx|f] x'G5 eGg] a'em\g'eof]

ca cleefjsnfO{ yfxf ePsf] 5 ls sfd ubf{ afnaflnsfnfO{ ufx|f] x'G5, kl/jf/eGbf aflx/sf dflg;;Fu a:g ufx|f] x'G5 / sfddf /xFbf s]xL g/fd|f] 36gf x'g ;S5 .

æ8/nfUbf] u/L xfd|f 5f]/f5f]/Lsf] zf]if0f ePsf] /x]5 . hf]lvdk"0f{ sfd ug'{kg]{ /x]5 . xfdLnfO{ pgLx?n] vfg kfP ls kfPgg\, la/fdL k/] ls eGg] lrGtf nfUYof] . ca t pgLx? kl/jf/d} kmls{P, ca xfdL w]/} v';L 5f}F .Æ -k'gld{ng u/fOPsf afnaflnsfsf cleefjs_

d}n] 3/]n' >lds eP/ sf7df8f}Fdf @ jif{;Dd sfd u/]F . d}n] $ sIffkl5 k9fO 5f8]sL lyPF . /f]huf/bftfn] dnfO{ :s"ndf egf{ t ul/lbP t/ dnfO{ 3/ aflx/ st} hfg lbPgg\ . lbpF;f]el/ 3/s} sfd u/]/ a:g'kYof]{ . 5/l5d]sdf d]/f ;fyL klg sf]xL lyPgg\ . d k|foM :s"n hfg kfOFg / k9fOdf Wofg lbg klg ;lsg . w]/} sfd ubf{ d hlxn] klg ylst x'Gy]F . dnfO{ 3/ kmls{g dg lyof], t/ cfdfnfO{ eGg} ;lSbgy]F . d]/f] s'/fn] cfdf b'MvL x'g'x'G5 eGg] dnfO{ yfxf lyof], lsgls d 3/ kms{g' eg]sf] pxfFsf nflu yk ef/ a9\g' x'GYof] . la/fdL eP/ ;sLg;sL 3/sf] sfd ;DxfNg'ePsf] lyof] .Æ -/]:df, sfe|]_

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•yk /fd|f] cleefjs aGg] OR5f hgfpg'eof] pxfFx? cfŠgf 5f]/f5f]/Lsf nflu yk /fd|f cfdfaf aGg rfxfg'x'G5 /

To;sf nflu ;Ifd x'g rfxfg'x'G5 .

•cfŠgf 5f]/f5f]/L cfkm";Fu} a;"g\ eGg] OR5f b]vfpg'eof]æxfdLn] ljutdf uNtL u/]5f}F . ca xfdLn] sfd u/]/ s]6fs]6LnfO{ :s"ndf k7fpg'k5{ eGg] dx;'; ePsf] 5 . c?n] xfd|faf/] s] ;f]r] xf]nfg\ ;f]Rbf klg nfh nfU5 . t/ ca xfd|f 5f]/f5f]/LnfO{ cfkm";Fu} /fVg] s'/fdf xfdL b[9 5f}F .Æ -k'gld{ng u/fOPsf afnaflnsfsf cleefjs_

•yk /fd|f];Fu kl/jf/ kfNg ;Sg] x'g'eof]æ;xsf/Ldfkm{t hf]8sf]if /sdsf] ;xof]udf ;~rfng ePsf] hLljsf]kfh{gsf] tflnd xfd|f nflu ;aeGbf dxTjk"0f{ eof] . xfdLn] cfŠgf] Joj;fo ;'? u¥of}F / /fd|f] sdfO ub}{ 5f}F .Æ -l;Gw'kfNrf]ssf Ps cleefjs_

ut j}zfvsf] e"sDkkl5 ePsf lqmofsnfkdWo] s'g–s'g lqmofsnfkn] ;aeGbf w]/} ;xof]u k'¥ofP t <

• c:yfoL a;f]af; lgdf{0fsf nflu h:tfkftf ;xof]u eof] . • k9fOnfO{ lg/Gt/ hf/L /fVg ;xof]u x'g] u/L c:yfoL l;sfO s]Gb|

agfpg ;xof]u eof] . • ljBfyL{ b'MvL ePsf a]nfdf pgLx?nfO{ /fd|f];Fu ;xof]u ug{

lzIfsx?nfO{ k|fylds dgf]ljdz{ tflndn] ;xof]u eof] . • hLjg rnfpgsf nflu ;xsf/Ln] C0f k|bfg ug{ ;s"g\ eg]/

;xsf/LnfO{ lap k"Flh /sd ;xof]u eof] .

æxfdLn] dn, t/sf/Lsf lap, z}lIfs ;fdu|L tyf h:tfkftfdf ;xof]u kfof}F . o;n] ubf{ xfdL ;fFRr} g} v';L eof}F .Æ -k'gld{ng u/fOPsf afnaflnsfsf cleefjs, l;Gw'kfNrf]s_

e"sDkkl5 o; sfo{qmdn] pxfFx¿nfO{ w]/} ;xof]u k'¥ofPsf] afnaflnsf tyf ltgsf cleefjsn] atfpg'eof] . ;aeGbf /fd|f];Fu ;xof]u k'¥ofpg] lqmofsnfk lgDg lyPM

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ca s] ug'{k5{ t <xfdLn] s'/f u/]sf ;a} dflg;x? sfo{qmd ;lsPkl5 s] x'G5 eGg] ljifodf lrlGtt x'g'x'GYof] . ;a}sf] ;femf k|Zg k'g:yf{lkt u/fOPsf afnaflnsf tyf ltgsf kl/jf/nfO{ ;xof]u ug]{ sfo{qmd lg/Gt/ x'G5g\ ls x'Ggg\ eGg] lyof] .

xfd|f] pQ/

xfdLn] eGof}F ls o:tf sfo{qmd lg/Gt/ x'g]df xfdL cfzfjfbL 5f}F . lgDg tl/sfn] o:tf lqmofsnfk lg/Gt/ x'g]5g\ M

• yk ;Ifd ePsf kl/jf/ / afnaflnsfn] Pscsf{nfO{ ;xof]u ug'{x'g]5 .

• lzIfs, afnSna tyf ;/sf/L sd{rf/Lnufotsf dflg;x?nfO{ afnaflnsfsf] ;+/If0f s;/L ug]{ eGg] yfxf 5 / pxfFx?n] ;xof]u ug'{x'g]5 .

o; sfo{qmd ;dfKt eP klg tnsf tl/sf dfkm{t\ afnaflnsf / ltgsf kl/jf/n] lg/Gt/ ;xof]u k|fKt ug'{x'g]5 M

• ;xsf/Lx? dfkm{t\ kl/jf/sf Joj;fonfO{ yk sdfO x'g] agfOg]5 .

• cfŠgf ;d:of ;'Gg] lzIfsx? dfkm{t\ ljBfnosf lqmofsnfkdf ;xof]u ul/g]5 .

• afnSnax? dfkm{t\ afnaflnsfn] Ps csf{nfO{ ;xof]u ug]{5g\ / cfŠgf ;d:of / cfjZostf jo:snfO{ ;'gfpg]5g\ .

æafnSnaaf6 xfdL lgoldt :s"n gcfpg] afnaflnsfsf 3/df hfG5f}F / pgLx?nfO{ :s"ndf kmsf{pg l;lj;n] k|bfg ul//x]sf] ;xof]uaf/] atfpF5f}F . Ps k6s xfdLn] xfd|f] ufpF glhs} Pp6f xf]6]ndf Ps afns sfd ul//x]sf] yfxf kfof}F / kmf]PknfO{ va/ u¥of}F . kl5 p;nfO{ :s"n k'¥ofpg xfdL ;kmn eof}F . xfdLn] afnlbj;sf lbg afnclwsf/af/] Pp6f ¥ofnL klg lgsfNof}F .Æ -sfe|]sf ljzfn_

• afn;+/If0f ;ldltsf ;b:ox? dfkm{t\ cf–cfŠgf If]qsf afnaflnsfsf] ;+/If0fdf kxn ul/g]5 .

xfdL / xfd|f ;fem]bf/ yk s] ug{ ;S5f}F <

• e"sDkkl5 k};f sdfpg w]/} dflg;nfO{ w]/} sl7gfO ePsf] xfdLnfO{ yfxf 5 . kl/jf/sf ;a} ;b:onfO{ x]g{ k'Ug] u/L Joj;fon] k};f sdfpg] ;'lglZrt ug{ ;aeGbf /fd|f] tl/sfn] s;/L ;xof]u ug{ ;lsG5 egL l;lj; / o;sf ;fem]bf/ ;+:yfn] ljrf/ ug]{5g\ .

• /f]huf/bftfnfO{ l/; gp7fOsg cfŠgf 3/df afn>lds g/fVg dgfpgsf nflu xfdLn] s]xL ;do vr{g'kg]{ x'G5 . klxnf afn>lds /fv]sf dflg;;Fu s'/f u/]/ /f]huf/bftfnfO{ afn>lds g/fVgsf nflu, /flvPsf afn>ldsnfO{ /fd|f] Jojxf/ u/fpgsf nflu tyf 3/ k7fpgsf nflu s;/L ;Demfpg ;lsG5 eGg]af/] of]hgf agfOg]5 .

æslxn]sfFxL /f]huf/bftfn] xfd|f 5f]/f5f]/LnfO{ sfddf Nofpgsf nflu eG5g\ . slxn] ufpFaf6 sf]xL s]6fs]6L Nofpg ;lsG5 ls eg]/ ;f]W5g\ .Æ -Ps jo:s 3/]n' >lds_

• nfdf] ;do;Dd 3/ aflx/ a;]/ kmls{Psf ;b:onfO{ kl/jf/df ;d]6\g slxn]sfFxL ;d:of x'g ;S5 . To;}n] eljiodf l;lj;n] 3/ kmls{Psf afnaflnsf / ltgsf kl/jf/;Fu JolQmut ;Dks{ u/L afnaflnsf 3/df v';L, :j:y / ;'/lIft ePsf] ;'lglZrt ug]{ sfo{qmd ug]{5 .

• olb xfdLn] ;DalGwt ;d'bfodf sfd ug{ 5f8]sf v08df uflj;n] sfd u/f];\ eGg] ;'lglZrt ugf{sf nflu uflj;;Fu yk glhs /x]/ sfd ug]{5f}F .

• eljiodf cfkm"nfO{ ;xof]u k'Ug] u/L lglZrt z}lIfs of]Uotfsf] k|df0f–kq lnP/ dfq afnaflnsfn] k9fO 5f8"g\ egL ;'lglZrt ug{ ljBfno lzIffdf s;/L ;xof]u ug{ ;lsG5, xfdL ;f]Rb}5f}F . jf:tjdf of] sl7g sfd xf] / l;lj;;Fu tTsfn ;a} k|Zgsf] pQ/ klg 5}g . t/, s;/L ug{ ;lsG5 eg]/ xfdL 5nkmn ub}{5f}+ .

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o; d"NofÍgdf sf]–sf] ;xefuL x'g'eof] <sf7df8f}F pkTosf, sfe|]knf~rf]s, l;Gw'kfNrf]s / /fd]5fk lhNnfsf (! afnaflnsf tyf !!! kl/jf/sf ;b:ox?

sf7df8f}F pkTosf• ^ b]lv !^ jif{sf !# aflnsf / % afns• !# kl/jf/sf ;b:ox? -k|foM cfdfaf_

sfe|]knf~rf]s• afnSna / afn;Nnfxsf/ ;ldltsf ;b:o

;d]t @) aflnsf / * afns• @% kl/jf/sf ;b:ox? -k|foM cfdfaf_

l;Gw'kfNrf]s• afnSna ;b:o ;d]t !) aflnsf / & afns• #* kl/jf/sf ;b:ox? -k|foM cfdfaf_

/fd]5fk• afnSna / afn;Nnfxsf/ ;ldltsf ;b:o ;d]t !!

b]lv !* jif{ pd]/sf !^ aflnsf / !@ afns• #* kl/jf/sf ;b:ox¿ -k|foM cfdfaf_

afnaflnsf tyf ltgsf kl/jf/sf ;b:o -k|foM cfdfaf_sf ljrf/ a'em\gsf nflu xfdLn] #$ j6f s]lGb|t ;fd"lxs 5nkmn cfof]hgf u¥of}F . xfd|f k|Zgsf pQ/df slt ;xefuLn] cfŠgf hLjgdf cfPsf kl/jt{gsf syf ;'gfpg'eof] . cGo slt afnaflnsf / cleefjsn] cfŠgf hLjgdf o; sfo{qmdn] NofPsf kl/jt{g b]vfpg hLjgsf] gbLsf] lrq klg agfpg'eof] .

xfdLn] afnaflnsf tyf kl/jf/sf ;b:o;Fu s;/L s'/f u¥of}F <

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oL zAbsf] cy{ s] xf] < M zAbfjnL

k'g{Plss/0f÷k'gld{ng cfŠgf kl/jf/af6 6f9f /x]sf afnaflnsf cfkm" v';L, :j:y tyf ;'/lIft x'g] u/L kl/jf/;Fu} a:gsf nflu kms{g] k|lqmof

k'gld{ng u/fOPsf afnaflnsf

:j:y tyf ;'/lIft jftfj/0fdf cGo afnaflnsf h:t} :s"n hfg]nufotsf ;'ljwf kfpg] u/L cfŠg} kl/jf/df a:gnfO{ kmsf{OPsf afnaflnsf

;xof]u ul/Psf afnaflnsf

lgoldt ljBfno hfg o; sfo{qmdn] ;xof]u u/]sf afnaflnsf

kl/jf/sf ;b:o o; sfo{qmdn] ;xof]u u/]sf afnaflnsfsf cfdfafnufot kl/jf/sf jo:s ;b:o

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