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Restorative Measuresrestorative conversations

Kris Miner

(715)425-1100

[email protected]

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•Sheboygan Falls

•Webster Elementary

•CESA 7

•Manitowoc

•New Richmond

•River Falls

•WDTSEA

•UWRF

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www.scvrjp.orgCirclespace

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Learning Objectives

• Restorative Justice brief

• Restorative Responses

• Engaging Restoratively

• Practice Conversations

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Feeling Objectives

Inspire- touching the heart

Spark- creativity & passion

Vision- for yourself and future

Meaningful connection- to this work of teaching!

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Restorative Practices

Affective Affective Small Circle Conference

Statement Questions Conference

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“Restorative justice is a process to

involve, to the extent possible, those who

have a stake in a specific offense and to

collectively identify and address harms,

needs, and obligations, in order to heal

and put things as right as possible.”

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Good Books Publishing

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Good Books Publishing

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The Restorative Justice

Movement is grounded in

values that promote both

accountability and healing

for all affected by crime.

-Mark Umbreit, U of M Center for and

Restorative Justice Peacemaking

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Peace & Belonging

• Restore

Connections

• Promote

Empathy

• Increase Self-

worth

“Reparative Exercises”

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RJ Bumper Stickers

Repair Harm

Dealing with Healing

Every Saint has a Past,

Every Sinner has a Future

Judge None

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Research tells us

The more you know about someone the less likely you are

to hurt them.

Exclusion is a form of violence.

Punishment does not work.

Gilligan, Garbino, Dr. Joel

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Starbucks Cup

It’s relationships, not programs that change children . . . Young people thrive when

adults care about them on a one-to-one level, and when

they have a sense ofbelonging to a caring

community.

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The School to Prison Pipeline (ACLU)

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Restorative Dialect

Wrongdoing

error

lack of skill or ability

malice

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Restorative Practices

Affective Affective Small Circle Conference

Statement Questions Conference

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The Five Magic Questions

• What happened?

• What were you thinking at the time?

• What have you thought about since?

• Who has been affected by what you ahve done? In what way?

• What do you think you need to do to make things right?

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Why?

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Public Health Model

Primary – Secondary – Tertiary

Universal – Selected - Indicated

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In relationships we

are broken and in

relationships we are

healed.Judge Ed Wilson

Rondo to Rwanda

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Best

Today?

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Connectedness

• Equals responsibility

• Harming Others, harm yourself

• Awareness of this responsibility

creates our value system.

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Values

• Goals & ways of behaving

despite objects or situation.

• Standards & Principles that

guide our actions.

• Should do, rather than want or

have to.

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Values

• For us to live by and others

• A shared concept of society

• Internalized & stable

• Used to evaluate ourselves &

others

• The internal sanctioning system

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Empathy"… to understand

another person's point of view,

emotions, thoughts, feelings

Empathy is the most important

characteristic in human

relationships.*Center for Social and Emotional Education

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Empathy

• Lack leads to stealing, drug

dealing, rape & murder (Oakwood

Solutions, LLC)

• Barriers-emotional neglect, stress,

genetics

• Improves School Performance,

Self-Awareness, Relationships

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RJ and Diversity

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Restorative Skills

• Compassionate Listening

• Non-violent Communication

• Anger Management

• Conflict Transformation

• Dealing with difficult situations

• Restorative de-briefing & reflective practice

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The Five Magic Questions

• What happened?

• What were you thinking at the time?

• What have you thought about since?

• Who has been affected by what you have done? In what way?

• What do you think you need to do to make things right?

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Care

Connect

Commit

C-I-R-C-L-E-S

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