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R E S P O N S E S H E E T S
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Copy written material.
These exercise sheets are to be used alongside purchased copies
of the Called Together workbook only.
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Preliminary InformationPAGES 17-19
P E R S O N A L I D E N T I F I C A T I O N
Name ______________________________________________________________________________________________
Address _____________________________________________________________________________________________
City ______________________________________State ________________________ Zip _______________________
Home Phone ________________________________Cell Phone _______________________________________________
Occupation _________________________________________________________________________________________
Sex _______________________________ Birth Date ___________________________
Premarital Status Single Separated Divorced Widowed
Education Level Completed ________________________________________________
Do you have children? Yes No
Name _________________________________Age ___________ Sex ____________ Living With You? Yes No
Name _________________________________Age ___________ Sex ____________ Living With You? Yes No
Name _________________________________Age ___________ Sex ____________ Living With You? Yes No
H E A L T H I N F O R M A T I O N
Rate your physical health Very Good Good Average Declining Other ____________________________
Your approxomate weight _____________________lbs.
Recent weight changes Lost ________________ Gained ___________________
List important present or past illnesses:
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Date of last medical exam: ____________________Your physician: ___________________________________________
Address: ____________________________________________________________________________________________
Have you used drugs for other than medical purposes? Yes No
Are you presently taking medication? Yes No
Have you ever had a severe emotional upset? Yes No
Have you ever had any psychotherapy or individual counseling? Yes No
Have you ever had an abortion? Yes No
As a male, have you ever been involved in a relationship in which an abortion was performed to terminate a pregnancy? Yes No
R E L I G I O U S B A C K G R O U N D
Do you consider yourself a Christian? Yes No
If yes, did you accept Christ as your Savior? Yes No
Do you have a regular devotional time? Yes No
Are you engaging in family or individual worship/devotion? Yes No
Explain any recent changes or problems with your spiritual walk.
P E R S O N A L I T Y
Have you ever suffered from depression? Yes No
If yes, when? ________________________________________________________________________________________
Have you ever been involved in a cult, the occult, astrology, etc.? Yes No
Explain: ____________________________________________________________________________________________
Do you fear anything (e.g., enclosed spaces, dying, the loss of a parent, etc.)?
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M A R R I A G E I N F O R M A T I O N(IF PREVIOUSLY MARRIED)
How long did you know your former spouse before marriage? ________________________________________________
Length of engagement: ________________________________________________________________________________
Is your previous spouse deceased? Yes No
Did you divorce? Yes No
When did this occur? _________________________________________________________________________________
Did you receive premarital instruction? Yes No
P A R E N T A L H I S T O R YWere you raised by your natural parents? Yes No
Are your parents still living? Yes No
What is/was your parents’ religious affiliation (e.g., Methodist, Catholic, etc.)? ___________________________________
Are/were they Christians? Yes No
Are your parents still living together? Yes No
If your parents are separated or divorced, when did this occur? ________________________________________________
Rate your parents’ marriage: Happy Average Unhappy
As a child, did you feel closest to your: Father Mother Other
Rate your childhood: Happy Average Unhappy
How many brothers and sisters do you have? _____ Brothers _____ Sisters
What number child were you in the birth order? _____
O T H E RIs there any other information you think is important?
Important: Please elaborate...
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P R E M A R I T A L S E S S I O N O N E
About MePAGES 24-32
A B O U T M ECOMPLETE THIS EXERCISE SEPARATELY
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S P I R I T U A L O V E R V I E WCOMPLETE THIS EXERCISE SEPARATELY
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5. Yes No If no, why not?
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Related Goals
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S E X U A L B O U N D A R I E STake the time to write your personal responses to the following questions.
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W H O I A M I N C H R I S TWhat verses…? Why?
What verses... interdependency?
Write about how...
P E R S O N A L L I F E V A L U E SYour top five...
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P R E M A R I T A L S E S S I O N T W O
About UsPAGES 33-42
R E A S O N S F O R M A R R I A G E
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E X P E C T A T I O N S A N D P E R C E P T I O N SO F M A R R I A G E
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2. Mark the following chores with an H, W, or S.
Washing dishes .................. H W S Dusting .......................................... H W S
Laundry ............................. H W S Vacuuming ..................................... H W S
Ironing .............................. H W S Making the bed .............................. H W S
Cleaning vehicles ............... H W S Grocery shopping........................... H W S
Washing windows .............. H W S Vehicle maintenance ....................... H W S
Cleaning bathrooms ........... H W S Gift shopping ................................. H W S
Meal preparation................ H W S Medical/dental appointments ......... H W S
Pet care .............................. H W S Hospitality ..................................... H W S
Collecting trash .................. H W S Christmas and birthday cards ......... H W S
Mowing the lawn ............... H W S Family reunions .............................. H W S
Gardening ......................... H W S
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R E A C T I O N SIndicate how you might react to the following circumstances.
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O U R P A R E N T S1. Yes No
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7. Yes No If not...
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9. Yes No If so...
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P A R E N T Q U E S T I O N N A I R EPermission is granted to print or e-mail these pages for each parent.
We believe that it is important to include parents as we help couples prepare for marriage. You have invested much love, time, energy, and finances into raising and training your child in order to see this point arrive in his/her life. Please respond in writing to the following questions and return them to your son or daughter so they may be shared in their next premarital counseling session.
1. Describe your relationship with your son or daughter:
With your future son-in-law or daughter-in-law:
2. Express how you will help your child to “leave you” and “cleave” to his/her spouse:
3. Are you aware of any reasons that would prohibit this couple from marrying at this time?
4. How often do you expect to have visits with the newly married couple?
5. An area of adjustment that we foresee in our son’s or daughter’s marriage could be:
6. Are you able to express a written word of blessing to this marriage? Yes No
If yes, please expound below. If no, why not? Please explain.
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The following is an actual example of a written blessing:
Oh Carrie, the daughter of our youth, the apple of our eyes. From the day in Hawaii that we first knew you would join us, you
have brought immeasurable joy to our lives. “Many daughters have done nobly, but you excel them all.” Yes, Carrie, you have done
nobly—you have chosen to revere the Lord, and for that you earn the praises of men. We bless you today, oh precious one. May you
receive back the joy that you have given. While you will always be our precious daughter, in the days to come you will take on a new
role—as wife…with all our love, all our support, all our hearts, we release you this day to be Jeremy’s wife.
Jeremy Levi—we have prayed for you for over 24 years! Though we did not know your name, your smile, or your strength, we did
know your character. For God called us to pray that He would raise up a son from a God-fearing home, a son obedient to His Word,
a man to seek after His heart. So this day comes as no surprise…the only unknown was your name. And here you are—156 pounds
of flesh and blood (and four pounds of ice cream and two pounds of chocolate!)—you’re an answer to our prayers. Today we gladly,
joyously receive you as a son. As you pledge to Carrie, we pledge to you both to support you and your marriage with all our hearts.
Welcome, our son!
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A R E Y O U R E A D Y T O L E A V E A N D C L E A V E ?From studying these Scriptures...
How do you perceive...
Describe what the...
C O O P E R A T I V E M I S S I O NTake a moment...
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P R E M A R I T A L S E S S I O N T H R E E
Let’s TalkPAGES 44-56
N O N V E R B A L C O M M U N I C A T I O N1. 1. ___________________________________________________________________________________________
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4. Genesis 3... ___________________________________________________________________________________
Genesis 4... ___________________________________________________________________________________
Genesis 40... __________________________________________________________________________________
Joshua 7... ____________________________________________________________________________________
1 Samuel 18... _________________________________________________________________________________
1 Kings 19... __________________________________________________________________________________
1 Kings 21... __________________________________________________________________________________
Proverbs 31... _________________________________________________________________________________
Mark 2... _____________________________________________________________________________________
Luke 18... ____________________________________________________________________________________
1 John... _____________________________________________________________________________________
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H O W D O W E T A L K T O G E T H E R ?1. Always Usually Sometimes Rarely Never
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C O M M U N I C A T I O N G U I D E L I N E SPart B: What attitudes or messages...
“You don’t...” ________________________________________________________________________________________
“I really...” __________________________________________________________________________________________
“Well, what…” _______________________________________________________________________________________
“It sounds…” _______________________________________________________________________________________
“You shouldn’t…” ___________________________________________________________________________________
“I’m really...” ________________________________________________________________________________________
“You never...” ________________________________________________________________________________________
“Do you...” __________________________________________________________________________________________
“Well, what...” _______________________________________________________________________________________
“Hey, hon...” ________________________________________________________________________________________
“Honey, you’re...” _____________________________________________________________________________________
“You always...” _______________________________________________________________________________________
“I like...” ____________________________________________________________________________________________
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“We ought...” ________________________________________________________________________________________
“That was...” ________________________________________________________________________________________
“How come…” ______________________________________________________________________________________
“Boy, it’s...” __________________________________________________________________________________________
“I can’t…” __________________________________________________________________________________________
“Maybe there’s…” ____________________________________________________________________________________
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H O W T O B E C O M E A N E F F E C T I V E C O M M U N I C A T O R
Part A.
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Part B.
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Part C.
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H A V E Y O U D I S C U S S E D … ?1. Yes No Desire To 10. Yes No Desire To 19. Yes No Desire To
2. Yes No Desire To 11. Yes No Desire To 20. Yes No Desire To
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W H E N W E D I S A G R E ECOMPLETE THIS EXERCISE SEPARATELY
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S C E N A R I O C O M M U N I C A T I O NPlease indicate how you will respond to the following situations.
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P R A Y I N G T O G E T H E RWork through the following exercise together.
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P R E M A R I T A L S E S S I O N F O U R
FinancesPAGES 57-61
P E R S O N A L F I N A N C I A L V I E W SCOMPLETE THIS EXERCISE SEPARATELY
1. ______________________________________________________________________________________ Yes No
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4. Buy Rent __________________________________________________________________________________
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V I E W S O N D E B TCOMPLETE THIS EXERCISE SEPARATELY
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F I N A N C I A L B A C K G R O U N D1. Yes No
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S C R I P T U R A L T R U T H S A B O U T F I N A N C E SA. 1. ___________________________________________________________________________________________
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Jan. Feb. March April May June July August Sept. Oct. Nov. Dec.Amount
TotalAverage
Total
Income: Husband
Income: Wife
Tithe
Federal Tax
State Tax
County Tax
Investment/FICA
Mortgage
Rent
Maintenance
Electricity
Heat
Water
Sewer
Trash
Telephone/Internet
Food & Supplies
Clothing
Auto Payment/Lease
Auto Gas
Auto Insurance
Auto Liscense/Reg.
Auto Maintenance
Medical/Dental
Gifts
Dining
Travel/Vacation
Rec./Entertainment
Education
Subscriptions
Health/Life Insurance
Debt
Miscellaneous
Giving
Savings
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P E R S O N A L F I N A N C E S B U D G E T S H E E T
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P R E M A R I T A L S E S S I O N F I V E
Sexual RelationsPAGES 66-76
S E X I N M A R R I A G EGenesis 2...
Song of Solomon 4...
Genesis 1...
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Have you had...
Do you feel...
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Q U E S T I O N S F O R D I S C U S S I O NCOMPLETE THIS EXERCISE SEPARATELY
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A T T I T U D E S A N D B E L I E F S A B O U T S E XOn your own, place an X next to Agree or Disagree for each statement.
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M A T C H I N G Q U E S T I O N SAnswers found in Appendix E.
1. _____ 5. _____ 9. _____ 13. _____ 17. _____ 21. _____ 25. _____
2. _____ 6. _____ 10. _____ 14. _____ 18. _____ 22. _____ 26. _____
3. _____ 7. _____ 11. _____ 15. _____ 19. _____ 23. _____
4. _____ 8. _____ 12. _____ 16. _____ 20. _____ 24. _____
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T R U E O R F A L S EWith or without the help of each other, mark each statement true or false.
1. True False 8. True False 15. True False
2. True False 9. True False 16. True False
3. True False 10. True False 17. True False
4. True False 11. True False 18. True False
5. True False 12. True False 19. True False
6. True False 13. True False 20. True False
7. True False 14. True False
M A R R I E D S E X I S B E T T E R S E XList other reasons...
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P R E M A R I T A L S E S S I O N S I X
Marriage Ceremony PlanningPAGES 80-91
C A L L E D T O G E T H E R ?Here are some questions to consider together when planning your wedding ceremony.
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10. Yes No
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G O D ’ S G O V E R N M E N T I N M A R R I A G EBefore working through...
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P O S T M A R I T A L S E S S I O N O N E
Three MonthsPAGES 100-108
E X P A N D I N G O U RC O M M U N I C A T I O N K N O W L E D G E
“You” statement “I feel” message
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E M O T I O N A L N E E D SComplete the following without the input of your spouse.
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S C E N A R I O R E S P O N S ECOMPLETE THIS EXERCISE INDIVIDUALLY.
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As discussed...
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P E R C E P T I O N S O F M Y S P O U S E1. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
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P O S T M A R I T A L M A R R I A G E M I S S I O N S T A T E M E N TIn Session One...
Does this mission...
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B O N D I N G A N D B O U N D A R I E STogether consider the questions below.
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P O S T M A R I T A L S E S S I O N T W O
Nine MonthsPAGES 111-133
D I F F E R E N C E S A N D S I M I L A R I T I E SI N R E L A T I O N S H I P
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F O R F U R T H E R D I S C U S S I O NCOMPLETE THE FOLLOWING WITHOUT THE HELP OF YOUR SPOUSE.
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8. a. ___________________________________________________________________________________________
b. ___________________________________________________________________________________________
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a. ___________________________________________________________________________________________
b. Strong Effect Average Effect Little Effect
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S E X U A L C O M M U N I C A T I O N E X E R C I S ECOMPLETE THE FOLLOWING WITHOUT THE INPUT OF YOUR SPOUSE.
1. Yes No Sometimes 8. Yes No Sometimes 15. Yes No Sometimes
2. Yes No Sometimes 9. Yes No Sometimes 16. Yes No Sometimes
3. Yes No Sometimes 10. Yes No Sometimes 17. Yes No Sometimes
4. Yes No Sometimes 11. Yes No Sometimes 18. Yes No Sometimes
5. Yes No Sometimes 12. Yes No Sometimes 19. Yes No Sometimes
6. Yes No Sometimes 13. Yes No Sometimes 20. Yes No Sometimes
7. Yes No Sometimes 14. Yes No Sometimes 21. Yes No Sometimes
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G O A L SList, as a couple, several goals in the areas indicated.
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P E R C E P T I O N S O F M Y S P O U S E1. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
2. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
3. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
4. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
5. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
6. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
7. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
8. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
9. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
10. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
11. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
12. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
13. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
14. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
15. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
16. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
17. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
18. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
19. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
20. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
21. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
22. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
23. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
24. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
25. Needs to Improve Improving Good Very Good
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Jan. Feb. March April May June July August Sept. Oct. Nov. Dec.Amount
TotalAverage
Total
Income: Husband
Income: Wife
Tithe
Federal Tax
State Tax
County Tax
Investment/FICA
Mortgage
Rent
Maintenance
Electricity
Heat
Water
Sewer
Trash
Telephone/Internet
Food & Supplies
Clothing
Auto Payment/Lease
Auto Gas
Auto Insurance
Auto Liscense/Reg.
Auto Maintenance
Medical/Dental
Gifts
Dining
Travel/Vacation
Rec./Entertainment
Education
Subscriptions
Health/Life Insurance
Debt
Miscellaneous
Giving
Savings
Cumulative Savings
P E R S O N A L F I N A N C E S B U D G E T S H E E T
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